15 Ngā Huringa e Tūpono Ana ki te Oranga o te Wahine i Muri i te Marena

He herenga nui te marena, ā, ko tētahi pea o ngā whakataunga nui rawa atu o te ao ka mahia e tātou, pērā i te mātauranga hei whai mā tātou, te mahi rānei hei whiriwhiri mā tātou. Ko te tangata e whakatau ana tātou hei hoa mō te ao katoa, hei whānau tamariki, hei noho tahi i te kāinga, he mea nui ki te ahunga whakamua o tō tātou ao, me te nui hoki o tō tātou harikoa me te makona ki taua mea.

Ahakoa ka whakarerekē te marena i te tūranga o te tāne me te wahine, he nui ake tōna pānga ki te oranga o ia rā o te wahine i tō te tāne. Ahakoa kei te mau tonu te hiranga o ōna tūranga tawhito, me pikau anō hoki e ia ētahi tūranga hou. Ehara ia i te tamāhine, i te tuahine rānei i ēnei rā, engari he wahine, he hunaonga, he kaiwhakahaere whare, ā, hei whaea anō hoki ā muri ake nei! Ko ia, inā koa i roto i te pūnaha Inia, te tangata e whakarērea ana tōna kāinga, tōna āhua o ia rā me te whakamarie o te whare i tipu ake ai ia, ka neke atu me tana tāne ki tōna kāinga, ki te whakatū rānei i tētahi whare hou mō rāua tokorua, ka neke atu rānei ki tētahi tāone hou. Ā, ko rātou anō hoki te hunga me whakarerekē ō rātou ingoa! He maha ngā panonitanga e pā ana ki ngā wāhine i muri i te marena, ā, ka taea e ēnei te whai hua, ka whakamataku hoki i te wā kotahi. He tino rerekē te ao i muri i te marena.

Ka tino rerekē te oranga o te wahine, i ētahi wā ka tino rerekē i muri i tana marena. Ko ngā mea ka riro i te wahine me tana tāne, ko ngā tumanakohanga o hungawai, he maha ngā wā ka noho ia ki te kīhini katoa ahakoa kāore pea ia e mōhio ki ngā momo dal rerekē, he kākahu hou rawa atu kāore pea ia e pai ki a ia, me ētahi atu. Ā, he momo noho hou rawa atu hoki. I roto i te pō kotahi, ka huri ā rātou kaupapa matua me ā rātou mahi o ia rā, ā, mai i tētahi kōtiro harikoa, māhorahora i tētahi rā, ka ara ake rātou me te kawenga nui. He maha ngā huringa e pā ana ki te oranga o te wahine i muri i te marena.

He pono ka rerekē te ao o te kōtiro i muri i te marena. E tama mā, e ngā tāne, e mōhio ana koutou ki tēnei?

15 Ngā Huringa e Wheakohia ana e te Wahine i Muri i te Marena

Ae, he painga pāpori te marena—ka pai ake ō tātou oranga me ō tātou hapori ina nui ake te hunga e marena ana, ā, e noho tonu ana. Mā tēnei ka nui ake ō tātou kawenga i te taumata takitahi me te taumata ā-rōpū. Engari ko te kawenga o tēnei mea kei runga i ngā wāhine. Ko ngā whakaaro o te manaaki, te manaaki, he nui ake te mau ki roto i a ia i tērā pea i te hoa tāne i roto i tōna whare, he tungāne pea. Engari i mua i te marena, he rite tonu pea te wahine i roto i tōna kāinga ki te tamaiti tāne kē atu. Ka tere te huri o tēnā mō ngā wāhine i muri i te marena.

Tāpiri atu ki tēnā, he tino nui te pēhanga o te whānau tamariki me te kawe i te ingoa o te whānau ki mua! Kia maumahara ki te kīwaha "me noho te kāinga hei whakatipu i te tamaiti," ā, i tēnei ao hou e whakakapia ana ngā whānau matua e ngā whānau tahi, ko te mahi a te kāinga katoa ka taka ki runga i te pakihiwi ngawari o te wahine kotahi. Anei te rārangi o ngā huringa 15 e pā ana ki te wahine i muri i te marena, he nui te pānga ki tōna oranga me tōna whanaungatanga ki ētahi atu.

1. Ka nui ake tōna kawenga me tōna pono

Ae, he mana whakau te marena mō ngā whanaungatanga, ko te whakapau kaha tonu ka āwhina i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine kia noho tahi ahakoa kāore i te rite, engari whakaarohia ngā rā kore mārena. Ka taea e koe te mahi, te pāti rānei i te pō, ā, ka ara ake i muri i te poutumarotanga, ka taea e koe te mahi i tēnā inaianei? Ka taea e koe te tono kai i te wā e hiahiatia ana, te huna rānei i ngā kai kua tunua, ka haere ki waho ki te whakangā me ngā hoa, nā te mea ka taea e koe te mahi i tēnā inaianei? Ka taea e koe te whakarite i ō wiki mutunga, ki te kāinga o taua hoa, ki te whare o tētahi whaea kēkē rānei i tētahi atu tāone, tae atu ki ngā haerenga me ō hoa, ka taea e koe te mahi i tēnā inaianei?

Ka tino rerekē te oranga o te wahine i muri i te marena. I muri i te marena, ehara i te mea ko tō tāne anake te kawenga mōu, engari ki te noho tahi koe me ō hungawai, ko rātou anō hoki. Kāore tō pāpā e tiaki ana i ō moni, ā, kāore hoki te kawenga nui o ngā mahi o te whare i runga i tō whaea. Ka rerekē ō kaupapa matua, mai i te noho hei tino pai ki a koe, e kī ana i taua wāhi! He mea whakamiharo, ko te nuinga o ngā wāhine kāore e amuamu mō te kawenga tāpiri i muri i te marena nā te mea kua rite rātou mō taua mea. He huringa nui tēnei e puta ana i roto i te oranga o te wahine i muri i te marena.

2. Tata tonu te hekenga o tana mahi i roto i tōna ao

Whakaarohia a Hillary Clinton, a Jacqueline Kennedy, a Twinkle Khanna, ka huri te marena i ngā kaupapa matua o te wahine. Ka pēhia a Carrer ki raro i te mea ko te whakatikatika ki te wāhi hou, te whakahaere i te kāinga, me te whakatutuki i ngā tumanakohanga a ngā hungawai te mea nui. Ka huri tā rātou tirohanga ki te ao, ka huri anō hoki tana arotahi, ā, ka puta ngā take mahi. Whakaarohia ngā wāhine e huri ana i ngā tāone i muri i te marena, ā, ka ngaro te tūranga matua me te hononga ki tā rātou wāhi mahi. Ahakoa ka taea e rātou te whakataurite i te mahi me te kāinga i ngā tau tuatahi o te marena, ka nui ake te huri o ngā mea ina puta mai ngā tamariki. I tuhituhi tētahi hoa mō tana hiahia ki te tango i tētahi hararei mai i te mahi nā te mea kāore te kaiawhina i utua i te kāinga i tae mai, ā, i te mutunga ka rihaina ia, ka noho ki te kāinga tae noa ki te 14 tau te pakeke o te tamaiti!

Heoi, ki te arotahi te tangata, ā, ko te mahi te mea nui, ka hoki anō ia ki te mahi i te wā e tata ana, ahakoa ka pāngia te ara o tana mahi. He iti noa iho te wā ka whiwhi tautoko ngā wāhine mai i ngā whānau tāne, engari mēnā ka wehea e rātou tētahi wāhanga o te moni whiwhi hei koha ki te whare. Ka tohutohu tonu mātou ki ā mātou kaipānui kia tuhia te hunga i whakatau i ā rātou whakaaetanga me ngā hunga i mutu i mua i tā rātou whakatau ki te moe tahi!

I ngana mātou o Bonobology ki te tiki kōrero mō ngā tāne i whakaae ki te huri tāone hei oranga mō ngā wāhine (me huri tāone te whakatairanga), kāore i taea e mātou te tiki i tētahi tauira pēnei i te motu katoa. Whakaarohia te taha kē. Ka piki haere tonu ngā mahi a ngā wāhine i te wā e whakaroa ana, e noho ana rānei i muri, ā, ka akiaki i te tipu o ā rātou tāne. Pānuihia tēnei tuhinga mō tētahi o aua rangahau nā Harvard!

3. Ka rerekē tana momo whakatau

I mua i te marena, he tino māmā noa iho ngā whakatau katoa. Ko wai ngā hoa hei noho tahi, he okioki wawe i muri i te mahi, he mātaki pouaka whakaata rānei, he haere ki waho pea hei hoa, he mahi i ngā wiki mutunga hei miharo i te rangatira me te piki ake i te arawhata mahi, he noho marino ki te mahi me te whiwhi i te utu i te mutunga o te marama. Heoi, i muri i te marena, me whakaaro ngā wāhine ki ā rātou mahi e pā ana ki ō rātou hungawai me tāne. He aha tā rātou e pai ai? Kāore rātou e whakaae kia noho ia ki waho i te pō me āna hoa, ki ngā hoa mahi tāne pea? He mea whakamīharo, he iti ake ngā pōwhiri 'takakau' a ngā wāhine kua marena. Ka ngana ngā hoa me te whānau ki te whakauru i te hoa rangatira ki roto i ā rātou kaupapa mēnā kāore i ngā hāora rerekē. Ka rerekē te oranga i muri i te marena nā te mea e rua ngā upoko e tango ana i tētahi whakatau ngātahi. 

Ka rerekē anō hoki āna tikanga waea!

Te pānui e pā ana: E whā tau te roa ki te whakatau, engari i hurihia e au tōku ingoa i muri i te marena.

4. Ko te manawanui me te pakeketanga ōna āhuatanga matua

Ahakoa ka taea e koe te puta i te riri i muri i te tautohetohe ki ō mātua, te whakaroa rānei i te horoi whare, te mahi rānei i ngā mahi kua whakaritea māu, te tono rānei ki te whānau kia mutu te hoha i a koe ki ā rātou amuamu, kāore e taea e koe te mahi i taua mea anō ki te taha o te tāne o te whānau. Me ako koe ki te manawanui me te marino ki ngā mea. Kaua e riri, kaua hoki e menemene mārie ina hamama ana ō wheua katoa o tō tinana kia noho puku ai rātou. Kua rongo pea koe i tō whaea e tohutohu ana kia whakapuakina e koe tō riri me te pai. Kua maha ngā wā kua kīia atu ki a rātou kia whai... he oranga marena angitu, hauora hoki, Me whakawhanake e rātou te māramatanga me te manawanui. Pātai atu ki ō hoa kua moe tāne mō ō rātou taumata manawanui, ā, kata mārie!

Me aro atu hoki koe ki te wairua me ngā waiaro o tō tāne. He rā kino tō rātou i te mahi, kāore i te harikoa, nō reira me mārama koe; ka hoki mai rātou i te mahi me te harikoa, ā, e hiahia ana ki te whakanui i tētahi kaupapa kua oti pai, engari kua wehe tētahi o ō hoa tata, ā, kāore koe i te hiahia ki te harikoa, engari ko koe te wahine makariri kāore e whai wāhi ki ngā wā pai o tana tāne. Ka pakeke haere te ao! He huringa nui tēnei e pā ana ki tētahi kotiro i muri i te marena.

5. Kāore i te maha ngā wā e whiwhi ai ia i tōna ake wāhi me tōna ake wā

He wā ki te pānui pukapuka, ki te whai i tētahi mahi whakangahau, ki te whiriwhiri i tētahi pūkenga, ki te haere ki ngā hararei takitahi, ki te takaro noa iho rānei, nā te mea kāore i a koe te wā, te kaha rānei mō rātou. Kei te mahi roa koe i tō mahi, kei te whakahaere tonu rānei i te kāinga, kei te whakapau wā rānei koe ki te whakawhanake i taua hononga ki tō tāne hou me tōna whānau, ā, kei te whai wā anō hoki koe ki te noho hei tamāhine pai! Kua rua te āhua o tō oranga pāpori, me ōna whanaunga me ōu whanaunga, me ōna hoa me ōu whanaunga, kāore he 'wā mōku'. Wāhi whaiaro Ko te 'wā mōku ake' te tikanga he wā whakaora, he wā whakangā, he wā kore mahi rānei. Engari i te tīmatanga o te marena, ā, ina tae mai ngā tamariki, kāore he wā, he wāhi rānei e toe ana mō ngā wāhine ki te noho ko rātou anake, ki te mahi rānei i ngā mea e pai ana ki a ia. He mea tēnei e amuamuhia ana e te nuinga o ngā wāhine i muri i te marena. Ko tāna mahi i muri i te marena ko te tiaki i te tāne, i ngā herenga mahi, i ōna mema whānau, i ngā mahi o te whare, i ōna mātua, me ērā atu mea. He iti noa iho te wā mō te wahine i muri i te marena. He mea nui te wāhi i roto i ngā whanaungatanga katoa, ā, me whakamātau koe me pēhea te wehewehe i tēnā!

6. Ka whakaaro te wahine kua moe tāne i mua i te whakapuaki i ōna whakaaro

I roto i tō whānau me ō hoa i tipu ake ai koe, kāore koe e māharahara ki te kōrero. Ka whakapuaki koe i ō whakaaro, ka kōrero whānuitia hoki ō tirohanga. Ka tautohe koe mō ō whakapono, ā, ka pupuri pea koe i tō taha kōrero, ka piri ki tēnā. E mōhio ana ō iwi ki a koe, kua kitea e koe te huarahi ki a rātou, ā, ka whakahaere koe i ngā mea e pai ana ki a koe, e kore e pai ki a koe. Engari i muri i te marena, kāore i a koe taua taumata tuwhera, whakamarie rānei ki tō whānau hou, nō reira me whakatau e koe ngā kupu e puta mai ana i tō waha. Ehara i te mea ko ō kupu anake, engari ko tō reo tinana anō hoki. I roto i te wā, ka ako koe ki te mārama me pēhea te whakaatu i te pouri, i te kore harikoa rānei, engari he tukanga tēnei, ā, he tukanga e hiahia ana ki te kaha nui. Pānuihia te kōrero mō tēnei wahine mō tana whakapuaki i ōna whakaaro ki ōna hungawai i konei.

Ko te ture kāore i tuhia hei whai māu, ko te whakaaro nui i mua i te kōrero. Ahakoa he āhuatanga pai tēnei, ā, he āwhina nui ki te hanga hononga pai ake, i ētahi wā ka pāpouri, ka arahi ki te nui o te riri me te pouri kua taupokina, inā koa i waenganui i te tokorua.

7. Ka rerekē tana kākahu

"Kāore e taea e koe te mau i tāu e hiahia ana," tētahi o ngā amuamu nui a ngā wāhine mō te marena. Tērā pea he mea whakararuraru tēnei, ahakoa i roto i ngā marena aroha. He aha te kākahu e tika ana hei tūtaki ki te whānau me ngā hoa, me aha hoki te mea kāore e tika ana, kua whakatakotoria ngā ture, ā, me whai. I roto i te maha o ngā whānau, ka ngāwari haere ngā mea i te tīmatanga o te mana whakahaere o te hunaonga hou, engari he maha ngā tau e pau ana ki tēnā. Tērā pea me whakarērea e ia tana aroha ki ngā remu, ki ngā tarau, ki ngā tarau tiini rānei, ā, me whakakakahu ātaahua ake. Tērā pea he "atawhai" rātou, ā, e pai ana ki te mau i ngā kākahu o te hauauru me ngā hoa anake, engari ka kōrerohia te momo kākahu o ia rā, ā, me whakaae tahi. Me urutau te wahine kua moe ki te momo kākahu o te whānau e moe ai ia, me te pupuri anō hoki i ngā hiahia o tana tāne. Ahakoa ka whakaaetia e ētahi whānau ā rātou hunaonga kia kakahuria e rātou te āhua e hiahia ana rātou, he maha o rātou he āwangawanga mō ngā kākahu me mau e ia i muri i te marena. I pā mai tētahi kōrero mō tētahi kōtiro i mau ai te whaea i ngā tarau poto me te tīhāte engari me hipoki te tamāhine i tōna mahunga me te mau i te sari i te kāinga.

Heoi, kotahi te mea pai e kawea mai ana e te marena ko te mahi tonu kia ātaahua te āhua. Kia maumahara ki ngā rā o tō kōrua whakaipoipo, i pau ngā hāora ki te whakapaipai i te kanohi, te kākahu, te whakapaipai makawe, me ngā whakapaipai tika, nā te mea kua noho tahi kōrua, ka taea e kōrua te mahi ngāwari i tēnā, ā, ka wātea te wā! Ka noho noa iho koe.

8. He tino aro nui tana ki tōna whānau

Kei te mahara koe ki te rārangi, 'Kisi me itne pass hai, ki sabse door ho gaye'? Mā te marena koe e whakarerekē i tō whakaaro ki ō hoa, inā koa ō hoa takakau. Ka kitea koe e nui ake ana te whakahoahoa me te tira a tō tāne, ka noho tahi rānei koe me ngā whanaunga o tō tāne me ā rātou hoa rangatira. Ka tūtaki koe ki ō hoa i tō rā whānau, i taua kawhe rānei mō te haora tere. Waihoki, ka rerekē te āhua o tō tū atu ki a rātou. Tērā pea kāore koe e hiahia ki te tere atu ki a rātou mēnā kua wehe rātou, kua hiahia rānei ki tō tautoko, kāore pea he tikanga nui ki tō whare marena. Ahakoa i mua kāore koe i aro nui ki te tiki me te tuku atu i a rātou, ka iti ake tō wā me tō kaha ki te wātea. Tērā pea kei te whakapau koe i te wā me te kaha ki tō whanaungatanga ki tō tāne, ki tōna whānau rānei.

Te pānui e pā ana: He mea nui rānei mēnā kāore koe e huri i tō ingoa whānau i muri i te marena?

9. Ka noho haumaru te wahine kua moe tāne

Tae noa mai ki tēnei wā, kua whakarārangihia e mātou ngā wero e pā ana ki te marena. Anei ētahi painga. Ka kawea mai e te marena te haumaru - te hinengaro, te pūtea, te kare ā-roto, me ētahi atu, ā, he mea utu nui tēnā. Kei a koe taua tangata hei tautoko i a koe, tētahi e moe tahi ana koe, e ara ake ana hoki i te ata, i tētahi taha, kāore koe i te tino mokemoke. Ka taea e koe te whakapuaki i ngā mea ngaro, te kōrero mō ō hoa, whanaunga me ō hoa mahi, ā, kia māia koe kāore koe e whakaititia! Ka whai hoa aroha koe, he hoa, he kaiārahi me he tangata whakawhirinaki ki te tangata kotahi. Ā, he wāhanga motuhake tēnei, kāore he tangata kē atu e whakaaetia ana ki roto. Ka kawea mai e tēnei he wairua piripono e kore e taea te whakataurite. Kia puta mai ngā tamariki ki te pikitia, ka whakapau kaha te tokorua ki tō rāua oranga, he rite ki tētahi whāinga tahi, ā, ka noho hei kaitākaro kapa! I kitea anō hoki e te rangahau mai i Te Whare Wānanga o Georgia he pai te marena ki te pumau o te kare ā-roto o ngā wāhine. Ko tētahi pānga tika ko te iti o te ahotea!

10. Ka tino tupato ia i te whakapau moni

Mā te marena ka taea e ngā wāhine te penapena moni mēnā kāore i pērā i mua. Ka nui ake tā rātou whakaaro mō te heke mai, ā, ka akiaki i a rātou ki te penapena moni, he āhuatanga tino hiahiatia tēnei. Ka pai ake hoki tā rātou whakahaere moni, ā, ka mārama hoki rātou ki te tahua moni. Ka penapena moni rātou mō ngā mea nui ake, he pouaka whakamātao pai ake pea, he mīhini horoi me te whakamaroke hou, ka tīmata rānei te penapena moni mō te putea kāreti a te tamaiti! Hei tokorua, whakahaere moni Kua waiho hei mea tahi māna ināianei. E ai ki tētahi pūrongo, 'Tata ki te 4 i roto i te 10 (37%) o ngā Amerikana kua moe tāne e kī ana he nui ake te aro ki ā rātou pūtea nā te mea kua moe tāne rātou. Tokotoru i roto i te 10 o ngā Amerikana kua moe tāne e kī ana kua tīmata rātou ki te penapena moni (30%) me te manukanuka nui ake mō te heke mai (27%) – i ngā āhuatanga e rua, he nui ake te whakaae a ngā tāne i ngā wāhine ki ia kōrero'. Mā te whai pūkete tahi ka mōhio ake te tokorua ki ā rātou tikanga whakapau moni, ā, ka whakaiti i te whakapau moni ohorere.

11. Ka memeha haere tōna āhua rangatira

I mua i te marena, he nui ake te mana pupuri o te wahine ki tana tāne. E titiro ana ia ki ētahi atu wāhine hei hoariri, ā, e tino tūpato ana ki a rātou kei pāngia tana tāne. E kore ia e māia, ā, tera pea ka ahua pōuri, ka mahi pea. Ka puta he māia i te marena, me te kirimana ture, ā, ka memeha haere te mana pupuri me te hae. Mā te noho mai o ngā rau hei kaiwhakaatu i te hui marena, me te tautoko nui (kia mau tonu ai te hononga) i roto i ngā whanaunga o tētahi ki tētahi, ka puta he momo whakamanawa motuhake. Ka noho te kotiro i muri i te marena hei wahine māia, ā, ka nui ake tōna manaaki i ngā hoa o ngā wāhine i roto i te oranga o tana tāne.  Ka kitea e mātou ētahi kōrero mō tō rātou riri ina patu te wahine i tāna tāne, anei tētahi kōrero mō te whakatau i tēnā.

He mea nui anō hoki tēnei hei penapena pūngao. Ā, he pai te huringa o te whanaungatanga i roto i ngā wāhine. Mā te marena ka pumau te whanaungatanga, ā, mā te whakapau kaha ka noho tahi ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i te wā kāore pea.

12. Ka noho ia hei putanga pai rawa atu o ia anō

'I muri i te marena, ko tō angitu te angitu o tō hoa rangatira nā te mea he kotahi te tokorua. He rite tonu ki āna angitu ki ōu.' Mā tēnei ka noho ngā wāhine hei putanga pai rawa atu o rātou anō. I te mahi, i te kāinga me ngā hoa. Ka tuwhera koe ki ngā wheako hou, ka whakamātau koe i ngā hiahia o tō tāne me ōu ake. Mā te marena ka pai ake tō mārama, ka kaha ake tō mahi, ka manawanui ake, ka whakaaro i mua i te kōrero.

13. He nui ake te whakaute o ōna mātua ki a ia

He pono tēnei mō ngā kōtiro katoa e moe ana nā te mea ko ia te rangatira wahine a ōna mātua. Nō reira, i ngā wā katoa e toro atu ai ia ki ōna mātua, ka whiwhi ia i ō rāua aroha me te manaakitanga katoa. Ka nui atu te aroha o ōna mātua ki a ia i mua atu nā te mea e ngaro pono ana rātou i a ia, ā, kei reira tonu rātou hei tautoko i a ia. Ko te ao i muri i te marena ka huri hei wā mō te manaaki i te kāinga o ō mātua. Engari kia tūpato, i pātaihia e mātou tētahi tangata i amuamu ai mō te nui o te whakahāwea o tana wahine nā te mea he tamaiti kotahi ia. Kia mahara kei te tata te marena ki te hoatu me te tango.

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14. He mea noa te pikinga o te taumaha mō te wahine kua moe tāne

Women ka piki ake pea te taumaha nā ngā panoni o te āhua noho me ngā tikanga kai i muri i te marena. Ko ngā huringa homoni, te iti o te wā mō te whakakori tinana, te iti o te ahotea ki te hiahia kia ātaahua, te huringa o ngā kaupapa matua, ngā whakaritenga mahi me ngā kawenga kāinga, me ētahi atu, ētahi atu take pea mō te pikinga o te taumaha. Ko te nuinga o te wā ka piki te taumaha o te tangata i roto i te marena nā te mea e tino pai ana ki tā rātou hoa hou, ā, e mōhio ana rātou he kaha ake tō rātou aroha i ētahi kirokaramu i runga i te pauna taumaha! !Ko te pikinga o te taumaha he huringa nui e puta ana i te oranga o te wahine i muri i te marena.

15. Tērā pea ka pā mai he momo raruraru tuakiri ki a koe

Ka tīmata te ngaronga o te tuakiri mai i reira. Ko te kāinga me ngā tāngata i tipu ake ai koe, te momo kai e whakatakotoria ana, te ahurea o te whare me ngā mea katoa e pā ana ki te wehenga atu i tō kāinga ka taea te kawe mai i te ngaronga nui o te tuakiri. Ko ētahi whānau ka huri i ngā ingoa tuatahi o ā rātou hunaonga wahine (he maha ngā wā ka tupu tēnei i roto i te hapori Sindhi). He maha ngā pātai e pā ana ki ngā painga me ngā huakore o te tango i te ingoa whānau o te tāne i muri i te marena. Kia mahara, i ngā wā o mua tata nei, i kiia te wahine kua moe he taonga, ā, kāore he mana ture. He pono, kua rerekē ngā mea engari ko te nuinga kei te tango tonu i te ingoa o tā rātou tāne. I te mea e mahi ana ngā wāhine me te whiwhi moni, āe, he nui ake te ōritetanga i roto i ngā marena i ēnei rā, engari ko ngā tūranga ira tangata tawhito ka puta ake i te roa o te marena o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine.

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