Zimene tinachita kuti tikhalebe ndi ubwenzi wolimba m’banja mwathu ngakhale kuti sitinali patokha

(Monga anauza Darshana Doshi)

(Maina asinthidwa kuti ateteze zidziwitso)

Titakwatirana kwa zaka zitatu pamene ine ndi Mihir tinakwatirana, chinthu choyamba chimene tinafunikira kulingalira chinali ichi: Kodi tidzapanga bwanji chikondi m’nyumba ya chipinda chimodzi mmene makolo anali ndi chipinda chogona ndipo chipinda chojambuliramo chinalibe chitseko? Tinali ndi zinthu zambiri zoti tizichita tisanakwatirane moti tinali kuiwala za pakhomo. Choncho chinthu choyamba chimene tinachita chinali kukonza. Komabe, ndi ndandanda zathu zotopetsa zantchito, zinatenga nthaŵi. Ndiyenera kuvomereza kuti usiku woti chitseko chisamangidwe unali wovuta komanso wosangalatsa. Mantha omveka omwe tinali nawo podziwa kuti kholo lililonse atha kulowamo pamene tikupanga chikondi, anali openga. Ndikufuna ndikhulupirire kuti palibe chomwe chidachitika ngati chimenecho kapena ndi chifukwa chomwe adatipatsa chipinda chawo chogona? Sindidzadziwa.

Komabe, chitseko sichinathe kutseka zikhoterero zathu zowonetsera. Mihir sanazengereze kutenga ufulu pamaso pa amayi ake.

Nthawi zina ankandikumbatira ndili kukhitchini ndikumuthandiza. Komanso, ankakonda kundigwira dzanja pamene tonse atatu tikuonera TV. Poyamba ndinaona kuti apongozi anga sakumasuka. The oseketsa mbali ndi kuti tonse a ife ndiye kuti adzakhala ndi manyazi mpikisano. Koma pamaso pa abambo ako, mwamuna wanga wokondedwa, wasanduka nsomba yozizira. Ndinkamunyoza Mihir mopanda chifundo, chifukwa ndinkadziwa mmene ankakhulupirira kuti tizimulemekeza nthawi zonse.

Kuwerenga kofananira: Umu ndi mmene mungakopekere mukakhala pabanja kale

Chilakolako chomwe tinali nacho kwa wina ndi mnzake chinatipangitsa kupeza njira zobera mapsopsona ndi kukumbatirana m'dera la 600 sq ft lomwe limagawidwa ndi akuluakulu anayi. Tinaphunzira kulankhulana ndi maso athu. Tinapanga njira yathu yolumikizirana ndi ma code. Mwachitsanzo tikafuna kunena kuti 'Mukuwoneka kutentha', tinkati 'Nyengo ikutentha'. Mundawu unali nyumba yathu yachiwiri,

zomwe tinkagwiritsa ntchito tikafuna kuyankhulana pazovuta komanso kukhala apamtima. Zinali zosangalatsa ndipo sitinaipidwe kwenikweni ndi kukhalapo kwa apongozi anga m’moyo mwathu, popeza nawonso anali kusamala ndi kusintha. Chotero mgwirizano unasungika.

Komabe, patapita zaka ziŵiri zinthu zinasintha apongozi anga aakazi atamwalira ndipo Ma anasungulumwa ndi wosadzisungika. Iye ankafuna kuti azicheza nafe kulikonse chifukwa sankafuna kukhala yekha. Tinamvetsetsa zimenezi ndipo tinamuthandiza kotheratu kwa chaka chimodzi.

Koma kusowa kwa malo akuthupi ndi amalingaliro kunapangitsa kuti ubale wathu uwonongeke. Tinayenera kupeza njira zosungitsira ubwenzi wathu wapamtima.

Zinali zovuta komanso zolemetsa, popeza chikondi chathu pa wina ndi mzake chinali chitakhazikika ndipo kuchuluka kwa ntchito kunatisiyira nthawi yochepa kwambiri.

Madzulo ena kuleza mtima kunatha ndipo kupsya mtima kunawuluka ponamizira kuti kachinthu kakang'ono kakang'ono kakuchitika komwe ngakhale Ma analira. Tinaona kuti inali nthawi yoti tithetse vutolo. "N'chifukwa chiyani umayenera kumangokhalira ku Ma usiku uliwonse ndikudikirira mpaka atagona? Kodi ukudziwa kuti sitinapangane kwa mwezi umodzi tsopano?" Ndinalira, ndikukhumudwa, pamene Ma anali atapita kukachisi. Mihir, amene anakhudzidwa mtima kwambiri ndi amayi ake, anamvetsera mwakachetechete.

Lamlungu lotsatira anandidabwitsa ndi tchati chopangidwa ndi makatoni. Inali ndi magawo osiyanasiyana, monga 'Ndikufuna zoipa' 'Osati usikuuno Honey,' 'Ndikukumbatira odwala', Ndi tsiku lopanda pake' ndi zina zambiri zokhala ndi mauthenga osangalatsa komanso apamtima. "Chomwe muyenera kuchita ndi kumamatira pini pa zomwe mwasankha madzulo aliwonse. Choncho ndikonza nthawi ndi Amayi." Kenako adandikumbatira ndikundiuza modekha kuti 'Ndimakukonda Vaishali. Izi ndi nthawi zovuta. Koma tidzadutsamo.” Chisamaliro chake ndi chikondi chake zinalimbitsanso kutsimikiza mtima kwanga ndipo tinayenda bwino pambuyo pake, ndikusunga malire pakati pa ntchito zathu kwa amayi ake ndi kwa wina ndi mnzake.

Patha zaka zinayi chikhalireni takhala ndi moyo mogwirizana, kuvomereza mkhalidwewo kukhala wosapeŵeka ndikuupeputsa. Ubale watsopano wa chisamaliro ndi chidaliro chomwe tapanga chatipatsa chinthu chapadera chomwe chimadyetsa miyoyo yathu ngakhale tisagwire manja kapena kukumbatirana. Kukumbatirana musanagone kwakhala kosangalatsa kuposa ngakhale kupanga chikondi nthawi zina. Taphunzira kuthana ndi kusokoneza ubale wathu ndipo tikukonzekera kukhala ndi mwana posachedwa.

Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.

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