Ngati mwakhala mutcheru, maubwenzi mochedwa amachoka ku chinthu chomwe chimamveka ngati chilinganizo chamankhwala kupita ku chinthu chomwe sichiyenera kukhala mawu. Mumadabwitsidwa ndi mawu ena oti "bae" sakuwonekanso! Masiku omwe maubwenzi ovuta kwambiri komanso ovuta kwambiri anali "dera la abwenzi" ndi "abwenzi opindula" adapita kale. Ndi Gen-Z yomwe ikulamulira pachibwenzi, yembekezerani kuti mawuwo asinthe moyenerera.
Kodi ndi ndani amene amatchula mawu oti maubwenzi amenewa? Tikudziwa kuti nkhawazi zikukudetsani nkhawa, makamaka ngati muli ndi zaka zapakati pa 20. Koma musadandaule konse. Simuyeneranso kudandaula za masewera achibwenzi akuthamangira patsogolo ndikukusiyani kumbuyo. Pezani mawu omwe amafotokoza za chibwenzi chamakono ndi mndandanda wathu pansipa.
Maubwenzi Omwe Amaphatikiza Maubwenzi Amakono
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Ngati mudawona mawu oti "breadcrumbing" pa mbiri ya munthu wina ndipo nthawi yomweyo mukuganiza za maphikidwe okhala ndi zinyenyeswazi za mkate, muyenera kuwerenga nkhaniyi mpaka kumapeto. Mudzapeza kuti "o, ndiye zomwe zikutanthauza!" ndi "kudikira ... chiyani?" mndandanda wonsewu.
Koma palibe chifukwa choti nkhawa iliyonse yokhudza chibwenzi ikugwereni chifukwa simunamvepo mawu onsewa okhudza maubwenzi. Musalole kuti mawu anu osavuta oti mulankhule pa chibwenzi akulepheretseni kuseka kwanu (mudzadziwa tanthauzo la izi kumapeto kwa nkhaniyi). Tiyeni tiyambe!
1. Kuyika m'thumba/kubisala
Pocketing ndi pamene mwakhala pachibwenzi kwa nthawi ndithu koma simunadziwitsidwe kwa makolo awo kapena anzawo. Kapena simunawadziwitse anu. Amakusungani koma alibe zolinga zenizeni zopititsira patsogolo zinthu ndi inu. Inde, mawu achikondi awa nthawi zina sakhala 'achikondi'.
Kuti muwone ngati mukutsekeredwa m'thumba, funsani mnzanuyo kuti akweze nanu nkhani ya Instagram. Ngati achita mantha ndikusokoneza chidwi chanu, mukudziwa kuti pali chinachake. M'mabanja ambiri aku South Asia, komabe, timachita izi nthawi zonse. Amatchedwa kukhala ndi moyo kuti makolo ako asakupha!
2. Breadcrumbing - mmodzi wa ambiri Intaneti chibwenzi mawu
Breadcrumbing zikutanthauza momwe izo zimamvekera. Kupereka zinyenyeswazi zingapo ndikulonjeza zambiri, koma osapereka kwenikweni. Iyi ndi njira yomwe anthu amagwiritsa ntchito kuti asunge munthu pa mbedza, kuti akhalebe ndi chidwi. Masiku angapo amatha popanda meseji ndipo mwadzidzidzi tsiku lina onse amakukondani ndikukukondaninso. Monga rapper aliyense anganene, musatenge zinyenyeswazi, pitani mukatenge mkatewo. Pokhapokha ngati mkatewo uli ndi poizoni, ndiye kuti muyenera kuutaya.
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3. Kupindika
Tangoganizirani munthu wina akukuyandikirani ku kilabu, ndipo mukuchita ngati mnzanu akukuyimbirani foni ndipo mwatulukamo mosavuta. Simunamukane munthuyo kotheratu koma munamupotoza . Kupotoza maubwenzi kumagwira ntchito mofanana, pomwe mumanyalanyaza uthenga wokopa womwe wina amakutumizirani koma mukupitirizabe kukambirana. Choncho si nkhanza ngati kungonena kuti “ayi, ingosiyani.” Koma kumaphatikizaponso kukana.
4. Kuzungulira
Iyi ndi nkhondo yamaganizidwe yomwe imamveka bwino Gen-Z. Inde, mbadwo uno watsegula chitseko ku dziko la mitundu yonse ya maubwenzi amakono. Orbiting ndi pamene wina akuchitirani mizimu, koma amangokhalira kumangokhalira kumacheza anu. Kuwonera nkhani zanu kapena kukonda zolemba zanu, shebang yonse.
Izi n'zosokoneza koma zazing'ono. Mwina ndi chizindikiro choti akufuna kuti muwazindikire . Tangoganizirani kuuza makolo anu za momwe mukuyendetsedwera. Angaganize kuti mwachita misala ndipo tsiku lotsatira mudzafunsidwa ngati mukufuna kukumana ndi "mnyamata wabwino amene ankakhala pafupi ndipo tsopano akugwira ntchito ku Google".
5. Kuyenda pansi pa madzi/zombing
Ayi, iyi si masewera atsopano apakanema omwe tikukamba. Chifukwa chake tikukhulupirira kuti tonse tikudziwa bwino za mawu achibwenzi ngati mizimu ndipo ngati mukudziwa zomwe zili, ndizabwino kwa inu. Kuyenda pansi pamadzi ndi Zombiing zonse zimatanthawuza pamene wina yemwe ali ndi mizukwa angoganiza zobwerera m'moyo wanu, popanda kufotokoza.
Zikatero, womberani zombie m'mutu ndikukhala kutali ndi sitima zapamadzi zilizonse chifukwa ngati mutalola munthuyu kulowanso, mumangoyang'ana zowawa zomwe mwina adakubweretserani kale.
6. Cuffing nyengo
Mndandanda wamawu a maubwenzi ungakhale wosakwanira popanda wotchuka uyu! Njira zothanirana ndi kuzizira: kusanjikizana, khalani m'nyumba, kukumbatirana! Nyengo ya Cuffing imatanthawuza nyengo zozizira kwambiri za chaka pamene mukumva ngati mavuto anu onse atha kutha ndikukumbatirana bwino.
Ndi njira yabwino yopewera kusowa kwa chikondi muubwenzi ndipo zatsimikiziridwa mwasayansi kuti kukumbatirana kumakupangitsani kukhala osangalala. Inde, kumathetsa mavuto anu onse. Mpaka nthawi ifike 9 koloko m'mawa, ndithudi. Ndi mitundu yonse ya maubwenzi amakono masiku ano, tikutsimikiza kuti mutha kupeza mnzanu woti muzimukonda mosavuta.
7. Kuyika benchi
"Mwakhala pa benchi pamasewerawa, zabwino zonse nthawi ina" - osewera komanso okonda omwe ali ndi chiyembekezo tsopano atha kugwirizana ndi chiganizochi. Kuchokera mu maubwenzi ndi matanthauzo, ichi ndi chomwe chidzalumanso pang'ono. Kuyika benchi kumatanthauza kuika munthu pa benchi (mophiphiritsira) kuti muthe kuwasungira mtsogolo. Ndikanakonda tikanakhala limodzi, koma panopa ndili ndi winawake. Ayi, ayi. Mukupanga bench, pezani timu ina yoti musewere.
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8. Kupondereza
Kukondana kumatanthauza pamene muli pachibwenzi koma ganizani kuti ndi bwino kusunga njira zingapo muubwenzi wanu, ngati chibwenzi chanu chatha. Mukudziwa kuti mungathe kuchepetsa ululu wanu ndi manja a munthu amene akukuzungulirani nthawi yomweyo mutasudzulana. Ngati mukuganiza kuti wina akukugwiritsani ntchito ngati chokometsera, ndiye kuti ndinu amene amadziwika kuti ndinu wokonda kudikira.
9. Pang'onopang'ono kuzimiririka
Kodi mungakonde kung'amba chothandizira kapena kuchichotsa pang'onopang'ono, zomwe zingapweteke kwambiri? Amantha omwe amasankha chomalizacho mwina nawonso adzachedwa kuzimiririka. Chifukwa chake, iyi ndi imodzi mwamaubwenzi omwe muyenera kuwasamala. Kuchepa pang'onopang'ono kumatanthauza kubwerera kutali ndi chibwenzi pang'onopang'ono komanso pakapita nthawi kotero kuti kusudzulana sikumapweteka kwambiri. Mukatifunsa, amangofunika kukulitsa msana ndikuchotsa bandesiyo.
10. Ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha
Kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumafotokozedwa bwino kuti ndi zosiyana kwambiri ndi kugonana. Komano, nanga bwanji mawu oti "kugonana", mungafunse? "Kugonana" kumatanthauza kuti mukugonana. Ngakhale kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumangotanthauza kuti mumakopeka ndi munthu wina, sizimalongosola zomwe mumachita pokhudzana ndi chilakolako chogonana, zomwe mumakonda kuchita, kapena zomwe mumakopeka nazo. Zimangotanthauza kuti mumakopeka ndi kugonana.
11. Hei & pempherani - kuyamba kulankhula za chibwenzi
Ndiye mumawatcha chiyani kwenikweni, momwe mungayambire kuyankhulana pazibwenzi kapena kulowa mu ma DM awo? Mukudziwa kuti ndinu olakwa poganiza mopambanitsa uthenga woyamba wofunika kwambiri womwe mungatumize pamasewera omwe mwangopeza kumene. Mwakhala nthawi yayitali poyesa kulingalira za njira zoseketsa, zamatsenga, kapena chilichonse chomwe chimapangitsa kuti ntchitoyi ichitike.
Maganizo onse akatha, mumatha kutumiza "hey!" ndikupempherera yankho. Nthawi ina, ingotumizani pulogalamu ina iliyonse yoyambira kukambirana . Osatumiza "hey". Ndi chinthu chosasangalatsa kwambiri kuyankha.
12. Usodzi wa Mphaka
Awa ndi anthu omwe mumawawona pamasamba ochezera a pa Intaneti omwe amawoneka ngati abwino kwambiri kuti asakhale owona chifukwa ali. Harvard, Stanford, NDI Oxford?! Eya, chabwino genius. Mwa maubwenzi onsewa ndi matanthauzo ake, Kittenfishing ndi yonyenga kwambiri. Zimatanthawuza munthu yemwe wagona pa mbiri yake kuti awoneke ngati wokopa kuposa momwe alili. Chifukwa chake, gig yakwera, anyamata a 5'11. Ngati mulemba 6 'pa mbiri yanu, mukusodza mkazi.
13. Kuwombera kwachikondi - imodzi mwamawu ofunikira kwambiri paubwenzi
Kuphulika kwa chikondi ndi pamene munthu amene muli pachibwenzi akukupatsani chikondi chochuluka komanso kulimbikitsana, kenako n’kuyamba kukunyozani akangoyamba kukuganizirani kwambiri. Angadzipangire okha njira yabwino yoti akukondeni ndikukukondani, kenako n’kukutembenukirani ndikukusokonezani ndi zinthu zomwe simukufuna kuchita. Pa mitundu yonse ya maubwenzi amakono, uwu mwina ndi wopweteka kwambiri ndipo ndi umodzi mwa maubwenzi ovuta kwambiri.
14. Pansexuality - kwa mitundu yatsopano ya maubwenzi amakono
Munthu wapansexual ndi munthu amene amakopeka ndi amuna ndi akazi onse. Momwe zimasiyanirana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndikuti amuna ndi akazi awiri amatanthauza kuti mumakopeka ndi amuna awiri. Pansexual ndi mawu ovomerezeka komanso olimbikitsa anthu omwe mungakopeke ndi wina aliyense, mosasamala kanthu za komwe ali pa nkhani zogonana. Monga David Rose akunena pa Schitt's Creek, "Ndimakonda vinyo, osati chizindikiro."
15. Kupalasa
Mumapeza mnzanu akukunyengani kwa miyezi ingapo, ndipo akakumana nanu, amanena kuti sankadziwa kuti ndinu nokha. Izi zimapweteka chifukwa mumaganiza kuti kusungulumwa kumeneku kunali gawo lalikulu la ubale wanu waukulu. Zingayambitsenso kukwiya . Monga momwe mungachitire ndi mphemvu iliyonse yomwe mwaiwona m'nyumba mwanu, muyenera kumuchotsa munthuyu m'moyo wanu.
16. Ludzu msampha - mmodzi wa anthu ambiri Intaneti chibwenzi mawu
Msampha wa ludzu ndi chithunzi chodzutsa chilakolako chomwe chimayikidwa pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi cholinga chokopa otsatira kuti agone, nthawi zambiri monyenga zina. Chithunzi chija cha bwenzi lanu lachinyamata mudamuwona akudya ayisikilimu pamphepete mwa nyanja, ali wopanda malaya komanso akutambasula minyewa yake? Eya, ndiye msampha wa ludzu pamenepo. Kodi mumafunikiradi kusinthasintha minofu yanu yonse ndikupeza kuunikira koyenera kwa chithunzi chanu ndi ayisikilimu?!
17. Kunyenga pang'ono
Zinthu zomwe simungatchule kuti ndi chinyengo, koma chinthu chomwe simungafune kuti mnzanu asachite. Ngati mnzanuyo akuyankha munthu amene walowa mu DM yake ndi cholinga chogonana, zitha kuwerengedwa ngati zizindikiro za chinyengo chaching'ono. Awa ndi mawu a maubwenzi omwe mwina simuyenera kuwaiwala.
18. Kuwedza nsomba
Wokefishing ndipamene wina amadzitcha kuti ndi wachikazi, womenyera ufulu wa LGBTQ, kupezeka paziwonetsero komanso kuyimba mawu omasuka koma zimakhala zosiyana. Inde, mawu otere okhudza maubwenzi apabanja ndi ofunikira kudziwa kuti mutha kusiyanitsa chinyengo ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi inu zenizeni.
Pamene mukuwombedwa, mutha kudziwa za malingaliro awo enieni masabata kapena miyezi ingapo mutakumana nawo, zomwe zingayambitse kupatukana. Ndi vuto lomwe likukulirakulira, choncho onetsetsani kuti mwayang'ana.
19. Negging - imodzi mwa maubwenzi atsopano ndi matanthauzo
Mayamiko am'mbuyo opangidwa kuti akugwetseni pansi ndikulakalaka kuvomerezedwa ndi aliyense amene akuchokera. Kunyalanyaza kungayambitsenso ubale woipa. "Tsitsi lako likuwoneka bwino. Ndimakonda momwe udasinthira kuchoka pamawonekedwe ako wamba", kutanthauza kuti nthawi zambiri samawoneka bwino. Zikomo, koma ayi, muyenera kuchoka kwa munthu uyu.
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20. Chotupitsa
Wina akanena kuti mukuwoneka ngati zokhwasula-khwasula, mwina ndi chiyamiko chachikulu kwambiri chomwe munthu wa Gen-Z angakupatseni. Zikutanthauza kuti mukuwoneka wokongola kwambiri, kapena monga Gen-Zer anganene, "pa fleek".
21. Kulira
Mawu otchuka kwambiri pa maubwenzi ndi matanthauzo onse ndi simping. Simping nthawi zambiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito ponena za amuna omwe amachita chilichonse kuti apeze chidwi ndi chikondi cha mkazi amene amamufuna m'njira yogonana/yachikondi. Simps amasiya chilichonse chimene akuchita kuti apeze chidwi ngakhale chochepa kwambiri kuchokera kwa mkaziyo, yemwe nthawi zambiri samusamala kwambiri. Simping ikhoza kukhala chizindikiro chakuti akufuna zambiri kuposa ubwenzi.
22. Kukondana
Kodi timatcha chiyani kuyankhulana m'mawu achibwenzi koma omwe samakumana nawo? Kulankhulana. Zimachitika pamene inu awiri simungakhoze kuwoneka kudutsa siteji yotumizirana mameseji ndi mapulani kukumana konse kwenikweni chifukwa chirichonse. Mudzawona ma introverts akuvutika kwambiri kuti achoke mu gawoli.
Ngati titasankha liwu limodzi lomwe limatanthawuza maubwenzi amakono, izi zikanakhala choncho. Osadandaula kuti introvert ikubweza kukankha-mmwamba pambuyo pa kukankha, kuvala magolovesi a nkhonya, ndi nkhonya ya mpweya kwa ola limodzi. Akungokonzekera kuyimba foni!
23. Daterview
Mwa mitundu yonse yosiyanasiyana ya maubwenzi, iyi iyenera kukhala yomwe ndimakonda kwambiri. "Kodi mukuyang'ana chinthu chachikulu? Mukufuna ana? Kodi mungatani kuti muthetse mkangano wa Israeli ndi Palestine?" Chabwino mwina osati wotsiriza, koma ngati zikuoneka ngati inu muli kuyankhulana kuposa tsiku, mukukumana chimene chimatchedwa "daterview".
Mungadabwe kwambiri ndi mafunso amphamvu omwe simunali kuyembekezera pa tsiku loyamba. Kuchita kafukufuku wa chibwenzi ndi cholakwika chachikulu . Ngati musanamalize ngakhale kugula chakudya chaulere, akukufunsani komwe mumadziona nokha komanso "ubwenzi" wanu patatha zaka 5, chokani.
24. DTR
Tanthauzo: fotokozani ubale. Uthenga umodzi ndi wokwanira kutumiza ma shockwaves pansi pa msana wanu ngati mukuganiza kuti zinthu sizinali zachilendo pakati panu. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa maubwenzi mawu ndi matanthauzo kuti mwina simukuyembekezera ngati inu simunaganize ubale mwa konse. Ngati mulandira DTR lemba, konzekerani kukhala ndi mmodzi wa zokambirana kuti mwina kupanga kapena kuswa “ubale” wanu (mwina kuponyera ena zosokoneza lotseguka ubale mawu mu kukambirana kuwagwira iwo modzidzimutsa?).
25. Kulemberana mameseji pang’onopang’ono
Mwinamwake munangoganiza bwino ndi dzina. Zikutanthauza pamene mulandira malemba mochedwa kwambiri popanda chifukwa chenicheni. Atha kukhala otanganidwa kapena nkhawa yanu yoganiza mopitilira muyeso ingakhale yolondola ndipo muyamba kuchepa pang'onopang'ono (pendani ngati simukukumbukira). Mukakumana nawo, mutha kuwoneka ngati mukufunitsitsa, ie kukwawa. Ngati simuchita kalikonse, mutha kuzilala pang'onopang'ono. Real Catch 22, iyi. Zabwino zonse, tangoyenera kukuuzani za nthawi, osati kukupatsani mayankho onse.
Kotero, inu muli nazo izo! Mawu onse ofunikira a maubwenzi omwe muyenera kudziwa. Simukuyeneranso kuopa mawu awa omwe amatanthauzira zibwenzi zamakono. Tsopano tulukani kumeneko ndikupeza nokha chotupitsa chomwe mungakonde bomba panthawi ya cuffing.
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