Nditakwatiwa, ndinalowa m'nyumba yanga yatsopano (yomwe panthawiyo) ngati mkwatibwi pambuyo pa ulendo wochedwa kwambiri wausiku mu Epulo 2007. Palibe amene amakwatiwa poganiza kuti pali tsiku lotha ntchito, ndipo monga akwatibwi onse, ndinkakhulupirira mawu akale a filimu akuti “ Yahaan meri doli aayi, aur is ghar se ab meri arthi hi uthegi ”. Ndinakhala m'nyumba imeneyo kwa zaka 10 - ndinayikhazikitsa, ndinaisamalira, ndinalandira banja ndi abwenzi, mehendi wa mlamu wanga komanso chautha wa agogo anga aamuna , ndinaphika chakudya chambiri kukhitchini imeneyo ndikudya patebulo lodyera limenelo, ndinasewera nyimbo ndikuchititsa maphwando. Nyumba imeneyo inali malo osangalatsa kale . Sindinkadziwa kuti ndiyenera kumanganso nyumba nditapatukana.
Komabe, m’kupita kwa nthaŵi chinakhala chodzaza ndi mikangano ndi chete. Tinapatukana pang’onopang’ono, chifukwa tonsefe tinali kufuna zinthu zosiyanasiyana m’moyo. Tinayesetsa kunyengerera maloto athu ogwirizana ndi ena, koma zimangopangitsa kuti tikhale okwiyira, okwiya komanso okhumudwitsana wina ndi mnzake. Nkhani zazing'ono zopusa zinakhala ndewu zazikulu, ndipo m'nyumbamo munakhala chete kwa masiku angapo. Titaganiza zopatukana, ndinaganiza zongosamuka, koma zinanditengera miyezi ingapo kuti ndipeze malo ogwirizana ndi bajeti yanga komanso zofunika zanga.
Ulendo Wamalingaliro Ndi Kumanganso
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Pamene fumbi likukhazikika, komabe, ndi mwayi wakukula kwakukulu ndi kusintha. njira yake yomanganso ndi umboni wa kukhoza kwa mzimu wa munthu kuchiritsa, kusintha, ndi kupeza kukongola ngakhale muzochitika zovuta kwambiri. Ndi ulendo wodziwiranso kuti ndinu ndani komanso zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri, zomwe zimabweretsa kudzimva kolimba, kolimbikitsidwa komanso kukhala ndi nyumba yomwe imawonetsa mtima wanu.
Kukhala chete kunakulitsa mtunda
Miyezi ingapo imeneyo inkawoneka yosatha ndipo ndithudi inatopetsa misempha yanga. Kulowa m'nyumba kumapeto kwa tsiku lotopetsa lotopetsa kunali kosapiririka. Ndinkadzikhululukira kuti ndisapite kunyumba, ndikakhale kutali momwe ndingathere. Adzakazi ankabwera, kugwira ntchito yawo mwakachetechete ndikuchoka. Sindinawauzenso kuti ayeretse ngodyayo kapena kukolopa ulusi kapena kuphika china chake chabwino. Sitinalankhule kwenikweni, kupatula mwina kusinthana mwachisawawa m'mawa kapena usiku wabwino. Sanadziwe n’komwe kuti agogo anga anamwalira liti mpaka pamene mnzake wamba anamuuza. Anali atazolowera kundimva ndikulira mpaka kugona panthawiyo, moti sankadziwa kuti anali m’chipatala kwa milungu ingapo kapena kuti anali atamwalira.
Nyumba iyenera kukhala malo osangalatsa. Ndi malo athu obisalamo, ndi malo athu ang'onoang'ono opumulirako pakati pa dziko losasangalatsali ndipo lathu silinakhalepo kwa nthawi yayitali.
Sindinaganize kuti kukakhala kovuta chonchi kupeza nyumba m’nkhalango ya m’tauni kumene ndimakhala, koma ndinalakwa kwambiri. Nditangouza ma broker kuti ndasiyana, ena anakana kundionetsa nyumba. Amandiuza momveka bwino kuti mabungwe ogwirizana sangavomereze mkazi m'modzi, kotero ndimatha kulipira lendi yomwe inali pamwamba pa bajeti yanga ndikukhala m'nyumba yanyumba, kapena kukhala pansi pa lendi m'nyumba yodziyimira pakati pomwe panalibe chitetezo. Ndinamenyedwa katatu motsutsana nane - mkazi wosakwatiwa, loya komanso Bengali.
Kuwerenga kofanana: Kusudzulana Si Kutha kwa Dziko Lapansi Koma Chiyambi Chatsopano
Palibe amene ankafuna kundibwereka nyumba
Ndinaona nyumba zingapo, ndinalipira ndalama zolipirira kawiri koma ndinabwezeredwa chifukwa anansi anga sankafuna mkazi m'modzi wokhala kumeneko. Mwina ankaganiza kuti ndikuyang'anira nyumba yochitira mahule kapena kupatsa amuna awo azaka zapakati omwe anali ndi mimba ya m'mimba. Nthawi ina pamene ndinkafuna kwambiri kusamuka, wakale wanga anandiuza kuti andisainire pangano la lendi ngati imeneyo inali njira yokhayo yopezera nyumba yobwereka, ndikuuza mwini nyumbayo kuti amagwira ntchito mumzinda wina. Komabe, sindinkafuna kuti andipatse denga pamwamba pa mutu wanga.
Pambuyo pa kufufuza kosautsa kwautali kwanthaŵi yaitali, potsirizira pake ndinapeza nyumba ndi kusaina pangano la lendi. Kutatsala tsiku limodzi kuti ndisamuke, ine ndi wakale wanga tinaunjika chirichonse (kupatula mipando ndi zinthu zathu zaumwini) pakati pa chipinda chochezera - mabuku athu onse, zophimba, zithunzi, nsalu za bedi, zinthu zachisanu, mbale, ndi zina zotero. Sitinalole wina aliyense kulowa m'nyumba tsiku limenelo. Tinasankha chinthu chilichonse mopanda chifundo ndikugawana.
Kuwerenga kofanana: Momwe ndinakonzekerera ndekha ndi ana anga kusudzulana
Chilichonse chomwe tidagula pamodzi chidagawidwa pakati pathu
Anasunga mipando 2 yomwe ankaikonda + yokhazikika, pamene ine ndinatenga sofa ya 3+2. Wanga wakale amasunga tebulo lodyera ndipo ine ndinatenga kabati ya TV. Anasunga shelefu imodzi ya mabuku ndi bedi limodzi, monganso ine. Ndinatenga 2 za razais ndi nsalu zina za bedi zomwe ndinasonkhanitsa mwachikondi kwa zaka zambiri, anasunga zina. Ndinasunga magalasi a vinyo, ndipo iye anasunga zonunkhiritsa za brandy. Tinali titamanga nyumba yathu ndi ntchito zambiri, chikondi ndi ndalama zogwirira ntchito movutikira. Zinthu zomwe zinali zokumbukira zapadera tsopano zidagawika mwalamulo. Sitinakangane, sitinakangane, tinkangokambirana mwakachetechete ndikusankha kuti ndani ayenera kusunga chiyani. Kunali kopanda chifundo, kozizira, kunali kopanda umunthu.
Ndinachoka ndi bedi limodzi la anthu awiri, shelufu yodzaza mabuku anga, TV, makabati 2, sofa, microwave ndi mbale zina zamtundu wina. Ndinagula firiji, ndinapeza kugwirizana kwa gasi watsopano, makatani a nyumba, ziwiya, AC, ndi zina zotero. Motero ndinatsanulira kukhumudwa kwanga konse, kusasangalala kwanga, mkwiyo wanga, chisoni changa chokhazikitsa malo osangalatsa kwa ine ndekha, kwinakwake komwe ndikanakhala pamtendere kutali ndi mafunso onse osatha ndi malangizo osafunsidwa omwe aliyense anali nawo.
Kuwerenga kofanana: Kulera Ana Pambuyo pa Kusudzulana: Kusudzulana Monga Banja, Kugwirizana Monga Makolo
Koma tsopano ndili ndi nyumba imene ndimakonda
Zinanditengera kanthawi kuti ndiyambe kuyimba nyumbayo, koma ndine wokondwa kunena kuti pang'onopang'ono ndadzipangira malo osambira. Ndachereza abale ndi anzanga ambiri m’chaka chimodzi chimene ndakhala kuno kuposa mmene ndinachitira zaka zingapo zapitazi m’nyumba imene ndinkakhala ndi mwamuna wanga wakale. Ndikuganiza kuti pali njira zobwezeretsera ndikulimbitsanso nyumba yanu mutatha kusudzulana. Kuti ndamanga nyumba momwe anthu amamasuka kulowamo, kutsika ndikuwonongeka kwausiku kapena masiku angapo, ndizomwe zimandisangalatsa. Simopanda umunthu, chipinda chokongola cha hotelo chomwe ndimakhalamo panonso, ndi chipwirikiti, chowala, chowala ndi dzuwa, ndikuyimba nyimbo zaphokoso kunyumba tsopano.
Ibibazo
1. Kodi munalimbana bwanji ndi kusungulumwa kapena kudzipatula?
Poyamba, kukhala ndekha m’malo anga atsopano kunali kovuta. Ndinkayesetsa kufunafuna anthu ocheza nawo, kuchezanso ndi anzanga akale, kulowa m’magulu a anthu, ndiponso ngakhale kuchita zinthu zina zatsopano zoti ndikakumane ndi anthu. Zinatenga khama, koma pang'onopang'ono, ndinapanga maukonde ondithandizira kuzungulira ine.
2. Kodi munayamba mwakhumudwapo ndi ntchito yomanganso moyo wanu ndi nyumba yanu?
Panali masiku amene ngakhale ntchito zing’onozing’ono zinkaona kuti sizingatheke. Ndinaphunzira kuchita zinthu pang’onopang’ono, kukondwerera kupambana kwapang’ono ndi kudzikumbutsa kuti kuchira kumatenga nthaŵi. Kugawa ndondomekoyi kukhala zolinga zomwe mungathe kuzikwaniritsa kunapangitsa kuti ikhale yovuta kwambiri.
3. Kodi m’kupita kwa nthaŵi munapeza bwanji mtendere ndi chimwemwe m’nyumba yanu yatsopano?
Kupanga malo omwe amawonetsa umunthu wanga ndi zokonda zanga kunali kofunika kwambiri. Kudzizungulira ndi zinthu zomwe zinkandibweretsera chimwemwe, kuchita zinthu zodzisamalira ndekha, ndiponso kuchita zinthu zimene zinandikwaniritsa zinandithandiza kuti ndiyambenso kudziona kuti ndine wosafunika komanso wokhutira ndi ufulu wanga watsopano.
Maganizo Final
Ulendo womanganso nyumba pambuyo pa kupatukana ndi umboni wa kulimba mtima ndi kuthekera kwa mzimu waumunthu kuchiritsa ndi kukula. Kuchotsa ndikusintha malo anu kumakupatsani mwayi wochotsa zotsalira zakale ndikulowetsa nyumba yanu ndi umunthu wanu wapadera. Kukhazikitsa zizolowezi zatsopano ndikupanga kukumbukira kosangalatsa kumathandizira kukulitsa chitonthozo ndi kukondedwa. Chofunika koposa, kukumbatira kudzisamalira ndikukulitsa moyo wanu wamalingaliro kumayala maziko a moyo wokhutiritsa m'nyumba mwanu yatsopano.
Zimatenga nthawi kuti mumangenso, muzindikirenso, ndikuganiziranso nyumba yanu ndi moyo wanu. Khalani oleza mtima ndi inu nokha, kondwerani zipambano zazing'ono, ndipo musawope kufunafuna chithandizo panjira. Mwa kulemekeza zosowa zanu, kukumbatira umunthu wanu, ndikulowetsa malo anu ndi chikondi ndi cholinga, mutha kusintha nyumba yanu kukhala malo opulumukirako, malo omwe mumamva kuti ndinu otetezeka, olimbikitsidwa, komanso okhazikika.
Musazengereze kupempha upangiri wa akatswiri kuchokera kwa katswiri wodziwa bwino za kulekana ndi kuchira ku kusudzulana. Akhoza kupereka zida ndi njira zothetsera chisoni, kumanganso kudzidalira, komanso kuyenda panjira yopita ku tsogolo labwino. Lumikizanani ndi akatswiri athu lero kuti akuthandizeni.
Kupereka Kwambiri Paubwenzi? Motani Kuti Mudzipereke Kwa Inu Nokha
Kulingalira za Chisudzulo Ndi Kudzimva Kuti Watayika? Nayi Thandizo!
Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Poyeneradi! Mizere yomaliza ndi YOLEMBEDWA BWINO. Gawo lomwe limakhudza kugawidwa kwa zinthu pakati pa awiriwa linali lovutitsa kwambiri koma mathero ake adaphimba zonse. 🙂 🙂