Nthawi zambiri timayiwala kulankhula za nkhanza za abambo pamene tikukambirana za mavuto omwe ali nawo pakati pa amuna ndi akazi ndi zina za chikhalidwe. Ngakhale kuli kofunika kupangitsa anthu kukhala otetezereka kwa akazi, palinso amuna ambiri amene amachitiridwa zachipongwe m’dziko lamakonoli.
Ichi ndi gawo la mndandanda wathu womwe ukupitilira kuwona kuchitidwa chipongwe ndi kumenyedwa kochokera kumbali zonse, popanda kuganiza za jenda. Ngakhale kuti amuna akupitiriza kuwonetsedwa ngati ogona ndi opondereza mu chiyanjano, ukwati kapena ubale, tiyenera kutsegula maso athu kuti tidziwe kuti dziko lasintha, ndipo nkhani ya nkhanza siinangopita kwa amayi okha.
Amuna Akugwiriridwa
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Kupeza kuti ndizochititsa manyazi kulankhula, amuna omwe akuvutitsidwa ndi kugonana masiku ano, samatuluka konse ndikulankhula zomwe akumana nazo ndi zowawa zawo. Kaya ndi kuntchito kapena kunyumba, amuna masiku ano sali otetezeka monga mmene tikuganizira. Iwo angakhale amphamvu mwakuthupi, koma nthaŵi zina ngakhale zimenezo sizokwanira.
“Kukhala chete sikufanana ndi mphamvu—amuna sayenera kuchita manyazi kulankhula motsutsa kuzunzidwa.”
Kuzunza amuna kuntchito palibe chatsopano, koma timadabwa kumva chifukwa chosowa kukambirana mozungulira. Kaya chifukwa, sitingakane mfundo panonso- wamkazi akuvutitsa mwamuna zimachitika m'dziko lathu lero.
Amuna akugwira ntchito
Timalowa m'mabwalo amakampani owoneka bwino momwe azimayi ambiri akutenga maudindo ndi mipando yamphamvu. Kodi mkazi amene ali ndi udindo waukulu angavutitse mwamuna kapena mkazi wake?
Inde, zimachitika kawirikawiri mumkhalidwe wamakampani padziko lonse lapansi. Mutha kufunsa mozungulira ndipo ndikutsimikiza kuti tipeza nthawi zambiri pomwe mwamuna amadandaula za bwana wake wamkazi pogonana komanso kuvutitsa maganizo iye.
Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa mwamuna kuzunza mkazi wogwira ntchito ndi mkazi kuvutitsa mwamuna wantchito
M’maiko ambiri, mkazi amatetezedwa ndi lamulo, makamaka pamapepala, pamene mwamuna sangakhale ndi chitetezo chofananacho ngakhale kuti amakumananso ndi chizunzo chamalingaliro ndi kugonana.
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Palibe lamulo lotsutsa izo
Ku India, malamulo okhudza nkhanza zokhudza kugonana amakhudza amayi okha. Palibe lamulo lotere lomwe limateteza amuna. Palibe chitsogozo chomwe chilipo chokhudza zomwe ziyenera kuchitidwa mkazi akavutitsa mwamuna paudindo. Kodi pali njira ina yochitira mwamunayo kusiyapo kusiya ntchitoyo mwakachetechete atapachika mutu? Palibe.
Ichi ndi chitsanzo chinanso pomwe malamulo amasokonekera ndikuwonetsetsa kuti amuna, monga amuna 'amphamvu', sangagwe mumsampha wakugwiriridwa. The maudindo apachikhalidwe zasokonekera masiku ano ndipo izi zikuyenera kuwonetsanso malamulo athu. Ndiroleni ndikupatseni zitsanzo zitatu za kugwiriridwa ndi bwana wachikazi (zonse zosimbidwa ndi anzanga apamtima komanso pomwe mabwanawo anali akazi).
Mayina m'zochitika zotsatirazi asinthidwa kuti ateteze anthu.
- Nambala Yothandizira Yankhanza Zapakhomo (India): 1800-102-7222 izi zidapangidwa kuti zithandizire amuna omwe akuzunzidwa kapena kuzunzidwa. Musazengereze kupempha thandizo ngati ndinu mwamuna wozunzidwa - simuli nokha, ndipo zomwe mwakumana nazo ndi zomveka.
Case 1
Pam ankakonda kumutcha Adamu mwanthabwala 'chigoli chosavuta' kutsogolo kwa timu yake. Chitsanzo: “Kugoletsa kophwekako kuli kuti. Mufunseni abwere tsopano. Zinali zochititsa manyazi kwa Adamu yekha, komanso ena onse mu timu.
Tsiku lina, Adamu sanathenso kuvomereza ndipo anauza abwana ake kuti sakonda kutchulidwa ndi dzinali. M'miyezi isanu ndi umodzi Adamu adachotsedwa ntchito chifukwa chochita molakwika abwana ake atatumiza maimelo 13 kwa HR okhudza kusamvera komanso kusasamala kwake pantchito. Anapitilizabe kumutcha kuti 'wopambana' ngakhale pamisonkhano ya boma nthawi yonseyi.
Case 2
Paphwando la muofesi, bwana wa Nick anamupempha kuti amwe ndi kuvina naye. Nick anali m'gulu la IT ndipo adachokera kubanja lachikatolika lokonda mwambo. Anaphunzira m’dera lotsekeredwa kwambiri, ndipo anali wokwatira ali ndi ana atatu. Nick anamva kukhala wovuta kukhala m’maphwando a ofesi, osaleka kuvina.
Pamene adakana kuvina ndi abwana ake oledzera, sanachite bwino, chifukwa 'kukanidwa' kunakhala nthabwala mkati mwa ofesi, ngati kuti adapangidwira. kukumana ndi mnzako. Nick adachotsedwa ntchito chifukwa chosakhala osewera wa timu mkati mwa mwezi umodzi kuchokera pazochitikazo.
Sizinali vuto lokhalo lachipongwe cha amuna muofesiyi. Koma pambuyo pa tsoka la Nick, palibe amene analimba mtima kudandaula za mabwana kuntchito.
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Mlandu wa 3:
Sia ndi mwamuna wake ankagwira ntchito m’dipatimenti imodzi. Sia ndi abwana ake sanakhale paubwenzi wabwino ndipo Shefali adatsindikizidwa kukhala manejala woyimirira wotsatira (woyima mosiyana). Sia ndi abwana anayamba kuseka mwamuna wake kuti aphunzitse Shefali phunziro.
Nthawi zambiri amakhala pafupi, thupi limalumikizana naye kwinaku akungoyang'ana zojambulajambula. Masiku ena, ankangogwira dzanja lake paphewa pake kapena kumukumbatira popanda chifukwa chilichonse. Sia adauza a HR za nkhaniyi ndipo pasanathe miyezi itatu izi zitachitika, mwamuna wake analibe ntchito.
Mwamuna wake anaimbidwa mlandu wozunza abwana ake. Inde, HR atamufunsa abwana, adanama pazochitika zonse ndikupanga nkhani yakeyake. Pamene adayesa kumenyana ndi kutsutsa kampaniyo, kafukufukuyo adawonetsa kuchuluka kwa amuna omwe amachitiridwa nkhanza zogonana pachaka, ndipo adadziwa kuti adataya mlanduwo popanda kulimbana nawo.
Kodi mukuganiza kuti zinthu zitatu zimene tatchulazi zili m’gulu la amuna ovutitsa akazi? Onse atatu omwe ali pamwambawa adachotsedwa ntchito ndipo pachitatu, wogwira ntchitoyo sanapatsidwe ngakhale ntchito yolemekezeka.
Kuchitiridwa nkhanza kwa amuna ndi mabwana aakazi muzochitika zamakampani mwachiwonekere ndi zenizeni. Pali amayi ambiri akuluakulu omwe amavutitsa amuna omwe ali pansi pawo, koma kawirikawiri opulumukawo amawonekera.
Zochitikazo ndi zambiri koma palibe yankho. Tiyenera kuvomereza kuti umbava sungakhale wokhudzana ndi jenda - anthu amitundu yonse amatha kuzunzidwa ndipo wozunzidwayo akhoza kukhala munthu wamanyazi kapena wowopa kutaya ntchito kuti alankhule.
Kodi timafunikira malamulo osagwirizana ndi amuna kapena akazi pazachipongwe? Tiuzeni mu ndemanga.
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Ibibazo
1. Kodi kuchitiridwa nkhanza kwa akazi ndi kofala bwanji?
Ngakhale kuti kuvutitsidwa kwa amuna kumanenedwa mofala, kuvutitsidwa kwa akazi ndi amuna sikochitika kawirikawiri. Kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti amuna amachitiridwa nkhanza zosiyanasiyana, kuphatikizapo kugwiriridwa, kuchitiridwa zachipongwe, ndi nkhanza, ngakhale kuti kusalidwa ndi anthu kumapangitsa kuti asamanene.
2. Ndi mazunzo anji amene amuna amakumana nawo ndi akazi?
Kuchitiridwa nkhanza kungachitike m'njira zosiyanasiyana, monga kulakalaka kugonana ndi munthu amene sakufuna, kuzunza anzawo, kutukwana, kugwiriridwa, ndiponso nthawi zina nkhanza. Amuna amathanso kuzunzidwa kuntchito, pa intaneti, kapena paubwenzi.
3. Kodi nchifukwa ninji kuchitiridwa nkhanza kwa amuna ndi akazi sikumveka kwenikweni?
Kusalidwa pakati pa anthu ndi zikhulupiriro za amuna ndi akazi zimathandizira kuti nkhanza za akazi ndi amuna zisamanene zambiri. Amuna kaŵirikaŵiri amayembekezeredwa “kukhala amphamvu” kapena “kulimba mtima,” kuchititsa manyazi, manyazi, kapena mantha okana kukhulupiriridwa.
“Arun anali paubwenzi kwanthaŵi yaitali ndi bwenzi lake lachibwenzi, Maya.” Poyamba, ubwenzi wawo unkawoneka bwino, koma m’kupita kwa nthaŵi, Maya anayamba kulamulira maganizo ndi kutukwana. kuchitirana nkhanza, pomalizira pake anathetsa chibwenzicho ndipo anayamba kuchira.”
Maganizo Final
Chizunzo chikhoza kuchitika kwa aliyense, mosasamala za chikhalidwe. Kusalidwa kozungulira kuchitiridwa nkhanza kwa akazi ndi amuna nthawi zambiri kumalepheretsa abambo kubwera kutsogolo, zomwe zimapangitsa kukhala chete komanso kuvutika. Monga momwe anthu amalimbikitsira amayi kutsutsana ndi kuzunzidwa, amuna amafunikira kumvetsetsa ndi chithandizo chimodzimodzi akakumana nazo. Kuvutitsidwa maganizo, mawu, kugonana, ndi kuzunzidwa zisaloledwe, mosasamala kanthu kuti wolakwayo ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi. Yakwana nthawi yoti muthetse chizoloŵezicho ndikupanga chikhalidwe chomwe amuna amamva kuti ali otetezeka kuti afotokoze zachipongwe ndikupempha thandizo popanda manyazi kapena chiweruzo. Ochiritsa athu ali pano kuti amvetsere, kukuthandizani, ndi kukutsogolerani ku machiritso. Kaya ndi kuvutitsidwa maganizo, mwamawu, kapena mwachipongwe, chithandizo chilipo.
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ngakhale ndidakumanapo ndi zochitika zochepa ndikugwira ntchito ndi azimayi otsogolera.
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