Nkhani Yakupambana Kwa Ukwati Wachiwiri: Chifukwa Chake Zingakhale Bwino Nthawi Yachiwiri

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Kunena mwachidule zomwe ndinawerengapo kale: Maukwati ali ngati martinis. Chimodzi sichikwanira ndipo atatu ndi ambiri. Pabwino. Ndine wopusa. Koma pali matsenga ku maukwati achiwiri omwe anthu ambiri samawona. Maukwati oyamba ali ngati bhajiyas anu oyamba a anyezi ndi chai mumvula - mukuyembekezera ndikukumbukira nthawi yomwe moyo wanu wonse. Maukwati achiwiri zikufanana ndi kupita ku opera. Mukudabwa ngati mukuchita bwino, koma pamapeto pake, anthu ambiri amasangalala kwambiri. Ndicho chifukwa chake nthawi zonse pali nkhani yachiwiri yopambana.

Chotero ndinadzifunsa ndekha (ndi ena onga ine amene anakwatiwanso kachiwiri) chifukwa chake maukwati achiŵiri ali abwinoko. Mayankho ambiri, ndinadabwa kupeza, anali ofanana kwambiri.

Asanayambe ukwati wachiwiri anthu ambiri adagonjetsa zomwe amawona kuti ndi vuto lawo lalikulu - nthawi zambiri lomwe linapangitsa kuti banja lawo loyamba lithe. Kusakhulupirika, kumwerekera kapena kungokhala wofulumira kuweruza (womaliza amathetsa maukwati ambiri momwe mungayembekezere.)

Musati mugonjetse izo ndipo mwayi uli pa inu chisudzulo chachiwiri mwachangu.

Anayamba kuyamikira kwambiri kuti moyo unawapatsa mwayi wachiwiri. Ndipo kuyamikira kumeneku kunafikiranso mbali zina za moyo, kaya ntchito kapena maunansi ena. Anazindikira ubwino ndi kufunika kokwatiranso.

Anazindikira kufunika kwa ubale pambuyo pa kusudzulana. Anapeza mabwenzi awo enieni pamene anali m'mavuto a ukwati wawo woyamba ndipo anachotsa mabwenzi a 'phwando lokha', kuwasiya ndi anzawo ochepa, omwe angawakhulupirire ndi moyo wawo.

Kuwerenga kofananira: Kuchokera ku banja losangalala kupita ku ukwatinso - ulendo wokondweretsa wa mkazi

Anawona anthu akuwachitira mosiyana pambuyo pa ukwati wawo wachiwiri - ngati kuti munachita ngozi ndipo simunathe kuyenda, ndipo tsopano mwachiritsidwa mozizwitsa. Zinawaphunzitsa kuti asamasamalire zimene anthu ongoganiza chabe amaganiza.

Anaonanso banja lina limene poyamba linaima pafupi nawo tsopano lonyozeka pang’ono chifukwa chakuti sanalinso “gawo” lofunika kwambiri pa moyo wa munthu wosudzulidwayo.

Pambali - iwo anali ndi maukwati, osati maukwati kachiwiri, zochitika zapamtima ndi anthu ochepa komanso ndalama zomwe zimasungidwa pazinthu zofunika kwambiri.

Koma koposa zonse, zomwe adapeza zinali lingaliro latsopano la chisangalalo chokhala ndi moyo - adalumbira kuti akwaniritse maloto awo. Iwo adatenga tchuthi TSOPANO, osati nthawi yomwe idakwanira. Anawona malo atsopano, anachita zinthu zatsopano, kuyesa maonekedwe awo. Anachita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Iwo anataya thupi. Okwatirana ongokwatirana kumene azaka zawo za m’ma 40 mpaka anasiya kusuta kotero kuti mwaŵi wawo wothera nthaŵi yochuluka ali limodzi unakula.

Inde, zonse sizili bwino - anthu omwe ali m'mabanja achiwiri amamenyananso ndipo nthawi zina maukwatiwa amathanso - koma nthawi zambiri amagwira ntchito.

Tsopano nali gawo lowopsa pang'ono.

Amagwira ntchito chifukwa wina amapita ndi maso awo. Pali chikondi. Chilakolako nachonso. Koma sizowononga zonse. Mumathera nthawi limodzi. Khalani pamodzi ngati n’kotheka. Dziwani zizolowezi. Unikani makhalidwe abwino. Kambiranani ndi apafupi komanso okondedwa. Ndiyeno nenani kuti inde.

Pali pang'ono banja lokonzekera muukwati wachiwiri uliwonse. Mwamwayi - makamaka popanda kukhudzidwa kulikonse kapena pang'ono ndi makolo. Chifukwa liti makolo ali ndi njira yawo, Amwenye ambiri akupitirizabe kuvutika moyo wawo wonse muukwati woyamba woyipa m'malo motuluka m'dziko lowopsa, koma losangalatsa.

Zopereka zanu sizikupanga zachifundo Mphatso. Zilola kuti Bonobology ipitilize kukubweretserani zidziwitso zatsopano komanso zaposachedwa pakufuna kwathu kuthandiza aliyense padziko lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.