He momo tirotiro motuhake te noho takakau ina neke atu koe i tētahi paepae tau - ina koa he wahine koe. Ko te nui o tēnei tirotiro, me ngā tohutohu me ngā tawai kāore i tonoa, e whakaahuatia ana he āwangawanga mai i te hunga whai whakaaro pai, ka rerekē pea i runga i te whenua me te ahurea engari kei ngā wāhi katoa o te ao. I te whenua iti o Īnia, ka tino mamae te āhua o tēnei tirotiro. Kāore he hiranga o te whakapono, te hapori, te iwi, me ētahi atu wehewehe. Ko te noho takakau mō ngā wāhine i roto i tō tātou hapori he mea whakataurite nui te noho takakau.
Kāore he Hiranga o te Whakapono i te Wā e Takakau Ana Koe
Ripanga o Ihirangi
Tukua ahau kia whakapuaki i tētahi mea ngaro. He tino pai ki ahau te noho takakau. Ehara i te mea nā te 'whakauru' e wātea ana, nā te whakaaro 'kua wera' rānei. He whakamātautau hinengaro-pāpori anō hoki. I tīmata te whakaaro i te mutunga o taku taiohitanga - pērā anō taku hononga tuatahi. I mau tonu i aku tau 20. Inaa, tera pea i whai wāhi nui ki te ngā ngoikoretanga arohaInaianei kua menemene taku hunga 30 tau ki tētahi oranga e taea ana te waiho hei take, hei hua hoki o taku whakamātautau. Nā, he aha ngā mea kua kitea e au tae noa mai ki tēnei wā?
Hei tīmatanga, he whānui ake te pānga o tōku tuakiri ki tōku ao i taku e kī nei. He rite ki te tautohetohe mō te taiao me te atawhai – ko te nui ake o tā tātou whakaaro ka taea e tātou te wikitoria i te taiao mā te atawhai – ko te kaha ake o te whakapau kaha o ō tātou ira ki te whakaatu i tō rātou aroaro. Ā, he aha te tuakiri nui ake i tēnei whenua i te whakapono, pea? Ae, he rohe, he ira tangata, he karaehe, me te maha o ngā huarahi i whakarōpūhia ai tātou, ngā Īniana, i a tātou anō – heoi, kāore he mea e kitea nuitia atu ana i te ingoa e karangatia ana e tātou ko te mea e karangatia ana e tātou ko te Tino Mana.
He tino pārekareka ngā rā mō taku whakamātautau. I ētahi wā he reka – pērā i te ingoa o te tangata, i ētahi wā he maroke – anō, pērā i te ingoa o te tangata. Tukua ahau kia pai ki te waihanga i ētahi wāhanga mōku ake, me te whakapuaki i ētahi kōrerorero tūturu i pā ki ahau (i pā ki aku hoa Muhirama takakau rānei):
Te Kuare
- ahau: Mō te tamarikitanga, ka mutu, ka kōrero whakarara ahau mō te haere ki te mīsa i taku kura Katorika i mua i taku mōhio ki te pānui pukapuka. inoi
- Ko ia: He Muhirama koe?
- ahau: Koinā te kōrero a ōku mātua…āe.
- Ia (e tirotiro ana i ahau mai i runga ki raro me te tino koi): Engari kāore koe i te āhua rite ki te Muhirama.
- ahau: Ko te tikanga he rite tonu tōku āhua ki tētahi atu tangata?
- Ko ia: Kāo… arā, āe… (whakapuakitanga pākiki)
- Noho takakau ana ahau
Te Ao Tūroa
- ahau: He rite te tohutoro ki runga ake nei (He kōrero whakakatakata tēnei, whakapono mai ki ahau)
- Ia: E mōhio ana koe i whai hoa Mahometa anō hoki ahau i mua.
- ahau: I roto i ō tau 31 katoa, i whai hoa Mahometa koe i mua?
- Ko ia: Āe. I taku tekau tau. He rawe te biryani i mahia e tōna māmā. E tino mohio ana ahau he rawe anō hoki tāu biryani, āhea ahau ka taea te whakamātau i ētahi?
- ahau: He kaiwhenua ahau.
- Ko ia: Āe? He aha koe i noho tonu ai hei Muhirama?!
- Noho takakau ana ahau
Pānui e pā ana: Me pēhea te whakatau mena kei te piri koe ki tētahi tāne, ki tētahi tama rānei
Ko era atu
- ahau: He tohutoro rite tonu ki te wā tuatahi (whakakatakata noa iho ahau)
- Ko ia: Ae, he uaua ki te ako mō te Ihirama i ngā kura Ingarihi o ngā tāone nui – engari he mea tino nui.
- ahau: I ako ahau, i ōku mātua, ā, i ako anō hoki ahau i ahau anō. Mō ngā uara Ihirama o te aroha, te atawhai, te ngākau atawhai…
- Ko ia: Ā, ko ngā mea pēnei i namaz, roza, te pānui i te Quran, me ngā Hadis? Arā, ko taku hiahia kia noho taku wahine hei Muhirama pai – pānuihia te namaz ia rā. E whakaaetia ana ia ki te mahi me te noho motuhake, engari he mea nui kia noho pono ki a tātou. Kāore koe i te whakaaro?
- ahau: Ka panui koe namaz e rima ngā wā i te rā?
- Ko ia: No.
- Kāore anō kia takakau
Kaua e whakaaro he kawa tōku takenga mai — koinei ngā kōrero e whai kiko ai, e ngahau ai hoki taku whakamātautau. He rerekē rawa ngā mea e tumanakohia ana e tātou hei wāhine takakau mai i te ao, me ngā mea e tumanakohia ana e te ao mai i a tātou.
E mārama ana ahau nā te mana motuhake taku noho takakau – he mātauranga ahau, he motuhake hoki ki te taha pūtea, e noho ana i tētahi tāone nui, i tētahi whenua e āhei ai ahau ki te noho me te manawa noa. Engari ka taumaha te hau i ētahi wā, ā, he rerekē te rere mena he wahine koe, ā, kāore i te piri ki tētahi tāne.
Te pānui e pā ana: Ngā Pānga Hinengaro o te Noho Takakau Mō Te Wā Roa
He rite tonu ngā Whaea Whakaipoipo
He mea miharo ki te nuinga o te iwi te mōhio he maha ngā ngā wāhine takakau neke atu i te 30 tau te pakeke i roto i tōku whakapono. Ā, ka piki haere taua tau i ia wā, i ia wā, i ia wā, e whakapono ana te hunga whakapono ki ngā atua o te mano tau. E pā ana ki ahau te maha o ngā pātai e pā ana ki tōku kaha ki te hanga pēpi, e tata ana ki te mate, pērā i te nuinga o koutou, ngā wāhine takakau o ētahi atu whakapono.
My ngā kāhala (mausi) me te pūhi (pūaha) i ngana hoki ki te whakatū i ahau ki tētahi tāne Muhirama i kitea e rātou he roa mōku. I ōku tau 20 tuatahi, he Muhirama NRI ātaahua rātou; i waenganui o ngā tau 20, he tākuta, he rōia e hiahia ana ki tētahi wahine kua puta i te tohu paerua; i te mutunga o ngā tau 20 he hunga rawakore e pouri ana e hiahia ana ki te noho noa iho. Inaianei kua noho puku ngā whanaunga - engari e mōhio ana ahau ko te marino i mua i te tupuhi o ngā tāngata kua whakarerea me ngā tāngata 40-tau te pakeke ka tīmata rātou ki te tuku mai i ahau. Ae ra, kāore he he o ēnei wāhanga katoa - ko te pūnaha whakapaipai o te marena anake - e hokona ana hoki hei hononga wairua parakore!
Pērā i tētahi atu wahine Īnia
Kei hea ahau e waiho ana i tēnei? Āe, kāore i tino rerekē i a koe. Ae, ko ētahi tohu tuakiri kei a au e kiia ana he rerekē i te tuakiri whānui o Īnia i ēnei rā. Engari ko ētahi atu e whai ana i ngā nekehanga ōrite. Ko taku i ako ai i te noho hei wahine Muhirama me te takakau, ka noho tonu mō te wahine takakau Dalit, te wahine takakau Brahmin rānei. Ā, kāore e taea e au te whakaaro ki te pēhanga ki ngā wāhine takakau Parsee, i te mea kei te heke haere tō rātou taupori!
Ahakoa ngā katakata, kei raro taku whakapono i te matawai, pērā i aku whiringa hei wahine. Ā, he mea tēnā e whakaaetia ana e tētahi atu wahine Inia. Tērā pea ētahi tāne Inia anō hoki. Engari he matawai tēnei e kore e whakaaetia e au. Engari, kei te titiro ahau ki te ao mā taku ake tirohanga. He whakapohehe? Tērā pea. Heoi anō, ka tīmata te huringa i tētahi tirohanga ao i ia wā.
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Āe!! He aha rawa te mahi a ngā tāne katoa o te ao mēnā he takakau tēnei wahine ataahua, mātau hoki…
Me tino pai te tangata hei toa i tō ngākau, hei painga mō tōna ake oranga.
manaaki te atua
He tino pouri. I te mea he tāne "Hinū" ahau e tata ana ki te toru tekau tau, ka taea e au te aroha ki a ia. He iti noa iho. Ka taea e au te whakaaro noa ki ngā āhuatanga o ngā wāhine Muhirama i ia rā. Ko taku tumanako ka kitea e koe tō hoa i tētahi rā, arā, ki te hiahia koe. Kāore he take e tere ai koe ki te kimi i tētahi. He tino whakaititia te noho takakau. Ko au, mōku ake, e mōhio ana ahau. 🙂