Mai i te whakamanamana ki te kore e mārama ki tō tātou aroha ki baingan ka bharta, he wā motuhake anō ō ēnei tāngata motuhake. Ā, nā te mea kua whakaipoipo ahau i ētahi Arapi, Piritana, me ētahi Hungarian, he pono te kī he maha aku wheako ki te whakaipoipo i tētahi manene. Inaa, e ai ki a Ali Wong, arā, ko Baby Cobra, kua taea e au te "mahanga i tētahi" kia marena māua. Nō reira, ki te mea he moemoeā tōu ki te whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata whenua, whakarongo ki taku whakatūpato me aku wheako. Ka hiahia koe ki tēnā!
Ahakoa te ngahau o te haere tonu i tēnei wheako uaua, ataahua hoki o te noho mai i ngā ahurea rerekē, he mea āwhina tonu te mōhio ki ngā āhuatanga o roto. Mai i ngā rerekētanga ahurea e tīmata ana i te kai, tae atu ki ngā pūkenga pāpori, tae noa ki ngā nekehanga ringa, he nui ngā akoranga me ngā mea ka warewarehia e puta mai ana i te whakaipoipo i tētahi manene. Ka uaua, e kore ahau e teka ki a koe. Engari ki te tika tāu mahi, ka tino waiho hei wheako o te ao katoa.
Ngā mea hei tumanako atu māu ina whakaipoipo koe i tētahi tangata ke
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Ahakoa ka kitea e koe tō hoa tauhou i te pae inu, e hiahia ana rānei koe ki te whakaaro Dating ki ngā tāngata whenua kē, ko te rerekētanga tuatahi ka kitea e koe ko tā mātou reo Ingarihi Vinglish. Ko taku tikanga Inia ki te tāpiri na a anake Ka waiho ia rerenga kōrero hei wāhi kata mā taku hoa taumau. Ā, ka waiho tōna reo Peretānia ātaahua hei wāhi kōrero i waenga i aku hoa. Engari ko te tīmatanga noa iho tēnā o ngā arai reo ina whakaipoipo ana ahau i tētahi nō tētahi atu whenua.
I tētahi wā, i pātai atu ahau ki tētahi hoa aroha o Kōrea mēnā e pai ana ia ki ahau i roto i te thong, ā, ka tino kata ia ki a ia, ā, ka whakamahara mai ki ahau he kino te tikanga o te 'thong' i tōna ao. Nō reira, kia rite ki te whai mana i roto i ngā kōrero whakamā. Āe, ngā wero o te whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata whenua ke!
Ngā Wero o te Whakaipoipo i tētahi Tangata nō tētahi Atu Whenua
He mārama, he mea whakamere te whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata whenua kē. Ae, he mea ngahau te mahi kata mō ō rātou reo me te āhua o tā rātou kōrero, engari kia rite ki te tawai anō hoki. Ahakoa rā, he maha ngā wā whakamā ka tūtaki tonu kōrua. Ā, he maha ngā mea ka whakahēngia e kōrua. Kaua e wareware, he tūponotanga nui kei roto kōrua i tētahi whanaungatanga tawhiti mō tētahi wā. He whenua rerekē rawa atu tēnā, me ōna ake raruraru.
Na, mena ko koe hinga i roto i te aroha Ki te tino uaua te mahi tahi me tētahi manene, kia mau ki ēnei tohutohu.
1. Ngā tumanakohanga mai i te whanaungatanga ā-tinana
Kia wikitoria koe i ngā rerekētanga o te reo e kitea ana, e kore e taea te karo, ko te arai e whai ake nei me piki e koe ko te mea i runga i te moenga. Ae, ko ngā whakaaro o tō hoa tāne tauhou mō te taatai pai me te aroha ka tino rerekē i ngā mea i akohia e koe i tō tipu ake. I whakaaro koe he tino hiahia ngā Īniana ki tā mātou Kamasutra? Āe, ka taea e mātou. Engari kaua e whakaititia te whakaaro o ngā Amerikana.
Heoi, he nui atu ngā āhuatanga o te whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata whenua kē. E tūpato ana ngā wāhine Īnia, ina koa, ki te PDA – he maha o tātou e whaiwhai ana i ngā mahara o ngā rōpū pirihimana a Romeo me ngā pirihimana e auau ana ki ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i waho. He rerekē te āhua o te Hauāuru ina tae mai ki whakaaturanga o te aroha mo te iwiTērā pea he ao rerekē te āhua ki a koe. Mai i te nui rawa o te PDA i Parani ki te hopu noa i te kaihe i Nandos, he rerekē rawa te taatai me te whanaungatanga i tāwāhi, ā, ki te pono, e pai ana ahau ki tēnā. Inaa, e aroha ana ahau ki tēnā!
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2. Ka pai rānei ki a rātou te kai e kainga ana e koe?
Kua kitea e au he pai ki ahau ngā āhuatanga maha o te whanaungatanga. Kāore e taea te kōrero Pākehā? Kaua e manukanuka. Kei te hiahia koe ki te moe i te aroaro o te marea? Kei te whakaaroaro hohonu koe. Kei te hiahia koe ki te whakarōpū i a Nandos hei pō whakaipoipo? Tērā pea he tino pai ā rātou kai. Engari ko te mea kāore au e pai ki a rātou ko te hunga kāore e tino aroha ki te heihei pata pērā i ahau. He kai nō te rangi. Kāore au e hiahia ki te noho tahi me tetahi kāore e mārama, e kore hoki e maioha ki te hiranga o taua kai.
Āe, ko te tikanga o taku kōrero ko Punjabi (taku titi) kai whānui. He mea whakarihariha ki ahau te kore e tino whakaarohia te pīni kikī me te pīni whatukuhu i roto i ētahi atu iwi. E tama mā, kei te ngaro koutou. Hei Īniana, kua tino waimarie tātou ki ā tātou tikanga kai ahurea. I taku tīmatanga ki te aroha ki tētahi tangata whenua ke, i whakapau kaha ahau ki te akiaki i a ia ki te whakamātau i ngā mea katoa mai i motu Tuhinga o mua gulab jamunKāore i te tino pai ki a ia i ngā wā katoa engari i whakamātau ia. He maha ngā wā, ko te whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata iwi kē te tikanga kāore rātou e mārama he aha te hiranga o ētahi mea ahurea ki a koe. He mea nui te kai ki ahau nei.
3. Ka hiahia rātou ki tētahi marena iti
"He aha tātou me karanga ai i te 200 tāngata ki tētahi marena?" te pātai a taku hoa taumau me te miharo. I hamama ahau i roto i ahau, "Nā te mea koinā tonu te mahi a ngā Punjabi o Delhi!"
E mōhio ana te Atua me pēhea tana tauhohe ina mōhio ia ki te utu o ōku kākahu. Ehara i te mea he Sabyasachi engari e whakaata ana i ngā paerewa o ngā tikanga hokohoko a te kotiro Delhi, e tika ana. Kua whiriwhiria e au taku lehenga ME tana sherwani. Me aro atu ia ki taua mea, ā, me ako hoki ki te aroha ki taua mea!
4. Ka manakohia ia e tō whānau?
Ina kore e taea e tō pāpā te kōrero kirikiti, ki te tōrangapū rānei ki tana hunaonga i te wā o te hui whānau, ka pouri ia. Ehara tēnā i te take pai kia kaua e moe i a ia. Ko tāku noa e kī nei, tera pea ka roa te wā ka kite te whānau i a ia hei mema nō rātou ake. Ehara i te mea ngāwari te tukanga whakauru, ā, me mau tonu pea koe ki tēnei mahi mō tētahi wā. Engari kia mahara, i te mutunga, me toa te aroha e tika ana. Ā, i roto i tōu take, ka toa anō hoki.
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Ngā Painga o te Aroha ki tētahi Tangata Whenua Kē
Nā, i mua i tō kakahuria o ō tarau whakahihi me te pātai, "He aha koe me whakaipoipo ai i tētahi tangata iwi kē mēnā he nui ngā mea e hiahiatia ana e koe hei patunga tapu?" me "He aha ngā painga o te whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata iwi kē?" Āe, tuatahi, ka mea atu ahau: aroha! He aha koe i hiahia ai ki tētahi atu take? Engari hei kōrero, me noho tuwhera tō hinengaro, nā te mea he nui ake ngā painga i ngā ngoikoretanga. Anei, ka whakarārangihia e au ētahi o aua mea māu.
1. He tirohanga whānui ki te ao
Ina whakataka e koe ētahi wāhanga tawhito o koe, ka whiwhi koe i tētahi tirohanga hou, pai ake hoki. Ko te tikanga, mā te whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata kāore i rite ki a koe, ka huri koe hei motuka kua whakarerekētia me te pūnaha orooro pai ake me ngā rama LED. Ka whiwhi koe i tētahi ao whānui ake, me te mārama ake ki taua mea. Tērā pea ka whiwhi koe i tētahi reo whakahirahira, ā, ka ako koe i ētahi nekehanga moepuku hou. Kāore ianei ēnei i te rawaka ngā take hei peke tonu atu ki aua mea? taupānga whakaipoipo manene?
Ko te tino take, he harikoa ahau ki te tuku i aku whakamarie whenua kia whai wāhi ai ahau ki te tūtaki ki tētahi tangata whakamataku e taea ai, e ai ki a Aladdin, "Whakaaturia mai te ao ki ahau - e tiaho ana, e kanapa ana, e whakahīhī ana". Mā te whakaipoipo i tētahi e noho ana i tētahi atu whenua ka puta mai ngā raruraru pēnei i ngā raruraru whanaungatanga tawhiti, ngā māramatanga ahurea, me ētahi atu. Engari ko te utu mō tēnā katoa he tirohanga hou, he tirohanga whānui hoki - ā, he tino pai rawa atu ki ahau.
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2. Ka noho motuhake tonu te hononga
Ahakoa kei te tautohetohe tonu kōrua mō te nui o te mea kakara hei whakamahi i roto i tā kōrua rimurapa, koinei ngā mea hei pupuri i tō kōrua whanaungatanga kia ora tonu. Ka tautohetohe tonu kōrua, ka whakahēngia hoki. He mahi tino uaua te mārama ki ō rāua tirohanga ina noho pūmau kōrua ki roto i tō kōrua ake tirohanga. Engari kia mau tonu ai te hou o ngā mea, me ako tonu kōrua, me ine, me mārama, me noho tonu. Ki te aroha koe ki tētahi tangata whenua kē, kia mōhio koe he raruraru te hoha e kore rawa e pā ki a kōrua.
3. Te ako i te reo hou
Kāore he take ki te peke atu ki aua akoranga Pāniora ipurangi, ki te tango rānei i a Duolingo me te kore e whakamahi. Penapenahia te wā me te wāhi rokiroki i runga i tō waea, ka haere ki waho ka tīmata te whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata iwi kē. Ahakoa ehara i te mea koinei anake te take pai, te take pai rānei hei whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata i tāwāhi, he painga nui! Ki taku whakaaro ko aua moemoeā katoa kia piripono, kia piripono hoki te moe tāne werawera me tō kaiako reo ke (tō hoa) ka tutuki āpōpō.
4. Ka ako koe i te manawanui, he rite ki tētahi atu mea
Ki te whakaaro koe he kakara waewae te tīhi Parmesan, engari me manawanui koe i ia pō i te tēpu kai nā te mea kāore e taea e tō tāne te mutu te kai i te tīhi, ka mōhio koe ki te āhua o te manawanui i roto i te whanaungatanga. Ā, ka pērā anō hoki ia ki a koe.
Me aro atu tō tāne o tāwāhi ki ō mātua e amuamu ana, e haruru ana, ki te tini o ngā tuākana, teina rānei, kāore e mārama ki te wāhi whaiaro, me ngā chutney wera katoa e kore e taea e kōrua te ora me te kore. Ki te taea e kōrua te wikitoria i ēnei rerekētanga katoa, tērā pea ka wikitoria kōrua i ngā mea katoa.
He tangata whenua kē taku hoa tāne, ā, ahakoa he maha ngā tautohetohe kei waenganui i a māua, e harikoa ana ahau ki te whai i tēnei haerenga māua. Ki te whakaaro koe ki te whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata whenua kē, ā, kāore koe i te mōhio me pēhea te mahi i tēnā, kia mahara he mea whānui te atawhai, ā, koinā anake te mea e hiahiatia ana e koe hei wawahi i te hukapapa me te tīmata kōrero. He atawhai me te Tinder, āe.
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He uaua te whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata nō tētahi atu whenua, engari mēnā kei roto koe i te aroha me te hiahia ki te whakahaere i ngā mea, kāore he mea hei aukati i a koe. Ko te whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata whenua kē he mahi i ngā patunga tapu tika, te mārama ki tōna ahurea, te whakaatu ki a rātou e aroha ana koe ki tōna ahurea, te whakamārama i tō ake ahurea ki a rātou, me te whai kōrero tino pai. Ka taea e te rerekētanga o ngā papamuri te whakararu i te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero i ētahi wā, engari me te tika. rautaki whakatau pakanga me ngā tikanga, ka ora koe.
He mea e tino pōhēhē ana te nuinga o te tangata mō te huarahi ki te whakaipoipo i tētahi tāne o tāwāhi, ahakoa he tino māmā te whakautu. Ko te whai hinengaro tuwhera me te noho ko koe tonu ngā mea nui ka taea e au te kī atu ki a koe. Ahakoa kei hea koe e kitea ai ia, kia hihiri, kia whakaatu i te hiahia ki tōna ahurea, ā, kia tuwhera tonu ki te whakamātau i ngā mea hou.
Āe! He maha ngā painga o tēnei. Ki te aroha kōrua tetahi ki tetahi kia taea ai e kōrua te wikitoria i ngā rerekētanga, ka tino kokoti kōrua i ngā hua o te whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata iwi kē.
Ki te aroha koe ki a rātou, ā, e whakapono ana koe ki te ariā o te marena, ahakoa he manene rātou, kāore rānei. Hei Īnia, he uaua pea te whakaae mai o ō mātua. Engari ki te kite rātou i tāu e kite nei i roto i a ia, ka pai noa iho ki a rātou.
He pono, ko te eharmony tēnei. Whakamātauria, ka tino aroha koe ki tēnei.
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He pai, he kino hoki ngā whanaungatanga katoa. Engari he mea whakamere te whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata iwi kē! Ā, he pono te kī, ki te rerekē kōrua, "ka huri kōrua hei motuka kua whakarerekētia me te pūnaha orooro pai ake" (he pai ki ahau tēnei rārangi kōrero).