Kodi Mafoni A M'manja Ndi Mavuto A Ubwenzi Akuyenda Pamodzi?

Sindikufunanso kugwa m'chikondi. M'malo mwake, okwatirana okondana amandiseka. Zikuoneka kuti zili m’dziko longopeka chabe, ndipo likudziŵa bwino lomwe za kupanda pake kwake. Okonda awa amavala masks ambiri. Makamaka, kutali ndi kuyang'ana kwachikondi kwa okondedwa awo, ogwidwa ndi owonetsedwa kwambiri pazithunzi zambiri pamasamba awo a Facebook. Ingodutsani m'mafoni awo ndipo mudziwa zomwe ndikutanthauza. Mafoni am'manja ndi mavuto a ubale akuyenda limodzi kwenikweni.

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Mafoni A M'manja Ndi Mavuto A Ubwenzi

Mafoni am'manja ndi maubwenzi okondana amalumikizidwa pamodzi m'njira zambiri kuposa imodzi. Pomwe mafoni am'manja amatha kuyambitsa ubale watsopano kudzera mu mapulogalamu ndi chibwenzi pa intaneti, mafoni a m'manja athanso kuyambitsa kutha kwa chibwenzi. Kungoti ndikosavuta kuchita zibwenzi kudzera pamafoni am'manja.

Zomwe zimayamba kukhala zopanda vuto kutumizirana mameseji pa WhatsApp ikhoza kukhala chibwezi chonse ndipo simungazindikire zomwe zangochitika kumene.

Kodi mafoni amakhudza bwanji maubwenzi? Mafoni am'manja amatha kuwononga maubwenzi polekanitsa anthu awiri. Zakachikwi omwe amasankha chithandizo kunena kuti chikhalidwe TV kusatetezeka ndi WhatsApp nkhondo ndi ziwiri mwa zifukwa zikuluzikulu kuti maanja nthawi zonse kumenyana ndi kukayikirana.

Ku US 92% ya zisudzulo amagwiritsa ntchito foni yam'manja ngati umboni wa kusakhulupirika ku khoti. Ziwerengero zachisudzulo izi ndi umboni wa momwe mafoni amakhudzira mabanja. Ndipotu a maphunziro amasonyeza kuti kuledzera kwa foni yam'manja kumakhala ndi zotsatira zoyipa osati paubwenzi wanu komanso kumakhudzanso chakudya chomwe mungadye komanso diresi lomwe mudzavale.

Pakakhala vuto lina m'banja anthu amapeza njira yopulumukira m'malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, kapenanso kupita malonda apakati m’malo mokambirana ndi kuthetsa nkhaniyo.

Kutengeka kwambiri ndi foni yam'manja kumakhala chifukwa chopangitsa mnzake kusakhulupirira matelefoni awo ndipo amatha kupitilira foni yam'manja ya mnzanu chifukwa chakusatetezeka kumene akumva.

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Kodi mafoni am'manja amawononga banja?

Pamene Mehek ndi Saugat anakwatirana pambuyo pa zaka 15 zaubwenzi, tonse tinali osangalala. Pambuyo pa zaka za kumenyana chotchinga chamtundu, banjali linagwirizana.

Kenako ndinakumana ndi Saugat pamalo odyera posachedwa. Ndinali ndi anzanga angapo. Anali ndi bwenzi, mwinamwake mkazi wogwira naye ntchito. Ndani amasamala? Munthu akhoza kukhala ndi anzake kunja kwa banja. Sindinaone cholakwika chilichonse kuti adye chakudya ndi mkazi wina kupatula mkazi wake.

Ndinasangalala kumuwona. Sanawoneke kuti anasangalala. Anandinyengerera ndi moni wanga wapamtima. Kenako anafikira mpango wake kuti apukute timikanda ta thukuta pamphumi pake; inali yozizira ndipo tinali mu malo odyera a AC. Titakambirana kwakanthawi kosangalatsa, tinakhazikika pamagome athu.

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Pamene timadikirira zomwe tidalamula, ndidatulutsa foni yanga kuti ndiyang'ane tsamba langa la Facebook…Ndinalandilidwa ndi zithunzi za ana obadwa kumene, selfies ndi ma besties mawu ochokera m'buku lomwe linawerengedwa kalekale.

Kenako ndinapeza post yolembedwa ndi Mahek… “Hubby darling wanyamuka paulendo wantchito…usiku wina unadutsa penapake popanda iwe, ena anayi oti ndiwaphe…ndibwera posachedwa… ndakusowa kwambiri, wokondedwa wanga…Hope Mumbai akuchitira iwe bwino…”

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Ndinachita mantha ndi positiyo. Tsopano nditha kudziwa chifukwa chomwe Saugat sanasangalale nacho. Uku sikunali chakudya chamadzulo chabe ndi mnzanga, ichi chinali chodzaza chibwenzi chowonjezera iye anali naye kumbuyo kwa mkazi wake. Ndipo tsopano ndinachidziwa icho.

Ndinayang'ana foni yanga. Pakadapanda kukhala malo ochezera sindikadadziwa. Zosintha zapa social media akhoza kukuikani m’mikhalidwe imene simunakumanepo nayo. Palibe zodabwitsa kuti mafoni am'manja ndi zovuta za ubale zimayendera limodzi.

Okwatirana ndi mafoni

Okwatirana ndi mafoni a m'manja amatha kusokoneza zinthu kwambiri. Pakadapanda kusinthidwa kwa Mahek sindikadadziwa zomwe zikuphika.

Koma ine ndinali ku Bangalore, nditakhala magome angapo moyang'anizana ndi mwamuna wake, yemwenso anali ndi mkazi wina wosadziwika…akundiba mondiyang'ana, mpango wake ukuchita kunyowa ndi thukuta.

Pamapeto pake, anayesetsa kubwera kwa ine. Polephera kundiyang'ana m'maso, adawoneka kuti akutsutsana ndi mawu ake.

“Zili bwino, Saugat,” ndinatero. “Anyamata inu ndimakudziwani kuyambira ku pulayimale, ndaona chikondi chanu chikukula, kulimbana kwanu, banja lanu, ndipo tsopano ndikukuwonani pano.

Koma kwa nthawi imodzi iyi, sindikuwonani mukukumbukira. Msonkhanowu sunachitikepo.” Ndinamukhazika mtima pansi.

Zomwe zimachitika kuseri kwa zitseko zotsekedwa, zimakhala kumbuyo kwa zitseko zotsekedwa. Sindikudziwa kuti ndi vuto la ndani. Sindikufuna kudziwa yemwe adayatsa motowo komanso yemwe akuukolezera. Sindikufuna kuweruza.

Mwina Mahek sanachite chifundo mokwanira. Kapena mwina Saugat akumunyengerera mopanda manyazi. Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, woluza weniweni apa ndi Chikondi.

Chikondi chomwe ndakhala ndikuchiseka. Lero, ndiziseka mokweza pang'ono. Osati kuti sindinakhulupirire zimenezo. Koma mtundu wa chikondi chomwe ndimakhulupirira chatayika pamasiku othamanga amasiku ano.

Mafoni am'manja ndi zovuta zaubwenzi zatenga chikondi chimenecho. Palibenso pambuyo pake, chikondi chikhoza kusweka nthawi iliyonse. Chifaniziro chopotoka cha chikondi ichi ndi chinthu chomwe ndingakhale nacho. Ngati izi ndizo zonse zomwe ndimapeza m'dzina la chikondi, ndikuganiza kuti ndidutsa.

Mafoni am'manja ndi onse okondana. Mukuyang'ana chikondi pa SM, pa mapulogalamu ndi pa WhatsApp, pamene chikondi cha moyo wanu chikhoza kukhala patsogolo panu. Zinthu sizingakhale zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri. Kulondola?

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