Kodi Mafoni A M'manja Ndi Mavuto A Ubwenzi Akuyenda Pamodzi?

Sindikufunanso kugwa m'chikondi. M'malo mwake, okwatirana okondana amandiseka. Zikuoneka kuti zili m’dziko longopeka chabe, ndipo likudziŵa bwino lomwe za kupanda pake kwake. Okonda awa amavala masks ambiri. Makamaka, kutali ndi kuyang'ana kwachikondi kwa okondedwa awo, ogwidwa ndi owonetsedwa kwambiri pazithunzi zambiri pamasamba awo a Facebook. Ingodutsani m'mafoni awo ndipo mudziwa zomwe ndikutanthauza. Mafoni am'manja ndi mavuto a ubale akuyenda limodzi kwenikweni.

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Mafoni A M'manja Ndi Mavuto A Ubwenzi

Mafoni am'manja ndi maubwenzi achikondi zimagwirizanitsidwa m'njira zambiri. Ngakhale mafoni a m'manja amatha kuyambitsa ubale watsopano kudzera mu mapulogalamu ndi chibwenzi cha pa intaneti, mafoni a m'manja amathanso kuwononga ubale. Chifukwa chakuti n'zosavuta kuyamba chibwenzi kudzera mu mafoni am'manja.

Zimene zimayamba ngati mauthenga osavulaza pa WhatsApp zimatha kukhala nkhani yaikulu ndipo simungazindikire zomwe zangochitika kumene.

Kodi mafoni a m'manja amakhudza bwanji maubwenzi? Mafoni a m'manja amatha kuwononga maubwenzi mwa kugawa anthu awiri. Anthu azaka za m'ma 1900 omwe amasankha chithandizo chamankhwala amati kusatetezeka kwa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi nkhondo za pa WhatsApp ndi zifukwa ziwiri zazikulu zomwe maanja amakangana nthawi zonse ndipo amakayikirana.

Ku US, 92% ya anthu osudzulana amagwiritsa ntchito foni yam'manja ngati umboni wa kusakhulupirika kukhothi. Ziwerengero za kusudzulana kumeneku ndi umboni wa momwe mafoni am'manja amakhudzira maukwati. Ndipotu kafukufuku wina akusonyeza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito foni yam'manja mopitirira muyeso sikumangokhudza ubale wanu komanso kumakhudza chakudya chomwe mudzadya komanso diresi lomwe mudzavale.

Pakakhala vuto m'banja, anthu amapeza njira yothawira pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, kapena amalowa m'mapulogalamu ochezera m'malo mokambirana ndi kuthetsa vutoli.

Kukonda kwambiri foni yam'manja kumakhala chifukwa chomwe mnzanuyo sakhulupirira zomwe akuchita pafoni ndipo amatha kuwononga foni ya mnzanuyo chifukwa cha kusadzidalira komwe akumva.

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Kodi mafoni am'manja amawononga banja?

Pamene Mehek ndi Saugat anakwatirana patatha zaka 15 tili pachibwenzi, tonse tinasangalala kwambiri. Pambuyo pa zaka zambiri zolimbana ndi kusiyana kwa mafuko , banjali linagwirizana.

Kenako ndinakumana ndi Saugat pamalo odyera posachedwa. Ndinali ndi anzanga angapo. Anali ndi bwenzi, mwinamwake mkazi wogwira naye ntchito. Ndani amasamala? Munthu akhoza kukhala ndi anzake kunja kwa banja. Sindinaone cholakwika chilichonse kuti adye chakudya ndi mkazi wina kupatula mkazi wake.

Ndinasangalala kumuwona. Sanawoneke kuti anasangalala. Anandinyengerera ndi moni wanga wapamtima. Kenako anafikira mpango wake kuti apukute timikanda ta thukuta pamphumi pake; inali yozizira ndipo tinali mu malo odyera a AC. Titakambirana kwakanthawi kosangalatsa, tinakhazikika pamagome athu.

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Pamene tinkayembekezera maoda athu, ndinatulutsa foni yanga kuti ndiyang'ane tsamba langa la Facebook… ndinalandiridwa ndi zithunzi za makanda obadwa kumene, zithunzi za selfie ndi mawu a achibale ochokera m'buku lomwe linawerengedwa kalekale.

Kenako ndinapeza post yolembedwa ndi Mahek… “Hubby darling wanyamuka paulendo wantchito…usiku wina unadutsa penapake popanda iwe, ena anayi oti ndiwaphe…ndibwera posachedwa… ndakusowa kwambiri, wokondedwa wanga…Hope Mumbai akuchitira iwe bwino…”

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Ndinadabwa kwambiri ndi uthengawo. Tsopano ndinatha kumvetsa chifukwa chake Saugat anali wosasangalala. Uwu sunali chakudya chamadzulo chokha ndi mnzake, koma unali ukwati wokhawokha womwe anali kuchita mobisa kwa mkazi wake. Ndipo tsopano ndinali nditadziwa zimenezo.

Ndinayang'ana foni yanga yam'manja. Ngati sipakanakhala malo ochezera a pa Intaneti sindikanadziwa. Zosintha pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti zingakuikeni m'mavuto osayembekezereka. N'zosadabwitsa kuti mafoni am'manja ndi mavuto a ubale zimayendera limodzi.

Okwatirana ndi mafoni

Okwatirana ndi mafoni a m'manja amatha kusokoneza zinthu kwambiri. Pakadapanda kusinthidwa kwa Mahek sindikadadziwa zomwe zikuphika.

Koma ine ndinali ku Bangalore, nditakhala magome angapo moyang'anizana ndi mwamuna wake, yemwenso anali ndi mkazi wina wosadziwika…akundiba mondiyang'ana, mpango wake ukuchita kunyowa ndi thukuta.

Pamapeto pake, anayesetsa kubwera kwa ine. Polephera kundiyang'ana m'maso, adawoneka kuti akutsutsana ndi mawu ake.

“Zili bwino, Saugat,” ndinatero. “Anyamata inu ndimakudziwani kuyambira ku pulayimale, ndaona chikondi chanu chikukula, kulimbana kwanu, banja lanu, ndipo tsopano ndikukuwonani pano.

Koma kwa nthawi imodzi iyi, sindikuwonani mukukumbukira. Msonkhanowu sunachitikepo.” Ndinamukhazika mtima pansi.

Zomwe zimachitika kuseri kwa zitseko zotsekedwa, zimakhala kumbuyo kwa zitseko zotsekedwa. Sindikudziwa kuti ndi vuto la ndani. Sindikufuna kudziwa yemwe adayatsa motowo komanso yemwe akuukolezera. Sindikufuna kuweruza.

Mwina Mahek sanachite chifundo mokwanira. Kapena mwina Saugat akumunyengerera mopanda manyazi. Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, woluza weniweni apa ndi Chikondi.

Chikondi chomwe ndakhala ndikuchiseka. Lero, ndiziseka mokweza pang'ono. Osati kuti sindinakhulupirire zimenezo. Koma mtundu wa chikondi chomwe ndimakhulupirira chatayika pamasiku othamanga amasiku ano.

Mafoni am'manja ndi zovuta zaubwenzi zatenga chikondi chimenecho. Palibenso pambuyo pake, chikondi chikhoza kusweka nthawi iliyonse. Chifaniziro chopotoka cha chikondi ichi ndi chinthu chomwe ndingakhale nacho. Ngati izi ndizo zonse zomwe ndimapeza m'dzina la chikondi, ndikuganiza kuti ndidutsa.

Mafoni am'manja ndi onse okondana. Mukuyang'ana chikondi pa SM, pa mapulogalamu ndi pa WhatsApp, pamene chikondi cha moyo wanu chikhoza kukhala patsogolo panu. Zinthu sizingakhale zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri. Kulondola?

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