150 Ngā Tauira Kupu Whakaū hei Whakapūmau i tō Hononga

Kua kōrero mai tō hoa rangatira kei a rātou ngā kupu whakaū o te reo aroha, engari kāore koe i te tino mōhio me pēhea te whakamahi? I roto i tana pukapuka i te tau 1992, i whakamāramahia e Tākuta Gary Chapman ētahi reo aroha e rima. Ngā Reo Aroha e 5: Me pēhea te whakapuaki i te whakapau kaha ki tō hoa rangatira. I roto i ēnei, ko te tikanga o ngā kupu whakaū ko te whakapuaki i te aroha me te maioha mā te kōrero, mā te tuhituhi rānei. I roto i tēnei tuhinga, ka matapakihia e tātou te mahi a tēnei reo aroha. Kua tāpirihia hoki e mātou ngā tauira kupu whakaū hei āwhina i te hunga kāore i te matatau ki te kupu. 

Hei mārama ake i tēnei kaupapa, i kōrero mātou ki tētahi tohunga hinengaro me tētahi Kaiwhakaora Whanoke Hinengaro nō California, Tākuta Shefali Batra (MD i roto i te hinengaro), he tohunga ki te tohutohu mō te wehenga me te whakarere, te wehenga me te whakaipoipo, me ngā take hototahi i mua i te marena.

He aha ngā kupu whakaū o te reo aroha?

Ngā kupu whakaū reo aroha e arotahi ana ki te whakapuaki ā-waha (ā-tuhi rānei) i te maioha me te aroha. Ki te rongo tō hoa i te aroha ina mihi koe ki a ia, ina whakaatu koe i te whakawhetai, ina tuku kupu whakatenatena, ko tā rātou reo aroha he kupu whakaū.

Anei te whakaahuatanga a Tākuta Batra i ngā kupu whakaū, arā, "Ko tēnei reo aroha e pā ana ki te whakamahi i ngā kupu hei whakapakari i tō hoa—whakaarohia ngā mihi, te whakawhetai, me te mihi ā-waha. He rite ki te hoatu i tētahi wā whakangungu poto ki a rātou i ia rā, engari kāore he pom-poms. Āe, ko wai kāore e pai ki te whakanui i te whakapehapeha i ētahi wā?"

Me pēhea te whakamahi i ngā kupu whakaū? 

Ahakoa te uaua o te whakamahi i ngā kupu whakaū i roto i te whanaungatanga, ki te kore koe e mōhio ki te kupu. Kaua e manukanuka, kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakahua i ngā kupu a Shakespeare kia arohaina ai tō hoa (ahakoa, ehara i te mea kino te kī "Me whakarite koe e au ki te rā raumati?"). He ngāwari te whakaaro i ngā mea pai hei kōrero ki tētahi. Mā te kī noa atu ki a rātou i ngā mea pēnei i te, "I tino pai tō mahi i tēnei rā," "He pai ki ahau te āhua o tāu whakakata i ahau" ka pai ake ai tō rātou rā. 

E mea ana a Tākuta Batra, "Me pono, me whai whakaaro nui hoki ngā kupu whakaū. He tohu tēnei kei te tutuki pai koe i tēnei? Ka tīmata te ataata ina mihi koe ki ngā mea iti rawa." Anei ētahi tohutohu mō me pēhea te whakamahi i ngā kupu whakaū kia pai ai te rongo o tō hoa aroha i te aroha:

1. Kia motuhake, kia pono hoki

Kaua e kōrero whānui, ngana ki te whakaputa i ngā kupu pai hei kōrero ki tētahi. Hei tauira, kaua e kī noa "He rawe koe," engari me kī atu "E mihi ana ahau ki te huarahi i whakatau ai koe i taua āhuatanga uaua i tēnei rā." Reddit kaiwhakamahi ngā tohutohu i tohaina mō te whakamahi i ngā kupu whakaū. "Me whai kanohi koi me te mārama. Kāore e hiahiatia kia whiti engari me pono, me tūturu hoki. Kia aro ki a ia katoa engari me titiro hoki ki ngā taipitopito. Kia maumahara, ko tētahi mea e hiahia ana te katoa kia kitea, kia mōhiotia hoki."

2. Whakamihi i ngā wā katoa

Kāore e tino whai hua te whakahua i ētahi kupu whakamoemiti i te wā kotahi i te marama kikorangi. Ngāna kia auau ake te whakapuaki i ēnei mihi kia rongo ai tō hoa i te aroha i ia rā. Tērā pea ēnei mihi e pā ana ki tōna āhua, ki ōna āhuatanga, ki ōna whakatutukitanga rānei. He mea ngāwari pēnei i te "He pai ki ahau tō wairua whakakatakata" me te "He rawe tō mahi i te mahi i tēnei rā."

3. Whakatenatenahia, ā, whakatenatenahia hoki

He mahi nui tā te hoa rangatira ki te pupuri i te wairua kia teitei ina mahi ana te tangata ki te whakatutuki i tētahi whāinga. Nō reira, i ngā wā katoa e pāngia ana koe e ngā uauatanga, e te pouri rānei o tō hoa rangatira, me tuku atu kupu whakatenatena hei whakatenatena i a rātou. Hei tauira, "E whakapono ana ahau ki a koe, ā, e mōhio ana ahau ka tutuki i a koe ō moemoeā."

4. Whakaatuhia te mihi

He wāhanga nui te whakawhetai i roto i ngā whanaungatanga. Whakaatuhia te maioha mō ngā mea e mahia ana e rātou me te uara e tāpirihia ana e rātou ki tō koiora. Ko te kī noa "Ngā mihi ki a koe mō te tunu kai i tēnei pō" me te "E tino mihi ana ahau ki a koe i roto i tōku ao" ka nui te tikanga ki te tangata he reo aroha whakaū.

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5. Whakamihi i ā rātou mahi

Ina whakapau kaha tō hoa, me mihi ā-waha. Mā te kī atu i ngā mea pēnei i te "Kei te kite ahau i tō kaha ki te mahi, ā, he mea whakahihiko i ahau" ka rongo rātou kei te kitea rātou, kei te whai uara hoki, ā, ka akiaki hoki i a rātou kia kaha ake te whakapau kaha.

6. Tukuna matapōkeretia ngā tuhinga poto me ngā whakaaro nui

Te tuku karere kuputuhi reka matapōkere i te awatea, te huna rānei i tētahi tuhipoka aroha mā rātou e kimi ka nui te menemene ki ō rātou mata. Kāore e hiahiatia he mea whakapaipai. He mea ngāwari pēnei i te "Kei te whakaaro ahau ki a koe" me te "He mīharo koe" he nui hei whakamārama i tō rātou rā.

7. Whakamoemititia rātou i te aroaro o te marea

Kāore e tika kia noho noa iho ēnei kupu whakaū ki tō kāinga. Whakamoemitihia tō hoa rangatira i mua i te aroaro o te iwi, ahakoa he kanohi ki te kanohi, he pāpāho pāpori rānei. Mā tēnei ka whakaatu koe i tō hoa rangatira e whakahīhī ana koe ki a ia.

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8. Whakamahia he reo pai 

Ko te hunga e pai ake ana ki ngā whakaū aroha he tino aro nui hoki ki ngā kōrero kino me ngā nga mihi ki muriNō reira, kia mau ki te reo pai kia pono ai te tangi, kia kore ai e puta he tawai.

9. Whakanuia ngā whakatutukitanga me ngā tohu nui

Ko te kaupapa o ngā whanaungatanga he tautoko i tō hoa rangatira kia tutuki ā rāua whāinga, me te whakanui tahi me rāua ina tutuki i a rāua. Nō reira, ahakoa he nui, he iti rānei te whakatutukitanga, me tuku kupu whakamoemiti pēnei i te "E tino whakahīhī ana ahau ki a koe." me te "E tika ana kia whiwhi koe i tēnei, e aroha. E mōhio ana ahau i tino kaha tāu mahi mō tēnei."

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10. Whakaaetia ō rātou āhuatanga whaiaro

E kī ana a Tākuta Batra, "Kaua e whakawhāitihia ō mihi ki ō rātou āhua anake. Haunga te mihi ki ō rātou ataahua, me mihi hoki ki ō rātou āhuatanga whaiaro pērā i te atamai me te atawhai." Anei ētahi kupu whakaū hei whakamihi i ō rātou tuakiri:

• He nui tō aroha ki ngā kararehe
• Ko tōu hinengaro e miharo ana ahau
• He tino pai koe ki te whakakata i te tangata

11. Whakarato tautoko aronganui

He mea nui ngā kupu whakaū i ngā wā uaua hei whakamarie i tō hoa. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te tuku otinga i ngā wā katoa hei whakamarie i a rātou. Ka taea e koe te whakaatu i te tautoko mā te kī atu "Kei konei ahau mōu, ahakoa te aha" me te "He kaha ake koe i tō whakaaro."

12. Whakaritehia ō whakaū mō rātou

Mātakihia ko ēhea o ō rātou āhuatanga e tino whakanuia ana e rātou. Hei tauira, mēnā kei te kaha te mahi a tō hoa wahine ki te whakapai ake i ana pūkenga tuhituhi, ko ngā kupu whakaū whai hua mōna ko te "Āe, he tino ātaahua, he tino pai hoki tēnei tuhinga." ka whakanui tonu i tōna whakapono ki a ia anō. Waihoki, ngana ki te whakamihi i ngā āhuatanga e kore ai rātou e māia ki a ia. Hei tauira, mēnā kāore rātou i te tino mōhio ki ō rātou pūkenga tunu kai, me kī atu "He reka te tina!"

Mā te whakamahi i ēnei tohutohu, ka taea e koe te whakamahi i ngā kupu whakaū hei whakatairanga i te te whakawhanaungatanga o te ngakau ā, kia rongo tō hoa aroha i a koe e arohaina ana, e tautokona ana hoki.

Ngā Painga o Ngā Kupu Whakaū 

He āwhina te whakamahi i ngā kupu whakaū i roto i te whanaungatanga? Ae rā. Ehara i te mea he mea reka noa iho ngā kupu whakaū—engari he āwhina ki te whakapakari i ngā hononga kare ā-roto. E kī ana a Tākuta Batra, "Ka kite koe i a koe e tuku ana i ngā whakaū maha, ka nui ake te maia o tō hoa, ka tuwhera, ā—ka ohorere!—ka nui ake te tūponotanga ka whakaatu aroha anō hoki. He rite ki te porowhita urupare ā-waha o te aroha." Anei ētahi huarahi e āwhina ai ngā kupu whakaū i ngā hoa e rua i roto i te whanaungatanga.

• Te whakaaro whaiaro: Ka whakanui ake ngā kupu whakaū i te whakapono o tō hoa
• Te honohono: Mā te whakamahi i ngā whakaū pai tetahi ki tetahi ka whakapakari ake i te hononga kare ā-roto i waenga i ngā hoa mahi
• Whakawhitiwhitiwhiti: Mā te whakapuaki i tō aroha me tō maioha ka whakatairanga i te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero pai i roto i te whanaungatanga.
• Te whakaiti i te manukanuka: Ko te whakaatu aroha i ia wā, i ia wā, kāore e waiho he wāhi mō te whakaaroaro nui, te whakapae tuarua rānei i roto i te whanaungatanga.
• Ka hanga whakawhirinaki: Mā ngā mihi auau ka waihangahia he taiao e manakohia ana, e whai whakaaro haumaru ana hoki
• Aroha: Mā te whakapuaki aroha i ia wā, i ia wā, ka puta he urupare pai, ka poipoi i te kaha ake o te maioha me te aroha.

Me pēhea te tono kupu whakaū i roto i te whanaungatanga?

Kei a koe ngā kupu whakaū o te reo aroha engari kāore i te nui ngā whakaū aroha e whiwhi ana koe mai i tō hoa? Ko tā Tākuta Batra he tohutohu, "Whakamātauria te tuku tohutohu. Me kōrero noa i te nui o tō maioha ina mihi mai rātou ki a koe. He pai ake rānei, whiriwhiria korero tuwhera, me te kī atu i tētahi mea pēnei i te "He nui ake te hononga ki ahau ina kōrero koe i ngā mea pai." Ehara i te mea he hiahia; he whakawhitiwhiti kōrero." Anei ētahi huarahi whai hua hei whakatata atu ki tēnei kōrero:

• Korerohia o hiahia: Kōrero pono mō te āhua e hiahia ana koe kia arohaina koe 
• Kia tauwhāiti: Homai he tauira motuhake mō ngā momo kupu whakaū e hiahiatia ana e koe, me ngā āhuatanga hoki
• Whakamāramahia te 'take': Me whakamārama ki tō hoa te āhua o te aroha e puta ai ki a koe ngā kupu whakaū
• Whakaatuhia te whakawhetai mō ngā whakapumautanga o mua: Ka akiaki tēnei i a rātou ki te tuku atu i ētahi atu whakaū, ā, ka waihangahia he porowhita pai o te whakawhetai me te maioha.
• Kia mārie, kia pai hoki tō reo: Whakamahia ngā tauākī "I", kaua e huri i te tautohe hei kēmu whakapae
• Whakaū i a koe anō hei tauira: Ārahi i te tauira mā te tuku whakaū ki tō hoa

150 Ngā Tauira Kupu Whakaū hei Whakapakari i tō Hononga  

He maha ngā painga o ngā kupu whakaū i roto i te whanaungatanga. Ka āwhina i te whakapakari i te hononga, ka whakanui ake i te whakapono o tō hoa, ā, ka akiaki i te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero pai. Heoi, ko te hunga kāore i te pai ki te whakapuaki i a rātou anō, tera pea ka uaua ki te whakamahi i ngā kupu whakaū aroha ki te hoa. Mena ko koe tētahi o aua tāngata, anei ētahi tauira kupu whakaū hei āwhina i a koe.

Ngā mihi nui ki tō hoa rangatira

He huarahi ngāwari engari he huarahi kaha ngā mihi ki tō hoa kia arohaina, kia manaakitia, kia whakanuia hoki. He tohu iti ēnei hei whakaatu i te mihi me te whakamihi e whakaatu ana i ngā āhuatanga e arohaina ana e koe i roto i a ia. Te whakapuaki i ēnei kare ā-roto Ka taea e ia te whakakaha i tō hononga i ia rā, ā, ka āwhina hoki ki te pupuri i te āhuarangi pai i roto i tō whanaungatanga. Whakamahia ēnei kupu whakaū hei mihi ki tō hoa.

1. Kei a koe te ataata tino ataahua
2. Mā tō aroaro e whakamārama tōku rā
3. He pai ki ahau tō whakaaro nui
4. He tino pūkenga koe
5. Ka meinga e koe tetahi wāhi kia rite ki te kāinga
6. He ngākau atawhai tōu
7. E mihi ana ahau ki tōu mātauranga
8. He tino pukuhohe tōu
9. He mea whakamīharo ō kanohi
10. He tino auaha koe; he mīharo tonu ki ahau ō whakaaro
11. Ko koe te mea pai rawa atu kua pa ki ahau
12. He waimarie ahau ki te noho tahi me tētahi e manaaki ana i a koe
13. Ko tō kaha te mea e whakahihiko ana i ahau
14. He tino ataahua tō āhua i tēnei rā, pērā i ngā wā katoa
15. He mea hopuhopu tō kata

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16. He tino aroha koe, he tino tautoko hoki
17. He nui tōku aroha ki tōu ngākau nui ki tāu mahi
18. Ka whakaputaina e koe te mea pai rawa atu i roto i ahau
19. He tino ngahau te noho tahi me koe
20. He tino ataahua tō āhua
21. He tino pai ki ahau tō pono me tō pono
22. koe meinga ahau ite motuhake
23. He huarahi ahurei tāu ki te kite i te ao
24. E mihi ana ahau ki tōu whakatau
25. E mōhio tonu ana koe me pēhea te meinga ahau kia ataata
26. He rite tō pā ki te makutu
27. He wairua ataahua tōu
28. Aroha ana ahau ki to whakaaro
29. He tino mīharo tōu wairua mōrearea
30. He tino pai koe whakarongo pai; Kei te rongo tonu ahau i a koe

Ngā whakapumautanga o te aroha me te ngākau māhaki

He mea nui ngā whakaū i te aroha me te ngākau aroha i roto i te whanaungatanga hei pupuri i te ora o te aroha. Ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakapuaki i ō kare ā-roto kia mārama, kia kore ai tō hoa e rongo. tangohia mo te koreWhakamahia ēnei whakaū aroha hei whakamahara i a rātou ki te hononga motuhake e tohaina ana e kōrua.

31. Nui atu tōku aroha ki a koe i tā te kupu e taea ai te kī
32. Ko koe te ao ki ahau
33. Nui atu tōku whakawhetai ki a koe i roto i tōku ao
34. Ka kaha ake taku aroha ki a koe i ia rā, i ia rā
35. E arohaina ana e au ia wā e noho tahi ana tāua
36. E aroha ana ahau ki ngā mea katoa mōu
37. Ko koe tōku ngākau me tōku kāinga
38. Kāore e taea e au te whakaaro i tōku ao me te kore koe
39. Kāore he mutunga o tōku aroha ki a koe
40. Ko te noho tahi me koe te wāhanga pai rawa atu o tōku rā
41. I hinga i roto i te aroha me koe anō me anō
42. Ka whakaoti koe i ahau i ngā āhuatanga katoa
43. Kei konei tonu ahau mōu, ahakoa te aha
44. He pai ki ahau te āhua e taea ai e tātou te noho ko tātou anō tetahi ki tetahi
45. Ko koe taku ake ake, ake tonu atu

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46. Aroha ana ahau ki te ara e aroha ai koe ki ahau
47. Nau toku ngakau
48. Ko koe taku hoa pai me taku aroha
49. He tino whakahīhī ahau ki te karanga i a koe nōku
50. Ko koe taku manaakitanga nui rawa atu
51. E taonga ana ahau ki tō tāua aroha me tō tāua haerenga tahi
52. He pai ki ahau te ara ake i tō taha i ia ata
53. Nui atu tōku harikoa ki te whakapuaki i tōku ao ki a koe
54. Ko koe taku hoa rangatira, taku hoa aroha, me aku mea katoa
55. He mea noa iho te aroha ki a koe ki ahau
56. He tino waimarie ahau ki te aroha me te arohaina e koe
57. Ka whakamārama ake koe i ia rā, i ia rā
58. He pai ki ahau te āhua o tō titiro mai ki ahau
59. He mutunga kore tōku aroha ki a koe
60. Ka waiatatia e koe toku ngakau

Ngā kupu whakamihi

Ko te maioha te tūāpapa o tetahi mea hononga hauoraMā te whakamihi i ngā mahi a tō hoa, ahakoa nui, ahakoa iti, ka whakaatu koe i a rātou e kite ana, e whakanui ana hoki i tā rātou takoha ki tō oranga me tō whanaungatanga. Hei tauira, mēnā kei te āwhina tō hoa tāne i a koe ki ngā whakaritenga mō tō whakamātautau, ka taea e koe te mihi atu ki a ia, me te whakatakoto kupu whakaū hei whakaatu i tōna maioha. Whakamahia ēnei tauira kupu whakaū hei whakanui i a rātou, hei menemene hoki.

61. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō tō noho mai ki konei hei tautoko i ahau
62. E tino mihi ana ahau ki ngā mea katoa e mahia ana e koe mā mātou
63. He nui tōku mihi mō tō manawanui
64. E mōhio tonu ana koe me pēhea te mea kia motuhake ahau
65. E mihi ana ahau ki tō mahi uaua me tō whakapau kaha
66. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō te whakarongo tonu mai ki ahau
67. Kāore e ranea aku kōrero, engari e mihi ana ahau ki a koe
68. He mea nui tō tautoko ki ahau
69. E mihi ana ahau ki tōu māramatanga
70. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō tōku tūnga hei toka mōku
71. E mihi ana ahau mō ngā mea iti katoa e mahia ana e koe
72. E mihi ana ahau ki tō pono me tō tuwhera
73. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō te whakapai ake i tōku ao
74. E mihi ana ahau mō tō aroha me tō atawhai
75. E mihi nui ana ahau ki tō kaha i ngā wā katoa

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76. He pai ki ahau tōu ngākau hihiko ki te āwhina i ngā wā katoa
77. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō te mea e arohaina ana ahau i ia rā, i ia rā
78. Ka nui te mihi ki a koe mō tō whakaaro nui me tō tohu whaiāipo
79. He mihi nui ki ahau mō te whai hoa aroha pēnei
80. Kāore tō atawhai e ngaro i te tirohanga
81. E mihi ana ahau ki te huarahi e kata ai ahau e koe
82. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō tō manawanui me tō māramatanga
83. He wairua atawhai tōu; ngā mihi nui ki a koe
84. E mihi ana ahau ki te huarahi e wero ai koe i ahau kia pai ake
85. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō ō tāua wā i noho tahi ai
86. E mihi ana ahau ki tō tautoko i ngā mea katoa e mahia ana e au
87. Ka meinga e koe te ao hei wāhi pai ake mōku
88. E mihi ana ahau mō tō whakatenatena
89. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō te noho ko koe
90. E mihi ana ahau ki a koe mō tō wā e whakawātea ana i a mātou

Ngā kupu whakamihi

Mā ngā kupu whakamihi ka āwhina i tō hoa rangatira te mōhiotia me te whakanui. Whakamahia ēnei kupu pai hei mihi ki tō hoa rangatira, hei whakaatu hoki kei te kite koe, kei te mihi hoki ki ā rātou mahi me ā rātou āhuatanga. Anei ētahi tauira o ngā kupu whakaū mōna:

91. Ka kite ahau i tō kaha ki te mahi, ā, e mihi ana ahau ki tō kaha
92. I kite ahau i tāu whakahaere i taua āhuatanga; he mea whakamiharo
93. Ka kite ahau i te aroha me te manaaki i hoatu e koe ki nga mea katoa
94. E mōhio ana ahau ehara i te mea ngāwari, engari he mahi whakamiharo tāu i mahi ai
95. E mōhio ana ahau ki te nui o āu patunga tapu mō mātou
96. E kite ana ahau i tō ahunga whakamua, ā, e whakahīhī ana ahau ki a koe
97. E mihi ana ahau ki te nui o tō tipu ake
98. Ka mihi atu ahau ki a koe mō tō kaha i ngā wā uaua
99. Ka kite ahau i tōu ngākau pono, ā, he mea whakahihiko tēnei ki ahau
100. Ka kite ahau i te nui o tō manaakitanga ki te hunga e karapoti ana i a koe
101. E mihi ana ahau ki tōu whakapau kaha ki tō tāua whanaungatanga
102. Ka kite ahau i te huarahi e whakamarie ai koe i ētahi atu
103. E mōhio ana ahau ki tō whakaaro nui, ā, he nui te tikanga o tēnā
104. E mōhio ana ahau ki tō manawanui i ngā wā tata nei
105. E mihi ana ahau ki te huarahi i whakapau kaha ai koe ki ngā mea katoa

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106. Ka kite ahau i te aroha e whakakitea mai ana e koe ki ahau i ia rā, i ia rā
107. E mōhio ana ahau ki te nui o tō kaha i whakapaua e koe te noho hei hoa pai ake
108. E mōhio ana ahau ki te nui o tō manaaki i a mātou
109. E mōhio ana ahau ki te āhua o tō whakahaere i te ahotea me te atawhai
110. Ka kite ahau i te nui o tō manaakitanga mai ki ahau, ā, kāore au e whakaaro noa he mea noa iho
111. E mōhio ana ahau ki te nui o tō mahi takaro i ēnei rā, ā, e mihi ana ahau ki a koe
112. E mōhio ana ahau ki tōu tuwhera ki te ako me te tipu
113. Ka kite ahau i tō whakaaro nui ki ō kupu
114. E mihi ana ahau ki te huarahi e whakahihiko ai koe i te hunga katoa e karapoti ana i a koe
115. E kite ana ahau i te nui o tāu ngana, ā, e mihi ana ahau ki ō mahi
116. E mihi ana ahau ki tō kaha me tō manawanui
117. E mōhio ana ahau ki te nui o tō aroha ki tā tāua whanaungatanga
118. E mōhio ana ahau ki tō atawhai i tō wā me tō aroha
119. Ka kite ahau i a koe e rapu tonu ana i ngā huarahi hei whakapai ake
120. E mihi ana ahau ki te nui o tō hari e kawea mai ana e koe ki tōku ao

He kupu whakatenatena me te tautoko

He mea nui te whakatenatena me te tautoko i a koe e anga whakamua ana i ngā wā uaua, e tautoko ana rānei i tō hoa rangatira kia tutuki ai ā rāua whāinga. Ka taea e ngā kupu pai te whakanui ake i tō rāua māia, me te whakamahara anō hoki kāore ia i te mokemoke. Anei ētahi tauira kupu whakaū hei whakatenatena me te tautoko:

121. E whakapono ana ahau ki a koe katoa
122. Kei a koe tēnei, ā, kei konei ahau e tautoko ana i a koe
123. E mōhio ana ahau he kaha koe ki te mahi i ngā mea whakamiharo
124. Ahakoa te aha, ka tautoko tonu ahau i a koe
125. He kaha ake koe i to whakaaro
126. Kei konei ahau mōu, ahakoa te aha
127. Kaua e wareware ki tōu whakamiharo
128. E whakawhirinaki ana ahau ki ō whakatau; kei te pai rawa atu koe
129. Haere tonu; kei te ara tika koe
130. E mōhio ana ahau ka taea e koe te wikitoria i tēnei wero
131. Ka taea e koe te whakatutuki i tetahi mea e whakaaro ana koe
132. He whakahīhī tōku ki a koe mō tō whakamātau; koinā te mea nui
133. Kaua e tino kaha ki a koe anō; kei te whakapau kaha koe
134. He whakapono tōku ki a koe me ōu pūkenga
135. He nui ake te rerekētanga e mahia ana e koe i tō whakaaro

136. Kia maumahara, kei tō kokonga tonu ahau
137. E mōhio ana ahau ka kitea e koe he huarahi hei whakatutuki i tēnei
138. He nui ngā mea kua pā ki a koe; ka taea e koe te whakahaere i tēnei hoki
139. Kei konei ahau hei tautoko i a koe i ia taahiraa o te ara
140. Ka whakatenatena koe i ahau kia pai ake i ia rā, i ia rā
141. He nui tō pūmanawa; haere tonu
142. Whakawhirinaki ki a koe anō; e mōhio ana koe ki te mea pai rawa atu
143. Ahakoa te aha, ka anga tahi tātou ki te aroaro
144. He toa ake koe i tō whakaaro, he kaha ake hoki i tō āhua
145. Kei te tautoko ahau i a koe; he rawe tō mahi
146. Kia mau tonu te whakapono ki a koe anō; ae, e whakapono ana ahau
147. E whakahīhī ana ahau ki te tawhiti kua tae mai koe
148. He nui ngā mea kua oti i a koe; kaua e wareware
149. E mōhio ana ahau kei a koe ngā mea e hiahiatia ana hei angitu
150. Kia maumahara, kāore koe i te mokemoke—kei konei tonu ahau mōu

Pātai Auau

Thoughts Final 

Mā ngā kupu whakaū ka whakapakari i tō whanaungatanga, ka hanga i tētahi āhuarangi pai ake, ka whakapai ake hoki i te oranga hinengaro. Ka akiaki i te tipu, te whakaaro pai, me te maioha ki tētahi ki tētahi. Mena he kupu whakaū tō reo aroha, ka taea e koe te whakapuaki ki tō hoa mā te whakatata atu ki te kaupapa me te tuwhera me te whakaaro pai.

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