I te āhua nei i tino aroha ia ki ahau, ā, i raka ia i te tatau o te rūma moe i muri i tana wehenga atu i te kāinga. Ko Niti ahau, he kōtiro nō te tāone iti, he harikoa, ā, e hora tonu ana i te harikoa. He miihini hiko a Aditya. He ... te marena kua whakaritea. I muri i te marena ka tae mai te pō tuatahi. I tae mai a Aditya, ā, ka noho tahi māua, ka moe tahi.
(E ai ki te kōrero ki a Mehul Vora)
I mauheretia ahau e taku tāne mō ngā rā e toru
Ripanga o Ihirangi
He tino motuhake te āhua. I tino harikoa ahau tae noa ki tētahi rā ka kite ahau i te panoni ohorere o Aditya. He rerekē tana whanonga. I tētahi Paraire, ka hoki mai a Aditya ki te kāinga, ā, i roto ahau i te kīhini. Ka hopukia ahau e ia, ka haria ki roto i te rūma, ka raka i te tatau. I moe tahi māua, ā, i te mutunga ko te ata o te Mane. I tuwhera te tatau, ā, ka puta a Aditya i te whare ki te tiki kai, mai i tētahi wharekai. Ka raka ia i te rūma moe, nō reira kāore i taea e au te haere ki waho. I tonoa te pononga wahine kia roa te hararei. Kāore au i kite i tētahi atu tangata. Mō te tata ki te toru rā kāore au i kite i te ao o waho, ko tā māua anake he moe tahi. I taku ngana ki te ātete, ki te whakahē rānei, kāore a Aditya i whakarongo engari i akiaki i a ia anō ki ahau.
I ohorere ahau, i te mea kāore au i te whakapono ki ngā mea e tupu ana.
I huaki te tatau i te ata o te Mane nā te mea i hiahia a Aditya ki te haere ki te tari.
I ngana ahau ki te whakapakari i a au anō, ā, i haere tonu ki aku mahi o ia rā.
Kātahi ka tupu anō, mō te wā roa
Kātahi ka tae mai te Taite. I hoki mai a Aditya ki te kāinga, ā, i kōrero mai ki ahau he koha āna māku. Ā, i hiahia ia kia roa ake te wā ki ahau, nō reira i tangohia e ia te wiki katoa hei hararei. I paku ohorere ahau. I whakaaro ahau he aha te mea ka tupu.
He nui ngā kākahu, ngā hinu kakara me ngā whakapaipai i riro mai i a Aditya māku i taua rā. Kātahi ahau ka haria e Aditya ki roto i te rūma, ā, ka rakahia e ia. Kua roa ake te rāhui ināianei. I mauheretia ahau me tētahi tangata waranga. I mutu hoki tana kōrero ki ahau. Kāore i taea e au te whakamahi i te waea, i te rorohiko, i tetahi hononga rānei ki te ao o waho. I puare te tatau i muri tata i te wiki. I te wā i tukuna ai ahau, Kāore tōku tinana i pai ki te tautoko i ahau, i ngoikore rawa ahau, i ngenge hoki. I tēnei wā ka mōhio ahau he mea nui tēnei.
Kāore i whiwhi tautoko mai i ngā mātua
My hungawai I noho mātou ki Delhi, ā, i Mumbai mātou, ā, kāore rawa he tangata hei haere atu māku. I hopukina e au taku waea ka waea atu ki tōku māmā ki te kōrero ki a ia mō te mea e tupu ana. I kata a māmā ki te whakakore, me te kī "E aroha ana tō tāne ki a koe, ā, he waimarie koe." Ā, i taku ngana ki te kōrero atu, ka hamama noa mai ia ki ahau, me te kī "Kāore ēnei mea e tika kia kōrerohia ki ngā mātua, ki ngā kaumātua rānei. Kāore koe i te mōhio ki tōu Sanskar? "
I tino noa ngā rāhui, ā, kua waiho hei wāhanga o tōku ao. I ngana ahau ki te kōrero ki tōku māmā, ki tōku pāpā, tae atu ki ōku hungawai, engari kāore i angitu. I whakaarohia e rātou te rāhui he mea nui; ko te aroha o taku tāne, ko te huarahi hoki tēnei e whakapuaki ai i taua mea.
Kāore he take nui ki a rātou ngā rāhui; ko te aroha katoa o taku tāne, me tana huarahi hoki ki te whakapuaki i taua aroha.
Kāore i āwhina ā rātou kōrero: "He wahine koe ināianei, ā, ko te kawenga a te wahine he pupuri i te harikoa o tana tāne. He tino pērā tāu he tāne aroha, he tane atawhai, "Nui atu tōna aroha ki a koe, kāore e taea e ia te whakarere i a koe." I mutu taku kōrero ki ōku mātua i muri i taku whakamātau i ētahi wā, me te ngaro o te tumanako i ia wā.
Kātahi ka hapu ahau, engari…
I tīmata a Aditya ki te tango i ētahi atu hararei, ā, i ia hararei ka nui haere tonu te rāhui. I wareware ahau ki te āhua o te toenga o te whare. Ko te nuinga o tōku wā i roto i te rūma moe e moe tahi ana. I tino heke tōku wairua, tōku whakapono ki a ia anō, kāore au i hiahia ki te ora, kua tino ngenge ahau, kāore e taea te manawa.
I tētahi rā ka kitea ohoreretia e au kua hapu ahauI tino harikoa ahau mō tēnei. I whakaaro ahau ka mutu te rāhui. Heoi, kāore a Aditya i harikoa mō tēnei. I mea ia, "Whakakorea atu tēnei pēpi. Kāore au e hiahia kia whakararu tetahi i a tāua." I whakahē ahau, engari te āhua nei kāore a Aditya i rongo i tētahi kupu i kōrerotia e au.
I tētahi rā i pāngia ahau e te kirika nui rawa. I haria ahau e Aditya ki tō mātou tākuta whānau, ā, i homai e ia ētahi rongoā ki ahau. I tino manaaki a Aditya i ahau i aua rā torutoru o tōku mate. I reira tonu ia, ā, i homai e ia ki ahau ngā mea katoa e hiahiatia ana e au. Kātahi ka tae ki tētahi rā i ahau i roto i te wharepaku, Ka tīmata taku toto toto nui. I haere tonu mātou ki tētahi tākuta wahine, ā, ka pātai te tākuta, "I a koe tētahi ārai whānau, he rongoā rānei hei whakatahe i te tamaiti? Kua whakatahe koe." I wiri tōku ao. Nō nā tata nei i patua ai e taku tāne tā māua pēpi. I whakakapia e ia te rongoā kirika ki te pire whakatahe.

I puta mai taku hoa me te mea he anahera
Kāore i taea e au te aro atu ki tēnei mamae, ā, i tino hiahia ahau ki te mate. Kātahi ka tūtaki ahau ki tētahi o aku hoa kura, ki a Reena. I kōrerotia e au ki a ia te mea e tupu ana. I tere tonu tana urupare mai, ā, i mea mai kia kite ahau i ngā pirihimana. I haere ahau ki te teihana pirihimana o te rohe, ā, i reira anō, i taku kōrerotanga atu ki a rātou te mea e tupu ana, ka mea mai rātou "He waimarie koe kei te aroha nui tō tāne ki a koe. Heoi anō, kāore ia e tinihanga ana i a koe." I mea atu ahau ki te kaitirotiro, "I haere mai ahau ki konei hei otinga, ehara i te mea hei tohutohu. Kōrero mai me pēhea koe e āwhina ai i ahau i tēnei." I pātai te kaitirotiro, "Kei te patu ia i a koe?" I mea atu ahau, "Kāore rawa. I ētahi wā ka whawhai māua." Kātahi ka mea te kaitirotiro, "Kāore he tutu ā-whare i konei. Ki taku whakaaro kāore he mea e taea te mahi."
I karanga ia i a Aditya ki te teihana. I pātai mai a Aditya ki ahau, "He aha koe i haere mai ai ki konei? Me i kōrero mai koe ki ahau." I mea atu ahau, "Kāore koe i whakarongo, ā, mutu noa iho tō kōrero ki ahau. Me aha ahau?" I whakamataku te kaitirotiro i a Aditya. I mea atu a Aditya ki te kaitirotiro, "E taku wahine, e taku oranga; kei te pēhea koe? Kāore au e patu ana i taku wahine, e moe tāne ana rānei. He aha te hara taihara ka whakapaetia mai e koe ki ahau?" I pupuri a Aditya i tōku ringa, ā, ka haere māua.
I tō mātou hokinga mai ki te kāinga, e whā ngā rā i kati ai mātou i te mea e tata mai ana te mutunga wiki roa.I tino pōuri tōku hinengaro, i hiahia ahau ki te oma atu i ēnei mea katoa. Nā te kōhurutanga o taku tamaiti i tino mamae ahau, ā, kua mutu taku mahi. I tētahi wā, i a Aditya e haere ana ki te tiki kai, kua tata ia ki te raka i te tatau, ka pana atu ahau, ka oma atu me taku pēke anake.
Hei whakamutunga, ka puta ahau i roto i taku whare herehere
I haere tika atu ahau ki te whare o Reena i te tuatahi. I taku waea atu ki ōku mātua, ka tīmata rātou ki te kī mai kia hoki ahau, "ghar ki izzat""humari naak"me ērā atu mea katoa. I whakatau ahau koinei te wā whakamutunga ka kōrero ahau ki tētahi o rātou. Nō reira i haere tika atu ahau ki Bangalore i reira te hoa o Reena e mahi ana mā tētahi kamupene hangarau mōhiohio, ā, i uru atu ahau ki a rātou.
Kei te pai taku noho i tēnei wā, kāore he tohu o tōku hītori whakamataku. Kua ngaro taku whakapono ki te ture, ki te hapori me te marena, ā, kāore au e tumanako ana ki tetahi mea mai i tetahi. Kāore au e whakapā atu ki ōku mātua, ki tetahi atu rānei nō Mumbai.
Kāore anō kia mutu taku pakanga. Kua tono whakarere ahau, ā, kāore i puta mai i te taha o te tokorua, engari kei te haere tonu te whakawa. Kei te tohe tonu ahau mō ngā take whakarere, nā te mea kāore he tutu ā-whare, ki te kore ka māmā noa te whakarere. Kāore au e hiahia ki tētahi moni tautoko mai i a Aditya. Ko taku hiahia kia noho herekore.
Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
Kei te pōhēhē tonu ahau ki ētahi ariā tino hoha o te hapori, tae atu ki te "Ghar ki izzat" me te "Ghar se beti ki doli jaati hh aur sasural se arthi". He aha? Me kī ake ngā mātua, "Nōu ghar tēnei, ā, ka noho tonu." Tēnā koa, kia whai whakaaro koe.
Ko te arorau te mea e ngaro ana, kāore he whakamārama mō ngā mea maha kua whāia, ko te mea anake i kīia e Humare "Asie Khete", "Ye Parampara Hai", "Ye Rivaz Hai", ngā kupu katoa kāore he pūtake. Koinā te wāhanga pouri.
He mea nui te moe tāne, he mea e kore e taea te karo, he mea nui hoki i roto i te marena. Engari ko te moe tāne kino e mahia ana e te tāne he mahi tāwharau noa iho i roto i te marena. E tino miharo ana ahau ki ōna āhuatanga. Ina koa, ki te urupare a te kaitirotiro pirihimana. I roto i te oranga marena, he mea tino nui te whakaae a te hoa. Ahakoa ko tana wahine ia, ehara i te mea he tika tana ki te mahi i a ia pērā i te kararehe. Kāore he tangata, tae atu ki te tāne, e tika ana ki te whara i te mana o te wahine mā te mahi kino i tōna tinana me tōna hinengaro. Ko taku tumanako kia mau tonu tō whawhai, kia toa hoki koe i te pakanga.
E mārama ana ahau he nui te hiahia o ētahi tāngata. Engari i konei, he rite ki te tangata porangi tukino. I tika tāu mahi mā te neke atu.
Kāore au i te mārama he aha kāore i a koe he taunakitanga mō te whakarere. He nui te whāngai i a koe ki ngā pire whakatahe me te kore koe e mōhio he mea nanakia. Me ngā tono moepuku koretake, te raka i roto i te rūma. He nui ēnei hei whakaatu i te nanakia.
Kāre au i te mōhio he aha te take o tēnei āhua o tō tātou hapori. Ahakoa kei te mate tetahi kōtiro i te mamae, ko tā rātou e tino hiahia ana ko te "ghar ki izzat". Kāre au i te mārama. Ki te tautoko te whānau ināianei, ki hea rātou e haere ai?
Ā, e tama mā, kati te whakaaro he taonga ngā wāhine!
Ā, i tino kaha te kōtiro i roto i te wāhanga o runga ake nei, i te mea i roto ia i te mamae i muri i te matenga o tana tamaiti, engari kāore ia i tuku. I te mutunga ka tutuki i a ia tana i hiahia ai. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe!