Zinthu 10 Zoyenera Kuchita Ngati Chibwenzi Chanu Chikusokonekera

Mukakhala pachibwenzi kwa nthawi yayitali, mutha kumva ngati mwataya chidwi. Chilichonse chikhoza kukhala chosangalatsa poyamba, koma m'kupita kwa nthawi, mungayambe kuona kuti ubale wanu sunasinthe momwe munkayembekezera. Zotsatira zake, mutha kupeza kuti simungathe kusiya "chinthu chomwe chimandisangalatsa muubwenzi wanga", kapena mumadzifunsa kuti, "N'chifukwa chiyani ubale wanga ukusokonekera?"

Maubwenzi amafunikira kudzipereka, khama, chidaliro, nthawi yabwino yokwanira, komanso kumvetsetsa. Timamvetsetsa kuti ubale uliwonse ndi wapadera, koma kumvetsetsana ndi kuyesetsa kofanana ndi zina mwazinthu zopangira chinsinsi kuti mukhale mosangalala nthawi zonse. Ngati zinthu zazikuluzikuluzi zikusoweka pa kulumikizana kwanu, mutha kudzifunsa pafupipafupi kuti, "Zoyenera kuchita ngati zinthu sizikuyenda bwino muubwenzi?" 

Osadandaula kuti, “Ubwenzi wanga suli bwino” suyenera kukhala lingaliro losatha lomwe simuyenera kukhala nalo. Mutha kusintha mkhalidwe wodetsa nkhawawu poyang'ana kwambiri kulimbitsa ubale wanu komanso ubale wanu ndi mnzanu.

Kodi Chinachake Chimamveka Bwino Chimatanthauza Chiyani Kwenikweni?

Maubwenzi ndi odabwitsa koma ovuta, ndipo nthawi zina amangosokoneza. Mungadabwe kuti, china chake sichikuyenda bwino muubwenzi wanga, koma izi zikutanthauza chiyani? Kungakhale chizindikiro chakuthupi, monga kupweteka kwa m’mimba, kugunda kwa mtima, kapena kutuluka thukuta. Kungakhale kutengeka maganizo, monga kukhumudwa, chisoni, nkhawa, kapena mantha.

Kungakhale kusakhulupirirana kapena kuperekedwa, komwe kumachitika chifukwa cha chinthu chomwe mnzanu wachita kapena chomwe sanachite. Kapena kungakhale kusakhazikika kwadzidzidzi kuti china chake chasintha muubwenzi wanu koma simukudziwa chomwe chikuchitika. Izi ndi njira zonse zomwe thupi lanu ndi malingaliro anu zimakuuzani kuti china chake sichili bwino. Ndipo ndicho chomwe "chinachake chikumva cholakwika" chimatanthauza. Tsopano chomwe chinthucho chili ndipo mungachite chiyani pa icho ndi kuti muzindikire, ndipo tili pano kuti tikugwireni dzanja paulendo uwu wofufuza ndi kudzifufuza.

N'chifukwa Chiyani Chinachake Chimasokonekera Mu Ubwenzi Wanu?

Mukakumana koyamba ndi munthu, mumangotengeka ndi kutengeka kwamutu ndikumuyika pampando. Tsiku lililonse limadzaza ndi zomwe zapezedwa za wina ndi mnzake ndipo palibe tsiku lomwe limadutsa pomwe mumatopa. Pochita izi, mutha kunyalanyaza zinthu zingapo apa ndi apo, koma izi zipangitsa kukhalapo kwawo kukhala kolimba pakapita nthawi, zomwe zimathandizira kuti mumve kuti china chake chikusokonekera muubwenzi wanu.

Agulugufe onse omwe mumawamva amatha kukhala njuchi zowopsa ndikuyamba kuluma ubale wanu wathanzi. Ngati mumadzifunsa kuti, "N'chifukwa chiyani ubale wanga ukulephera?", chimodzi kapena zingapo mwazinthu zotsatirazi zitha kuchitika:

• Mumakhulupirira kuti mnzanuyo sakhala ndi ndalama zambiri muubwenzi ngati inu 
• Wokondedwa wanu sakusamalirani mokwanira
• Muli ndi zokayikitsa za kuyanjana kwanu ndipo simuli patsamba lomwelo
• Pali kusowa kwa kulumikizana mu ubale 
• Khama mu ubale amamva mbali imodzi
• Pali chinachake chikusowa mu moyo wanu wogonana

Ubwenzi uliwonse umakumana ndi mavuto ; kuzindikira kuti ubale wanu ukuyenda bwino kapena kuti pali vuto ndi chizindikiro chakuti muyenera kuyesetsa kuti ubale wanu ukhale wathanzi komanso wogwira ntchito bwino. Ngati muwona kuti pali vuto, muyenera kukambirana ndi mnzanu nthawi yomweyo. Kuyika zinthu m'mabotolo kumangopangitsa kuti zinthu ziyambe kuyenda bwino.

Kodi Mumakonza Bwanji Chibwenzi Chimasokoneza?

N’zovuta kusunga ubwenzi umene ukumira, koma n’zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri kuona mgwirizano umene munayesetsa kuumanga ukutha. Komabe, ubale uliwonse umafunika kuleza mtima ndi khama. Palibe yankho lokwanira m'modzi ku funso lanu, "China chake sichikumveka koma sindikudziwa chiyani?"

Zifukwa zake zimatha kusiyana kuyambira kusamvana pang'ono komwe kunakula mpaka kukhala mkangano waukulu chifukwa mkwiyo wonse womwe unasungidwa unayamba mpaka kusakhulupirika, kusakhulupirirana, kapena kusalankhulana bwino. Chinthu chimodzi chotsimikizika, zinthu zinafika pamenepa pakapita nthawi. Ngakhale kumva kuti pali cholakwika mu ubale wanu ndi SO wanu ndi chizindikiro cha mavuto, sizikutanthauza kuti ubale wanu sungapulumutsidwe. Ngati mukumva kuti, "Pali china chake chomwe sichikuyenda bwino muubwenzi wanga", musadandaule. Takudziwitsani. Nazi malangizo khumi okuthandizani kubwezeretsa mphamvu zanu zomwe munataya ndikukuthandizani kusunga ubale wanu womwe ukulephera:

1. Ikani tsiku la deti lanu

M'nthawi yovuta ya moyo komanso pamene ubale wanu ukusintha kwambiri, kupeza nthawi yabwino kwa wina ndi mzake kumakhala kovuta. Izi zitha kupangitsa okondedwa kukhala osalumikizana wina ndi mnzake. Ndiye, ngati mwakhala mukudzifunsa kuti, “N’chifukwa chiyani ubwenzi wanga ukusokonekera?”, patulani nthawi yodzifunsa ngati inu ndi mnzanuyo mwakhala mukuika patsogolo zinthu zina.

Ngati sichoncho, muyenera kuyesetsa kupeza nthawi yabwino yochitira zinthu limodzi . Kodi mukudabwa kuti mungachite bwanji zimenezo?

• Khazikitsani tsiku kapena tsiku la mwezi limene mumacheza 
• M'malo mongokhala m'nyumba ndikuyenda ndi chizolowezi choyesera-choona cha 'Netflix ndi Chill', tulukani mnyumbamo ndikuchita zina zosangalatsa komanso zamoyo.
• Pitani kukagula ndikudya mwachangu pakati, pitani kumalo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi, kapena sungani malo ochitirako masewera olimbitsa thupi a maanja, chilichonse chomwe chingakupangitseni kukhala omasuka ndikuyambiranso ubale wanu umagwira ntchito.

Ngati muli paubwenzi wautali ,

• Onetsetsani kuti mwasankha tsiku limodzi la sabata pamene mupereka maola angapo kwa wina ndi mzake basi
• Lankhulani za sabata yanu, idyani chakudya, penyani china chake limodzi, ndikutsanulira mitima yanu ngakhale pali chophimba pakati pa inu nonse, khalani tsiku lausiku ngati nkotheka.

Palibe chotchinga chomwe chingakulekanitseni kwa nthawi yayitali pamene nonse mukufuna kuti ubale wanu ukhale wabwino. 

2. Kulankhulana ndikofunika kuti mutsitsimutse mgwirizano

Ndi zachilendo kumva ngati china chake sichikuyenda bwino ngati inu ndi mnzanu mwakhala pachibwenzi kapena mwakwatirana kwakanthawi. Mukakhala ndi nthawi yochuluka ndi munthu, chizoloŵezi kapena dongosolo limagwira. Komabe, pamene maganizo ngati “chinachake amamva kutali mu ubwenzi wanga” kapena “ubwenzi wanga samamva chimodzimodzi” kuyamba zayamba mu mutu wanu, ndi nthawi kuswa chitsanzo.

Ndibwino kufunsa za tsiku la mnzanu ndikugawana lanu. Koma pakapita nthawi, zimayamba kuoneka ngati za robotic. Yesani njira zosiyanasiyana zolankhulirana bwino . M'malo mofunsa kuti, "Kodi tsiku lanu linali bwanji?", yesani kufunsa,

•  "Zili bwanji ku ntchito?"
• "Kodi ukuona bwanji ntchito?" 
• "Kodi ku koleji kunali kosangalatsa lero?"
• "Kodi pali china chake chosangalatsa chomwe mukufuna kugawana?" 

Mafunsowa adzakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi chiyanjano cholimba ndikukupatsani zambiri zoti mukambirane. Kukambitsirana ndi kukambirana kwatsopano ndi kosangalatsa kungapangitse ubale wanu kukhala wosangalatsa pang’ono.

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3. Khalani omasuka kwa wina ndi mzake

Simungathe kunyalanyaza vuto lomwe lili m'chipindamo kwa nthawi yayitali. Ngati kusakhulupirika (kokayikiridwa kapena kutsimikizika) ndiko chifukwa chake ubale wanu suli bwino, zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti mnzanu wonyenga abwezeretse chidaliro. Kudalirana kosweka kuli ngati galasi losweka. Ngakhale mutaphatikiza pamodzi, sikudzakhalanso chimodzimodzi.

Koma kodi mwamvapo za Kintsugi? Luso la ku Japan lokonza zinthu zosweka ndi golide ndi fanizo lovomereza zofooka ndi zofooka za munthu. Ndi kuona mtima kwathunthu komanso kutseguka, mutha kuyambanso kukonza ubale wanu. Khalani oona mtima ndipo siyani kunamiza mnzanu . Ngati simukukonda zomwe adachita kapena zomwe akuchita, mudziwitseni. Apangitseni kukhala omasuka kuti nawonso athe kulankhula zakukhosi kwawo ngati malingaliro awo ali ofanana.

Pepani ngati mukudziwa kuti zochita zanu zinawakhumudwitsa ngakhale pang'ono, makamaka ngati simungathe kulimbana ndi "chinachake chasintha mu ubale wanga". Pepani moona mtima. Kukhoza kwanu kubwezeretsanso chidaliro chotayika ndikulimbitsa kulumikizana kwanu kumadalira kuti mukhale omasuka komanso oona mtima pazosankha zanu, machitidwe anu, ndi zolakwa zanu.

4. Tengani udindo pazochita zanu

Mudzapindula kwambiri ngati mutenga udindo paubwenzi wanu pa mawu ndi zochita zanu. Chinthu chochepa chomwe mnzanuyo angayembekezere kuchokera kwa inu ndi kuona mtima ndi choonadi. Muyenera kutenga udindo wonse ngati zochita zanu zapweteka mnzanu kapena zaphwanya chidaliro chawo mwanjira iliyonse. Sikuti zidzakuthandizani kokha kubwezeretsa chidaliro chawo, zomwe zingasinthe moyo wanu komanso zingakuthandizeni kumanga ubale wabwino.

Ngakhale mutakhala kuti mukuvutika ndi maganizo akuti, “Pali chinachake chomwe sichikuyenda bwino koma sindikudziwa chomwe chikuchitika,” musayambe kudzudzula mnzanu kapena kufunafuna zifukwa zodzikhululukira. Kusinthana mlandu ndi chinthu chosaloledwa muubwenzi. Mungagwiritse ntchito zimenezi kuti zikuthandizeni kuthawa vuto linalake, koma kudzimva kuti ndinu wolakwa, bwenzi langa, sikudzakusiyani.

Kudziikira kumbuyo kapena kudziimba mlandu kumangowonjezera vutolo. Khalani owona mtima ndi kuyankha popanda kuimba mlandu kapena kukhumudwitsa aliyense. Kukambirana za mavuto anu ndi kukayika kudzakuthandizani inu ndi mnzanuyo. Ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yomwe mungatenge ngati chibwenzi sichikuyenda bwino. Zina mwa njira zomwe mungatengere udindo pazochita zanu zingakhale,

• Zindikirani zomwe munachita: Khalani oona mtima kwa inu nokha ndi ena ponena za zochita zanu ndi zotsatira zake
• Khalani ndi zolakwa zanu: Vomerezani kwa omwe akhudzidwa kuti munalakwitsa ndipo pepani
• Landirani zotsatira zake: Tengani udindo pazotsatira za zomwe mwachita, kaya kukonzanso kapena kulanga

5. Funsani thandizo la akatswiri

Ngati zinthu sizikuyenda bwino, ndipo simukudziwa choti muchite mukakhala pachibwenzi, mutha kupeza thandizo kwa akatswiri odziwa za ubale. Izi mosakayikira adzalola inu kuzindikira zimene kwenikweni akusowa mu chomangira chanu komanso zimene inu nonse makamaka muyenera ubwenzi wanu ndi njira kukwaniritsa zosowa. 

Ronnie, yemwe ndi katswiri wa zamalonda, anati: “Ndinatanganidwa kwambiri ndi ntchito komanso kuyenda kwa chaka chimodzi, ndipo ndinkaona kuti ubwenzi wathu sunathere. 

Kupempha thandizo kungakhale kovuta pakabuka vuto. Mungaganize kuti inuyo ndi mnzanuyo mungathe kuchita zimenezi nokha, koma si zoona nthawi zonse. Nthawi zina, kupeza thandizo la akatswiri kuli bwino kusiyana ndi kuvutikira kuti mukhale nokha. Zonsezi, zimafika pa mfundo za 2 zomwe muyenera kukumbukira,

• Ngati mwakhala mukuyesera kuyatsa moto muubwenzi wanu koma sizinaphule kanthu, zingakhale zofunikira kupeza chithandizo cha katswiri yemwe angakupatseni zina zowonjezera zomwe mukufunikira kuti motowo ubangula.
• Nthawi zina zimatengera malingaliro a munthu wakunja kuti adziwe zomwe zikusowa mu mgwirizano wanu. Wothandizira, mlangizi wa ubale, kapena mlangizi waukwati akhoza kutengapo mbali ndikukuthandizani kudziwa zomwe inu ndi mnzanu mukufunikira kuti mutengere zinthu zina.

Ngati mukuganiza zopeza thandizo, akatswiri aluso komanso ovomerezeka azaumoyo wamaganizo omwe ali pagulu la Bonobology ali pano kuti akuthandizeni.

6. Lemekezani malire a wina ndi mnzake

Kulemekeza malire a wina ndi mzake - mwakuthupi, m'malingaliro, azachuma, kapena china chilichonse - ndi maziko a ubale wabwino. Malo anu enieni ndi opatulika, ndipo ngati wina, ngakhale wokondedwa wanu, alowamo popanda chilolezo, angayambitse nkhani zomwe zingapangitse ubalewo kukhala wosakhazikika.

Ngati mnzanu sakuvomereza chinthu china, winayo ayenera kuchimvetsa ndikuchivomereza, osayesa kumukakamiza kapena kumukakamiza. N'kovomerezeka kukana mnzanuyo ngati simukumasuka kuchita chinthu china. Umu ndi momwe kukhazikitsa kapena kukakamiza malire kungawonekere,

• "Sindikumva bwino kugwidwa/kukhudzidwa chonchi" 
• “Ndikufuna kukhala ndekha kwakanthawi, ndikufunika malo pang’ono”
• “Ndimayamikira nkhawa zanu, koma ndikufunika kuti muzilemekeza zimene ndasankha ngakhale simukugwirizana nazo”
• "Ndikufuna kuti ndikuuzeni moona mtima za momwe ndikumvera, koma ndikufunikanso kuti muzilemekeza malire anga. Kodi tingagwire ntchito limodzi kuti tipeze malo otetezeka ndi othandizira kuti azilankhulana momasuka?"

Ngati malire anu aphwanyidwa, kuyankhulana ndi chinthu chabwino kwambiri kuchita. Mofananamo, ngati wina amene mumamukonda ali wachisoni, mungafune kumuthandiza, zomwe ziri zosiririka. Koma musaiwale kulemekeza zosankha zawo. Ngati wokondedwa wanu akusowa malo okhudzidwa, musayese kuwaimba mlandu pogawana nawo; m'malo mwake, apatseni nthawi yokhala okha. 

Osayesa kukonza mavuto awo; zingawapangitse kukhala odalira komanso osakhazikika mu ubale wanu. Simukufuna kuti mnzanuyo azidzimva kukhala wosatetezeka kapena akudalirani kwambiri, chabwino? Nthawi zina mungawapweteke popanda cholinga, choncho dziwani nthawi yowathandiza komanso nthawi yoti musapite.

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7. Muziganizira mofatsa mbali zosiyanasiyana za moyo wanu

Kusunga ubale wabwino pakati pa ntchito ndi moyo wachikondi sikovuta monga momwe kumaonekera. Ubale umamangidwa osati pa kudalirana kokha komanso pa kumvetsetsana komanso nthawi zina. Chofunika kwambiri ndikukhala bwino ndikulekanitsa moyo wanu wantchito ndi waumwini. Musasokoneze. Mukakhala ndi mnzanu, yesetsani kuti musadandaule kwambiri za ntchito yanu ndipo m'malo mwake muziganizirana.

Ngati mumadandaula nthawi zonse za momwe tsiku lanu la ntchito linalili loipa kapena kuchuluka kwa ntchito yomwe muli nayo ndipo mulibe nthawi m'manja mwanu, mnzanuyo akhoza kudzimva kuti ali ndi mlandu poyembekezera nthawi yabwino kapena chidwi kuchokera kwa inu.

Mvetsetsani nthawi ya wina ndi mnzake ndipo konzani ma deti anu moyenera. Ngati mukudziwa kuti mnzanu sadzapezeka, musapange mapulani m'malo mwake. Simungakhale ndi wina ndi mnzake nthawi zonse, ndipo ndicho chifukwa chake kukhazikitsa mgwirizano pakati pa ntchito ndi moyo wachikondi kudzalimbitsa ubale wanu ndikusunga malingaliro ngati "chinachake sichikumveka bwino muubwenzi wanga" kutali ndi malingaliro anu.

8. Musalole kuti zakale zikukhudzeni panopa komanso tsogolo lanu

Musalole maubwenzi kapena zochitika zakale kusokoneza ubale wanu wapano. M'malo momangokhalira kunena kuti, "Ubwenzi wanga sukumva chimodzimodzi", dzifunseni kuti, "Chifukwa chiyani?" Ndipo mukhoza kupeza yankho lakuti, “N’chifukwa chiyani ubwenzi wanga ukusokonekera?” Ngati mukupeza kuti mukungoganizira zolakwika kapena maubale a mnzanu wakale, ndiye kuti mukulepheretsa tsogolo lanu kuti lisavumbuluke.

Choncho, yambani kukhazikitsa mtendere ndi zakale zanu ndipo siyani kuganizira za mavuto ndi mavuto akale ngati mwathetsa kale. Inde, zingakhale zovuta kusiya zinthu zina koma ndi bwino kuyesa kupita patsogolo. Kuti ubale wanu usalephereke, muyenera kuphunzira kukhululukirana ndikupita patsogolo. Pewani kuyambitsa mikangano yakale m'makangano atsopano.

Paubwenzi, mikangano, ndi ndewu sizingapeweke. Komabe, izi siziyenera kuneneratu za tsoka la tsogolo lanu limodzi. Khalani ndi ndondomeko ya "kuthetsa ndi kugona". Osagona mpaka mutathetsa mikangano yaing’ono. Koma ngati mukukhulupirira kuti vutolo ndi lalikulu, dzipatseni inu ndi mnzanuyo nthawi yoti mukhazikike mtima pansi. 

9. Fotokozani zambiri

Fotokozerani nokha pafupipafupi. Muuzeni mnzanuyo momwe mukumvera powakonzera bokosi lokongola la bento nkhomaliro kapena kuwatumizira maluwa akakhala ndi tsiku loipa kuti muwawonetse momwe mumawaganizira. Manja ang'onoang'ono angapangitse kusiyana kwakukulu posonyeza wokondedwa wanu kuti mumamukonda. Zina mwa manja awa zitha kukhala, 

• Kuwagwira iwo ali pansi
• Kuwasiyira mawu ochokera pansi pamtima kapena uthenga wosonyeza chikondi chanu ndi kuyamikira kwanu
• Kugwira ntchito yapakhomo kapena ntchito yomwe akhala akuiopa, kotero kuti sakuyenera kuichita
• Perekani kukumbatirana kotonthoza kapena kukhudza thupi pamene akukhumudwa kapena kupsinjika

Mwachitsanzo, Angie akakhala ndi mlungu woipa, mawu achidule akuti “I love you” ochokera kwa Ronnie anamupangitsa kumwetulira. Zinali zosavuta, koma zinamupatsa mphamvu. Mofananamo, pamene Ronnie ankagwira ntchito yowonjezereka kwa mlungu umodzi, Angie anamutumizira bokosi la chakudya lopangidwa ndi manja lolembedwa kuti: “Wapeza, usaiwale kupumula ndipo usadzipsereze mtima” zimene zinam’pangitsa kumwetulira.

Ndikofunikira kunena kuti “Ndimakukonda ” ndi “Ndili pano chifukwa cha iwe” nthawi zonse. Ndikofunikira kufotokoza kusasangalala kwako, kufotokoza zakukhosi kwako, komanso kukhala ngati mawu achikale kuti ubale wako upitirire m'madzi ovuta.

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10. Musaiwale kudziganizira nokha 

Monga momwe muyenera kuperekera nthawi ndi chidwi kwa mnzanuyo, muyeneranso kuwononga nthawi ndi chidwi chanu. Amati zibwenzi zimamalizana, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti simugwira ntchito nokha kumadera omwe mukulephera. Ndikofunikira kupatula nthawi kuzinthu zomwe mumakonda komanso zomwe mumakonda kuti mukule ndi kuphunzira.

Wokondedwa wanu angakhale bwenzi lanu lapamtima koma mulinso ndi anzanu ena. Musamakhumudwe ndi kucheza nawo kamodzi kokha. Tulukani ndi kukasangalala; nthawi zina kusangalala nokha popanda wokondedwa wanu n'kofunika. Lolani mnzanuyo kuchita chimodzimodzi.

Zidzakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi chidaliro komanso kupewa makhalidwe oipa kuti asalowe muubwenzi wanu. Mukayamba kukondana ndi inu nokha, mumapeza chidaliro ndi kudzidalira. Mukakhutitsidwa ndi inu nokha ndi kudzimva kukhala wokwanira, mumakhala wokongola kwambiri. Osadzipatulira ku ubale wanu kapena wokondedwa wanu.

Ngakhale kuti ndi bwino kudzipereka kuti zinthu ziyende bwino ndikusandutsa ubale wa nthawi yayitali, kumbukirani kuti simungathe kuyendetsa bwato nokha. Ndikofunikira kudziwa nthawi yoti musiye zinthu, kaya ndi chizolowezi choipa, ubale, kapena zizindikiro zina zowopsa zomwe zilipo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati ubale wanu wasanduka woopsa kapena woipa , kungakhale bwino kusuntha m'malo mongokhala muubwenzi womwe ukuwoneka kuti suli bwino ndipo udzapitirira. Kumbali ina, ngati inu ndi mnzanu muli odzipereka mofanana kugwira ntchito pa ubale womwe uli ndi zofooka ndipo mukuyesetsa mofanana kuti muwubwezeretse, kuyanjananso sikudzakhala kovuta.

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