M’mudzimo munali manong’onong’o oti msuweni wanga ali paubwenzi ndi munthu wamtundu wina. Tsopano, mu nthawi yamakono ino, mungakhale olondola kudabwa chomwe chachikulu chokhudza maubwenzi amitundu yosiyanasiyana ndi chiyani. Koma, kwa anthu a m’mudzimo, inali nkhani imene inabweretsa chisangalalo chachikulu ndi kutsutsidwa kuchokera kumadera ena.
Pachionetsero chovomerezeka cha mkwatiyo, panalibe malo oti ayime m’mudzimo. Aliyense ankafuna kuona mzungu amene ankabwera m’banja la anthu akuda. Panali maonekedwe a kaduka omwe analunjikitsidwa kwa mkwatibwiyo chifukwa choganiza kuti azungu ndi olemera, ndipo ayenera kukhala ndi mwayi kuti adapeza.
Zinandipangitsa kuganiza kuti msuweni wanga kuti alowe muubwenzi wamitundu yosiyanasiyana sikukhala kophweka monga momwe amayembekezera. Ayenera kuthana ndi nkhani za kusankhana mitundu, ana amitundu iwiri, malingaliro oyipa pa ubale, ndi zina zambiri.
Kuchokera pa zomwe msuweni wanga adagawana nawo za zomwe adakumana nazo, ndidaphunzira zambiri za zomwe zimafunikira kuti ndizitha kulumikizana ndi anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana. Kudzera m'nkhaniyi, ndikufuna kugawana nanu zina mwazophunzirazo, komanso upangiri wabwino kwa maanja omwe akuyenda ndi maubwenzi ofanana.
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M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Kodi interrocial imatanthauza chiyani? Kunena zowona, ubale wapakati pa mafuko ungakhale ukwati kapena ubale wachikondi pakati pa anthu awiri amitundu yosiyana. Choncho, mzungu amene ali pachibwenzi ndi munthu wakuda angagwirizane kwambiri ndi biluyo. Kapena anthu aku Asia aku America okhudzidwa ndi omwe amachokera ku Africa-America.
Kodi mtundu wa khungu ndi wofunika muubwenzi ? Zingakhale choncho, koma mtundu siwo wokhawo womwe umatanthauza. Pali zinthu zina zomwe zimapangitsa tanthauzoli kukhala losavuta pang'ono. Mwachitsanzo, anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana sangakhale oyenera gulu la mtundu umodzi. Chifukwa chake, mawu akuti mitundu yosiyanasiyana sangakhale ndi tanthauzo lokwanira pa zomwe adakumana nazo. Pali chikhalidwe ndi fuko loti muganizire.
Munthu wakuda wochokera ku Africa akhoza kukhala ndi khungu lofanana ndi la mbadwa za ku Africa ndi America. Komabe, pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa zikhalidwe ndi mafuko awo. Zovuta za kufotokoza zomwe zimaganiziridwa kukhala ubale wamitundu yosiyanasiyana zimafuna nkhani ina yonse. Koma, m’nkhani ino, ndiiwona kukhala ubale pakati pa anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana.
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Zowona za Ubale Wapakati pa Mitundu
Chibwenzi cha mitundu yosiyanasiyana nthawi zina sichinali chovomerezeka. Kusakondedwa ndi anthu ammudzi komanso achibale kunali kosavuta chifukwa cha zinthu zingapo. Mwachitsanzo, munthu wakuda chibwenzi ndi mzungu chinkaonedwa ngati kusakhulupirika chifukwa cha mbiri ya mafuko awiriwa. Pakati pa anthu achikulire, msuweni wanga nthawi zambiri ankafunsidwa ngati akudziwa momwe azungu ankachitira nkhanza anthu akuda. Mbadwa za anthu aku Africa America zinkakumana ndi mkwiyo womwewo chifukwa cha nkhope yoipa ya ukapolo koma zinatha kupirira mavuto omwe analipo muukwati.
Komabe, ngakhale pali zovuta zokhudzana ndi zibwenzi, pali ndipo pakhala pali mabanja ena otchuka amitundu yosiyanasiyana. Pamwamba pamalingaliro ndi Prince Harry ndi Meghan Markle. Mariah Carey, woyimba wamitundu iwiri, panthawi ina adakwatiwa ndi Nick Cannon, yemwe ndi wakuda. Banja la Kardashian ndi chitsanzo china cha anthu otchuka. Matriarch mwiniwake ali pachibwenzi ndi Cory, munthu wakuda. Mwa ana:
- Kim Kardashian adalumikizidwa ndi Damon Thomas (Black), Kanye West (Black)
- Khloe Kardashian adalumikizidwa ndi Lamar Odom (Black), Tristan Thompson (Black)
- Kylie Jenner adalumikizidwa ndi Tyga (Wakuda), Travis Scott (Wakuda)
Mabanja amitundu yosiyanasiyana omwe amabwera ndi ana ochokera m'maubwenzi akale nawonso angakhale ndi mavuto ena. Ndikofunikira kuphunzira momwe mungathetsere mikangano m'mabanja osakanikirana. Nditha kudzaza masamba ndi zitsanzo zambiri, koma chowonadi ndi chakuti masiku ano maubwenzi amitundu yosiyanasiyana ndi ofala kwambiri. Tsopano, tiyeni tifufuze mfundo zina zosangalatsa zaubwenzi wamitundu yosiyanasiyana kuti zikuthandizeni kupeza malingaliro abwino pankhaniyi:
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[Mafunso] 1. Kodi ndi liti pamene maukwati a mafuko osiyanasiyana anavomerezedwa?
Kuti tiyambepo, tiyeni tikambirane mbiri yathu pang'ono ndikuyang'ana maukwati amitundu yosiyanasiyana. Maukwati amitundu yosiyanasiyana adaloledwa ku US kuyambira 1967 pomwe Khothi Lalikulu la Supreme Court linkaona kuti malamulo odana ndi zolakwika amawaona ngati osagwirizana ndi malamulo. Komabe, zotsalira za mfundo zotere zinapitilirabe, pomwe lamulo lomaliza la malamulo otere linathetsedwa ku Alabama mchaka cha 2000.
2. Kodi maukwati amitundu yosiyanasiyana amakhala ndi chiŵerengero chokwera cha zisudzulo?
Ngakhale pali kusiyana kosiyanasiyana, pali chiŵerengero chachikulu cha kusudzulana pakati pa mabanja amitundu yosiyanasiyana. Malinga ndi lipoti la kafukufuku wa Pew, patatha zaka 10 kuchokera pamene banja linakwatirana, mabanja amitundu yosiyanasiyana anali ndi mwayi wa 41% wopatukana kapena kusudzulana. Yerekezerani izi ndi mwayi wa 31% wopatukana pakati pa omwe anakwatirana m'fuko lawo.
Nanga n’cifukwa ciani maubwenzi a anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana amalephela? Zitha kukhala makamaka chifukwa cha nkhani za anthu koma zimawonedwa mofala ngati momwe zimakhalira ndi zovuta zakunja ndi kupsinjika. M’maubwenzi apakati pa mafuko, kusagwirizana ndi banja kungakhale ndi mbali yaikulu. Zomwezo zimagwiranso ntchito pazovuta za anthu komanso kusankhana mitundu. Izi zimatanthawuza kupititsa patsogolo tsankho, nthawi zambiri kudzera mu ndondomeko ndi malamulo - mwachitsanzo, kusankhana pa ntchito ndi nyumba, nkhanza za apolisi, ndi zina.
Nthawi zina chikondi sichikwanira kuti mabanja amitundu yosiyanasiyana akhale pamodzi, ndipo kwa mabanja ambiri amitundu yosiyanasiyana, izi zimawakhudza kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri, anthu ankatchula msuweni wanga kuti ndiye amene amasamalira ana ake amitundu iwiri. Nthawi zina, panali udani woonekeratu akakhala ndi mwamuna wake. Ngakhale kuti onse awiri ankayesetsa kuti zisamawavutitse, nthawi zina zinkawapangitsa kuti azivutika muubwenzi wawo.
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3. Kodi maukwati amitundu yosiyanasiyana achuluka?
Chimodzi mwa zinthu zodziwika bwino zokhudza ubale wa anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana ndichakuti anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana akhala ofala komanso ovomerezeka pakapita nthawi. Kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti chiwerengero cha maukwati a mitundu yosiyanasiyana chawonjezeka kwambiri pazaka zambiri. Kuyambira mu 1980, chiwerengero cha anthu okwatirana kumene chinali pafupifupi kawiri kufika pa 7%. Komabe, pofika mu 2015, chiwerengerocho chinakwera kufika pa 17%. Ndipo funso n’lakuti, kodi anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana akusangalala? Palibe yankho lomveka bwino la funsoli. Zomwe zapezeka m’kafukufuku zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kupeza yankho. Kafukufuku wina waposachedwapa akusonyeza kuti anthu omwe ali muubwenzi wa mitundu yosiyanasiyana amakhala ndi thanzi lofooka la thupi komanso thanzi la maganizo.
Malinga ndi kafukufuku waposachedwa wa Research Gate , maukwati amitundu yosiyanasiyana nthawi zambiri samakhala osangalala komanso okhazikika poyerekeza ndi maukwati amitundu yosiyanasiyana. Kafukufukuyu akupitiliza kunena kuti zotsatira za mtundu ndi chikhalidwe n'zovuta kulekanitsa. Zoyipa zazikulu za maukwati amitundu yosiyanasiyana zikuoneka kuti zimachokera ku tsankho ndi manyazi paubwenzi.
Koma, poyang'ana kuwonjezeka kwa maubwenzi amitundu yosiyanasiyana, zingakhale zovuta kuganizira zoipa. Monga muubwenzi wina uliwonse, onse awiri ayenera kukhala okonzeka kugwirira ntchito limodzi kuti mgwirizano ukhale wopambana. Sangathe kukokera mbali zosiyana ndikuyembekeza kuti sadzagwera m'chiwerengero cha kulekana kapena chisudzulo.
4. Ndani ali ndi maukwati amitundu yosiyanasiyana?
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa mfundo zina zokhudza maukwati a mitundu yosiyanasiyana. Kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti pakati pa mitundu yonse, panali chizolowezi chachikulu cha anthu omwe ali ndi maphunziro apamwamba aku koleji kukhala ndi maukwati a mitundu yosiyanasiyana.
Ubwino Ndi Zovuta za Maubwenzi Osiyanasiyana
Tsopano popeza tayankha, “Kodi kusankhana mitundu kumatanthauza chiyani?”, ndi kufufuza mbali zosiyanasiyana za maubwenzi amenewa m’zaka zapitazi, tiyeni tione zimene mungayembekezere muubwenzi wotere. Chabwino, kupatulapo chikondi, padzakhala zovuta zomwe nonse muyenera kuzifufuza.
| Ubwino wa maubwenzi amitundu yosiyanasiyana | Mavuto Ogwirizana ndi Amitundu |
| Kusinthana kwa chikhalidwe: Pali mwayi wokulirapo wophunzirira ndikuyamikira zikhalidwe, miyambo, ndi miyambo yosiyana m'chikondi chamitundu yosiyanasiyana. | Kusiyana kwa chikhalidwe: Kusiyana ndi zikhalidwe zingayambitse kusamvana kapena kusamvana mu mgwirizano ngati pali kusowa kwa ulemu ndi chidwi pakuyenda nawo |
| Kaonedwe kambiri: Machesi amitundu yosiyanasiyana amalola kuwonekera pamalingaliro ndi zokumana nazo zosiyanasiyana zomwe zimatha kusintha momwe munthu amaonera dziko, motero kumalimbikitsa kulolerana kwa anthu osiyanasiyana. | Banja ndi anthu ammudzi: Maubwenzi amitundu yosiyanasiyana Kusagwirizana ndi mabanja komanso kuweruzana pakati pa anthu kungayambitse kusamvana ndi kupsinjika maganizo |
| Kuchulukitsa kudzidziwitsa komanso kumvetsetsa: Maubwenzi amitundu yosiyanasiyana amapereka mwayi wolimbana ndi tsankho komanso tsankho | Microaggressions: Mabanja amitundu yosiyanasiyana amatha kukumana ndi ziwawa chifukwa cha tsankho lokhazikika, lomwe lingakhale lopweteka komanso lotopetsa. |
| Kuthetsa zopinga za mafuko: Izi zimathandiza kulimbikitsa kuvomereza ndi kumvetsetsa bwino | Kukakamizidwa kapena kupsinjika kuti muyimire: Anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana akhoza kukakamizidwa kuti aimire bwino chikhalidwe kapena mtundu wawo |
| Chuma cholemera: Ana amitundu iwiri atha kukhala ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana komanso cholowa | Zojambulajambula: Kuweruza mopanda chilungamo ndi zongoganiza zitha kukhala za mnzake chifukwa cha mtundu wa mnzake |
| Chifundo chachikulu: Pali zambiri chifundo mu chiyanjano ndi kumvetsetsa chifukwa cha zochitika za wina ndi mzake | Kusamvetsetsa: Kusazindikira za chikhalidwe cha wina ndi mnzake kungayambitse kuchita zinthu kapena mawu opweteka mwangozi. |
Banja lirilonse muubwenzi wosiyana mitundu adzakhala ndi zokumana nazo zosiyana malinga ndi umunthu wawo, chikhalidwe chawo, ndi njira zothandizira. Komabe, nkosatsutsika kuti pamodzi ndi ubwino wake, okwatirana ayenera kulimbana ndi kuipa kwa ukwati wa mafuko osiyanasiyana.
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Malangizo 9 Opangira Maubwenzi Osiyanasiyana Amitundu Imagwira Ntchito
Ndinamufunsa msuweni wanga kuti akwanitsa bwanji kuti chikondi chawo chosiyana mitundu chikhalire kwa nthawi yayitali. Yankho lake linali lothandiza kwambiri: “Tazithandiza chifukwa tonsefe timafuna chinthu chimodzi.
Koma kodi zingakhale zowongoka komanso zowuma motere? Tiyeni tiwone maupangiri amomwe mungathanirane ndi maubwenzi amitundu yosiyanasiyana omwe angakuthandizeni kuyika ubale wanu patsogolo pa china chilichonse ndikupangitsa kuti kutero:
1. Ulemu wa chikhalidwe ndi chidwi
Interracial chibwenzi malangizo nambala wani ndi kumvetsa kuti palibe wa zikhalidwe zanu kuposa wina. Chochitika chilichonse chakupangani kukhala munthu yemwe muli. Choncho, m’malo moweruzana, khalani ndi chidwi chofuna kuphunzira miyambo, zikhulupiriro, ndi miyambo yosiyanasiyana.
Chinthu chosavuta monga maudindo a amuna ndi akazi chingakhale vuto. Msuweni wanga anakulira m'dera lomwe anthu ambiri ankatsatira. Lingaliro lakuti mwamuna aziphika kapena kuthandiza ntchito zapakhomo silinali lachi Africa. Mwamuna wake atayesa kuthandiza panyumba, iye anazindikira kuti mwamunayo sakukhutira ndi luso lake losamalira nyumba komanso kuphika. Azungu ena atangocheza ndi anthu ena, anazindikira kuti ndi mmene amachitira zinthu m'nyumba zawo.
2. Phunzitsani nokha za tsankho
Upangiri wina wabwino kwambiri pa ubale wa anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana ndi wakuti mudziphunzitse nthawi zonse. Nkhani ya mafuko siimatha mu ubale wachikondi wa anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana. Ndipo ngakhale mkati mwanu, ingayambitse nkhawa pa chibwenzi cha anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana.
- Kodi banja lingandilandire chifukwa cha mtundu wanga?
- Kodi ndikwanira?
- Kodi anthu ena adzationa bwanji?
- Kodi ana athu amitundu iwiri adzagwirizana bwanji?
Mayankho onse alipo ngati mutenga nthawi kuti mudziphunzitse za kusankhana mitundu. Pali zambiri zambiri m'mabuku, zolemba, zolemba ngati izi, ndi zina zambiri. Komanso, lankhulani ndi mabanja ena amene ali mumkhalidwe wofananawo. Zochitika zawo zidzakupatsani lingaliro labwino kwambiri la zomwe mungayembekezere.
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3. Khalani omasuka ndi kuvomereza
Mu ubale wanu wa mafuko osiyanasiyana, mnzanuyo adzabweretsa malingaliro osiyanasiyana muubwenzi kutengera mbiri yawo ndi zomwe adakumana nazo. Ena angakudabwitseni chifukwa ndi atsopano kapena osayembekezereka. Koma tsopano popeza mwasankha kuwakonda, ndi nthawi yoti muyesere muubwenzi kuti muthe kumasula mipata imeneyo. Kuti muyambe ndi mawu oyenera, khalani otseguka kwambiri ku malingaliro awo, zizolowezi zawo, zofuna zawo, ndi momwe adaleredwera. Musayerekeze zolemba, ndipo musawanyoze chifukwa cha zomwe ali.
4. Yesetsani kulankhulana
Khalani osamala ndi momwe mumalankhulirana. Payenera kukhala chifundo ndi kumvetsetsana nthawi zonse. Yesetsani kumvetsera mwachidwi m'malo moganiza kuti muyenera kuyankha chilichonse. Monga momwe wotsogolera pulogalamu wotchuka, Dr. Phil, ananenera, “Musaphonye mwayi wokhala chete.” Kumvetsera mwachidwi ndiyo njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera mavuto a chibwenzi pakati pa anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana. Dziwani chifukwa chake kulankhulana n'kofunika kwambiri muubwenzi.
5. Yang'anani mwayi wanu ndikuthandizira wokondedwa wanu
Mwayi ndi nkhani yovuta koma yosalephereka m'maubwenzi amitundu yosiyanasiyana. Munthu wakuda amene ali pachibwenzi ndi mzungu akhoza kuonedwa ngati wopezera mwayi ndipo ayenera kulimbana ndi malingaliro ena oipa. Izi zili choncho chifukwa chakuti azungu amaonedwa ngati mtundu wapamwamba. Ngati mzungu atenga lingaliro limenelo la kukhala ndi zibwenzi zamitundu yosiyanasiyana, mwaŵi wa chipambano udzakhala wochepa.
Ayeneranso kukhala ndi chifundo kwa mnzawo, amene amagwera m'gulu la 'mtundu wosaposa wina aliyense'. Msuweni wanga wakhala akunyozedwa komanso kuonedwa mopanda ulemu chifukwa cha izi. Koma mwamuna wake nthawi zonse ndiye woyamba kumutsimikizira kuti ndiye munthu wamtengo wapatali komanso wodabwitsa. Amathanso kuyang'ana wachibale aliyense amene angayese kumunyoza. Kuthandiza mnzanuyo ndi njira yotsimikizika yopezera banja lopambana.
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6. Sankhani anzanu abwino
Yesetsani kutuluka ndikukhala ndi anthu omwe ali ndi maganizo ofanana. Ndipo, musanyalanyaze khalidwe lililonse lokhumudwitsa. Wina angachite nthabwala yosaganizira ena, yodzaza ndi mpikisano, ndipo poyesa kukhala masewera abwino, mumanyalanyaza. Koma pakapita nthawi, imasintha kukhala nthabwala zingapo zomwe zimakupangitsani nonse kukhala osasangalala. Ichi ndi chowonadi chomvetsa chisoni kwa anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana, choncho sankhani anzanu mwanzeru. Kukhala ndi anzanu othandizana kungathandize kuti ubale wa anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana ukhale wabwino.
7. Pangani malo abwino oti muzikambilana
Zambiri zitha kunenedwa pakakhala makambirano ndi mikangano pakati pa anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana. Nthawi zina, fuko lingakhale nkhani yokangana yomwe ingasamalidwe bwino kapena kutchulidwa mosayenera. Dziwani kuti nonse awiri muyenera kupanga malo otetezeka muubwenzi wanu ndikukhazikitsa malire a zomwe zili zoyenera.
8. Yang'anani zomwe sizimayenderana
Maganizo omwe msuweni wanga ankakumana nawo anali akuti pokhala wa ku Africa, amachokera m'banja lopeza ndalama zochepa kapena losauka. Chotero, mwamuna wake woyera ndiye anali mpulumutsi amene akanam’kweza paudindo wapamwamba wa chikhalidwe cha anthu kapena chuma. Komabe, zimenezo sizikanasiyananso ndi choonadi. Amachokera m'banja lapamwamba pamene mwamuna wake sanali wochokera kubanja lolemera. Ngati zili choncho, nkhaniyo iyenera kuti idasunthidwa kwambiri ndi iye.
Komabe, malingaliro oterowo nthawi zambiri amagwirizanitsidwa ndi maubwenzi apakati pa mafuko. Awiriwo aphunzira kuseka mawu opanda nzeru oterowo ndipo samangowalankhula. Koma mosabisa zitseko, akhala akukambirana kangapo kuti athane ndi nkhanizo komanso osawalola kusokoneza ubale wawo.
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9. Khalani ndi zolinga zofanana
Palibe chatsopano pano, koma choyenera kutchula chifukwa ndiye chinsinsi cha maubwenzi ambiri opambana. Upangiri wabwino kwambiri wa ubale wapakati pamitundu ndikukhala ndi zolinga ndi zokonda zogawana. Muyenera kukwatiwa ndi munthu amene akufuna zomwe inuyo mumachita. Izi ndizo maziko omwe mukufunikira kuti mukhale ndi mgwirizano wamphamvu wamitundu yosiyanasiyana. Ngati sichoncho, ndiye kuti ubalewo udzakhalapo.
Zolozera Mfungulo
- Maukwati apakati pa mafuko achulukadi m’kupita kwa zaka, komabe, alinso ndi chisudzulo chokwera kuposa maukwati a mafuko amodzi.
- Kusowa chidziwitso kungakhale vuto lalikulu m'chikondi cha mitundu yosiyanasiyana. Choncho, phunzirani za tsankho ndikupanga malo otetezeka kwa inu ndi mnzanuyo
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Ngakhale kuti pali maubwino ambiri a ukwati/ubale wa anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana, palinso zopinga zambiri zomwe zimabwera chifukwa cha kudzipereka kwa wina ndi mnzake, kulankhulana bwino komanso luso lothetsa mikangano, komanso kugwirizana zimathandiza kwambiri pakupanga zotsatira za ubalewo.
- Kuti ayendetse bwino ubale wawo, okwatirana amitundu yosiyanasiyana ayenera kumvetsera mwachidwi, kufufuza mwayi wawo, ndi kusamala ndi mabwenzi omwe amawasankha
Kuyenda pa chikondi cha anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana sikophweka nthawi zonse. Mavuto ena a ubale wamitundu yosiyanasiyana amabwera ndi gawo. Koma pali zambiri pa kukhala okwatirana amitundu yosakanizika kuposa kungolimbana. Ubale uliwonse umakhala ndi zovuta, komabe zitha kukhala zosavuta kuphunzira zomwe zimapindulitsa moyo wanu. Kuthana ndi mavutowa kumangothandiza kuti ubale wanu ukhale wolimba.
Ibibazo
Ngakhale iyi ndi nkhani yongoganizira chabe, nthawi zambiri, maubwenzi amitundu yosiyanasiyana amabwera ndi zovuta zomwe muyenera kuphunzira kuthana nazo. Komabe, palibe ubale wopanda zovuta. Njira yachikondi sinayende bwino, ndipo ndi mabampu ochulukirapo otani mumsewu ngati njirayo ili yokongola?
Maubwenzi apakati pazikhalidwe nthawi zonse amabweretsa mkangano wadziko lapansi. Munthu aliyense amachokera ku chikhalidwe chosiyana ndi chikhalidwe chawo. Nthawi zina amatha kufananiza, ndipo nthawi zina amatha kukhala otsutsana ndi polar. Zili kwa banja lirilonse kuunika kusiyana kwa zikhalidwezi ndi kufotokoza malingaliro awo kuti agwirizane.
Malinga ndi Pew Research Centre , "mabanja amitundu yosiyanasiyana anali ndi mwayi wa 41% wopatukana kapena kusudzulana, poyerekeza ndi mwayi wa 31% pakati pa maanja omwe anakwatirana mkati mwa fuko lawo." Komabe, pali kusiyana kwa chiwerengerochi, kutengera kuphatikiza kwa fuko ndi jenda.
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Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
