"E mōhio ana ahau ki tēnei tangata e tino aroha ana ki taku hoa wahine, ā, e kite ana ahau kei te kaha tonu tana aroha ki a ia. Ka mea atu ahau ki taku hoa wahine kia kaua e kōrero ki a ia, engari kia puta mai he tangata whai mana, he wairangi hoki. Tēnā koa āwhina mai," te tuhituhi a tētahi kaipānui ki a Bonobology. I kī atu ā mātou tohunga ki a ia me tino tupato ia i a ia e pā ana ki tēnei āhuatanga uaua, ki te kore ka āhua rangatira ia, ā, ka tino whakahē ia i a ia. I kī te tohunga me ako ia ki te whakawhirinaki ki a ia mēnā kāore ia i kitea he taunakitanga pakari kia kaua e whakawhirinaki.
He mea noa te hae me te kore whakawhirinaki i roto i te whanaungatanga, engari ki tētahi taumata. Ina kōrero tō hoa wahine ki ētahi atu tāne, ka pū te hae o te nuinga, ā, kāore e mōhio me aha. Engari he mea noa te kōrero ki ētahi atu tāne i roto i te whanaungatanga.
Ehara i te mea rerekē te nuinga o ngā tāne ki te kī me te rongo i ngā mea pēnei i te "Ka hae ahau ina kōrero taku hoa wahine ki ētahi atu tāne!" me te "Me pēhea te whakawhirinaki ki taku hoa wahine i te taha o ētahi atu?" Ka tīmata ētahi ki te manukanuka ina haere atu tā rātou hoa wahine ki te taunekeneke ki ētahi atu tāne. Engari me pēhea te whakahaere i ēnei kare ā-roto? Tuatahi, me rapu tātou i te pūtake o ēnei kare ā-roto.
He aha ngā take o te koretake me te hae i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga?
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Ki te mea kei te whakaaro tonu koe "kei te kōrero nui taku hoa wahine ki tētahi atu tāne" ā, kei te āwangawanga koe mō tēnā, tera pea kei te ahu mai ō kare ā-roto i te koretake o te māia. Mēnā he raruraru tōu whakaaro ki a koe anō, ka waiho pea tō hoa wahine e kōrero ana ki tētahi hoa mahi tāne, ki tētahi hoa rānei, kia pātai noa koe mō tana whakapau kaha, ahakoa kāore he take mō tēnā.
Ko te whanaungatanga kei a koe ki a koe anō te mea e ārahi ana i ngā whanaungatanga kei a koe ki te hunga e karapoti ana i a koe. Ki te kore koe e tino mōhio ki a koe anō, ā, e raru ana koe i te kore haumaru, tera pea ka mutu koe ki te kī pēnei i te "kei te kōrero taku hoa wahine ki tētahi atu tāne i muri i ahau" ahakoa he karere kuputuhi noa iho ia ki tana hoa pai. He maha ngā take mō te kore haumaru me te hae i roto i te whanaungatanga. Tērā pea nā te mea:-
- Te mārama ki a koe anō: Kei te pāngia koe e te kore whakapono ki a koe anō me te iti o te whakaaro ki a koe anō
- Te tūponotanga ki te kore whakapono: I a koe e tipu ake ana, kua kite koe i te tinihanga i tō taha, ā-hinengaro rānei.
- He pai rawa atu kia pono: Kei te whakaaro koe he pai ake tō hoa i a koe, ā, ka ngaro atu ia i a koe ki tētahi atu
- Ngā whara o mua: Ka taea hoki e ngā mamae o mua pērā i te matenga o tētahi e arohaina ana te whakararu i a koe
- Paraitia te korenga: Tērā pea kua pāngia koe e tētahi hinganga tata nei, ā, kei te pātai koe i tōu tika hei hoa rangatira.
Ahakoa te take, kia maumahara me aro atu koe ki ngā kare ā-roto o te hae me te kore ā-pūmau i roto i te huarahi hauora. Ki te kore, ka kino pea tō whanaungatanga. Ka taea e ngā raruraru kei a koe ki a koe te puta ki roto i tō whanaungatanga, ka arahi atu ki tētahi whanaketanga kino.
Nō reira, ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe ki ngā mea pēnei i te "kei te kōrero nui taku hoa wahine ki tētahi atu tāne," whakaarohia mēnā ko tō hinengaro manukanuka anake te mea e moemoeā ana koe mō ngā moemoeā kino o te tinihangatia, mēnā rānei he āhuatanga kei roto i tana taunekeneke ki tēnei tāne e tika ana kia whakapaehia. He mahi pai tonu kia kaua e hohoro te whakatau, engari kia whakaaroarohia he aha te take o ō kare ā-roto.
Ka puta ake pea ngā tohu o te hae kino i roto i te whanaungatanga, me te mea kāore i te mōhiotia. I tētahi rā, tērā pea kua tino marino tō whanaungatanga, ā, i tētahi atu rā, ka huri ngā tāne katoa e kōrero ana ia ki a ia hei "tuma". Mā ngā whakaaro pēnei i te "e kōrero ana ia ki ētahi atu tāne i mua i ahau" ka nui haere tō manukanuka, ka puta ai he tautohetohe ki tō hoa wahine, he mea ngāwari noa iho te karo.
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Tērā pea he tangata whakawhitiwhiti kōrero noa iho tō hoa wahine, ā, e pai ana ki te kōrero ki ētahi atu tāne i a ia e kōrero ana ki ngā kōtiro. Tērā pea ka noho pōuri koe. Kāore he raruraru māu mō tana tino hoahoa ki ngā kōtiro, kāti he raruraru tana kōrero ki ngā tāne, e pātai ana koe ki a koe anō.
Tērā pea kei roto i tōu mahunga ngā pere whakatūpato katoa. He miriona ngā pātai e rere ana i roto i tōu hinengaro, ko ētahi o aua pātai e rite ana ki ēnei: Ka kōrero taku hoa wahine ki ētahi atu tāne i muri i ahau. Me riri ahau mēnā ka kōrero taku hoa wahine ki ētahi atu tāne? He aha rānei taku hoa wahine e kōrero ai mō ētahi atu tāne i mua i ahau? Ka hae ahau ina kōrero ia ki ētahi atu tāne. He hē te tono atu ki taku hoa wahine kia mutu tana kōrero ki tētahi? E pai ana ia ki ahau engari ka kōrero ki ētahi atu tāne!
Kua pā ki a tātou katoa. Kua tukua e tātou katoa taua whakapae poto kia hinga i a tātou, ka waiho i a tātou me ngā pātai maha atu i ngā whakautu. Hei te mutunga o tēnei tuhinga, ka whakautua ō pātai katoa, mehemea rānei me manukanuka koe, mehemea rānei kei te nui rawa ō whakaaro. Hei whakamarie i tō hinengaro, anei ētahi take e rima pea e kōrero ai tō hoa wahine ki ētahi atu tāne:
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1. Kei te ngana ia ki te mea i a koe kia hae
I ētahi wā, he mahi tinihanga noa iho te kōrero ki ētahi atu tāne hei kukume i tō aro . E hiahia ana rātou kia nui ake tō aro ki a rātou, ina koa mēnā kāore koe i te aro nui ki a ia mō ētahi take i ēnei rā. E hiahia ana rātou kia noho tonu koe ki a rātou. He rite tēnei ki te hinengaro whakamuri, engari kāore e kore he tohu o te tinihanga.
Ka whakahua noa ia i tētahi tāne e tuku karere ana ki a ia i te ata pai, e toro atu ana rānei ki a ia i tētahi pāti. Tērā pea ka ātaahua tana mahi ki tētahi tāne i a koe e noho tahi ana, me ērā atu mea. Akohia te kite i ēnei tohu, me te kite mēnā kei mua i a koe, kei mua rānei i a koe. Ka taea e koe te tono atu ki tētahi o ō hoa pono kia āwhina i a koe ki tēnei. I ētahi wā ka taea e rātou te hoatu he tirohanga whānui ki a koe mō te āhuatanga.
2. Kāore ia i te tino aroha ki a koe
Kāore pea tō hoa wahine i te tino pono ki a koe i roto i te whanaungatanga. Tērā pea kei te whakamahi ia i tō kōrua whanaungatanga hei huna i a ia kia kitea rā anō e ia tētahi atu, kāore rānei ia i te rite mō te herenga. He hoa tāne whakakapi noa iho pea koe ki a ia.
Ehara i te mea tino pai ki te whakarongo, ā, ehara rawa i te huarahi pai ki te mōhio kāore pea tō hoa wahine e tino aro ki a koe, engari i ētahi wā, heoi anō, ka pērā tonu. He pai rānei kia kōrero tō hoa wahine ki ētahi atu tāne? Ae, engari ki te mea kei te noho puku koe, ā, he nui ake tana kōrero ki ngā tāne i tana kōrero ki a koe, me tīmata pea koe ki te whakaaro ki ētahi mea.
Me tangi te pere whakatūpato ina mea koe, "He nui ake te kōrero a taku hoa wahine ki ētahi atu tāne i ahau." Mena koinā te āhua, he mea nui kia āwangawanga koe.
3. Kāore ia e whakaute i a koe
Whakaarohia kōrua e haere ana ki tētahi pāti, ā, ka waiho koe e ia kia takaro ki ētahi atu tāne. Kāore ia e aro ki te mea kei te pāti anō hoki koe. He tohu tēnei kāore ia e whakaute ana i a koe , ā, kāore tō aroaro i te nui ki a ia.
Ki te tupu tēnei i te wā kotahi, kāore he mea kāore e taea e te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero te whakaoti. Engari ki te pēnei te āhua o ngā huihuinga katoa, kāti kāore ia i te whakaute nui ki a koe, ā, me whakaaro koe ki tō kōrua whanaungatanga. I ētahi wā, tera pea ia e aroha pono ana ki a koe, ā, kāore e hiahia kia whara koe, engari ko te kore whakaute ka whara tonu koe.
4. E hiahia ana ia kia whai mana whakahaere i a koe
I ētahi wā, ka kōrero ngā hoa wahine ki ētahi atu tāne , ka takaro ki a rātou hei whakararuraru i a koe. E hiahia ana rātou kia noho pōuri koe, kia nui ake ai tō whakaaro ki a rātou. E hiahia ana ia kia nui ake tōna mana ki a koe mā te whakaoho i te wehi kei ngaro ia i a koe ki ētahi atu tāne. He rautaki whakahaere tawhito tēnei e whakamahia ana e ngā kōtiro ki ngā tāne.
I te nuinga o te wā, ka kitea tēnei i roto i ngā tāngata whakahihi. Tērā pea kei te hiahia rātou ki te whakahaere i ō mahi mā te pupuri i a koe kia manukanuka kei tangohia tō tūranga e ētahi atu tāne. Ina whakamahia ēnei momo rautaki tinihanga, kāore koe e manukanuka ki ngā mea pēnei i te "me pēhea te whakawhirinaki ki tō hoa wahine me ētahi atu tāne." Engari, whakaarohia he aha tāu e taea ai te mahi hei whakaora i a koe i ana mahi tinihanga, whakahaere.
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5. Kei roto i tōu mahunga
I ētahi wā ka nui rawa atu tā tātou whakaaro ki ngā mea, ā, ka pakaru te whanaungatanga . He tangata whakawhitiwhiti kōrero tō hoa wahine, ā, he pai ake tōna noho tahi me ngā tāne. Kāore pea ia i te tangata e pai ana ki te kōtiro. He āhua noa iho pea tōna. Inaa, koinei pea te āhua o te nuinga o ēnei āhuatanga. Engari, kāore pea koe e mōhio he kore kino āna taunekeneke ki ētahi atu tāne, nā te mea kāore e taea e te hinengaro manukanuka te whakaaro ki tētahi mea engari ko te āhuatanga kino rawa atu.
Me tino mōhio koe ko te tāne e kōrero ana ia ki a ia he hoa aroha pea, ā, e kite ana ia i a ia hei hoa aroha, tika? Me whakamahara koe ki a koe anō koinā tō whakaaro, ehara i te mea ko tāna e whakaaro ana. Ko tētahi mea whakamere mō tēnei whakatupuranga mano tau, ka taea e rātou te noho hei hoa piripono ki ngā tāngata o te ira tangata kē, me te kore e rongo i te aroha, i tētahi atu kare ā-roto aroha rānei. Me ako koe ki te whai whakapono.
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He mea nui kia kaua e tukua tō hae me tō māharahara kia hinga i a koe, me wikitoria e koe tō māharahara . Ki te hiahia koe ki te mahi i tētahi mea mō tō hoa wahine e kōrero ana ki ētahi atu tāne, me noho marino koe i te tuatahi, me te whakahaere i taua mea me te whakaaro nui.
Ki te kore koe e pena, ka huri pea koe hei hoa rangatira rawa, ā, ka huri pea tēnei hae hei āwangawanga nui. I mua i tō mōhio, tera pea kei te manukanuka noa koe mō te "kei te kōrero taku hoa wahine ki tētahi atu tāne i muri i ahau" i te mea kei te tuku karere noa ia ki tētahi hoa mahi hei whakakapi i tana mahi, kia roa ake ai tōna wā ki a koe. Kaua e rite ki te tangata e whaiwhai ana i ngā ingoa pāpāho pāpori a tana hoa wahine i te rā katoa, e tātari nui ana i ngā "like" me ngā kōrero katoa e puta mai ana i tētahi hoa tāne.
Nā, me pēhea e mōhio ai koe mēnā kei te takaro tō hoa wahine ki tētahi atu tāne? Me aha koe ina kōrero tō hoa wahine ki ētahi atu tāne? E 10 ā mātou mea.
1. Whakaaetia ō kare ā-roto
Ko te taahiraa tuatahi ko te hohou i te rongo ki ō kare ā-roto. Kaua e karo i te hae, kaua hoki e huna. He mea noa te hae i ētahi wā. Whakaaetia ō kare ā-roto, ā, me kī atu ki tō hoa wahine kei te hae koe, kei te kore arohia hoki ina kōrero ia ki tētahi atu tāne. I te tuatahi, tera pea ka titiro mai ia ki a koe me te karanga, "He aha te he o koe?"
Engari, ki te taea e koe te whakapuaki pai ake i ō kare ā-roto, ka mārama hoki ia ki tō āhua. Whakaarohia ko tēhea te mea pai ake, te tūpato i muri i a ia, te kōrero rānei i ō kare ā-roto kia taea ai te whakatau? He tino hoha te whakapau i tō wā katoa ki ana pāpāho pāpori, ā, ka raru pea tō hauora hinengaro.
2. Mā te riri koe e noho ko koe anake i te Rā o Valentine e whai ake nei
Kaua e hohoro te whakatau kei te tinihanga tō hoa wahine i a koe, ka tīmata ki te whakapae i a ia mō tēnā. Whakaarohia me te māhunga marino ahakoa kei te ngangau ō kare ā-roto. Ki te riri koe i te wā tonu ka tangohia mai e tō hoa wahine tana waea, me te whakaaro kei te tuku karere ia ki tētahi tāne, ka puta ake he riri koretake, ā, ka roa pea te wā e memeha ai tō riri.
Kia marino, e te heramana. Tērā pea ko te kaimahi tuku taonga o te UPS kua ngaro rawa atu, e pātai ana ki a ia mō ngā tohutohu. Ina kei te rere tonu te whakaaro "kei te kōrero nui taku hoa wahine ki tētahi atu tāne" i roto i tō hinengaro, ko te kaimahi o te UPS pea tō hoariri matua.
Ki te hiahia koe ki te tū atu ki a ia, me mahi mārire, mā te pātai atu ki a ia, kaua e whakapae. Whakaaturia ō āwangawanga, ā, tukua ia kia kōrero. Whakarongo ki a ia me te manawanui, me te ngākau tuwhera. Kia maumahara kei te ngana koe ki te whakanui ake i ngā raruraru o tō whanaungatanga, kaua e whakakino ake.
3. Kaua e mutu te whakapono ki tō whanaungatanga
Kaua e manukanuka ki ētahi atu tāne i roto i tōna ao, engari me arotahi koe ki tō whanaungatanga ki a ia. Mā te arotahi ki ētahi atu tāngata ka tawhiti atu koe i a ia. Kia nui ake tō aro ki a ia , kia tiakina hoki ia pērā i mua. Whakaaetia ō kare ā-roto engari kaua e tukua kia whakararu i tō aroha ki a ia. Ahakoa he "he maha ngā kōrero a taku hoa wahine ki tētahi atu tāne" kei te awangawanga tonu koe, ehara i te mea me whakarērea rawatia e koe te whanaungatanga.
Kia ngahau tonu tō kōrua whanaungatanga. Me mahi ngā mea hei whakahari i a ia mā te hoatu ohorere ki a ia. Me kōrero hōhonu. Hangaia he turanga pakari ake. Ahakoa kei te tuku karere pea ia ki ētahi atu tāne hei tirotiro i ngā hoa aroha pea, whakaaturia ki a ia ko tana hoa rangatira tēnei wā.
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4. Waihoki, kaua e mutu te whakapono ki a koe anō
E ai ki te kōrero i mua ake nei, ko te nuinga o te hae me te kore māia ka puta mai i te iti o te whakaaro ki a koe anō. Tērā pea kei te pēnei koe nā te mea kei te whakaaro koe he nui ake te pūkenga me te ataahua o tō hoa i a koe. He pai ki te whai i ēnei whakaaro nā te mea he mea noa iho engari kaua e tukua kia whakahaere i a koe.
Kia ara ake tō kauae, he nui atu ngā mea ka kawea mai e koe ki te tēpu i tō whakaaro. Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te whakawhirinaki ki tō hoa wahine me ētahi atu tāne, ko te whakautu kei roto i te whakapai ake i a koe kia tae atu ki te wāhi e koa ai koe ki te tangata ko koe tonu. Ina whakapono koe ki a koe anō, ka māmā ake te kite he aha i whakapono ai tō hoa wahine ki a koe me te take e hiahia ana ia kia noho tahi me koe.
Kia maumahara, i whiriwhiria koe e tō hoa rangatira i runga ake i aua tāne ataahua katoa i whai i a ia. Nā te mea e aroha ana ia ki a koe, e hiahia ana hoki kia noho tahi kōrua. Whakapono ki a koe anō, me te whakawhirinaki ki tō kōrua whanaungatanga.
5. Kaua e ngana ki te whakahaere i a ia mēnā ka kōrero tō hoa wahine ki ētahi atu tāne
Ki te mea kei te kōrero ia ki ētahi atu tāne, kaua e ngana ki te kī atu kia mutu tana kōrero ki a rātou. E mōhio ana ia ki ōna rohe. Mā te ngana ki te whakahaere i ana mahi ka waiho koe hei tangata kino, ā, ka ngaro tōna whakaute ki a koe. Hei tāpiri, ki te takaro ia me te moepuku ki ētahi atu tāne ahakoa e mōhio ana ia ki te nui o te mamae ka pā ki a koe, he pai tana mahi ki a koe mā te kī atu ehara ia i te tangata e tika ana kia whakapaua e koe tō wā me tō whakawhirinaki atu.
Mā te whakahaere i a ia, ka whakaatu noa koe i a koe anō he hoa tāne pukuriri. Kaua e pērā. He āhua tō ia tangata. Ki te mea he tangata noho tahi ia, whakaaetia ia me tōna āhua. Kaua e kī atu ki a ia he aha te mea hei mahi me pēhea te kōrero. Ka whakakāhore i a ia.
I aroha koe ki te tangata i tūtaki koe, ehara i te tangata e hiahia ana koe kia huri ia hei tangata e ai ki ō hiahia me ō hiahia. Kaua e ngana ki te whakarerekē i a ia, he takahi anō hoki i tōna tūmataitinga. Hoatu he rongo ki te ao tūturu "kei te kōrero taku hoa wahine ki tētahi atu tāne i muri i ahau". Ki te pono ia, e kore ia e whara i a koe.
6. Ngāna kia mārama ki ō kare ā-roto
He mea nui kia mārama koe, kia tautuhia hoki te take e hae ai koe , e kino ai rānei koe ina kōrero tō hoa wahine ki ētahi atu tāne. Whakaarohia ngā wā i pōuri ai koe, ā, kia mārama hoki ko ēhea ngā wāhanga i tino pā ki a koe. Ki te kōrero tō hoa wahine ki ētahi atu tāne i muri i a koe, ā, kāore e kōrero ana ki a koe mō taua mea, he tika tōu kia mamae, kia manukanuka hoki.
Engari ki te mea kei te mahi ia i tēnei mea i runga i te ngākau nui, tera pea nā te mea e mōhio ana ia kei te whakawhirinaki koe ki a ia, ā, ka taea e ia te noho ko ia tonu i tō aroaro. Pātai atu ki a koe anō, ko ēhea ngā wāhanga e tino pāngia ana koe, me te ngana ki te mārama ki te take o tō hae. Kāore pea mōna, engari mō tētahi mea e pā ana ki a koe me ō whanaungatanga o mua.
7. Ngāna kia taurite tō oranga
I ētahi wā, ka tino uru atu ngā hoa ki roto i tā rātou whanaungatanga, ā, kāore he oranga i waho atu i tō rātou whanaungatanga. Kua taunga rātou ki te mahi tahi me tā rātou hoa, tae atu ki ngā mea iti pēnei i te horoi kakahu tahi. Ka pakaru ngā whanaungatanga i te whanonga piripono . He mea nui kia whai oranga anō koe i roto i tō whanaungatanga. Kia maumahara ko wai koe i mua i te whanaungatanga. Whaia ō mahi whakangahau. Haere tahi me ētahi atu hoa. Mā tēnei ka āwhina i te whakaiti i tō koretake.
8. Whakatakotoria koe ki te wāhi o tō hoa wahine
Whakaarohia ngā take i ārahi ai tō hoa wahine ki te kōrero ki ētahi atu tāne. Tērā pea kāore te tirohanga a tō hoa wahine i te rite ki tā tō hoa wahine. Whakaarohia te tirohanga a tō hoa wahine ki te āhuatanga. Hei tauira, ki te kōrero tō hoa wahine ki tana hoa o mua , tera pea kei te whakaaro koe kei te hiahia ia ki te hoki ki a ia. Engari ki te mea he hoa tonu ia māna, tera pea kei reira noa ia hei hoa mōna.
9. Noho i tenei wa
Tērā pea i ngā tīmatanga o te whanaungatanga kāore tō hoa wahine i tino mōhio ki ōna kare ā-roto, ā, ka tīmata ia ki te takaro ki ētahi atu tāne. I te whanaketanga o te whanaungatanga, tērā pea kua tino mōhio ia ki tōna heke mai me koe, ā, kua mutu tana waiho i ana kōwhiringa kia tuwhera.
Whakaaetia, ā, whakaaetia taua huringa. Mā tēnei koe e kite ai ko ngā āwangawanga o mua pea te take o tō āhua o nāianei. Kaua e whakahua i ngā mea o mua hei whakamārama i ngā mataku o nāianei. Kua rerekē tō hoa wahine ināianei. Whakawhirinaki ki a ia. Kōrero ki a ia mō taua mea, kaua e whakaaro he tangata tinihanga ia.
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10. Kōrero ki a ia mēnā kei te kōrero tō hoa wahine ki ētahi atu tāne
Ko te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero te kī ki tētahi whanaungatanga hauora. Ki te kore koe e pai ki te kōrero a tō hoa wahine ki ētahi atu tāne, kōrero atu ki a ia mō taua mea. Kōrerotia ki a ia te take e pā nui ana ki a koe, me ō kare ā-roto. Ka mārama tō hoa wahine, ā, ka tīmata ki te aro nui atu ki a koe. I ētahi wā, he nui ngā mea ngāwari pēnei i te kōrero pono hei whakaoti i tētahi raruraru pēnei.
Ko te mea nui ko te whakawhirinaki ki tō hoa wahine, me te hanga i tētahi turanga pakari. Tērā pea kāore he tikanga o aua tāne. Kaua e tīmata ki te tirotiro, nā te mea ka pakaru tō whanaungatanga ina kitea e ia. Kia aro ki tō hoa wahine, kia arotahi ki te whakapai ake i te hauora o te whanaungatanga, kaua e whakaaro ki ngā tāne e kōrero ana ia ki a koe. Whakawhirinaki ki a koe anō me tō whanaungatanga.
Te mate o te aroha i patua e te hae, kāore nei i taea e te mahere, e te tawhiti rānei
He aha i nui ake ai te hiranga o ngā pakanga i ngā whanaungatanga?
Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
I tūtaki ahau ki tētahi hoa wahine i taku kāreti hou, ā, ka piri tahi māua, engari i taku whakapuakitanga i taku hiahia ki a ia, ka whakakitea e ia kei roto ia i tētahi hononga, ā, kei te whakaaro ia ki te marena i tana hoa tāne. He pakeke ake tana hoa tāne, ā, e hiahia ana tōna whānau ki tētahi marena wawe, kāore ia i te tino mōhio ka marena wawe ia. Ka kōrero ia ki ahau me tana hoa tāne i ia rā, engari he onge te tūtaki ki a ia nā te tawhiti. Ka hae ahau ina kōrero ia ki ētahi atu tama. Kua tono ahau ki a ia kia kaua e kōrero ki ētahi tāne, engari ka haere tonu ia. Ka kōrero mai ia i ngā mea whaiaro ki ahau, engari kua rerekē tana whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, ā, kāore ia e tuku karere tuatahi. Me aha ahau? Kua kōrero kē ahau ki a ia i taku ngākau, ā, mēnā kei te piripono ia ki tētahi, he aha ia ka kōrero tonu mai ai ki ahau me te mea e hiahia ana ia ki ahau engari e kī ana kāore ia e hiahia kia ngaro ahau hei hoa.
Me āwhina tonu ahau e hoa mā.
Kei te kōrero kino taku hoa wahine ki ētahi atu tāne i muri i ahau. Kāore au e kī ana kei te tinihanga ia, kei te pērā rānei. Engari he mamae noa iho te kite i aua kōrerorero katoa.
@COLLINS Whakarērea ia, ki te kōrero kino ia ki ētahi atu tāne, kei te whakaatu ia ki a koe ehara ia i te wahine tika, whakarērea tōna tuakana. Kia ora koe.
Kāore ia e mārama ki ōku kare ā-roto, ā, kāore au e hiahia ki te karo i a ia. Me aha ahau? :(
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