Oedipus Complex: Tanthauzo, Zizindikiro ndi Chithandizo

Nkhaniyi ili ndi kankhani kakang'ono tisanakambirane mutu waukulu. Oedipus Rex ndi tsoka lachi Greek lolembedwa ndi Sophocles cha m'ma 429 BC. Seweroli limayamba ndi Oedipus monga wolamulira wa Thebes. Dziko lakwawo lasokonezedwa ndi mliri wa makhalidwe chifukwa cha kupha mopanda ulemu kwa wolamulira wake wakale, Mfumu Laius. Pamene nzika zimafuna chilungamo, Oedipus imayamba kufunafuna chowonadi. Ulomba bukwashi bwa mulangwe wa kibundi, Tulasa, wālombwele buswe bukatampe bulombola’mba i Edipito i mulopwe. Mkazi wa Oedipus, Jocasta, akuvumbula ulosi womwe unanenedwa kale kuti mwana wake adzapha mwamuna wake, ndi kumukwatira. Koma Oedipus sakanatha kutero chifukwa anatumiza khandalo kuti liphedwe atangobadwa.

Oedipus ndi kukhumudwa ndi vumbulutso ili ndi zidutswa pamodzi mbali yake ya nkhaniyi. Oedipus anali atathawa kunyumba kwake atamvetsera ulosi wofanana ndi umenewu, anapha munthu amene anakangana naye (bambo ake, Laius), anafika ku Thebes kumene anamasulira mwambi wa Sphinx n’kukhala mfumu. Monga mwachizolowezi, anakwatira mfumukazi Jocasta n’kubereka naye ana. Mosadziŵa, Oedipus anapha atate wake, anakwatira amayi ake ndi kubereka nawo ana, motero anakwaniritsa ulosiwo. Zomvetsa chisoni, sichoncho? Mawu akuti Oedipal complex kapena Oedipus complex adapangidwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo wa m'zaka za zana la 20, Sigmund Freud.

Freud anali kugwira ntchito pa chiphunzitso chake cha psychosexual magawo a chitukuko. zovuta za Oedipus zimawonekera m'kumvetsetsa kwa Shakespeare Hamlet.  Ndiye kodi Oedipus complex ndi chiyani?

Oedipus complex, tanthauzo

Tikudziwa kuti khalidwe la Oedipus linapha bambo ake mosadziwa ndipo anagona ndi amayi ake. Choncho, munthu yemwe ali ndi zovuta za Oedipus amafuna kuti apindule ndi kholo la amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, nthawi zonse amakhala ndi mkwiyo ndi nsanje kwa kholo la amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Mwachitsanzo, mnyamata amapikisana ndi bambo ake kuti apambane mayi ake.

Malingana ndi Freud, zovuta za Oedipus zimachitika mu phallic siteji ya chitukuko cha psychosexual pakati pa zaka zitatu mpaka zisanu. Gawoli ndilofunika kwambiri popanga chidziwitso cha kugonana kwa mwanayo.

Mwanayo amafuna kugonana ndi amayi ake. Kaŵirikaŵiri amayesa kuchiletsa, koma chikhumbocho chimamusonkhezera kukula kwake konse. Mwanayo amayamba kuona bambo ake ngati mdani wake ndipo akufuna kuti alowe m'malo mwake.

Zizindikiro za Oedipal complex

Ngati mumakopeka ndi amayi anu mumadzipeza kuti mukumenyana ndi zilakolako zambiri palimodzi - chikhumbo chokhala pafupi ndi iwo mwakuthupi ndi m'maganizo, chikhumbo chofuna kukhala nawo, kufunikira kopambana chikondi chawo pazochitika zilizonse, kufuna kukhala wokondedwa wawo m'malo mwa abambo ako. Nthawi zambiri, mosadziwa kapena mosazindikira, zizindikiro za zovuta za Oedipa zimatha kuwonekera muzochita zanu. Zizindikiro za zovuta za Oedipus zimawonekera kuyambira ali mwana. Munthu amangofunika kumvetsetsa zizindikiro ndi zizindikirozo ndikuziyesa moyenera. Ana nthawi zambiri amakakamira amayi awo koma zizindikiro za Oedipus complex ndizosiyana.

Tiyeni tione zina mwa zizindikiro za zovuta za Oedipal.

1. Bambo ako sayenera kukumbatira kapena kuwapsopsona amayi ako

Kukumbatirana kapena kupsopsonana ndi kwachilendo pakati pa maanja. Koma sungathe kupirira bambo ako akukumbatira kapena kupsompsona amayi ako. Ubwenzi wawo wakuthupi umakupangitsani nsanje.

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2. Ukufuna kugona naye

Izi sizikutanthauza kugonana kwenikweni. Mutha kungofuna kugona pafupi ndi bambo anu akakhala kunja kwa tauni. Ndipo ngati amayi anu akulolani, mumasangalala. Koma atate wako akadzabwera, sufuna kubweza udindo wako. Mukufuna m'malo mwake.

3. Iye ndiye chofunika chanu

Kaya ali pafupi kapena kutali, muyenera kuganizira za iye. Mumalankhula naye tsiku lililonse pafoni. Amakhala wofunika kuposa wanu mkazi kapena ana.

4. Mumasilira njira yake kwambiri

Momwe amayi anu amayendera, kulankhula, kusuntha, kuvala, kulankhula kapena kuchita - chirichonse chokhudza iwo ndi chosiririka. Simungachitire mwina koma kumuyamikira ndi kupembedza njira yake mopambanitsa.

5. Mumamenyana ndi abambo anu

Popeza bambo ako ndi mdani, umakwiya akamakumbatira kapena kupsompsona amayi ako kaŵirikaŵiri pamaso pako. Ndipo nthawi zina, umakuwa ndi kumuopseza kuti asatalikirane ndi amayi ako.

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6. Mutha kuthana ndi vuto logonana

Nthawi zonse muli kudzutsidwa pakugonana, chithunzi cha amayi anu chimabwera m'maganizo mwanu. Ndiye muyenera kutsutsa malingaliro awa. Kukaniza zilakolako zogonana mosalekeza kungayambitse kusowa mphamvu zogonana.

7. Muli ndi maubwenzi osakhazikika

Mumapeza kudumpha kuchoka paubwenzi kupita ku wina. Ndizovuta kudzipereka kwa mtsikana mmodzi. Lingaliro lenilenilo lokhala paubwenzi wakuthupi ndi mtsikana wina siliri lovomerezeka kwa inu.

8. Mumakopeka ndi anthu achikulire

Ngati mkazi aliyense wamkulu kwa inu ndipo ali ndi makhalidwe a amayi anu, mumakopeka nthawi yomweyo. Mumayesa kufunafuna chisamaliro chake ndikuyesa kuchita naye chibwenzi.

Kodi mungachiritse bwanji Oedipus complex?

Ngati zovuta za Oedipus sizinachiritsidwe, zimatha kubweretsa zovuta zingapo zamaganizidwe. Zitha kukhudza kukula kwanu ngati munthu wamkulu wabwinobwino komanso wokhutira. Vuto la Oedipus limapitilira uchikulire limathanso kukhumudwitsa komanso kukwiya chifukwa cholephera kusunga ubale wanu wachikondi ndi bwenzi lanu. Choncho, n'zosatheka kuti muyese kuchiza zovutazi. Chithandizo cha Oedipus complex chilipo ndipo mutha kupita kwa mlangizi wama psychological omwe angakuthandizeni kuthana ndi vuto lanu. Koma kuti mupeze chithandizo cha zovuta zanu za Oedipus mutha kuchitapo kanthu.

Nazi njira zina zomwe mungayesere.

• Kuvomereza - njira yopita ku machiritso imayamba ndi izo. Monga munthu wamkulu, muyenera kuvomereza malingaliro anu. Pokhapokha mungayesere kuthetsa vutoli. Ndi kuvomereza kokha komwe mungapeze mphamvu zodzilimbikitsa nokha
• Lekani kudziŵana kwambiri ndi amayi anu, makamaka pamene mukuyesera kupanga chibwenzi
• Dzimasuleni ku udindo wa mwana. Osayesa kupanga zisankho motengera zomwe amayi anu angaganize kapena sangaganize. Kula paokha ngati wamkulu
• Sinthani mphamvu zanu kuzinthu zabwino. Lowani nawo masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena makalabu amasewera. Ulendo
• Yesetsani kukhutiritsa zilakolako zanu zogonana kudzera mwa asing'anga ena. Amayi anu si njira yokhayo. Kumbukirani, muyenera kumulemekeza ndi ulemu wake. Palinso njira zina zokwaniritsira zilakolako zanu za kugonana. Mukhoza kukaonana ndi mlangizi wokhudzana ndi kugonana ngati simungathe kupirira nokha
• Funsani katswiri wa zamaganizo kapena psychoanalyst. Oedipus complex ndi chinthu chamaganizo chabe. Njira zochiritsira zogwira mtima zingakuthandizeni kuthana nazo

Kukopeka ndi amayi ako si chinthu chachilendo kapena chosamveka. Koma kulephera kuchitapo kanthu panthaŵi yake kungakhale ndi zotsatirapo zoipa.

Ubale uliwonse uli ndi malire ake amalingaliro, thupi ndi chikhalidwe. Ndipo ndibwino kusawapyola malire. Ndiponso, malingaliro a banja ndi umayi ndi opatulika ndi olemekezeka.

Munthu ayenera kutsatira izi, kapena kukhazikika kwa anthu kumawonongeka.

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