Kodi Cheaters Karma Ndi Chiyani Ndipo Imagwira Ntchito Pa Onyenga?

Mumakolola chomwe mwafesa. monga ufesa, momwemonso udzatuta. Ndi karma m'mawu osavuta. Onyenga karma ndi ofanananso. Ngati mwapanga zisankho zoipa muubwenzi wanu ndipo simunachite bwino mnzako, kuwanyenga, ndikuphwanya mtima wawo popusitsa, ndiye kuti pali mwayi woti mudzakumane ndi mkwiyo wa karma. 

Kodi anthu onyenga amapezadi karma yawo? Kuti tidziwe, tinalankhula ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo Pragati Sureka (MA mu Clinical Psychology, katswiri wamaphunziro ochokera ku Harvard Medical School), yemwe ndi katswiri pa nkhani monga kuthana ndi mkwiyo, mavuto okhudza kulera ana, ukwati wozunza komanso wopanda chikondi kudzera muzinthu zokhudzana ndi malingaliro. Iye anati, "Ngati uchitira munthu wina choipa, udzachibweza mwanjira ina. N'zosavuta choncho."

Kodi Cheaters Karma Ndi Chiyani?

Kuberedwa pachibwenzi kungawononge kwambiri thanzi lanu. Sikuti zimangophwanya chikhulupiliro chomwe munayika mwa munthu amene mumamukonda, komanso zimawononganso chidaliro chanu komanso kudzidalira kwanu. Kutalika kwaubwenzi sikulibe kanthu muchinyengo. Zowawa zamaganizo zidzakhala zofanana mu chaka chimodzi chokhala pachibwenzi ndi zaka 10 zaukwati. 

Malinga ndi kafukufuku , kusakhulupirika kungawononge thanzi la maganizo la wokondedwa wonyengedwa. Amakumana ndi mavuto amaganizo ndi amisala. Amakhalanso pachiwopsezo cha zochita zoopsa monga kudya pang'ono, kugwiritsa ntchito mowa kapena zinthu zina kuti achepetse ululu wawo, kugonana atamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena mowa, kapena kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi mopitirira muyeso kuti athane ndi zenizeni.

Anthu amabera chifukwa cha zifukwa zosiyanasiyana:

• chilakolako 
• Kudziyang'anira pansi
• Kuyang'ana zosintha
• Mavuto ndi mnzanu
• Iwo akufuna kuti akumanenso ndi gawo la honeymoon
• Ali ndi makhalidwe okayikitsa

Pragati akuti, “Tikamalankhula za karma yachinyengo, tiyenera kuyang'ana njira imeneyi. Kodi ndi mtundu wanji wa chinyengo womwe wachitika? Kodi unali kugonana kwa usiku umodzi? Kapena kodi unayamba mwamaganizo zomwe zinapangitsa kuti mukhale pachibwenzi chogonana? Sikuti nkhani ya “achinyengo amakumana ndi karma” yokha. Amakunamizani, amayesa kukupusitsani ndikukunyozani kuti asunge chinsinsi chawo. Karma yovulaza mkazi kapena mwamuna wabwino si chifukwa chokha. Imachokera pa chilichonse ndipo imaganizira zonse, kuyambira kusakhulupirika kwamalingaliro mpaka mabodza ambiri mpaka kusakhulupirika kwathupi.”

Kodi Karma Imagwira Ntchito Pa Onyenga?

Pamene ndinanyengedwa, ndinkadzifunsa kuti, “Kodi adzapeza karma yake chifukwa chondinyenga ndipo kodi onyenga amavutika ?” Yankho la zonsezi ndi inde. Anazindikira kulakwitsa kwake ndipo anadutsa mu magawo asanu omwewo a chisoni omwe ndinali kudutsamo. Anali wamanyazi, wodzimva kuti ndili ndi mlandu, ndipo sakanatha kundiona. Anayamba kuvutika maganizo ndipo zinali zovuta kuvomereza zomwe anachita.

Pragati amagawana, "Kodi onyenga amapeza karma yawo? Yankho lalifupi ndi inde. Koma muyenera kukumbukira kuti anthu ndi abwino mwachibadwa. Zinthu ziwiri zomwe zimatilepheretsa kukhala abwino ndizo zochita zathu ndi zosankha zathu. Munasankha kubera munthu wina. Munasankha kuwapweteka. Mukhoza kulandira zowawa ndi zowawa zomwezo. Osati momwemonso, koma m'njira imodzi kapena ina. "

Atafunsidwa pa Reddit ngati karma imagwira ntchito kwa anthu onyenga kapena amasangalala ndi moyo, wogwiritsa ntchito wina anayankha kuti: Ngati mumakhulupirira mphamvu inayake yapamwamba kapena moyo wina pambuyo pa imfa, ndithudi adzalandira yawo. Koma ngati sichoncho, ndikuganiza kuti pali zinthu ziwiri zomwe zingakutonthozeni.

• Onyenga sangakhale ndi luso lofanana lopanga maubwenzi okhalitsa, odalirika monga momwe anthu ena angathere
• Mutha kupitilira ndikukhala ndi moyo wabwinoko kuposa momwe wachinyengo angakhalire

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Kodi Karma Ndi Yoona Mu Ubale? 

Karma ndi yowona. Onse m'moyo komanso mu ubale. Karma ndi chiphunzitso cha Chihindu ndi Chibuda. Si nthawi yomweyo. Zimatenga nthawi yake. Ngati sali m’dziko lino, ndiye kuti wochita zoipa adzapeza zomwe akuyenera kuchita m’moyo wina kapena pambuyo pa imfa. Karma yachinyengo idzafika kwa iwo nthawi ina.

Kunyengedwa ndi chizindikiro chakuti munthuyu si woyenera kwa inu. Karma ya kusakhulupirika muubwenzi ndi yoona koma sizikutanthauza kuti mumayesetsa kuwalanga ndikukonzekera kubwezera. Anthu onyenga amapeza karma mwa kudzida komwe ndi zotsatira za zochita zawo. Kudzida ndi chimodzi mwa zomwe munthu amamva akanyengedwa komanso akachita zachinyengo. Zimawadabwitsa kwambiri kuti avulaza kwambiri munthu amene amamukonda komanso kumulemekeza.

Pragati anawonjezera kuti: “Nthaŵi zonse dziŵani kuti sikuli m’manja mwanu kulanga munthu amene anakunyengani.

Kodi Onyenga Amapeza Bwanji Karma Yawo?

Karma yopweteketsa mkazi kapena mwamuna wabwino idzapangitsa wonyengayo kudandaula ndi zochita zawo. M'munsimu muli njira zina zomwe onyenga amachitira karma:

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1. Zimakhudza moyo wawo

Pragati anati: “Ukabera munthu, umawononganso maganizo a munthu wachinyengoyo, amakhala dzanzi.

"Ngakhale simukudziwa choti munene kwa munthu amene anakupandukirani , kudziimba mlandu kwawo kudzasintha umunthu wawo. Simuyenera kuchita chilichonse kuti muwapweteke chifukwa amavutika ndi nkhawa ndipo amavutika kuthana ndi zochita zawo. Umu ndi momwe anthu onyenga amapezera karma." Mungaganize kuti karma ya kusakhulupirika muubwenzi siilipo ngati wonyengayo akuwoneka kuti ali bwino. Koma pansi pamtima, akukumana ndi mavuto aakulu amaganizo. Kupsinjika maganizo kudzawagwetsa pansi pamapeto pake.

2. Pali mwayi kwa anthu obera kuti azaberedwe

Kulankhula kuchokera pa zomwe wakumana nazo pawekha, ngati pali chinthu chimodzi omwe obera sangathe kuchita - ndikubera. Amadana ndi kulawa mankhwala awo. Khalani oleza mtima ndipo dikirani kuti chiguduli chichotsedwe pansi pawo ndipo iwo amayenda mozungulira. 

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3. Adzavutika kuti ayambenso kukondana

Pragati akuti, "Iyi ndi imodzi mwa karma yayikulu yachinyengo pankhani ya wonyenga wotsatizana. Sadzakonda munthu weniweni komanso mokwanira. Nthawi zonse amamva kuti pali chinachake chomwe chikusowa m'moyo. Sakhutira ndi munthu m'modzi. Amafunikira anthu oposa m'modzi kuti atsimikizire momwe akumvera. Izi zimakhala zozungulira ndipo amavutika kusunga ubale weniweni. Ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zochenjeza za wonyenga wotsatizana ."

Nthawi zonse amaona kuti alibe kanthu. Simuyenera kulanga munthu amene anakunyengererani kangapo popanda chisoni. Ndi anthu odzikonda amene sangamve kukhala angwiro. Nthawi zonse amakhala osakhazikika ndipo kudzimva kuti alibe kanthu kudzawavutitsa mpaka karma yawo italipidwa.

Mmene Mungachilitsire Kuberedwa

Pragati anati: “Karma yachinyengo imasamalira munthu amene wakulakwirani. Muyenera kuika maganizo anu pa kuchiritsa. Muyenera kudzikonda, lankhulani ndi anzanu komanso achibale anu, ndipo m’kupita kwa nthawi mudzakhala wamphamvu.” 

Ngati simungathe kusiya ndipo mukufuna thandizo la akatswiri, gulu la akatswiri odziwa bwino ntchito ya Bonobology lili pano kuti likutsogolereni mu ndondomekoyi ndikukupatsani njira yoti muchiritse. Nazi njira zina zomwe mungachiritsire chifukwa cha chinyengo:

• Yang'anani pa inu nokha: Palibe phindu kuyesa kulanga munthu amene wakunyengererani. Zomwe mungachite ndikudzigwira nokha ndikuyesera kuchiza, mudzapeza kuwala kumapeto kwa ngalandeyo 
• Funsani ngati ali oyenera: Iwo sanakulemekezeni inu ndi chikondi chanu. Dzifunseni ngati munthu ameneyo ndi wofunika kumuganizira. Kodi ndi bwino kuwononga nthawi ndi mphamvu zanu pokonzekera kubwezera? Dziuzeni kuti sali oyenera chikondi chanu. Zingakhale zovuta kuwaiwala, koma musadikire kuti apepese kapena asinthe maganizo
• Musayese kufananiza: Uku ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu komwe anthu amatha kupanga atapusitsidwa. Amadziyerekeza ndi anthu omwe mnzawo adawanyenga nawo. Izi ndi poizoni ndipo zimayambitsa kudzikayikira komanso kudzida. Muyenera kudziwa momwe mungagonjetsere kusatetezeka pambuyo pa kunyengedwa
• Chitani zomwe mumakonda: Bwererani ku zomwe mumakonda. Bwezerani chidwi chanu kwina. Chitani yoga, yendani koyenda, kapena werengani buku. Kumanani ndi anzanu ndi abale anu 
• Lonjezani kuti muyambenso: Munthu m'modzi amakunyengererani sizitanthauza kuti pali chilichonse chosowa mwa inu. Ngati mwakonzeka kukhala pachibwenzi kachiwiri, dziwonetseni nokha

Zilibe kanthu zomwe zimachitika kwa wachinyengo mutangowatulutsa m'moyo wanu. Lekani kudzifunsa nokha "Kodi adzalandira karma yake chifukwa chondinyenga?" Musalole kuti kusamvana kukuwonongeni. Zingamve ngati simudzatulukamo. Koma perekani nthawi. Mudzawala mwa izo kumapeto kwa tsiku. Khalani ndi moyo wabwino kwambiri ndipo musadikire kuti karma ifike kwa wakale wanu kuti mupitirize.

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