Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kudziwa komwe muli pagawo la chibwenzi ndi ubale. Kupitilira apo, ngati kulumikizana kwanu ndi SO yanu kwasintha kwambiri koma palibe wa inu amene adafotokoza tanthauzo la tsogolo lanu. Mabanja ambiri amavutika kuti adziwe nthawi yomwe adumpha kuchoka pachibwenzi mpaka kukhala pachibwenzi chifukwa pali mzere wabwino womwe umagawaniza awiriwo.
Nthawi zambiri chibwenzi chimafotokozedwa ngati kalambula bwalo waubwenzi wodzipereka. Komabe, pankhani ya maunansi a anthu, n’kovuta kulekanitsa kugwirizana kwa anthu aŵiri m’magulu opanda madzi. Nthawi zambiri, pali madera otuwa omwe angakusiyeni mumadzifunsa kuti, "Kodi tili pachibwenzi kapena tikungocheza?"
Izi zitha kubweretsa kusatsimikizika kochuluka zamtsogolo, makamaka ngati anthu awiri amawona magawo a chibwenzi mosiyana. Kuti tikhazikitse vuto lalikululi, tiyeni tiyesetse kuzindikira kusiyana kwa chibwenzi ndi ubale momveka bwino momwe tingathere, ndi zidziwitso zina kuchokera kwa mphunzitsi wamalingaliro ndi malingaliro. Pooja Priyamvada (wotsimikiziridwa mu Psychological and Mental Health First Aid kuchokera kwa Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health ndi University of Sydney), yemwe amagwira ntchito yopereka uphungu wa zibwenzi kunja kwa banja, kupatukana, kupatukana, chisoni ndi kutayika, kungotchula zochepa chabe.
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M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa chibwenzi ndi chibwenzi ndi chibwenzi? Ngati mwadzifunsapo funsoli, simuli nokha. Amy wakhala akugwiritsa ntchito malonda apakati kwa nthawi yayitali ndipo wapanga maulalo angapo ndi anyamata abwino kwambiri. Koma amasokonezedwabe ndi kugawanikana konse kwa chibwenzi vs ubale. Akuganiza kuti ali pachibwenzi onse koma adzakhala pachibwenzi ndi ndani?
Kukhala pachibwenzi ndi maubwenzi odzipereka ndi mitundu yonse ya maubwenzi okondana. Ndiye, mungadziwe bwanji ngati mukuyika malingaliro anu ndi zoyesayesa zanu muubwenzi womwe udzatha nthawi yayitali kapena kukumana kwanthawi yayitali? Kudziwa kusiyana pakati pa chibwenzi vs kuona munthu kwambiri n'kofunika ngakhale simuli wamkulu pa zizindikiro ubale.
Zimathandizira pakukhazikitsa zoyembekeza ndi malire ndipo zimapita kutali kuti zikuthandizeni kumvetsetsa zomwe tsogolo likukuchitikirani. Popeza zibwenzi ndi maubwenzi zimakhala ndi mbali zambiri zomwe zimayenderana, kumvetsetsa zomwe akutanthauza ndi gawo loyamba lozindikira kusiyana pakati pa ziwirizi.
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Kodi Chibwenzi N'chiyani?
Tisanakhale pachibwenzi, palinso nkhani yokambirana yomwe tiyenera kukambirana. The kuyankhula siteji ndi zomwe zimatsogolera pachibwenzi. Sitikutanthauza kuti zinthu zosokoneza kwambiri koma palinso kulankhula vs chibwenzi vs chisokonezo ubale kuti anthu ambiri adzipeza okha bondo mozama.
Mukulankhulana ndi chibwenzi vs kusiyana kwa ubale, gawo lolankhulirana likufanana ndi kuyesa madzi. Apa ndipamene mumadziwana ndi munthu winayo komanso mosiyana, ndipo malingana ndi kugwirizana komwe mumapanga panthawiyi, mumasankha kuti mutengere zinthu pamlingo wina - chibwenzi.
Kupitilira apo, kukhala pachibwenzi kumatanthauza kuyambitsa chibwenzi ndi munthu wina, kumacheza naye komanso kumudziwa bwino. Chibwenzi chimabwera pambuyo pokambirana. Zonse zimatengera kukulitsa kulumikizana ndi munthu amene mumakopeka naye. Pamene muli pachibwenzi, inu ndi munthu winayu mukhoza kuthera nthawi pamodzi ndikuchita nawo zinthu monga kupita ku mafilimu, kusonkhana kuti mudye chakudya chamadzulo ndi zakumwa, kupita ku zochitika pamodzi kapena ngakhale kuzizira pamalo a wina ndi mzake.
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“Kukhala pachibwenzi kumaphatikizapo kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza, kukondana, kudziwana bwino komanso kufufuza ngati mungakhale ndi chibwenzi,” akutero. Pooja. Si zachilendo kuti ubwenzi wapamtima ukule pakati pa awiri anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi. Kotero, mukuwona, momwe chibwenzi chimatsanzira kwambiri zinthu zambiri zaubwenzi wachikondi. Ichi ndichifukwa chake mkangano wa chibwenzi vs ubale umabwera pachithunzipa. Chifukwa kusiyanitsa pakati pa magawowa ndi kovuta.
Komabe, chinthu chimodzi chodziwikiratu chosiyanitsa pakati pa awiriwa ndi chakuti kukhala pachibwenzi sikutanthauza pangano. Ndilo chiyembekezo choyambira, ngakhale simunafotokoze momveka bwino. Choncho, pamene muli pachibwenzi ndi munthu, iwo ali omasuka kupita madeti ndi enanso. Ndipo mosemphanitsa. Ngati izi zitachitika, siziyenera kukweza nsidze chifukwa simunapereke kwa wina ndi mzake kapena kukhazikitsa malamulo a chibwenzi.
Kodi Ubale Ndi Chiyani?
Kumbali inayi, kukhala pachibwenzi kumatanthauza kuti inu ndi mnzanuyo mwasintha kuchoka pa chibwenzi chamba ndikukhala paubwenzi wozama komanso watanthauzo. Chibwenzi vs ubale weniweni kusiyana kwenikweni ndi kuti pamene inu patsogolo kuchokera wina ndi mzake, ndi popanda mantha kapena kuopa kudzipereka. Mukutsimikiza kuti munthuyu ndi woyenera kwa inu ndipo mwakonzeka kudzimanga naye.
Zimatanthawuzanso kuti tsopano muli otanganidwa kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri, zimangochitika mwachibadwa kuti anthu okwatirana azigwirizana pamene ali pachibwenzi. "Ubwenzi umayamba pamene wina ali wotsimikiza za mzake ndipo onse agwirizana ngakhale kuti akupitabe pamasiku koma ndi chitsimikizo chakuti iye ndi iyeyo," akufotokoza motero Pooja.
Popeza kuti zinthu sizilinso wamba, mungayembekezere mgwirizano waukwati. Izi zikutanthauza kuti kuwona anthu ena kapena kupita masiku sikuvomerezeka. Anthu akasintha kuchoka pa chibwenzi kupita kukhala pachibwenzi, amatcha "bwenzi" kapena "chibwenzi".
Ndiye ngati mukudzifunsa kuti, “Kodi tili paubwenzi kapena tangokhala pachibwenzi?”, ganizirani kuchuluka kwa kudzipereka komwe munapanga nonsenu ndipo mudzakhala pafupi ndi yankho. Kodi nonse ndinu omasuka ndi zilembo kapena DTR ikadali nkhani yowopsa yokambirana yomwe palibe wa inu amene amafuna kuyigwira ndi mtengo wa 10-foot? N’chifukwa chiyani kusinthaku kuli koopsa kwambiri kwa mabanja ambiri? Ndipo n’cifukwa ciani n’kofunika kudziŵa pamene muli ndi cibwenzi cimeneci?
Eya, mayankho a mafunso ameneŵa ali mu funso linanso lofunika kwambiri: Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa kukhala pachibwenzi ndi kukhala chibwenzi ndi chibwenzi? Kusiyana kwake ndikuti mukangoyamba kugwiritsa ntchito zilembo monga 'chibwenzi' ndi 'chibwenzi', zinthu zimasintha kwambiri. Pali chiyembekezo chosaneneka cha kudzipereka, kukhulupirika ndi kukhala pamodzi kwa nthawi yayitali. Mabwenzi okondana okhazikika pamapeto pake amatha kumaliza kwa okwatirana omwe akufuna kuthera moyo wawo limodzi.
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Chibwenzi vs Ubale - 8 Zobisika Zosiyana Zomwe Simunadziwepo
Kawirikawiri, pamene anthu awiri amayamba kukula kumverera kwa wina ndi mzake kapena zinthu zimakhala zazikulu pakati pawo, amakambirana za kutenga zinthu pamlingo wina. Komabe, ngati mwakhala pachibwenzi kwa nthawi yayitali kwambiri, nthawi zina mgwirizano wanu ukhoza kusintha kuchokera ku chibwenzi chokhazikika kupita ku chiyanjano chachikulu. Ngati palibe kulumikizana komveka bwino, kuzindikira kusiyana kwenikweni kwa chibwenzi ndi ubale kumatha kukhala kovuta.
Mumayembekezera kuti mnzanuyo azingotsatira malamulo a zibwenzi basi osati kufunafuna zibwenzi zina. Komabe, popeza palibe malamulo omveka amene aikidwa, zingakuchititseni kudzifunsa kuti, “Kodi tili pachibwenzi kapena tikungocheza kumene?” Kudziwa kulankhulana ndi chibwenzi vs kusiyana kwa ubale kumatha kukhala kofunikira kuti muchepetse kukayikira kwanu komanso kusatsimikizika kwanu.
"Paubwenzi, onse awiri agwirizana, mwamwambo komanso / kapena mwamwayi, kuti aziwonana mwachisawawa ndipo ali muubwenzi palimodzi pazogwirizana." Pachibwenzi, atha kukhala panthawi yomwe akuyesa ngati winayo ndi wofunika kudzipereka kapena ayi. Kudzipatula kungakhalepo kapena ayi, "akutero Pooja, akufotokoza za kusiyana kwa chibwenzi.
Chifukwa chake, ngati inu ndi SO wanu simunalankhulepo kuti “izi zikupita kuti”, yang'anani izi 8 zobisika za chibwenzi vs kusiyana kwa ubale kuti mudziwe komwe muli:
1. Palibenso kuyang'ana pozungulira
Mukakhala pachibwenzi mwachisawawa, nthawi zonse mumayang'anitsitsa zosankha zina. Mukhozanso kupita kokacheza ndi anthu ena popanda kukayika kapena kukhala ndi udindo. Komabe, zinthu zikayamba kukhala zazikulu pakati panu nonse, kufunikira koyang'ana uku kumasowa kokha.
Ichinso ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri pa chibwenzi vs kuonana ndi ubale. Pamene mukupita ku kunena za kugwirizana kwanu monga "chibwenzi" ndi "kuwona" wina, zikutanthauza kuti zofuna zina zomwe zingatheke zikugwera pa ngolo, kukhala zosafunikira kwa inu. Mukadzalowa m'gawo la maubwenzi, mumakhala ogwirizana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi mmodzi (pokhapokha ngati muli ndi polyamorous kapena muli pachibwenzi).
Sizili ngati kuti mumayesetsa kuti musafufuze zokonda zina. Popeza mwatero anamanga kugwirizana kwambiri maganizo ndi munthu amene muli naye pachibwenzi, kusankha iwo kuposa ena kumabwera mwachibadwa kwa inu. Kutseka zosankha kumawoneka ngati mtengo wochepa kwambiri pa chikondi, chithandizo ndi chisangalalo chomwe mumapeza ndi SO yanu. Mutha kusiya kusakatula mapulogalamu azibwenzi kapena ngakhale kuwachotsa. Kapena ngati wina akukupatsirani, mumakumbutsidwa nthawi yomweyo za mnzanuyo. Ngati ndi komwe muli, mosakayikira mwalowa muubwenzi.
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2. Zomverera zimafanana
Kusiyana kwina kobisika koma kofunikira pa chibwenzi ndi ubale ndikuti malingaliro anu ndi ofanana. Ngakhale simunalankhulepo za iwo panobe. Inu ndi bwenzi lanu mulibe malingaliro osiyana pazibwenzi. Kukhala pachibwenzi kwenikweni kumatanthauza kukhala patsamba lomwelo za zomwe muli komanso komwe ubale wachikondi ukulowera.
Kumbali ina, mukadali pachibwenzi, chiyembekezo chodzipatula chingawoneke ngati chovuta kwambiri. Si zachilendo kuti anthu awiri aziyembekeza mosiyanasiyana pa nkhani ya zibwenzi. Ngakhale kuti wina angafune kudumphadumpha, winayo angakondebe kuwona anthu ena osati "kumangidwa".
Chad atangoyamba kumene kupita ndi Michaela, ankakonda kucheza naye kwambiri koma nthawi zambiri ankakopeka ndi akazi ena ndipo ankakondanso kuyenda nawo limodzi. Michaela adakopeka nthawi yomweyo ndi Chad patsiku loyamba ndipo adachotsa machesi ake onse a Tinder chifukwa adangofuna kuyang'ana pa iye yekha. Mwachisoni, Chad sanali pa tsamba lomwelo ndipo anali kuyang'anabe uku ndi uku.
Ngati nthawi zambiri mumadzifunsa kuti, “Kodi tili paubwenzi kapena tili pachibwenzi”, pendani ngati inu ndi mnzanuyo muli pa tsamba limodzi za komwe inu muli ndi komwe muyenera kupita kuchokera kuno. Pooja anati: “Kupanda kugwirizana m’maganizo ndi chizindikiro chakuti mudakali ndi nthawi yaitali yoti muyambe kugwirizana n’kukhala chibwenzi,” anatero Pooja.
3. Mutha kukhala nokha
Kukhala pachibwenzi kumatanthauzanso kusachita mantha ndi chiyembekezo chokhala ndi munthu wina. M'malo mwake, mulingo wotonthoza uwu ndi mwala woyambira kuchoka pa chibwenzi mpaka kukhala pachibwenzi. Mkangano wa chibwenzi vs kuwona vs ubale utha kuthetsedwa munthu akaganizira zinthu monga chitonthozo ndi chitetezo.
Mukakhala paubwenzi, mutha kuyendayenda muma PJs anu ndi bun yosokoneza komanso osapanga zopakapaka pamaso pa munthu winayo. Mutha kulira ndikuyang'ana cheesy rom-com. Ndipo mukhoza kuwalowetsa ndikugawana nawo mantha anu ndi kusatetezeka kwanu. Liti mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya ubwenzi kuyamba bwino mu kugwirizana, mukhoza kudziwa motsimikiza pamene inu kuima pa chibwenzi vs kuona vs ubale kugawa.
Izi ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi chibwenzi kapena kuwona wina pomwe mumayesetsa kuyika phazi lanu patsogolo ndikusunga mbali yanu yaiwisi mwaukhondo. Kupatula apo, simukufuna kumuwopseza munthuyo ndi zovuta zanu komanso zopusa mukamadziwanabe.
4. Ubwenzi wakuthupi ndi wamaganizo
Mukamaganizira za chibwenzi vs mphamvu zaubwenzi, tcherani khutu kumlingo waubwenzi womwe mumagawana ndi munthuyu. Inde, mwina munachitapo zothyola bedi pakati pa mapepala m’masiku oyambirira a chibwenzi. Koma ubwenzi uli woposa kungokhutiritsa zilakolako zakuthupi.
Mwachitsanzo, Olivia ankangokhalira kucheza chifukwa ankakonda kucheza ndi azibambo komanso ankasangalala kuti athetse vutolo. Iye anali atangotuluka kumene paubwenzi ndipo sanali kufunafuna kalikonse koopsa. Ngakhale kuti ankagonana ndi usiku uliwonse, popeza anali pachibwenzi mwachisawawa, sankayembekezera kuti azibwenzi akewo angamukonde.
Kwa aliyense amene akudabwa kuti pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa chibwenzi ndi kukhala chibwenzi ndi bwenzi, ichi ndi chizindikiro chodalirika kuti mudziwe chomwe kugwirizana kwachikondi kumayenera kukhala. Pooja anati: “Ngati mukuona kuti muli pa ubwenzi wolimba ndi mnzanuyo, muzimudalira kuti akuthandizeni ndipo musamaope kukhala naye pachiopsezo, ndi chizindikiro chakuti ubwenzi wanu wakula ndipo mukhoza kuyamba kuutcha chibwenzicho,” akutero Pooja.
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5. Muli ndi zoyembekeza
Kukhala pachibwenzi ndi kuonana mozama kumasiyanitsidwanso ndi ziyembekezo zambiri. Kulumikizana kwanu kukakhala wamba, nthawi zambiri kumakhala a popanda zoyembekezako mkhalidwe. Mumachita za moyo wanu, ndikukhala limodzi kapena kucheza nthawi iliyonse yomwe ili yoyenera kwa onse awiri.
Sizikuvutani ngati winayo sakuyimbirani foni, kulemberana mameseji kapena kupita osalankhula nanu kwa masiku angapo. Mwinanso, inunso muli kunja uko mukuchita zanuzanu. Komabe, ziyembekezo zimakhazikika mukakhala pachibwenzi. Mukuyembekeza kuti mnzanuyo adzakhalepo kwa inu kapena kukufotokozerani ngati palibe.
Mukuyembekezeranso kuti akhale okhulupirika, odalirika, olemekezeka ndi achifundo, pakati pa zinthu zina. Mukayamba kugwira bwenzi lokondana wina ndi mnzake ndikuyembekeza kuti azichita zomwezo, mutha kuwona bwino kusiyana kwa chibwenzi ndi ubale weniweni.
6. Mabwenzi ndi achibale amagwirizana
Simutenga munthu amene muli naye pachibwenzi ku chakudya chamadzulo cha Thanksgiving ndi banja lanu kapena kuphwando lachikumbutso cha mnzanu. Chimodzi mwazizindikiro zazikulu zomwe mwalowa muubwenzi ndikuti SO yanu mwachilengedwe imaphatikizidwa m'moyo wanu. Kaya mukufuna kuwadziwitsa makolo anu kapena ayi, ndipamene kusiyana kwenikweni kwa chibwenzi ndi ubale kumawonekera.
Izi sizikutanthauza kuti nthawi zonse mumakhala pamodzi, kukhala wina ndi mnzake kuphatikiza chimodzi mosasamala kanthu za chochitika. Komabe, mumawadziwitsa anzanu ndi abale. Komanso, n'zotheka kuti azigwirizana. Ngakhale zitanthauza kugwirizana pa nkhani zochititsa manyazi kuyambira ubwana wanu, sukulu ndi masiku aku koleji.
Wokondedwa wanu sachita mantha kapena kukhumudwa ndi nkhanizi koma amaona kuti ndi zokondweretsa. Amayembekezera zowonera pang'ono izi m'moyo wanu pamaso pawo kuti akudziweni bwino. Munthu akalowa m'gulu lanu lopatulika, zikutanthauza kuti aphatikizidwa m'moyo wanu. Ngati ndi komwe muli, ndi nthawi yoti musiye kufunsa kuti, "Kodi tili pachibwenzi kapena tikungocheza?"
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7. Pali chitonthozo ndi bata
Popeza zibwenzi mwachibadwa zimakhala zachibadwidwe, zosinthasintha komanso zachidule, zimadziŵika ndi kusatsimikizika. Simudziwa ngati padzakhala tsiku lotsatira mutabwerako kuchokera kumodzi. Munthu amene muli naye pachibwenzi akhoza kusintha maganizo nthawi ina iliyonse, n’kukusiyani mukudabwa kuti chalakwika n’chiyani. Heck, mutha kulawa mapiritsi owawa omwe ali mzukwa.
Ngati mwakhala pachibwenzi kwa nthawi yayitali, mungadziwe zolakwa zonse zomwe zimabwera nazo. Ubale ndi mpumulo wolandiridwa kuchokera ku vuto lokhazikikali. Amapereka chitonthozo cha kuzolowerana, kukhazikika komanso kutsimikizika podziwa kuti mnzanuyo sapita kulikonse.
Chabwino, izi sizikutanthauza kuti maubwenzi onse amayenda bwino. Koma ngakhale zinthu zitafika kum’mwera, mudzakambirana, ndiyeno ganizirani kusiyana. Izi ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi munthu yemwe wangotuluka kumene ndikuchoka m'moyo wanu.
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8. Kudzipereka kwa nthawi yaitali
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazosiyana kwambiri za chibwenzi ndi ubale. M'malo mwake, kudzipereka ndiko kusiyanitsa kwakukulu pakati pa kukhala pachibwenzi mwachisawawa ndi kukhala pachibwenzi. Mukakhala pachibwenzi, kuonana ndi anthu ena kumakhala kosangalatsa komanso kovomerezeka. Palibe ziyembekezo zenizeni za mtsogolo. Mumatenga zinthu tsiku limodzi panthawi.
M'malo mwake, kukhala paubwenzi kumatanthauza kugwirizana kudzipereka kwanthawi yayitali. Ngati zonse zikuyenda bwino, ukhoza kukhala poyambira kudzipereka kwa moyo wonse, kosindikizidwa ndi ukwati. Pooja anati: “Ubwenzi ndi pamene mukhala pamodzi kwa nthaŵi yaitali, pamene chibwenzi n’chosakhalitsa.” Ndithudi, okwatirana angasinthe kuchoka pa chibwenzi n’kukhala pachibwenzi, komabe, chibwenzi pachokha sichikhalitsa, chimasanduka chinthu chokhalitsa kapena kukangana,” anatero Pooja.
Ngati mungazindikire zizindikiro za chibwenzi motsutsana ndi ubale, musade nkhawa ndi komwe zinthu zikupita. Mutha kukhala otsimikiza kuti mgwirizano wanu ukusintha kukhala chinthu chokhalitsa komanso chatanthauzo. Konzani tsiku lachikondi usiku, ndipo kambiranani ndi mnzanu za izo. Ndipotu, kwa nthawi yayitali bwanji munganyalanyaze njovu m'chipindamo?
Ibibazo
Ayi, kukhala pachibwenzi kumatanthauza kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza ndi munthu amene mumamukonda komanso kumudziwa bwino. Kukhala pachibwenzi kuli ngati kufufuza mwayi kwa munthu amene mungafune kukhala naye pachibwenzi. Lingalirani kuti ndi nthawi yoyambira kusankha ndikusefa njira yanu kwa munthu woyenera. Komano, ubwenzi umasonyezedwa ndi kudzipereka kwa wina ndi mnzake, chikondi champhamvu, chisungiko ndi kulimbikitsana maganizo.
Mukakhala odzipereka kwa wina ndi mzake ndikusankha kukhala okwatirana okhaokha muubwenzi wokhala ndi mwamuna mmodzi, mwaukadaulo nthawi yomwe muli pachibwenzi. Komabe, ubwenzi wapamtima, chitetezo ndi chikondi zikayamba, ndipamene inunso muli paubwenzi ndi munthu wina.
Mutha kugona limodzi ngakhale mutakhala pachibwenzi mwachisawawa kapena mukungogonana. Ubwenzi wapamtima, osati wakuthupi, ndi chizindikiro cha ubale.
Inde, mwaukadaulo, simuli mbeta ngati muli pachibwenzi mwachisawawa. Chifukwa ngakhale mukuwona anthu, simunadzipereke kwa mmodzi kapena onse a iwo. Pamapeto pa tsiku, mudakali ndi ufulu wotsatira aliyense amene mukufuna kuti mukhaledi mosangalala osakwatiwa.
Chibwenzi chokha komanso ubale ndizofanana. Kusiyana kokha ndiko kuti ubale umatsindikitsidwa ndi kudzipereka kwanthawi yayitali pakati pa okondedwa. M’lingaliro limeneli, kukhala pachibwenzi chokhacho kungalingaliridwe kukhala mwala wofikira paubwenzi.
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