Zizindikiro 11 Kuti Mukuchita Chibwenzi ndi Sigma Male

Mwawona munthu wanu akulamula ndikukhala mtsogoleri muzochitika zingapo. Mukudziwa kuti ali ndi chikhumbo komanso luso lofika kumeneko. Amadziwa zomwe akufuna ndipo nthawi zonse amagwira ntchitoyo. Zinthu zimangoyenda bwino akakhala ali, sichoncho? Amasonyeza makhalidwe onse a mwamuna wotchedwa alpha, koma mwamuwonanso akuthera nthawi yake yonse yopuma yekha, chinachake chimene amasangalala nacho. Kodi mungakhale pachibwenzi ndi mwamuna wa sigma, m'modzi mwa amuna otchuka kwambiri?

Ganizilani James Bond, Steve Jobs, Keanu Reeves. M'magulu opangidwa ndi amuna awa, amuna a sigma safuna kutsimikiziridwa ndi wina aliyense ndipo satsatira utsogoleri ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu. Musanaganize kuti muli pachibwenzi ndi mtundu wa John Wick, muyenera kudziwa ngati angakhale m'modzi. Ndipo takuphimbani.

Tiyeni tivumbulutse chinsinsi chilichonse chomwe chazungulira munthu wa sigma ndikuwona ngati gulu ili la umunthu wachimuna lili ndi chiyembekezo chowamvetsetsa bwino. Mulungu akudziwa kuti mutha kugwiritsa ntchito izi, poganizira momwe zimavutira kugula munthu wopeka uyu.

The Socio-Sexual Hierarchy Wolemba Theodore Robert Beale

Ndani sakonda kufotokozedwa ndi kuchepetsedwa ndi amuna kapena akazi awo komanso magulu ake ang'onoang'ono? Theodore Robert Beale ndi mamiliyoni ambiri a malo ochezera a pa Intaneti komanso mafani ake enieni, ndiye ameneyo. Anapangidwa kuti abweretse magawano ambiri ndi kusatetezeka mu umuna wachikhalidwe, ulamuliro wa chikhalidwe ndi kugonana wa Beale umanunkha sayansi yabodza komanso umuna woipa kwambiri.

Zilembo zachigiriki zosakayikitsa zagwiritsiridwa ntchito kupanga kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi potengera mphamvu, ndalama, ulamuliro, ndi nyonga yakugonana. Uwu ndiye mndandanda wamitundu ya amuna: Alphas, Betas, Deltas, Gammas, ndipo pomaliza, Omegas. Sigmas akuwonetsedwa kuti alipo kunja kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu omwe akuwonetsa kufunikira kwawo kudziyimira pawokha komanso kunyalanyaza miyambo ya anthu.

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Dongosolo ili la archetypes nthawi zambiri limagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi ojambula ojambula kuti afotokozere amuna momwe angapezere madeti molingana ndi umunthu wawo. Kukhala nkhandwe ya alpha kumalimbikitsidwa ndikuyang'ana kwa amuna a alpha kwambiri. Komabe, nkhani ndi yakuti, mimbulu ilibe amuna a alpha (kapena akazi). Kagulu kawo ka nkhandwe kakang'ono kamakhala ndi makolo ndi ana.

Maulamuliro omwe David Mech adalankhula m'malingaliro ake amtundu wa alpha wolf packs sapezeka kuthengo ... kapena mwa anthu. Mech adakhala nthawi yayitali akuyesera kuti asinthe cholakwika chake koma chiphunzitsocho chidatengera chikhalidwe m'magulu a amuna omwe amakopeka ndi mphamvu yachimuna cha alpha ndipo amafuna kudzipatula kwa amuna omwe sanawapeze alpha kapena sigma mokwanira.

Chiphunzitso cha Beale chimathandizanso kuchepetsa umuna ndi mawonekedwe ake kukhala zithunzi za amuna omwe amalemekezedwa pokhapokha ngati apeza ndalama, udindo wawo pagulu, komanso kugonana. Chimalemekeza kusankhana mitundu, kukonda amuna, nkhanza, komanso kupanga zinthu mwanzeru komanso matanthauzo a kupambana. Gulu la LGBTQIA+ lilibe malo mu ulamuliro wongopeka uwu, ndithudi, ndipo amuna onse, malinga ndi Beale, ayenera kukhala amuna ndi akazi ogona kuti atsimikizire kufunika kwawo.

Kodi Sigma Male ndi chiyani?

Kotero, tiyeni tikambirane za chimodzi mwa zinthu zosazama za maganizo a Beale: amuna a sigma. Kodi mwamuna wa sigma amatanthauza chiyani, mukufunsa? Ndi nzeru zawo zakuthwa komanso chidwi chawo pa tsatanetsatane, amuna awa sali opusa ndipo samayenda moyo ndi chisangalalo. Amakonda malo abata. Khalidwe lawo silingawoneke lokweza kwambiri kapena lokopa kuchokera kutali. Koma mukangoyandikira, mukuwona kuti ali ndi zambiri zomuyendera ndipo ali ndi makhalidwe ambiri a mwamuna wabwino.

Amalowa, amatsogolera, amamaliza ntchitoyo, ndipo amapitilira njira yake, kuti azikhala moyo wake. Simudzamupeza ali paphwando ndi abwenzi ake kapena kuledzera kuyitana aliyense pamndandanda wake. Ayenera kukhala yekha, kudziyang'anira, ndi kudzidziwa bwino. Kudziyimira pawokha komanso malingaliro a grindset ndi awiri mwamakhalidwe akuluakulu omwe amatanthauzira malingaliro aamuna a sigma. Anyamata ambiri, ochita chidwi ndi archetype, amafufuza mofunitsitsa momwe angakhalire sigma wamwamuna.

Sigma male vs alpha male 

Ah, mkangano wakale wa alpha-sigma. 'Sigma male', mwachidule, amatanthauza kuti ali ngati amuna a alpha odzikuza. Chimodzi mwa makhalidwe a amuna a sigma ndichakuti safuna kutsimikiziridwa nthawi zonse kwakunja ndipo sadzitamandira ndi kupambana kwake monga momwe ma alpha angachitire. Ngakhale amuna a alpha akufuna kudzikhazikitsa ngati mtsogoleri wa gulu, amuna a sigma amagwira ntchito mochenjera kwambiri, akadali atsogoleri obadwa nawo.

Iwo ndi apainiya ndipo amapandukira chikhalidwe cha anthu. Sayenera kudzitamandira ndi kuthekera kwawo monga alpha amuna. Amangokhala chete koma amapangitsa kupezeka kwawo kumveka. Koma kungoti amakopeka, sizikutanthauza kuti sadziwa kuukira. Nayi tebulo laling'ono lomwe likufotokoza machitidwe ochezera a anthu amtundu wa sigma vs alpha personality.

Alpha	Sigma
Wokwezeka	Kulowerera
Amayesa kulamulira anthu mwa mantha	Amalamulira anthu mochenjera popanda kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu
Top of social hierarchy	Osakhudzidwa ndi utsogoleri wa anthu
Wachikhalidwe	Wopanduka
Kutuluka komanso mokweza	Amasangalala kwambiri ndi nthawi yokha

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Makhalidwe Ofunika a Sigma Male Personality 

Umunthu wachimuna wa sigma ndi umodzi mwamaudindo omwe amayembekezeredwa kwambiri mu nthano zamakhalidwe adziko la amuna. Kuti timvetsetse chifukwa chake zili choncho, tiyeni tidutse mikhalidwe ina yofunika kwambiri ya sigma:

• Iye ndi wanzeru, waluso, wanzeru, amasunga mphuno yake pamwala wopera, ndipo amadziwa kuchita zinthu mwachangu.
• Mwamuna wa sigma sakonda kudzipereka kapena chilichonse chomwe chimamumanga pamalo amodzi
• Iye ndi wodziimira payekha ndipo sakonda kugwirira ntchito wina aliyense
• Amayamikira malo ake komanso kukula kwake kuposa china chilichonse padziko lapansi, chifukwa chake ali ndi ntchito yaikulu komanso kupambana kwachuma
• Iye ndi wofuna kutchuka koma iye sakufuula za izo; Sigma amuna amakonda kugwira ntchito mwakachetechete
• Ali ndi nzeru zamaganizidwe, samayang'ana zovomerezeka ngati ma alphas, amapanga malingaliro ake pazinthu zambiri ngakhale zitasemphana ndi misonkhano.
• Mtsogoleri wobadwa, munthu wa sigma salakalaka maudindo a utsogoleri koma nthawi zambiri amadzipeza ali ndi maudindo apamwamba chifukwa cha ntchito yake, luso lake, komanso mphamvu zake.
• Iye amachitira aliyense mofanana ndipo, motero, amakondedwa ndi aliyense ngakhale kuti amakhala wodzipatula
• Anthu amakopeka naye ngakhale kuti sakonda kupatsidwa ulemu. Ichi ndi charisma yawo mwachiwonekere
• Nkhandwe yokha, imagwira ntchito bwino kwambiri ikakhala yokha
• Amamuganizira kuti ali yekhayekha koma ayi, amangokonda kampani yakeyake
• Chifukwa amafunikira malire abwino mu maubwenzi ndi moyo wake, amalemekezanso malire a anthu ena
• Iye ndi wokwanira ndipo sakonda kudalira ngakhale abwenzi ake
• Amakhala wodekha, wosonkhanitsa, ndipo ndi munthu yemwe mumapitako zinthu zikayamba kusokonekera
• Iye amathamangira kuthamangitsa ndipo alibe nthawi kapena zokonda zamasewera amalingaliro. Sewero si luso lake
• Amasankha bwino mawu ake ndipo chilichonse chimene anganene chimakhala ndi mphamvu
• Malinga ndi Beale, amasankha kusakhala pagulu la anthu ogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndipo amakhala ndi malamulo ake aamuna a sigma.
• Izi zimamupangitsa kukhala wosamvetsetseka, wopanduka, wachisokonezo, ndipo ndithudi, pamene chirichonse chikubwereranso pachibwenzi, makhalidwe onsewa a sigma amamupangitsa kukhala wosatsutsika kwa akazi.

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Ndiye mukuganiza kuti mwamuna amene muli naye pachibwenzi kapena kumupondereza kwambiri ali ndi makhalidwe amenewa? Koma simukudziwa ngati ndi munthu wa sigma kapena ayi? Mayeso a sigma angathandize.

• Kodi ndi wanzeru?
• Kodi amadziwonetsa ngati introvert?
• Kodi iye ndi woganiza mopambanitsa?
• Kodi anthu amamuona kuti ndi wodabwitsa?
• Kodi amakonda malo ake komanso amasangalala kukhala nkhandwe yokha?
• Kodi angakhalebe wodekha akakumana ndi mavuto?
• Kodi amadzidalira?
• Kodi amatsutsana ndi mfundo za makhalidwe abwino za anthu?
• Kodi ndi wodzidalira?

Ngati yankho lanu liri inde ku mafunso ambiri awa a mayeso a sigma, ndiye kuti mwamuna wanu ndi nkhandwe ya sigma.

Zofooka za sigma mwamuna

Ngakhale kuti mwamuna wa sigma angamveke ngati wabwino kwambiri kuti asakhale woona, mtundu uwu wa umunthu umakhala wopanda zofooka ndi zolakwika. Beale watsimikizira kuti ngakhale ma archetypes ake achimuna sali enieni, palibe amene anganene kuti sizikumveka zenizeni. Kotero apa pali zofooka zochepa mu sigma mwamuna umunthu:

• Amuna a Sigma atha kukhala oyipa pazachikondi: Ndizosadabwitsa kuti ndi grindset yodziwika bwino yomwe imawonetsa malingaliro aamuna a sigma, nthawi zonse amakhala pakati pakuwonjezera ndalama zawo ndi luso lawo. Mwina akufuna kukwatiwa nthawi yomweyo kapena sakumva okonzeka 'kukhazikika'. Chifukwa nthawi yawo yokha ndi yamtengo wapatali kwa iwo, kukhala pachibwenzi ndi sigma mwamuna kumakhala kovuta. Ichi ndichifukwa chake mwamuna wa sigma mu maubwenzi ndi oyenera kwa amayi omwe amamvetsetsa zomwe amaika patsogolo bwino
• Iwo sali abwino pa socialization: Moyo wachimuna wa Sigma ndiwoti satha kuchitapo kanthu pankhani yolumikizana ndi anthu komanso kulumikizana. Chotero iwo kaŵirikaŵiri amakhala osatekeseka ndi osalankhula pagulu, akukonda kumvetsera. Izi zitha kuwoneka ngati zozizira kwa anthu omwe akufuna kusamvetsetsa mtundu wawo
• Sigma umunthu wachimuna sichipezeka m'malingaliro: Izi zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kwa iwo kukhala pachibwenzi kapena kupeza mabwenzi atsopano, kapena ngakhale kulimbikitsa maubwenzi omwe alipo. Izi zimabweretsanso mikangano chifukwa sakhala omasuka za momwe akumvera ndipo nthawi zambiri amangokhalira kukangana pazochitika zomwe zimafunikira kuti atero osatetezeka ndi mkazi
• Iwo ndi owopsa: Ngakhale izi zitha kukhalanso mphamvu, kuyika moyo pachiswe kumafunikira njira yokhazikika. Popeza mitundu iyi ya oganiza odziyimira pawokha saganizira zaulamuliro ndi miyambo ya anthu, nthawi zambiri amadandaula ndi omwe ali pafupi nawo pomwe nawonso amalowa m'mavuto.

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Chifukwa Chiyani Azimayi Amakopeka ndi Sigma Male?

Palibe malingaliro awiri m'dziko la amuna otsogozedwa ndi Beale kuti sigmas ndi umunthu wosowa, komanso kuti nkhandwe ya sigma ndi yokongola kwambiri. Pali china chake chodabwitsa komanso choyipa chokhudza ma introverts awa. Mofanana ndi nyanja yabata, pamwamba pake palibe chipwirikiti chochuluka, koma madzi ake amayenda mozama. Sadzayang'ana pozungulira pozungulira zinthu zake. Koma adzagwira ntchitoyo popanda inu kudziwa za izo. Amadziwa zomwe akufuna ndipo amadziwa momwe angachipezere. Ndipo kusakanikirana kwamutu kwachinsinsi ndi mphamvu kumaonedwa kuti ndi kovuta kukana kwa mkazi.

Ngakhale kuti ndi munthu wodzikuza kwambiri, sakufuna kukulamulirani. Mayeso omaliza a sigma ndikuyesa nsanje yake. Sigma yowona sichita nsanje chifukwa mudalankhula ndi wakale. Adzakhala Mtetezi kwa inu, koma osati wolandira. Moyo wachimuna wa Sigma ndiwoti amalemekeza ufulu wake ndipo amalemekezanso wanu. Paubwenzi wachikondi, safunikira kutsimikiziridwa kuti mumamukonda. Amachidziwa ndipo amachiyamikira (ngakhale kuti sangakuuzeni).

Koposa zonse, adzakuchitirani mofanana, ndipo adzalemekeza maganizo anu, malingaliro anu, ndi umunthu wanu. Izi ndi zomwe akazi amafuna muubwenzi. Kukondedwa ndi kulemekezedwa ndipo mmbulu wokhawokha wa sigma umamupatsa zambiri. Nazi zitsanzo za anthu otchuka a sigma.

Amuna enieni otchuka omwe ali m'dziko la sigma:

• James Dean
• Jimi Hendrix
• Bob Dylan
• Bruce Lee
• Keanu Reeves
• Quentin Tarantino

Zopeka za sigma zachimuna:

• A John Snow
• John chingwe
• Bruce Wayne (Batman)
• Tyrion Lannister
• James Mgwirizano

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Mumadziwa Bwanji Kuti Muli pachibwenzi ndi Sigma Male?

Zingakhale zovuta kudziwa ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi umunthu wa sigma. Gehena, mwina sangadziwe nkomwe. Palinso zizindikiro zina zomwe zimatsimikizira kuti muli pachibwenzi ndi mwamuna wa sigma. Ngati zotsatirazi zachimuna za sigma zikugwira ntchito kwa mwamuna wanu, amakhulupirira kuti muli ndi wosunga:

1. Amapeza chitonthozo akakhala yekha

Osatengera nthawi yake yekha mu ubale wanu. “Chitonthozo” pano chikutanthauza kuti akakhala ndi anthu ocheza nawo, amakumana ndi vuto linalake, ndipo amapeza mtendere akakhala yekha. Mzere woti "amuna a sigma ndi osungulumwa" ukhoza kumveka kwa anthu ambiri, makamaka alpha, kuyang'ana m'miyoyo yawo kuchokera kunja (komanso kusokonezedwa kwambiri ndi moyo wa sigma).

Chimodzi mwa makhalidwe a mwamuna wa sigma ndichakuti safuna omvera kuti amve ngati wovomerezeka akamachita zinthu zachifundo kapena nthawi zambiri amapezeka kuti ndi wosakwatiwa m'malo mongofunafuna malo ogulitsira mowa. Amakonda kugwira ntchito yekha, kutsatira malamulo ake, ndipo amasangalala kukhala naye pagulu. Ngati apatsidwa mwayi wosankha pakati pa kupita kuphwando kapena kukhala nanu, nthawi zonse amasankha womaliza. Sigma wolf iyi imakonda malo ake.

2. Sali wansanje

Kuchita ndi chibwenzi cha nsanje kungakhale kovuta. Kusakhazikika komwe amawonetsa chifukwa cha nsanje yawo kungakhale kosasangalatsa komanso koopsa. Ndipo n’chifukwa chiyani amuna a sigma amakongola? Chifukwa simunazindikire khalidweli mwa mwamuna wanu wanzeru. Uku kungakhale kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa mwamuna ndi mwamuna. Munthu wa alpha angakwiye kapena kukwiya msanga. Koma munthu woyamba angabwerere m’mbuyo ndi kuganiza bwino.

Ndi tanthauzo lachimuna la sigma, simudzamuwona akukayikira kudalira kwanu kapena kuchita nsanje ndi kampani yomwe mumasunga. Ndichifukwa chakuti umunthu wa sigma umakhala ndi chikhulupiriro pakupanga zisankho komanso mtundu wa mkazi yemwe amamusankha muubwenzi. Amakhulupirira kuweruza kwake ndipo amadziwa kuti sadzamupereka konse. Popeza abambowa amafunikira malo pachibwenzi, amaperekanso malo omwewo kwa okondedwa awo.

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3. Akufuna chinachake chovuta kuyambira pomwe akupita

Ndiwo malingaliro wamba a sigma male. Wokondedwa wanu sanakufikireni pa Tinder kapena pulogalamu ina iliyonse ya zibwenzi, ndikukufunsani ngati "mungakhale pachinthu wamba". Amakonda maubwenzi okhazikika, okhalitsa, ndi odalirika m'malo momacheza. Ngati muli pachibwenzi ndi mwamuna wa sigma, mwinamwake, anakuuzani kuti akufunafuna chinachake chachikulu. Chifukwa chake, ngakhale amuna a sigma atha kupeza zachikondi ngati zachinyengo, amangofuna kukhazikika komanso kugwirizana.

Ngati mukufunadi kupangitsa mwamuna wa sigma kukondana nanu, ganizirani izi mozama chifukwa sakuseka. Sakufuna chibwenzi chomwe angadzitamandire nacho mtsogolo. M'malo mwake, amalemekeza akazi ndipo nthawi zambiri amayesetsa kuoneka ngati amuna. Amaona ubale wabwino kukhala wofunika ndipo amafuna chibwenzi ndi mkazi wodziyimira pawokha . Ngati sapeza munthu wofanana naye, ali bwino kudikira munthu woyenera kuti abwere.

4. Kucheza si mwayi wake

Nkhandwe ya sigma, kutanthauza munthu amene amathera nthawi yake yonse yekha. Nthawi yonseyi yokha imapangitsa kuti asakhale ndi luso labwino kwambiri locheza. Ngati, paphwando, mukamusiya ndi munthu yemwe simukumudziwa, mwayi umabwera kwa iye mutayima nokha, mutathamangitsa kampani iliyonse. Ali ndi abwenzi angapo apamtima osankhidwa, koma ndiko kucheza kwambiri monga momwe angathere.

Sigmas amatha kugwiritsa ntchito phunziro limodzi kapena awiri pakusisita zigono ndi aliyense. Chifukwa chimene iwo satsatira chikhalidwe cha anthu chofala n'chakuti sangathe kuyankhula ngakhale pang'ono. Chotero ngati mukupita naye kukakumana ndi makolo anu, onetsetsani kuti mwalankhula.

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5. Mwamuna wa sigma amadziwa kwambiri

Makhalidwe a mwamuna wa sigma ndi odzidalira, odzidalira, komanso odzidziwa bwino. N'zovuta kuona momwe sakanachitira zimenezi, poona momwe amathera nthawi yake yambiri ali yekha ( malo ake achinsinsi samuvulaza aliyense). Ali ndi chizolowezi chomwe amakonda kutsatira, kaya ndi pa zosangalatsa kapena pantchito yake.

Amunawa amaganiza za zochitika zonse zomwe zingatheke komanso momwe angathanirane nazo. Zinthu zikavuta, simudzawapeza akunena kuti, “Ndinakuuzani”, m'malo mwake muziwapeza nthawi yomweyo akuganiza za yankho. Izi zitha kukhala zothandiza pamakangano omwe mumakumana nawo muubwenzi wanu.

6. Angakhale osalemekeza malamulo a dziko

Popeza amakhala moyo wake motsatira malamulo ake, mukhoza kumupeza kuti sakonda malamulo amene anthu akhala akuwavomereza kwa zaka zambiri. Ayi, sangabere banki, koma mwina mwamuwona akudumpha magetsi ofiira ochepa. Chifukwa chake ngati ndinu wotsatira malamulo, ndiye kuti kukhala paubwenzi ndi mwamuna wa sigma kumatha kukhala kovuta kwa inu.

Sizimachokera kwenikweni ku mkhalidwe wopanduka, kunyada kolimba kumene iye adzakhala nakobe. Khalidwe lovutitsali lingapangitse amuna a sigma kukhala okongola kwa akazi komanso amatsimikizira kuti nthawi zambiri amaganiza kuti ndi Bambo Know-It-All.

7. Amapangitsa kupezeka kwake kumva

Kodi n’chiyani chimachititsa mwamuna wa sigma kukhala wokongola? Luso lake lachibadwa lokhala ndi chipinda chilichonse chimene amalowa. Kaya kuntchito kapena pagulu, safunika kuchita zambiri kuti amveke ngati ali ndi malo ake. Popeza amakhala wokhulupirika kwa iyemwini, salankhula zambiri kapena kukopa chidwi cha anthu. Koma mosakayikira anthu amayamikira maganizo ake ndipo amafunafuna malangizo ake nthawi iliyonse akafunika, chifukwa nthawi zambiri amakhala munthu wodalirika kwambiri.

Chimodzi mwamakhalidwe aamuna a sigma ndikuti iwo ndi atsogoleri achilengedwe. Amawonetsetsa kuti chilichonse chikuyenda bwino popanda kugwiritsa ntchito molakwika mphamvu zomwe ali nazo monga mtsogoleri. Popeza ndi maginito kwa anthu amitundu yonse, yesetsani kuti musakhale otetezeka pamene boo wanu wazunguliridwa ndi amayi ena omwe akumufuna.

8. Iye sakonda kulandira madongosolo

Zikhale zochokera kwa wapamwamba, kapena pafupifupi aliyense. Amuna awa amaganiza kuti amadziwa momwe angachitire bizinesi yawo bwino. Mutha kutsazikana ndi malangizo omwe adabwera ndi chilichonse chomwe mwangogula, samayang'ana konse. Chifukwa chosakonda akauzidwa zochita, amakonda kudzilemba okha ntchito.

Udindo wa 'wopanda mmbulu' womwe amapatsidwa umachokera ku chikhumbo chawo chogwira ntchito okha. Kufunika kukhala bwana wawo ndipo kukhala ndi zolinga zabwino ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala okongola kwambiri. Choncho kuti mwamuna wa sigma ayambe kukondana, musamulamulire konse. Zimenezo zidzangomuchotsa kwa inu. Ngati izi zitamupangitsa kuti asatulutse zinyalala mukamuuza kutero, thanani nkhaniyi mosamala kuti azindikire kuti sakuthandiza ndi ntchito zapakhomo ndikuwongolera njira.

9. Iye sali wolankhula;

Tanthauzo lake, iye amalunjika pa mfundo. Ngati mukukambirana naye, mudzawona kuti mawu aliwonse otuluka mkamwa mwake ali ndi tanthauzo komanso tanthauzo. Iye samamenya mozungulira thengo. Atha kupangitsa kuti kulumikizana kwanu kukhale kosavuta chifukwa sangasiye zomwe ena angasankhe. M'malo mwake, adzakuuzani molunjika pamaso panu chomwe chikumuvutitsa.

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10. Iye ndi wovuta kumvetsa

Pamene munkangoyamba kumudziwa, mwina zinkaoneka ngati sakukufunirani chifukwa chakuti sakufuna kukuuzani momasuka. Mwina munasokonezeka ndi zomwe akufuna kuchokera kwa inu . Amuna a ku Sigma ali ndi chinsinsi chobisika chowazungulira, nthawi zambiri salola anthu kuwona moyo wawo.

Ndi chifukwa cha ichi kuti ali osungulumwa nawonso koma pambali (kwa iwo), izi zikhoza kukhala zomwe zimapangitsa amuna a sigma kukhala okongola. Azimayi nthawi zambiri amakopeka ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi chinsinsi ndipo munthu uyu akhoza kukhala choncho. Ndizovuta kumuwerenga kotero muyenera kulimbikira kwambiri kuti mumvetsetse zomwe zikukula m'maganizo mwake.

11. Aliyense ndi wofanana ndi mwamuna wa sigma

Palibe tsankho m'maganizo mwake pa anthu omwe amacheza nawo. Sasamala ngati akulankhula ndi CEO kapena intern. Adzakhala iye yemweyo, wosalankhula kwambiri. Amakhulupirira kukhala ndi mphamvu zabwino . M'maso mwake, aliyense ndi wofanana. Ngakhale ena angavomereze kukonda akuluakulu awo kuntchito, iye sadzakhala ndi zolinga zinazake zobisika akamalankhula ndi winawake. Akalankhula ndi winawake ndiye kuti ndi wofanana.

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Umunthu wa nkhandwe yokhayo akuti ndi yokongola kwambiri. Ndipo kupita ndi momwe khalidwe lake limakhalira, sizovuta kuwona zomwe zimapangitsa mwamuna wa sigma kukhala wokongola. Chifukwa chake, palibe amene angakudzudzuleni ngati mutagwa. Izi zikunenedwa, ubale ndi iye sukhala wopanda mavuto. Pali zinthu zina zomwe muyenera kuzikumbukira mukakhala pachibwenzi ndi sigma.

1. Mpatseni mpata

Kodi mwamuna wa sigma amakopeka ndi mkazi wamtundu wanji? Munthu amene amamvetsetsa malire ake ndi kufunikira kwa malo. Mwamuna wanu wa sigma ndi mmbulu wokha ndipo amadana ndi kulowetsedwa kwa malo ake. Chifukwa chake, ngati muli ndi chikondi chosatetezeka , ndiye kuti muyenera kuyesetsa kuthana ndi kusatetezeka kwanu. Mwamuna wanu ali ngati mchenga, mukamayesetsa kumugwira mwamphamvu, ndiye kuti nthawi zambiri amachoka.

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2. Khalani wodziimira

Mwamuna wanu ndi wodzidalira kwambiri, ndipo amayembekezera chimodzimodzi kwa mkazi wake. Mkazi amene amadziwa bwino maganizo ake ndipo saopa kunena maganizo ake, amenenso amadziwa kudzisamalira, amamukopa kwambiri. Akufuna mkazi amene angakhale wofanana naye. Palibe mkazi wosamalira bwino mwamuna uyu.

3.Osasewera masewera amalingaliro

Iye ndi wanzeru komanso wofulumira kumapazi ake ndipo amakondanso mkazi wanzeru. Alibe nthawi yamasewera amalingaliro. Nkhandwe yokhayo imakhala yowona mtima pamalingaliro ake. Akakuuzani kuti amakukondani, amatanthauza. Amafuna kuti mkazi wake azimuchitiranso chimodzimodzi. Ngati mukuganiza kuti mutha kumusokoneza posewera kutentha ndi kuzizira, ganiziraninso. Adzakugwetsani ngati mbatata yotentha ndipo osayang'ana mmbuyo.

4. Khalani ndi chidwi ndi zolinga zake zazikulu

Sigmas amakonda kukonzekera BIG zamtsogolo. Iwo nthawi zonse ali pa mpukutu ndipo ali ndi ntchito khumi ndi ndondomeko zachuma mumlengalenga nthawi imodzi. Wokondedwa wanu angamve kuti akuthandizidwadi ngati muchita chidwi ndi zonse zomwe amachita, zokhumba zake, ndi maluso atsopano omwe akupitiriza kupeza.

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5. Osamukakamiza kuti azicheza

Inde, mukucheza ndi munthu wokonda kusangalala ndipo munthu wokonda kusangalala ndi wabwino kwambiri. Ndiye kodi mwamuna wa sigma amakopeka ndi mkazi wamtundu wanji? Amene amamulandira mmene alili. Musamakakamize kupita naye ku phwando kapena ku phwando la banja pamene angakonde kukhala pa kompyuta yake kapena ndi buku m'manja mwake.

Kodi mumazindikira zizindikiro izi ndikuwona ochulukirapo mwa okondedwa anu? Zabwino zonse, mwadzipezera wosunga. Beale akananyadira.

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