Zifukwa 13 Zosabwezeranso Ex Yemwe Anakutayani

Momwe mungafune pompano, tikukulangizani kuti musatengerenso munthu wakale yemwe adakutayani. Mukuwona, tonse tili ndi zingwe zokumbukira nthawi zabwino ndikuyiwala zokumbukira zoyipa. Ngakhale ndi njira ya ubongo yathu yotitetezera, ikhoza kukhalanso lupanga lakuthwa konsekonse nthawi zina. Kulingalira, "Kodi ndibwererenso ndi wakale wanga?" ndithudi ndi chitsanzo chimodzi chotere. Mukuganiziranso chifukwa mwina mwayiwala zomwe zimamveka ngati atatayidwa komanso chifukwa chake sizinagwirizane ndi mwamuna wanu wakale poyamba.

Mwamuna wanu wakale akhoza kukufikiraninso pazifukwa zingapo, kuyambira kumva chisoni chochokera pansi pamtima chifukwa chothetsa chibwenzicho ndi zolinga zachinyengo. Ndikofunikira kuti muziyenda mosamala, nthawi zonse kukumbukira kuti munthu wakale ndi wakale pazifukwa, ndipo osapanga chisankho chifukwa chotengeka mtima. 

Munkhaniyi, mphunzitsi wa zaumoyo ndi kusamala maganizo, Pooja Priyamvada (wovomerezedwa mu Psychological and Mental Health First Aid kuchokera ku Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health ndi University of Sydney), yemwe ndi katswiri pa uphungu wa zibwenzi zakunja kwa ukwati, kusudzulana, kupatukana, chisoni, ndi kutayika, akupereka chidziwitso cha chifukwa chake si bwino kubwezera chibwenzi chomwe chinakusiyani, pomwe akuwonetsa zosiyana ndi izi.

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Chikhumbo chokhala m'malo omwe timamasuka n'chomveka bwino. Chifukwa chakuti "zosadziwika" zimaoneka zoopsa kwambiri kwa ife kuposa "zodziwika", mosasamala kanthu kuti "zodziwika" ndi zoopsa bwanji, zoopsa bwanji, kapena zopweteka bwanji. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikulu zomwe tonsefe nthawi ina m'miyoyo yathu taganiziranso za kutha kwa chibwenzi chomwe tinkachidalira kwambiri. Kaya chibwenzicho chinali choipa bwanji, chinali chodziwika bwino.

Pamene wakale yemwe wakugwetsani ngati mbatata yotentha abweranso, kupempha chiyanjanitso, mutha kupeza kuti mukukopeka nawo. Chifukwa chakuti ndi ozoloŵera, amadziwika, ndipo m’njira zina amatonthoza. Kuonjezera apo, kubwereranso ndi munthu wakale kungakhalenso njira yowonetsera kudzikonda kwanu. Munthu wakale yemwe adakutayani kale koma tsopano akuyandikirani kuti muyanjane amakupatsani mwayi wotsimikizira kuti wakale wanuyo ndi wolakwa kapena kudziwonetsa nokha kuti ndinu wabwino kuposa zomwe adakunenerani m'mbuyomu. Izi ndi zolimbikitsa zoyipa ndipo zitha kungowonetsa chiyambi cha mutu wina wowopsa wa ubale woyipa.

Chimene sichithandiza kwenikweni ndi kukondera koyenera kukumbukira. Timakonda kukumbukira nthawi zabwino kapena zokumana nazo pa zoyipazo. Ndi kukondera kwachidziwitso komwe kumathandizira lus kusiya zowawa ndikupangitsa kuti tikhale pamtendere. Choncho, n’zosakayikitsa kuti mwaiwala mmene munamvera atatayidwa ndi wakale wanu, chifukwa chimene chibwenzi chanu sichinayende bwino, komanso chifukwa chimene sichingagwire ntchito. Lolani katswiri wathu kuti akukumbutseni kuipa kobwereranso kwa wakale wanu kuti mupatsenso ubale wanu. Tikukhulupirira, zikuthandizani kuti muwone chifukwa chake simuyenera kubwezanso munthu wakale yemwe adakutayani.

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1. Ndizoipa kwa kudzidalira kwanu

Mawu ngati “kutaya” ali ndi tanthauzo lachibadwa la kutsika mtengo ndi manyazi. Kubwezera munthu wakale amene anakusiyani kapena amene anakuchepetsani mtengo kudzakuwonongerani ulemu wanu. Ngati mukuganiza zololanso munthu wakaleyo kubwerera m'moyo wanu, mwina mukukumana kale ndi vuto la kudziona ngati wopanda pake ndipo simukuganiza kuti mungapeze phindu labwino kuposa wakale wanu. Kubwererana naye kudzangowonjezera mavuto.

Pofotokoza chifukwa chake kukana wakale yemwe anakusiyani n'kofunika kwambiri pa thanzi labwino la maganizo, Pooja akufotokoza kuti, "Kubwerera kwa wakale kumatanthauza kuvomereza kugwirizana pa nkhani zomwe munaziona kuti sizingatheke kuzipirira kapena kuzigwirizanitsa poyamba. Zingawononge kudzidalira kwanu ndi kudzilemekeza kwanu kwamuyaya." Dzikumbutseni kuti mukuyenera zabwino. Maganizo amenewo okha ndi omwe angakuthandizeni kuti mulandire zambiri kuchokera ku moyo. Dzizungulireni ndi anthu omwe amakupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu olemekezeka. Yesetsani mwakhama kuti mudzipangitse kudzidalira.

2. Mumatsekeredwa m'njira yosayenera yodalirana

Kodi ndibwererane ndi wakale wanga, mukufunsa? Popereka uphungu wotsutsa zimenezo, Pooja anati, “Kubwereranso ndi mwamuna wakale nthaŵi zambiri kumachitika chifukwa chakuti sudziŵa mtundu wina uliwonse waubwenzi wabwino ndipo motero umaganiza kuti sungathe kukhala ndi moyo popanda wakale wakoyo ngakhale atachitiridwa zoipa motani paubwenziwo.” Khalidwe ili likuwonetsa zochitika zakale za kudalirana.

Kudalirana kwa anthu m'maubwenzi kumachitika chifukwa cha kudziona kuti ndi ofunika komanso kuopa kusiyidwa. Ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti anthu omwe amadalirana nawo amavutika kwambiri kuthetsa chibwenzicho. Ngakhale mutazindikira kuti simudalirana kale ndi mnzanu, ngati mugonjera chilakolakochi, mutha kuyamba kukhala ndi vuto la kudalirana kwa anthu m'maubwenzi.

3. Mukufuna chitonthozo, osati kukula

Kodi mukuganiza ngati kubwererananso mutasiya chibwenzi ndi lingaliro labwino? Kuganiziranso kuti kukusonyeza kuti simukufuna kutenga zoopsa. Kapena nthawi ino mukutero. Zikuoneka kuti mukusankha kukhala ndi moyo wabwino kuposa kukhala ndi moyo wabwino chifukwa chopita ku zinthu zosadziwika.

Kukula kwamunthu kumachokera kudera lazovuta pang'ono. Mukukankhidwa kuti mukhale bwino mukamakumana ndi chiyembekezo cha zomwe simukuzidziwa. Zingakhale zoopsa, inde, koma ndi ulendo. Nenani kwa wakale wanuyo ndikupitilira. Yang'anani gawo ili ngati mwayi wodzikuza. Zidzakulimbikitsani kuti musabwezerenso munthu wakale yemwe adakutayani.

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4. Nkhani zina sizigwirizana

Ngati muli wosweka mtima, “Kodi ndibwererane ndi wakale wanga?”, zingakuthandizeni kubwerera m’mbuyo ndi kuona ngati n’kotheka kuthetsa kapena kukonza zimene zinakulekanitsani poyamba. Kodi mnzanuyo anayambitsa vuto lililonse asanamusiye? Ngati kusudzulana kunali chosankha cha onse, kodi ndi nkhani zazikulu ziti zimene zinachititsa? Ino ndi nthawi yabwino kudziuza kuti palibe chomwe chimatsimikizira kuti nkhanizo sizidzabweranso.

Pooja akuti, “Ngati wakale wanu sakusintha machitidwe awo monga chinyengo kapena nkhanza, kuwabwezera kungatanthauze kuti mavutowa adzapitirira kukupwetekani mobwerezabwereza.” Ngakhale kuti panalibe chinyengo kapena nkhanza zomwe zinayambitsa kutha kwa banja, kusamvana kwa makhalidwe ndi zofunika, nkhani zodalirana, kutaya kuvomerezana, chikondi ndi ulemu , chilichonse chomwe chinali, n’zotheka kuti mavuto omwewo adzabukanso. Chifukwa mavuto ena sangagwirizane.

5. Kubweza munthu wakale kumatanthauza kusadzilemekeza mokwanira

Mumati, “ Wachibwenzi wanga akufuna kuti ndibwerere atandisiya.” Malangizo a katswiri wathu nthawi zonse ndi akuti mubwerere m’mbuyo ndikumva nokha. Kodi zimakupangitsani kumva bwanji? Kuganizira zobwezera wachibwenzi amene anakusiyani kumasonyeza kuti mwina mukukhulupirira kuti simudzapeza wina wabwino kuposa inu. Mawu akuti “kutaya” ali ndi tanthauzo la chisankho chomwe munapatsidwa. Kuti simunathe kulamulira kwambiri kutha kwa chibwenzi chanu kuyenera kuti kunasokoneza kudzidalira kwanu.

Kubwereranso ndi munthu wakale kumangowonjezera malingaliro amenewo. Pooja akuumirira kuti, “Ngati wakale wanuyo wanyalanyaza malire anu mobwerezabwereza ndipo akuganiza kuti simungathe kukhala popanda iwo ndipo chifukwa chake mudzapirira zonse zopanda pake, chonde musatsimikizire kuti ndizolondola. M’malo mwake, dzitsimikizireni nokha kuti mungathe kuchirikiza tsogolo lanu.

6. Nonse simuli anthu amodzi

Kuyambira pamene munalekana, mwakhala ndi zokumana nazo zosiyanasiyana, kuyambira pamene munalekana. Chinali chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa moyo wanu (ndi wa wakale wanu) chomwe munakumana nacho nokha. Zokumana nazo ngati izi zimakusinthani. Timathana nazo, timavulala, timadutsa mu njira yochiritsira kulekana , timaphunzira ndikukula. Timapeza anthu atsopano ndikukhala anthu atsopano.

Ngati papita nthawi yaitali kuchokera pamene munasudzulana, zingakhale zovuta kuti muzindikire munthu amene munali naye pachibwenzi. Mukaganiza zobwereranso ndi munthu wakale, mumaganiza kuti nthawi yatha, ndi kuti ubalewo uyambire pomwe udatha. Koma zambiri zasintha. Izi zitha kukhala zodabwitsa, zosokoneza, ndipo pamapeto pake, zokhumudwitsa.

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7. Simudzakhala watsopano ngati mutabweza wakale wanu

Inde, simuli munthu yemweyo monga kale, koma kubwereranso ku ubale womwewo kumakweza kwambiri mwayi woti mudzakankhidwe ku machitidwe akale. Nonse munayankhira umunthu wa wina ndi mzake ndikukhazikika mu chikhalidwe china mu chiyanjano chanu. Monga momwe mumakanira, umunthu ndi khalidwe la mnzanuyo zidzakukakamizani kuti mukhale munthu yemweyo monga momwe munali poyamba. Izi ndi zachilengedwe. 

Maganizo anu amadziwa momwe mungapewere mikangano ndipo adzakukhudzani nonse kuti muzolowere njira zomwezo zakale zamaganizo ndi maubwenzi. Izi zimakulepheretsani kukhala munthu watsopano. Ndipo muyenera kusintha kumeneko. Kuti muphunzire kuchokera ku zolakwa zakale ndi zomwe mwakumana nazo ndikudzikonzanso kukhala munthu wodzikonda kwambiri. Kumbukirani zofooka izi mukaganizira kuti, "Kodi ndibwerere kwa wakale wanga?"

8. Kusakhulupirira nthawi zonse kumakhala kovutirapo

Monga tanenera, kutayidwa kungabweretse mavuto pa kudzidalira kwanu komanso kudzidalira. Izi zingapangitse kuti mukhale ndi mantha oti mwasiyidwa komanso kuti musamalamulire tsogolo lanu. Chimodzi mwa zotsatira zake ndi kuopa mnzanu nthawi zonse komanso kuopa kuti mwasiyidwanso. Izi zingayambitse zizolowezi zoipa zokondweretsa anthu. Kusadalirana kudzakuthandizani kukhala ndi nkhawa nthawi zonse. Kungakupangitseni kuti muyambe moyo wanu, kupirira makhalidwe oipa, komanso kukhala ndi malire oipa muubwenzi.

Ngakhale mwamuna wanu wakale anali ndi chidwi ndi inu, kusakhulupirirana kungawononge thanzi laubwenzi, mosasamala kanthu za kuwona mtima kwawo. Pooja anachenjeza kuti: “Ngati inuyo ndi mkazi wanu wakale mutabwererana pamene zinthu zazikulu zimene simukukhutira nazo zidakalipo, mungakumane ndi kusakhulupirirana nthaŵi ndi nthaŵi ndipo zimenezi zingawononge ubwenzi wanu m’kupita kwa nthaŵi.” Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe zimakupangitsani kukana munthu wakale yemwe adakutayani kudzakuthandizani m'kupita kwanthawi.

9. Mukubwerera chammbuyo

Kubwereranso ndi munthu wakale kungayambitse zovuta zakale. Ndipo n’cifukwa ciani mufuna kucita zimenezo? Ziribe kanthu momwe mungayesere kuzipukuta pansi pa kapeti, zomverera zinapweteka. Ziribe kanthu momwe munganene, sipadzakhala "kuyambira mwatsopano". Zimenezo n’zosatheka. Katundu wamalingaliro amatha kubwerabe ngati cholepheretsa ubale wopanda nkhawa.

Zopinga zonse zam'mbuyomu zitha kugwira ntchito ngati mbedza zomwe zimakukokerani nthawi zonse - ubale womwe umakhala wokhazikika m'mbuyomu. Ndipo ngati simukupita patsogolo, mukubwerera m’mbuyo. "Ex anabwerera nditasiya" - izi ndizovuta kwambiri pamene mukubwezeredwa pambuyo poyesera zolimba kuti mupite patsogolo. Kukangana kotereku sikofunikira kwenikweni pamene mutha kuchita zambiri ndi moyo wanu. 

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10. Ndi bomba la nthawi yokhazikika

Tikhale oona mtima. Kulowa muubwenzi womwewo ndi munthu yemweyo amene ali ndi nkhani zofanana sikupereka chithunzithunzi cha chiyembekezo. Nonse mukhoza kulonjezana wina ndi mzake za slate woyera. Ndipo sitikunena kuti malonjezo amenewo ndi osaona mtima. Koma nkhani zakale zidzawonekeranso ndipo mudzasiyidwa mukulimbana nazo ndi gulu lomwelo la arsenal. Ichi ndichifukwa chake kubwereranso ndi wakale sikumagwira ntchito.

Zinthu zoopsa zingachitike muubwenzi popanda kudalirana . Kusakhulupirira mnzanu, kusunga chakukhosi, kumva mantha osiyidwa, kubisa zinthu pansi pa kapeti—kufalikira kwa mavuto amenewa mu Ubale wanu 2.0 ndi bomba lokhalo. Kumbukirani, wakale ndi wakale pazifukwa zina. Mumakhala bwino kwambiri nokha.

11. Mwayandikira kwambiri kumapeto!

Tawonani momwe mwayandikira pamzere womaliza! Mwina munadutsa kale mzere womaliza. Mwawona zoyipa kwambiri. Ndipo anapulumuka! Bwanji mubwezere munthu wakale yemwe anakutayani ndikuwonanso sewero lonselo?

Munali pafupi kuyamba kusiya zakale ndikusiya zakale. Mwina munali kale kale munthu wakale amene anakusiyani asanakufikireni ndikupereka kuti muyesenso. Musabwezerenso munthu wakale amene anakusiyani. Khalani ndi ubale watsopano, pangani zolakwa zatsopano. Muyenera kukhala ndi mnzanu wabwino, mwayi wabwino wopeza chikondi kuposa amene mukuchita naye zinthu mopanda chilungamo.

12. Sibwino ku thanzi lanu la maganizo

Zonse zomwe takambiranazi zidzakhudza thanzi lanu la maganizo. Pooja akuti, " Mabanja omwe amasudzulana ndi kubwereranso amakhala ndi mikangano yambiri, kuphatikizapo mikangano yayikulu yokhudza nkhanza zakuthupi ndi zamwano. Kusudzulana ndi kubwereranso kumagwirizana ndi kuvutika maganizo kwambiri, makamaka pamene okwatirana amapanga chizolowezi chosudzulana ndi kubwereranso mobwerezabwereza."

M’malo mwake, chitanipo kanthu kuti mukhale ndi chiyembekezo chowonjezereka cha chikondi. Mudzapeza wina wogwirizana kwambiri panthawi yoyenera. Kukhala wosakwatiwa si chinthu choipa chotero. Kukhala ndi moyo wosangalala ndi iwe wekha ndi wabwino kuposa kukhala wankhanza ndi otchedwa okondedwa. Mvetserani nokha. Ngati mukumva m'matumbo anu kuti mukufuna kubwereranso ndi wakale wanu pazifukwa zolakwika, koma simungawalole kuti apite, ganizirani kufunafuna thandizo kwa bwenzi lodalirika kapena wachibale wanu. Mukhozanso kupita kwa mlangizi kuti akuthandizeni. Adzafika pamizu yazovuta zanu za kudalirana. Ndi luntha lawo ndi cholinga, mudzatha kupanga chisankho choyenera.

13. M’nyanja muli nsomba zambiri

Pomaliza, m'nyanja muli nsomba zambiri. Zingakhale zovuta kwa inu kuziwona pakali pano. Koma pali anthu ambiri omwe akufuna kugawana chikondi. Mungadabwe ngati mudzapeza chikondi. Koma mukupitadi ngati musiya kuthamangitsa mwachidwi. Zingakuthandizeni ngati muyang'ananso zinthu zomwe muli nazo. Sankhani zokonda zakale, thamangitsani "chinthu chatsopano chomwe ndiyenera kuphunzira", kapena "malo omwe ndimakonda kupitako". Munjira yosangalala ndi moyo ndikufunafuna chisangalalo, mupeza munthu woyenera kwa inu.

Tsatirani machitidwe oganiza bwino, monga kulemba manyuzipepala, kapena funsani gulu lothandizira kuti muwonetsetse kuti zinthu zili bwino. Pokhapokha m'moyo mukuyang'ana mosangalala kulowa kwa dzuwa ndi wina kapena nokha, mukayang'ana m'mbuyo, mudzawona gawo ili ngati kamphindi kakang'ono paulendo wanu wamoyo.

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Tinafunsa Pooja ngati panali zochitika zomveka zomwe kuyanjananso ndi wakale kumawoneka ngati lingaliro labwino. Iye anati, "Ofufuza ali ndi mayina angapo a izi: kusintha kwa ubale, kusintha kwa ubale, maubwenzi obwerezabwereza/osabwerezabwereza, maubwenzi okakamizana . Pali nthawi zina pomwe kutha kwa ubale kungabweretse kumveka bwino kwa zomwe mukufuna mwa mnzanu, ndipo kubwererananso ndi chisankho chabwino. Komabe, nthawi zambiri, mukatha kutha kwa ubale ndi mnzanu, zotsatira zanu zimakhala zabwino ngati mutasintha moyo wanu m'malo mobwerera kwa mnzanuyo."

Ndikofunikiranso kudziwa kuti munthu sayenera kusokoneza kukhululuka ndi kuyanjananso. Kukhululuka ndi mtengo wabwino wokuthandizani kuti mupite patsogolo. Koma kukhululukirana nokha sikutanthauza kuti inuyo ndi mkazi wanu wakale muyenera kuyesanso chibwenzicho. Mutha kukhalabe olumikizana ngati abwenzi, kapena osalumikizananso kwanthawi yayitali mpaka mutasiya chibwenzicho. Nthawi zambiri, ndibwino kuti musatsike mumsewu womwe mudamvapo zowawa komanso kusweka mtima. Komabe, pali zosiyana ndi izi. Kubwereranso ndi munthu wakale ndi lingaliro labwino pokhapokha muzochitika zotsatirazi: 

• Nonse mwakula payekhapayekha: Ngati kukhala kutali kwachititsa kuti nonse awiri muthe kuthana ndi mavuto amene anachititsa kuti banja lanu lithe komanso kuti muthe kukula mwauzimu, zingakhale bwino kuti mukambiranenso nkhaniyo.
• Kupatukanaku kudachitika chifukwa cha zochitika zakunja: Ngati kupatukana kunachitika chifukwa cha nthawi, mtunda, kapena zinthu zina zakunja (osati kusagwirizana kapena khalidwe lapoizoni), kupendanso ubalewo kungagwire ntchito ngati zinthu zikuyenda bwino.
• Kulankhulana kwayenda bwino: Ngati nonse nonse muli bwino kufotokoza zosowa zanu, kuthetsa mikangano, ndi kumvetsetsana, izi zikhoza kuyala maziko abwino oyambitsiranso ubwenziwo
• Ubale unali wabwino kwambiri: Ngati ubalewo unali wabwino, wokhutiritsa, komanso wothandiza, ndipo kupatukana sikunayambike chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika kapena kuopsa, zingakhale bwino kuti mubwererenso.
• Nonse ndinu odzipereka kwathunthu: Ngati inu ndi wakale wanu muli ofunitsitsadi kuyesetsa kuti muyambenso kukhulupirirana, kuthetsa mavuto akale, ndi kuyesetsa kuti mukhale ndi tsogolo logawana, kuyanjananso kungapangitse kuti zinthu ziziyenda bwino.

Ngati mungaganize zopatsanso ubale wanu ndi wakale wanu mwayi wina, Pooja ali ndi malingaliro angapo. Iye anati: “Kuyanjanitsa kumafuna kuleza mtima kwa onse awiri. Kotero, pumani, bwererani mmbuyo. Funsani malangizo a anthu omwe mumawakhulupirira. Koma koposa zonse, khulupirirani matumbo anu.

Pooja ananena moyenerera kuti: “Chosankha cha kukhululukirana ndi kuyambiranso kukhulupirirana, ndi zosankha zanu ndipo simuyenera kukakamizidwa kuchita zimenezo.” Musalole kuti zinthu zakunja zikupangitseni chisankhochi. Komanso, samalani zolankhula zanu. Osabwezanso munthu wakale yemwe anakutayani chifukwa maganizo anu amakuuzani kuti, "Izi ndiye. Uwu ndi mwayi wanga wotsimikizira kuti ndinali wolondola." Chenjerani ndi kudzidzudzula nokha ndi kuchepetsa zikhulupiriro pazomwe mukuyenera komanso zomwe ndinu ofunika. Mukuyenera dziko ndi zina zambiri!

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Maganizo Final

Ngakhale zili choncho, nkhani za mumtima ndi zaumwini, zovuta, komanso zaumwini. Palibe amene angakupatseni yankho lomveka bwino la funso lakuti, “Kodi ndibwererenso kwa wakale wanga?”, koma inuyo. Koma, tikukulangizani moona mtima kuti muganizire bwino musanachite izi. Tikulangizanso kuti mukafunse uphungu waluso yemwe angakugwireni dzanja nthawi zonse, kuyambira kusankha ngati muyenera kubwerera kwa wakale wanu kapena ayi, mpaka momwe mungathanirane ndi malingaliro omwe amabuka. Ngati mukuwafuna, gulu la alangizi aluso la Bonobology lili pano kuti likuthandizeni.

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