He aha te uaua o te whakaipoipo? Ngā take 10 me pēhea te whakatau i aua take

Porohia te aroha

A tuhinga TIME e mea ana, "Ko te tikanga o te whakaipoipo hou ko te ako me pēhea te noho humarie i roto i te kore whakamarie." Ā, he tika rawa. Engari he aha te uaua o te whakaipoipo i ēnei rā? Kei roto pea i te huarahi e whakatata atu ai tātou ki te whakaipoipo te whakautu: he kēmu swipe mutunga kore, ā, muri iho ka whai i ngā kōrerorero koretake, kātahi ka whai i te horopaki 'tō wāhi, tōku wāhi rānei'. Whakahokia tēnei huringa kia roa, ā, kāore he mea miharo ka tīmata te whakaipoipo ki te ahua he mahi hoha anō kei runga i tō rārangi mahi.

Ko te pātai, nā te aha tātou i tae mai ai ki konei? I roto i tēnei tuhinga, ka ruku hohonu tātou ki ngā take o te whakaipoipo o ēnei rā. Me ngā māramatanga whai hua mai i te kaitohutohu whanaungatanga Dhriti Bhavsar (M.Sc, Hinengaro Hauora), he tohunga ki te whanaungatanga, te wehenga, me te kaiārahi LGBTQ, me tūhura tātou he aha te take e piki haere ai te whakaaro o te tangata he kino te whakaipoipo ipurangi, me te kimi huarahi hei whakatau i te take.

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Kua hoha koe ki te huri haere i te taha maui me te taha matau i ia rā? Kei te whakaaro koe kāore he waimarie ki te whakaipoipo ipurangi? Kei te pātai tonu koe ki a koe anō, "He aha te uaua o te whakaipoipo ipurangi?" E ai ki tētahi ako 2022 I te US, e 4 i roto i te 5 o ngā kaiwhakautu i kī i pāngia rātou e te ngenge o ngā kare ā-roto i a rātou e whakaipoipo ana i runga ipurangi. Ā, tāpirihia atu ki tēnā te koretake, te kore o ngā kare ā-roto, te ia o te whakaipoipo i te tini o ngā tāngata i te wā kotahi e haere tahi ana me te whakaipoipo hou, ā, kua puta he tohu mō te aituā. Koinei te take he uaua rawa te whakaipoipo i ēnei rā.

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Mark Manson, te kaituhi hokohoko pai rawa atu o te New York Times Te Toi Maamaa o te Kore e hoatu he F*ck, e kī ana, "He rerekē i te tākaro piano, i te ako rānei i tētahi reo, he mea herea rawatia ō tātou oranga whakaipoipo me te oranga moepuku ki ō tātou hiahia kare ā-roto, ā, ina uru tātou ki ngā āhuatanga moepuku, ka pāngia ēnei wheako e ō tātou whara o mua, ka puta ai te manukanuka, te manukanuka, te ahotea me te mamae." He whakautu tika tēnei ki te pātai, he aha te uaua o te whakaipoipo?

Hei tūhura i te mamae o te ngākau i roto i te hononga hurihuri, me titiro tātou ki ngā take tekau e uaua ai te whakaipoipo:

1. He whakaaturanga

Ki te kore e tino tūturu (pērā i te kitenga o tō hoa wahine i a koe i roto i te whare pukapuka o te kāreti, i te wharekai rānei, me te whai i a koe mō ngā rā), tera pea te ahua o te whakaipoipo he mahi whakaari noa iho. E kī ana a Dhriti, "Nā te mea e mōhio ana koe kei te arotakehia ngā mea katoa e kōrerohia ana e koe, e mahia ana rānei e koe. He mea whakamataku."

I a ia e whakamārama ana i te take i ngenge ai ia ki te whakaipoipo, e kī ana a Alice, he tohunga HR 28-tau te pakeke, "He rite ki te whakaari noa iho, ā, te āhua nei ka riria ahau mēnā ka hinga ahau. He mahi nui te whakakakahu i ō kākahu pai rawa atu, me te whakaatu i tō āhua pai rawa atu, i te mea e mōhio ana koe kei te huna e koe ō hapa, ka kitea i tētahi wā." Teití Online "He kino rawa."

2. Te horopaki o te kaha nui–te iti o te tumanako

He aha te uaua o te whakaipoipo ipurangi i ēnei rā? Kei te kite koe, he nui te kaha e hiahiatia ana mō te whakaipoipo, i ngā wā tōmua rānei. He nui te wā e pau ana i te tangata ki te whakawhanaunga tetahi ki tetahi, ki te waea atu, ki te tuku karere rānei tetahi ki tetahi, ki te rapu i ngā kaute pāpāho pāpori a tetahi, engari ka tūtaki noa ki te koretake mō te ahunga whakamua o te hononga.

E kī ana a Dhriti, "I ēnei rā, he mea noa te kite a te tangata i te tini o ngā tāngata. Ka hoha pea te aro ki te tae tino pai o te tangata nama 3, ā muri iho i tētahi wā." Tērā pea ka kitea e koe anō te āwangawanga mō te mutunga o te whanaungatanga ina mōhio koe kei te kite te tangata e piri tahi ana koe i ētahi atu tāngata. Ka puta he taumahatanga hinengaro koretake.

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3. Ka taea e ia te tango i tō pūngao

He uaua te whakaipoipo i tēnei wā nā te mea he maha ngā huarahi hei whakapā atu ki a tātou (ngā karere kuputuhi, ngā waea ataata, ngā tuhipoka reo, me ētahi atu), ka tere pea koe te taumaha. Nā te pukumahi o tō mahi, ka ngaro pea i a koe tētahi waea kua whakaritea i mua i te pō, ka mutu rānei me mahi koe i tētahi mea. whakakore i tētahi rā, ā, i roto i te tukanga, ka whakapataritari i a rātou. He nui te kaha me te whakapau kaha e hiahiatia ana hei whakahou i te riri. Ā, te āhua nei kāore he mutunga o tēnei huringa.

E whakamārama ana a Dhriti, "He tino uaua kē te noho tahi me tātou. Hei tāpiri, ko te pēhanga tāpiri kia whakapā atu i ngā wā katoa ka arai pea i a tātou ki te whakaipoipo i te huarahi e pai ai tātou ki te mahi. He maha ngā wā, ahakoa he wā tōu mō te whakaipoipo, kāore noa iho i a koe te kaha."

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4. Te ia o ngā hononga me ngā whanaungatanga poto

Ko te āhua rangitahi o ngā whanaungatanga tētahi o ngā whakautu ki te pātai, "He aha te uaua o te whakaipoipo tuihono?" I tēnei ao o ngā kōwhiringa maha e wātea ana mā te pāwhiri noa i te pātene, he tere te hopu i te hoa e whai ake nei, ā, he uaua ki te kimi i te pumau.

Kei te poto haere te roa o tō tātou aro, ā, koinei te mea e akiaki ana i te nuinga o tātou ki te uru atu ki ngā whakaritenga whakaipoipo poto hei whakatutuki i ō tātou hiahia o nāianei. Kei te piki haere te whiriwhiri a te tangata i ngā hononga me ngā hononga. ngā whanaungatanga kore here hei whakakī i te āputa o te hoa, nā te mea rānei he nui te mahi e hiahiatia ana hei piripono ki tētahi.

E whakamārama ana a Dhriti, "Kua rerekē ngā tirohanga a te tangata ki te whakapau kaha me ngā whanaungatanga. He maha ngā tāngata e karo ana i ngā tapanga, ā, ka tāpirihia he paparanga uaua ki te ranunga."

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5. Nga tumanakohanga kore

He aha te uaua o te whakaipoipo, e pātai ana koe? Nā te mea he tino teitei rawa ā tātou tumanakohanga. Nā te pāpāho pāpori tātou i whakapono ai he rite noa ngā whanaungatanga ki ngā rīpene kanapa, e kai ana te tangata i ngā wharekai papai, e hararei ana rānei i ngā wāhi tauhou. Nō reira, ko ngā mea katoa e kore e eke ki te taumata tiketike me te te tumanako kore ka noho hoha, ā, kāore anō tātou kia rite ki te urutau.

E kī ana a Dhriti, "He nui rawa tō mātou hiahia ki te kī i tētahi mea kāore mātou e pai ki tētahi he haki whero. I rongo ahau i tētahi e kī ana "I mau ia i ngā kākahu chinos ki tā mātou rā, ā, he haki whero tēnā". He mea whakakatakata tēnei. He pai te whai i ngā manakohanga, engari i ētahi wā, kāore mātou e waiho noa i reira. Te āhua nei kua waihangahia e mātou tēnei whakaaro katoa kāore e taea te whakatutuki mō te tangata tino tika."

6. Te wehi o te paopao

Ahakoa he whara o mua, he raruraru hinengaro rānei kāore anō kia ora, he tokomaha te hunga e tino pāngia ana e te wehi kei whakakahoretia i roto i ngā whanaungatanga. Nō reira, ka mutu tā rātou whakaipoipo engari kāore i te tino pai, ā, ka whakatau rātou ki te whakarere i te tangata i whakaipoipohia e rātou. He 2023 ako i whakamāramahia ko te aro nui ki te whakakorenga ka mamae te tangata i ngā "taumata iti o te makona ki te whanaungatanga me te piripono o te whanaungatanga."

I ēnei rā, he mea noa te kite i te tini o te tangata. Ka hoha pea te whakaaro ko wai te tae tino pai o te tangata nama 3, ā, i muri i tētahi wā.
– Dhriti Bhavsar

Nā tēnei ka uru atu rātou ki ngā whanonga moepuku mōrearea, me te kore e uru ki ngā uauatanga o ngā whanaungatanga. E whakamārama ana a Dhriti, "He rerekē te whakaipoipo i nāianei, me ōna uauatanga katoa. Mā te wehi kei whakakahoretia ka uaua ake ngā mea."

Te kōrero mō te wehi o te whakakorenga me tōna pānga ki te oranga whakaipoipo, he Reddit kaiwhakamahi e kī ana, "He 27M ahau, ā, kua tata ki te rua tau ahau e takakau ana. Whai muri i te toru tau o te whanaungatanga, mō te tau pea kua ngana ahau ki te uru atu ki te ao whakaipoipo ipurangi. I taua wā, he iti noa iho taku waimarie ki te kimi hoa, ki te pupuri rānei i tētahi kōrero ina whiwhi ahau i tētahi hoa. Kua whakaarohia e au te ngana ki te takaro ki ngā wāhine e kitea ana e au he tino whakamere/ātaahua i te ao whānui, ahakoa kāore i a au te māia, ā, kāore au e hiahia ki te puta he whakamataku, ka whakararuraru i tētahi."

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7. Ngā take whakawhirinaki

Ko tētahi o ngā whakautu ki te pātai, he aha te uaua o te whakaipoipo?, ko te kore e taea e te tangata te whakawhirinaki tetahi ki tetahi. E kī ana a Dhriti, "Ki te mea kei te kawe koe i ngā tueke mai i hononga o mua"pēnei i te uaua ki te whakawhirinaki ki tētahi, kāore pea koe i tino wareware ki tō hoa o mua. Mā tēnei ka uaua ake tō oranga whakaipoipo." Pēnei te mahi:

Tērā pea ka whakapae koe i a rātou ina haere tahi rātou me ō rātou hoa
Tērā pea ka piri rawa koe, ka waea atu, ka tuku karere rānei ki a rātou i te ao katoa.
Tērā pea ka whakaarohia e koe te āhuatanga kino rawa atu ina wareware rātou ki te tuku karere, ki te waea atu rānei nā tetahi take.

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8. Hototahi

Kua huri te ariā o te hototahitanga hei kata noa iho i runga i ngā taupānga whakaipoipo. He rerekē ngā whakamāramatanga a te tangata mō te hototahitanga, ā, i ētahi wā, he tino koretake aua whakamāramatanga.

Kāore koe i te mōhio ki tētahi mea mō te anime? Kāore anō kia mātaki i tētahi wāhanga o Game o nga toronaĀe, tera pea kei te whakahengia koe, kei te whakakahoretia hoki i te tīmatanga tonu. E kī ana a Dhriti, "He uaua te kimi i te hototahitanga, ina koa ka whakaarohia he tokomaha te hunga e tiaki ana i te whakaipoipo, kāore e tuwhera ki te huringa."

I pāngia taku whanaunga, a Andrea, e tētahi wheako ōrite. I kīia ki a ia e tana hoa kāore rāua i te hototahi nā te mea he kaiwhenua ia, ā, ehara tana hoa i te kaiwhenua. "Kāore he hua o ngā pae whakaipoipo. He tino mamae te whakakorenga i te tīmatanga mō tētahi mea iti noa iho. He aha rawa ngā mea e hiahiatia ana e te tangata i ēnei rā? He aha te uaua o te whakaipoipo ipurangi?", i whakaaro ia.

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9. Te kore e pai ki te haumi i roto i te hinengaro

E kī ana a Dhriti, "Tērā pea kua ngenge rawa ētahi tāngata, kua pau te kaha, kua ngenge rānei mō tētahi momo haumitanga kare ā-roto. He mea nui kia tirohia koe i roto i ō kare ā-roto i mua i te peke atu ki te puna whakaipoipo."

I tino harikoa a Linda, he kaiwhakapai makawe 25-tau te pakeke, i tana kitenga i tētahi hoa aroha pōuriuri me tētahi tāne i hono atu ia ki tētahi taupānga whakaipoipo. "I roto noa i ngā marama torutoru o te whakaipoipo, koia te āhua. I waea mai ia, i tuku karere kuputuhi hoki i te roanga o te rā. I waiata mai ia ki ahau, ā, i whakarite i ngā rā whakaipoipo ataahua." Kātahi, i tētahi rā pai, ka kī ohorere mai ia ki a ia kāore ia e hiahia ki te whakaroa i te whanaungatanga.

I tino pōuri a Linda. E rua marama te roa o tana ora mai i tēnei mamae ohorere rawa atu ā, kua oati ia e kore rawa e piri wawe anō ki tētahi whakaipoipo tuihono.

10. Te wehi kei ngoikore

He aha te uaua o te whakaipoipo ipurangi? Ko tētahi atu whakamārama mō tēnei raruraru ko te uaua o te tangata ki te whakaatu i tō rātou taha ngoikore. Ko te tikanga o te ngoikore ko te whakaatu i tō taha ngawari, te tuku i te tangata ke kia kite i ō wehi me ō āwangawanga, te whakapuaki i ngā mamae o mua, te kōrero i ngā mea ngaro kāore i te mōhiotia e tētahi atu. He uaua pea te whakapuaki i ō whakaaro ki tētahi i tēnei ara ina taunekeneke koe me tētahi tangata tauhou mā te mata, ā, kāore he huarahi ki te mōhio he aha rātou.

Ka taea e tō kaitiaki te whakanui ake, ka kaha ake te kaha ki te hinga i ngā wheako kino katoa o te ao whakaipoipo ipurangi. E kī ana a Dhriti, "Ko ētahi tāngata he mataku noa ki te whakatuwhera i ō rātou whakaaro, ki te whakaraerae rānei. He huarahi rua te mōhio ki tētahi, ā, ki te ātete koe i ā rātou ngana ki te mōhio ki a koe, ka rite te whakaipoipo ki tētahi papa pakanga. I roto i ēnei āhuatanga, me whakatenatena i tō hoa kia noho ngoikore. "

Me pēhea te wikitoria i ngā wero o te whakaipoipo

Nā, kua oti i a tātou te whakautu i te pātai, he aha te uaua o te whakaipoipo i ēnei rā?, me mārama hoki tātou ki ngā mea ka taea te mahi hei wikitoria i ēnei wero, hei kimi hoki i tētahi huarahi hei whakatere angitu i te ao whakaipoipo.

Te whakamārama me pēhea te whakatau ki te whakahaere i ngā wero o te whakaipoipo, he Reddit kaiwhakamahi e kī ana, "Kua whakatau ahau ki te whakamutu i ngā taupānga whakaipoipo mō tētahi wā, kia arotahi ki te kōrero ki tētahi tangata i ia wā, kaua e takaro ki a rātou, ā, kia noho ko au te tangata tino hapa, te tangata pono mai i te tīmatanga."

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E whakaae ana mātou mā te noho ko koe anō ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakatau i ngā take maha e pāngia ana e te whakaipoipo o ēnei rā. Heoi, ehara i te mea ngāwari te wawahi i te tauira kua whakatakotoria e koe, me te awhi i te pono. He maha ngā tāngata ka uaua ki te mōhio he aha te tikanga o tō rātou pono. Hei āwhina i a koe ki te wikitoria i tēnei arai, e rima ngā tohutohu a Dhriti hei āwhina i a koe ki te wikitoria i ngā wero whakaipoipo o ēnei rā:

1. Kia mohio koe ki a koe ano

I mua i tō haerenga ki te ao whakaipoipo, kia mōhio koe ki a koe anō, kia mārama hoki ki tāu e rapu nei mai i tēnei wheako. Kia oti tēnā, ka māmā ake te aro atu ki ngā wero whakaipoipo. E taunaki ana a Dhriti i ēnei huarahi hei mōhio ake, hei mārama ake hoki ki a koe anō:

Tirohia koe anō, tirohia te āhua o tō āhua kare ā-roto
Kia mārama ngā whakautu mō te take e hiahia ana koe ki te whakaipoipo. He mea hei whakatutuki i te hiahia moepuku, he mea rānei mō te wā roa, ā, he whai tikanga hoki?
Kia mārama, kāore he take e tino papaku rawa, e kore rānei e whai mana. Kāore he aha te tūhura i te ao o te whakaipoipo ipurangi nā te mea he hiahia noa iho tōu.

2. Kaua e tango i ngā whakakorenga ki a koe anō

Kua whakaaro kē koe kāore he hua o ngā pae whakaipoipo nā te mea kāore te tangata e whai kawenga mō ā rātou mahi i runga i aua taupānga? Nā te mea, kua pāngia tātou katoa e te wairua huna. Ahakoa kāore e kore he uaua ngā whakakorenga, he rite tonu hoki ki te huarahi o tō haerenga whakaipoipo. Nō reira, me pēhea e whakatau ai koe i tēnei? E kī ana a Dhriti, "Kaua e tukua ngā whakakorenga kia whakararu i a koe. Pērā i te kore e pai ki te katoa e hono atu ana koe ki tētahi taupānga whakaipoipo, kāore te katoa e pai ki a koe, ā, he pai tēnā."

Kei raro nei ētahi huarahi hei whakahaere pai ake i te whakakorenga:

Arotahi ki a koe anō: Whakaarohia te whakakorenga hei tohu kāore kōrua i te tika mō te wā roa
Tapahia te whakapā atu mēnā ka pai ake tō wairua: He maha ngā wā, mā te tuku karere/kōrero ki ngā hoa taumau ahakoa kua whakakahoretia koe e rātou, ka ārai pea i a koe kei neke whakamua.
Whakatutuki i te tūponotanga o te wairua i runga i te whakaaro pakeke: Ki te mea kei a koe kua whakamātauria, whakautua atu me te pakeke whakaarohia pēnei: e whakaata ana i tō rātou kore e taea te kōrero pono ki a koe, ā, e whakaatu ana hoki kāore i a rātou ngā tikanga taketake mō te whakaipoipo.

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3. Whakamaherehia ngā rā ngahau, ngā rā rerekē hoki

E kī ana a Dhriti, "Whakamaherehia ngā rā e tino pārekareka ana ki a koe, kaua ko ō kai tina me ngā rā kawhe noa iho. Ahakoa he mea ngahau hoki ēnā, mā te whiriwhiri i tētahi mahi e pai ana ki a koe me te tangata e hiahia ana koe, ka māmā ake te hononga ki a rātou." Anei ētahi mea whakamiharo hoatu whakaaro koe:

He rā tirotiro whetu i te puni
He rā hikoi
He rā i te toa pukapuka, e kōrero ana mō āu pukapuka tino pai, e hoko ana hoki i ētahi

Pērā i tō kore e pai ki te hunga katoa e hono atu ana koe i runga i tētahi taupānga whakaipoipo, e kore hoki te katoa e pai ki a koe, ā, he pai tēnā.
– Dhriti Bhavsar

4. Kia pono

E kī ana a Dhriti, "He rite te whakaipoipo inaianei ki te whare tapere. Ko te whakaaturanga katoa e pā ana ki te whakaipoipo te wāhanga tino hoha." Ko te huarahi māmā ki te whakatau i tēnei ko te wehe atu i te ia o te whakaari, engari kia pono. Ahakoa pēhea, kāore he painga o te whakaari i a koe anō ehara i a koe. Ā tōna wā, ka tiaho mai tō āhua tūturu, ā, ki te kore e rite ki te whakaaro o te tangata kē mō tētahi hoa, ka whakatakoto koe i a koe anō—me rātou hoki—ki tētahi atu hua pouri. Ā, ka waiho koe me te tangi, "He kino te whakaipoipo ipurangi".

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5. Kia tuwhera te whakaaro

E mea ana a Dhriti, "Ehara i te mea ka 'miharo' koe i ngā wā whakaipoipo katoa, i ngā tāngata katoa rānei e tūtaki ana koe. Ko te tikanga he tukanga puhoi te whakaipoipo, ā, i ētahi wā, me pārekareka noa koe ki te tukanga. He mea ngahau te whakakore i te panga o tētahi atu tangata, i a rātou e ngana ana ki te whakakore i te panga o tō panga." E kī ana ia i ēnei tohutohu:

Kia mataara
Kia mau ki te whakaaro tuwhera
Tukua kia noho noa, kia pai hoki te wā iti o te whakapau kaha

He Whakaahua Mō Te Whakaoraora, Te Whakapūmau i Tō Oranga Whakaipoipo

Nā, kua tukuna atu e mātou he whakamārama taipitopito mō te huarahi hei whakatau i ngā wero o te whakaipoipo hou, me titiro tātou ki ētahi tauira hei pupuri i tō oranga whakaipoipo kia ki tonu i te ngahau. Anei tātou:

Me pēhea te pupuri i tō oranga whakaipoipo kia ora tonu, kia ora tonu hoki

Nga Uiraa Ui:

1. Ka kitea rānei e au te aroha?

Ae, ka pērā tonu, ahakoa kei te whakaaro koe kāore anō kia angitu te whakaipoipo ipurangi tae noa mai ki tēnei wā. Kaua e waiho te kimi aroha hei kaupapa matua māu. Tūtaki ki te tangata ipurangi, ki waho hoki i te ipurangi, kia ngahau, kia pai te wā e noho tahi ana kōrua, kātahi ka whakatau mēnā me anga whakamua kōrua.

2. He uaua te whakaipoipo?

Kāo, he māmā noa iho te whakaipoipo i te tangata tika. Ka marino, ka tiakina hoki koe. Heoi, he maha ngā wero e pā ana ki te whakaipoipo i ēnei rā, nā te pukumahi o tō tātou āhua noho, ngā mea o mua, me ngā kōwhiringa mutunga kore. Koia te take he uaua rawa te whakaipoipo i ēnei wā.

Tohutohu Matua

He mahi tino uaua te whakaipoipo i ēnei rā. Ā, he tino uaua pea mō ētahi
He aha te uaua o te whakaipoipo i ēnei rā? Ko ētahi o ngā wero nui o te whakaipoipo o ēnei rā: te kaha o te whakapau kaha – te iti o ngā tumanakohanga, te meka e whakaipoipo ana te tangata i te tini o ngā tāngata i te wā kotahi, ngā raruraru whakawhirinaki, me ngā tumanakohanga koretake.
Ko ētahi huarahi hei whakapai ake i tō oranga whakaipoipo: mā te mōhio ki a koe anō, mā te tuwhera o te hinengaro, me te kore e tango i ngā whakakorenga ki a koe anō.

Thoughts Final

Ko te tumanako kei a koe ngā whakautu katoa mō te pātai "He aha te uaua o te whakaipoipo i ēnei rā?" Ko te tumanako anō hoki ka taea e koe te aro atu ki ngā wero o te whakaipoipo me te ngāwari. Ae, ehara te whakaipoipo i te mea o mua i ngā tau tekau kua pahure. Ehara i te mea ko ngā putiputi me ngā tina whakamarie anake.

He mea nui te māia ki te whakaipoipo i ēnei rā. Āe, he kino te whakaipoipo ipurangi i ētahi wā, me ōna āhuatanga koretake katoa. Engari ko te tumanako ka kitea e koe te hoa tika i roto i ā mātou tohutohu katoa i roto i tēnei tuhinga. Kia pono, kia tūpato hoki i te wā kotahi. Engari kaua e wareware ki te ngahau! Ngā mihi nui ki a koe.

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