Ngā Tohu Kāore Koe e Whiwhi Hoa Wahine, me te Aha Me Mahi Mōna

Kua pātai pea koe ki a koe anō i tētahi wā, "He aha te āhua ngāwari o te whai hononga ki ētahi atu, engari kāore ki ahau?" Mena kua maha atu ngā wā kua puta ake taua whakaaro ki roto i tō hinengaro, ehara i te mea ko koe anake. He maha ngā tāne e raru puku ana ki te whakaipoipo, he maha ngā wā kāore i te tino mōhio mena kei roto i ō rātou āhua, tuakiri, whakapono ki a rātou anō, kei roto rānei i tētahi mea hohonu ake te take.

I roto i tēnei tuhinga, ka wehewehea e mātou ngā tohu pono e 15 e aukati ana i a koe ki te kimi hoa wahine, i runga i te hinengaro, te whanonga pāpori, me ngā āhuatanga o te ao tūturu. Ko te mea nui ake, mō ia tohu, ka mārama hoki koe ki tāu e taea ai te whakarerekē - i roto i te mahi me te pono.

Ngā Tohu Kāore rawa koe e whiwhi hoa wahine

Ina rapu te tangata i ngā tohu kāore koe e whiwhi hoa wahine, ko tā rātou e ngana ana kia mārama ko te aha pea te hē o tō rātou oranga whakaipoipo. Ehara i te mea ko te kī ko koe he tangata "pōuri" he "kāore rānei i te tika mō ngā whanaungatanga". Engari ko te mōhio ki ngā tauira e aukati ana i a koe. Me wehewehe ngā mea tino kitea kia taea ai e koe te tautuhi i ngā mea e pā ana ki a koe, ā, ka tīmata ki te whakarerekē.

1. E whakaaro ana koe kua whakakahoretia koe i mua i tō whakamātau

Ka matapae koe i te kāo, nō reira kāore koe e tūpono ki te tono atu i te wehi kei whakama koe. Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu mārama kāore koe e whiwhi hoa wahine mēnā ka haere tonu me te kore e tirotirohia. Ka whakamana koe i a koe anō kei te mahi koe i ngā mea whai hua, engari ko tāu mahi pono he tiaki i a koe anō mai i te whakamā.

• Ka kite koe i tētahi e pai ana ki a koe
• Mō tētahi wā poto, ka whakaaro koe ki te piki ake me te kōrero i tētahi mea māmā noa iho
• Kātahi ka whakakīia tō hinengaro ki te toenga o te kōrero. Ka whakahe ia i a koe. Ka kōrero koe i tētahi mea whakamā. Ka whakama.
• Nō reira, ka titiro koe ki tō waea pūkoro, ka tuku i te wā kia pahemo me te mea kāore i te tupu

He mea nui ake tēnei i tō whakaaro. He tauira kua tino rangahauhia te aro ki te whakakorenga, e tumanako ana koe me te manukanuka, te tere kite, me te kaha o te tauhohe ki te whakakorenga. Kua whakaatuhia e ngā rangahau he maha ngā huarahi e pā ai tēnei tauira ki te mahi a te whanaungatanga aroha. Ko te tikanga kotahi e aukati ana i a koe i mua i te tīmatanga o tetahi mea, nā te mea ka whakaarohia e tō roro te whakakorenga whakaaro pērā i te whakakorenga tūturu. I roto i te wā, ka noho koinei tētahi o ngā take tino kaha kāore e taea e koe te tiki hoa wahine.

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2. Ka karo koe i ngā huihuinga pāpori

Kāore e taea te whakaipoipo takitahi. Kāore koe e hiahia kia haruru, kia māhorahora rānei, engari me whakaatu koe i a koe anō. Ko te karo tetahi o ngā tohu tino kaha e kore ai e rerekē ngā mea. Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe "he aha kāore au i te whai hoa wahine", koinei pea te whakautu.

• Ka taea te matapae i ō mutunga wiki
• Ka noho koe ki te kāinga, ka panuku, ka mahi pea, ka okioki pea
• Ina haere koe ki waho, he mahi noa iho, ehara i te whakawhanaungatanga
• Kāore koe e whakanoho ana i a koe ki ngā taiao e taea ai te kōrero māori, nō reira kāore he mea hou e uru mai ana ki tō ao.

Mai i te tirohanga hinengaro, mā te karo i te manukanuka ka ora tonu. I roto i ngā tauira haumanu o te manukanuka pāpori , mā te karo i ngā āhuatanga ka ārai i a koe kei pāngia e ngā wheako ka hē ai ō mataku. Koia te take e arotahi ai te maimoatanga ki te whakaiti i te karo i ia taahiraa.

3. He iti rawa tō whakapono ki a koe anō

E kōrero ana koe ki a koe anō, pērā i te hoariri. Ko tō reo o roto: 

• Harsh
• Critical
• Ā, ka tere te whakaaro he koretake

Ehara i te mea he iti noa te whakapono ki a koe anō. He kōrero kino tonu tēnei e hanga ana i tō āhua. Tērā pea he taunekeneke noa iho tā kōrua, he pai pea, engari i muri mai ka peke tika tō hinengaro ki te whakaaro, "he aha ahau i noho takakau tonu ai" he "he whakamā tēnā, tera pea i whakaaro ia he rerekē ahau." Kotahi te wā poto ka waiho hei tohu mō tētahi kōrero nui ake kua whakatau kē koe he pono.

I te taha hinengaro, e pā ana tēnei ki te āhua o tō tirohanga ki tō ake uara whanaungatanga. Ina iti tō whakaaro ki a koe anō , ka nui ake te tūponotanga ka:

• Pepeke
• Tiakina koe
• Ā, karohia ngā tūponotanga 

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4. Kāore koe e tiaki i tō āhua

Kāore mātou e tono kia whakakakahu koe kia rite ki te tauira. Engari kaua hoki e haere atu me te āhua kua mutu tō whakaaro ki te ao. Me arotahi koe ki:

• Te whakapaipai taketake
• akuaku
• Ā, kakahuria ngā kākahu e tika ana mōu 

He tohu ēnei mō te whakaute i a koe anō. Tērā pea ka puta koe kāore anō kia heua, he makawe koretake, he kākahu kāore i te pai te āhua, ā, ka mea atu koe ki a koe anō kei te "tūturu" koe, kei te "kāore rānei e tino kaha ki te whakapau kaha." Engari ko te mea e pānuihia ana e ētahi atu he iti noa te whakapau kaha. Ka tere te puta o ngā whakaaro tuatahi, ā, ka hangaia e ēnei te āhua o te taunekeneke a te tangata ki a koe. Kāore koe e whiwhi i ngā whai wāhitanga mutunga kore ki te tautuhi anō i taua wā tuatahi.

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5. Kāore koe e neke

Ka tatari koe kia tino mōhio koe kei te hiahia tetahi wahine ki a koe. Ko te raruraru, ka puta te tino mōhio i muri i tō whakamātau i ngā mōrearea iti, ehara i mua atu.

Tērā pea ka kōrero koe ki tētahi mō ngā wiki. He pai te āhua o ngā kōrero. He whakamarie, he mōhiotanga pea. Engari kāore koe: 

• Whakaaroa he hui
• Kaua rawa e whakaatu i te hiahia
• Kaua rawa e neke whakamua ngā mea

Ā tōna wā, ka memeha haere, ā, ka mea koe ki a koe anō "kua mate noa".

Me ārahi te kukume. Ki te kōrero noa koe i te whakahoahoa, ka puta he rangirua i waenga i te hiahia aroha me te whakahoahoa. Ka whakaaro te nuinga he atawhai koe, ehara i te hiahia.

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6. Noho koe i roto i tō rohe whakamarie 

Ka mahi tonu koe i ngā mea kua mōhiotia, ahakoa kāore i puta he tūponotanga ki te tūtaki ki tētahi. Ka tīmata te noho haumaru o te whakamarie, engari i roto i te wā ka noho hei herehere. Tērā pea ka āhua pumau tō mahinga. Te mahi, te kāinga, te whare takaro tinana, te wā tirotiro mata, te moe. Kāore he he o taua hanganga, engari kāore i te tuwhera ki te hapori. Kāore e hanga taunekeneke hou.

Ehara tēnei i te mea mō te tuakiri. Engari mō te whakaaturanga. Ki te kore koe e tūtaki ki ngā wāhine , he iti tonu ō tupono. He tokomaha te hunga e whakaaro ana kāore anō kia whai hononga ā-iwi, kei te mahi tonu i ngā taiao e kore ai e tīmata ngā hononga.

7. He hinengaro pāngia tōu

Ka whakamārama koe i tō oranga whakaipoipo mā te whakapae me te pumau. Ka kī atu koe ki a koe anō: 

• He papaku ngā wāhine
• Kāore i te tika te pūnaha
• Kāore rānei i te waimarie koe mai i te tīmatanga

Tērā pea he āhua tiaki te whakaaro pēnei. Ka tangohia te pēhanga i a koe. Engari ka tangohia hoki tō kaha ki te mahi. Ka tīmata koe ki te pānui i ngā ihirangi e whakaū ana i ngā whakaaro pēnei i te "tohu kāore koe e whiwhi hoa wahine" me te mea he hua pumau, kaua ko ngā whakatūpato.

Ina whakapono te tangata kāore e taea e rātou te whakahaere i ngā hua, ka mutu tā rātou whakamātau ahakoa kei reira ngā whai wāhitanga. He mea nui tēnei i roto i te whakaipoipo. Nā te mea ka tīmata ngā mea katoa mā te whakamātau: 

• He korerorero
• He karere
• He mōrearea ngāwari

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8. He iti rawa tō porowhita pāpori

Tērā pea ka huri tō oranga pāpori ki te tokorua, ki te tokorima rānei. Kāore rātou e whakauru i a koe ki ngā taiao hou, ā, kāore hoki koe e takahi ana i ngā taiao hou. I roto i te wā, ka noho pūmau tonu tō hononga ki a rātou. He mea ngāwari noa iho tēnei. 

• Ko tō whatunga tō puna whakaipoipo
• Ka nui ake te kanorau o tō taiao, ka nui ake ngā tūponotanga ka tūtaki koe ki tētahi e ōrite ana ki a koe.
• Ki te kore tēnā, ka pātai tonu pea koe, "ka kimihia he hoa wahine?" me te kore e hanga i tētahi huringa

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9. He "ataahua" koe, engari kāore he whakaipoipo

He atawhai koe, he whakaute, he ngāwari hoki te kōrero ki a koe. Engari kāore koe e waihanga i te kukume. Ka noho haumaru koe, ā, i a koe e mahi ana i tēnā, ka noho ngaro koe i roto i te tikanga aroha. Ka rite koe ki tētahi hoa pono. Ka whakarongo koe, ka whakaae koe, ka karo i te āwangawanga. Engari kāore koe: 

• Whakaatuhia te hiahia
• Kaua rawa e whakamahi takaro takaro pūkenga
• Kaua rawa e whakaatu i te hiahia aroha

He rerekētanga i waenga i te kukume me te hototahi. Ko te hototahi te mea e tautoko ana i ngā whanaungatanga. Ko te kukume te tīmatanga o ēnei whanaungatanga. Ki te kore koe e aro ki tēnei, ka taka tonu koe ki roto i te whanonga hoa-rohe, ā, koinei tētahi o ngā tino take e kore ai e taea e koe te kimi hoa wahine.

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10. Ka kitea koe he tangata tino matea, he tangata rawakore rānei

He nui rawa tāu haumi, he wawe rawa. E rapu wawe ana koe i te whakamarie, ā, ka tīmata te kaha o tō whanonga. Tērā pea koe: 

• Tukuna ngā karere maha me te kore e tatari
• Tirohia mēnā kua kitea tō tuhinga e tetahi
• Me pātai atu rānei he aha rātou i wehe atu ai i muri i te iti noa o ngā taunekeneke

Ki tāu tirohanga, he pono tōu. Ki tā rātou tirohanga, he pēhanga pea. E rapu ana te tangata i te haumaru kare ā-roto i roto i ngā whanaungatanga. Ina whakawhirinaki nui tō whakaaro ki a koe anō ki te urupare a te tangata ki a koe, ka puta he kore taurite ka mawehe atu ai rātou.

11. Kāore i a koe ngā pūkenga whakawhitiwhiti kōrero

He uaua ki a koe te pupuri i te kōrero kia haere noa.

• He iti noa iho rānei tāu kōrero, he nui rānei tō mana whakahaere i te kōrero me te kore e mōhio
• Kāore pea koe e pātai i tetahi pātai, kāore rānei, ka pātai atu pea koe i aua pātai pērā i te uiuinga 
• I ētahi wā ka kōrero noa koe mōu ake nā te mea kei te mataku koe 

Ahakoa pēhea, he āhua motumotu te taunekeneke. Ka hangaia te hononga mā te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero. Ko te hiahia ki te mōhio, te whakarongo, me te tohatoha i te tere e pai ai te ahua. Ki te kore tēnei, kāore he wāhi e tipu ai te kukume, ahakoa kei te rite ngā mea katoa.

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12. Nui rawa tō wehi i te whakakorenga

Ki te iti tō whakaaro ki a koe anō, ka whakaarohia e koe te whakakorenga hei tohu kāore koe i te rawaka. Nā te mea kāore e taea e koe te aro atu ki te whakakorenga , ka karohia e koe ngā āhuatanga ka taea ai te whakakorenga.

• Kāore koe e whakatata atu
• Kāore koe e pātai
• Kāore koe e tūpono
• Ka noho haumaru koe, engari ka noho pūmau hoki koe

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13. Kāore he aronga i a koe i te ao

Kei te pēhia koe e te rere. Kāore he hanganga o ō rā, ā, kāore i te mārama tō ahunga whakamua mō te wā roa. Tērā pea kei te hiahia koe ki tētahi whanaungatanga, engari kei te tatari anō hoki koe kia homai e taua whanaungatanga te tikanga ki tō oranga. Ka nui rawa te pēhanga ki tētahi hononga kāore anō kia tū.

Ko te nuinga o te tangata e kukume ana ki te aronga. He tohu tēnei mō te pumau me te whakaute i a koe anō. E whakaatu ana hoki kei te hanga koe i tō oranga, kāore e tatari kia whakaotia e tetahi.

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14. Kāore koe e mārama ki ngā āhuatanga kukume

He mea nui te mahi a ngā pūkenga pāpori ina rapu hoa koe. Mena he kino āu tikanga pāpori me te whakaipoipo :

• Ka ngaro ngā tohu i a koe
• Kua hē tō mārama ki te hiahia
• Ka nui rawa tō pana, kāore rānei koe i te pana
• Kāore pea koe e kite i ngā tohu reo tinana, i ngā tohu whakaipoipo ngawari rānei
• I ētahi wā ka whakamāramahia e koe te whakahoahoa hei kukume
• I ētahi wā ka wareware koe i te hiahia mārama nā te mea kei te ruarua koe

He tere te whakatau me te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero kore-waha i roto i te whakaipoipo. Ki te kore e taea e koe te pānui i ēnei āhuatanga, ka pōhēhē ngā taunekeneke. Ka taea e tēnei te whakaatu i a koe kāore i te tino māia, ka nui ake te pānga o tēnei ki te kukume i a koe i tō whakaaro.

15. Kāore koe e whakanoho i a koe anō ki ngā wāhi e wātea ana ngā whai wāhitanga

Me pēhea koe e kimi ai i te "tangata tika " ina kore koe e tūtaki ki tētahi wahine hou? Tērā pea ka maroke tō oranga whakaipoipo nā ēnei āhuatanga:

• Kāore e haere ki ngā huihuinga pāpori
• Kāore e uru atu ki ngā hapori
• Kāore i te whakamahi tonu i ngā papaaho e tūtaki ai te tangata 

Me whakapā atu te hononga. Ki te kore koe e tūtaki ki te tangata, kāore he mea e tīmata. He tokomaha e whakaaro ana kāore anō kia whai hoa wahine, kāore i roto i te taiao e taea ai te hanga whanaungatanga.

Me pēhea te whakatika i ngā tauira, me te tiki hoa wahine

Ko te huarahi tere ki te mutu te whakaaro kua mauheretia koe ko te whakamutu i te ngana ki te "whakaoti i ngā wāhine" me te mahi i a koe anō. Ko ngā raruraru matua e ngana ana koe ki te whakatika he māmā noa iho:

• Me nui ake te whakaaturanga e hiahiatia ana e koe
• E hiahia ana koe pai ake te whakawhitiwhiti korero
• Me whai whanaungatanga hauora ake koe me te whakakorenga

Tukua mātou e āwhina i a koe ki tēnā.

1. Hangaia te māia mā te mahi

He wāhanga nui te maia ki te tangata e ātaahua ai koe . Ka hangaia e koe mā te mahi i ngā mea kāore anō koe kia rite ki te mahi. Kōwhiria tētahi whakaaturanga poto o ia rā:

• Oha atu
• Pātaihia he pātai māmā
• Tukua he kōrero poto

Ko tāu mahi anake he mahi i te whakahokinga. Aroturuki i ngā nganatanga, kaua i ngā putanga. Ki te mahi koe i te whanonga, kua angitu koe.

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2. Whakapai ake i te rongonuitanga pāpori

Mena he iti noa tō porowhita pāpori, me whai wāhi koe ki ngā taiao e kitea ai koe i ngā wā maha. Mā te mōhio ka nui ake te whakamarie me te pai ki a koe. E rua noa ngā hongere e whakamahia ana e te nuinga o ngā tāne: te mahi me ngā taupānga whakaipoipo . Ka mōrearea pea te mahi, ā, ka rite ngā taupānga ki te whakatau mutunga kore. Nō reira, tāpirihia he hongere tuatoru: te hapori. Kōwhiria tētahi mahi rōpū ia wiki e mau tonu ana. Hei tauira:

• He akomanga reo
• He karapu hākinakina
• Tuhinga o mua
• Te whakapakari tinana ā-rōpū
• Ranei a poari poari po

Haere mai mō te iti rawa e waru ngā wā i mua i te whakawā. Kāore i te tino kitea he āhua māori ngā haerenga tuatahi e rua. 

Kōwhiria ngā tautuhinga e waihanga ana i ngā kaupapa kōrero kua whakauruhia. 

• Ka hoatu e te akomanga he mahi tiritahi ki a koe
• Mā te mahi tūao ka whai kaupapa tahi koe
• Mā te whakapakari tinana ā-rōpū ka taea e koe te mahi tahi
• Ahakoa he wharekai noa e mōhiotia ai koe, he nui ake ngā painga mōu i te tirotiro haere noa i te tirotiro haere, nā te mea ka whakaitihia te ahotea e te mōhiotanga i te roanga o te wā. 

Kātahi, me mahi tika te piriti. Ko te nuinga o te tangata ka noho pūmau ki te kōrero mārie, ka tere rawa rānei te peke. Kotahi te rerenga kōrero mō te piriti: "I pai ki ahau te kōrero. Kei te hiahia koe ki te haere tonu i tēnei me te kawhe i tētahi wā?" Ki te whakakahoretia koe, kia ma. "Kei te pai katoa. He pai ki te kōrero ki a koe." Ka ako tō pūnaha io ka taea e koe te ora i te kore. Koinei te huarahi ki te wikitoria i te wehi o te whakakahoretia i roto i te mahi.

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3. Whakapai ake i te āhua me te tuakiri

Kaua e titiro ki a koe anō he patunga, me te kī he "papaku" ngā wāhine, engari arotahi ki te whakapai ake i tō āhua whānui. I te nuinga o te wā, ehara i te mea ko te āhua tonu, ko te utu rānei o tō kākahu te mea nui, engari ko te kaha i whakapaua e koe kia ātaahua ki te aroaro o tētahi. Nō reira, koinei te tīmatanga:

• Whakatikatika i te akuaku. Kei roto i tēnā ko te manawa, ngā kākahu ma, me te whakapaipai taketake
• Kākahuhia ngā kākahu e tika ana, ā, e ātaahua ana te āhua.
• Waihangahia he mahinga hei tautoko i tō wairua: te moe, te nekehanga, te kai, me te wā pāpori. Mā te mahinga pumau ka whakaiti i te te kore aronganui o te whatumanawa e hiahia ana koe ki te 

Akohia ngā kōrero taketake me te takaro pōwhiri 

• Pātaihia ngā pātai tuwhera hei whakaoho i tētahi kōrero. Kātahi ka whakapuaki i tētahi mea tūturu mōu ake

• Whakaharatauhia ngā tohu aroha iti e whakaute ana: he mihi tika, he whakatoi takaro, he tono māmā. Ki te kore e pai tana whakautu, me hoki whakamuri koe. Mā tēnei ka whakaitihia te hē o te pānui, ā, ka ārai i ngā whanonga whakamataku.

4. Tangohia ngā mōrearea iti tonu

Koinei te wāhi e hē ai te nuinga o ngā tāne, tae atu ki ngā tāne e ātaahua ana ki te pepa. Kāore rātou e huri i te hiahia hei rā tino pai. Ko tāu mahi he:

• Pātai atu i mua ake nei
• Ki te mea he pai tā kōrua kōrero, whakaarohia he hui noa iho: he kawhe, he hikoi, he huihuinga noa iho.
• Me whakaaro ki te whakakorenga me he kōrero, kaua e whakaititia. Kāore te whakakorenga e tautuhi i tō uara, engari e whakaatu ana i te kore e ōrite. 

Kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakatata mātao atu ki ngā tāngata tauhou hei whakaharatau i te maia. Ka taea e koe te whakaharatau i roto i ngā taiao mahana pērā i te mahi tahi me ngā hoa akomanga, ngā hoa o ngā hoa, ngā huihuinga hapori rānei. Ki te hiahia koe ki tētahi tuhinga māmā, whakamahia tēnei:

"He pai ki ahau te kōrero ki a koe. Kei te hiahia koe ki te tiki kawhe i tēnei wiki?"

Ki te mea ia kāore, ka mea atu koe:

"Kāore he āwangawanga. He pai ki ahau te kōrero ki a koe."

Koinei te ara e tiaki ai koe i tōu mana motuhake me te noho pono tonu.

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Thoughts Final

Ko te kimi i tētahi whanaungatanga whai tikanga ehara i te mea mō te waimarie, engari mō te mōhio, te whakapau kaha, me te auau. Engari ko te arotahi noa ki te putanga, me tahuri te aro ki te āhua o tō whakaaturanga—tō whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, tō tuwhera, me tō hiahia ki te tango i ngā mōrearea iti. Ko te tipu o te whakaipoipo ka puta mai i ngā taunekeneke o te ao tūturu, kaua i te whakaaro nui. Ina mahi koe ki a koe anō me te noho kaha ki te pāpori me te whai whakaaro, ka piki ake ngā whai wāhitanga, ka nui ake te tūponotanga o te hononga i roto i te wā.

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