"Ka tīmata te aroha i te kare ā-roto,
Engari ko te haere tonu he whiriwhiri;
A ka kite ahau i ahau e whiriwhiri ana i a koe
"E nui haere ana i ia rā, i ia rā."
– Justin Wetch
Pērā i te nuinga o ngā mea o te ao, ka rerekē te whanaungatanga aroha i ngā pikinga me ngā hekenga o te wā. Tērā ētahi rā ka rite te tokorua ki te kanikani i runga i te kapua iwa, ā, tērā ētahi wiki ka rite te āhua o te korenga o tetahi mea e tika ana. Koinei tonu te wāhi e uru mai ai te wero whanaungatanga 30-rā. Mēnā kua ahua kore koe e taurite ki tō hoa rangatira, ā, ki te mea kei te totohu te whanaungatanga i roto i te onepū, whakamahia tēnei mahi tino whai hua.
Ahakoa te āhua koretake o ngā wero whanaungatanga mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, he tino whai hua. Ko te mea nui ko te hanga anō i te whanaungatanga piripono me te whakawhirinaki i waenganui i ngā hoa. Ka whāngai (ka whakaora anō hoki) ia mahi i te hononga aroha i ia taahiraa. Tirohia ngā mea kei a mātou hei whakarite māu me tēnei wero whanaungatanga 30-rā kua whakaritea motuhaketia.
He aha te Wero Whakawhanaungatanga 30-Rā?
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E mōhio ana ahau he mārama noa iho tēnei engari he āwhina tonu te whakarāpopototanga poto. Hei tāpiri, ka taea e au te whakatū i ētahi ture taketake. Mā te wero whanaungatanga 30-rā ka tohaina he mahi ki tētahi tokorua i ia rā. He mahi māmā, he mahi uaua rānei. Ahakoa he aha, me whai wāhi ngā hoa tokorua ki te whakaoti. Kāore e whakaaetia kia pekehia e rāua tētahi mahi, kia whakarerekē rānei i tā rāua raupapa.
He mea tino nui te raupapatanga o ēnei mahi hei angitu i te wero. Ko te whāinga he piki haere i te taumata; kaua ngā tāne me ngā wāhine kua noho pōrearea e peke ki ngā mahi e aro ana ki te whanaungatanga ā-tinana. Ko te mea nui ko te whakaora i ngā kare ā-roto, ā, koinei te take kāore he pānga o ngā mahi tuatahi ki te taatai. Kia whakahokia mai te whakawhirinaki, kia whakahokia mai hoki te aroha, ka neke atu tātou ki te taha taatai.
He maha ā mātou kaipānui i ruarua mō te āhua o te hono anō ki tō hoa rangatira i roto i ngā rā 30. He aha te mahi makutu ka taea e ēnei wero whanaungatanga mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine te mahi hei hanga anō i te piriti i runga i te wai pōrearea i roto i te wā poto nei? Engari ko ngā mahi i whiriwhiria marietia e mātou he mea whakamiharo te whai huatanga, ā, he maha ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i tata atu i mua!
Tērā pea me whakarerekē ake ngā mahi mō ērā ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i roto i te whanaungatanga tawhiti. Kaua e mangere ki te hanga i tētahi mea hou mō tēnā taha, ka urutau ki te horopaki mariko. Engari kia māia koe, he tino taea te wero whanaungatanga 30-rā mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine tawhiti.
Me mōhio anō hoki koe kāore he kōwhiringa te whakakore i te wero i waenganui. Tērā pea he rā kāore koe e mārama ki te pānga o tētahi mahi ki te whanaungatanga. Heoi anō, he aha te pānga o te tākaro kēmu poari ki ngā whanaungatanga o te tokorua? He aha ngā mea pēnei i te aihikirīmi i roto i ngā wero whanaungatanga mō ngā tokorua? Ka whakautua e au ēnei mea katoa (me ētahi atu) i te wā tika. Kia mōhio noa koe he MEA TINO WHAKAMUTUNGIA tēnei whakamātautau.
Ko te ara anake ko te haere tonu, ā, kāore he hokinga whakamuri i tēnei ara whakapai ake. Ka puta he hua pai i roto i ēnei rā 30 o te mahi arotahi ki tō whanaungatanga. Ka kite koe i te tipu haere o tō whanaungatanga, me te nui o tō piripono ki tō hoa. He aha tā tātou e tatari atu nei? Me tīmata tātou!
Me pēhea te whai i te wero whanaungatanga 30-rā
He iti noa iho ngā mahi auaha e hiahiatia ana e koe mō te wero whanaungatanga 30-rā. Me whai noa koe i ngā ture i ia rā. Ā, ko te nuinga o ngā rā kāore e nui te wā me te kaha e hiahiatia ana. Ko tā mātou anake e hiahia ana ko te whakapau kaha ki te mahi o te rā. Kaua e whakatata atu ki tēnei wero me te mea he mahi kāinga. Ka kore noa iho ō mahi ki te kore koe e pai.
Heoi, me whakapau kaha ngā hoa e rua ki tēnei wero. He mea nui te whai wāhi atu. Nō reira, kia tino whakaurua tō hoa rangatira ki te poari i mua i te tīmatanga. Anei te wero whanaungatanga 30-rā e whakaatu ana:
1. Mahi o te Rā 1: Awhi mō te 30 meneti
I mea atu a Audrey Hepburn, "Ko te mea pai rawa atu hei pupuri i te ao ko tetahi ki tetahi." Ko wai te tangata whakaaro tika e kore e aro ki ana whakaaro nui? I te rā tuatahi o tō wero whanaungatanga 30-rā, noho tahi ki runga i te tūru me tō hoa aroha, ka noho mō tētahi wā. Tērā pea kei te maumahara koe ki ngā rā i kore ai e taea e kōrua te pupuri i ō kōrua ringa tetahi ki tetahi. Ka taea te tatari mō ngā mahi o te whare, ngā waea mahi, te tina, te pona, me ētahi atu. Kia pārekareka ki te mahana o tō rātou aroha, ā, kia rongo i te tukunga o te serotonin.
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2. Rā 2: Mātaki i te rā e whiti ana te rā me te inu kawhe
He mahi whakamiharo te tīmata tahi i ō ata. I mua i te tīmatanga o te pukumahi, me noho puku koe me tō hoa. Kōrerohia ngā mea katoa engari kaua ō kawenga. Kata tahi, me te kī atu e aroha ana koe ki a rātou. Haere ki te taupee, ki te taupee rānei me ngā kapu kawhe/tī mahana e rua, ka mātakitaki i te rā e peita ana i te rangi ki ngā tae ataahua. He tino harikoa te noho tahi me te kounga o te wā.
3. I te rā tuatoru, tukua he mihi ki runga i te karere kuputuhi i roto i tēnei wero whanaungatanga 30-rā
He tino māmā te mahi mō te rā 3. I ngā wā katoa o te rā, tuku mihi ki tō hoa aroha i runga i te tuhinga. Kāore e kore he kupu ataahua hei kōrero. He reta iti pea hei 'whakawhetai' mō te parakuihi reka i mahia e rātou māu i taua ata. He karere ngāwari rānei hei whakaatu i te whakawhetai mō tō rāua noho mai i roto i tō koiora. Ka tiaho te mata o tō hoa rangatira ina pānuihia e rātou tō tuhinga i roto i tētahi hui. Ka taea e ēnei mahi iti te hanga i te rerekētanga nui ki te ao. Ka whakamāramahia e kōrua te rā o tētahi ki tētahi mā tēnei mahi.
4. Whakaorangia te rā 4 hei tākaro i tētahi kēmu papa
Kia pēhea te roa mai i te wā kāore anō kia puta te āhua tamariki i a kōrua? Whakataetae atu ki tō hoa i a kōrua e tākaro ana i te Jenga, Ludo, Pictionary, Scrabble rānei. Ka kata koe i a koe e patu ana i a rāua me te riri whakaari, ka oma i te rūma moe. He huarahi pai te whai wāhi atu ki ngā mahi wairangi me ngā wero whanaungatanga ngahau ki te whakakore i ngā taumahatanga i roto i te whanaungatanga.
5. Rā 5: Whakapaua he pō whakaipoipo ataahua
Kaua e teka ki ahau – kua tino hiahia koe ki tētahi pō whakaipoipo aroha-kōmeke ā-Hollywood i tētahi wā. I rongo mātou i tō hiahia, ā, i whakaritea tētahi o ngā wero tino ngahau mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine kua mārenatia. Āe, he tino mihi ki ngā tāne me ngā wāhine kāore i mārenatia kia whakamātau i tēnei me te ngākau kotahi. Kōwhiria he wharekai e pai ana ki a kōrua, ā, whakapaipaihia kia tika. Ka taea e kōrua te tāpiri i te tae o te kākahu! Mā te tina rama e whakatakoto te wairua tika mō tētahi kōrero ngākau-ki-ngākau me tō hoa. Kāore au e tuku i te aroha kia mate i roto i tō kōrua whanaungatanga roa.
6. He pai te tunu kai, te tunu kai rānei ngātahi mō te rā 6
Kāore au i te mōhio ki a koe engari he pai ki ahau te noho ki te kīhini me taku hoa tāne. He mahi whakaora tino pai. He mea tino piripono te tunu kai tahi. Ki te kore koe i te tino pūkenga ki te tunu kai, kia māmā noa mā te tunu keke, he parāone rānei. Ka taea e koe whakapaua he wā kounga me tō hoa rangatira ā, kai i ngā kai reka i muri iho. He āhuatanga wikitoria mō te katoa me te wero whanaungatanga 30-rā.
7. I te rā 7, whakaritea he pāti moe – ko ngā wero whanaungatanga ngahau te mea nui!
Ahakoa kua noho tahi kōrua, ka tino tutuki tēnei whakaaro. Nā te mea ina kī ahau he pāti moe, ko te tikanga he pāti moe. Ka tangohia e koe ngā pēke moe, ka kai pīta mō te tina, ka mau i ō PJ tino whakamarie, ka tākaro kēmu i te pō. Kia tino wairangi koe i a koe e kai ana i te nui o ngā monamona me te whakarongo ki ngā waiata pop tawhito. Ahakoa he uaua ki te whakapono, koinei tonu te mea e hiahiatia ana e koe hei hono atu anō ki tō hoa i roto i ngā rā 30.
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8. Rā 8: Waiho he reta mā tetahi ki tetahi
Kāore e neke atu i te 3 meneti o tō wā. Waiho he reta ki runga i te whakaata o te wharepaku, ki te pouaka whakamātao rānei; he katakata rorirori pea, he mihi, he kupu whakatenatena, he kupu whakahihiri, he mea tino aroha rānei. Ko te whāinga kia pai ake te rā o tētahi ki tētahi mā te tuku karere poto. Ki te haere tonu tēnei ahakoa kua 30 ngā rā, ka hoatu he take ki a koe kia tumanako ai ki te hoki ki te kāinga me te menemene tetahi ki tetahi i waenganui i ngā mahi pukumahi katoa o te ao.
9. Rā 9: Haere roa me te pupuri ringa
Kaua e ngana ki te kōrero noa iho. Haere tahi me te ringa i roto i te ringa, me te wahangu. Tirohia te taha o te tāone, he ataahua te tāone? He waimarie koe ki te noho tahi me tō hoa rangatira? Tatauhia ō manaakitanga, ā, kia pai ki ia wā, ki ia hikoinga. Tū atu mō te tiakarete wera i te huarahi, noho rānei ki runga i tētahi paepae i te pāka. Kaua hoki e maumahara ki tētahi wāhi kua whakaritea, engari haere noa ki te wāhi e arahina ai koe e te huarahi. Ko ēnei mea iti nei kia kaha ake tō marena i ia rā, i ia rā.
10. Kihi tetahi i tetahi i te rā 10 (āe, TINO)
Koinei pea te mahi tino piripono i roto i tēnei wero whanaungatanga 30-rā tae noa mai ki tēnei wā. Kihia tō hoa i te 10th rā; kaua e ngana ki te whakawai i a rātou, kaua hoki e neke atu ki tētahi mea tere ake. Ko te whāinga he pārekareka ki te kihi. Noho i roto i te wā, rongohia te whanaungatanga. Kia maumahara ki ngā kupu ataahua a John Keats: "He kihi ngawari - Ae, mā taua kihi, ka oati ahau i te harikoa mutunga kore." Ā, he maha ngā kōrero kua kōrerotia mō te ngā painga hauora o te kihi.
11. Rā 11: Whakakorikori tinana, whakaaroaro rānei ngātahi
He mahi tino marino tēnei hei mahi i roto i ngā wero whanaungatanga katoa mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine. He rerekē ki te whakapono rongonui, kāore ngā wero whanaungatanga mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e hiahia ana kia aroha i ia rā, i ia rā. He huarahi pai te noho tahi, ahakoa mō ngā mahi noa iho, hei whakawhanaunga. Whakangāwari mā te mahi whakakori tinana, mā te whakaaroaro rānei me tō hoa. Ka rongo koe i te rerekētanga ina oti.
12. Te wero whanaungatanga 30-rā mō te tawhiti – Mātaki anō i tētahi kiriata e pai ana ki a kōrua i te rā 12
He kiriata tino pai tā ia tokorua. Mō māua ko taku hoa, he mea nui tonu E Mure Ore te Kino Kore. Tērā pea he mea i mātakihia e koe i tō kōrua rā tuatahi. Tērā pea he tino kaiwhaiwhai koe i ngā kaiwhakaari. Whakaitihia ngā rama, hanga he pōporo, ka noho pai ki runga i te tūru me te paraikete. Mēnā he tokorua LDR kōrua, whakaritea he pāti mātakitaki māu. Tukua kia taupokina koe e te ngaru o te mahara me te aroha.
13. Waea atu tetahi ki tetahi mai i te mahi i te rā 13
He takiuru noa iho. Kia maumahara ki a Lily rāua ko Marshall (mai i HIMYM) te waea atu tetahi ki tetahi i te wā tina hei kī atu i tā rāua i kai ai, me te kī atu "Aroha ana ahau ki a koe"? He tohu reka e whakaatu ana kei te whakaaro koe ki tō hoa aroha. Pātai atu ki a rātou me pēhea te haere o tō rāua rā, mehemea kua tina rāua, kāore rānei. Tērā pea he poto rawa te waea. Engari kia tino waea atu kōrua tetahi ki tetahi. Ko te pupuri i te whakapā atu i roto i ēnei huarahi iti he mea nui ake ki a kōrua hononga kare ā-roto atu i to whakaaro.
14. Rā 14: Tirohia ō whakaahua tawhito
He haerenga whakamīharo tēnā ki ngā mahara. He mea tino nui te titiro whakamuri ki ngā wā pai o te wero whanaungatanga 30-rā. Ina tautohe tonu te tokorua, ka ngawari te wareware ki te hītori whakamiharo kei a rāua. Mā te tirotiro i ngā whakaahua tawhito, i ngā ataata rānei ka pā te pātene whakahou, ka whakaiti i te mauahara o tetahi ki tetahi.
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15. Rā 15: Whakawetohia ō waea ka kōrero mō te haora
Ehara i te mea ngaro ko ngā waea pūkoro whakangaro i ngā whanaungatanga ki te phubbingMe whai wā koe ki te whakaweto i tō Wi-Fi, ki te whakaweto i ō waea, ki te pupuri hoki i ngā taputapu katoa kia matara atu. Kōrerorero tetahi ki tetahi mō…āe, ahakoa he aha. Kāore he kaupapa mahi. Ko taku hiahia kia kaua koe e manukanuka ki ngā īmēra a tō rangatira, ki ngā mea rānei kei runga i tō pikitia kōtaha hou. Kia pai te aro o tetahi ki tetahi mō te wā, me te kore he mea whakararuraru o te ao.
16. Te Rā 16: Haere i tētahi taraiwa roa, ka hanga he rārangi waiata mōna
He tino whakaora te haere roa, ā, ko tētahi o ngā wero tino ngahau mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine kua marenatia. Ka taea e koe te whiriwhiri i tētahi wharekai kei tawhiti, ka whakatapua te rā ki reira. Mēnā rānei, haere ki te whakamātautau waina i tētahi māra waina. Waihangahia he rārangi waiata motuhake o āu waiata tino pai (me tā tō hoa hoki!) Kia tīmata koe i te huarahi, waiho ō āwangawanga katoa ki muri. Hoatu tō aro katoa ki tō hoa rangatira, ā, kia maumahara ki te haerenga. Āe – kaua e pokatata, tēnā.
17. Haereere i te mutunga wiki: mahi o te rā 17
Kāore au e whakarongo ki ngā whakamārama. Whakatā mai i te mahi mēnā me mahi, engari kimihia he wā mō tēnei haerenga mutunga wiki. Whakaritea he wāhi moe me te parakuihi ātaahua, he wāhi okiokinga mirimiri papai rānei. Mawehe atu i te ngangau o te oranga o te tāone me te mahi o ia rā. He nui te pai o te noho ko koe anake (kāore he mea hei whakararuraru). Ko te haereere mō te tokorua te mea pai rawa atu! Ki te taea, whiriwhiria he wāhi marino, marino hoki.
18. Whakahaere tahi i ngā mahi i te rā 18
He mea nui te wehewehe i ngā kawenga i roto i ia whanaungatanga. Engari he nui ake te ngahau o te mahi tahi. Ka taea e kōrua te mahi tere ake i ā kōrua mahi mā te āwhina a tētahi ki tētahi. Nō reira, haere ki te hoko kai, horoi i ō kāpata, horoi i ngā kāpata, me te horoi i te puehu i te wā o te wero whanaungatanga 30-rā. Ehara i te mea ka oti noa i a kōrua te mahi, engari ka kitea anō hoki e kōrua te ataahua o te noho tahi hei pakeke.
19. Hangaia he rārangi o ngā āhuatanga tino pai o tō hoa: te rā 19 o ngā wero whanaungatanga ngahau
He mahi tēnei e mahia ana e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i roto i te tohutohu honongaHe whakamahara tēnei ki a rātou i te take i aroha ai rātou. Ā, e ai ki tāu e matapae ana, he uaua ake te whakahē, te whakahāwea rānei i tō hoa ina kei a koe ōna āhuatanga pai rawa atu. Ka māmā ake te whakahaere i te riri, ā, ka memeha haere ngā kare ā-roto o te mauahara, o te kawa rānei. Kāore he mea miharo ka āwhina tēnei mahi ngāwari i a koe ki te hono anō ki tō hoa i roto i ngā rā 30.
20. Mō te rā 20, haere ki te hokohoko
He tokomaha te hunga e whakapono ana he koretake te hokohoko. Ki taku whakaaro…ae, he pono! Ā, koinei te mea pai rawa atu. He tino ngahau te kite i tō hoa e whakaatu ana i ōna kākahu i waho o te rūma whakarerekē kakahu, e whakamātau ana i ngā momo kākahu tino rerekē, me te hopu i ngā utu pai rawa atu mō ngā hekenga. Ehara i te mea ko te pakeke te tikanga kia kaua e mahi i ngā mea whakahihiri. Ko taku pepeha ko 'hoko mai kia taka rā anō koe'.
21. Rā 21: Kia māia i roto i te rūma moe
He mea kei te hiahia koe ki te whakamātau? Pērā i te BDSM, te fetish, te roleplay, te femdom rānei? Mā ngā wero whanaungatanga mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine koe e akiaki ki te mahi i tēnā. Hototahi ā-ira tangata He mea nui tēnei mō te whanaungatanga hauora. Kei roto i tēnei ko te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero tuwhera, ngā rohe moepuku, me te makona hoki. Nō reira, whakamātauria i waenga i ngā pepa - he mea nui te tāpiri i ngā mea kakara.
22. Haere ki te toro atu ki ō hoa i te rā 22
Engari, me pēhea te mahi a te tokorua, e pātai ana koe? Āe, mā te hunga hauora ka hanga he whanaungatanga hauora, ā, kāore e taea tēnei me te kore e hoatu me te tango wāhi. He mea nui kia whai rōpū pāpori motuhake, kia whai ao motuhake rānei. Haere ki te parakuihi me ō hoa, ka noho tawhiti atu i tō hoa. I tēnei wā o te wero whanaungatanga 30-rā, ka kite koe kei te ngaro koe i tō hoa pai i a koe e ngaro ana.
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23. Rā 23: Mahia tetahi mea kei waho o tō rohe whakamarie
He āhua koretake tēnei whakaahuatanga engari me waiho māu e whakatau. Tērā pea he mahi wairangi pēnei i te paintball, he mahi whakahirahira rānei pēnei i te ngā mahi moepuku tantricKa taea e koe te whiriwhiri i te momo me te āhua o te mahi. Kaua e ngana ki te tinihanga i ahau mā te whiriwhiri i tētahi mea e pai ana ki a koe. Ā, ehara i te mea he pai, he kino rānei – engari he whakawhānui i ō kōrua tirohanga hei tokorua.
24. Mō te rā 24, kia aroha ki te tinana
Āe! Ko tāku tino pai mō ngā wero whanaungatanga ngahau ko te whakatairanga i te aroha. Mā te awhi i te rā ka ārai i te pouri. Nō reira, awhi, kihi, pā, papaki, me te mirimiri i tō hoa i te rā 24. Ka memeha haere ēnei pā iti i roto i te wā, ka noho hei mahi noa iho. He mea nui te whakaatu aroha me te aro nui ina mau tonu tō whanaungatanga i roto i te āhua tawhito.
25. He mahi māmā mō te rā 25: Kata tahi
Kei a koe te tikanga mō te kata tahi. He kiriata rorirori? He whakaaturanga pukuhohe tū motuhake? He ataata YouTube wairangi rānei? Kōwhiria tāu e kata ai i te pō. Kua whakarārangihia te pukuhohe hei te kounga whanaungatanga matua mō ngā tau maha; he iti noa ngā mea kāore e taea te whakatika mā te kata. Whakaohokia tō wairua me te whakakorikori i ō rara ki ēnei wero whanaungatanga ngahau!
26. Ka pai ake te wero whanaungatanga 30-rā – Kia haurangi ngātahi i te rā 26!
I mea a Honoré de Balzac, "Ka tīmata ngā hononga aroha nui ki te champagne..." Nō reira, mō āu 26th Hei mahi, me haurangi kōrua ko tō hoa. Kia inu i te kāinga i te pō (ka taea e koe te tākaro kēmu inu) me te haere rānei ki tētahi pae inu. Ka taea e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine tawhiti te mahi i tēnei mā te waea ataata. Tukua koe kia wātea ina tīmata te mahi makutu a ngā margarita. Ka noho ko koe tō āhua tūturu ina tīmata te waipiro.
27. Rā 27: Oma i waenganui pō mō te aihikirīmi
Anei tētahi o ngā wero whanaungatanga tino whakakatakata mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine. He mea ataahua te noho i waho i te pō – e rite ana koe ki te mea kei te tihi o te ao. Ā, he aha atu te mea hei whakapai ake i tēnei i tua atu i tō reka aihikirīmi tino pai? Haere ki tētahi pae kai reka, ki tētahi wharekai rānei, ka tiki i tētahi sundae reka. Ka waiho hei pō e kore e warewaretia, e ai ki taku oati.
28. Kua tae ki te rā 28 – kua tae ki te wā hei haere ki tētahi rā takirua
He tino oranga ngākau te noho tahi me ētahi atu tāne me ngā wāhine. Ngā rā takirua He pai ngā kōrerorero nā te mea he mea anō ētahi e mārama ana ki te hunga e noho tahi ana. He wāhi pai tēnei hei hono tahi. Mā tēnei hoki koe e whai wāhi tuatahi ai ki te whakataetae whanaungatanga 30-rā ki te whakawhanaunga tahi.
29. Tuhia he rārangi o ngā whāinga e hiahia ana kōrua kia tutuki ngātahi i te rā 29
Te āhua nei he hononga tata ngā rārangi me ngā wero whanaungatanga mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine. Engari mā te tirohanga whānui mō te heke mai ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakatutuki i ō hiahia. ngā kaupapa matua mō te whanaungatanga kua whakaritea. Ka taea e kōrua te mahi tahi ki taua whāinga, me te hanga i tētahi oranga tahi ina mārama te āhua o tō kōrua whakaaro. Tērā pea ētahi wāhi kāore kōrua e whakaae ana i a kōrua e hanga ana i te rārangi – te whakaae tahi me te whakarerekē.
30. Rā 30: Noho i te kāinga mō te rā katoa
Kei a koe te toenga, engari me noho kōrua ki te kāinga. Kia noho tahi kōrua mō te rā katoa (kāore e whakaaetia kia puta atu i waho ahakoa he wā poto). Ko te noho herehere i roto i te whare te mahi whakamutunga māu. Mō te hunga e whai ana i te wero whanaungatanga 30-rā mō te tawhiti, me noho ki te kāinga mā te waea ataata mō te rā. Ehara i te noho herehere i roto i te whare mēnā e aroha ana koe ki tō hoa herehere!
Kāore ianei ēnei mahi e rite ana ki tētahi mea e pai ana ki a koe te mahi tahi me tō hoa rangatira? Kua whakaarohia pea ēnei e koe i tētahi wā o tō oranga. Tangohia tēnei hei tohu mai i te ao whānui, ā, whakamahia. Ka taea e te wero whanaungatanga 30-rā te mahi whakamiharo mēnā ka tukuna e koe. Kia mahara ki te kōrero mai ki ahau me pēhea koe i roto i ngā kōrero i raro nei – aku mihi nui me te aroha nui.
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