Izimpawu eziyi-11 zokuthi Uthandana Nowesilisa Sigma

Ubonile indoda yakho ithatha umyalo futhi ibe umholi ezimeni eziningi. Uyazi ukuthi unesifiso sokuvelela kanye nolwazi lokufika lapho. Uyazi ukuthi ufunani futhi uyawenza njalo umsebenzi. Izinto zivele zihambe kahle uma ekhona, akunjalo? Ubonisa zonke izimfanelo zalokho okubizwa ngokuthi i-alpha male, kodwa uke wambona echitha sonke isikhathi sakhe esikhululekile eyedwa, into ayithanda ngempela ukuyenza. Ungabe uthandana nendoda ye-sigma, enye yezinhlobo zobuntu besilisa ezaziwa kakhulu?

Cabanga ngoJames Bond, uSteve Jobs, uKeanu Reeves. Kulezi zigaba ezakhiwe ngobudoda, amadoda angama-sigma awadingi ukuqinisekiswa komphakathi kunoma ubani futhi awathobeli ukubusa komphakathi kanye nezinkambiso zomphakathi. Ngaphambi kokuthi ucabange ukuthi uthandana nohlobo lukaJohn Wick, udinga ukuthola ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi ungomunye. Futhi sikumbozile.

Ake sembule yonke ingqimba yemfihlakalo ezungeze indoda ye-sigma futhi sibone ukuthi ingabe lesi sigaba sabantu besilisa sinokufaneleka ngethemba lokubaqonda kangcono. UNkulunkulu uyazi ukuthi ungasebenzisa lokho, uma ubheka ukuthi kunzima kangakanani ukuthenga lo mlingiswa oyinganekwane.

I-Socio-Sexual Hierarchy Ngu-Theodore Robert Beale

Ubani ongathandi ukuchazwa nokulinganiselwa ngokobulili bakhe kanye nezigaba zalo? UTheodore Robert Beale kanye nezigidi zakhe zemithombo yezokuxhumana nabantu abangohlangothi lwesokudla kanye nabalandeli bangempela, yilokho kanye. Kwadalwa ukuze kulethwe ukuhlukana kwezindima okwengeziwe kanye nokungazethembi ebudodeni bendabuko, ubuholi bezenhlalo nobulili bukaBeale bunuka isayensi mbumbulu ngendlela engcono kakhulu kanye nobudoda obunobuthi ebubini kakhulu.

Izinhlamvu zezinhlamvu zesiGreki ezingasoli zisetshenziselwe ukudala umehluko esimeni senhlalo sabesilisa ngokusekelwe emandleni, imali, ukubusa, namandla ocansi. Lokhu ukuhlelwa kwezinhlobo zabantu besilisa: Alphas, Betas, Deltas, Gammas, futhi okokugcina, ama-Omega. Ama-Sigmas aboniswa ekhona ngaphandle kwesakhiwo senhlalo esibonisa isidingo sabo sokuzimela kanye nokunganaki izimiso zomphakathi.

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Lolu hlelo lwama-archetypes luvame ukusetshenziswa ngabaculi abacoshayo ukuze bachazele amadoda ukuthi angathola kanjani izinsuku ngokuvumelana nezici zabo ezithile zobuntu. Ukuba yi-alpha wolf kuyakhuthazwa futhi ukubheka phezulu emadodeni alpha nakakhulu. Kodwa-ke, into iwukuthi, izimpisi azinawo ama-alpha abesilisa (noma abesifazane). Iphakethe labo elincane lempisi liqukethe abazali nezingane.

Izigaba uDavid Mech akhuluma ngazo kuthiyori yakhe yamaphakethe empisi ye-alpha eseyenziwe kudala azikho endle … noma kubantu. U-Mech uchithe isikhathi eside ezama ukuhlehlisa iphutha lakhe kodwa ithiyori ithathe impande yesiko emaphaketheni amadoda ayethathelwe amandla owesilisa we-alpha futhi efuna ukuziqhelelanisa namadoda ayengatholanga i-alpha noma i-sigma ngokwanele.

Ithiyori kaBeale inegalelo elikhulu ekunciphiseni ubudoda kanye nokungafani kwayo kube yimifanekiso yamadoda ahlonishwayo kuphela uma ethola imali, isimo senhlalo, kanye nobulili. Idumisa ubandlululo ngokobulili, ubuqhawe, ulaka, kanye nokukhiqiza okunemali kanye nezincazelo zempumelelo. Umphakathi we-LGBTQIA+ awunaso isikhala kulolu hlobo lobuholi olucatshangwayo, vele, futhi wonke amadoda, ngokusho kukaBeale, kumele abe ngabesilisa nabesifazane abalala nabo ukuze bafakazele ukubaluleka kwabo.

Iyini I-Sigma Male?

Ngakho-ke, ake sixoxe ngomunye wemikhiqizo engajulile yengqondo kaBeale: amadoda angama-sigma. Ubuza ukuthini uma ethi male sigma? Ngengqondo yabo ebukhali nokunaka imininingwane, la madoda awazenzi izinto ezingenamsebenzi futhi awaphili ngokuthula. Athanda indawo ethule. Ubuntu bawo bungase bungabonakali bunomsindo kakhulu noma bukhanga kakhulu uma ekude. Kodwa lapho usondela, uyabona ukuthi unezinto eziningi ezimhambelayo futhi unezimfanelo eziningi zendoda enhle.

Uyangena, ahole, enze umsebenzi, aqhubeke nendlela yakhe, aphile impilo yakhe. Ngeke umthole ephathini nabangani bakhe noma edakiwe efonela wonke umuntu osohlwini lwakhe lokuxhumana. Kungcono ahlale yedwa, azihlole, futhi azazi kangcono. Ukuzimela kanye nomqondo we-grindset yizici ezimbili ezinkulu zobuntu ezichaza umqondo wesilisa we-sigma. Abafana abaningi abancane, abahlatshwe umxhwele yilesi sihloko, bafuna kakhulu ukuthi bangaba kanjani owesilisa we-sigma.

Sigma male vs alpha male 

Ah, impikiswano endala ye-alpha-sigma. 'Indoda yesi-Sigma' isho ukuthi, uma ishiwo kalula, ifana namadoda e-alpha ahlala ethule. Esinye sezici zesilisa sesi-sigma ukuthi asidingi ukuqinisekiswa kwangaphandle okuqhubekayo futhi asizigqaji ngokunqoba kwaso njengoba ama-alpha engase akwenze. Nakuba amadoda e-alpha efuna ukuzibeka njengomholi weqembu, amadoda esi-sigma azosebenza ngobuhlakani kakhulu, kuyilapho esalokhu engabaholi abazalwa benjalo.

Bangamaphayona futhi bavukela imikhuba yezenhlalo. Abadingi ukuziqhayisa ngamakhono abo njengabesilisa be-alpha. Bathule kodwa benze ukuba khona kwabo kuzwakale. Kodwa ngenxa yokuthi bayakhohlisa, akusho ukuthi abazi ukuthi bazohlasela kanjani. Nali ithebula elincane elichaza amaphethini okusebenzelana komphakathi wenganekwane ye-sigma vs alpha personality type.

I-Alpha	Sigma
Extroverted	Wangenisa
Izama ukubusa abantu ngokwesabisa	Ubusa abantu ngobuqili ngaphandle kokusebenzisa amandla
Phezulu kwesigaba senhlalo	Ayibandakanyi kusigaba senhlalo
Isazi sendabuko	Rebel
Ephumayo futhi enomsindo	Ujabulela isikhathi uwedwa kakhulu

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Ukhiye Wezimpawu Zobuntu Besilisa Sigma 

Ubuntu besilisa be-sigma bungenye 'yokuqokwa' okulangazelelwa kakhulu esigabeni senganekwane somphakathi womhlaba wamadoda. Ukuze siqonde ukuthi kungani kunjalo, ake sibheke izici ezibalulekile zesilisa se-sigma:

• Unobuhlakani, unekhono, uhlakaniphile, ugcina ikhala lakhe etsheni lokugaya, futhi uyakwazi ukwenza izinto ngokushesha
• Indoda ye-sigma ayikuthandi ukuzinikela noma yini eyibophela endaweni eyodwa
• Uzimele futhi akathandi ukusebenzela omunye umuntu
• Wazisa indawo yakhe yomuntu siqu kanye nokukhula ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye emhlabeni, yingakho enomsebenzi omkhulu kanye nempumelelo yezezimali
• Unesifiso sokuvelela kodwa akakhulumi ngakho; ama-sigma abesilisa avame ukusebenza ngokuthula
• Ephakeme ekuhlakanipheni ngokomzwelo, akalokothi abheke ukuqinisekiswa komphakathi njengama-alphas, uzakhela eyakhe imibono mayelana nezindaba eziningi noma ngabe ziphikisana nezivumelwano.
• Umholi ozelwe, indoda ye-sigma akalokothi afise izindima zobuholi kodwa uvame ukuzithola esezikhundleni eziphezulu ngenxa yendlela esebenza ngayo, ulwazi lwakhe, kanye nobuqhawe bakhe obunamandla.
• Uphatha wonke umuntu ngokulinganayo futhi, kanjalo, uthandwa yiwo wonke umuntu nakuba ehlala ekudelile
• Abantu bayathandeka kuye yize bengathandi ukunakwa. Injalo i-charisma yabo ngokusobala
• Impisi eyedwa, isebenza kahle kakhulu uma iyodwa
• Kucatshangwa ukuthi unesizungu kodwa akunjalo, uvele ancamele inkampani yakhe
• Ngoba uyadinga imingcele enempilo ebudlelwaneni nasempilweni yakhe, uyayihlonipha imingcele yabanye abantu
• Uyakwazi ukuzimela futhi akathandi ukuthembela nakubangane bakhe
• Uhlala ezolile, eqoqekile, futhi ungumuntu oya kuye lapho izinto ziqala ukuwohloka
• Unqamula ejahe futhi akanaso isikhathi noma ukuthambekela kwemidlalo yengqondo. Idrama akuyona inhlanhla yakhe
• Uwakhetha ngokucophelela amazwi akhe futhi noma yini ayishoyo inesisindo
• Ngokusho kukaBeale, ukhetha ukuphuma esikhungweni sezenhlalo nezocansi futhi uphila ngemithetho yakhe yesilisa yesilisa.
• Lokhu kumenza abe yimfihlakalo, ahlubuke, abe nesiphithiphithi, futhi-ke, njengoba yonke into ibuyela ekuqomeni, zonke lezi zici zesilisa ze-sigma zimenza angakwazi ukuphikiswa kwabesifazane.

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Ngakho-ke, ucabanga ukuthi indoda othandana nayo noma oyichoboza kanzima inezinye zalezi zimpawu? Kodwa namanje awuqiniseki ukuthi uyindoda ye-sigma noma cha? Lokhu kuhlolwa kowesilisa we-sigma kungasiza.

• Ingabe uhlakaniphile?
• Ingabe ukhomba njengomuntu ongeyena umuntu?
• Ingabe ungumuntu ocabanga ngokweqile?
• Ingabe abantu bamthola engaqondakali?
• Ingabe ukhetha indawo yakhe siqu futhi ujabulele ukuba impisi yedwa?
• Angakwazi yini ukuhlala ezolile ngaphansi kwezimo ezicindezelayo?
• Ingabe uyazethemba?
• Ingabe uyayivukela izindinganiso zokuziphatha zomphakathi?
• Ingabe uyazethemba?

Uma impendulo yakho inguyebo eminingi yale mibuzo yokuhlolwa kwabesilisa be-sigma, khona-ke indoda yakho iyimpisi ye-sigma.

Ubuthakathaka bowesilisa we-sigma

Nakuba indoda ye-sigma ingase izwakale inhle kakhulu ukuba ibe yiqiniso, lolu hlobo lobuntu alunayo ingxenye yalo yobuthakathaka namaphutha. U-Beale wenze isiqiniseko sokuthi noma ngabe ama-archetypes akhe wesilisa angewona angempela, okungenani akekho ongasho ukuthi azizwa engokoqobo. Ngakho-ke nakhu ubuthakathaka obumbalwa kubuntu besilisa be-sigma:

• Amadoda angama-Sigma angaba mubi kwezothando: Akumangazi ukuthi nge-grindset evamile emaka i-sigma mindset yesilisa, bahlala bephakathi kokukhulisa izimali zabo namasethi wamakhono. Kuphakathi bafuna ukukushada ngokushesha noma abazizwa neze ulungele 'ukuhlala phansi'. Ngoba isikhathi sabo sodwa siyigugu kubo, ukuthandana nowesilisa we-sigma kunzima. Yingakho i-sigma wesilisa ebudlelwaneni ifaneleka kangcono kwabesifazane abaziqonda kahle izinto eziza kuqala kubo
• Abalungile ekuhlanganyeleni: Indlela yokuphila yabesilisa ye-Sigma injalo kangangokuthi abasasebenzi uma kuziwa ekusebenzelaneni okuyisisekelo komphakathi nokwakha ukuxhumana. Ngakho ngokuvamile abakhululekile futhi bathule eqenjini, bakhetha ukulalela. Lokhu kungabonakala njengokubandayo kubantu abafisa ukungaqondi uhlobo lobuntu babo
• Ubuntu besilisa be-Sigma abutholakali ngokomzwelo: Lokhu kwenza kube nzima kubo ukuthi baphole noma benze abangani abasha, noma bagcine ubudlelwano obukhona. Lokhu kudala ukungqubuzana ngoba abaphumeleli ngendlela abazizwa ngayo futhi bavame ukuphuthaza ezimeni ezidinga ukuthi babe yiso usengozini ngowesifazane
• Bangabafaki engozini: Nakuba lokhu kungase futhi kube amandla, ukuthatha izingozi kudinga indlela elinganiselayo. Njengoba lezi zinhlobo zongqondongqondo ezizimele zinganaki igunya kanye nezinkambiso zomphakathi, ngokuvamile zigcina sezikhathaza abasondelene nazo kuyilapho nazo zingena enkingeni.

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Kungani Abesifazane Bekhangwa Owesilisa We-Sigma?

Ayikho imibono emibili emhlabeni wamadoda aholwa yi-Beale ukuthi ama-sigmas aluhlobo lomuntu olungavamile, nokuthi impisi ye-sigma iyathandeka kakhulu. Kukhona okungaqondakali futhi okungalungile ngalawa ma-introverts abusayo. Njengolwandle oluzolile, azikho iziyaluyalu eziningi phezulu, kodwa amanzi azo ashona phansi. Angeke azilungisele izinto zakhe. Kodwa uzowenza umsebenzi ngaphandle kokuthi uthole ukusikisela ngawo. Uyayazi into ayifunayo futhi uyazi ukuthi angayithola kanjani. Futhi le ngxube enekhanda yemfihlakalo namandla ibhekwa njengenzima ukumelana nowesifazane.

Yize engumuntu oqavile oqavile, akafisi ukukulawula. Ukuhlolwa kokugcina kwe-sigma ukukala umona wakhe. I-sigma yeqiniso ngeke ibe nomona ngoba ukhulume ne-ex. Uyoba ukuvikela kini, kodwa hhayi impahla. Indlela yokuphila yesilisa ye-Sigma injalo kangangokuthi uyayihlonipha inkululeko yakhe futhi uzohlonipha neyakho. Ebudlelwaneni bothando, akadingi ukuqinisekiswa ngemizwa yakho ngaye. Uyayazi futhi uyakwazisa (yize engeke akutshele).

Ngaphezu kwakho konke, uzokuphatha njengomuntu olinganayo nawe, futhi ahloniphe imicabango yakho, imibono yakho, kanye nobuntu bakho. Yilokhu abesifazane abakufunayo ebudlelwaneni. Ukuthandwa nokuhlonishwa kanye nempisi eyodwa ye-sigma emnika lokho okuningi. Ngezansi kunezibonelo zabanye abantu abadumile be-sigma.

Abantu besilisa abadumile bempilo yangempela abangabomhlaba we-sigma:

• James Dean
• -Jimi Hendrix
• Bob Dylan
• Bruce Lee
• Keanu Reeves
• Quentin Tarantino

Abantu besilisa abaqanjiwe be-sigma:

• UJohn Snow
• John Wick
• UBruce Wayne (uBatman)
• Tyrion Lannister
• u-James Bond

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Wazi Kanjani Ukuthi Uthandana Nowesilisa Sigma?

Kungaba nzima ukusho ukuthi umlingani wakho unobuntu besilisa be-sigma. Isihogo, kungenzeka ukuthi akazazi yena. Kusenezimpawu zokuxoxela ezifakazela ukuthi empeleni uthandana nowesilisa we-sigma. Uma izici ezilandelayo ze-sigma zesilisa zisebenza kumuntu wakho, ngokuvamile kukholakala ukuthi unaye umgcini:

1. Uthola induduzo lapho eyedwa

Ungaziniki isikhathi sakhe eyedwa ebudlelwaneni benu. “Induduzo” lapha isho ukuthi lapho enabanye, udlula ohlotsheni oluthile lokucindezeleka, bese ethola ukuthula lapho eyedwa. Umugqa othi “amadoda angama-sigma angamazidwa” ungaba yiqiniso kubantu abaningi, ikakhulukazi i-alpha, ebuka impilo yabo ngombono wangaphandle (futhi nokudida kakhulu impilo ye-sigma).

Esinye sezici zesilisa se-sigma ukuthi asidingi izilaleli ukuze sizizwe siqinisekisiwe lapho senza okuthile okuwusizo noma sivame ukutholakala singashadile ngenjabulo esikhundleni sokufuna izindawo zokuphumula ukuze sithole usuku. Sikhetha ukusebenza sodwa, silandela imithetho yaso, futhi siyajabula nokuba senkampanini yaso. Uma sinikezwa ithuba lokukhetha phakathi kokuya ephathini noma ukuhlala nawe, cishe uzokhetha elokugcina. Le mpungushe ye-sigma iyayithanda indawo yaso.

2. Akayona lenhlobo enomona

Ukusebenzelana nesoka elinomona kungaba nzima. Ukungazethembi abakuvezayo ngomona wabo kungaba yinto engakhangi futhi empeleni, kuyakhathaza futhi. Futhi kungani amadoda angama-sigma ekhanga? Ngoba awukaze uqaphele lokhu kuziphatha endodeni yakho ehlakaniphile ngokomzwelo. Lokhu kungaba umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwabesilisa abangama-sigma nabesilisa abangama-alpha. I-alpha ingathukuthela noma ivuselelwe ngokushesha. Kodwa owokuqala angathatha isinyathelo emuva futhi acabange ngokunengqondo.

Ngokuchazwa kowesilisa we-sigma, ngeke umbone ebuza ukuthenjwa kwakho noma abe nomona ngenkampani oyigcinayo. Lokho kungenxa yokuthi ubuntu besilisa be-sigma bunokholo ekuthatheni izinqumo kanye nohlobo lowesifazane alukhethayo ebudlelwaneni bothando. Uyawethemba ukwahlulela kwakhe futhi uyazi ukuthi akasoze amkhaphela. Njengoba la madoda edinga isikhala ebudlelwaneni, anikeza isikhala esifanayo kubalingani babo.

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3. Ufuna into ebucayi kusukela ekuqaleni

Leyo yingqondo yomuntu wesilisa we-sigma. Uzakwenu akazange asondele kuwe ku-Tinder noma kunoma yiluphi olunye uhlelo lokusebenza lokuqomisana, ebuza ukuthi “ungeke yini wenze okuthile okungajwayelekile”. Bakhetha ubudlelwano obuzinzile, obuhlala njalo, nobokwethembeka esikhundleni sokuhlangana. Uma uthandana nowesilisa we-sigma, cishe, ukutshele ukuthi ufuna okuthile okubalulekile. Ngakho-ke, yize amadoda e-sigma engathola uthando olukhohlisayo, afuna ukungaguquguquki nokusondelana.

Uma ufuna ngempela ukwenza indoda yesigma ithandane nawe, thatha lokhu ngokungathi sína ngoba ayihlekisi. Abafuni ukuqomisana ngokocansi abangaqhosha ngakho kamuva. Ngokuphambene nalokho, bayabahlonipha abesifazane futhi bavame ukwenza konke okusemandleni abo ukuze babonakale behloniphekile ngangokunokwenzeka. Bayazisa ubuhlobo obuhle futhi bafuna ukuthandana nowesifazane ozimele . Uma bengamtholi umuntu ofana nabo, kulungile futhi ukulinda umuntu ofanele ukuthi eze.

4. Ukuhlalisana akuyona inhlanhla yakhe

I-sigma wolf, okusho umuntu ochitha sonke isikhathi sakhe eyedwa. Konke leso sikhathi sodwa kuholela ekutheni bangabi namakhono angcono kakhulu okuxhumana nabantu. Uma emcimbini, umshiye nomuntu angamazi, maningi amathuba okuthi ubuyele kuye umile wedwa, usuxoshe noma iyiphi inkampani. Unabangane abambalwa abaseduze abakhethiwe, kodwa lokho kuwukuzihlanganisa okuningi ngendlela akwazi ngayo.

Ama-Sigmas angasebenzisa isifundo noma ezimbili ekuhlikihleni izindololwane nanoma ubani. Isizathu sokuthi abahambisani nezinhlaka zomphakathi ezidlangile wukuthi abakwazi ukukhuluma nakancane. Ngakho uma umyisa kubazali bakho, qiniseka ukuthi uyakhuluma.

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5. Indoda ye-sigma izazi kakhulu

Izici ezivamile zesilisa se-sigma ukuthi uyazethemba, uyazethemba, futhi uzazi kahle kakhulu. Kunzima ukubona ukuthi ubengeke akwenze kanjani lokho, uma sibheka indlela achitha ngayo isikhathi sakhe esiningi eyedwa ( indawo encane yomuntu siqu ayisoze yalimaza muntu). Unesimiso asithandayo ukusilandela, kungaba ngemisebenzi yokuzijabulisa noma yomsebenzi wakhe.

La madoda acabanga ngazo zonke izimo ezingenzeka nokuthi angabhekana kanjani nazo. Uma izinto zingahambi kahle, ngeke ubathole bethi, “Ngikutshelile”, kunalokho uzobathola ngokushesha becabanga ngesixazululo. Lokhu kungaba usizo ezingxabanweni obhekana nazo ebudlelwaneni bakho.

6 Angase angayinaki imithetho yezwe

Njengoba ephila impilo yakhe ngemithetho yakhe, ungase umthole engayithandi eminye yemithetho eyamukelwa umphakathi eminyakeni edlule. Cha, ngeke antshontshe ibhange, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi uke wambona egxuma amalambu ambalwa abomvu. Ngakho-ke uma ungumlandeli womthetho, khona-ke ukuba sebudlelwaneni nowesilisa we-sigma kungase kubonise inselele kuwe.

Akuveli ngisho esimweni sengqondo sokuhlubuka, umuzwa nje onamandla wokuqhosha azohlala ebambelele kuwo. Lokhu kuziphatha okukhathazayo kungenza ama-sigma abesilisa akhange kwabesifazane kodwa futhi kufakazela ukuthi uvame ukucabanga ukuthi unguMnu. Know-It-All.

7. Wenza ukuba khona kwakhe kuzwakale

Yini eyenza indoda yesigma ibe yinhle? Ikhono layo elingokwemvelo lokuba negumbi elingena kulo. Kungaba semsebenzini noma embuthanweni wokuzijabulisa, akudingeki ukuthi yenze okuningi ukuze izwakale ikhona. Njengoba ehlala ethembekile kuye, ngeke akhulume kakhulu noma adonsele ukunaka. Kodwa abantu ngokungangabazeki bayakwazisa ukuphawula kwakhe futhi bafuna isiqondiso sakhe noma nini lapho kudingeka, njengoba evame ukuba yindoda ethembekile kakhulu.

Enye yezimpawu zabesilisa be-sigma ukuthi bangabaholi bemvelo. Benza isiqiniseko sokuthi yonke into isebenza ngendlela efanele ngaphandle kokusebenzisa kabi amandla abanawo njengomholi. Njengoba bengozibuthe bazo zonke izinhlobo zabantu, zama ukungavikeleki lapho u-boo wakho ezungezwe abanye besifazane abalwela ukunakwa kwakhe.

8. Akathandi ukuthatha ama-oda

Kungaba kusuka kumuntu ophakeme, noma cishe noma ubani. La madoda acabanga ukuthi akwazi ukwenza kahle ibhizinisi lawo. Ungavalelisa ngeziyalo ezifika nanoma yini osanda kuyithenga, akakaze ayibheke. Ngenxa yokungathandi uma betshelwa ukuthi benzeni, bancamela ukuzimela.

Isiqu esithi 'impisi eyodwa' abasinikwayo sivela ekufiseni kwabo ukusebenza bodwa. Isidingo sokuba yisikhulu sabo kanye nokuba nesifiso sokuthola ikusasa nakho kungenye yezizathu ezenza bakhange kangaka. Ngakho-ke ukuze wenze indoda ye-sigma ithandane, ungayeki ukuyilawula, nanini. Lokho kuzoyixosha kuwe. Uma lokhu kuphumela ekubeni ingakhiphi udoti lapho uyitshela, bhekana nesimo ngobuhlakani ukuze iqaphele ukuthi ayisizi ngemisebenzi yasekhaya futhi ilungise inkambo.

9. Akayena owezinkulumo

Okusho ukuthi, uqonda ngqo ephuzwini. Uma uxoxa naye, uzoqaphela ukuthi wonke amagama aphuma emlonyeni wakhe anokubaluleka nencazelo. Akashayi ihlathi. Angenza ukuthi ukuxhumana ebuhlotsheni bakho kube lula njengoba engeke ayeke ukusikisela abanye abangase bawakhethe. Kunalokho, uzokutshela ngqo ebusweni bakho ukuthi yini emhluphayo.

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10. Unzima ukuqonda

Ngesikhathi usaqala ukumazi, kungenzeka ukuthi kwakubonakala sengathi wayengenasithakazelo kuwe ngenxa yokungafuni kwakhe ukukuvulekela. Mhlawumbe wawudidekile ngalokho akufunayo kuwe . Amadoda aseSigma anemfihlo efihliwe ewazungezile, awavamile ukuvumela abantu ukuthi babuke impilo yabo.

Kungenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi bangama-sigma futhi kodwa ohlangothini oluhle (kubo), lokhu kungase kube yilokho okwenza ama-sigma abesilisa athandeke. Abesifazane bavame ukuzizwa bekhangwa othile onomoya oyimfihlakalo futhi lo mfana angaba yilokho kanye. Kunzima ukumfunda ngakho kuzomele usebenze kanzima ukuze uqonde ukuthi yini efufusayo engqondweni yakhe.

11. Wonke umuntu uyalingana nesigma sowesilisa

Akukho ubandlululo engqondweni yakhe ngabantu axhumana nabo. Akanandaba ukuthi ukhuluma ne-CEO noma nomfundi oqeqeshwayo. Uzoba yilowo nalowo, ongakhulumi kakhulu. Ukholelwa ekubeni namandla anempilo . Emehlweni akhe, wonke umuntu uyalingana. Nakuba abanye bengase bavumelane nokunakekela abantu abadala emsebenzini, ngeke abe nezisusa ezicashile lapho ekhuluma nothile. Uma ekhuluma nothile lokho kuyiqiniso.

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Ubuntu bempisi yodwa kuthiwa buhle kakhulu. Futhi ngokuya ngendlela izici zakhe zomlingiswa, akunzima ukubona ukuthi yini eyenza indoda ye-sigma ithandeke. Ngakho-ke, akekho ozokusola uma uwa ngenxa eyodwa. Uma sekushiwo, ubudlelwano naye ngeke bukhululeke ezinseleleni zabo. Kukhona ezinye izinto okudingeka uzikhumbule lapho uthandana nowesilisa we-sigma.

1. Mnike isikhala

Uhlobo luni lowesifazane olukhangwa yindoda yesigma? Umuntu oqonda imingcele yakhe kanye nesidingo sesikhala. Indoda yakho yesigma iyimpisi eyedwa futhi iyazonda ukuthi indawo yayo yomuntu siqu ihlaselwe. Ngakho-ke, uma unesitayela esingavikelekile , kuzodingeka usebenzele ekungazethembi kwakho. Indoda yakho injengesihlabathi, lapho uzama ukuyibamba ngokuqinile, yilapho ithambekela khona ukunyamalala.

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2. Zimele

Indoda yakho izimele kakhulu, futhi ilindele okufanayo kowesifazane wayo. Owesifazane owaziyo ingqondo yakhe futhi ongesabi ukuveza umbono wakhe, owaziyo nokuzinakekela, uyathandeka kakhulu kuye. Ufuna owesifazane olingana naye. Ayikho intombi enakekelayo kulo mfana.

3.Ungadlali imidlalo yengqondo

Uhlakaniphile futhi uyashesha ezinyaweni zakhe futhi uthanda owesifazane ohlakaniphile futhi. Akanaso isikhathi semidlalo yengqondo. Impisi yodwa ithembekile ngemizwa yayo. Uma ekutshela ukuthi uyakuthanda usuke esho lokho. Ufuna nowesifazane wakhe amphathe ngendlela efanayo. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungamkhohlisa ngokudlala kushisa nokubanda, cabanga futhi. Uzokuwisa njengezambane elishisayo futhi angaphinde abheke emuva.

4. Yiba nesithakazelo ezinhlelweni zakhe ezinkulu

Ama-Sigmas athanda ukuhlela i-BIG ngekusasa. Bahlezi besohlwini futhi banamaphrojekthi ayishumi kanye nezinhlelo zezimali emoyeni ngesikhathi esisodwa. Umlingani wakho angazizwa esekelwe ngempela uma unesithakazelo kukho konke akwenzayo, ezifisweni zakhe, nasemakhonweni amasha aqhubeka ezuza.

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5. Ungamphoqi ukuthi ahlangane nabantu

Yebo, uthandana nomuntu othanda ukuhlala yedwa futhi abantu abathanda ukuhlala yedwa bahle kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, hlobo luni lowesifazane olukhangwa yindoda yesigma? Yilowo omamukela ngendlela amthanda ngayo. Ungaphikeleli ukumyisa ephathini noma embuthanweni womndeni lapho engathanda ukuba kwikhompyutha yakhe noma ephethe incwadi esandleni sakhe.

Ingabe uzibona ngalezi zimpawu futhi ubone abaningi kumlingani wakho? Halala, usuzitholele unozinti. U-Beale uzoziqhenya.

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