Ndinali paubwenzi kwa zaka 3 ndi wokondedwa wanga waku sekondale. Popeza tinkapita ku koleji imodzi gulu la anzathu linali limodzi ndipo tonse timakonda kucheza kwambiri. Tinali ndi anzathu omwe tinapanga limodzi ndipo anzathu apamtima nawonso anayamba kucheza. Miyezi iwiri yapitayo tinasiyana chifukwa cha ndondomeko yake yokhazikika kunja. Kuyambira pamenepo bwenzi la ex wanga ananditumizira meseji. Ndakhala ndikuganiza, mungakhale paubwenzi ndi abwenzi anu akale?
Kodi Mungakhale Bwenzi Ndi Anzanu A Ex Anu?
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Ndinatenga nthawi yopuma ndipo ndinasiya kucheza ndi anthu komanso kupita kukakonza zakukhosi kwanga . Anzangawo anasankha mbali ndipo posachedwapa ndinalandira uthenga wochokera kwa bwenzi langa lapamtima la wakale. Unali wa General, “Muli bwanji? Tiyeni tikambirane.” Ndinadabwa pang'ono.
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Chifukwa chiyani anzanga akale amandichitira zabwino?
Ndinaona kuti n’zosadabwitsa poganizira kuti mnzake wapamtima sanandilankhulepo ngakhale kamodzi kokha kuyambira pamene tinasiyana . Pamene tinali limodzi, ndinkakonda kwambiri ubwenzi umenewu ndipo sindikanadandaula kuti ndipitirize kukhala mabwenzi. Komabe, ndikudabwa kuti, n’chifukwa chiyani abwenzi a wakale wanga akundilankhulana nane ndipo akundichitira zabwino? Kodi izi zikutanthauza kuti wakale wanga akundifunsabe za ine?
Kodi pangakhale zovuta zilizonse?
Kodi ndingakhale bwenzi ndi anzanga akale popanda kupangitsa zinthu kukhala zovuta? Kodi izi zingandilepheretse kupitiriza ? Chidwi chawo chimatanthauza kuti akufuna kuuza chibwenzi changa chakale? Kodi zili bwino?
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Moni wokondedwa,
Ndikukhulupirira kuti mukumva bwino tsopano popeza miyezi ingapo yadutsa kuchokera pomwe munasiyana.
Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zomwe anzanu akale amakutumizirani mauthenga
Kulandira mauthenga mwadzidzidzi kuchokera kwa anzanu akale kungakhale chifukwa cha zifukwa zosiyanasiyana - anakukondani ngati bwenzi / anakukumbukirani pazifukwa zina (zingakhale chifukwa cha ubale wanu wakale kapena ayi) / kapena angaganize kuti simuli pabanja ndipo mwakonzeka kuyanjana.
Kodi mukufuna kulumikizana ndi ex wanu?
Zifukwa ndi zambiri, koma zosiyana ndi zifukwa, muyenera kudzifunsa nokha - kodi mwakonzeka kupitiriza ndi moyo wanu kapena mukufunabe kulumikizana ndi wakale wanu?
Ngati mukufuna kukhala olumikizidwa (zovuta kulosera mmene zinthu zidzakhalire) ndiye ndi bwino kulankhula naye mwachindunji osati kudzera anzake.
Kodi mukufuna kupitilira?
Ngati mwakonzeka kupitiriza moyo wanu, pitirizani popanda kukhala ndi ubwenzi wovuta (zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti wakale wanu asalowemo) ndi anzake.
Mungathe kukhala paubwenzi ndi anzanu akale koma si ubwenzi wabwino umene munali nawo kale. Monga momwe angapatsire nkhani zanu kwa akale anu, angakuuzeninso zonse zokhudza amene wakale wanu akuonana naye komanso zonse zokhudza chikondi. Kodi mukufunadi kuvomereza zimenezo? Lamulo loti musalankhule ndi anzanu limagwira ntchito bwino kwambiri kuposa kulankhulana ndi anzanu omwe nthawi zonse amakuuzani zambiri zokhudza iwo.
Kupita patsogolo kuli bwino
Ndi dziko lokongola kunja uko lomwe lili ndi anthu ambiri odabwitsa. Mudzapeza abwenzi anu atsopano.
Pitirizani, pewani maubwenzi ovuta, khalani osavuta ndikukhala moyo mokwanira!
Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
