Nkhani zina zachikondi zimamveka ngati loto poyambirira, koma zimasintha kukhala chinthu chosazindikirika pakapita nthawi. Iyi ndi nkhani ya momwe ubale womwe nthawi ina unkawoneka ngati tsoka udayamba pang'onopang'ono kukhala zoopsa zenizeni.
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M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Anamwetulira. Ndinamwetuliranso.
Mtundu wa mgwirizano umenewo zimamveka zolembedwa mu nyenyezi-zopanda mphamvu, zamagetsi, zosatsutsika.
Tinacheza kwa maola usiku umenewo, monga tinali titadziwana m’moyo wina. Mawu aliwonse, kuyang'ana kulikonse, kukhudza kulikonse kumamveka zokhazikitsidwiratu.
"Ndi izi," Ndinadziuza ndekha.
"Chikondi chomwe ndakhala ndikuchiyembekezera."
Tinakumana pa a madzulo amvula, imodzi mwa nthawi ngati filimu yomwe nthawi inkawoneka ngati ikuchepa.
Iwo anali nsanje ya anthu aku koleji. Sahil anali wodziwika bwino kunja kwa koleji komwe Maya anali wophunzira wophunzira. Sanali chibwenzi chake. Pa tsiku lobadwa la Maya la khumi ndi zisanu ndi zitatu, Sahil ndipo adakwatirana mwanzeru.
Nthawi imeneyo ndimaganiza nkhani yachikondi chawo zinthu za maloto a okonda. Iye anali ndi zaka khumi ndi zinayi ndipo iye anali wamkulu pang'ono pamene iwo anakhala awiri. Momwe adakumana, momwe zidayambira, Maya adakana kugawana nawo. Sahil, nayenso, anali ndi milomo yapafupi. Ndinamuvutitsa ndi mafunso anga okhudza masiku awo oyambirira. Nthawi ina ndinamuuza mokwiya kuti 'mdyerekezi ali mwatsatanetsatane.' Anaseka ndikuyankha kuti 'ziwanda zisamadziwe zambiri.' Ine ndikuganiza izo zokumbukira zokongola anali awo okha.
“Chikondi chikakuchititsani kukayikira za kufunika kwanu, si chikondi”
Patangotha mwezi umodzi womaliza maphunziro a Maya ndinalandira khadi londiitanira ku ukwati wawo wachibengali kunyumba ya makolo ake kumpoto kwa Kolkata. Iye ankawoneka wokongola komanso iye quintessential babu moshai.
awo tsiku loyamba laukwati zinachitika ndipo iwo anali atatu. 'Ndi mtsikana' anandiuza Maya, chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo cha mawu ake ovuta kuphonya. Iwo anamutcha iye Rini.
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Vuto linayamba
Nditalankhula nayenso pafoni, panali nkhawa - ngakhale kusimidwa - m'mawu ake. Mwamuna wake anali atachotsedwa ntchito ndipo ankafuna kupeza ntchito.
Mavuto anali kulowa paradiso….
Sahil atalephera kupeza ina, Maya adagwira ntchito yoyamba yomwe adapatsidwa. Anayamba kugwira ntchito yolandirira alendo pachipatala china chatsopano. M’mawa uliwonse ankamusiya mwana wawoyo kwa mayi ake n’kuthamangira kuntchito. Pambuyo pa ma hiccups oyambirira Maya adasinthika, kuti agwirizane naye ntchito ndi kusamalira nyumba yake m’mikhalidwe yovuta.
Kusaka ntchito kunali kuwononga ku Sahil. Titakumana pamalo odyera pachipatalapo anandiuza kuti: “Iye wayamba kuwawa kwambiri moti akufuna kuthawa ndi mowa. Sahil tsopano ankadalira ndalama za mkazi wake.
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Momwe nkhanzazo zidayambira
Malinga ndi iye, panalibe chochitika china chomwe chinayambitsa kutsika kwa moyo wawo waukwati. Zinayamba ndi mafunso amene ankafunsidwa akabwera mochedwa kuchokera kuntchito. Kuimba mlandu kunangozungulira zibwenzi kunja kwa banja. Ndalama zinasowa m'chikwama chake. Kukangana kunachulukirachulukira. Ndiyeno sizinangolekereredwa kumangopeka ndi kukangana. Mbama, nkhonya ndi mateche. Chikondi cha moyo wake chinali tsopano chomuzunza.
Nkhanza ndi akazi sizimangokhudza mabala. Maya sanazindikire kuti anali wozunzidwa nkhanza zogonana, mpaka dokotala wake wachikazi anakana kupereka chizindikiro chobiriwira chochotsa mimba. Aka kanali kachisanu ndi chimodzi ndipo thanzi lake linali pachiswe kwambiri. Patapita miyezi ingapo mwana wawo, Remo, anabadwa.
Ndinadabwa kuti n’chifukwa chiyani Maya, mayi wophunzira wa m’tauni, anasankha kulekerera mwamuna wankhanza. Nthawi zambiri ndinkamupempha kuti athetse vutolo. Amakhala wozemba za izi, kupereka zifukwa monga 'kusiya Sahil kungakhale kulakwa', 'ali m'maganizo ofooka', 'Ndidakali ndi ngodya yofewa', 'ana ....' Nthawi zina, akakhumudwa kwambiri, ankasowa chonena.
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Udzu womaliza
Sahil sanachire. Chizoloŵezi chake chakumwa chinakula, chiwawa chinawonjezeka.
Kenako panafika posweka...
Mnzake wa Sahil adabwera kudzamwa zakumwa. Atachoka pakati pausiku Sahil anatembenukira kwa Maya. Anamunyoza kuti, “Mnzanga wabwera kudzabwera kwa inu kuno, nonse muli ndi zochitika kumbuyo kwanga. Ndipo, “Wachigololoyu si mwana wanga. Monga zinalili kale nthawi zambiri, mawu achipongwe adatsatiridwa chiwawa chakuthupi.
Anamukokera ndi tsitsi lake kuchipinda chawo chogona, kumvumbitsira nkhonya, kung'amba zovala zake. Zizindikiro za lamba wofiyira zidamukopa pakhungu lake pomwe adayesetsa kuti adziteteze. Kenako, anadabwa kwambiri kuona Rini wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi atagwada pakona akulira mwakachetechete. Ataona mwana wake wamkazi Maya ali ndi mantha, anathawa m'chipindamo. Anadzitsekera kukhitchini. M’nyengo yotentha ya Meyi, anakhala kumeneko usiku wonse, akunjenjemera ndi zowawa, wamaliseche komanso wamanyazi. Ululu umene ankamva sunali wakuthupi chabe, zinkaoneka kuti moyo wake unali woyaka. Ndi kuwala koyamba kwa mbandakucha iye anafikira chigamulo.
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Chipinda chawo chogona chinali ndi zizindikiro za vuto la usiku. Saree yomwe anavala ku ntchito dzulo lake inali itagona pansi. Anadziphimba nalo, kunyamula mwana Remo, ndikumudzutsa Rini mwakachetechete. Patatha zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri kuchokera pamene adalumbira Maya adatuluka, akusiya nyumba yake ya maloto osokonezeka, osabwereranso.
Iye anandiuza kuti: “Ndinali ndi vuto la khalidwe lake lachilombo kwa nthawi yonse imene ndinali ndekha basi.” Mwana wanga wamkazi ataona kunyozedwa kwanga kunali komalizira, sindinkafuna kuti akule ndi zipsera.
Icho chinali chisankho chosintha moyo.
Zifukwa zake nzosamvetsetseka
Mnzanga ali ndi mwayi kupeza soulmate wina koma iye alibe mwayi kusindikiza ubwenzi. Mwalamulo akadali mkazi wa Sahil. Wakana kum’sudzula. "Ndatopa naye. Ndasiya zinthu momwe zilili. Inde, nthawi zina ndimafuna kukhazikika, ndikusangalala ndi moyo wapakhomo umene ndinkalakalaka. Rini amandimvetsa, mwina chifukwa waona kuvutika kwanga. Remo sakudziwa, anali wamng'ono kwambiri panthawiyo."
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Maganizo Final
Sikuti nkhani zonse zachikondi zimatha momwe timaganizira. Osati aliyense amene amamva ngati "Iyeyo" akuyenera kukhala. Koma ndikudziwa izi tsopano:
- Chikondi sichiyenera kukupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu wamng'ono.
- Chikondi chenicheni sichifuna kuti udzipereke.
- Munthu woyenera sangasinthe nthano yanu kukhala maloto owopsa
Akatswiri athu zingakuthandizeni kupeza zomveka, machiritso, ndi mphamvu kupita patsogolo.
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