Ngā Mea hei Mahi Ina Kei Roto Koe i tētahi Hononga Wahine

I tētahi wā, i whakaaro koe ko koe anake i roto i tōna ao, ā, ka kitea e koe he hiahia nui tōna ki te whakawai i ngā wāhine katoa o te rūma? Kei roto koe i tētahi hononga e huri ai tōna aroha tuatahi hei mahi whakaipoipo tonu ki ētahi atu wāhine? Kia rite koe, ā, kia whakamāramahia e mātou – tera pea kei roto koe i tētahi hononga me tētahi tangata e hiahia ana ki te wahine. 

Nā, he aha te tangata whakahihi wahine? Kua whakaaro kē koe he aha te take e kore ai e taea e tō tāne te ārai i te titiro kanohi ki taua tangata tauhou i te wharekai? Kāore rānei koe i te mārama he aha ia e tino whakaipoipo ana ki ō hoa? Ko te aro atu ki ēnei whanonga he mea whakararu i te hinengaro, e whakakaha ana i te koretake me ngā kare ā-roto kino, ā, e whakangaro ana i te whakapono ki a koe anō. Tērā pea ka whakaaro koe, "Ka whakama rānei ngā tangata whakahihi wahine?" Āe, kia kitea tātou. Mā te mārama ki te hinengaro kei muri i ngā mahi a te tangata whakahihi wahine me ngā tohu o ā rātou mahi whakahihi wahine ka taea e koe te whakatere i tēnei āhuatanga uaua me te whai hua.

I roto i tēnei tuhinga, ka kōrerohia e te kaiako whanaungatanga me te whanaungatanga Shivanya Yogmayaa (kua whakamanahia ā-ao mō ngā tikanga rongoā o te EFT, NLP, CBT, REBT), he tohunga ki ngā momo momo tohutohu mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, ā, ka āwhina i a mātou ki te tautuhi i ngā āhuatanga rerekē o te tuakiri o te tangata whakahihi wahine, me te mārama me pēhea te whakatau mena kei roto kē koe i tētahi hononga ki tētahi tāne pēnei. Nō reira, kei te hiahia koe ki te mōhio me pēhea te takaro ki tētahi tangata whakahihi wahine, kia puta ai hei toa? Pānuihia tonu.

Ko wai te tangata whakahihi wahine?

Kāore e taea te tohu i te take e hiahia ana te tāne ki te wahine. Engari ko te wetewete i te mea ngaro ka tīmata mā te mārama ko wai te tangata tino wahine. Ko te tikanga tūturu o te wahine ko te tangata e uru ana ki ngā whanaungatanga maha, e tūtaki pinepine ana rānei ki ngā wāhine rerekē, me te whakaatu i te ahua o te hiahia ki tētahi hononga pono me ia o rātou.

He rerekē ki ngā tāne i roto i ngā whanaungatanga maha, arā, he hunga e mārama ana ki ō rātou hononga ā-ira tangata, ko ngā tāne e hiahia ana ki te wahine ka huna i ō rātou hononga aroha maha. Nā te kore o te aroha, ka tinihanga rātou ki te whakatauira i ngā tohu o te hinga ki te aroha, me te rapu puku i ngā hononga maha. Engari he aha te take e hiahia ai te tāne ki te wahine? E ai ki ngā rangahau, he maha ngā take hinengaro kei muri i te hiahia ki te wahine, pērā i te kore e mau te piripono, te wehi o te whakapau kaha, me te kore o ngā tauira pai.

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Ko te whakaipoipo i tētahi e kiia nei ko Casanova te tikanga he mea noa te puremu i roto i ngā whanaungatanga aroha, ā, i muri mai ka kitea te kore o te pouri. He uaua engari e taea te kite i ngā tohu o te tangata whakahihi wahine. Nā te mea kua mārama koe ki te kaupapa, me kimi te whakautu ki te pātai — "He aha te tangata whakahihi wahine?" mā te wetewete i ngā rautaki ka whakamahia e ia.

Ngā rautaki noa a te tangata whakaipoipo wahine

Ko taku hoa, ko Tabby, he kaihoahoa ahua nō Houston, i aroha ki a Joe, he tangata pakihi o te tāone iti. Ahakoa i mau a Tabby i a ia e tinihanga ana, i noho tonu ia ki te whanaungatanga, i matapohia e te aroha. Nā te ataahua me ngā kupu reka a Joe i huna ana mahi whakaipoipo wahine. I roa te wā, engari i whakaae a Tabby, "He tangata whakaipoipo wahine taku hoa tāne." I ako ia i te ara uaua kei roto ia i te whanaungatanga me te tangata whakaipoipo wahine, i te mohiotanga i whakamahia e Joe ngā tikanga whakaipoipo wahine tawhito, i puta ai te mamae me te pouri koretake. Kāore ia i te mōhio he aha te tikanga o te whakaipoipo wahine tae noa ki tēnei huihuinga engari i tino ako ia me pēhea te whakahaere i te mamae o te ngākau.

Ki te kite koe he mea e pā ana ki tēnei āhuatanga, ā, e whakapae ana koe kei te whakamahia koe e te tāne hei whakangāwari i a koe, kia tupato ki ēnei rautaki whakaipoipo wahine noa kia kore ai e taka ki roto i te mahanga o te kōrero māeneene me te whakawai:

• Ka whakamahia e rātou te āhua, te mana, me/ranei te taonga hei kukume i ngā hoa
• Ka whakakāhoretia koe e rātou mā te mihi me ngā kupu whakamihi me ngā mahi aroha
• Ka huna e rātou ā rātou mahi tinihanga, ā, ka huna hoki i a rātou anō
• Ka pupuhi wera, ka pupuhi makariri hoki, kāore he take e kitea ana
• Ka taea e rātou te whakawai i tō rātou ara ki waho, ki roto rānei i tētahi āhuatanga
• Ka kukume rātou i a koe (me te tini ke atu) i ngā wā tino ohorere kia mau tonu ai tō aro ki a rātou.
• He koi te reo tinana o te tangata whakaipoipo wahine, ā, kua tino whakaritea ia kia huna ai ana mahi whakaipoipo wahine.

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He maha ngā wā ka whakaaro tātou, "He aha te tangata whakahihi i te wahine?" He uaua te whakatau i te whakaaro "he tangata whakahihi taku hoa". Ahakoa haki whero, he uaua pea te mārama ki te pānga o te whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata e hiahia ana ki te wahine ki tō oranga ngākau. Nā te mōhio o te tangata e hiahia ana ki te wahine ki te ātaahua, he uaua ki te tautuhi i ngā take. 

Ahakoa te aroha o te wahine, ka puta ake pea ngā tohu mō te wā poto, engari ka hoki mai anō ngā āhua tawhito ahakoa kāore te wahine e hiahia ana ki te mahi pera. He uaua te tautuhi i ngā rautaki wahine me te aro atu ki ngā whanonga raruraru, engari ka taea e ētahi āhuatanga te whakarato i ngā māramatanga whai hua - pērā i te reo tinana o te wahine. He mea nui kia mōhio ki ngā tohu. Mena he wahine tō hoa, ka tino whakaatu ia i ēnei tohu:

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1. E mōhio ana ia ki tana huarahi ki ngā wāhine

He uaua ki te kite i ngā rautaki whakaipoipo wahine, engari kāore e kore e taea. Ko tētahi tohu o te tangata whakaipoipo wahine ko tōna pūkenga ki te whakahaere i ngā taunekeneke me ngā wāhine. Mātakitaki me pēhea tana taunekeneke me ngā wāhine kia kitea ai mēnā kei te whakaipoipo koe i tētahi tangata moepuku. Anei ētahi mea hei aroturuki māu:

• Kia tūpato ki ngā tikanga tino ataahua: Ki te pupuri ia i ngā tatau kia tuwhera, ka kumea mai ngā tūru mō ngā wāhine anake
• Mātakitaki i tōna āheinga urutau: Mātakitaki me pēhea tana whakarite i ana whanonga kia pai ai te noho o ngā wāhine, ahakoa he whakama, he māhorahora rānei.
• Kia tupato ki tōna kare ā-aukume: Mātakitaki me pēhea te kukume o ngā wāhine ki a ia, ehara i te mea he tangata ia tāne ātaahua engari nā tōna āhua mahana, ngāwari hoki ki te hono atu ki tētahi atu, me tōna āhua karismatiki hoki

Akohia te kite i ēnei tohu mēnā kei te pirangi koe ki te mōhio me pēhea te takaro ki tētahi tangata e hiahia ana ki te wahine. He āwhina ēnei. He Reddit kaiwhakamahi e tika ana te kī, "E kore e taea e koe te kite mā te kōrero noa iho. Mena he tangata puremu ia, he pai pea ia ki te huna. Whakawakia te tangata mā āna mahi, kaua mā āna kupu."

2. He ātaahua tōna āhua me ōna whanonga

He uaua te hinengaro o te tangata whakahihi i te wahine, engari he ngāwari ki te tautuhi i ana mahi. Ko te rautaki matua a te tangata whakahihi ko te whakakakahu hei miharo, kia tahuri ai ngā mahunga ki ngā wāhi katoa e haere ana ia. Anei ētahi āhuatanga:

• He tino pai tōna whakapaipai, ā, he tino ātaahua hoki tōna āhua. 
• He kakara pai tōna 
• He hu ōna ka taea te whakamahi hei whakaata
• Kāore koe e kite i a ia i roto i ngā hāte miro, i ngā tarau poto rānei

Ko tōna āhua ātaahua, i whakatipuria i a ia e kopikopiko ana, ka noho hei āhua tuarua mōna. Ina whakaipoipo koe ki tētahi tangata e hiahia ana ki te wahine, akohia kia kite i ēnei tohu. Ahakoa he mea whakamiharo te pupuri i ngā paerewa whakapaipai whaiaro, he mea nui kia mōhio koe ina uru atu ki te rohe o te tangata e hiahia ana ki te wahine. 

He rārangi angiangi kei waenganui i te whakahīhī ki te tiaki i a koe anō me te whakamahi i te whakapaipai tino pai hei rautaki. Ki te huri te arotahi ki te āhua hei taputapu mō te whakahaere i ngā whanaungatanga kaua ki te whakapuaki i a koe anō, engari he tohu pea kua tae ki te wā kia whakaae koe, kia mea atu hoki — "He tangata puremu taku hoa tāne."

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3. He pai ia ki te whakawai i ngā wāhine o ngā reanga katoa

Ki te pātai koe ki tētahi kaiako whakaipoipo, ka kōrero ia ki a koe mō te reo tinana o te tangata e hiahia ana ki te wahine. Kia tūpato ki ēnei tohu:

• Ka kukume ia i ngā wāhine o ngā reanga katoa me te ataahua whakamiharo e kore e kitea
• Ka titiro matatau ia ki ngā wahine katoa e haere ana
• Kei te mohio ia pehea ki te whanoke

Ki te whakaatahia ēnei āhuatanga e tō hoa, tera pea kei te mahi koe me te tangata whakahihi wahine. He pūkenga motuhake tō ngā tāne whakahihi wahine ki te whakawai i ngā wāhine o ngā reanga katoa me ngā momo oranga katoa. I kite a Maggie, he kaipānui nō New Mexico, kua moe ia i tētahi tāne he tangata whakahihi wahine i tōna kitenga i a ia e takaro ana ki te hoa o tā rāua tamāhine.

"I tinihanga ia i mua engari i murua e au ōna hara mō ngā tamariki. I taku kitenga i a ia e takaro ana ki tētahi kōtiro 14-tau te pakeke i roto i tō mātou ake whare, ka mārama ki ahau kāore he rohe mō tana hiahia ki te aro. I kite ahau kua wareware noa ahau ki ngā tohu katoa o te tangata kaingākau ki te wahine, ā, tae noa mai ki tēnei rā kua pouri ahau mō taua mea," tana kī.

4. He whakapehapeha tāne tōna 

Ko tōna whakapehapeha tōna taonga nui, e kitea nuitia ana e te katoa, e whakakahangia ana e te aro tonu mai o ngā wāhine ki a ia. Ko te mauri o te wahine kairau kei roto i tēnei hiahia nui ki te mirimiri i tōna whakapehapeha, me te hiahia tonu ki ngā kaiwhaiwhai hou.

Ki te whakakahoretia te aro e hiahiatia ana e ia, ka whakamahia e ia ngā rautaki e whai ake nei:

• Te raweke kare-a-roto
• Te whakaputa kōrero whakaiti
• Te whakamahi i ngā rautaki whakama
• Te whakakore i ngā hiahia kare ā-roto o tana hoa
• Ko tētahi tohu o te tangata kaitukino i te wahine ko tōna kore whakaute nui, e whakaahua ana i te wahine ki te tangata, e kore e taea te kite i a rātou he ōrite, ā, e whakamahi kino ana i tō rātou whakawhirinaki ki a ia. 

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5. Ko te whakamihi nui rawa tana tautuhinga taunoa

E pai ana tātou katoa ki ngā mihi, engari ki te nui rawa te mihi a te tangata ki tō āhua me tō tuakiri, tera pea ka ara ake he āwangawanga. Ahakoa he pai te mihi pono, ko te mihi tonu ka tohu pea i ētahi whakaaro huna. He mea papaku noa iho. ngā mihi mō ngā wāhine hei whakarewa i ō rātou ngākau koinei tana tohungatanga. Whakaarohia te whakaaro ka kī pea ētahi he aha te mea e hiahiatia ana hei whakatutuki i tā rātou e hiahia ana. Me tūpato koe mēnā he nui ake ngā mihi pēnei i tāu e hiahia ana:

• Me i waiho te ataahua hei wā, he mutunga kore koe
• E mea ana rātou ko te kata te rongoā pai, ki taku whakaaro he tika tā rātou nā te mea ka taea e tō ataata te whakaora i ngā mea katoa
• Ka nui ake tō taonga i te rangatiratanga mēnā he moni te ataahua
• Me he karauna te ataahua, kua rite koe ki te kuini e mau ana

Tērā pea ka kite koe i ngā tohu o te tangata kaingākau ki te wahine e aroha ana ki a ia mēnā ka mihi ia ki ō āhuatanga pēnei i te aroha me te pakeketanga o ngā kare ā-roto, engari me tino māia koe ki te kite i aua tohu.

6. He pai ia ki te whakahaere i ngā kare ā-roto

He mahi uaua te mahi tahi me te tangata e hiahia ana ki te wahine, nā te mea he pūkenga tana whakahaere me te whakamātau i a ia, ka waiho koe kia ruarua i tō whakaaro. Ko te whakamahi i tō aroha me tō whakawhirinaki he huarahi ngāwari māna ki te whakahaere i a koe. Ahakoa te kōrero ki a ia mō ōna āhuatanga hiahia ki te wahine, ka whakamahia e ia ngā rautaki kōrero māeneene hei whakakore i ō āwangawanga, hei whakatenatena i a koe kei roto katoa i tōu mahunga. 

Ina noho tahi koe me te wahine kairau, he mau tonu te koretake o te whanaungatanga ā, ka noho ko ngā kare ā-roto koretake hei mea mamae. Nā, me pēhea te whakatau i tētahi tangata whakahihi pēnei i a ia? Ko te mahi tuatahi ko te tautuhi i ana huarahi tinihanga.

7. Kāore ia e tuku i a koe kia uru ki roto i tana hītori whakaipoipo

Pātai atu mō tōna hītori, ā, ka kitea e koe he kōrero pōhēhē. Tērā pea ka mea ia kāore anō ia kia noho i roto i ngā whanaungatanga nui, engari ko te mea pono he hītori pea tōna o ngā whanaungatanga poto, ā, he maha ngā wā ka whakawhiti hoa ia. He maha ngā āwangawanga mō tōna hītori me tō kōrua heke mai ina piripono koe ki tētahi tangata pēnei. 

8. Kāore i te maha āna hoa wahine pono

Ko te korenga o ngā hoa wahine pono ka tohu pea i ngā hiahia wahine i roto i te tāne. He maha ngā wā ka uaua te pupuri i te wahine hononga platonic, nā te mea ko tana arotahi he aro nui ki ngā wikitoria aroha. Ko ngā hononga iti ki ngā wāhine i waho atu i ngā hiahia aroha e tohu ana i tētahi tauira o ngā taumautanga poto noa, nō reira he mea tika kia whakaarohia ōna whakaaro me tōna kaha ki te hanga hononga whai tikanga i tua atu i te aroha.

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9. Ka whakaatu ia i ētahi tohu kore-waha e tohu ana i te whanonga whakahē

Kia tūpato ki ngā tohu kore-waha e karanga ana i te 'kaitākaro wahine':

• He tino pā atu ia ki ētahi atu wāhine
• Kei te tirotiro tonu ia i ētahi atu wāhine, me te whakaaro kāore koe e aro atu ana
• Te āhua nei kāore ia i te pai ki ngā kōrero mō te whakapau kaha 

He tohu ārai ēnei, he rautaki noa mō te whakaipoipo wahine. Kia aro ki ana mahi, kaua ki ana kupu ngawari. Whakawhirinaki ki ō kare ā-roto. Ki te mea he ahua hē tetahi mea, tera pea he hē. Kāore e roa ka mōhio koe mēnā he aroha pono, he hononga poto noa iho rānei māna.

10. Kāore ia e ngana ana ki te mōhio hohonu atu ki a koe

He hohonu ake te aroha pono i ngā kōrero whakakatakata me ngā kōrero whakakatakata. Ki te tirotiro noa tō hoa i te mata o te kōrero, ā, ka karo i te ruku hohonu ki ngā kōrero, tera pea he 'whakatūpato mō te wahine'. Ko te tāne e tino hiahia ana ki a koe ka hiahia ki te mōhio atu i ngā mea taketake anake, kaua ko te noho noa i roto i ngā wā pai. Ki te karo tonu ia i ngā kōrero whai tikanga me ngā taipitopito whaiaro, e tohu ana i te arotahi ki te hononga papaku kaua ki te hanga i tētahi hononga pono, hononga kare ā-roto. Tērā pea ka noho tahi kōrua mō te wā poto noa iho, ā, kei roto pea kōrua i tētahi hononga wahine.

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11. Kāore anō koe kia tūtaki ki ana hoa

Ko tētahi o ngā tohu nui o te tangata whakahihi wahine ko te aukati i a koe ki waho o tana porowhita. Ina whakaroa tō hoa ki te whakaatu i a koe ki āna hoa, tera pea he whanonga whakahihi wahine, ā, ko tētahi o ngā tohu whero hei tūpato. I roto i tētahi whanaungatanga hauora, he mea noa te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero pāpori. Heoi, tera pea ka pupuri te tangata whakahihi wahine i a koe kia tawhiti hei wehewehe i ngā hiahia aroha. Ka ara ake hoki ngā pātai mō ō rātou whakaaro me te whakapau kaha ki tētahi hononga pono, tuwhera. Ā, he tohu mārama kei roto koe i tētahi whanaungatanga me tētahi tangata whakahihi wahine.

Me pēhea te whakatau i te wahine whakahihi

I te kīanga tika, ka noho tonu te tangata whakahihi i te wahine, kāore he pouri mō āna mahi, nā te mea e whakaarohia ana e tōna hinengaro he tika. Ahakoa tēnei, me ata paunatia e koe te pānga roa o tēnei āhuatanga paitini ki tō hauora hinengaro, me te aro ki ā rātou rautaki.

A ako ngā kōrero matua: "Mā te noho tahi me te tangata whakahihi wahine ka noho pōuriuri ō hoa, ka iti te whakaaro ki a koe anō." Ko te kawenga kei a koe te whakatau mēnā ka manawanui koe ki ēnei āhuatanga, ka whakatau rānei koe i te kōwhiringa uaua ki te wehe atu. Tuatahi, me tautuhi koe me te tātari i ngā ngoikoretanga o te tangata whakahihi wahine. Anei me pēhea te whakatau i te tāne, i te hoa rānei e whakahihi ana i a koe anō:

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1. Kaua he tumanako

Kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te whakarere i tētahi tangata e aroha ana ki te wahine, kua roa nei tō kōrua hononga? Kua kīia mai ki a tātou he mamae ngā tumanakohanga. Nō reira, ko te ture tuatahi, ko te pupuri i tō... ngā tumanakohanga i roto i te whanaungatanga pērā i tēnei. Ko te nui ake o tō tumanako kia pono ia ki a koe, kia aroha hoki ki a koe, ko te nui ake o tō pouri mō āna mahi. Ko te huarahi anake hei whakatau i tēnā meka ko te kaua e whakakahore i te tūturutanga o tō āhuatanga - kei roto koe i tētahi whanaungatanga me tētahi wahine whakahihi, ā, he maha atu anō ngā wero kei roto.

2. Whakatauhia ngā āhuatanga whakama i te aroaro o te kanohi

He maha ngā kare ā-roto e pā ana ki te whakaipoipo i tētahi wahine whakahihi. Ki te kite koe i tō hoa e titiro matatau ana ki ētahi atu wāhine, e tinihanga ana rānei i a koe me tētahi atu wahine, me aro tonu atu ki a ia. Me mōhio koe ki te whakahaere i tētahi wahine whakahihi me te āta whakaaro, me te whakaoho i a ia kia kore ai e nui rawa ana mahi puremu. Me whakamōhio atu ki a ia kāore tēnei e whakaaetia ahakoa pēhea. 

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3. Kia wahangu te tangata whakahihi

E ai ki tā tātou i kōrero ai i mua ake nei, he nui te whakapehapeha o te hunga whakahihi i ngā wāhine, ā, ka tino mamae rātou mēnā ka warewarehia rātou e tētahi atu, inā koa ko tā rātou ake wahine. Ki te mamae koe i tana whanonga, whakamahia te wā puku hei painga mōu me te whakaatu i tō mamae. He nui te kore aro o te wahine ki a ia, kotahi noa te wā. Ka kite tonu koe i te huringa o tana whanonga, ā, e kore ia e waiho i tetahi mea kia kore e hurihia hei whakahari i a koe.

4. Ngā rohe mārama > Manawanui matapo

Kia tūpato ki ngā tāngata whakahihi e matatau ana ki te tinihanga. Ki te aroha ia ki a koe i roto i te wā poto engari ka huri hei makariri ina kore koe e aro, kaua e tuku. Whakaaturia mārama ngā rohe o tō whanaungatanga, ā, kia tū pakari. Ko te hunga he iti te whakaaro ki a rātou anō, tera pea ka taka ki te mahanga o te whakaharikoa tonu i a ia, engari ka huaki te kuaha ki te whakamahinga, ki te tukino rānei. Kia aro ki ngā tohu mai i te tīmatanga. Whakatairangahia tō oranga mā te whakatū whakawhitiwhiti kōrero mārama me te tohe kia whakaute tetahi ki tetahi. 

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5. Rapua he awhina ngaio

Mena kua tino taka tō tāne ki roto i te whanonga whakaipoipo wahine, tera pea ka kitea e koe he mea tika kia rapu awhina ngaio i mua i te mutunga iho. he iti te kiritauHe momo waranga te whakawahine, ā, me whakaae, me te whakahaere pērā anō hoki. Tērā pea kei te kai koe i te pātai "Ka taea e te tangata whakawahine te pono?" i roto i a koe, engari e kore ia e huri kia rongo rā anō ia i te hara, ā, kia tino hiahia hoki ia ki te huri.

E ai ki te hinengaro o te tangata whakahihi wahine, ko te noho i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga pēnei ka pā kino ki tō hauora hinengaro me tō oranga i te wā roa. He mea maori te whakama mō te kore aro ki ngā tohu ārai. Mena kei te miharo tonu koe, kei te whakaaro me pēhea te whakakore i te whakahihi wahine, ā, kei te rapu āwhina koe, Ngā kaitohutohu o Bonobology kei konei mo koe.

Tērā pea he taumaha te noho tahi me te tangata e hiahia ana ki te wahine. Ka whakama rānei ngā tāngata e hiahia ana ki te wahine? He uaua ki te kī pono. Engari, ki te whakamahia koe e te tāne hei whakangāwari, ko te tikanga, kāore ia e whakama. Heoi anō, ka taea tonu te ora me te wā e tika ana, te aroha, me te whakapau kaha. 

Ki te mea kei te tino aroha koe ki tētahi tangata e hiahia ana ki te wahine, ā, ki tāna he whanaungatanga tūturu tēnei, me whakapau kaha koe ki te whakaora i te whanaungatanga. Hei whakamutunga, he pai te whakapau kaha ki te whakaora i a koe anō, nā te mea ehara i te mea ka pai ake tō hoa tāne, tō hoa tāne rānei, engari ka hoatu hoki he oranga hou ki tō whanaungatanga mō te wā roa. Ahakoa kāore e taea e te katoa te mahi pēnā, ka taea e te hunga whai kaha te whakaaro.

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