Te Huna a te Huna a te Hunga Tinihanga i ō Rātou Ara — 15 Ngā Tohu Whakatuwhera i te Kanohi

Mena kei konei koe e rapu ana i ngā huarahi hei huna i ngā ara o ngā kaipahua, e rua noa iho ngā take pea mō tēnā: kei te tinihanga koe i tētahi, ā, e hiahia ana koe ki te mōhio me pēhea te mawhiti atu, kei te whiwhi rānei koe i te tinihanga, ā, kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te hopu i tētahi e tinihanga ana. Ahakoa te take, ka kitea e koe ō whakautu katoa i konei. 

Engari i mua i tērā, kia arotahi tātou ki te pātai nui: he aha te tinihanga? Āe, ko te wā tēnei e takahia ai te whakawhirinaki o tētahi i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga mā te mahi tinihanga. Ki te mea kei te whakapae koe i ngā whanonga a tō hoa, koinei te wā tika ki te kimi mēnā kei te whai hononga huna rāua. 

Ki te hiahia koe ki te mōhio atu mō te huna a te hunga tinihanga i ō rātou ara, me ngā kōrero a te hunga tinihanga hei huna i ngā mahi whakaipoipo, i whakapā atu mātou ki te tohunga hinengaro a Jayant Sundaresan (Tohu Paerua i roto i te Hinengaro Āwhina), he tohunga ki te tuku tohutohu mō ngā momo take whanaungatanga pēnei i te pakaru o te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, te whakahaere i ngā tumanakohanga, te puremu, te wehenga, me te whakarere.

Te Huna a te Huna a te Hunga Tinihanga i ō Rātou Ara — 15 Ngā Tohu Whakatuwhera i te Kanohi

E taea ana te pupuri i te tinihanga huna mō te wā roa, mō ake tonu atu rānei? Ka whakahoki a Jayant , "Kāo, kāore rawa. Heoi, he kaupapa uaua te tinihanga, nā te mea me mārama tuatahi tātou mēnā kotahi noa te wā i mahi ai te tangata tinihanga, he whanonga auau rānei. Mēnā ko te mea whakamutunga, kua mōhio kē te tangata tinihanga ki te toi o te kukume i te huruhuru ki ō kanohi. Ko ngā mea e puta ana i roto i te hinengaro o te tangata tinihanga ehara i te mea noa. He tino pōturi te hinengaro o te tangata tinihanga. He maha ā rātou mahi hei karo i te mau. Hei tāpiri, ko te tangata tinihanga auau kua kitea pea he huarahi hei ora anō me te kore e mōhiotia e tana hoa rangatira."

He tino hira te mahi a te hangarau i roto i te oranga o te katoa. He mea nui anō hoki ki te tinihanga puku. Ehara i te mea ko te tiaki a ngā kai tinihanga puku i ā rātou waea pūkoro anake, me te kore e tukua tetahi kia titiro ki ā rātou mata. Engari ko te huna i ā rātou mahi tinihanga me te teka ki a koe me te kanohi tika. Heoi anō, ka hangaia e rātou he pūkete rūpahu, ka huna i muri i a rātou ki te rapu i ētahi atu mahi moepuku. Āe, tera pea he waea mura, he taputapu rānei e whakamahia ana e rātou hei kōrero puku. Me kōrero tātou mō ngā huarahi 15 e huna ai e ngā kai tinihanga ō rātou ara:

1. Mā rātou e whakahaere ngā mōhiohio

Nā, he aha te tikanga o te tinihanga? E kī ana a Jayant, "Kei te mōhio koe, ko te mea e pā ana ki te tinihanga, ka whakamatautauria te katoa ki te tinihanga i te iti rawa i te kotahi i roto i ō rātou oranga. Heoi, ko te nuinga o te tangata kāore e tuku i ō rātou whakamatautauranga, ā, ka pupuri i ō rātou tikanga hei whakangungu rakau mō aua whakamatautauranga. Ko te hunga e tinihanga ana ka mahi i tēnei mō te tere o te adrenaline me te harikoa e whiwhi ana rātou mai i tēnā. Kia uru atu rātou ki ēnei ara whanoke, ka noho tonu rātou i roto i te wehi kei mau."

E mea ana a Jayant, "Ko te whakautu ki tāu pātai mō te huna a ngā kaipahua i ō rātou ara ko: mā te pupuri i ngā kōrero. He maha ngā mahi a ngā kaipahua hei huna i ā rātou mahi whakahāwea. Ka āta whakahaere rātou i ngā kōrero e tohaina ana e rātou ki ā rātou hoa aroha. Inaa, he maha ngā āhuatanga whakatūpato o te kaipahua raupapa ."

• Ko te mōhiotanga tuatahi e whakahaerehia ana e rātou ko te whakapaunga o tō rātou wā – ka taea e te tangata tinihanga mohio te whakamārama i ngā meneti e ngaro ana i mua i tōna hoa.
• Ko te tuarua o ngā mōhiohio e whakahaerehia ana e rātou ko te whakamārama o ngā whakapaunga.

"Ko te take e whakahaerehia tonutia ai ēnei kōrero e rua e te tangata tinihanga, nā te mea me whai wā koe me te moni mō tētahi atu whanaungatanga. Kāore e taea e koe te tūtaki ki a rātou i te kāinga. Me whakapau moni koe ki te haere ki tētahi atu wāhi. E hia ngā tangata tinihanga e mōhio ana koe e hiahia ana ki te whai hononga kare ā-roto ki te tangata e tinihanga ana rāua? Kāore i te tokomaha rawa, e tino mōhio ana ahau. Me whai wā me te moni rātou ki te whakapau i tētahi rūma hōtēra nā te mea ko te take matua o te tinihanga ko te kukume me te hiahia."

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Me aha koe mēnā he hara tō hoa mō tēnei?

Ka pāngia pea koe e te pouri mēnā ka huna e tō hoa ngā kōrero nā te pōrearea o te moe tāne me te wahine. Mēnā koinei te āhua, koinei ngā mea ka taea e koe te mahi:

• Kōrerotia mahorahora ō kare ā-roto me tōna pānga ki a koe
• Whakatakotoria he rohe mō ngā mea e pai ana koe ki te whakaae, me ngā mea kāore e pai ki te whakaae
• Arotahi ki te tiaki i a koe anō mō ​​tō hauora hinengaro, tinana, me te kare ā-roto

2. I tētahi atu taha, ka nui rawa tā rātou tohatoha 

He mea whakamere te whakaaro ka taea e ngā tāngata tinihanga te whakapuaki i ō rātou whakaaro. Nā te mea ka huna e rātou ngā kōrero katoa, ka tino whakapae te hoa. Hei ārai i te whakaaro pōuri i roto i te whanaungatanga , ka kōrero tonu rātou mō ngā taipitopito me ngā mahi o te rā me te tino tupato.

E kī ana a Jayant, "He rerekē ki te kōrero o mua, ko tētahi o ngā whakautu ki te huna a ngā kaipahua i ō rātou ara ko te: tohatoha nui rawa. He rautaki hinengaro tēnei e whakamahia ana e te kaipahua, arā, kāore e huna (tata) i tetahi mea. Ka tohaina e rātou ngā mea katoa i tupu i te roanga o te rā, engari ka whakarerekēhia e rātou ētahi meka i konei, i reira. Hei tauira, he tino tupato rātou ki te whakamōhio atu ki a koe i ngā taipitopito meneti-i-te-meneti o tētahi haerenga tari."

Me aha koe mēnā he hara tō hoa mō tēnei?

Tērā pea kei te nui rawa te kōrero a tō hoa, kia taea ai e ia te whakawai i a koe kia aro ki ngā mea kāore e nui ana. Hurihia te āhua mā te mahi i ēnei e whai ake nei:

• Kia marino, kia tūpato hoki. Mā te mahi ohorere ka takaro noa koe ki roto i ō rātou ringaringa.
• Whakatakotoria he rohe, inā koa mō ngā mea e pai ana koe ki te whakarongo
• Arotahi ki ngā meka me te kimi i tētahi huarahi hei whakatika i te take matua

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3. Ka hangaia e te tangata tinihanga he kupuhipa hou 

Ko te hanga kupuhipa he tikanga matua mā ngā kaipahua hei huna i ō rātou ara, ā, ko tētahi o ngā tohu pea he kaitākaro ia . He watea ngā kupuhipa nā te mea he ngāwari ki te hanga, ā, ka taea te whakarerekē i roto i te wā poto.

E kī ana a Jayant, "Ki te hiahia koe ki te mōhio me pēhea te hopu i tētahi e tinihanga ana, kia tūpato ki te whakamahinga a rātou i ā rātou waea pūkoro. Mena he kupuhipa kei roto i ā rātou taputapu katoa, ā, kāore koe e mōhio ki tētahi o ngā kupuhipa, he nui ngā mea hei āwangawanga māu. Mena kei te whakaaro koe, "Kei hea ngā kaipahua e huna ai i ngā mea mō ā rātou mahi whakaipoipo?", ko te whakautu: kei roto i ā rātou waea pūkoro. Ko ētahi ka whai waea tuarua me te kāri sim. Kei reira rātou e penapena ana i ngā whakaahua me ngā taupānga whakaipoipo, ā, ka uru atu ki ngā kōrerorero rōpū me ngā hoa he rite ō rātou whakaaro."

"Ina tono koe i te kupuhipa hei mahi i tētahi mea noa, pērā i te tono kai, ka hangaia he ngangau mā te whakapae i a koe mō te takahi i tō rātou tūmataitinga. Ki te kore he mea hei huna mā rātou, he aha tā rātou e ngana ana ki te tiaki? Ko tētahi atu tohu tinihanga waea pūkoro ko te mea he waea kē tā rātou. He maha tonu pea ka whakamahia e rātou tētahi taputapu motuhake, he kāri SIM rānei mō ngā mahi huna."

Me aha koe mēnā he hara tō hoa mō tēnei? 

Ka taea e ngā kupuhipa hou te whakaoho ake i te kore whakawhirinaki nā te kore o te māramatanga. Nō reira:

• Kōrerohia ō āwangawanga, me te rapu māramatanga mō te take o tēnei mea
• Arotahi ki te whakamārama he aha te hiranga o te māramatanga ki a koe
• Me mahi ki te hanga anō i te whakawhirinaki, kaua ki te aro nui ki ā rātou taputapu matihiko.

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4. Ka whakamahia e rātou te Wāhi Tuarua

Kei hea rā ngā kaipahua e huna ai i ngā mea i roto i ā rātou waea? Ka whakahoki a Jayant: "Ko tētahi o ngā huarahi rongonui mō te huna a ngā kaipahua i ō rātou ara ko te whakamahi i te āhuatanga Wāhi Tuarua i roto i ngā waea Android, he rite ki te whai kōpaki tawhiti rawa atu i te rokiroki o tō waea matua. He wāhi tino rerekē i roto i te waea kotahi, ka taea e koe te whakamahi i tētahi atu ID īmēra me te tiaki i ō raraunga."

"Koinei tētahi o ngā huarahi tino māmā kia kore ai koe e mau i te tinihanga , nā te mea kei te whakamahi tonu koe i te waea kotahi. Engari mā te kupuhipa kotahi ka huaki i tētahi wāhi motuhake, ā, mā tētahi atu kupuhipa ka huaki i tētahi wāhi tino rerekē o te waea. Nō reira, me waihanga e koe ētahi tohu matimati me ngā tohu kupuhipa e rua - mō ō oranga rerekē e rua. Ko te painga o te Wāhi Tuarua ko te kore e taupatupatu tetahi o ngā wāhi."

"Nō reira, ka noho tonu te mea ngaro a te tangata tinihanga hei mea ngaro kia kore rā anō koe e mōhio ki tēnei Wāhi Tuarua kei runga i tā rātou waea. Kei te tere haere te rongonui o tēnei āhuatanga i ēnei rā, ā, ko tētahi o ngā tohu tinihanga waea pūkoro me mōhio koe." 

Me aha koe mēnā he hara tō hoa mō tēnei?

Ki te whakamahi tō hoa i ēnei taupānga hei huna i tō rāua puremu, ka kitea te nui o ngā mahi ka taea e rāua te mahi kia noho tonu ai rāua ki mua. Nō reira:

• Kohia he taunakitanga tūturu mō te kore whakapono i mua i te tū atu ki a rātou
• Kōrerotia ō āwangawanga me te whakapuaki i te hiahia mō te whakawhirinaki me te māramatanga/te pono
• Rapua he tohutohu mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine mēnā kāore e angitu ngā mahi whakawhitiwhiti kōrero 

5. Ka whakamahia e ngā kaipahua ngā waehere tinihanga 

Ki te whakapae koe kei te tinihanga tō hoa, ā, kāore koe e hiahia ki te tū atu ki a rātou me te kore he taunakitanga pakari, kua tae ki te wā ki te tirotiro i tā rātou waea. Kia tae atu koe ki ngā karere kuputuhi a tō hoa, rapua ngā waehere (ina koa ko ērā kāore anō kia rongohia e koe i mua). Tērā pea kei te whakamahi tō hoa i ngā waehere tinihanga me ngā karere kuputuhi.

He maha ngā waehere tinihanga, pērā i te DTF, he kupu whakarāpopoto mō te 'Down To F*ck'. Ahakoa ko ia te kaituku, te kaiwhiwhi rānei o tēnei karere. Mena kua taunekeneke ia ki tēnei tangata, ko ia tonu te DTF. Ko tētahi atu waehere tinihanga i roto i ngā karere kuputuhi me mōhio koe ko 'The First Coming'. Ko tōna tikanga ko te orgasm tuatahi i waho o tētahi whanaungatanga pumau. Ka taea e koe te hopu ngāwari i tō hoa mena kua whakamahia e ia aua waehere i a ia e kōrerorero ana me tētahi atu tangata. 

Me aha koe mēnā he hara tō hoa mō tēnei?

Mā ngā waehere tinihanga ka taea e koe te kōrero ki te hoa moepuku me te kore e mōhiotia e koe. Nō reira, koinei ngā mea me mahi e koe:

• Kimihia te horopaki, nā te mea kāore pea e tohu i te puremu. Ka whakamahi ētahi tāngata i ngā waehere tinihanga i roto i ngā kēmu, he mea tino harakore tēnā.
• Kōrero ki tō hoa, me te whakapuaki mārama i tō mamae
• Whakawhirinaki ki tō pūnaha tautoko hei whakatere i roto i ēnei wā uaua 

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6. Ka mukua e ngā kaipahua ō rātou tapuwae matihiko

Ia wā ka takiuru koe ki te ipurangi, ka waiho e koe he tapuwae matihiko. E mōhiotia ana hoki ko te atarangi matihiko, e pā ana ki ngā mahi matihiko ka taea te whai, i runga i te Ipurangi, i ngā taputapu matihiko rānei. Mā ngā tapuwae matihiko koe e whakaatu ko ēhea ngā pae e toro atu ana te kaipahua, ā, mā reira ka māmā ake te mōhio mēnā kei te mahi kino rātou.

E kī ana a Jayant, "He tikanga noa anō tēnei mēnā kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te huna a ngā kaipahua i ō rātou ara. Ka whakakorea e rātou ō rātou tapuwae matihiko ina whai hononga huna rātou . Nō reira, kāore rātou e muku i ō rātou hītori tirotiro katoa. He āhua kē tēnā, tika? Ina takoto kau tō hītori tirotiro, ka whakapaetia koe kei te horoi koe. Nō reira, hei utu mō te muku i te hītori katoa, ka mukua e rātou ngā tūemi ka taea te pupuri ki a rātou. Ka meinga e rātou kia āhua noa mā te muku tīpako i ngā ripa."

"Ko tētahi atu mea me mōhio koe mō te tinihanga, he kēmu huna-ā-ringa tēnei. Kei te ngana tō hoa ki te huna i tā rāua hononga moepuku kia kore ai ia e mau i a koe e mahi ana i ngā mahi tinihanga. Ka noho puku rātou i ā rātou whakamōhiotanga, ā, e kore rawa e tukua kia pānuihia e koe ā rātou karere."

Me aha koe mēnā he hara tō hoa mō tēnei?

Ka mukua e ngā kaipahua ō rātou tapuwae matihiko mō ngā take mārama: kia kore ai e kitea. Ko ēnei ara matihiko ko te hītori rapu, ngā pae whakaipoipo, me ētahi atu. Koinei te mea me mahi e koe i roto i ēnei āhuatanga:

• Arotakehia ō āwangawanga, kia kitea ai he aha i tino pāngia ai koe. Tērā pea kua kite koe i ētahi atu tohu o te kore whakapono?
• Kōrerohia ki tō hoa rangatira me te tuku i a rātou kia whakamārama i a rātou anō
• Whakaharatau i te tiaki i a koe anō, ā, karohia te whakamatautauranga ki te aro nui ki ā rātou mahi matihiko

Mō te neke whakamua, e kī ana tētahi kaiwhakamahi Reddit "Ko te neke whakamua he tukanga e aro ana koe ki a koe anō me tō oranga, kaua ki tō hoa o mua. Whakauru atu ki te rongoā hinengaro mēnā kāore anō koe kia tae ki reira, tuhia he pukapuka hei whawhai i ngā mea whakararu me ngā rā kino, kimi hoa hou hei āwhina i a koe kia kaua e noho mokemoke, atawhai i a koe anō kia mōhio ai koe he pai koe, ā, pānuihia ngā pukapuka kia mōhio ai koe ehara ko koe anake te tangata e pāngia ana e tēnei. He hohonu ake te tinihanga i tā rātou tinihanga nā te mea ka taea e rātou, ā, e hiahia ana rātou. Kimihia koe anō."

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7. Ka huna e te hunga tinihanga ō rātou ara mā te tinihanga 

Nō reira, ko tētahi o ngā huarahi e huna ai e te hunga tinihanga ō rātou ara ko te whakahaere i ō rātou hoa. E kī ana a Jayant, "He tino tohunga te hunga tinihanga . He maha ngā mea e kōrerohia ana e te hunga tinihanga hei huna i ngā mahi a te hunga tinihanga. Ko tētahi o ā rātou mahi tinihanga kino rawa atu. Ka whakapae tonu rātou i te tangata kē mō te tinihanga i te mea e mōhio ana rātou he pono rātou. Ka tahuri ke atu rātou i te kaupapa mā te whakapae i te tangata kē."

"Ka whakapōturitia e rātou te kōrero katoa. Ina tūtaki rātou ki a rātou, ka whakamahi rātou i ngā kupu noa a ngā kaipahua hei huna i ngā mahi whakaipoipo, pērā i te "Kāore i rite ki tōna āhua", "He hoa pai noa iho taua tangata", "Kāore e tupu anō." Ā, ko te mea tino whakararuraru ko te "He moepuku noa iho." E kite ana koe, e kore rawa te moepuku e noho hei moepuku noa iho, ā, he mea nui ki te nuinga o tātou."

Me aha koe mēnā he hara tō hoa mō tēnei?

Ka takaro ngā tāngata tinihanga i ngā kēmu hinengaro, ā, ka whakamātau i a koe ki ngā mea e mahia ana e rātou, e kōrerohia ana hoki e rātou. Nō reira:

• Akohia te tautuhi i ngā tohu o te tinihanga
• Whakahē atu i a rātou mā te kī mārama kei te kite koe i tā rātou e mahi ana
• Whakatūria he rohe mārama mō ngā mea e tumanakohia ana e koe i roto i te whanaungatanga

8. Ka waihangahia e rātou he tauira

Ka taea e te hunga tinihanga te matapae i ā rātou whanonga. Ki te hiahia koe, ka kite koe i tētahi tauira e puta ake ana. E kī ana a Jayant, "Ki te hiahia koe ki te mōhio me pēhea te huna a te hunga tinihanga i ō rātou ara, me kimi e koe ngā tauira kua hangaia e rātou. Ko te nuinga o te hunga tinihanga he oranga takirua." Nō reira, ka taea e rātou:

• Waihangahia he kaupapa, he tauira rānei hei whai mā rātou. Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu whakatūpato nui rawa atu o tētahi te whanau paitini.
• Me utu tonu mā te moni kia kore ai he tohu o ngā mahi kāri nama
• Hokona ngā koha ōrite mō tō hoa, mō te tangata hoki e tinihanga ana rāua, kia pai ai te noho tahi
• Kaua rawa e karanga i aua tāngata mā ō rātou ingoa, engari me whiriwhiri noa i ngā kupu aroha pērā i te pēpi, te honi rānei. Ka tino tupato rātou ki te mahi i tēnei kia kore ai e hē te whakahua i te ingoa.

Me aha koe mēnā he hara tō hoa mō tēnei?

Ka taea e te panonitanga o te tauira te whakapouri, ina koa mēnā kei te whakaaro koe he tinihanga kei roto. Nō reira:

• Whakapuakina ō āwangawanga, ā, tukua rātou kia whakamārama mai i a rātou anō
• Whakawhirinaki ki tō whatunga tautoko me te whakatairanga i te manaaki i a koe anō
• Rapua te rongoā takitahi kia taea ai e koe te kimi anō i a koe anō

9. Kāore rātou e tū tahanga i mua i tā rātou hoa wahine 

He tino mārama tēnei, kāore? Koinei te huarahi e huna ai ngā tāngata tinihanga i ō rātou tohu nā te mea e wehi ana rātou kei kitea te kēmu e ngā tohu i ō rātou tinana. E kore rawa rātou e tango kākahu, e whakakakahu rānei i te aroaro o tā rātou hoa. E kore rawa rātou e kaukau tahi me ā rātou hoa, nā te mea ka mau pea rātou i ngā hīkī. Ki te hiahia koe ki te mōhio me pēhea te kitea o te nuinga o ngā mahi moepuku , ko ngā 'ngau aroha' te whakautu. Ka tae pea ngā tāngata tinihanga ki te whai i tētahi kete ure motuhake. He tino mātau rātou ki tēnei mea, kāore rātou e hiahia kia whakakitea te mahi moepuku e ngā kete ure ngaro.

Ka tāpiri atu a Jayant, "Nō reira, ki te mea kei te whakaaro tonu koe, "Ka taea e ngā kaipahua te huna i tā rātou tinihanga mō ake tonu atu?", ko te whakautu he "kāo." Kāore he aha mēnā he mahi kotahi noa iho, he mahi noa rānei. Ka mau rātou, ā, ki tō miharo, ka whakama rātou mō te tinihanga. Hei tāpiri, ko te tinihanga hei whanonga auau he rite ki te waranga. Ko te harikoa o te tūtaki ki tētahi tangata hou, te harikoa o te huna i ēnei mōhiohio mai i tō hoa, ngā hui huna, te moepuku hihiri - ka pupuhi i ō rātou toto. Engari i te memeha haere o te mea hou, ka tīmata anō rātou ki te whaiwhai. Waihoki, kāore e tau ngā kaipahua auau. Ka tinihanga anō rātou, ka tinihanga anō."

Me aha koe mēnā he hara tō hoa mō tēnei?

He haki whero nui tēnei e whakaatu ana kua ngaro te whakaute o te tangata tinihanga ki a koe. Nō reira, kia tino mohio koe:

• Ngāna kia whakapuakina ō kare ā-roto me ō āwangawanga ki te mahorahora
• Whakapā atu ki tētahi rōia hei tīmata i ngā tukanga whakarere mēnā kāore rātou e huri i ō rātou tikanga
• Me mahi ki te whakatipu i a koe anō, kaua e hoatu ki tō hoa tō kaha katoa

10. He tohu tinihanga huna ngā panonitanga o ngā porowhita pāpori

Kei te whakaaro tonu koe me pēhea te hopu i tētahi e tinihanga ana? Āe, tirohia te hoa e noho tahi ana ia . Kua kite koe kua kore tō hoa e noho tahi me ōna hoa tawhito, me ōna mema whānau rānei? Te āhua nei he hoa hou āna. He tohu pea tēnā o te tinihanga puku. Kāore pea ngā hoa hou e mōhio kei te noho koe, ā, ka taea e tō hoa te tinihanga i runga i te rangimārie.

Me aha koe mēnā he hara tō hoa mō tēnei?

Kia mōhio mai, ehara te porowhita pāpori hou i te tohu pono o te tinihanga. Tērā pea nā ētahi take iti noa iho, pērā i te hurihanga o ngā hiahia, te tipu whaiaro, me ētahi atu. Nō reira:

• Aromātaihia tō rātou hiahia ki te whakauru i a koe ki ō rātou hoa hou. Ki te kore rātou e hiahia ki te pera, he tohu pea tēnei o te kore whakapono.
• Whakapuakina ō āwangawanga katoa
• Kia arotahi ki te noho motuhake me te tīmata i ngā mahi whakangahau hou

11. Ko ngā karere ngaro he tohu tinihanga waea pūkoro

Me pēhea te hopu i tētahi e tinihanga ana ? Tirohia ā rātou karere kuputuhi. I tēnei ao matihiko, he māmā ake te tinihanga huna mā te ngaro haere o ngā karere. He maha ngā papaaho pāpāho pāpori kei a rātou tēnei āhuatanga. Pērā anō hoki mō WhatsApp, Telegram, me Signal.

Me aha koe mēnā he hara tō hoa mō tēnei?

He uaua ki te hopu i te hoa tinihanga e mahi ana i ana karere ngaro. Engari ki te tino mōhio koe kei te ngaro, ka taea e koe te whakamātau i ēnei e whai ake nei:

• Ko te taahiraa tuatahi ko te rapu māramatanga mā te pātai he aha i tinihanga ai rātou
• Me kī mārama kei te pā tēnei ki te whakawhirinakitanga o te whanaungatanga.
• Whakaarohia te neke atu mēnā kāore he huringa o te whanonga

12. Te tinihanga pāpāho pāpori

Ka whakapau kaha ngā tāngata tinihanga ki te huna i ō rātou ara, kia kore ai e mau. Ka whakamahia e rātou ngā papaaho pāpāho pāpori hei huna i ā rātou mahi. Ko ā rātou kōtaha, ingoa whakapā, tūnga whanaungatanga, me ētahi atu he rūpahu, ā, he tohu kino tēnei mō ngā pāpāho pāpori kaua e warewarehia . Engari anō, ehara te tinihanga pāpāho pāpori i te tohu tūturu o te tinihanga. Ko ētahi tāngata e pai ana ki te noho puku o ngā papaaho.

Me aha koe mēnā he hara tō hoa mō tēnei?

Mena kei te ahua pōuri tō hoa i runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori, whakamātauria ēnei tohutohu:

• Ko te taahiraa tuatahi ko te kimi i te take e whakamahi ai rātou i ngā kōtaha rūpahu i runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori.
• Kohia he taunakitanga e tika ana i mua i te tū atu, i te whakapae rānei i tō hoa mō te tinihanga
• Kaua e whaia ngā mea pāpāho pāpori, nā te mea kei te aro nui koe ki te kore noa iho.

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13. He maha ngā huarahi a te iPhone hei huna i te tinihanga

E mōhio ana ngā kaipahua ki te huna i te tinihanga i runga i ngā iPhone. He maha ngā āhuatanga e whakamahia ana e rātou, tae atu ki ēnei e whai ake nei.

• Te huri tonu i te tiakitanga kupuhipa
• Ngā rangitaki waea, ngā karere kuputuhi rānei kua mukua
• Ngā taupānga karere e āhua rite ana ki ngā kēmu
• Ngā taupānga karere tūmataiti kua tāutahia me te āhuatanga karere ngaro
• Kua monoa ngā arokite karere hei ārai i ngā kanohi tirotiro
• Kua whakawetohia te tiritiri-tauwāhi, ngā whakamōhiotanga rānei

Ka whakapau kaha ngā tāngata tinihanga matatau ki te ako me pēhea te huna i te tinihanga i runga i ngā iPhone. Ehara i te mea he pai ake ngā kaiwhakamahi Android. Nō reira, me tino mataara koe kia kitea ai ngā tohu tinihanga waea pūkoro. 

He rite tonu te wheako o tētahi kaiwhakamahi Reddit : "Ngā tauākī waea pūkoro: Kāore māua i whakatuwhera i ngā mēra a tētahi ki tētahi, engari he mea kei te whakararuraru i ahau, nō reira i tatari ahau kia tae mai te pire waea e whai ake nei, kātahi ka tangohia e au i mua i tana mōhio kei reira. He nama waea tēnei i waea atu ai ia, ā, he maha ngā wā i te rā (tae atu ki te 10 ngā wā i te rā, ahakoa i ngā wiki mutunga, ehara i te kata); nō reira i tangohia e au te waea, ā, i waea atu ahau. I whiwhi ahau i tana mēra reo, ā, i kitea tōna ingoa. Bingo, he hoa mahi."

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Me aha koe mēnā he hara tō hoa mō tēnei?

Kua mōhio koe inaianei me pēhea te huna i te tinihanga i runga i te iPhone. Nō reira, me mahi i ēnei mahi mēnā ka kitea e koe tō hoa e tinihanga ana i a koe pēnei:

• Rapua te pono mō ā rātou mahi waea
• Whakarongo mārire, aromatawaihia ō kare ā-roto, kātahi ka arotake i te whanaungatanga
• Whakatakotoria he rohe, ā, kōrero mārama atu ki tō hoa

14. Ka whakamahia e ngā kaipahua te tinihanga tauwāhi

Nā te hangarau anō, kei mua tonu ngā kaipahua i te tinihanga i ngā wāhi. He māmā noa te whakamahi i te tinihanga wāhi hei tinihanga i ngā raraunga wāhi. Ko te tikanga, ka taea e te kaipahua te kī kei roto ia i tētahi wāhi, engari kāore. 

Me aha koe mēnā he hara tō hoa mō tēnei?

Ki te mōhio koe kei te whakamahi tō hoa i te tinihanga tauwāhi hei huna i a ia ina haere ia ki te kite i tētahi atu, ngana ki ēnei tohutohu:

• Arotakehia tō whanaungatanga kia mārama ai koe he aha rātou i kaha ai ki te huna i tō rātou wāhi noho.
• Korerohia to te hiahia mō te māramatanga
• Whakaarohia ētahi atu huarahi hei aroturuki i ā rātou nekehanga. Hei tauira, tonoa kia tirohia auautia rātou, kia whakapuakina rānei ā rātou mahere, kia mōhio ai koe kei hea rātou i ngā wā katoa.

15. Te kore o ngā mahere ā meake nei

Ko te whāinga o te nuinga o ngā whanaungatanga he mahi tahi ki te hanga i tētahi heke mai. Engari, kāore te hoa moepuku e whakarite mahere mō te heke mai me koe. Kāore hoki rātou i te whai wāhi ki te whakatakoto whāinga mō te whanaungatanga mō te wā roa. Kāore rawa he hua e puta mai i ngā nganatanga ki te kōrero pēnei. Ka tino whakarihariha pea, ā, ka pātai koe mēnā kei te ahu whakamua te whanaungatanga.

Me aha koe mēnā he hara tō hoa mō tēnei?

He aha te whanaungatanga kāore e whai whakaaro mō te roa o te oranga ? Ko te matapaki me te whakamahere mō te heke mai me waiho hei kaupapa matua mō te whanaungatanga hauora. Ki te kore tēnei e tupu, ngana ki ēnei tohutohu:

• Kōrerohia ō āwangawanga, kia kite ai mēnā he tumanako kei a kōrua
• Rapua he kaunhera mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine hei whakatau i ngā take matua
• Ki te kore e angitu ngā mahi katoa, whakaarohia te tīmata i ngā tukanga whakarere, te whakamutu rānei i te whanaungatanga (ki te kore e marenatia)

Nā te mea kua kitea e koe te āhua o te huna a ngā kaipahua i ō rātou ara, ko te pātai nui koia tēnei: ​​ka noho tonu koe ki a rātou ahakoa ngā kōrero teka me te tinihanga? Nā te mea i te mutunga o te rā, e tika ana kia whiwhi koe i te aroha nāu anake. Mena kei te pāngia tō hauora hinengaro e te kore pono o tō hoa, kei konei ngā ratonga tohutohu a Bonobology māu.

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Me aha koe ina ngaro atu ia i a koe, ā, ka hoki mai anō

Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.