Ndine mkazi wazaka 40 wokwatiwa kwa zaka 16 ndipo ndakhala m'banja lopanda kugonana. Ndakhala ndikubera mwamuna wanga kwa zaka zisanu zapitazi (ndi mwamuna wokwatira yemwe ndi wamng'ono kuposa ine). Ngakhale kuti ndikuoneka ngati ndili ndi zaka 30 zokha, mwamuna wanga alibe chidwi ndi ine.
Iye sanatero. Sitinakhalepo ndi moyo wogonana wokhutiritsa. M'zaka 2 zapitazi, adakhala ndi vuto la erectile ndipo alibe nkhawa kuti alandire chithandizo. Ndili m'banja lopanda kugonana. Ndili pachibwenzi kuti ndithane ndi ukwati wanga wopanda kugonana
Mwamuna amene ndimamukonda ndi munthu wokoma mtima kwambiri ndipo ndimadzipatula naye. Timakumana pafupifupi kamodzi pamwezi. Amandithandiza kusunga ukwati wanga komanso nzeru zanga. Mwamuna wanga ndi bambo wabwino komanso mwamuna wa banja. Amandisamalira bwino kwambiri koma pankhani yogonana amandipewa.
Ndimamva ngati ndine wolakwa ndikamuwona akundisamalira koma ndimadzilungamitsa ndekha ndikakwiya ndi kugonana . Ndimakonda amuna anga onse awiri. Kodi ukwati wopanda kugonana umayambitsa chibwenzi? Kapena ndi china chake? Kodi ndingachite chiyani kuti ndichepetse chilakolako changa chachibadwa chogonana?
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M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
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Malo omwe mukupezekapo panopa sizachilendo. Maukwati osagonana ndi ofala kwambiri kuposa momwe anthu ambiri angavomerezere. Pamene mwamuna ndi mkazi akukula limodzi, kusintha kwa thupi, m'maganizo ndi m'thupi kumatha kuyambitsa libido ya m'modzi kapena onse awiri, zomwe zimapangitsa kutsika kwanthawi zogonana m'banjamo.
Ndipotu, kafukufuku wa Newsweek adawonetsa kuti 15 mpaka 20 peresenti ya maukwati onse anali opanda kugonana. Nyuzipepala ya New York Times idatsimikiziranso ziwerengero zomwezo m'nkhani yotsatira.
Momwe Mungapulumukire Ukwati Wopanda Chigololo Osanyenga
Maukwati osagwirizana ndi kugonana nthawi zambiri amakambidwa mofanana. M’pomveka kuti kusowa kwa kugonana m’banja kungakhale kokhumudwitsa kwambiri makamaka ngati m’modzi wa okwatiranawo akuonabe kuti akukufunikabe.
Komabe, kukhumudwa sikuti kumangokhala yankho loyenera la funso lakuti 'kodi n'koyenera kukhala ndi chibwenzi muukwati wopanda kugonana'. Zingakuthandizeni kufufuza njira zopulumukira muukwati wopanda kugonana popanda chinyengo.
Pakapita nthawi, maanja ambiri amapeza njira zawozawo zopulumukira m'banja lopanda kugonana popanda kutulukamo pofuna kukhutiritsa kugonana.
Kulankhulana ndikofunika
Muyenera kukhala ndi inu nokha ndikukonza zanu zofunika kwambiri. Yesetsani kukambirana ndi mwamuna wanu ndipo fufuzani ngati pali chifukwa chilichonse chimene sakufuna kuchita chilichonse chosonyeza kuti alibe chidwi ndi nkhani zogonana. Mukunena kuti panopa akuvutika ndi vuto la kulephera kugona, mwina kuyesa kumvetsa chifukwa chake sakufuna kupeza chithandizo chamankhwala.
Cholinga chake chiyenera kukhala kumupangitsa kuti amvetse bwino kuti ndi udindo wake kusamalira zosowa zanu zakuthupi. Ndi chiyambi chabwino chokonza zomwe zasweka muubwenzi wanu . Mupangitseni kumvetsetsa kuti mumamukonda ndipo mumalemekeza zisankho zake ndipo mungakhale wokonzeka kumuthandiza pa chilichonse chomwe angakumane nacho.
Ndikofunikiranso kuti inu ndi mwamuna wanu mukakambirane moona mtima za tanthauzo la kugonana m’banja, ndi kuyesetsa kukhala ndi maganizo omasuka pa maganizo a mnzake.
Nkhani za kugonana ndi chilakolako zoyandama pa intaneti nthawi zambiri zimakhala ndi chifukwa choganiza kuti ukwati wopanda chiwerewere umabweretsa zinthu. Panthawi imeneyi m'banja mwanu, musatengeke ndi malingaliro awa a momwe banja liyenera kukhalira. Banja lililonse n’losiyana, ndipo anthu okhawo amene ali m’banjamo ndi amene ayenera kusankha zochita ndi zimene siziyenera.
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Kodi n'koyenera kukhala ndi chibwenzi muukwati wopanda kugonana? Ndithudi ayi. Palibe vuto muukwati lomwe lingakhale chifukwa chomveka chokhalira wosakhulupirika. Nthawi zonse mutha kuyambiranso kudziseweretsa maliseche kuti mukwaniritse chilakolako chanu chogonana pamene mukupeza njira yothanirana ndi mavuto kuti mupulumuke muukwati wopanda kugonana.
Kukhala ndi chibwenzi kunja kumabwera ndi mavuto akeake ndipo sikoyenera. Kumbukirani kuyeza chiŵerengero cha mtengo ndi phindu la ubwenzi woterowo. Pomaliza, chikhala chisankho chanu koma chitha kukhudza miyoyo yambiri.
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Ukwati wopanda kugonana - Kodi pali chiyembekezo chilichonse?
Zonse zomwe mumafuna kudziwa zokhudza maukwati opanda kugonana koma mumaopa kufunsa
Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
“Kodi n’koyenera kukhala ndi chibwenzi m’banja lopanda kugonana? Zoona? Mwanjira yanji? Cholakwika apa ndi kuganiza kuti kukhala ndi chibwenzi kumakhala kokangalika, pomwe kusagonana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu ndikovuta. Zolakwika. Kukana ndi kuchitapo kanthu. Kukanidwa pakapita nthawi NDI, kwenikweni, kuswa kukhulupirika m'banja.
Kukanidwa momveka bwino mukamadziwa zomwe zikuchitika ndipo zotsatira zake ndi chisankho chokhazikika, anthu ambiri samanyalanyaza, sadziwa kuopsa kwa vuto lomwe mwamuna kapena mkazi wawo samawafotokozera momveka bwino, amakana makamaka chifukwa chokhala ndi chilakolako chochepa kapena kusagwirizana kwawo komwe sikusankha kuchita, mnzawo ali ndi udindo wodziwikiratu pazochitika za m'banja. ngati sichoncho atha kusiyanitsidwa ndikupeza bwenzi loyenerana wina ndi mnzake, ndiye inde kubera ndikuchotsa moyo wachikondi wa ena ndipo ndi zoyipanso.