Ka taea e te wahine kua mārena te kukume i a koe? Āe, he uaua ngā take o te ngākau. Ina tupu te aroha o te tangata ki tētahi atu, ka tere te kore e whai tikanga ngā hanganga pāpori mō te marena me te marena kotahi. Nō reira, ehara i te mea tino kore te tūponotanga kei te aroha te wahine kua mārena ki a koe.
Engari ka taea e tēnei āhuatanga te waiho i a koe kia taupatupatu, kia ara ake ai hoki he maha ngā pātai. He aha ngā tohu e whakaatu ana kei te aro atu tētahi wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe? Me pēhea te wehewehe i waenga i te whakahoahoa me te kukume? Ā, ko te mea nui, me aha koe i roto i tēnei āhuatanga?
Ki te mea kei a koe tētahi wahine pēnei i roto i tō ao, ā, kei te pōhēhē koe mō ōna kare ā-roto mōu, mā te ako ki te pānui i waenganui i ngā rārangi ka āwhina i te whakatau i tō raruraru. Me whakamārama tātou i ngā tohu e pai ana tētahi wahine kua pakeke ake te marena ki a koe, me ngā mea e kukume ana i tētahi wahine kua marena ki tētahi atu tāne!
He aha te mea e kukume ana i te wahine kua marenatia ki tetahi atu tangata
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He hoa mahi, he hoa tawhito, he hoa wahine a tētahi hoa, he hoa – ka taea e tētahi wahine kua moe tāne te noho hei wāhanga o tō oranga pāpori, o tō porowhita rānei i roto i ngā huarahi maha. I ētahi wā, ka pai te noho tahi o kōrua, ā, ka puta he taumata whakamarie me te hononga whakamiharo. Engari e tino mōhio ana koe he hononga whakatārewatanga tēnei i waenganui i a kōrua? Kei te whiwhi koe i tētahi āhua mai i a ia e kī ana tera pea e nui atu tōna aroha ki a koe i te hoa?
Tērā pea kei te harikoa hoki koe mōna e tata ana ki a koe. He ataahua ia, he katakata, ā, kāore e kore ka kite koe i tana kata. Ā, i a koe e tata ana, tera pea kua kite koe i a ia e whero ana. He hoa rangatira tōna i tōna taha, engari kei te whakaaro koe kei te kukume ia ki a koe. Tērā pea he tohu tēnei kei te hiahia nui tēnei wahine kua moe ki a koe? Engari, "Kua moe ia," ka whakaaro koe ki a koe anō, me te whakaaro, "Ka taea rānei e ia te whakawhanake i ōna aroha ki a koe? Mena koinā, he aha te mea e kukume ana i tētahi wahine kua moe ki tētahi atu tāne?"
I mua i tā tātou titiro ki ngā tohu o te wahine kua moe tāne e aroha ana ki tētahi atu tāne, me tūhura tātou i te pūtake o ēnei kare ā-roto. I te nuinga o te wā, ko te pūtake o taua hiahia ko ōna hiahia kāore anō kia tutuki i roto i tana whanaungatanga matua. Engari tera pea ētahi atu āhuatanga e whai wāhi ana. Anei ngā tino take e hinga ai te wahine ki tētahi atu tāne ahakoa kua moe tāne ia:
- Kāore ia e rongo ana i te aroha me te maioha o tana tāne
- He hou, he whakahihiri hoki te hononga e whakapuakina ana e ia ki a koe, ki te whakataurite ki te hoha me te te ngākau māhaki i roto i tana marena
- Ki te whakaaro koe he tohu kei te kukume te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, ko te kore o te whanaungatanga piripono, ko ngā hiahia moe tāne rānei kāore anō kia tutuki i roto i tana whanaungatanga matua te take pea i kukume ai ia ki a koe.
- Kua taumaha rawa ia i ngā taumahatanga o tana marena me ana kawenga ā-whare, ā, ko te noho tahi me koe te huarahi tino pai mōna ki te mawhiti atu i tōna ao tūturu. Tērā pea ka hiahia ia ki te noho tahi me koe i ngā wā katoa e taea ana, ā, ka ārahi atu ki te piripono o tōna kare ā-roto ki a koe.
- E kukume ana ia i tō waiaro, i tō momo whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, i tō wairua whakakatakata – i tō āhua whānui rānei
- Ina aroha te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, tera pea nā te mea kua roa rawa ia e noho mokemoke ana i roto i tana marena, ā, ka hoatu e koe ki a ia he hononga me te whanaungatanga e hiahiatia ana e ia.
- Tērā pea ko ōna kare ā-roto aroha he hua nō ngā patunga kare ā-roto kāore anō kia ora, e meinga ai ia kia whakangaro i ana whanaungatanga, kia whakaoho rānei i te hiahia kia whakamanahia mai i ngā puna hou kia pai ai tōna whakaaro ki a ia anō. He uaua te mahi a te hinengaro tangata, ā, i ētahi wā ka kore e mau te here, ā, ka puta pea ngā patunga here hei aroha ki tētahi atu tangata.
- Kei roto ia i tētahi marena hauora kore me tētahi hoa rangatira e kaha ana ki te whakahaere, ki te tukino, ki te whakahaere ture, ki te whawhai rānei ki te waranga. Mā ēnei take katoa ka uaua te ora o tētahi marena, ā, ka rapu pea ia i tētahi tautoko – he taringa whakarongo, he pakihiwi hei okiokinga. Mena ko koe te pūtake tautoko mōna, ehara i te mea uaua ki te kite he aha ia ka puta ai he aroha ki a koe.
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20 Ngā Huarahi Hei Mōhio Mēnā Kei Te Aroha Te Wahine Kua Mārena Ki A Koe
Te kukume i waho o te marena He mea noa, ā, he maha ngā wā ka memeha noa iho. I ētahi wā ka kaha haere ngā kare ā-roto o te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, ā, ka aroha pea ia ki a koe. Ahakoa ka aroha ia ki a koe, he aha te tikanga o tēnā? Me pēhea te mōhio mēnā kei te hiahia te wahine kua moe tāne ki te tinihanga i a koe? He aha ngā tohu e hiahia ana ia ki te moe tāne ki a koe?
Ahakoa ka kitea e koe ētahi tohu huna, he uaua tonu te tino mōhio kei te aroha te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe. He mea maori te mataku kei he tāu pānui i a ia. He tika anō hoki te whakaaro ka tūkino pea koe i te whanaungatanga pai mā te mahi i runga i te whakaaro noa. Ahakoa kei te hiahia koe ki te anga whakamua, ki te hoki whakamuri rānei, he mea nui kia kitea te pūtake o ōna kare ā-roto ki a koe. Mā ēnei tohu e 20 e whakaatu ana kei te aroha te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakaoti i te panga:
1. Ka kitea e ia ngā take hei tata atu ki a koe
Me pēhea koe e mōhio ai mēnā kei te pai tētahi wahine kua mārena ki a koe? Ko tētahi o ngā tohu tino kitea ko tōna hiahia ki te noho tahi me koe, me te pārekareka ki ia wā. Ahakoa kei te pai tētahi wahine kua mārena ki a koe i te mahi, kei te aroha rānei tētahi hoa kua mārena ki a koe, ka hiahia tonu ia ki te noho tata ki a koe. I runga i ōna kare ā-roto mōu, e mārama ana kei te pai ia ki te noho tahi me koe. Ka meinga ia e koe kia noho whakamarie, kia hiahiatia, kia maioha, ā, koinei tāna e rapu nei.
Ā, he māmā ake tēnei māna mēnā ko ia tō hoa mahi. Ko tētahi o ngā tohu he wahine kua moe kei te aro atu te hoa mahi wahine ki a koe ko tōna noho tonu ki a koe. Ka whakapau kaha ia ki te noho tahi me koe i ngā wā katoa e taea ana. Ahakoa he whai i a koe ki te pae inu tuwhera i tētahi pāti, he tono āwhina rānei māu mō tētahi kaupapa, mō tētahi mahi rānei, ka puta mai i a ia he take hei whakanui ake i ana taunekeneke ki a koe.
2. Ka whakapau kaha ia ki te kite i a koe
Me pēhea te mōhio mēnā kei te pai te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, engari kei te huna tonu? Ehara i te mea ko tana hiahia anake kia whakamahia te wā e noho tahi ana ia me koe, engari ka whakapau kaha hoki ia kia tata atu ki a koe. Ka taea e koe te tohu i ngā tohu e aroha ana te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe mēnā,
- Ka toro atu ia ki tō whare me te hupa mēnā ka pāngia koe e te mate i te mahi.
- Ka tohe ia kia haria koe ki te kāinga i muri i tētahi pāti
- Ka tono ia kia haere tahi koe me ia ki te toa hokohoko
- Ka karanga ia i a koe ki te tina, ki te kawhe rānei
Ahakoa he hoa mahi, he hoa, he wahine a te hoa, he hoa rānei o tō hoa rangatira, ki te mea ka whakapau kaha te wahine kia noho tahi me koe, i a koe e mōhio ana ki te nui o ana mahi, he mārama kei a koe tētahi wāhi motuhake i roto i tōna ngākau me tōna ao. Ko ēnei mahi katoa āna e whakapau kaha ana he tohu mārama kei te hiahia te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, ā, he nui atu i te hiahia poto noa iho.
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3. Ki te mea kei te takaro te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, he tohu mārama tēnā kei a ia ōna kare ā-roto mōu
Ki te kite koe kei te takaro noa mai tētahi wahine kua mārena ki a koe, kāore e kore e hiahia ia kia whanake tō kōrua whanaungatanga hei mea nui ake. Ka taea e ngā tohu takaro a te wahine kua mārena te huna, te kitea rānei, tae atu ki ēnei engari kāore e herea ki ēnei:
- Te takaro me ōna kanohi – mā te titiro matatau ki ngā kanohi, mā te kimo rānei
- Te hāhā i tētahi mea ki roto i tō taringa me te reo whakahihi
- Te ngau i ōna ngutu
- Te takaro me ona makawe
- Te kukume i a koe kia tata
- Te whakapā ā-tinana roa
- Te hanga katakata paru
- Te whakaaro mō ngā tūtakitanga piripono
- Te tuku karere kuputuhi e kī ana i ngā kōrero whakaipoipo, i ngā pikitia whakarihariha rānei
He tohu katoa ēnei kei te aro atu tētahi wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe. Ā, ki te nui ake te mārama o āna kupu whakataki, ka tino mōhio koe he tino kaha te aroha o taua wahine ki a koe.
4. He iti noa te hae e kī ana he aroha tō te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe
Ina aroha te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, ka ahua rangatira, ka āhua rohe rānei ia mōu. Ahakoa kua moe tāne ia, ka hae ia ki ō mahi aroha/ira tangata. Kāore te wahine kua moe tāne e aroha ana ki a koe e koa ki te whakatata atu koe ki tētahi atu. Hei tauira, ki te pai te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe i te mahi, ā, ka kite ia i a koe e kata tahi ana me tētahi atu hoa mahi, ka haere tonu atu pea ia ki te kite i tāu e kōrero nei.
Waihoki, ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe, "Kei te pai taku hoa kua moe ki ahau?", whakahuatia noa ō haerenga whakaipoipo ipurangi. Ki te kite koe i te hae i a ia ka kitea kei a koe tētahi kōtaha Tinder, e mōhio ana koe ki tōna pūtake. Ki te mea ka riri ia i te kitenga i a koe me tētahi atu wahine, kua kore e taea te kī. Nā ōna kare ā-roto ki a koe ia e hiahia ai kia noho ko koe anake.
5. Ka rerekē tana whanonga i a koe
Mena kua roa kōrua ko tēnei wahine e mōhio ana tetahi ki tetahi, ka kite koe i tētahi panonitanga nui o tana whanonga i a koe. Ka rerekē tana whanonga, tana āhua, tana kōrero ki a koe, me tana kākahu. Me kī he hoa tēnei wahine, ā, he tāne kua moe tāne koe, engari kua mau tonu tō whanaungatanga pai i roto i ngā tau. I mua, ko te tikanga o te noho tahi he rā takirua me ō hoa rangatira, engari ināianei e hiahia ana ia ki te whakapau i te wā kounga ki a koe anake, ā, i ngā wā katoa ka hui tahi kōrua, ka mahi ia me te mea he rā.
Waihoki, ki te mea kei te raru koe i te whakaaro, "Ki taku whakaaro kei te hiahia te wahine a taku hoa ki te moe tahi māua", tirohia mēnā kei te ngana ia ki te hopu i tō aro i ngā wā katoa e noho tahi ana koe, kei te whanonga whakaipoipo, ā, kei te rapu huarahi me ngā whai wāhitanga hei hono atu ki a koe. Ko tēnei huringa whanonga e tohu ana kei te hiahia ia kia kite koe i a ia i roto i tētahi tirohanga rerekē nā te mea kei te huri haere ōna kare ā-roto ki a koe. Ko te wahine kua moe tāne e pai ana ki a koe ka hiahia kia kite koe i a ia, ā, ka ngana ia ki te miharo i a koe.
6. Ka tīmata te wairua atawhai
Ka tīmata te wairua manaaki ina huna ana tetahi i te ngā kare ā-roto pono o te aroha me te aroha ki tētahi atu tangata. Me kī, ka toro atu tētahi wahine kua moe tāne i roto i tōu ao ki tō kāinga, ka tīmata ki te riri i a koe mō te kī tonu o tō pouaka whakamātao i ngā kai kino kua takaihia. Ko te mea i muri mai ka mōhio koe, kua pau katoa i a ia te Rātapu i te hanga lasagna māu nā te mea i kī noa koe he pai ki a koe.
Ae, e mahi ana ia i tēnei mea i runga i te whakapae he hoa pai ia, kāore e hiahia kia mate koe i ngā uaua kua purua. Engari ko te tino take e whakapau kaha ana ia ko tōna aroha ki a koe. Ehara i te mea uaua ki te whakamārama he aroha tō te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe – ina kawea mai e te wahine he kai mā te tāne, he tohu tino piripono. Me kite noa koe i ēnei mea iti e mahia ana e ia māu.
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7. E hiahia ana ia ki te mōhio ki ngā mea katoa mō tō koiora
Me kī he hoa mahi ia e noho tahi ana kōrua, he hoa rangatira rānei nō tētahi hoa, he hoa pai rānei kōrua. Kua noho tahi kōrua i mua, kua noho tahi hoki, engari he kōrero noa iho. Ina ngana ia ki te huri i taua whanaungatanga ki tētahi mea piripono ake, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu e aroha ana te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, nui atu i te hoa. Anei te āhua:
- Ka tīmata ia te pātai i ngā pātai maha mō tō whānau, tō tamarikitanga, ō mahi whakangahau, ō mea e pai ana ki a koe, me ō mea kāore e pai ki a koe
- E hiahia ana ia ki te mōhio me pēhea kōrua e whakapau ai i tō wā waatea, ā, tera pea ka tūtohu mai i ngā mahi ka taea e kōrua te mahi tahi.
- He tino hiahia nui tōna ki ō whanaungatanga o mua
- E hiahia ana ia ki te mōhio he aha āu mahere mō te heke mai
Ko ēnei kōrero katoa āna huarahi ki te whakawhanake i tētahi hononga whai tikanga. Mēnā kāore, he aha rawa te take e whakaatu ai tētahi wahine kua mārena i te nui o tōna hiahia ki tō koiora? Āe, ko tētahi whakamārama whaitake ko te aroha o tēnei wahine kua mārena ki a koe.
8. Ka kōrero ia mō tana marena ki a koe
He maha ngā raruraru, ngā mea whakapataritari, me ngā āhuatanga kāore i te tino pai mō ia marena. Engari ko te nuinga o ngā wāhine e pai ake ana kia kaua e kōrero mō ō rātou oranga whaiaro me raruraru hononga, engari ko te hunga e tino tata ana ki a rātou. Mēnā kua tīmata te wahine ki te whakapuaki i ōna whakaaro ki a koe mō āna raruraru me āna herenga mō te marena, he tohu mārama tēnei kāore te wahine i te harikoa i roto i tana marena, ā, e rapu ana i te whakamarie i roto i te here kua hangaia e ia ki a koe.
Ko te mea e whakapuaki ana ia i ōna āwangawanga me ōna raruraru hōhonu ki a koe he tohu tēnei kua mōhio ia ki te nui o tōna whakaute ki a koe. Kei te rapu ia i tētahi atu tangata i roto i a koe, ehara i te hoa, ā, ko te mea kei te whakararuraruhia koe e tana marena kino he tohu kei reira te hononga – tera pea kei te aroha koe ki tētahi wahine kua moe tāne. Koinei anō hoki tana huarahi ki te whakamōhio atu ki a koe kei reira pea tētahi mea nui ake i waenganui i a kōrua. Kāore i te pai ngā mea katoa i roto i tōna pararaiha. Kei te rapu ia i tētahi mea e ngaro ana i tana marena. Ki a ia, ko koe te tangata ka taea te hoatu ki a ia.
9. He whakaaro nui āna karere ki a koe
Ka taea e koe te kite mēnā kei te pai tetahi wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe mā roto i ngā karere kuputuhi ka tukuna atu e ia ki a koe. Hei tīmatanga, ki te kore kōrua e tino piripono, ā, ka tīmata ia ki te tuku karere kuputuhi ki a koe hei kōrero noa, hei pātai rānei mō tā kōrua mahi, kia mōhio koe. Koinei te tohu tuatahi o ngā tohu maha e hiahia ana te wahine kua moe tāne kia neke atu koe i te karere kuputuhi. Hei tāpiri atu ki tēnei, ka taea e koe te kite mēnā kei te pai tetahi wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe mā roto i ngā karere kuputuhi, mēnā:
- Tērā pea ka tukuna atu e ia he karere pai mō te pō me te ata. Koinei tana huarahi ki te kī atu ko koe te mea whakamutunga me te mea tuatahi kei roto i tōna hinengaro i ia rā.
- Ka tīmata ia ki te tuku karere whakakatakata ki a koe
- Ka tīmata ia ki te whakapuaki ki a koe mō tōna oranga marena me ōna raruraru e pā ana ki ngā kōrerorero kuputuhi
- Ka whakautu wawe ia ki ō karere kuputuhi, ā, e hiahia ana ia kia haere tonu te kōrero
- E hiahia ana ia ki te mōhio ki ngā mea katoa mō tō rā
- Ka tuku karere ia ki a koe tae noa ki te pō
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10. Ka kōrero te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe mō te whanaungatanga piripono
Me pēhea te mōhio mēnā kei te hiahia te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe? Ina hiahia te wahine kua moe tāne ki te moe tahi me koe, ka kitea e koe ia e tāpiri ana i ngā kupu whakaipoipo ki ia kōrero. Tērā pea ka pātai atu ia ki a koe mō ō wheako i roto i te pēke, ka kōrero mai rānei i āna. Tērā pea ka kōrero puku ia ki a koe. Mēnā he tata kōrua, he kite rānei ia kei te whakahoki mai koe i a ia anō, tērā pea ka tīmata ia ki te kōrero ki a koe mō ngā moemoeā.
Tērā pea ka kōrero ia ki a koe me pēhea ia e whakaaro ana ki te arohaina me te wāhi e hiahia ana ia ki te whai i tētahi tūtakitanga aroha, ka peita i tētahi pikitia oraora hei hanga i tō hiahia ki te noho tahi me ia. Mā tēnei, ka ine ia i ō wawata, ā, ki te puta he mea, ka mōhio ia me pēhea te whakatutuki i aua wawata. Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu e whakaatu ana kei te aroha te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, ā, kei te akiaki i a koe kia neke.
11. Ka kite koe i tōna taha whakawai
Ngā mahi whakaipoipo He huarahi anō tēnei e mōhio ai koe kei te hiahia te wahine kua moe tāne ki te moe tahi me koe. Tērā pea ka titiro whakahihi ia ki a koe me te kī, "Kei te hiahia ahau ki a koe". Ka kite koe he tuwhera, he manaaki hoki tana reo tinana. Ki te mea kāore i te rawaka ēnei tohu ā-tinana e hiahia ana te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe hei whakakore i ō āwangawanga, tērā pea ka mahi ia i te nekehanga tuatahi.
Tērā pea ka pā atu ia ki a koe i ngā huarahi e whakakorikori ana, e whakaohooho ana hoki i a koe. Hei tauira, ka mirimiri i tō kaki me ō pakihiwi me te kī he āhua ngenge koe i muri i tētahi rā roa. Ka pā atu rānei ki tōna tinana i a koe i te wā kanikani noa, kia matara atu i te titiro a te tangata. He pā tūpono noa iho i konei, i reira? He tohu tūturu e hiahia nui ana te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe. Tērā pea ka kite koe he ātaahua ake āna kākahu, inā koa ka tūpono ko ia anake me koe. Āe, kua whakamāramahia katoatia.
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12. Ka aroturuki ia i tō oranga aroha
Mena kei te whakaipoipo koe i tētahi atu, he maha āna kōrero ki a koe mō tō kōrua whanaungatanga. Ā, tera pea ka ngana puku ia ki te kimi mēnā he raruraru kei waenganui i a kōrua ko tō hoa. Hei hoa 'mātanga' me te hoa whakawhirinaki, ka tuku atawhai ia i āna tohutohu. Kia aro mai, ā, ka kite koe ko tēnei tohutohu he maha ngā wā e pā ana ki te whakatairanga i a koe anō i runga i te whanaungatanga.
Kāore ia e whakaae ana kia mahia e koe tētahi whakarerekētanga, tētahi atu rānei ngā whakahē i roto i te whanaungatanga nā te mea ko tana tumanako kia noho ko koe anake. Mena he takakau koe, ka pātai atu ia ki a koe mō ō hiahia aroha, ā, ka aroturuki tonu i te haere o ō kōrua rā. Tērā pea ka kitea e koe e ia te whakahē i a koe kia kaua e haere ki tētahi atu rā, e tono atu rānei kia whakakahoretia e koe tētahi hoa pea nā te mea ki tana whakaaro kāore rāua e tika māu.
13. Ka kata ia mō te noho tahi me koe
Ka taea e koe te kī kei te aroha te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe mēnā ka ngana ia ki te aromatawai i tō urupare ki te tūponotanga kei te noho tahi kōrua mā roto i ngā whakaaro noa me ngā kōrero whakakatakata.
- E mea ana ia me i tae wawe mai koe ki tōna ao, kua marenatia koe e ia i roto i te manawa ohorere.
- Ka kī atu ia he aroha tōna ki a koe, kātahi ka whakakorekore noa iho hei kata noa iho
- Tērā pea ka mea ia i moemoeā ia mō kōrua ko ia i tētahi hararei takutai tauhou
- Me pātai atu rānei mēnā kua whakaaro koe he aha te āhua o te noho tahi me ia
E rua ngā take mō tēnei – kei te ngana ia ki te aromatawai i ō kare ā-roto i mua i te whakapuaki i ōna kare ā-roto ki a koe, he tohu rānei tēnei nō te wahine kua moe tāne ia. e hiahia ana kia neke koeAhakoa pēhea, ko te tūponotanga o tētahi atu mea e puta ake ana i waenganui i a kōrua ka pai ai tōna ngākau, ā, e hiahia ana ia kia mōhio koe kei te tuwhera ia ki tēnā ahakoa kei roto koe i tētahi hononga pumau.
14. Ina mea mai te wahine kua moe tāne kei te ngaro ia i a koe
Ina kī mai te wahine kua moe tāne kei te ngaro ia i a koe, kāore he ruarua o ōna kare ā-roto mōu. Hei tauira, kāore ia i kite i a koe, kāore hoki i kōrero ki a koe mō ētahi rā nā ngā herenga whānau, nā te pēhanga mahi, nā tō korenga rānei e wātea. Ina kōrero koe ki a ia, ina kite rānei koe i a ia i muri mai, ka oho wawe mai ia kua ngaro nui ia i a koe.
E mārama ana te hiranga o tō whanaungatanga ki a ia, ā, e mihi ana ia ki tō hoa. Kāore e oti ōna rā me te kore kōrero ki a koe. Ina whakararuraru ia i tō ngaro atu, ā, ina noho tahi me koe, ka hari tonu tōna ngākau, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu mārama e aro atu ana te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe.
15. Ka teka ia ki tana tāne kia noho tahi ai koe
Ka kitea ngā tohu o te wahine kua moe tāne e aroha ana ki tētahi atu tāne ina e teka ana ia ki tana hoa rangatira mō tōna wāhi noho hei hoa mōu. Kua roa a Frank, he kaipānui nō Nigeria, e mātakitaki ana i ngā wā katoa e haere tahi ana ia me tana hoa, a Elsie, ka tito kōrero ia kia kore ai e kōrero ko wai ia.
"E hine, kei a Sophie ahau. Kua pō te pō nei, nō reira me noho pea ahau ki muri." "Kei waho ahau mō tētahi tina tīma, ā, kei konei mātou i roto i tētahi rarangi roa." Nā tēnei i whakaaro a Frank, "He aha ia i kore ai e pai ki te kī atu ki tana tāne kei konei ia? Nā te mea, ko au tana hoa pai, ā, ehara i te mea onge kia noho tahi māua." I reira tonu ka tīmata ia ki te aro nui atu ki ana whanonga, ki tana reo tinana, me tana kōrero ki a ia, ā, ka mōhio ia kei te aroha tana hoa kua moe ki a ia.
16. Ngā waea roa, huna
Ko tētahi atu tohu e aroha ana te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe ko tana hiahia kia noho tonu ki te kōrero ki a koe. Hei whakatutuki i tēnei, kāore ia e māharahara ki te puta puku atu i tōna rūma moe me te kōrero puku ki a koe, he maha ngā wā he reo mārie. Ka tino tumanako ia ki tēnei mea nā te mea ka puta he harikoa me te harikoa ki a ia, kāore pea i roa ka pā ki a ia. Ka taea e koe te rongo i te hiranga o ēnei waeatanga ki a ia mā te pouri o tōna reo mēnā ka kī atu koe ki a ia kāore koe e wātea ana mō tētahi take.
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17. Ka hī ika ia mō ngā mihi
He ataahua ia – ahakoa he meka, ahakoa kāore he meka, ahakoa kei roto i ōna hāte me ōna tarau whānui – kāore he feaa mō tēnā. Engari ina rongo ia i tōna aroha ki a koe, ka kite koe ka tīmata ia ki te whakakakahu i a ia kia miharo ai koe, kia "Aue!" noa iho. Ka kore koe e kōrero ina kite koe i a ia e takoto kau ana, e mau ana rānei i tētahi kakara whakawai. Ā, koinā tonu tana i hiahia ai – kia hopukia koe kia aro tonu ō kanohi ki a ia. Kāore e taea te ārai. te tuku mihi ki a ia, ka taea e koe? Mena kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te mōhio mena kei te aro atu tētahi wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, he mārama noa iho tēnei tohutohu.
18. Ka maumahara ia ki ngā kōrero iti katoa
Ko tētahi atu tohu e aroha ana te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, nui atu i te hoa, ko tōna mōhio kei te pai koe ki te tuara o tōna ringa. E mōhio ana ia ko te kai reka o tōu hara ko Doritos, ka whakatoi ia i a koe nā te mea e toru ōu tangi i te mātakitaki i a koe. Toy Story 3, ā, ka kawea mai e ia he corndogs māu i ngā rā e tākaro ana tō tīma peisipolo tino pai.
Ahakoa te āhua makutu, kua whakaaro koe me pēhea ia e mōhio pai ai ki a koe? Nā te mea e whakarongo pono ana ia, e aro nui ana ki ngā mea katoa e kōrerohia ana e koe. Ina titiro matatau mai tētahi wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe i a ia e kōrero ana, ehara i te mea he... tohu kukume engari he tohu whakaaro nui hoki e whakaatu ana i tana aro ki ngā mea nui ki a koe, ā, e aroha ana ia ki a koe mā roto i ana mahi.
19. Ka kite koe i tētahi panonitanga o tōna reo
Me pēhea te mōhio mēnā kei te pai te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, engari kei te huna tonu? Āe, kāore pea ia e tino whakapuaki ana i ōna kare ā-roto, engari ka taea e koe te aromatawai i tēnā i runga i ngā whakarerekētanga o tōna reo. Inaa, he rerekē te reo me te pikinga o te reo i ngā wā rerekē. Hei tauira, i a kōrua e noho tahi ana, ka whakamahi ia i te reo kōrero noa, he ahua takaro pea. Engari i te wā e noho ko kōrua anake, ka huri pea hei reo hōhonu, hei reo whakawai. Koinei te tohu kei te hiahia nui ia ki a koe. Hopukia!
20. He tino pai ki a ia tō wairua whakakatakata
Āe, he tino katakata koe, he whakaaro noa rānei ia kei te pena koe nā te mea kei te aroha ia ki a koe? Hei tauira, kei roto koe i tētahi rōpū, ā, ka kata koe i tētahi katakata tino whakarihariha, ā, ko ia anake te tangata e kata ana. He aha tāu e kī atu ana? Kāore au i te tino mōhio? Āe, he harikoa ki te whakapuaki atu ki a koe koinei tētahi o ngā tohu o te wahine kua moe tāne kāore i te tino mōhiotia mō te takaro. Ka kata ia ki ngā katakata tino wairangi, tino whakakatakata e kataina ana e koe, nā te mea ka ara ake tōna wairua i tō aroaro, ā, e hiahia ana ia kia mōhio koe ko koe anake ka taea e ia te mea kia pēnei tōna kare ā-roto.
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Me pēhea te whakatau i tētahi wahine kua mārenatia e aroha ana ki a koe
Kei reira katoa ngā tohu. E mōhio ana koe e aroha ana ia ki a koe. Ko te pātai, he aha te mea e whai ake nei? I roto i ngā āhuatanga katoa e taea ana te whakaaro, he āhuatanga uaua tēnei kei mua i a koe. Mena he hoa mahi kua marenatia e aroha ana ki a koe, kotahi noa te nekehanga hē ka ngaro tō mahi, ka kino hoki ki tō umanga. Waihoki, mena he hoa roa, he wahine rānei a tō hoa, he hoa rānei a tō wahine e aroha ana ki a koe, tera pea ētahi whanaungatanga nui o tō ao kei te tūpono. Nō reira, he mea nui kia ata whiriwhiria ō mahi e whai ake nei. Anei ngā kōwhiringa e wātea ana ki a koe, i runga i ō kare ā-roto:
Ki te kore koe e rite ana ki a ia
Kia mahara, ehara i te mea te takaro noa he hononga poto noa iho rānei e kōrerohia ana e tātou (ahakoa he tinihanga te tinihanga, ahakoa tōna āhua), kei te aroha tēnei wahine ki a koe. Nō reira, ki te kore koe e rite ki te whakaaro ki a ia, kaua e ārahi i a ia kia whiwhi ai koe i te hihiri mā te whakaaro, "I moe ahau me tētahi wahine kua moe tāne." Engari,
- Kōrero ki a ia mō ngā mea i kitea e koe, me te pātai atu mēnā he tika tāu aromatawai.
- Ki te whakaae ia ki ōna kare ā-roto, me kī atu me te whakaute kāore ō kare ā-roto ki a ia e rite ana ki a koe
- Whakamanahia ia e whakaute ana koe i ōna kare ā-roto, ā, kāore ia e manukanuka kei puta tēnei mea.
- I runga i tō whanaungatanga o nāianei ki a ia, me kī atu koe ka noho tonu koe hei tautoko i a ia pērā i mua, ka maioha rānei koe mēnā ka pupuri kōrua i te tawhiti me te whakaute i ngā rohe o tētahi ki tētahi.
Ki te mea he rite tonu ō whakaaro ki a ia
Koinei te wāhi e uaua ai ngā mea. Mena kei te aroha koe ki tētahi wahine kua moe tāne, kua pāngia rānei koe e te aroha ki a ia, ko te mōhio kei te pērā anō ōna kare ā-roto, he mea whakamatautauria pea kia piki ake ngā mea ki tētahi taumata hou. Engari, ka akiaki atu ahau kia ata haere koe, kia whakaaroaro hoki.
- He aha te heke mai o tēnei whanaungatanga?
- Kua rite tēnei wahine ki te whakarērea tana marena kia hanga tahi ai he oranga mōu?
- Kei te whakaaro kotahi kōrua mō te āhua o te heke mai mō kōrua?
- Mā te mōhiotanga "I moe ahau me tētahi wahine kua moe tāne" ka whakakī koe i a koe ki te pouri me te hara ina tino piripono koe ki te wairua, ā, me noho tahi koe me te meka ko ia te hoa rangatira o tētahi atu. Kei te rite koe ki te whakahaere i te raruraru o te wairua?
- Mena kua moe tāne koe, kua whakaarohia e koe te ngā hua o te moepuku ina kua marenatia ngā hoa tokorua?
Kōrero ki a ia, ka kōrero taipitopito i ēnei āhuatanga, me te maha atu anō mēnā e tika ana, i mua i tō whakatau me pēhea te whakatau i tēnei āhuatanga.
Tohutohu Matua
- Tērā pea ka hinga te aroha o te wahine kua moe tāne ki tētahi atu tāne nā te mea kāore ōna hiahia i tutuki i roto i tana whanaungatanga tuatahi, kei te kite ia i tētahi hononga ki a ia, nā ngā patunga kare ā-roto kāore anō kia ora.
- Mai i te hiahia ki te noho tahi me koe ki te ngana ki te hopu i tō aro, te aro nui ki tō koiora, te noho ngoikore ki a rātou, he maha ngā huarahi e puta ai ngā kare ā-roto o te wahine ahakoa kua moe tāne ia.
- Ahakoa te whakahihiri, kaua e mahi ohorere ina kite koe kua aroha tetahi wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe.
- Ki te kore koe e whakaaro pērā, kaua e mangere ki te kōrero atu ki a ia me te whakaute me te ngākau māhaki. Ki te mea he rite ō whakaaro, me tūpato. Tērā pea ka pōrearea ngā mahi a ngā wāhine.
Nā te mea kua mōhio koe ki te mōhio mehemea kei te aroha tetahi wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, ko te mahi e whai ake nei ko te whakatau i tāu e hiahia ana ki te mahi mō ōna kare ā-roto. Mena he rite anō ō kare ā-roto, ka kaha pea te whakamatautauranga ki te kawe i tō whanaungatanga ki tētahi taumata e whai ake nei. Engari kia tūpato kei te te moe tāne ki waho o te marena me te wahine ka tere te raruraru. Ka tūpono koe ki te whara i te tini o te tangata i roto i te tukanga. He maha ngā wā, ko te hoa aroha te mea ka mahue. Ahakoa nāu te whiringa, me paunatia e koe ngā painga me ngā huakore i mua i te mahi i tāu nekehanga e whai ake nei.
FAQs
Ko te ngau i ōna ngutu, te tākaro ki ōna makawe, te kukume i a koe kia tata, me te whakapā atu ki a ia mō te wā roa, he tohu katoa ēnei o te takaro. Tērā pea he nui ake tōna kōrero pono i roto i ana mahi whakakatakata – te kōrero whakakatakata, te whakaaro mō ngā tūtakitanga piripono, te tuku karere kuputuhi kua whakakiia, tae atu ki ngā pikitia whakarihariha.
Ka tīmata ia ki te whakapau i te wā ki a koe, ka aro nui atu ki a koe, ā, ka whakapau kaha ki te mahi i ngā mea māu. Ka kite koe i te taha manaaki, aroha o ia, e whakapau ana i tōna wā ki te tunu i ō rihi tino pai, ki te hoko mai rānei i ngā koha maha māu.
Ka hanga e ia ngā kōrero whakaipoipo, ka whakapuaki i ana wheako me ana moemoeā piripono ki a koe, ā, he maha ngā pātai ka pātai atu ki a koe mō ngā mea e pai ana ki a koe me ngā mea kāore e pai ki a koe i runga i te moenga.
Ka ngana ia ki te whakawai i a koe mā roto i āna kupu, mā roto rānei i tana pā. Ka rapua e ia ngā huarahi hei pā atu ki a koe i ngā wāhi e rere ai te ia i roto i tō tinana. Ā, ka huri tōna reo hei reo whakawai ina ngana ia ki te takaro ki ō wawata moepuku.
Ka taea e koe te whakahoki i te whanaungatanga ki mua, te hoki whakamuri rānei mā te whakamōhio atu ki a ia kāore koe e hiahia ana. Kia tūpato ki ngā hua pai, ngā hua kino hoki ka puta mai i tēnei moe tāne me te wahine.
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