Kuyamba: Udindo wa Sosaiti Pothandizira Umoyo Wamasiye Wamasiye
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Akazi amasiye nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi zolemetsa ziwiri: chisoni chaokha chotaya bwenzi lake komanso kusalidwa ndi anthu komwe kumatsatira. M’zikhalidwe zambiri, anthu amawaona mongolira, ndipo zosoŵa zawo zamaganizo kaŵirikaŵiri zimanyalanyazidwa kapena kunyalanyazidwa. Kuwonjezera pa chithandizo chachuma ndi chothandiza, akazi amasiye amafunikira chivomerezo chamalingaliro, ulemu, ndi kuphatikizidwa kuti achiritse ndi kumanganso moyo wawo.
Udindo wa Sosaiti Pothandizira Umoyo Wamasiye Wamasiye
Ndine mkazi wamasiye wa zaka 40, ndipo mwana wamwamuna wazaka 20 wa m’tauni ina ya Assam, India.
Pokhala mwana wamkazi wachinayi wopanda amayi wa wapolisi yemwe anali ndi khansa, moyo wanga unali wovuta kuyambira pachiyambi. Ubwana wovuta unandiphunzitsa momwe zimakhalira zoyipa kubadwa ngati mtsikana m'banja lobwerera m'mbuyo, losunga mwambo la tauni yaing'ono. Mng'ono wanga (yemwe anali wocheperapo kwa ine chaka chimodzi) adalandira chisamaliro chonse ndi chikondi kuchokera kwa abambo anga ndi achibale, pomwe ife (asungwana) nthawi zonse tinali osafunidwa, kuzunzidwa. Kwa abambo anga, tinali chabe themberero, cholemetsa. Mosasamala kanthu za mkhalidwe woipa umenewu, panali chinachake chimene chinapangitsa moyo wanga kukhala wokongola. Kukongola kwa malo anga kunandithandiza kuganiza za tsogolo labwino. Kamtsikana kakang'ono ka zaka khumi anadzilonjeza yekha kuti adzakhala mayi wabwino pamaso pa mtsinje wabata wachilimwe ndi dzuwa likutuluka.
Sindinasangalalepo ndi unyamata wanga ngati mmene anzanga ankachitira. Ndinasiya ntchito yanga yopenta, ngakhale kuti panali mwayi woti ndidzakhale katswiri wojambula zithunzi. Sindinathe kumenyana ndi bambo anga kuti ndipeze zinthu zofunika kuti ndipitirize ntchito yanga. Iye ankafuna kupatsa mwana wake tsogolo labwino ndi ndalama zambiri. Choncho anaganiza zomusungira mchimwene wanga ndalama iliyonse. Kodi ndingamufunse bwanji buku latsopano limene ndinkafuna kuwerenga kapena bokosi lamitundu yamadzi? Tinali ana aakazi osauka a bambo wolemera.
Sindinaganizepo m’masiku anga aunyamata kuti munthu wamkulu wovuta amandiyembekezera kuti andisinthe kukhala wankhondo. Ukwati waubwana, chidakwa ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo, khanda ndi maphunziro anga osakwanira zinali zokwanira kundisokoneza maganizo. Koma ulendo uno ndinaganiza kuti ndisasiye. Ndinakumbukira lonjezo langa ndekha kutsogolo kwa mtsinje. Chinali chiyambi cha nkhondo yeniyeni. Sindikanatha kusudzulana chifukwa ndinalibe ndalama kapena nthawi. Koma ndinaganiza zokhala paokha. Ndinkapeza ndalama pogwira ntchito, ndinkaphunzira komanso ndinkasamalira mwana wanga. Sindikanatha kukwatiwanso, popeza ndinali ndidakali wokwatiwa mwalamulo. Kenako atamwalira, ndinalandira chizindikiro cha mkazi wamasiye.
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Komabe, zinanditsitsimula kwambiri. Kodi zikumveka zoipa kuti ndikanamasuka pa imfa ya mwamuna wanga? Mwina, koma ndikukhulupirira kuti moyo wanga wovutikira nthawi yayitali umandipatsa ufulu womva choncho. Sindinenso msungwana wazaka 18 uja yemwe sanafotokoze zowawa zake kapena malingaliro ake kapena osakweza mawu ake pamakhalidwe / mwalamulo motsutsana ndi chisalungamo.
Popeza ndine wamasiye, ndikuuzeni mmene anthu amafunira kuti ndizikhala moyo wanga.
Sosaiti imafuna kuti wosudzulidwa kapena mkazi wamasiye azikhala moyo wake popanda kugonana. Kodi zingatheke bwanji kwa munthu wabwinobwino, wathanzi?
"Ubwenzi ndi chimwemwe ndizofunikira zaumunthu, osati mwayi."
Malingana ngati sindikuphwanya moyo wa wina, palibe amene angandiletse kukhala ndi moyo moyo wathanzi wogonana. Mwina sindingafune kukwatiwanso pazifukwa zambiri. Kuwonjezera pa kukhala wamasiye, inenso ndine mayi wodalirika. Kupeza munthu woyenera kukhala bwenzi la moyo wanu sikophweka kwa mkazi wamasiye wa ku India.
Pamene anthu ambiri safuna kuti akazi athu azilankhula nkhani zogonana, ndingathe kulingalira za chidani chomwe ndingakumane nacho nditatha kufotokoza maganizo anga. zofuna zakugonana poyera. Koma ndi chimodzi mwazofunikira zanga. Choncho, anthu ayenera kuvomereza ndi mtima wonse. Monga mayi wa mwana womvera ndi wanzeru, ndimavomereza kuti ndine kholo lanzeru, lopambana. (Mwachiyembekezo, anthu amavomerezanso). Ndine wanzeru komanso wabwino kuposa makolo ambiri 'wamba' omwe alephera kulera bwino ana awo.
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Pamene mkazi wamasiye akugwira ntchito yake moyenera ndipo ali ndi udindo wocheza ndi anthu, kodi mumafunikiradi kuyang'ana m'chipinda chake?
Yakwanadi nthawi yoti anthu asinthe malingaliro awo. Amasiye ndi akazi osudzulidwa alinso anthu wamba. Khalani ndi moyo.
Ibibazo
1. Chifukwa chiyani akazi amasiye amasalidwa ndi anthu?
Miyambo ya anthu ndi miyambo ya chikhalidwe kaŵirikaŵiri imaona akazi amasiye mwa kulira, kuwamana ufulu wosonyeza umunthu wawo ndi zosowa zawo.
2. Kodi n’kulakwa kuti akazi amasiye ayambenso kuyambiranso kukondana?
Aliyense ali ndi ufulu wokhala ndi mnzako ndi wosangalala, mosasamala kanthu za mbiri ya banja lake.
3. Kodi akazi amasiye amavutika maganizo kwambiri kuposa ena?
Inde, akazi amasiye kaŵirikaŵiri amakumana ndi chisoni, kusungulumwa, ndi ziyembekezo za anthu, zimene zingayambitse mavuto a maganizo. Uphungu ungapereke chithandizo chofunika kwambiri panthawiyi.
Maganizo Final
Akazi amasiye, monga wina aliyense, amafunikira ulemu, chifundo, ndi ufulu wokhala ndi moyo wokhutiritsa. Anthu kaŵirikaŵiri amawanyoza, kunyalanyaza zosoŵa zawo zamaganizo, zakuthupi, ndi zachikhalidwe. Mwa kuphwanya malamulo, titha kulimbikitsa chikhalidwe chachifundo chomwe chimapatsa mphamvu akazi amasiye kukhala opanda chiweruzo kapena zoletsa. Ali ndi ufulu wokonda, kuseka, ndi kumanganso miyoyo yawo m’njira iliyonse imene asankha. Alangizi athu perekani malo otetezeka ochiritsira, kupezanso cholinga, ndi kukumbatiranso moyo popanda kudziimba mlandu kapena mantha.
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N’zotheka kukondanso. Ngati akazi amasiye akufuna wina watsopano kuti akonde si chinthu choipa. Kukhala ndi munthu watsopano kungathandize anthu kupirira ndi kuphunzira kumanganso maubwenzi.
Amasiye amatha kugwa m'chikondi kwambiri, ndi moyo wawo, chifukwa chiyani anthu alowerere?