Lingaliro lakuti moyo wathu wakale ukhoza kukhudza maubwenzi athu amakono ndi lingaliro lochititsa chidwi komanso lomwe nthawi zambiri limatsutsana. Ngakhale kuti si aliyense amene amavomereza chikhulupiriro cha kubadwanso kwina, anthu ambiri amapeza kuti kufufuza kugwirizana kwa moyo wakale kungapereke chidziwitso chamtengo wapatali pazochitika za ubale wawo wamakono.
Moyo Wakale Umakhudza Chikondi ndi Maubwenzi
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Kashika anali ndi zaka 30 pamene anabwera ku chipatala changa. Anali mkazi wokongola komanso wopambana, wokwatiwa zaka ziwiri zapitazi kwa Arvind. Arvind ndi Kashika anali pachibwenzi kuyambira ku koleji ndipo adakwatirana pambuyo paubwenzi wazaka zisanu. Komabe, mu chaka choyamba chaukwati, Kashika anazindikira kuti sanasangalale. Anali ndi maganizo ovutirapo akuti izi si choncho, kuti chinachake chikusoweka muukwati wake. Iye ankaona kuti amakhala ndi dzenje mkati mwake. Kupanda kanthu komwe sikukadakhoza kudzazidwa ndi chikondi chomwe anali nacho muubwenzi umenewu.
Sanathe kuzindikira chomwe vuto linali - Arvind anali mwamuna wachikondi, wothandizira komanso wodziyimira pawokha. Alamu ake ankamusamalira komanso kumuthandiza. Kuonjezera apo, analibe bwenzi lakale lomwe adapachikidwa naye kapena wina yemwe amamukonda, kapena vuto lililonse laubwana lomwe lingamupangitse kumverera motere. Kashika anavomereza kuti aka sikanali koyamba kumva chonchi; adamva izi nthawi zosiyanasiyana muubwenzi wake, koma adazipaka pansi pa kapeti, chifukwa adaganiza kuti zonse zikhala bwino pambuyo paukwati. Tsopano, amawopa kuti malingaliro ake angawononge banja lake labwino, motero adayimba foni ndikufunsa ngati chithandizo chingakhale njira yothetsera.
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Analonjeza Kumukonda Kwamuyaya
Tinaganiza zopanga chithandizo cha regression therapy kuti tidziwe komwe amamvera ndipo tidamaliza kuyendera limodzi la moyo wake wakale ku Roma wakale. M'moyo wake wakale, anali mkazi wapakhomo, okwatirana mwachimwemwe kwa mkulu wa asilikali. Anali m’chikondi kotheratu, ndipo onse aŵiri analonjezana za chikondi chosatha kwa wina ndi mnzake. Posakhalitsa, mwamuna wake anafera kunkhondo, ndipo anamusiya ali wosweka mtima. Anayenera kukhala moyo wake, ndipo unkawoneka ngati wokakamizidwa. Komabe, anakumbukira lumbiro limene analumbira kuti sadzakondanso kapena kukwatiwanso ndi wina aliyense.
Ndimatcha malonjezo oterowo kapena malonjezano ngati mayendedwe amuyaya. Iwo ali ndi mphamvu zowonjezera ndi kufalikira kudutsa nthawi ndi malo. Mawu ngati konse, konse, nthawizonse, kwanthawizonse ndi mawu omwe ali ndi mphamvu kwambiri pakapita nthawi.
Mawu ngati konse, konse, nthawizonse, kwanthawizonse ndi mawu omwe ali ndi mphamvu kwambiri pakapita nthawi.
Mwina sizokhudza chilankhulo kapena 'mawu' pawokha, koma mwina mtundu wa mphamvu ya mawu awa. Chifukwa chake, Kashika nayenso adatsekeredwa mu kapu yamphamvu yanthawi yake yamuyaya.
Musalole Moyo Wanu Wakale Kulamulira Zomwe Muli Nazo
Kuphatikiza apo, m'moyo wake wapano, Kashika anali adakali ndi mlandu komanso chisoni cha moyo wake wakale, ndipo malingaliro ake obisika adadzuka pomwe ubale wake ndi Arvind unakula. Atalandira chithandizo chamankhwala kangapo, Kashika anatha kumasula malingaliro ake odziimba mlandu ndi achisoni. Iye adatha asiye zakale moyo ndi mwamuna kuyambira nthawi ya moyo umenewo, ndi kuthetsa maganizo ake amuyaya (kuti apititse chikhulupiriro chimenecho patsogolo pa moyo wake wamakono kapena wamtsogolo). Patapita milungu ingapo, anandiuza kuti anatha kusintha maganizo ake ndipo anamva kukhala wamtendere komanso wokondana kwambiri ndi Arvind.
Okonda nthawi zambiri amalengeza za chikondi chosatha kapena kukhala pamodzi kwamuyaya. Komabe, zomwe sakudziwa ndi momwe malingaliro opanda chidziwitso amalembera zikhulupiriro izi m'makumbukidwe awo am'manja ndikuziwonetsera m'miyoyo yawo yamakono kapena yamtsogolo.
Chepetsani Kumvera Kwanu ku Moyo Umodzi Wokha
Mu chithandizo cha transpersonal, tawona makasitomala ambiri akumva ngati ali ndi munthu wolakwika kapena amamva kuti sakukwaniritsidwa ngakhale ali ndi okonda ndi okondana / okwatirana, chifukwa adalonjeza kuti azikonda okondedwa awo / okwatirana okha kuchokera m'moyo wakale. M'moyo uno, moyo wawo umapitirizabe kulakalaka chikondi kapena ubale umene anali nawo ndi wokondedwa wawo wakale, osazindikira kuti wokondayo sakanatanthawuza lumbiro / lonjezo, kapena sanabadwe m'moyo womwewo monga iwo. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, amachoka paubwenzi wina umene sunakwaniritsidwe n’kupita kwa wina koma osadziŵa n’komwe chifukwa chimene akumvera mumtima mwawo kapena popanda kutero. pezani bwenzi amene amakhutira nawo.
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Choncho, ndikulangiza anthu kuti adziwe momwe akumvera komanso kuti adziwe kawiri kawiri kuti malingalirowa ayenera kukhala okha pa moyo wamakono.
Chodabwitsa kwambiri, makasitomala anga ambiri omwe adakwatirana ataphunzira za 'zolemba zamuyaya' amawonjezera mzere "m'moyo uno" (pansi pa mpweya wawo) pambuyo pa chiganizo chilichonse cha lumbiro kapena lumbiro limene pandit kapena wansembe adawafunsa kuti apange kwa mnzawo, kuti asayende mozungulira opanda chikondi m'moyo wotsatira!
Maganizo Final
Mwachidule, okonda ayenera kuzindikira chilankhulo chomwe amalankhula akamalengeza zachikondi. Ayenera kusamala kugwiritsa ntchito mawu monga kwanthawizonse komanso nthawi zonse monga momwe malingaliro osazindikira amalemba zikhulupiriro izi ndipo angawonetsenso m'miyoyo yawo yamtsogolo. Chifukwa chake, kuti mupewe kusakhutira m'miyoyo yanu yamtsogolo, yesani kusunga malingaliro anu pa moyo wapano. Ngati mukukumana ndi zovuta ngati izi ndi moyo wachikondi, Bonobology ili ndi gulu la akatswiri omwe atha kukuthandizani ndi kukutsogolerani. Sungitsani gawo lero!
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Sindinadzileke kuseka ndikanena kuti anthu ambiri amawonjezera "m'moyo uno" ataphunzira zinthu ngati izi !!
Sekani!! Izi zinali zosangalatsa
Moyo uli ndi magawo ofunikira, tiyenera kuphunzira kuchoka m'mbuyomu. Zakale zapita chifukwa cha chifukwa.
Zikomo pogawana uthenga wotere.
Izi zinali zosangalatsa kwambiri, koma kupanda pake kumeneku kuyenera kukhala moyo wakale, kodi sikungakhale chiwonetsero chamtundu uliwonse wa zowawa. Anthu amadutsa magawo m'miyoyo yawo, mwina ndi imodzi mwa iwo.