Kodi Kusakwatira Kumatanthauza Chiyani Komanso Kukhala Opanda Kugonana?

Ndife mitundu yokhayo yomwe imagonana chifukwa chosangalala. Kugonana konse ndi chiwonetsero cha malingaliro amati ena ophunzira anzeru - koma ndikupempha kuti ndisiyane. Pali zaka zogonana zapakati pa unyamata mpaka zaka makumi asanu pamene thupi limabedwa ndi mphamvu ya mahomoni kuti ifike pogonana. N’zachibadwa kuti pafupifupi zamoyo zonse zimagwirizana pa nthawi yoikidwiratu. Momwemonso anthu, komabe tikuwoneka kuti timakonda kugonana mosasamala kanthu za zofunikira zogonana komanso chaka chonse. Ndife mitundu yokhayo yomwe imagonana chifukwa chosangalala. Apa ndipamene gawo lalikulu la malingaliro limabwera.

Kodi Celibate Amatanthauza Chiyani?

Tanthauzo la dikishonale la kusakwatiwa ndi kusakwatiwa ndi kugonana. Monga “wansembe amene anachita lumbiro la kusakwatira”. Koma nthawi zonse funso limakhala lakuti 'ndidzilerenji?' Nchifukwa chiyani mukufuna kukana thupi kuti likhale lokongola? Mwachionekere ndi wabwino kwa thanzi lakuthupi ndi lamaganizo. Nanga n’cifukwa ciani?

Pali maanja amene asankha dala kukhala osakwatiwa. Kafukufuku wina wasonyeza kuti mabanja angapo achichepere m’boma la Gujarat asankha kusakwatira m’banja. Atafunsidwa kuti n’chifukwa chiyani anasankha kukhala limodzi, yankho linali lakuti amasangalala kukhala ndi ubwenzi komanso kuti ndalama ziziyenda bwino. Ndi zitsanzo za mmene tingakhalire osakwatira ndi osangalala. Ndiye kodi amaletsa zofuna zawo zakugonana kapena ndi kuchepa kwachilengedwe kwa zilakolako zakugonana? Ngakhale sindingathe kuyankha funsoli nditha kugawana zifukwa zanga zosankha kusakwatira.

Ubwino wa kusakwatira

Mutha kudabwa kuti ndi chiyani kwenikweni ubwino wa umbeta pamene kulikonse unansi wabwino wakugonana umawonedwa kukhala magwero a chisangalalo m’banja. Ndipotu, pali anthu ambiri omwe amasankha kukhala osakwatira pambuyo pogonana. Mayi wina yemwe adaganiza zokhala wosakwatiwa kwa zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi atakumana ndi malingaliro ambiri ogonana komanso chizolowezi chogonana. adalemba mu blog yake zinamuthandiza kotheratu chifukwa zidamupatsa chidwi kwambiri, adagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zake zakugonana kuti azitha kuchita zinthu mwanzeru, analibe mantha otenga matenda ogonana ndipo adawona kuti ali ndi kuthekera kotha kukonza zambiri ndikuzigwiritsa ntchito moyenera.

Kusiyana pakati pa kusakwatira ndi kudziletsa ndiko kuti anthu amapewa kufikira atalowa m’banja kapena atapeza munthu woyenera kugonana naye. Koma umbeta ndi chosankha chachikulu, chotalikirapo ndipo pamene atengedwa m’banja anthu aŵiri ayeneradi kukhala pa tsamba limodzi. Ngati maanja kukhala osakwatira kumathandiza kumvetsetsa kugwirizana maganizo bwino kumene kugonana kumaletsedwa ndipo mwinamwake pali chikondi chochulukirapo kukumbatirana ndi kupsopsona zomwe sizimathera pakugonana kolowerana. Kuseweretsa maliseche kumavomerezedwa muukwati, ngakhale anthu awiri amatha kuchita nthawi imodzi koma sipangakhale kugonana kwamtundu uliwonse ngati mukudzitcha kuti ndinu okwatirana.

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Momwe Moyo Wanga Unakhalira Wopanda Kugonana

Ndinkadziona ngati mkazi wokonda kwambiri chilakolako cha kugonana. Ndimatha kuganiza mosalekeza za kugonana monga momwe amachitira amuna ambiri. Komanso sindinali wokakamizidwa ndi chipembedzo kapena gulu kuti ndiletse malingaliro oipa. Chotero ndinali ngati mbalame yaufulu m’maganizo mwanga. Komabe, ndinakhalanso m’malire ndipo sindinaloŵe m’kampu ya Osho yomwe inali makilomita 10 okha kuchokera kunyumba yanga ku Pune. Ndinakhalabe ndi malire a zomwe ndikufuna ndi zomwe ndikanatha kuchita - moyenera. Ine sindinali a alireza mwina - wolima dimba kapena woyendetsa basi sakanatha kundiyatsa, ndimafunikira kulumikizana kwanzeru ndisanachotse zoletsa zanga kapena zovala zanga. Komanso, Ndinafunika kukhala m’chikondi. Limenelo ndi chipata chachikulu chodutsamo.

Ndinataya unamwali wanga ndili ndi zaka 18

Ndinayamba ulendo wanga wogonana ndili ndi zaka 18 ndipo ndasankha abwenzi anga mosamala kapena m'malo mwake ndinapeza zovuta kwambiri kuti ndipeze aliyense woyenera ndikukhala nthawi yaitali popanda kugonana. Ngati ndikanabadwa mum'badwo uno ndikuganiza kuti ndingathe kuthetseratu masewero a usiku umodzi. Munthawi yanga anthu ambiri anali kuyembekezera njira zovomerezeka za analinganiza ukwati kuti ayambe moyo wawo waukwati ndi kugonana.

Imeneyo inali njira yomwe inali pafupi zosatheka kwa ine pazifukwa ziŵiri, ndinali kutsutsa mwamphamvu chiwongolero, ndipo mchimwene wanga anali kulimbana ndi matenda a maganizo amene anali odetsa nkhaŵa kwambiri m’dera lathu. Kotero ndi mantha aakulu ndinadzilola ndekha ufulu fufuzani za kugonana musanalowe m’banja. Chifukwa chake zaka makumi atatu zapitazi ndidakumana ndi zovuta zamalingaliro zomwe zidakhudzana ndi kugonana. Ngakhale amuna anga anali 4 okha anali okwanira kundigawaniza kukhala zidutswa chikwi, m'maganizo ndi m'maganizo.

Zomwe ndinkafuna kwenikweni

Ndiyeno pafupifupi zaka 8 zapitazo nditakwanitsa zaka 50, ndinasinkhasinkha zimene ndinkafuna. Ndinali ndi ana 2 akulu ndipo ndinalibe mwamuna kapena wondikonda. Ndinkafuna kubwereranso kwa zaka 14, yemwe anali wangwiro, wathunthu komanso wathunthu. Iye anali wokonda wopanda mwamuna, anali wokondwa; anali wogwirizana ndi chilengedwe komanso chilengedwe. Ndinkafuna kukhala mtsikana wamng'onoyo. Ndinali nditayamba kusinkhasinkha zaka 20 zapitazo ndipo mayankho anga ndinalandira kuchokera m’mawu anga amkati kapena kuchokera kwa Mulungu, kupyolera mu kusinkhasinkha kapena m’maloto anga. Ndipo apa ndipamene ndinaganiza kuti ndikhale bwino osachita izi - kugonana. Kodi ndinkafuna kugonana? Mwina. Koma amunawo anali atakweza mipiringidzoyo kwambiri. Onse anali okongola kwambiri komanso abwino kwambiri pabedi. Ndinali ankakonda kugonana kwa tantric ndi moyo wa orgasms angapo. Ndikadapemphanso chiyani? Choncho ndinaganiza zokhala wosakwatira pambuyo pochita zogonana kwa nthawi yaitali ndikusangalala nazo.

Kodi ndili ndi nkhawa pa chisankho chofuna kukhala wosakwatira?

Palibe! Ndine wodekha, wokhutitsidwa ndipo ndimangochita nawo maliseche kukonzanso kwa Netherlands. Mayi aliyense ayenera kutero, kuti chiberekero chake chikhale chokhazikika komanso kuti minofu ya m'chiuno ikhale ndi thanzi labwino. Kodi ndimakopekabe ndi amuna? Ayi. Sindikumvanso choncho kwa akale anga, panonso. Kodi chinasintha n’chiyani? Mtendere ndi bata zomwe zimadzaza m'maganizo mwanga, komanso kukhala ndekha komwe kumandipangitsa kukhala wamaganizo, kutali ndi sewero ndi zowawa zomwe maubwenzi ogonana amawoneka kuti amabweretsa.

Ndipo ngati tikukamba za zotsatira za kusakwatira kwa amayi. Ndikayang'ana mkati mwanga ndikukhazika mtima pansi. Palibe nkhawa, zowawa kapena nsanje zomwe zimabwera chifukwa cha maubwenzi ogonana. Ndili ndi anzanga, banja kwenikweni, amene analowa dongosolo lachipembedzo ndi

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