Mukadziwa Kuti Yakwana Nthawi Yothetsa Chibwenzi

Banja lililonse limakumana ndi zovuta, koma chofunikira ndichakuti mumatha kusiyanitsa gawo loyipa kapena mkangano ndi nthawi yoti muthe. Kusamvana kwanthawi yayitali kapena kusakhulupiriranso munthuyo ndizizindikiro kuti nthawi yoti muthe kutha, ndipo kunyalanyaza izi kumangobweretsa mavuto ambiri.

Nthawi zina ubale umawoneka ngati wabwino kuchokera kunja: mutha kukhala wofanana ndi zolinga ndi malingaliro ofanana, koma ngakhale zili choncho, zinthu sizikuyenda bwino. Kambiranani moona mtima ndi inu nokha ndipo ganizirani ngati mutha kuyambiranso kulumikizana kwanu. Ngati sichoncho, ndiye kuti mukudziwa kuti ndi nthawi yoti musiyane.

Tikadziwa Kuti Yakwana Nthawi Yoti Tisiyane

Nthawi zambiri palibe chifukwa chenicheni chomwe anthu amasweka. Anthu sangamvetse kuti maubwenzi amatha pazifukwa zina osati nkhanza kapena chinthu chovuta kwambiri, kuti kusiyana kapena kufuna zinthu zosiyana kungayambitsenso kusweka.

Ndiye mumadziwa nthawi yoti muthe kutha? Kodi kumverera kumachokera mkati? Chabwino chinthu chimodzi ndi chotsimikizika - mumadziwa zinthu zikayamba kumverera mosiyana komanso mtima wanu ukakhala kuti mulibenso, funso ndilakuti, kodi mumavomereza malingaliro awa kapena mumawatsekera mkati mwa mtima wanu kuti wina aliyense, kuphatikiza inunso, asamve?

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Sitiyenerana

Kodi munayamba mwalingalirapo momwe ubale, ngakhale kulibenso, ukukulitsirani inu, mtima wanu, moyo wanu? Ine ndatero. Ndinali pachibwenzi ndi mnzanga kwa chaka chimodzi. Tidakhala mabwenzi apamtima kwa zaka zingapo izi zisanachitike, koma sitinachitepo chilichonse chifukwa ntchito yathu inali yosiyana kwambiri ndipo sitinkadziwa komwe zingatifikitse.

Tinagawana kugwirizana kwambiri, poyamba monga mabwenzi. Anali ndi nthabwala zamphamvu. Kukhala naye limodzi kunali kosangalatsa. Kwa nthawi yoyamba ndinamva kuti ndili pachibwenzi ndi mtima wonse. Ndinkakonda zomwe timagawana, kumasuka, mphamvu, zokambirana, ndi achigololo, mameseji zauve.

Tinkagawana nkhani, kukambirana zomwe zidatilimbikitsa, zomwe zidatikwiyitsa, ndi chilichonse chomwe tikulimbana nacho. Tinkamvetserana mwachidwi, kufunsana mafunso, kuchirikizana, kuyitana wina ndi mnzake titamva nyimbo ikuyimba pa wailesi yomwe tinavina pamodzi, ndipo ngakhale kuimba mokweza pa foni.

Makhalidwe ake anandisangalatsa

Kukhala naye limodzi, ndinaphunzira zambiri. Ndinaphunzira kukhala a bwenzi labwino ndikumvetsetsa momwe zimakhalira kukhala ndi bwenzi. Zinandichititsa chidwi kuti sankakhumudwa msanga. Ngati wina wanena chinachake kwa iye chimene sanachikonde, ngati ndinamkwiyira, kapena ngati sanamvana ndi mnzanga kuntchito, kaŵirikaŵiri samachita zinthu mopupuluma.

Iye anali ndi bata lachibadwa ndipo kuyankha kwake mwamsanga kukanakhala kukhala chete; alipo kotheratu koma ali chete, monga ngati akunena kuti, “Ine ndiri pompano, ndikumvetsera.” Zimenezo zinali zamphamvu kwambiri. Zinandipatsa kamphindi kuti ndipume ndikukhazika mtima pansi. Sanandifunse kuti ndichite zimenezo, koma ndinamva mphamvu ya mchitidwe umenewo panthawiyi.

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Chinthu china chosowa chokondedwa chinali kuthekera kwake kundilimbikitsa kuti ndisiye zinthu zomwe adandichita zomwe zidandipweteka kapena zomwe ndidachita zomwe zidamukwiyitsa, zomwe modabwitsa, sananene. Tsiku lina ndinamukwiyira kwambiri ndipo anapepesa kambirimbiri.

Anandifunsa modekha kuti: “Nditani pamenepa? Zinandibwezeranso ku nthawiyo. Ndinkatha kumva kusowa kwake chochita pa zomwe ananena, ndendende zomwe amafuna kuti ndimve. Panalibenso china chimene akanachita kuti akonze zinthu; izo sizikanakhoza kusinthidwa. Ndipo ine Zilekeni zikhale.

Kugonana kunali kodabwitsanso

Ndipo panali kukhudzika kwakukulu mukupanga chikondi chathu. Chomwe chinapangitsa kuti chikhale chokongola kwambiri ndichakuti tinkafunsana zomwe zidathandiza mnzake. Kuchita chikondi kunali kosangalatsa kwambiri, ndipo tonsefe tinavomereza. Tinkacheza kwinaku tikukondana ndikufunsa winayo ngati amakonda. Sindingaganize zopanga chikondi mwanjira ina iliyonse, yabwinoko.

Ndikadapanda kukhala wolumikizana naye panthawi yapamtima yotere, sindikadakhala komweko, pakadali pano komanso mofunitsitsa. Tinali ndi kuwala kotere, nthawi zambiri ndimadzifunsa, tili ndi mgwirizano wa cosmic?

Nthawi ina tinapanga chikondi chophimbidwa m'maso. Chinali chisangalalo chenicheni. Kenako anandifunsa chifukwa chake ndinasangalala nazo kwambiri, ndipo ndinamuuza kuti ndinkafuna kuti ndizikumbukirabe m’maganizo mwanga chifukwa choti sitinakumane kwa miyezi ingapo.

Ndimakumbukira kulumikizana komwe ndidamva naye panthawiyo; m’chipindamo mwakachetechete, ndipo m’mene tinkawawawa komanso kuyamikira zomwe ndinanena. Sindinaganizepo kuti ndipanga chinthu choterocho, koma sindinalenge ndi cholinga. Sindinaganize; izo zinangochokera ku malo ozama mkati mwanga.

Palibe chomwe chili changwiro momwe chimawonekera

Sitikanakhoza kukhala limodzi ngati banja. Anayenera kusuntha mizinda ndikugwira ntchito yomanga ntchito yake, ndipo sindinkafuna kukhala chifukwa chake anasankha kusatenga sitepe iyi. Miyezi ingapo yapitayi inali yovuta kwambiri kwa ife chifukwa tinkadziwa kuti zimene tinkachitazo zitheratu. Iye ndi ine tinali titakambirana kuti LDR sigwira ntchito chifukwa ntchito yathu inkafuna kuti tikhalebe m'mizinda yathu.

Ndinkadziwa kuti afunika kuchoka posakhalitsa, n’chifukwa chake ndinkangokhalira kumufunsa kuti, “Kodi nthawi yoti tisiyane ndi liti?” Ndinkamukonda kwambiri ndipo sindinkafuna kumutaya, koma ndinkadziwa kutha pa zabwino ndizomwe ndimafuna osati ndewu yosokoneza.

Pazifukwa zina, chikumbutso chosalekeza chinakhala ngati dalitso lobisika. Ngakhale kuti zonse zinkawoneka ngati zangwiro kunja, malingaliro anga kwa iye anayamba kuzimiririka: ngakhale kugonana kodabwitsa, zokambirana zathu zinayamba kutaya mphamvu ndipo posakhalitsa zinakhala zazifupi komanso zazifupi. Zinali ngati chikondi ndi ulemu zinatsalira, koma motowo unazimiririka.

Ndinkadziwa kuti ndikufuna chikondi komanso chikondi mu ubale wanga, kotero tinasiyana, ngakhale zinali zowawa kwambiri. Tinasankha bwanji nthawi yoti tileke? Tinali osangalala, koma chikumbutso chosalekeza cha kupatukana kwathu koyandikira chinakhala chovuta kukhala nacho, ndipo tinafuna kusiya kudzinamiza tokha. Chinanso chimene chinatithandiza n’chakuti takhala mabwenzi nthawi yonseyi ndipo nthawi zambiri tinkakambirana mmene tikumvera.

Ibibazo

Maganizo Final

So nthawi yosiya chibwenzi ndi liti, ndipo kodi padzakhala mwayi wabwino kwambiri? Inde ndi ayi. Zimatengera momwe mumalumikizirana ndi malingaliro anu komanso kufunitsitsa kwanu kuvomereza mkhalidwewo. Pamene zonse zomwe mungathe kuziwona ndi zowawa ndi zowawa m'tsogolo mwaubwenzi, ndiye nthawi yoti muthe. Alangizi athu akatswiri ali pano kuti akutsogolereni munjirayi momveka bwino ndi chithandizo.

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