Simungathe kukhazikika kuntchito pambuyo pa kutha? Si vuto lanu, kuyang'ana ntchito mukatha kutha sikophweka. Zilibe kanthu kuti munakonda nthawi yayitali bwanji komanso kuti ubalewo unali wolimba bwanji panthawi iliyonse yomwe idakhalapo. Chofunikira ndichakuti, kupatukana kumakusiyani wosweka, wolumala ndipo mwa zisanu ndi zinayi mwa khumi mwa milandu khumi, mukudwala.
Ndi chokumana nacho chofooketsa kwa ambiri, ndipo choyipa kwambiri ndichakuti, ululu umafika m'mbali ina iliyonse ya moyo wanu, ndipo umakhala wopanda malire. Koma sizikhala choncho nthawi zonse. Zomwe mukufunikira ndi nthawi yocheperako kuti muyese kudzikonda ndikuchiritsa kwathunthu.
Malangizo a Momwe Mungakhazikitsire Ntchito Mukatha Kutha
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Kodi kupatukana kwanu kumakhudza ntchito yanu ndi moyo wanu wocheza nawo? Ndipo simungathe kuika maganizo anu pa ntchito mukatha kutha? Izi ndi nthawi, pamene munthu samangodzipangira okha malo otetezeka, komanso yesetsani kuti athe kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zomwe zilipo komanso zida kuti mukhale ndi mphamvu zolamulira.
Kwa anthu ambiri, kugawana malingaliro sikutheka, motero moyo wantchito umavutika kwambiri. Koma mawonekedwe amalire ndi chitetezo ndizofunikira kuti moyo wanu wantchito usokonezeke.
Tabwera ndi malangizo othandiza a momwe mungakhazikitsire ntchito mukatha kutha:
Ngati mungathe, lembani ulendo nthawi yomweyo
Zachidziwikire, kutha kwapabanja sikungabwere ndi masiku oikika ndi ndandanda - kuzungulira tchuthi kapena mutangotopa nthawi yonse yopuma pantchito, koma inde, nthawi zina, mutha kufunsira tchuthi. Izi ndizofunikira chifukwa mumafunikira nthawi yokha.
Ndizosatheka kuti muthane lero ndikugwira ntchito bwino muofesi mawa. Mudzakhala pachiwopsezo chonse ndipo mwina mudzayamba kudwala pofika masana.
Chinthu choyamba chanzeru kuchita ndikuvomereza kuti masiku angapo otsatira simukhala mumkhalidwe wabwino wamalingaliro, chifukwa chake kupempha tchuthi ndiye njira yabwino kwambiri.
Osati kokha chifukwa chomveka, chifukwa pambuyo pa zonse zomwe mukugwiritsa ntchito kuti musamalire kukhazikika kwamalingaliro anu, komanso ino ndi nthawi yomwe mungathe kusinkhasinkha, kuwongolera mphamvu zanu ndikukhazikitsa zolinga zatsopano kuti muzindikire kuti chinachake chatha.
Ngati simungathe kuyang'ana ntchito mukatha kutha, uku ndiye kuwombera kwanu bwino pakuchiritsa kwathunthu. Kumbukirani, tonsefe timafunikira nthawi yochitira chisoni ndipo palibe vuto kuchita zimenezo.
Tsekani foni-portal
Ndi chinthu chopatsidwa kuti muvutike kuntchito mutatha kusweka, musokonezeke ndipo nthawi zonse muzilowa m'chipinda chosambira kuti mukhetse misozi imodzi kapena ziwiri.
Ndinali ndi mnzanga amene ankangokhalira kulira paudindo wake; amathamangira ku bafa ola lililonse, akutsegula foni yake, kuyang'ana mbiri ya bwenzi lake lakale la Facebook, ndikulira kosalekeza. Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti foni yamakono si kanthu koma chitseko chachisoni chanu.
Ndi kapisozi yopatsa mphamvu nthawi yomwe nthawi zambiri imakupangitsani kukumbukiranso zowawa za kutha kwanu. Ndipo izi zikachitika, palibe kuyimitsa. Mwina mungabwerere kunyumba mutu ukukupwetekani n’kumameza nkhonya ya asipirini! Ndipo izo ziyenera kuyimitsidwa.
sinthani ku kudzisunga mmalo mwa chionongeko
Chotulukapo chamsanga pambuyo pa chisudzulo ndicho kumva chisoni kosatha ndi kugwa kwadzidzidzi kwa kudzidalira. Anthu amafunafunanso kuthawa kudzera mu chakudya ndi kugona. Moyo wawo watsiku ndi tsiku umakhala wosokonekera chifukwa amadya chilichonse chomwe amakonda ndikungogona pabedi kwa maola ambiri.
Ngakhale mu ofesi, anthu ambiri sangathe kuika maganizo pa ntchito pambuyo kutha chifukwa amamva kutopa ndi kutopa, ndipo amangofuna kuchoka ndi kuchita ulesi osatha maola pa kama. M'malo mwake, ndinganene, kumvetsetsa kuti kuchoka kwa mnzanu sikunali za momwe muliri monga munthu, momwe mumawonekera kapena umunthu wanu wokongola.
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Sinthani mphamvu zanu zonse kuti mukhale ndi thanzi labwino. Khalani ndi cholinga chochita masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi zonse ndikugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zanu mu polojekitiyi, komwe mwakonzeka kuti musinthe nokha. Kusintha kwa thupi kumafunika kwambiri.
Mutha kuyamba kusinkhasinkha kapena kuchita yoga. Yambani kuchita zinthu zomwe mwakhala mukulakalaka - kusewera masewera, kuphunzira chida, kuphunzira chinenero.
Pochita izi, malingaliro anu amasinthanso momwe mumadziwonera nokha pagalasi tsiku lililonse. Chifukwa chake polojekiti yanu yachiweto mukangotha kutha iyenera kukhala yopangitsa thupi lanu ndi malingaliro anu kukhala athanzi momwe mungathere.
Funafunani chithandizo
Kulowa muzozungulira ndi chinthu china chomwe sichilola aliyense kuti azichita bwino pa ntchito ndipo kumabweretsa chopinga pa ntchito iliyonse yomwe amachita. Iwo amayamba kufuna kutsekedwa. Mwamwayi, malo ambiri ogwira ntchito amakhala ndi mlangizi kapena wochiritsa. Pita ukalankhule nawo.
Ngati simungathe kuyang'ana kwambiri ntchito mukatha kutha, lingalirani zoyendera dokotala. Adzakutsogolerani njira yabwino yothanirana ndi kutayika uku.
Mwinanso mungaganize kuti mwa kunyalanyaza malingaliro anu ndi kuwapewa, mungathe kulimbana nawo bwino. Koma kuyang’ana pa zimene mukumva ndi kulankhula za mmene mukumvera kungakuthandizeni kudziwa chifukwa chake kuthaku kunachitika.
Pambuyo pofotokoza koyamba za mnzanu wakale, mkwiyo ndi kubwezera zikayamba kutha, mudzayamba kudziona nokha mwatsopano. Zindikirani kuti chilichonse chomwe chakuchitikirani ndi mwayi, kuti mudzidziwe bwino.
Nthawi yonseyi mumangodziwona ndikudziwona m'maso mwa ex wanu, mukudabwa kuti chavuta ndi chiyani. Pamene simungathe kuika maganizo pa ntchito mutatha kutha, kulankhula mlungu uliwonse kwa katswiri kapena kwa munthu yemwe ali ndi zolinga zidzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa kuti sizinali za iwo (pankhaniyi wanu wakale), zonse zinali za inu.
Ndipo ndi kupyolera mwa iwo tsopano kuti mumaphunzira zambiri za inu nokha. Mukangodzimva nokha komanso kudzidalira pakhungu lanu, mutha kuyang'ana kwambiri zolinga zanu bwino osati kulakwitsa kuluka dziko lanu mozungulira wakale wanu.
Choncho, yankho la funso lakuti, 'Mmene mungalimbikitsire nokha pambuyo pa kusweka', kwenikweni, m'mawu amodzi, kudzikonda.
FAQ's
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