Zizindikiro 5 Zokhudza Nkhanza Zomwe Muyenera Kusamala Pochenjeza Wothandizira

Wokopa amene muli naye pachibwenzi akhoza kukhala wosokoneza maganizo. CHANI??? Ndikudziwa kuti ndakupangitsani kuti muyime pang'ono. Koma mukudziwa chiyani? Nkhanza zamaganizo Ndi njira yobisika kwambiri ndipo imakumba mozama kwambiri kotero kuti nthawi zambiri imakhala mochedwa kwambiri mukazindikira. Ndikuwona zizindikiro za nkhanza zamaganizo mwa makasitomala anga ambiri. Amabwera kwa ine chifukwa amadziona ngati sali abwino kwa mnzawo; amanena kuti pamapeto pake amapweteketsa wokondedwa wawo, nthawi zambiri mosadziwa ndipo amaona ngati akuzunza mnzawoyo. Koma chimene sadziwa n’chakuti zimenezi zikuchitika chifukwa chakuti ali pachibwenzi ndi munthu wankhanza.

Pambuyo pa magawo angapo, zigawozo zimayamba kutuluka ndipo mumazindikira momwe apangidwira pang'onopang'ono kuti akhulupirire chinyengo ichi komanso kuti iwo ndi omwe akuzunzidwa kwenikweni. Kotero ngakhale zizindikiro za nkhanza zamaganizo zimakhala zovuta kuziwona kumayambiriro kwa chiyanjano, ngati mukudziwa, mwinamwake mungakhale osamala kwambiri mukagwera wina.

Zizindikiro za 5 za Nkhanza Zomwe Muyenera Kuziwona mukakhala pachibwenzi

Zimakukhudzani mukazindikira kuti mwamuna yemwe angakhale wokongola kwambiri amathanso kukugwetsani muchisokonezo nthawi zonse. Muli m’chikaiko chosatha ndi kudzidetsa. Izi ndi zizindikiro 5 za kuzunzidwa m'maganizo zomwe muyenera kuyang'ana.

1. Mofulumira kwambiri

Ogwiritsa nkhanza amakonda kukhazikitsa kulumikizana kwathunthu ndi inu mwachangu. Ndi njira yokhayo yowonetsetsa kuti mudzakhala pansi pa chithumwa chawo kwathunthu. Choncho amadza kwa inu ndi zizindikiro zazikulu za chikondi ndi chithumwa mwachangu kwambiri, chimodzi pambuyo pa chimzake; mwachangu kotero kuti simupeza nthawi yoti mupume ndipo musanadziwe, mukuwapanikiza.

Chifukwa chake ngati mukuwona ngati kulumikizana kwa 'kodabwitsa'ku ndikwabwino kwambiri kuti sikungakhale kowona, ndiye kuti ndi choncho. Ngati akupita tsiku ndi tsiku, akukuitanani pafupipafupi ngakhale mumakumana tsiku lililonse, kukukondani ndi maluwa ndi mphatso, yesani kupeza malo. Manja onsewa paokha ndi odabwitsa, koma fungulo lomwe mukuyang'ana ndikutsatana mwachangu kuti atsimikizire kuti ali m'malingaliro anu ndipo simudzazindikira kuti muli paubwenzi wozunza.

2. Kulamulira mochenjera

Adzayamba pang'onopang'ono kukuuzani zosankha zanu koma m'njira yobwerera m'mbuyo. Monga, "Kodi mukutsimikiza kuti mukufuna kuvala?" Kutenga zisankho mosazindikira ndikuyitanitsa malo odyera, ndikuyika mafunso ochulukirapo okhudza anzanu mukufunsa za tsiku lanu, kusonyeza kusagwirizana ndi anthu omwe mumacheza nawo - zonsezi mobisa "kukufunirani zabwino" ndipo izi ndizizindikiro zenizeni za kuzunzidwa m'malingaliro.

3. Kuyamikira koipa

Tsopano mutha kudabwa kuti heck ndi kuyamikira koyipa? Ndi mawu omwe anthu okuchitira nkhanza amakupangitsani kumva ngati akukuyamikirani koma kwenikweni akukopa chidwi pa zomwe akuganiza kuti ndi zolakwika zanu chifukwa zimakusokonezani ndikuyang'ana chivomerezo chawo.

Kuyamikiridwa koyipa kungamveke ngati, "Hei, ndimakonda kumeta kwanu kwatsopano; ndikwabwino kwa munthu wokhala ndi nkhope yaying'ono", kapena, "Kondani chovala chakudacho; wakuda nthawi zonse amachita ntchito yabwino kuti awoneke wocheperako, sichoncho?"

Tsopano ngati mukufuna kusanthula ziganizozi ndikuuza aliyense za izi, angakuuzeni kuti "Ndiye, amakuyamikirani, mukuwerenga kwambiri." Koma khulupirirani m'matumbo anu.

4. Kudzipatula

Njira yake ndi yoti mukhale ndi inu nonse kwa iyemwini - osati chifukwa cha chikondi - koma kukhala ndi mphamvu zonse pa inu chifukwa mukakhala nokhanokha, mumadalira kwambiri iye kuti akuvomerezeni komanso mwayi wochepa wokhala nawo wachiwiri pa zomwe chibadwa chanu chikukuuzani.

Kotero iye pang'onopang'ono adzakukokerani inu kutali ndi anzanu - nthawizina pokusungani mu chikondi chochititsa chifunga chosangalatsa, nthawizina mwakachetechete kunena kuti ndemanga yosalakwa yomwe mnzanuyo anapanga inalidi chipongwe cholunjika kwa iye, koma ndinu okoma kwambiri kuti musamawone.

Ndipo mumamukonda kwambiri moti simungapirire kuti wachitiridwa chipongwe ndi m’modzi wa anzanu; kotero mumayamba kudzipangira nokha zifukwa - "O! Sakumumvetsa", "Iye sali ngati anyamata ena osayankhula kotero kuti ali ndi nsanje", ndipo mumapitiriza kumukhulupirira.

5. Masewera a mlandu

Ndipo potsiriza, chida chomaliza mu zida zake - khadi lozunzidwa. Zinthu zikayamba kuchulukirachulukira - mkwiyo wake, kunyada kwake - amayamba kukupangitsani kukhulupirira kuti NDI INU amene mumamupangitsa kuti achite monyanyira; ndiyeno amadetsa chitetezo chanu mwa kusungunula m’thamanda lamanyazi kwambiri ndi kuchonderera chikhululukiro, kufikira nthaŵi ina ‘mudzamputa’nso. Uwu ndiye mchitidwe woyipa wa nkhanza. Lili ndi kuchuluka kwa chikondi ndi kukoma mtima komwe kumakupangitsani kukhala otanganidwa komanso kudzikayikira.

Kotero ngati mukuganiza kuti zizindikiro zonsezi zikugwirizana ndi ubale wanu wamakono, pangani malo, pitani kwinakwake ndikuganiziranso. Ndipo pakadali pano, ngati mkwiyo wake ukukulirakulira chifukwa mukutenga malowa, mwina ndi nthawi yoti mupeze thandizo.

ZOYENERA KUTI: Chilichonse kapena zonsezi zitha kupezeka mwa osagwiritsa nkhanza komanso pazifukwa zosiyana. Choncho khalani ndi nthawi yotsimikizira kuti zizindikiro zonse zilipo musanamutaya kapena kumuimba mlandu.

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