Kukumana Kwanga Ndi Kukhumudwa: Malingaliro a Moyo Wowonongeka

Kufalitsa chikondi

Kukhala ndi kupsinjika maganizo kukuwoneka ngati chizolowezi lero ku India monga kukhumudwa kwa 2018 ziwerengero zimazindikiritsa India kukhala dziko lopsinjika kwambiri m’dziko, ndipo anthu ambiri ovutika maganizo amasiyidwa popanda chithandizo kapena osadziwika poyamba. Wosewera wapamwamba kwambiri wa Bollywood Deepika Padukone wafotokoza za kukhumudwa kwake komanso zizindikiro za kupsinjika komwe kudalowa mosadziwa, pambuyo pa kutha kwa ubale wake wapamwamba ndi wosewera Ranbir Kapoor.

Kodi Nkhawa ndi Kupsinjika Maganizo Zimagwirizana?

M'ndandanda wazopezekamo

Chabwino, inde, kunena kuti akatswiri osiyanasiyana odziwika bwino amisala ndi ofufuza omwe amagwira ntchito nthawi zonse m'munda wamankhwala amisala. Zizindikiro za kuvutika maganizo siziyenera kunyalanyazidwa. Malingaliro odzipha, malingaliro odabwitsa ndi kupsinjika maganizo kungakhudze moyo wanu wapakhomo ndi wamagulu komanso momwe mumagwirira ntchito kuntchito ndipo chenjerani, zotsatira zake zimakhala zokhalitsa ndipo zotsatira zake zimakhala zazikulu. Mutha kufunsana ndi asing'anga nthawi isanathe.

Umu ndi mmene kuvutika maganizo kwanga kunayambira

Mukakwezedwa kuchokera kusukulu kupita ku koleji, mumakhala ndi maloto ndi zokhumba zina. Inenso ndinkalakalaka kwambiri moyo waku koleji kwa ine ndekha. Komabe, zinthu zinasintha kwambiri pamene ndinakumana ndi nkhanza ndi kuzunzidwa kuyambira Tsiku 1 ku koleji, makamaka zokhudzana ndi kunyalanyaza kwa anthu zomwe ndimakonda kugonana. Ndinafunsidwa makamaka kuti ndikhale ndi khalidwe lachikazi ndi anzanga ena a m'kalasi.

Kuvutitsidwa ndi kuzunzidwa kwamalingaliro kudayamba kuchokera kusukulu komweko, ku koleji zidayamba kuipiraipira. Chifukwa palibe amene ankasamala za mmene ndinkamvera. Koma amasamala za kundikhumudwitsa, kwambiri.

Kuwerenga Kofanana: Kulimbana ndi Kupsinjika Maganizo Pambuyo Ponyenga Winawake

Ndapambana mipikisano ingapo ku koleji yanga komanso ena. Ntchito yanga yasindikizidwa m'magazini yanga ya dipatimenti. Koma sindinapeze mtendere wa m’maganizo ndi m’maganizo, ngakhale pang’ono. Ngakhale maso anga akugwetsa misozi pamene ndikulemba mawu awa ofotokoza masiku a ululu waukulu. Anthu ena ku koleji andipatsa masiku opwetekedwa mtima kwambiri ndipo ndimayenera kuwawona tsiku lililonse. Sindingachite kalikonse pa izi.

Ndimadabwa ndikayang'ana m'mbuyo m'moyo, zaka 20 zoyambirira, kapena gawo loyamba la moyo wanga chifukwa chiyani sindikudziwa kuti ndikumva kuti ndi tsoka.

“Kudzimvera chisoni n’kofunika kwambiri. Dzichitireni chifundo, yesetsani kuika patsogolo moyo wanu, ndipo pitirizani kukhala ndi chiyembekezo.”

Palibe utawaleza umene ungachotse mdimawu

M'mbuyomu ndinali wokonda kwambiri kupita kumayendedwe onyada a LGBTQ, ngakhale kunyada. Tsopano ndazindikira kuti zonsezi ndi zabodza. Palibe chimene chingachiritse kupsinjika maganizo kosaneneka ndi kupwetekedwa mtima kumene ndikumva.

Moyo udzapitirira nthawi yake, ndipo ndipitiriza ntchito yanga ya tsiku ndi tsiku ndi zovuta. Zimandiwawa kwambiri kuchita zinthu zambiri chifukwa cha kupsinjika maganizo, komabe ndimazichita popanda kudandaula kapena kudandaula chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti anthu sangandithandize. Ngakhale nditapereka ndalama kwa wina kuti amvetsere zomwe ndakumana nazo, sangamve chisoni ndipo amazichita mopanda chifundo.

Ndilibe munthu mmodzi amene ndinganene kuti amandisamalira. Palibe njira koma kuvomereza izi, kunyalanyaza zowawa momwe ndingathere ndikupitiriza ntchito yanga ya tsiku ndi tsiku ndikuvutika ngati mannequin opanda moyo.

Kuwerenga Kofanana: Njira Zothandizira Pothana ndi Kukhumudwa - Gulu Lathu Laochiritsa Akukuwuzani

Tsiku locheza ndi wokondedwa wanga komanso zokumbukira zomwe ndimazikonda kwambiri

Masamba ofiira ofiira aja ndi maluwa obiriwira a azitona amachokera m'mipanda yakunja kwa Victoria Memorial akadali m'kachipinda kakang'ono m'chikwama changa. Ndizoyera komanso zopatulika kwa ine, ndikufuna kuzisamalira kwa moyo wanga wonse. Sindinathe kupulumutsa winayo kukumbukira Ndinakumana ndi zomwe tidakumana nazo m'mbuyomu, ngakhale; mukudziwa yomwe ndikunena!

Nthawi zomwe muli nanu zimawoneka zosatha komanso zokongola ndipo nthawi yachoka m'manja mwathu.
Ndinu malo otetezedwa otetezedwa omwe ndili nawo ndipo ndi ine, mutha kufotokoza momasuka komanso opanda malire.

Chifukwa chiyani ndimadzida chonchi? Kukhala ndi malingaliro amdima ndi zokhumba

Ndikuganiza kuti kudzidetsa kudayamba kwambiri ndili kusukulu komweko, mulingo wa 9 ndi wa 10 motsatizana ndi zaka zoyipa kwambiri zochitiridwa nkhanza ndi anzanga akusukulu chifukwa ndinali wosiyana kwambiri ndi ena.

Ndinalephera kudziteteza ndipo mwanjira ina chinali chiyambi cha kudzikayikira kwanga. Kukhoza bwino pamayeso ngakhale, chinali chisomo chokha chopulumutsa.

Ndinasiya sukulu yapitayi chifukwa cha kupwetekedwa mtima komwe ndinakumana nako kuchokera kwa anzanga, aphunzitsi ngakhalenso mayi wamkulu. Zaka 2 zotsatira zidandiwona ndikukhala ngati woyera mtima pasukulu yomwe idakhazikitsidwa ndi ashram ndikudzipatula kwa anthu ambiri ocheza nawo, ndikungoyang'ana maphunziro anga okha. Tsopano ndimadzida ndekha chifukwa cha zimenezo. Chifukwa chiyani sindinali wochezeka mokwanira kuti ndisangalale ndi moyo ndi anzanga kumeneko?

Kuwerenga Kofanana: Njira 8 zothanirana ndi kusatetezeka muubwenzi

Ndinachita bwino kwambiri kugwa m'chikondi kwa nthawi yoyamba ndi mnzanga wokongola kwambiri, KD. Koma imeneyo inali nkhani yosiyana kotheratu.

Koleji inali yosokoneza kuyambira pachiyambi. Koleji yapamwamba yokhala ndi anthu apamwamba, ndinalandira chikhalidwe choipitsitsa cha moyo wanga, nthawi zonse ndachokera ku chikhalidwe chodzichepetsa. Ndinasweka m'kalasi poyera mu February 2018. Izi zinachitika nditatha kuwona A mumsonkhano wodabwitsa wa anthu a 3 mu bar ya hookah.

A anali pansexual ndi polyamorous mtsikana amene ndinamukondanso kachiwiri ndipo moyo sunakhale wofanana pambuyo pake. Zinandisintha, kawonedwe kanga pa moyo ndipo zinandiwononga kwenikweni.

Dulani mpaka chaka cha 2019. Ndidakhala ndi zibwenzi ndi anthu osiyanasiyana zitatha izi. Moyo ndi wabwino, koma sindingathenso kuzindikira ine watsopano.

Maganizo Anga Pa Chimwemwe

Chimwemwe, kutengeka kosowa koma kofunidwa konsekonse, kumakhala ndi matanthauzo osiyanasiyana kwa aliyense wa ife. Kwa ine, chimwemwe si nthawi zonse yosangalala koma ndi nthawi, zazikulu ndi zazing'ono, zomwe zimalumikizana ndikupanga moyo wokhutiritsa.

Chimwemwe ndi mndandanda wa mphindi: Sichikhalire chokhazikika koma mndandanda wa zochitika zosangalatsa zomwe zimapanga moyo wokhutiritsa.
Magwero a Chimwemwe: Kutentha kwa dzuwa, kuseka kwa okondedwa, nthawi zogawana, kukhutira kwa ntchito, machitidwe omasuka, zovuta zatsopano, ndi kuyamikira.
Chimwemwe ndi ntchito yamkati: Kukulitsa malingaliro abwino, kuvomereza zovuta, kuphunzira pa zopinga, ndi kupeza tanthauzo m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku ndizofunikira.
Chimwemwe mdera ndi chikhalidwe: Zakudya zogaŵana, zikondwerero, ndi miyambo zimachititsa kuti munthu azisangalala.
Chimwemwe ndi ulendo: Ndi za kukumbatira zokwera ndi zotsika za moyo ndikupeza chikhutiro pa nthawi ino.

Mafunso Ofunsidwa Kawirikawiri

1. Kodi zizindikiro zoyamba zosonyeza kuti mukuvutika maganizo zinali zotani?

Poyamba, ndinaona kuti sindinkasangalala ndi zinthu zimene ndinkakonda kuchita. Ndinakumananso ndi kusintha kwa kagonedwe kanga, chikhumbo changa cha chakudya, ndi mphamvu. Kunali kusintha pang’onopang’ono, koma m’kupita kwa nthaŵi ndinazindikira kuti zizindikiro zimenezi zinali kukhudza moyo wanga watsiku ndi tsiku ndi maubale anga.

2. Ndi zovuta ziti zomwe mudakumana nazo paulendo wanu wochira?

Njira yobwezeretsa sinali yofanana. Panali masiku amene ndinkadziona kuti ndine wosasangalala. Kusalidwa kokhudza thanzi la maganizo m'dera lathu kunalinso vuto. Komabe, mothandizidwa ndi okondedwa anga ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, ndinatha kugonjetsa zopinga zimenezi.

3. Munapeza bwanji chithandizo cha kuvutika maganizo kwanu?

Poyamba ndinaulula zakukhosi kwa mnzanga wapamtima amene anandilimbikitsa kupeza chithandizo chamankhwala. Ndinafikira kwa dokotala wina wa ku Godhra yemwe anali katswiri wa kuvutika maganizo ndi nkhawa. Kuonjezera apo, ndinapeza magulu othandizira m'dera langa, omwe amapereka malo otetezeka kuti ndigawane zomwe ndakumana nazo ndikugwirizanitsa ndi ena omwe amamvetsetsa zomwe ndikukumana nazo.

Maganizo Final

Kwa iwo omwe akulimbana ndi kukhumudwa pakali pano, ndikulimbikitsani kuti mukhalebe ndi chiyembekezo. Pezani thandizo kuchokera kwa akatswiri athu, khalani ndi anthu okuthandizani, ndipo muziika patsogolo ubwino wanu. Kumbukirani, simuli nokha paulendowu. M’kupita kwa nthaŵi, kuleza mtima, ndi chithandizo choyenera, machiritso amatheka.

Tiyeni tonse tipitilize kudziwitsa anthu za umoyo wa m'maganizo, kuthetsa kusalana, ndikupanga gulu lomwe anthu amadzimva kuti ali ndi mphamvu zofunafuna thandizo popanda kuopa kuweruzidwa. Pamodzi, tikhoza kumanga dziko limene aliyense ali ndi mwayi wochita bwino, m'maganizo ndi m'maganizo.

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