Ngati mukuyang'ana kuthawa mwansangala pa Netflix, 'Dirty John: The Betty Broderick Story' mwina sichinthu chanu.
Pomwe nyengo yoyamba yawonetsero yowona zaupandu inali nkhani ya 'Zonyansa' a John Meehan, wosokoneza bongo komanso wogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, nyengo yachiwiri yawonetsero yowona zaupandu imatengera zochitika zenizeni, ngakhale Netflix adapeka zinthu zina.
Betty Broderick adatengera nkhani yakupha komanso misala yomwe idagwedeza America muzaka za 80s. Zikuwonetsa mozama kwambiri zaukwati wa Betty ndi Dan Broderick, kutha kwake pang'onopang'ono, ndi zotsatira zake zomwe zidapangitsa kupha anthu kawiri motsutsana ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu apamwamba. Ukwati wawo unali wovuta kwambiri komanso wosagwirizana pamene Dan anayamba chibwenzi ndi wothandizira wake.
Kuchokera pa Ukwati Kupita Kumisala Mpaka Kupha
Betty ndiye mkazi ndi mayi wangwiro wa blonde, wokongola aliyense womuzungulira. Pambuyo pa zaka zambiri zodzipereka ndikuthandizira mwamuna wake kupyolera mu sukulu ya zachipatala ndi zamalamulo, ngakhale panthawi ya mimba yake yosiyanasiyana, akuwoneka akusangalala ndi zipatso za ntchito yawo.
Mpaka Dan adalemba ntchito Linda, mtsikana wowoneka bwino, yemwe amatha kuyiwala naye mosangalala zovuta zakale. Izi sizimangokwiyitsa Betty komanso zimamupangitsa kuti asakhalenso wanzeru. Amakhala wosasinthasintha komanso wokhumudwa akamasamalira ana awo. Makolo ake nawonso amamusiya m’mavuto.
Timatha kuona mmene alili m’maganizo, komanso mmene amachitira zinthu ndi anzake ochita bwino. Amakana kusaina zikalata zachisudzulo, ngakhale loya wake akuwuluka kuchokera ku LA kupita ku San Diego kuti amuperekeze ku ofesi ya loya wa Dan kuti akatero.
Patapita nthawi anagunditsa galimoto yake m'nyumba yabwino ya Dan, atakwiya chifukwa cha chinyengo chinanso. Amadziwa zofooka zake bwino kwambiri, amapezerapo mwayi pa kusadziwa kwake pankhani zazamalamulo ndipo amamusewera m'njira yoti sakhalapo m'bwalo lamilandu pamilandu.
Nthawi zomwe amakafika kukhoti, amakhala yekhayekha pomwe amakayikiridwa kuganiza bwino, kufunika kwake, luso lake ngati mayi. Loya wamkulu wa Dan wanena kuti sayenera kupeza chuma cha mwamuna wake popeza adapanga ndalama zonse ndipo adangowononga. Komanso sayenera kukhala ndi ana ake.
Kuwerenga Kofanana : Momwe Mungakonzere Ndi Kusamalira Kusamalira Ana Mogwirizana
Chopereka cha Betty kwa Dan kukwera makwerero azachuma chachotsedwa. Amakumbukira momwe amachitira mantha ndi ofesi yake kuti amuchotsa ntchito pomwe adadziwa koyamba za mimba yake yoyamba.
Momwe amakhalira usiku wambiri ndi makanda ake kuti alembe ntchito yake. Momwe angachepetsere bajeti yawo mpaka pang'ono. Momwe adapulumutsira pamadimpu a chakudya. Momwe miyoyo yawo idasinthiratu kuchoka ku kusakhala ndi ana mpaka anayi, opanda ndalama zochulukira, sukulu yophunzitsa zamalamulo, ndi nyumba yaying'ono kupita ku nyumba yayikulu.
Ndipo potsiriza, wopanda mwamuna, wopanda ana, ndipo wopanda nyumba kwa iye.
Kodi Betty ndi wozunzidwa?
Ngakhale kuti Betty pamapeto pake wapezeka ndi mlandu wakupha, zochitika zomwe zinamupangitsa kuchita zinthu zoopsazi zikuwonekera kwambiri ngati wozunzidwa. Ndi Dan amene adamupangitsa kuchitapo kanthu, ndi nkhanza zamaganizo mobwerezabwereza komanso kumuneneza kuti anali 'mkazi wamisala.' Ndikukumbukira za Lorena Bobbitt, yemwe adadula mwamuna wake atamugwirira ndi kumuzunza mobwerezabwereza. Kuchitira nkhanza akazi ndi chizolowezi kwambiri kotero kuti kwakhala kosazolowereka. Ndipo ngati tibwezera, nthawi yomweyo timatchedwa 'misala' komanso oopsa kwa anthu.
Ndimavutika ndi mafunso omwe nkhanizi zidayankha. Kodi ndikanatani pamenepa? Kodi Betty ndi mkazi wosauka, wopanda chochita wothamangitsidwa m'maganizo mwake ndi mwamuna wamkulu woipa? Kapena ndiye woipayo? Kodi n’kwachibadwa kukonda munthu wina osati mkazi wanu? Kodi mumangokhala chete ndikupita mwakachetechete pamene chiwonongeko chanu chosazama cha mwamuna chikupita kwa wina wamng'ono?
Kodi n'koyenera kumva ngati munthu wosafunika pamene mwamuna wako akukupatula ndikukusokoneza? Akazi ambiri angadzione ngati Betty—mkazi amene anakana kusweka pamene mwamuna wake anasowa banja, mabwenzi ndi moyo wake, chifukwa cha chifuniro cha mwamuna wake.
Betty Broderick weniweni tsopano ali ndi zaka za m'ma 70, ndipo akuyembekezeka kukhala m'ndende moyo wake wonse. Wakanidwa parole kawiri.
Monga Shakespeare ananenera, 'Gehena alibe ukali ngati mkazi wonyozedwa!' Malingaliro a Betty adamupangitsa kuti apitirire kukwiyira Dan ndi Linda. Kumuputa kwawo kunamuwonongera chilichonse - ngakhale ana ake adathamangira kukabisala. Kujambula kwa Linda pamakina oyankha a Dan kunamukwiyitsa kwambiri Betty moti amangomusiyira mauthenga achipongwe pafoni yake. Nthawi ina mwana wake adamugwira m'malo mwake.
Ambiri angamvetse mkwiyo umene unachititsa zimenezi. Dan anali munthu wodzikonda ndipo ankafuna kuti adye keke yake. Nkhanza zamaganizo ndi njira yodziwika kwambiri ya nkhanza za mabwenzi!
Chomwe chinandiyimilira chinali woweruza akuuza mtolankhani kuti, "Anthu ali ngati nyama iliyonse, mumakankhira mwamphamvu, ndipo aluma." Ngakhale kuti zochita za Betty sizingakhale zomveka, mumamumvetsa.
Dan atayamba kukondana ndi wothandizira wake, mwadzidzidzi adakhala wankhanza komanso wankhanza kwa mkazi wake. Anatenga ana awo kwa iye, nyumba yawo ndikumusiya wopanda ndalama. Nzosadabwitsa kuti maganizo ake anafooka, pamene ankavutitsa Dan ndi Linda pofuna kusokoneza ukwati wawo.
Maukwati oopsa
Ubale wapoizoni m’banja si wachilendo. Mu 2020, kanema wa Nkhani Yaukwati adayikidwanso nyimbo yofananira. Charlie, yemwe adasewera ndi Adam Driver, adanyenga Nicole, yemwe adasewera ndi Scarlett Johansson. Charlie watanganidwa ndi ntchito yake kuwononga ntchito ya Nicole komanso kudzikonda kwake.
Ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri amasamalira mwanayo, iye ndi bambo wabwino kwambiri amene amayendayenda makilomita ambirimbiri kuti akakhale ndi mwana wake. Apa sachita zinthu mwachilungamo pankhani yake ndi loya. Mwalamulo, iye ndiye amene ali ndi mphamvu kuposa iye ndipo pamapeto pake mumamumvera chisoni koma mumamumvera chisoni onse awiri. Ubale wawo unali woopsa kwambiri m'njira iliyonse.
Kusweka kocheperako sikuli ndi mlandu kumbali zonse ziwiri. Koma, pamlandu wa Betty Broderick, mwachibadwa mumayang'ana chidani chanu kwa Dan, ngakhale kuti Betty ndi amene adapezeka wolakwa pakupha kawiri. N’kutheka kuti sanali amene anali ndi mfuti, koma anawononga kwambiri mkazi amene anam’kwatira.
Nkhani ya Betty Broderick ndiyowoneka bwino komanso yosawoneka bwino paukwati womwe ukuyenda bwino. Kupatula apo, ndani ayenera kupita patsogolo mukakhala ndi ukwati wapoizoni!
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