Ka taea e te wahine kua mārena te kukume i a koe? Āe, he uaua ngā take o te ngākau. Ina tupu te aroha o te tangata ki tētahi atu, ka tere te kore e whai tikanga ngā hanganga pāpori mō te marena me te marena kotahi. Nō reira, ehara i te mea tino kore te tūponotanga kei te aroha te wahine kua mārena ki a koe.
Engari ka taea e tēnei āhuatanga te waiho i a koe kia taupatupatu, kia ara ake ai hoki he maha ngā pātai. He aha ngā tohu e whakaatu ana kei te aro atu tētahi wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe? Me pēhea te wehewehe i waenga i te whakahoahoa me te kukume? Ā, ko te mea nui, me aha koe i roto i tēnei āhuatanga?
Ki te mea kei a koe tētahi wahine pēnei i roto i tō ao, ā, kei te pōhēhē koe mō ōna kare ā-roto mōu, mā te ako ki te pānui i waenganui i ngā rārangi ka āwhina i te whakatau i tō raruraru. Me whakamārama tātou i ngā tohu e pai ana tētahi wahine kua pakeke ake te marena ki a koe, me ngā mea e kukume ana i tētahi wahine kua marena ki tētahi atu tāne!
He aha te mea e kukume ana i te wahine kua marenatia ki tetahi atu tangata
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He hoa mahi, he hoa tawhito, he hoa wahine a te hoa, he hoa – ka taea e te wahine kua moe te noho hei wāhanga o tō oranga pāpori, o tō porowhita o roto rānei i roto i ngā huarahi maha. I ētahi wā, ka pai te noho tahi o kōrua, ā, ka puta he taumata whakamarie me te hononga whakamiharo. Engari e tino mōhio ana koe he hononga whakawhanaunga tēnei i waenganui i a kōrua? Kei te kite koe i tētahi āhua mai i a ia e kī ana he nui atu tōna aroha ki a koe i te hoa?
Tērā pea kei te harikoa hoki koe mōna e tata ana ki a koe. He ataahua ia, he katakata, ā, kāore e kore ka kite koe i tana kata. Ā, i a koe e tata ana, tera pea kua kite koe i a ia e whero ana. He hoa rangatira tōna i tōna taha, engari kei te whakaaro koe kei te kukume ia ki a koe. Tērā pea he tohu tēnei kei te hiahia nui tēnei wahine kua moe ki a koe? Engari, "Kua moe ia," ka whakaaro koe ki a koe anō, me te whakaaro, "Ka taea rānei e ia te whakawhanake i ōna aroha ki a koe? Mena koinā, he aha te mea e kukume ana i tētahi wahine kua moe ki tētahi atu tāne?"
I mua i tā tātou titiro ki ngā tohu o te wahine kua moe tāne e aroha ana ki tētahi atu tāne, me tūhura tātou i te pūtake o ēnei kare ā-roto. I te nuinga o te wā, ko te pūtake o taua hiahia ko ōna hiahia kāore anō kia tutuki i roto i tana whanaungatanga matua. Engari tera pea ētahi atu āhuatanga e whai wāhi ana. Anei ngā tino take e hinga ai te wahine ki tētahi atu tāne ahakoa kua moe tāne ia:
- Kāore ia e rongo ana i te aroha me te maioha o tana tāne
- He hou, he whakahihiri hoki te hononga e whakapuakina ana e ia ki a koe, ki te whakataurite ki te hoha me te te ngākau māhaki i roto i tana marena
- Ki te whakaaro koe he tohu kei te kukume te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, ko te kore o te whanaungatanga piripono, ko ngā hiahia moe tāne rānei kāore anō kia tutuki i roto i tana whanaungatanga matua te take pea i kukume ai ia ki a koe.
- Kua taumaha rawa ia i ngā taumahatanga o tana marena me ana kawenga ā-whare, ā, ko te noho tahi me koe te huarahi tino pai mōna ki te mawhiti atu i tōna ao tūturu. Tērā pea ka hiahia ia ki te noho tahi me koe i ngā wā katoa e taea ana, ā, ka ārahi atu ki te piripono o tōna kare ā-roto ki a koe.
- E kukume ana ia i tō waiaro, i tō momo whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, i tō wairua whakakatakata – i tō āhua whānui rānei
- Ina aroha te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, tera pea nā te mea kua roa rawa ia e noho mokemoke ana i roto i tana marena, ā, ka hoatu e koe ki a ia he hononga me te whanaungatanga e hiahiatia ana e ia.
- Tērā pea ko ōna kare ā-roto aroha he hua nō ngā patunga kare ā-roto kāore anō kia ora, e meinga ai ia kia whakangaro i ana whanaungatanga, kia whakaoho rānei i te hiahia kia whakamanahia mai i ngā puna hou kia pai ai tōna whakaaro ki a ia anō. He uaua te mahi a te hinengaro tangata, ā, i ētahi wā ka kore e mau te here, ā, ka puta pea ngā patunga here hei aroha ki tētahi atu tangata.
- Kei roto ia i tētahi marena hauora kore me tētahi hoa rangatira e kaha ana ki te whakahaere, ki te tukino, ki te whakahaere ture, ki te whawhai rānei ki te waranga. Mā ēnei take katoa ka uaua te ora o tētahi marena, ā, ka rapu pea ia i tētahi tautoko – he taringa whakarongo, he pakihiwi hei okiokinga. Mena ko koe te pūtake tautoko mōna, ehara i te mea uaua ki te kite he aha ia ka puta ai he aroha ki a koe.
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20 Ngā Huarahi Hei Mōhio Mēnā Kei Te Aroha Te Wahine Kua Mārena Ki A Koe
He mea noa te kukume i waho o te marena, ā, he maha ngā wā ka memeha haere. I ētahi wā ka kaha haere ngā kare ā-roto o te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, ā, ka aroha pea ia ki a koe. Ahakoa ka aroha ia ki a koe, he aha te tikanga o tēnā? Me pēhea te mōhio mēnā kei te hiahia te wahine kua moe tāne ki te tinihanga i a koe? He aha ngā tohu e hiahia ana ia ki te moe tāne ki a koe?
Ahakoa ka kitea e koe ētahi tohu huna, he uaua tonu te tino mōhio kei te aroha te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe. He mea maori te mataku kei he tāu pānui i a ia. He tika anō hoki te whakaaro ka tūkino pea koe i te whanaungatanga pai mā te mahi i runga i te whakaaro noa. Ahakoa kei te hiahia koe ki te anga whakamua, ki te hoki whakamuri rānei, he mea nui kia kitea te pūtake o ōna kare ā-roto ki a koe. Mā ēnei tohu e 20 e whakaatu ana kei te aroha te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakaoti i te panga:
1. Ka kitea e ia ngā take hei tata atu ki a koe
Me pēhea koe e mōhio ai mēnā kei te pai tētahi wahine kua mārena ki a koe? Ko tētahi o ngā tohu tino kitea ko tōna hiahia ki te noho tahi me koe, me te pārekareka ki ia wā. Ahakoa kei te pai tētahi wahine kua mārena ki a koe i te mahi, kei te aroha rānei tētahi hoa kua mārena ki a koe, ka hiahia tonu ia ki te noho tata ki a koe. I runga i ōna kare ā-roto mōu, e mārama ana kei te pai ia ki te noho tahi me koe. Ka meinga ia e koe kia noho whakamarie, kia hiahiatia, kia maioha, ā, koinei tāna e rapu nei.
Ā, he māmā ake tēnei māna mēnā ko ia tō hoa mahi. Ko tētahi o ngā tohu e aro nui ana te hoa mahi wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe ko tōna noho tonu ki a koe. Ka whakapau kaha ia ki te noho tahi me koe i ngā wā katoa e taea ana. Ahakoa he whai i a koe ki te pae inu tuwhera i tētahi pāti, he tono āwhina rānei māu mō tētahi kaupapa, mahi rānei, ka puta mai he take hei whakanui ake i ana taunekeneke ki a koe.
2. Ka whakapau kaha ia ki te kite i a koe
Me pēhea te mōhio mēnā kei te pai te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, engari kei te huna tonu? Ehara i te mea ko tana hiahia anake kia whakamahia te wā e noho tahi ana ia me koe, engari ka whakapau kaha hoki ia kia tata atu ki a koe. Ka taea e koe te tohu i ngā tohu e aroha ana te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe mēnā,
- Ka toro atu ia ki tō whare me te hupa mēnā ka pāngia koe e te mate i te mahi.
- Ka tohe ia kia haria koe ki te kāinga i muri i tētahi pāti
- Ka tono ia kia haere tahi koe me ia ki te toa hokohoko
- Ka karanga ia i a koe ki te tina, ki te kawhe rānei
Ahakoa he hoa mahi, he hoa, he wahine a te hoa, he hoa rānei o tō hoa rangatira, ki te mea ka whakapau kaha te wahine kia noho tahi me koe, i a koe e mōhio ana ki te nui o ana mahi, he mārama kei a koe tētahi wāhi motuhake i roto i tōna ngākau me tōna ao. Ko ēnei mahi katoa āna e whakapau kaha ana he tohu mārama kei te hiahia te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, ā, he nui atu i te hiahia poto noa iho.
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3. Ki te mea kei te takaro te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, he tohu mārama tēnā kei a ia ōna kare ā-roto mōu
Ki te kite koe kei te takaro noa mai tētahi wahine kua mārena ki a koe, kāore e kore e hiahia ia kia whanake tō kōrua whanaungatanga hei mea nui ake. Ka taea e ngā tohu takaro a te wahine kua mārena te huna, te kitea rānei, tae atu ki ēnei engari kāore e herea ki ēnei:
- Te takaro me ōna kanohi – mā te titiro matatau ki ngā kanohi, mā te kimo rānei
- Te hāhā i tētahi mea ki roto i tō taringa me te reo whakahihi
- Te ngau i ōna ngutu
- Te takaro me ona makawe
- Te kukume i a koe kia tata
- Te whakapā ā-tinana roa
- Te hanga katakata paru
- Te whakaaro mō ngā tūtakitanga piripono
- Te tuku karere kuputuhi e kī ana i ngā kōrero whakaipoipo, i ngā pikitia whakarihariha rānei
He tohu katoa ēnei kei te aro atu tētahi wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe. Ā, ki te nui ake te mārama o āna kupu whakataki, ka tino mōhio koe he tino kaha te aroha o taua wahine ki a koe.
4. He iti noa te hae e kī ana he aroha tō te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe
Ina aroha te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, ka ahua rangatira, ka āhua rohe rānei ia mōu. Ahakoa kua moe tāne ia, ka hae ia ki ō mahi aroha/ira tangata. Kāore te wahine kua moe tāne e aroha ana ki a koe e koa ki te whakatata atu koe ki tētahi atu. Hei tauira, ki te pai te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe i te mahi, ā, ka kite ia i a koe e kata tahi ana me tētahi atu hoa mahi, ka haere tonu atu pea ia ki te kite i tāu e kōrero nei.
Waihoki, ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe, "Kei te pai taku hoa kua moe tāne ki ahau?", whakahuatia noa ō haerenga whakaipoipo ipurangi. Ki te kite koe i te hae i tana kitenga kei a koe he kōtaha Tinder , ka mōhio koe ki tōna pūtake. Ki te mea ka riri ia i te kitenga i a koe me tētahi atu wahine, kua tuhia ki te pakitara. Ko ōna kare ā-roto ki a koe ka hiahia ia ki a koe anake.
5. Ka rerekē tana whanonga i a koe
Mena kua roa kōrua ko tēnei wahine e mōhio ana tetahi ki tetahi, ka kite koe i tētahi panonitanga nui o tana whanonga i a koe. Ka rerekē tana whanonga, tana āhua, tana kōrero ki a koe, me tana kākahu. Me kī he hoa tēnei wahine, ā, he tāne kua moe tāne koe, engari kua mau tonu tō whanaungatanga pai i roto i ngā tau. I mua, ko te tikanga o te noho tahi he rā takirua me ō hoa rangatira, engari ināianei e hiahia ana ia ki te whakapau i te wā kounga ki a koe anake, ā, i ngā wā katoa ka hui tahi kōrua, ka mahi ia me te mea he rā.
Waihoki, ki te mea kei te raru koe i te whakaaro, "Ki taku whakaaro kei te hiahia te wahine a taku hoa ki te moe tahi māua", tirohia mēnā kei te ngana ia ki te hopu i tō aro i ngā wā katoa e noho tahi ana koe, kei te whanonga whakaipoipo, ā, kei te rapu huarahi me ngā whai wāhitanga hei hono atu ki a koe. Ko tēnei huringa whanonga e tohu ana kei te hiahia ia kia kite koe i a ia i roto i tētahi tirohanga rerekē nā te mea kei te huri haere ōna kare ā-roto ki a koe. Ko te wahine kua moe tāne e pai ana ki a koe ka hiahia kia kite koe i a ia, ā, ka ngana ia ki te miharo i a koe.
6. Ka tīmata te wairua atawhai
Ka tīmata te aroha me te manaaki ina he aroha pono tō tetahi ki tētahi atu. Me kī, ka toro atu tētahi wahine kua moe tāne i roto i tōu ao ki tō kāinga, ka tīmata te riri i a koe mō te kī tonu o tō pouaka whakamātao i ngā kai kino kua takaihia. Kātahi anō ka mōhio koe, kua pau katoa i a ia te Rātapu i te hanga lasagna māu nā te mea i kī noa koe he pai ki a koe.
Ae, e mahi ana ia i tēnei mea i runga i te whakapae he hoa pai ia, kāore e hiahia kia mate koe i ngā uaua kua purua. Engari ko te tino take e whakapau kaha ana ia ko tōna aroha ki a koe. Ehara i te mea uaua ki te whakamārama he aroha tō te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe – ina kawea mai e te wahine he kai mā te tāne, he tohu tino piripono. Me kite noa koe i ēnei mea iti e mahia ana e ia māu.
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7. E hiahia ana ia ki te mōhio ki ngā mea katoa mō tō koiora
Me kī he hoa mahi ia e noho tahi ana kōrua, he hoa rangatira rānei nō tētahi hoa, he hoa pai rānei kōrua. Kua noho tahi kōrua i mua, kua noho tahi hoki, engari he kōrero noa iho. Ina ngana ia ki te huri i taua whanaungatanga ki tētahi mea piripono ake, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu e aroha ana te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, nui atu i te hoa. Anei te āhua:
- Ka tīmata ia te pātai i ngā pātai maha mō tō whānau, tō tamarikitanga, ō mahi whakangahau, ō mea e pai ana ki a koe, me ō mea kāore e pai ki a koe
- E hiahia ana ia ki te mōhio me pēhea kōrua e whakapau ai i tō wā waatea, ā, tera pea ka tūtohu mai i ngā mahi ka taea e kōrua te mahi tahi.
- He tino hiahia nui tōna ki ō whanaungatanga o mua
- E hiahia ana ia ki te mōhio he aha āu mahere mō te heke mai
Ko ēnei kōrero katoa āna huarahi ki te whakawhanake i tētahi hononga whai tikanga. Mēnā kāore, he aha rawa te take e whakaatu ai tētahi wahine kua mārena i te nui o tōna hiahia ki tō koiora? Āe, ko tētahi whakamārama whaitake ko te aroha o tēnei wahine kua mārena ki a koe.
8. Ka kōrero ia mō tana marena ki a koe
He maha ngā raruraru, ngā mea whakapataritari, me ngā āhuatanga kāore i te tino pai mō ia marena. Engari ko te nuinga o te wā, kāore ngā wāhine e pai ki te kōrero mō ō rātou ake oranga me ngā raruraru whanaungatanga , engari ki te hunga e tata ana ki a rātou. Mena kua tīmata te wahine ki te whakapuaki i ōna raruraru me ōna herenga marena ki a koe, he tohu mārama tēnei kāore te wahine i te harikoa i roto i tana marena, ā, e rapu ana i te whakamarie i roto i te hononga kua hangaia e ia ki a koe.
Ko te mea e whakapuaki ana ia i ōna āwangawanga me ōna raruraru hōhonu ki a koe he tohu tēnei kua mōhio ia ki te nui o tōna whakaute ki a koe. Kei te rapu ia i tētahi atu tangata i roto i a koe, ehara i te hoa, ā, ko te mea kei te whakararuraruhia koe e tana marena kino he tohu kei reira te hononga – tera pea kei te aroha koe ki tētahi wahine kua moe tāne. Koinei anō hoki tana huarahi ki te whakamōhio atu ki a koe kei reira pea tētahi mea nui ake i waenganui i a kōrua. Kāore i te pai ngā mea katoa i roto i tōna pararaiha. Kei te rapu ia i tētahi mea e ngaro ana i tana marena. Ki a ia, ko koe te tangata ka taea te hoatu ki a ia.
9. He whakaaro nui āna karere ki a koe
Ka taea e koe te kite mēnā kei te pai tetahi wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe mā roto i ngā karere kuputuhi ka tukuna atu e ia ki a koe. Hei tīmatanga, ki te kore kōrua e tino piripono, ā, ka tīmata ia ki te tuku karere kuputuhi ki a koe hei kōrero noa, hei pātai rānei mō tā kōrua mahi, kia mōhio koe. Koinei te tohu tuatahi o ngā tohu maha e hiahia ana te wahine kua moe tāne kia neke atu koe i te karere kuputuhi. Hei tāpiri atu ki tēnei, ka taea e koe te kite mēnā kei te pai tetahi wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe mā roto i ngā karere kuputuhi, mēnā:
- Tērā pea ka tukuna atu e ia he karere pai mō te pō me te ata. Koinei tana huarahi ki te kī atu ko koe te mea whakamutunga me te mea tuatahi kei roto i tōna hinengaro i ia rā.
- Ka tīmata ia ki te tuku karere whakakatakata ki a koe
- Ka tīmata ia ki te whakapuaki ki a koe mō tōna oranga marena me ōna raruraru e pā ana ki ngā kōrerorero kuputuhi
- Ka whakautu wawe ia ki ō karere kuputuhi, ā, e hiahia ana ia kia haere tonu te kōrero
- E hiahia ana ia ki te mōhio ki ngā mea katoa mō tō rā
- Ka tuku karere ia ki a koe tae noa ki te pō
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10. Ka kōrero te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe mō te whanaungatanga piripono
Me pēhea te mōhio mēnā kei te hiahia te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe? Ina hiahia te wahine kua moe tāne ki te moe tahi me koe, ka kitea e koe ia e tāpiri ana i ngā kupu whakaipoipo ki ia kōrero. Tērā pea ka pātai atu ia ki a koe mō ō wheako i roto i te pēke, ka kōrero mai rānei i āna. Tērā pea ka kōrero puku ia ki a koe. Mēnā he tata kōrua, he kite rānei ia kei te whakahoki mai koe i a ia anō, tērā pea ka tīmata ia ki te kōrero ki a koe mō ngā moemoeā.
Tērā pea ka kōrero ia ki a koe me pēhea ia e whakaaro ana ki te arohaina me te wāhi e hiahia ana ia ki te whai i tētahi tūtakitanga aroha, ka peita i tētahi pikitia oraora hei hanga i tō hiahia ki te noho tahi me ia. Mā tēnei, ka ine ia i ō wawata, ā, ki te puta he mea, ka mōhio ia me pēhea te whakatutuki i aua wawata. Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu e whakaatu ana kei te aroha te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, ā, kei te akiaki i a koe kia neke.
11. Ka kite koe i tōna taha whakawai
Ko ngā mahi whakaipoipo he huarahi anō hei whakaatu i te hiahia o te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe. Tērā pea ka titiro mai ia ki a koe me te titiro "Kei te hiahia ahau ki a koe". Ka kite koe he tuwhera, he manaaki hoki tana reo tinana. Ki te mea kāore i te ranea ēnei tohu ā-tinana e hiahia ana te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe hei whakakore i ō āwangawanga, tērā pea ka mahi tuatahi ia.
Tērā pea ka pā atu ia ki a koe i ngā huarahi e whakakorikori ana, e whakaohooho ana hoki i a koe. Hei tauira, ka mirimiri i tō kaki me ō pakihiwi me te kī he āhua ngenge koe i muri i tētahi rā roa. Ka pā atu rānei ki tōna tinana i a koe i te wā kanikani noa, kia matara atu i te titiro a te tangata. He pā tūpono noa iho i konei, i reira? He tohu tūturu e hiahia nui ana te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe. Tērā pea ka kite koe he ātaahua ake āna kākahu, inā koa ka tūpono ko ia anake me koe. Āe, kua whakamāramahia katoatia.
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12. Ka aroturuki ia i tō oranga aroha
Mena kei te whakaipoipo koe i tētahi atu, he maha āna kōrero ki a koe mō tō kōrua whanaungatanga. Ā, tera pea ka ngana puku ia ki te kimi mēnā he raruraru kei waenganui i a kōrua ko tō hoa. Hei hoa 'mātanga' me te hoa whakawhirinaki, ka tuku atawhai ia i āna tohutohu. Kia aro mai, ā, ka kite koe ko tēnei tohutohu he maha ngā wā e pā ana ki te whakatairanga i a koe anō i runga i te whanaungatanga.
Kāore ia e whakaae kia whakarerekētia, kia whakaaetia rānei e koe te whanaungatanga nā te mea ko tana tumanako kia noho ko kōrua anake. Mena he takakau koe, ka pātai atu ia ki a koe mō ō hiahia aroha, ā, ka aroturuki tonu i te haere o ō kōrua rā. Tērā pea ka kitea e koe e ia te whakahē i a koe kia kaua e haere ki tētahi atu rā, e tono atu rānei kia whakakahoretia e koe tētahi hoa pea nā te mea ki a ia kāore rāua e tika māu.
13. Ka kata ia mō te noho tahi me koe
Ka taea e koe te kī kei te aroha te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe mēnā ka ngana ia ki te aromatawai i tō urupare ki te tūponotanga kei te noho tahi kōrua mā roto i ngā whakaaro noa me ngā kōrero whakakatakata.
- E mea ana ia me i tae wawe mai koe ki tōna ao, kua marenatia koe e ia i roto i te manawa ohorere.
- Ka kī atu ia he aroha tōna ki a koe, kātahi ka whakakorekore noa iho hei kata noa iho
- Tērā pea ka mea ia i moemoeā ia mō kōrua ko ia i tētahi hararei takutai tauhou
- Me pātai atu rānei mēnā kua whakaaro koe he aha te āhua o te noho tahi me ia
E rua ngā take mō tēnei – kei te ngana ia ki te aromatawai i ō kare ā-roto i mua i te whakapuaki i ōna kare ā-roto ki a koe, he tohu rānei tēnei e hiahia ana te wahine kua moe tāne kia neke atu koe . Ahakoa pēhea, ko te tūponotanga o tētahi atu mea e puta ake ana i waenganui i a kōrua ka pai ai tōna ngākau, ā, e hiahia ana ia kia mōhio koe kei te tuwhera ia ki tēnā ahakoa kei roto i tētahi hononga pumau.
14. Ina mea mai te wahine kua moe tāne kei te ngaro ia i a koe
Ina kī mai te wahine kua moe tāne kei te ngaro ia i a koe, kāore he ruarua o ōna kare ā-roto mōu. Hei tauira, kāore ia i kite i a koe, kāore hoki i kōrero ki a koe mō ētahi rā nā ngā herenga whānau, nā te pēhanga mahi, nā tō korenga rānei e wātea. Ina kōrero koe ki a ia, ina kite rānei koe i a ia i muri mai, ka oho wawe mai ia kua ngaro nui ia i a koe.
E mārama ana te hiranga o tō whanaungatanga ki a ia, ā, e mihi ana ia ki tō hoa. Kāore e oti ōna rā me te kore kōrero ki a koe. Ina whakararuraru ia i tō ngaro atu, ā, ina noho tahi me koe, ka hari tonu tōna ngākau, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu mārama e aro atu ana te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe.
15. Ka teka ia ki tana tāne kia noho tahi ai koe
Ka kitea ngā tohu o te wahine kua moe tāne e aroha ana ki tētahi atu tāne ina kōrero teka ia ki tana hoa rangatira mō tōna wāhi noho tahi. Kua roa a Frank, he kaipānui nō Nigeria, e kite ana i ngā wā katoa e haere tahi ana rāua ko tana hoa, ko Elsie, ka tito kōrero ia kia kore ai e kōrero ko wai ia.
"E hine, kei a Sophie ahau. Kua pō te pō nei, nō reira me noho pea ahau ki muri." "Kei waho ahau mō tētahi tina tīma, ā, kei konei mātou i roto i tētahi rarangi roa." Nā tēnei i whakaaro a Frank, "He aha ia i kore ai e pai ki te kī atu ki tana tāne kei konei ia? Nā te mea, ko au tana hoa pai, ā, ehara i te mea onge kia noho tahi māua." I reira tonu ka tīmata ia ki te aro nui atu ki ana whanonga, ki tana reo tinana, me tana kōrero ki a ia, ā, ka mōhio ia kei te aroha tana hoa kua moe ki a ia.
16. Ngā waea roa, huna
Ko tētahi atu tohu e aroha ana te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe ko tana hiahia kia noho tonu ki te kōrero ki a koe. Hei whakatutuki i tēnei, kāore ia e māharahara ki te puta puku atu i tōna rūma moe me te kōrero puku ki a koe, he maha ngā wā he reo mārie. Ka tino tumanako ia ki tēnei mea nā te mea ka puta he harikoa me te harikoa ki a ia, kāore pea i roa ka pā ki a ia. Ka taea e koe te rongo i te hiranga o ēnei waeatanga ki a ia mā te pouri o tōna reo mēnā ka kī atu koe ki a ia kāore koe e wātea ana mō tētahi take.
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17. Ka hī ika ia mō ngā mihi
He ataahua ia – ahakoa he meka, ahakoa kāore he meka, ahakoa kei roto i ōna hāte me ōna tarau whānui – kāore he ruarua mō tēnā. Engari ina rongo ia i tōna aroha ki a koe, ka kite koe ka tīmata ia ki te whakakakahu i a ia kia miharo ai koe, kia "Pōuri!" ai. Ka kore koe e kōrero ki te kite i a ia e mau ana i te kaki hohonu, i te kakara whakawaiwai rānei. Ā, koinā tonu tana i whakaaro ai – kia whakamoea koe kia aro tonu ō kanohi ki a ia. Kāore e taea te kore e ringihia e koe ngā mihi ki a ia , āe? Mēnā kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te mōhio mēnā kei te hiahia koe ki tētahi wahine kua moe tāne, he mārama tēnei tohu.
18. Ka maumahara ia ki ngā kōrero iti katoa
Ko tētahi atu tohu e aroha ana te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, nui atu i te hoa, ko tana mōhio kei te pai koe ki te tuara o tōna ringa. E mōhio ana ia ko te kai reka a Doritos tōu, ka whakatoi ia i a koe nā te mea e toru ōu tangi i te mātakitaki i a Toy Story 3 , ā, ka kawea mai e ia he kāpeti māu i ngā rā e takaro ana tō tīma pēihipora tino pai.
Ahakoa te āhua makutu o te tangi, kua whakaaro koe me pēhea ia e mōhio pai ai ki a koe? Nā te mea e whakarongo pono ana ia, e aro ana ki ngā mea katoa e kōrerohia ana e koe. Ina titiro matatau mai tētahi wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe i a ia e kōrero ana, ehara i te mea he tohu noa iho o te hiahia engari he tohu whakaaro nui hoki e aro ana ia ki ngā mea nui ki a koe, ā, e aro nui ana ki a ia kia whakaaturia mā roto i āna mahi.
19. Ka kite koe i tētahi panonitanga o tōna reo
Me pēhea te mōhio mēnā kei te pai te wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, engari kei te huna tonu? Āe, kāore pea ia e tino whakapuaki ana i ōna kare ā-roto, engari ka taea e koe te aromatawai i tēnā i runga i ngā whakarerekētanga o tōna reo. Inaa, he rerekē te reo me te pikinga o te reo i ngā wā rerekē. Hei tauira, i a kōrua e noho tahi ana, ka whakamahi ia i te reo kōrero noa, he ahua takaro pea. Engari i te wā e noho ko kōrua anake, ka huri pea hei reo hōhonu, hei reo whakawai. Koinei te tohu kei te hiahia nui ia ki a koe. Hopukia!
20. He tino pai ki a ia tō wairua whakakatakata
Āe, he tino katakata koe, he whakaaro noa rānei ia kei te pena koe nā te mea kei te aroha ia ki a koe? Hei tauira, kei roto koe i tētahi rōpū, ā, ka kata koe i tētahi katakata tino whakarihariha, ā, ko ia anake te tangata e kata ana. He aha tāu e kī atu ana? Kāore au i te tino mōhio? Āe, he harikoa ki te whakapuaki atu ki a koe koinei tētahi o ngā tohu o te wahine kua moe tāne kāore i te tino mōhiotia mō te takaro. Ka kata ia ki ngā katakata tino wairangi, tino whakakatakata e kataina ana e koe, nā te mea ka ara ake tōna wairua i tō aroaro, ā, e hiahia ana ia kia mōhio koe ko koe anake ka taea e ia te mea kia pēnei tōna kare ā-roto.
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Me pēhea te whakatau i tētahi wahine kua mārenatia e aroha ana ki a koe
Kei reira katoa ngā tohu. E mōhio ana koe e aroha ana ia ki a koe. Ko te pātai, he aha te mea e whai ake nei? I roto i ngā āhuatanga katoa e taea ana te whakaaro, he āhuatanga uaua tēnei kei mua i a koe. Mena he hoa mahi kua marenatia e aroha ana ki a koe, kotahi noa te nekehanga hē ka ngaro tō mahi, ka kino hoki ki tō umanga. Waihoki, mena he hoa roa, he wahine rānei a tō hoa, he hoa rānei a tō wahine e aroha ana ki a koe, tera pea ētahi whanaungatanga nui o tō ao kei te tūpono. Nō reira, he mea nui kia ata whiriwhiria ō mahi e whai ake nei. Anei ngā kōwhiringa e wātea ana ki a koe, i runga i ō kare ā-roto:
Ki te kore koe e rite ana ki a ia
Kia maumahara, ehara i te mea he hononga noa iho , he hononga poto noa iho rānei tēnei e kōrero nei tātou (ahakoa he tinihanga te tinihanga, ahakoa tōna āhua), kei te aroha tēnei wahine ki a koe. Nō reira, ki te kore koe e rite ki te whakaaro ki a ia, kaua e ārahi i a ia kia whiwhi ai koe i te hihiri mā te whakaaro, "I moe ahau me tētahi wahine kua moe tāne." Engari,
- Kōrero ki a ia mō ngā mea i kitea e koe, me te pātai atu mēnā he tika tāu aromatawai.
- Ki te whakaae ia ki ōna kare ā-roto, me kī atu me te whakaute kāore ō kare ā-roto ki a ia e rite ana ki a koe
- Whakamanahia ia e whakaute ana koe i ōna kare ā-roto, ā, kāore ia e manukanuka kei puta tēnei mea.
- I runga i tō whanaungatanga o nāianei ki a ia, me kī atu koe ka noho tonu koe hei tautoko i a ia pērā i mua, ka maioha rānei koe mēnā ka pupuri kōrua i te tawhiti me te whakaute i ngā rohe o tētahi ki tētahi.
Ki te mea he rite tonu ō whakaaro ki a ia
Koinei te wāhi e uaua ai ngā mea. Mena kei te aroha koe ki tētahi wahine kua moe tāne, kua pāngia rānei koe e te aroha ki a ia, ko te mōhio kei te pērā anō ōna kare ā-roto, he mea whakamatautauria pea kia piki ake ngā mea ki tētahi taumata hou. Engari, ka akiaki atu ahau kia ata haere koe, kia whakaaroaro hoki.
- He aha te heke mai o tēnei whanaungatanga?
- Kua rite tēnei wahine ki te whakarērea tana marena kia hanga tahi ai he oranga mōu?
- Kei te whakaaro kotahi kōrua mō te āhua o te heke mai mō kōrua?
- Mā te mōhiotanga "I moe ahau me tētahi wahine kua moe tāne" ka whakakī koe i a koe ki te pouri me te hara ina tino piripono koe ki te wairua, ā, me noho tahi koe me te meka ko ia te hoa rangatira o tētahi atu. Kei te rite koe ki te whakahaere i te raruraru o te wairua?
- Mena kua moe tāne koe, kua whakaarohia e koe te ngā hua o te moepuku ina kua marenatia ngā hoa tokorua?
Kōrero ki a ia, ka kōrero taipitopito i ēnei āhuatanga, me te maha atu anō mēnā e tika ana, i mua i tō whakatau me pēhea te whakatau i tēnei āhuatanga.
Tohutohu Matua
- Tērā pea ka hinga te aroha o te wahine kua moe tāne ki tētahi atu tāne nā te mea kāore ōna hiahia i tutuki i roto i tana whanaungatanga tuatahi, kei te kite ia i tētahi hononga ki a ia, nā ngā patunga kare ā-roto kāore anō kia ora.
- Mai i te hiahia ki te noho tahi me koe ki te ngana ki te hopu i tō aro, te aro nui ki tō koiora, te noho ngoikore ki a rātou, he maha ngā huarahi e puta ai ngā kare ā-roto o te wahine ahakoa kua moe tāne ia.
- Ahakoa te whakahihiri, kaua e mahi ohorere ina kite koe kua aroha tetahi wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe.
- Ki te kore koe e whakaaro pērā, kaua e mangere ki te kōrero atu ki a ia me te whakaute me te ngākau māhaki. Ki te mea he rite ō whakaaro, me tūpato. Tērā pea ka pōrearea ngā mahi a ngā wāhine.
Nā te mea kua mōhio koe ki te mōhio mehemea kei te aroha tetahi wahine kua moe tāne ki a koe, ko te mahi e whai ake nei ko te whakatau i tāu e hiahia ana ki te mahi mō ōna kare ā-roto. Mena he rite anō ō kare ā-roto ki a koe, ka kaha te whakamatautauranga ki te kawe i tō whanaungatanga ki te taumata e whai ake nei. Engari kia tūpato, ka tere te raruraru o te moe tāne ki tētahi wahine . Ka tūpono koe ki te whara i te tini o te tangata i roto i te tukanga. He maha ngā wā, ko te hoa aroha te mea e mahue ana. Ahakoa nāu te whiringa, me paunatia e koe ngā painga me ngā huakore i mua i te mahi i tāu nekehanga e whai ake nei.
FAQs
Ko te ngau i ōna ngutu, te tākaro ki ōna makawe, te kukume i a koe kia tata, me te whakapā atu ki a ia mō te wā roa, he tohu katoa ēnei o te takaro. Tērā pea he nui ake tōna kōrero pono i roto i ana mahi whakakatakata – te kōrero whakakatakata, te whakaaro mō ngā tūtakitanga piripono, te tuku karere kuputuhi kua whakakiia, tae atu ki ngā pikitia whakarihariha.
Ka tīmata ia ki te whakapau i te wā ki a koe, ka aro nui atu ki a koe, ā, ka whakapau kaha ki te mahi i ngā mea māu. Ka kite koe i te taha manaaki, aroha o ia, e whakapau ana i tōna wā ki te tunu i ō rihi tino pai, ki te hoko mai rānei i ngā koha maha māu.
Ka hanga e ia ngā kōrero whakaipoipo, ka whakapuaki i ana wheako me ana moemoeā piripono ki a koe, ā, he maha ngā pātai ka pātai atu ki a koe mō ngā mea e pai ana ki a koe me ngā mea kāore e pai ki a koe i runga i te moenga.
Ka ngana ia ki te whakawai i a koe mā roto i āna kupu, mā roto rānei i tana pā. Ka rapua e ia ngā huarahi hei pā atu ki a koe i ngā wāhi e rere ai te ia i roto i tō tinana. Ā, ka huri tōna reo hei reo whakawai ina ngana ia ki te takaro ki ō wawata moepuku.
Ka taea e koe te whakahoki i te whanaungatanga ki mua, te hoki whakamuri rānei mā te whakamōhio atu ki a ia kāore koe e hiahia ana. Kia tūpato ki ngā hua pai, ngā hua kino hoki ka puta mai i tēnei moe tāne me te wahine.
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