Banja lathu likusokonekera chifukwa mkazi wanga ndi wokonda kugula zinthu

Kufalitsa chikondi

"Lina anati anasunga ndalama zokwana Rs 1000 chifukwa anazigula pamtengo wotsika wa 50%. Zikanakhala kuti sizikanamuwonongera Rs 2000. Sindinamvetse chifukwa chake, chifukwa sankafuna nsapato za 30 izi. N’chifukwa chiyani sakumvetsa kuti anatayadi Rs 1000 panthawiyi? Nthawi zonse pamakhala chifukwa chogulira zinthu, koma zinthu zambiri sizikufunidwa. Ine ndine mwamuna wosamala ndalama ndipo ndiyenera kuyang'anira ndalama zathu . Njira zathu zokonzera bajeti ndi zomveka bwino komanso zotseguka, koma satsatira malamulo athu ogwiritsira ntchito ndalama omwe tinapanga limodzi. Ndi munthu wopanda nkhawa zachuma ndipo ine ndine wokonda zachuma. Ndondomeko yake ndi yamoyo pakadali pano, pomwe ndimasunganso ndalama zamvula."

"Pambuyo pa mikangano isanu, kukambirana kanayi, kumapeto kwa sabata atatu ndi kutenga nawo mbali kwa abwenzi awiri, tinafotokoza bwino zomwe timakonda komanso zomwe timaika patsogolo pazachuma. Tinapanga bajeti yomwe inatithandiza tonse. Ndimadana ndi kuyang'ana makadi ake a ngongole kuti ndidziwe zomwe amagula pamwezi, koma foni yanga inayamba kulira, chifukwa amachitanso kugula zinthu zambiri pa intaneti. Amagwira ntchito masiku asanu ndi limodzi pa sabata, kotero alibe nthawi yovala zinthu zomwe amagula, komabe nthawi zonse amakhala wokonda kugula zinthu," inali nkhani ya Mahesh m'banja.

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Kusiyana kwakukulu kwamalingaliro

M'ndandanda wazopezekamo

Kulimbana ndi Impact — Kuwulula Zomwe Zimayambitsa Maganizo Pambuyo pa Kugula Mokakamiza

Kusiyana kwa ndalama ndi chifukwa chachikulu cha mikangano ya mabanja, koma kusiyana kumeneku kwa kusamvana m'banja n'kosiyana kwambiri. Amuna ali ndi vuto ndi akazi kugula zinthu, koma vutoli chifukwa chakuti limapangitsa kuti ukwati usweke ndi losowa. ' Amuna ndi ochokera ku Mars, akazi ndi ochokera ku Venus ' ndi buku, komanso ndi zenizeni za moyo. Kugula zinthu ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri komanso lofunika kwambiri la chikhalidwe cha Venus; kwa anthu okhala ku Mars ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe amuna samvetsetsa chithandizo chomwe akazi amafunikira, makamaka pamene amuna akuyenera kulipira ndalama zomwe zawonongeka.

Dinani apa kuti muwerenge momwe banjali linathanirana ndi kusiyana kwawo.

"Maholide athu onse ndi okhudza kugula zinthu. Lina amawononga ndalama zambiri pogula zinthu m'malo osiyanasiyana kuposa momwe timagwiritsira ntchito posungitsa malo ku hotelo. Tsopano timapita kumalo komwe kugula zinthu sikosangalatsa . Ndimagula zinthu zomwe zimafunika zokha, koma amagulanso zinthu zomwe zimafunika m'zaka zisanu zikubwerazi. Chifukwa chake maulendo ndi tchuthi zimakhala zosasangalatsa ndikakhala wowonera malonda ake," Mahesh anafotokoza mgwirizano wawo.

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Mizu mu chisinthiko

Akazi, mosasamala kanthu za nyengo ndi mosasamala kanthu za mikhalidwe yachuma, amakopeka kukagula zinthu, pamene amuna ambiri amakakamizika kugula zinthu ngakhale zofunika. Kukopa kwa akazi pogula zinthu kumawonetsedwa ngati kuyendetsa kwa akazi monga momwe amuna amachitira masewera, amuna kukhala alenje ndi akazi omwe amasonkhanitsa kuchokera masiku a phanga. Kusonkhanitsa kumakhala kocheza pamene kusaka kumakhala payekha; nchifukwa chake akazi amagula, pamene amuna amagula.

Dinani apa kuti mupeze malangizo a zomwe muyenera kuchita mukasiya chibwenzi chanu.

"Ndikudziwa kuti ali ndi chidwi chogula zinthu zambiri, koma kwa ine ndimangofuna kupitako, chifukwa ndikufuna kubwereranso ndikuchita zinthu zopindulitsa kwambiri." Safuna kutsatsa malonda kuti amukope, amatero nthawi zonse.

Mahesh akumva kuti akuvutika ndi ndalama komanso kuti Lina akuthera nthawi yambiri ali yekha . Okwatirana ayenera kugwirizana pa nkhani ya ndalama zawo ndipo ndalama zina zomwe amapeza ziyenera kukhala zogulira ndalama.

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Ndi chisokonezo

Kodi njira zabwino kwambiri zothanirana ndi kugula zinthu mokakamiza muubwenzi ndi ziti?

Kulankhulana momasuka komanso moona mtima

Kukhazikitsa malire omveka bwino azachuma ndi zolinga

Kulimbikitsa zochita zina ndi zosangalatsa

Kufunafuna uphungu wa akatswiri

Tonsefe timasangalala ndi kugula kokwanira, koma chikhumbo chosaletseka chogula chimadziwika ndi vuto logula mokakamiza kapena oniomania. Ma shopaholics si azimayi okha omwe amakonda kuvala zovala ndi nsapato. Iwo ali ndi nkhani zazikulu zoti athetse. Nthawi zambiri amadziona kuti ndi osafunika ndipo amavutika maganizo. Chilimbikitso chabwino n’chofunika kwambiri powapangitsa kuzindikira kuti kudziona kukhala wofunika sikufanana ndi zimene amagula. Ndinamufunsa Mahesh kuti amuuze kuti asungire ndalama zopita kumayiko ena ndipo akuyenera kupereka nawo gawo limodzi. Izi zikhoza kumuthandiza kuchepetsa kukakamiza kwake. Ndinamupemphanso kuti azichita naye zachikondi kuti azitanganidwa akamatuluka.

Patatha miyezi itatu, Mahesh anabweranso ndi mavuto ena. " Masiku ano amanama kwambiri kuti apitirize kugula zinthu. Amandibisira zinthu zomwe amagula. Kuwonekera bwino muubwenzi wathu kwasokonekera chifukwa cha zinthu zobisikazi. Ndikuganiza kuti zikuvutitsa ukwati." Mahesh anayamba kumva kusiyana muubwenzi wawo tsopano.

Ndinamupempha Mahesh kuti amuthandize Lina kudziletsa pomuwongolera pogula zinthu zolemetsa. Ma shopaholics amavutika kuwongolera machitidwe opumira, chifukwa nthawi zambiri kugula kumangopangitsa kusokonezeka kwamaganizidwe komwe kumatha kuthana ndi zomwe zidayambitsa. Pomaliza, shopaholic nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi chidwi chokonda chuma, poganiza kuti chikondi ndi kusilira zitha kugulidwanso. Chikondi ndi chisamaliro zitha kuphulitsa kuwira uku kwa shopaholics.

Ibibazo

[Mafunso] 1. Kodi ndi zinthu ziti zothandiza zimene tingachite kuti tithane ndi vuto lake logula zinthu ndi kupulumutsa banja lathu?

Katswiri wodziwa bwino za chizolowezi choledzera kapena khalidwe lokakamiza angathandize kuzindikira zomwe zimayambitsa vutoli ndikupanga njira zothetsera mavuto. Khazikitsani zolinga zomveka bwino zachuma ndikupanga bajeti yeniyeni yomwe imalola kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama mwanzeru pamene mukuika patsogolo ndalama zosungira ndi kubweza ngongole. Ganizirani kutseka makhadi a ngongole kapena kukhazikitsa malire ogwiritsira ntchito ndalama kuti muchepetse kugula zinthu mopupuluma. Limbikitsani mkazi wanu kufufuza zosangalatsa zatsopano kapena zosangalatsa zomwe sizikuphatikizapo kugula zinthu. Limbikitsani malo omwe onse awiri angathe kufotokoza zakukhosi kwawo ndi nkhawa zawo popanda kuweruza.

2. Kodi chizoloŵezi chogula zinthu cha mkazi wanga chingachiritsidwe?

Ngakhale kuti palibe “mankhwala” otsimikizirika, mothandizidwa ndi akatswiri, chithandizo, ndi kudzipereka kusintha, makhalidwe okakamizika ogula zinthu angathe kuyendetsedwa ndi kugonjetsedwa. Ndikofunikira kuthana ndi zovuta zamalingaliro ndi malingaliro zomwe zimayambitsa kumwerekera.

3. Kodi banja lathu lingakhalepo ngati mkazi wanga akana kuvomereza vuto lake kapena kupempha thandizo?

Zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri. Kusadziletsa kwa shopaholism kungayambitse mavuto aakulu azachuma, kusokoneza chikhulupiriro, ndi kuyambitsa mkwiyo m’banja. Ngati mkazi wanu sakufuna kuthana ndi vutoli, kudzifunira nokha uphungu kungapereke chithandizo ndi chitsogozo cha momwe mungayendetsere vutoli.

Maganizo Final

Kukumana ndi chizoloŵezi chofuna kugula zinthu kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu kungakhale kolemetsa ndi kusokoneza maganizo. Komabe, m’pofunika kukumbukira kuti mwa kulankhulana momasuka, malangizo a akatswiri, ndi kudzipereka kwa kusintha, pali chiyembekezo cha kuchira ndi kumanganso ukwati wanu.

Kumbukirani, simuli nokha paulendowu. Yambitsaninso zothandizira zomwe zilipo mdera lanu, ikani moyo wanu patsogolo, ndipo gwirani ntchito limodzi kuti mupange tsogolo labwino komanso losangalatsa la banja lanu.

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