Nā, e pai ana koe ki tētahi kōtiro. Ka pai! Engari kāore tonu koe i te tino mōhio mēnā he rite tonu ōna whakaaro, ā, kei te whakaaro koe, "Me pēhea koe e mōhio ai kei te pai tētahi kōtiro ki a koe?" Āe, he tohu ēnei hei tirotiro māu. Ko ngā titiro whakama, ko ngā mahi whakahihi, me te menemene nui rawa, he torutoru noa iho ēnei. Hei mōhio mēnā kei te aroha ia ki a koe, ka tukuna atu e mātou ki a koe ngā tohu e 50 e pai ana tētahi kōtiro ki a koe.
I ētahi wā, he tohu mārama kei te pai tetahi kōtiro ki a koe; i ētahi wā he tohu kei te pai ia ki a koe. Mēnā ko koe tētahi o te hunga kāore e taea te whakatau i tētahi o ngā āhuatanga, he tātaritanga kei a mātou hei tirotiro māu.
50 Ngā Tohu e Pai Ana Te Kōtiro Ki A Koe
Ripanga o Ihirangi
Whakarongo mai, tera tonu ngā tohu e pai ana tētahi kōtiro ki a koe. Tērā pea he mea e kōrerotia ana e ia i te wā tuatahi o te rā , he mea rānei e whakaatu ana i tana whanonga i a ia e noho tahi ana me koe (tēnā te hurihanga o te makawe me te ngau o ōna ngutu). Tērā pea ka tukua noatia e ia, ka tukuna rānei mā te kore mōhio.
He maha ngā huarahi hei mōhio kei te hiahia tetahi kōtiro ki a koe, engari me aro atu koe. Kāore ia e kata nui ana nā te mea ko koe te tāne tino kata o te ao, engari kei te ngana ia ki te hopu i tō aro. Ina neke atu ngā karere kuputuhi i te tohatoha meme anake, ā, ka neke atu ki te kōrero mō ngā ngoikoretanga, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu mārama e pai ana te kōtiro ki a koe i runga i te karere kuputuhi.
E mārama ana mātou, ahakoa kei te titiro whakamuri mai ngā tohu ngaro e pai ana te kotiro ki a koe, he ngāwari noa te titiro atu ki tua atu i aua tohu, ina koa kāore koe e mōhio he aha te mea hei rapu. Nō reira, ki te mea kei te whakaaro tonu koe me pēhea koe e mōhio ai kei te hiahia te kotiro ki a koe, kei a mātou tō tautoko. Anei ngā tohu e 50 e pai ana te kotiro ki a koe.
1. Te piko ki roto
Āe, ko te koroua e piko ana! Ehara i te mea ko ngā tāne anake e mahi ana i tēnei, e mōhio ana koe. Ina kōrero kōrua ko tētahi kōtiro, ki te kite koe i a ia e piko ana ki te whakarongo ki a koe, tera pea he nui tōna aroha ki a koe. He tika, tika? He aha rawa ia e piko ana ki a koe mēnā ka panaia e koe ia? Ka piko ngā kōtiro ina aro nui rātou ki tētahi kōrero pai, me te tangata kei mua i a rātou. Ko tētahi o ngā tohu reo tinana e pai ana tētahi kōtiro ki a koe.
He huarahi tēnei hei whakaatu i tōna aroha ki a koe, hei tohu hoki i tōna aro nui ki tāu e kōrero nei. Ko tētahi o ngā tohu mārama tēnei e hiahia ana ia ki a koe.
2. Te nui o te menemene
Tērā pea ka nui te ngau o ngā niho o ngā kōtiro i a koe, ehara i te tohu pai. Engari ki te nui tana menemene, tera pea tētahi o ngā tohu tōmua e pai ana te kōtiro ki a koe. He menemene huna pea i a ia e mōhio ana he motuhake koe. He hihi mārama whānui rānei nā te mea e harikoa ana ia ki te noho tahi me koe.
Ko tana ataata he tohu kei te tino harikoa ia, ā, ko koe te take o tōna harikoa. Me mihi nui ki a koe, nā te mea e whakahīhī ana tātou ngā wāhine ki te uaua ki te whakamanawareka i a tātou anō.
3. He paraihe i te pakihiwi
Me pēhea te mōhio mēnā kei te pai tētahi kōtiro ki a koe? Ko tētahi o ngā tohu e kitea ana e pai ana tētahi kōtiro ki a koe engari kāore e kitea i te nuinga o te wā, ko tana papaki i tō ringa, i tō pakihiwi rānei. Ngāna kia mōhio mēnā kei te pā mārie tonu ia ki tō ringa, kei te mirimiri rānei i tō pakihiwi i a ia e kōrero ana. Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu ngaro e pai ana tētahi kōtiro ki a koe, nō reira kaua e warewarehia.
Ka mahi noa ngā kōtiro i tēnei ina pai rātou, ā, ina piripono ki tētahi atu tangata. He nui atu te tikanga o te pa atu o tōna ringa ki tō pakihiwi i tō whakaaro!
4. Ka tiaho ōna kanohi ina kōrero koe
Ehara i te mea ka pupuhi ia i te uira mai i ōna kanohi pērā i te Thor wahine (ahakoa he aha te rawe o tēnā?). Ina kei te taha koe o tētahi kōtiro, ā, ka tiaho ōna kanohi ina rongo ia i a koe e kōrero ana, kaua e whakaaroaro. Ko ngā kanohi te matapihi ki te wairua, ā, ki te mea kei te takaro ia ki ngā kanohi , tera pea he hiahia tāna ki a koe.
Ka whakaatu noa te kōtiro i tōna hiahia mā ōna kanohi ina puta mai taua hiahia i roto i tōna ngākau. Me pēhea te mōhio kei te hiahia te kōtiro ki a koe? Tukua ōna kanohi kia kōrero mai.
5. Ka whakautu tonu ia ki ō karere
Ko tētahi o ngā tohu e pai ana te kōtiro ki a koe mā te tuku karere kuputuhi ko te tere o tana whakautu ki ō karere. Ko te tikanga tēnei e pai ana ia ki te kōrero ki a koe, ā, e hiahia ana hoki ki te pānui me te whakautu ki ō karere. Tērā pea ka tuku karere kuputuhi takirua ia hei whakaatu i tōna hiahia nui ki a koe.
He reo aroha anō te tuku karere kuputuhi, nō reira me whakaaro koe he tohu tēnei e pai ana ia ki a koe. Mā te whakautu wawe me te hihiri, ko te tikanga kei te hiahia ia ki te kōrero ki a koe, ā, tera pea ka haere tonu tēnei mahi.
6. He maha ana waea atu ki a koe
He ao tuku karere kuputuhi tēnei, nō reira, ki te pai tētahi kōtiro ki te waea atu ki a koe, tera pea e hiahia ana ia kia nui atu i te noho hoa noa iho ki a koe. Ko te kōrero ki te tangata kotahi e waea mai ana i ia rā, me te ngana ki te whakaatu i te aroha i runga waea ka taea anake ina tino hiahia ana koe ki tētahi atu.
I kōrero mai tētahi hoa ki ahau, i a ia e ako ana, ka waea atu ia ki tētahi tama i pai ki a ia i ia rā, tata ki te kōrero noa, kia rongo ai i tōna reo. Nō reira, ki te rapu tohu koe e pai ana tētahi kōtiro ki a koe i te kura, he tohu pai te waea auau. Ki te pai ia ki te waea atu ki a koe, ki te whakarongo ki tō rā, he tino hiahia ia ki a koe.
7. Ka mihi ia ki ō kākahu
Kei te hiahia koe ki ngā tohu e pai ana ia ki a koe? He tino miharo te kotiro ki te tama e kakahu ana i ngā kākahu e rite ana ki tōna hiahia. Ki te pai ia ki ō kākahu, ka tino kōrero anō ia mō taua mea.
Kāore te kotiro e kōrero ana i ngā kupu reka ki ngā tāne katoa e whakaaro ana ia he ātaahua. Tērā pea he maha ngā mea e kitea ana e ia he ātaahua, engari ka mihi noa ia ki te tangata nāna i tahae tōna ngākau. Nō reira, ki te mea kei te kōrero ia ki a koe mō tō ātaahua i roto i tō tīhāte Batman, kia māia koe, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu e pai ana ia ki a koe.
Pānui e pā ana: 30 Ngā mihi mō ngā tāne e hari ai rātou
8. Ka whakamātau ia i ngā mea e pai ana ki a koe
Ko te kotiro e aro nui ana ki ō hiahia, he kotiro kua rite ki te noho hei hoa mōu. Ko tētahi o ngā tohu 50 e pai ana te kotiro ki a koe, ko te hiahia ki te whakamātau me te mārama ki ngā mea hou māu. Tērā pea ka uru atu ia ki ō hiahia hei whakaaro mō te rā , pērā i te piki toka, te haere rānei ki te whare tapere.
Ki a Eliza rāua ko Andrew, he ngaru. Kāore, ehara i te ngaru i te tukutuku, he ngaru tūturu. I wehi a Eliza i te ngaru, engari he pai ki a Andrew. Nō reira, ka whakakaha ia i tōna maia, ka whakaae ki te haere tahi me ia. I taea e ia te tū tika i runga i te papa ngaru. Mō te 30 hēkona pea. Engari, ko te whakaaro te mea nui.
Kāore e hiahiatia he ngaru; ahakoa he kaitākaro kitā koe, ka hiahia pea te kōtiro e pai ana ki a koe ki te whakarongo ki a koe e tākaro ana, ki te pātai atu rānei mō ō hiahia puoro. He huarahi tēnei hei whakatata atu ki a koe, ā, ko tētahi o ngā tohu hinengaro e pai ana te kōtiro ki a koe.
9. Ka tuku kōrero ia mōu i runga i ana pāpāho pāpori
Ki te pai tētahi kōtiro ki te whakaatu i a koe i runga i ana whāngai pāpāho pāpori me ana kōrero, he mārama ake taua tohu i tō whakaaro. Tērā pea ka ngana ia ki te mahi i ngā mahi a ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori.
Ka āta whiriwhiria e ngā kōtiro ngā tāne e tohaina ana e rātou ki tā rātou whāngai. Ko te tikanga ka tukuna noa e rātou he kōrero mō ngā tāne e arohaina ana e rātou, e tino tata ana rānei ki a rātou. Nō reira, ki te puta koe ki ana kōrero Instagram, kia harikoa koe. He mea pai ki a ia māu!
10. E hiahia ana ia ki te karanga i a koe ki konei
He āhua whakahihiri, he āhua whakamataku hoki tēnei. Ko tētahi o ngā tohu e pai ana te kōtiro ki a koe engari e huna ana i a ia, ko te waea tonu mai ki a koe me te kī he 'noho noa iho'. E mārama ana kei te hiahia ia ki te whakapau i te wā ki a koe me ngā huarahi piripono ake. Ā, ko te tikanga o te piripono, ko te hiahia pea ia kia kite koe i a ia i tōna ake wāhi, i te mea rānei e hiahia ana ia kia tata atu koe ki a ia. Kaua e whakapae!
Ko tōna kāinga tōna wāhi whaiaro, ā, ki te mea kei te karanga ia i a koe ki reira, tera pea e hiahia ana ia ki te whakapai ake i ngā mea ki a koe anō hoki. He tohu tino pai tēnei kei te huna ia i a koe, nō reira me haere!
11. E mōhio ana koe ki ngā mea katoa mō tōna whānau
Ki te kōrero puku tetahi kōtiro mō tōna whānau ki a koe, he mārama kei te hanga whakawhirinaki ia i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga ki a koe. Kāore te katoa e tuwhera ana ki te kōrero mō rātou me ō rātou takenga mai.
Ki te mōhio koe ki ngā kōrero mō ōna mātua, mō ōna tuākana, tuākana, tae atu ki ōna hoa tawhiti – he tino pai ki a ia te whakapuaki i ōna whakaaro me ōna kare ā-roto ki a koe. Kāore ngā mea ngaro o te whānau e whakapuakina ki te katoa, nō reira, ki te mea kei te tuku kōrero pakiwaitara ia mō te whānau, he tino motuhake koe.
12. Ka whakaarohia e ia ō whiringa
"He pai te āhua o tēnei kākahu ki ahau?" "Me hoatu rānei e au tēnei koha ki a Valerie, kāore rānei?" Ki te pātai mai tētahi kōtiro i ēnei pātai, e pai ana ia ki te mōhio ki tāu i whiriwhiri ai, ā, e whakawhirinaki ana ki a koe kia whakaae tonu ai. Ki te tuku karere kuputuhi atu ia mō ōna kākahu i mua i ia pāti e haere atu ana ia, ki te kōrero rānei i ngā mea katoa e mahia ana e ia māu, e tino aroha ana ia ki a koe. Kia whai whakaaro ki ō whakaaro. Kei te pātai mai ia nā te mea he mea nui koe, nō reira kaua e kī atu ki a ia ehara te kikorangi i tōna tae.
13. He mea nui ō whakaaro ki a ia
Tērā pea he rerekē ō whakaaro mō ngā mea maha. He kaiwhenua pea koe, ā, kāore pea ia. Tērā pea he rerekē ō whakaaro tōrangapū.
Ki te kore ēnei mea e arai i tana whakaute i a koe, tera pea e pai ana ia ki a koe. Ina nui te pai o te kotiro ki a koe, ā, ka wareware ia ki ngā mea nui ki a ia, engari he rerekē i a koe, ko tētahi o ngā tohu tēnei e hiahia ana ia hei hoa wahine māu.
Tērā pea ka tautohetohe kōrua, ā, he mea pai tēnā, engari ki te mea e maioha ana ia ki ō kōrua rerekētanga, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu mārama e hiahia ana ia ki a koe.
14. Ka titiro tika atu ia ki ō kanohi
Ko te titiro kanohi te mea nui. Ko te kotiro e māia ana ki tana hiahia, ā, kāore e mataku ki te whakaatu i tēnā, ka titiro hōhonu atu ki ō kanohi. I a koe e kōrero ana, e noho puku ana rānei, ki te titiro tika mai te kotiro ki a koe me te kore e whakama, e mōhio rānei, he tohu mārama tēnā e pai ana ia ki a koe. Titiro whakamuri, ataata mai, ā, mārire pea te tango i te makawe i tōna mata. Ka riro ia māu.
Pānui e pā ana: 25 Ngā Tohu e Hiahia ana te Kōtiro ki a Koe
15. He roa te wā o ō rā
Ka whakaroa ngā kōtiro i ngā wā whakatā, ā, ka noho tahi rātou me ngā tāne ina whakaaro rātou he pai ki a rātou te mahi. Ki te kore tetahi e pai ki a koe, e kore rawa rātou e kite i ngā take hei moumou taima māu.
Ki te pai tētahi kōtiro ki te noho tahi me koe, ka roa ake ō kōrua wā ki a ia i ētahi atu. He mārama kei te pai ia ki te noho tahi me koe, ā, koinei te huarahi e mōhio ai kei te pai tētahi kōtiro ki a koe.
16. Tērā pea ka hae ia ki ō hoa wahine kē atu
Ki te kore e pai te āhua o tētahi kōtiro ina karapotia koe e ētahi atu kōtiro, he mārama kei te hae ia i roto i tēnei whanaungatanga kei te pū ake. Ahakoa te āhua ohorere, te riri rānei o tētahi kōtiro ina whakahuatia e koe tētahi atu kōtiro ki a ia, he mārama kei te koropupū tōna toto i te whakarongo noa ki te ingoa o tētahi atu kōtiro. Kia tūpato, e hoa, he hiahia tōna ki a koe! He tohu hinengaro te hae e pai ana tētahi kōtiro ki a koe.
17. E hiahia ana ia ki te tūtaki ki ō hoa
Ki te hiahia tētahi kōtiro ki te mōhio atu mō tō ao me tō tuakiri, ka tūtohu pea ia kia tono atu koe kia tūtaki ki ō hoa. He wāhanga nui rātou o tō ao, ā, ka hiahia ia ki te kite ko wai koe i tō taha.
E hiahia ana tēnei kōtiro ki te whakauru atu i a ia ki roto i tō koiora, ki te whai wāhi atu ki tō mahinga o ia rā, me te mōhio ki ō momo hoa katoa. Nō reira, haere tonu. Whakaritea he hui me tō teina.
18. Ka tunu kai māu
He mea motuhake te tunu kai mā tētahi, ā, kāore te tangata e mahi i tēnei mō tētahi anake. Ki te manaaki tētahi kōtiro i a koe, ā, ka tunu kai māu, e hiahia ana ia kia miharo koe. Ko taua momo mahi he mea motuhake mā te hunga e tino pai ana ki a koe. Inaianei, ahakoa ehara ia i te kai tunu kai reka, engari kati te kōrero, ka kai tonu. Ki te kore, me tuku atu kia tunu tahi tāua i te wā e whai ake nei.
19. Te mitimiti i ōna ngutu
Ko tētahi o ngā tohu e pai ana te kotiro ki a koe, ā, e hiahia ana ia ki te whakaatu, ko te mitimiti i ōna ngutu i mua i a koe. Tērā pea he tohu tēnei kua aro nui koe ki a ia, ā, e tino hiahia ana ki a koe.
Koinei tētahi o ngā mahi whakahihiri a ngā wāhine e whakaoho ana i te hiahia o ngā tāne . Mā te whakaatu ā-kore i tōna hiahia, koinei tana tohu kia whakahokia atu e koe te whanonga whakaipoipo. Ko te mitimiti i ngā ngutu tētahi o ngā tohu reo tinana e pai ana te kotiro ki a koe. Me whakahoki atu te atawhai.
20. He pai ki a ia te whakatoi i a koe
Ki te pai te kōtiro ki te takaro ki a koe, ki te kukume i tō waewae, ehara i te mea he mea whakangahau noa iho tāna e mahi nei. Ko tētahi tēnei o ngā tohu e pai puku ana te kōtiro ki a koe.
Ko tētahi o ngā huarahi rerekē, ā-korekore hoki e whakaatu ai ngā kōtiro i te aroha, ko te wā e pai ana rātou ki te whakatoi i tētahi atu tangata, me te whakapataritari i ngā tama tāne . Nō reira, ki te mea kei te kata ia, kei te mirimiri i ō makawe, kei te tawai hoki ki a koe, kei te pupuri ia i ōna kare ā-roto mōu i tua atu i te whakahoahoa. Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu tōmua e pai ana te kōtiro ki a koe, nō reira kia mau ki tōna āhua.
21. Ka kata ia ki ngā mea katoa e kōrerotia ana e koe
Whakakape: Ki te kata tetahi kōtiro ki ngā mea katoa e kōrerohia ana e koe, ehara i te mea me whakarērea e koe tō mahi o ia rā, ka haere ki te mahi pukuhohe tū. Ahakoa he kōrero wairangi rawa atu āu, ka kata noa atu tetahi kōtiro e pai ana ki a koe me te mea ko koe te Atua o te pukuhohe.
Koinei tana huarahi ki te whakaatu ki a koe e pai ana ia ki a koe, ā, ka kitea koe e ia he katakata ahakoa kāore tetahi atu e pena ana. Kia tūpato, ina noho kōrua i roto i tētahi hononga mō tētahi wā, tērā pea kāore ia e kata nui. Engari i nāianei, he tohu tēnei e pai ana tētahi kōtiro ki a koe, nō reira me kōrero tonu i ō katakata kino rawa atu.
Pānui e pā ana: He aha te wairua whakakatakata maroke? Te mātauranga me te whakakatakata me te whakatoi
22. Ka maumahara ia ki ngā mea iti
Ki te mahara ia ki te ingoa o tō kurī tuatahi, ki ō mea tino pai rānei hei tāpiri i te piza, ki te waitohu hinu kakara rānei e mau ana koe, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu 50 tino nui e pai ana te kotiro ki a koe.
Ina aroha te kōtiro ki tētahi atu tangata, ka rongo tonu ia i ngā mea e kōrerotia ana e koe ki a rātou. I kī rātou kei roto te Atua i ngā taipitopito; i kī mātou kei roto hoki a Kupiri i ngā taipitopito.
23. Ka tū tika ake ia i tō taha
Ehara i te mea kei te piko ia, engari he tohu ngawari tēnei e pai ana te kōtiro ki a koe. Ka huri whakarere tōna tū me tōna āhua, ā, ka noho tika, ka tū tika rānei ia. He huarahi tēnei reo tinana hei whakaatu i tōna pono ki tō aroaro. I roto i te hinengaro ngaro, e hiahia ana te kōtiro ki te noho me te whakahaere i tō wāhi ina tata ia ki a koe.
He maha ngā tohu o te tinana o te wahine e whakaatu ana i te kukume. Hei hopu i tō aro, hei waiho hoki i a ia hei pokapū o tō hinengaro, ka whakarerekē ia i tōna tū kia kitea ai he mea nui ia ki a koe.
24. Kei te anga tonu tōna tinana ki a koe
Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu reo tinana e pai ana te kōtiro ki a koe. Ka piko tonu tōna tinana katoa ki a koe. Ina tono te kōtiro kia aro atu koe ki a ia, ka kitea anō hoki taua mea e tōna reo tinana.
I te mahi, ki te mea kei te kōrero kōrua mō tētahi kaupapa nui, ahakoa he mea iti noa iho tana e whakararuraru ana i a ia, ka tahuri mai ia ki a koe me te mea ko koe te mea nui rawa atu i roto i te rūma.
25. Ka ngana ia ki te pupuri i tō ringa
Ko tētahi tohu e pai ana tētahi kōtiro ki a koe i te kura, ā, e ngana ana ki te takaro ki a koe, ko tana ngana ki te pupuri i tō ringa me te āhua ātaahua, me te māia. Koinei tētahi o ngā pā kore-ira hei whakanui i te whanaungatanga.
Ki te āta kume mārire ia i ōna maihao ki tō ringaringa, kātahi ka hopukina ina pupuri koe i tōna ringa, ehara tēnā i te tohu hoa noa iho. He huarahi pai te pupuri ringa hei whakapuaki i ō kare ā-roto, nō reira kia aro atu.
26. Ka tukua koe e ia kia pā atu ki a ia
Ki te pā atu koe ki tētahi kōtiro i roto i te āhua whakakatakata, i te āhua takaro rānei, ki te whakahoki mai ia mā te whakatata atu ki a koe, he tino pai ki a ia koe. Ki te kore te kōtiro e pai ki te pā atu, ka whakakitea e ia tōna āhua, ā, ka hoki whakamuri atu i te āhuatanga. Heoi, ki te pai ki a ia, ka whakahoki harikoa ia i te tohu. He mea nui tēnei nā te mea he mea nui te whakaae me ngā rohe ki tētahi whanaungatanga.
27. Ka whero ōna paparinga
Kāore i te tino arohia te whero o te kanohi, engari koinei te tohu māmā rawa atu, ā, ko te tohu nui rawa atu o ngā tohu e 50 e pai ana te kotiro ki a koe. Ina whero te kanohi o te kotiro, ko te tikanga kei te tino hiahia ia ki a koe. Ina whakaohokia e koe tēnei whero o tōna mata, kia mōhio koe e hiahia ana ia ki a koe, ā, tera pea kei te tere rawa tana aroha.
28. Kei te mimiti haere āu kupu ki roto i tana papakupu
Ina taunga te kōtiro ki te noho tahi me koe, tera pea ka mārama ia ki ngā kupu, ki ngā kīanga rānei e kōrerotia ana e koe. Ki te whai ia i te āhua o tō poroporoaki, i te āhua rānei o tō tauhohenga i roto i tētahi āhuatanga rorirori, he tino aroha ia ki a koe. Tērā pea ka kite koe i ēnei āhuatanga iti i runga i ngā karere ina tīmata ia ki te whakamahi i ngā emoji rite tonu ki a koe. Ko ngā tohu e pai ana te kōtiro ki a koe i runga i te karere, he iti noa iho.
Me i kore ia e pai ki a koe, e kore rawa ia e aro ki ēnei mea ririki. Ko tēnei tohu huna he tohu nui e tino pai ana ia ki a koe.
29. Ka pai ia ki ō whakaahua katoa, ā, ka tuku kōrero anō hoki
Ko tētahi o ngā tohu e pai ana ia ki a koe i runga i a Pukamata ko te mea he tino pai ki a ia ō kōrero me ō pūrākau i runga ipurangi. Kei te aroturuki tonu ia i ō pou me ō tikanga tuku kōrero. Ko te tikanga tēnei e pai ana ia ki ō ihirangi ipurangi, ā, e hiahia ana ia ki te kite atu i a koe! Ehara i te mea ka tuku kōrero tonu koe i ngā mahanga matewai, engari me whakaae kei te hiahia ia ki a koe mā te whakautu i ana kōrero me te pai ki ana pou.
30. He maha āna pā ki tōna kaki
He ahua rerekē pea tēnei, engari āe, ko te kaki te wāhi nui e hiahia ana ki te ātaahua. Hei whakanui i ōna āhua tinana, hei whakaatu i tōna ātaahua, hei kukume hoki i tō aro, ka pā tonu te kotiro e pai ana ki a koe ki tōna kaki ina tata ia ki a koe.
He mahi āta whakaarohia pea tēnei, engari he mahi ā-whakaaro anō hoki hei whakamarie i a ia anō nā te mea kei te aro atu ia ki a koe. Kaua e hohoro te whakatau i ia wā ka pā atu te kōtiro ki tōna kaki. Rapua hoki ētahi atu tohu o te aro atu.
31. E āwangawanga ana ia mō tōna āhua i a koe
Ko te kotiro e pai ana ki a koe, e hiahia tonu ana kia ātaahua tōna āhua i a koe. Ki te kite koe i a ia e takaro ana i ana kākahu, e tirotiro ana i ana ngutu, e whakarerekē ana rānei i ana makawe, ko te tikanga he pai ki a ia koe. Ko te tikanga he pai ki a ia te ātaahua ki a koe, ā, e ngana ana kia kite mēnā kei te kite koe. Nō reira, kia tino kite koe i te reo tinana o te kotiro e pai ana ki a koe.
Pānui e pā ana: 10 Ngā Kākahu mō te Teiti Tuatahi – Ngā Mea hei Kākahu i te Teiti Tuatahi [Tohutohu a te Tohunga]
32. Te tākaro me ōna makawe
E pai ana ki a tātou te whakaaro ko ō tātou makawe tētahi o ō tātou āhua tino pai, ā, ki te pai tātou ki tētahi, ka takaro nui tātou ki a ia. Inaa, ko tētahi o ngā āhua tinana tino kitea o te wahine e pai ana ki ngā tāne . Nō reira, ki te mea kei te miro ia i ōna makawe ki te maihao, kei te kuhu rānei i muri i ōna taringa, kei te whakahaere noa rānei i ōna ringa ki roto, tera pea kei te paku mataku ia, kei te paku ngoikore, engari ko te tumanako he pai te āhua.
Mā te miro i te makawe ka whakamama i te manukanuka, ā, ka taea hoki te whakakore i te ahotea. Ki te takaro nui ia ki ōna makawe, e mōhio ana ia kei te noho tahi ia me koe, kei te whakaatu hoki i tōna āhua pai rawa atu.
33. E hiahia tonu ana ia kia puta mai i a koe te tauhohenga
Ahakoa he aha tāna e mea ai, e kōrero ai rānei ia, ka hiahia te kotiro e pai ana ki a koe kia pai tō urupare ki a ia. Kāore ia e tino mahi i tēnei, nā te mea kei te takaro noa ia i te uaua ki te whiwhi i a ia.
Ki te kōrero ia i tētahi katakata, ki te kōrero i tētahi kōrero tawhito, ki te tīmata rānei ki te tākaro ki tētahi kurī ka tūtaki koe ki te pāka, ka mātakitaki ia me te hiahia ki tō urupare. Tērā pea koinei tētahi o ngā tohu e pai ana tētahi kōtiro ki a koe, engari e ngana ana kia kaua e whakaatu, nā te mea kāore ia e whakanui ana i te mea.
34. Ko koe te nama 1 i runga i tana rārangi waea haurangi
Ki te tokomaha o tātou, ina inu ana tātou i ētahi inu, ka iti haere te ātete. Nō reira, mēnā i āwangawanga ia ki te whakaatu i ōna kare ā-roto i a ia e inu ana, tera pea ka waea atu ia ki a koe i te wā e haurangi ana, ā, ka nui ake tōna kaha ki te inu.
Waihoki, ki te mea kei runga koe i tana rārangi ingoa inu, he nui te whakawhirinaki o ia ki a koe. Ina kore te tangata e tino inu waipiro, ka whakaaro noa ia ki te hunga e hiahia ana ia ki a ia, ā, e tino hiahia ana ia ki taua wā. He mahi ātaahua noa iho tēnei e mahia ana e ngā hoa wahine haurangi.
35. E mōhio ana ia ka taea e ia te noho rerekē i a koe
Ina tīmata te aroha o tētahi kōtiro ki a koe, ka tīmata ia ki te whakaatu i tōna āhua rerekē me te ngahau i a koe, nā te mea e mōhio ana ia ka taea e ia te noho ko ia tonu i a koe. I te tīmatanga, tera pea ka paku noho puku ngā kōtiro, ka āwangawanga hoki ki tā rātou e whakaatu nei. Heoi, ki te tere tonu tā rātou noho humarie i a koe, nā te mea he tino pai ki a rātou koe.
Kia tūpato ki ngā tohu pēnei i tana ahua wairangi atu i te tikanga, i tana whakaatu rānei i tētahi taha māhorahora o ia ki tō aroaro. Ko tētahi o ngā tohu mārama tēnei e pai ana te kotiro ki a koe, ko tāu noa he kite i tēnā.
36. Kāore ia e kī Kāo
Ina tono koe i a ia kia whakatakoto mahere, ā, kāore ia e whakakahore, he mea nā te mea e pai ana ia ki te noho tahi me koe, ehara i te mea he tangata piripono ia. Ahakoa kua whai mahere ia, ā, he pukumahi ia, ā, e whakapau kaha tonu ana ki te whai wā māu, he kaitiaki ia. Ki te pai ia ki a koe, kāore ia e whakarērea i a koe.
Ko tētahi o ngā tohu tino huna tēnei e pai ana te kotiro ki a koe, ā, ka nui ake te huna mena kāore ia e kī atu ko wai tana e hiahia ana kia kite i a koe. Engari ki te mea ia, "I whakakorehia e au te tono a aku hoa kia mahi i tēnei," kia mōhio koe he tino motuhake koe ki a ia.
37. E hiahia ana ia ki ngā take hei kōrero ki a koe
Me pēhea te mōhio kei te pai tētahi kōtiro ki a koe? Ka rapu tonu ia i ngā take hei kōrero ki a koe, hei kōrero tahi hoki. Mā te rapu i a koe i muri i te akomanga, te pātai rānei i ngā pātai maha ki a koe, ko te tikanga he pai ki a ia te kōrero ki a koe.
Ahakoa ka tukuna noatia atu e ia he karere ki a koe hei tīmata kōrero, ko te tikanga kei te hiahia ia kia pai ake tōna mōhio ki a koe. Nā, he aha ia ka hiahia ai ki te mahi pēnā mēnā kāore ia e aro nui ana ki a koe?
38. E pōrearea ana ia i tō aroaro
He aha te āhua o te aroha? Ka taea e ia te whakararuraru i a koe. Ki te tangohia e ia tetahi mea, ā, ka haere tonu tana nekeneke, kāore rānei e taea e ia te noho tika, te noho humarie rānei, nā te mea kei te manukanuka ia i a koe.
Kāore he mea hei manukanuka. Ki te pai tetahi kotiro ki a koe, tera pea ka mataku ia i a koe. Ko tōna tikanga he huna tana aroha ki a koe. Engari me ngana kia whakamarie ia i a ia, kia mōhio ai ia kei te whiwhi koe i a ia.
39. He rerekē tōna kanapa ki a koe
He rerekē te kanapa o ngā kōtiro ina harikoa, ina aroha hoki. Ka whānui ake ōna kamo, ā, ka kanapa ake tōna kiri. Mā te tukunga o te oxytocin ka taea te whakanui ake i te rere o te toto, ā, ka āhua hauora ake te āhua. Ko tētahi o ngā tohu 50 e pai ana te kōtiro ki a koe ko te kanapa o ia ina tata koe.
40. He tino ngāwari ia
Mena kei te pōkaikaha ia i ō kōrero katoa, ā, e whakaae ana ki te nuinga o ō whakaaro, nā te mea e pai ana ia ki a koe. Kia mahara, tera pea he whakaaro anō tōna, engari te āhua nei kei te whakarongo pai ia ki ō kōrero.
Ko te tikanga tēnei kāore ia e hiahia ki te whakaoho i tētahi tautohe hononga koretake ina tīmata ana ia te mōhio ki a koe, ā, e hiahia ana hoki ia ki te whakaatu ki a koe e mihi ana ia ki a koe.
41. E mōhio ana ōna hoa ki a koe
Ka mōhio tana tira kōtiro ki a koe, ā, kua whaia pea koe puta noa i te ipurangi i roto i ngā meneti ruarua nei. Inaa, tera pea he nui ake tā rātou mōhio ki a koe i a koe! He pai ki ngā kōtiro te kōrero ki ā rātou hoa wahine mō ngā mea e tupu ana i roto i ō rātou ao ahakoa he iti noa te aroha. He mea nui ā mātou hoa wahine ki a mātou, nō reira, ki te mea kua kōrero ia mōu ki āna hoa, he tino mea nui koe ki a ia.
42. Kua kōrero ia mō te kawe i a koe ki tētahi huihuinga ā muri ake nei
He marena pea nō tōna whanaunga, he pāti whutupaoro rānei nō tōna hoa pai. Mēnā kua kī mai ia e hiahia ana ia kia haere tahi kōrua, he tohu nui tēnei e pai ana ia ki a koe. Ka hiahia noa te kōtiro ki te kawe i a koe ki ēnei momo huihuinga ina tino pai ia ki a koe, ā, e hiahia ana hoki ki te kawe i ngā mea hou atu māu.
Pānui e pā ana: 51 Ngā Whakaaro Whakamarie mō te Rā Hotoke hei Whakamātau i tēnei Tau
43. He maha āna meme e tukuna ana
Ki te mea ka tāpiri tonu ia i ō tohu ki roto i ngā meme, ka tukuna atu rānei e ia ki a koe i roto i te DM, tera pea kei te ngana ia ki te tīmata kōrero ki a koe. E hiahia ana ia kia mau tonu te whakapā atu ki a koe ahakoa kāore kōrua e kōrero ana. Kāore i te miharo ka whakamahia e te whakatupuranga-z ngā meme hei takaro ki a koe, ā, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu mārama e pai ana te kotiro ki a koe mā te tuku karere kuputuhi.
44. Kei te pātai tonu ia i ngā pātai ki a koe
Ina pai te kōtiro ki a koe, ka hiahia ia ki te mōhio ki ngā mea katoa mōu. Tō hītori, ō hiahia, tae atu ki ō mea e kore e pai ki a koe — ka aro nui ia ki ngā mea katoa. Ahakoa kei te kōrerorero tuihono ia, ka ngana tonu ia ki te pātai atu ki a koe i ngā pātai whakakatakata mō te whakaipoipo tuihono . Kaua e pōhēhē mēnā ka pātai atu ia ki a koe mō ngā kōrero iti rawa. Ko tana hiahia anake kia mōhio ki a koe.
45. Ka tukuna atu e ia ētahi whakaahua o ia anō ki a koe
Ngā whakaahua o te ata, ngā whakaahua o te whakangungu tinana, me ngā pikitia o tana tina. Ahakoa pēhea, ka tukuna atu e ia he pikitia ki a koe. He huarahi pai tēnei hei whakapai ake i te whakaipoipo ipurangi. A te wā e tukuna atu ai e ia he pikitia o ana kākahu e whakamātauhia ana e ia mō tētahi huihuinga motuhake, whakaarohia koinei tētahi o ngā tohu e pai ana te kotiro ki a koe mā te tuku karere kuputuhi. I taea e ia te pātai noa ki ana hoa wahine (nāna nei i kī atu he aha te āhua pai me te aha te āhua kāore), engari kāore ia i pena. I pātai atu ia ki a koe.
Mena kei te tuku whakaahua tonu ia i ana mahi ki a koe, he pono kei te pai ia ki a koe. E hiahia ana ia kia pā ake ō kōrua kōrero ki tētahi mea whaiaro, ā, koinei tana huarahi ki te mahi i tēnā.
46. E tohu ana ia kei te wātea ia i ētahi wā
"Āe, kāore āku mahi i tēnei ahiahi" he kupu huna tēnei mō te 'He aha koe te tono mai ai kia haere tahi māua i tēnei pō?' Ko tētahi tēnei o ngā mea e warewarehia ana e ngā tāne, nā te mea ehara i te mea pūkenga te pānui i waenganui i ngā rārangi. Ahakoa ko tētahi tēnei o ngā tohu e pai ana te kotiro ki a koe, engari e ngana ana kia kaua e whakaatu.
Ki te kōrero noa ia mō ngā wā tino motuhake e wātea ana ia, he tohu tēnā kia tono atu koe kia haere tahi rāua. Kia tūpato mēnā ka tuku karere kuputuhi atu ia ki a koe, "Kua hoha rawa ahau! Kāore he mahi māku," he maha rawa ngā wā. Ahakoa kāore i te tino kitea, he tohu tēnā e pai ana te kotiro ki a koe mā te tuku karere kuputuhi.
47. He maha āna kata mō kōrua e whakaipoipo ana
"Whakaarohia mēnā he tokorua tāua," "Me noho takirua tāua kia taea ai tēnei" he tohu huna tēnei e hiahia ana ia ki te noho tahi me koe. Ahakoa te āhua nei he takaro noa iho ia, e mōhio ana koe ki tā rātou e kī nei - he pono kei roto i ia katakata.
Mā te whakakatakata mō kōrua e noho tahi ana, kei te akiaki ia i tō kōrua hoahoa kia huri hei mea pono ake, pērā i te whakaipoipo motuhake. Ko tētahi o ngā tohu mārama tēnei e pai ana te kōtiro ki a koe, ā, me aro nui atu koe ki āna "katakata". Hei whakapai ake i tana mahi, tāpirihia te katakata. I te iti rawa, ka puta he kata pai (he kōrero rānei mō te whakaipoipo pea).
48. E anga atu ana ōna waewae ki a koe
Āe, tika tāu i pānui ai. Kāore te nuinga o te tangata e mōhio ki tēnei tohu. Ki te anga mai ōna waewae ki a koe, ko te tikanga he tino pai ia ki a koe.
Ko tētahi o ngā whakaaturanga matarohia o te reo tinana o tētahi kōtiro e pai ana ki a koe. Kei te aro katoa tōna tinana ki a koe pēnei. Heoi anō, i te nuinga o te wā, ka tohu ōna waewae ki te huarahi e hiahia ana tātou ki te haere me te mea e hiahiatia ana e tātou. Nō reira, ki te tohu ōna waewae ki a koe, he tohu tēnā e hiahia ana ia ki a koe.
49. Te whakapā ā-tinana ki te taha
He whakapā mārire tēnei e mahia ana e ngā kōtiro, me te tumanako kāore te tangata kē e kite. Ko tēnei momo whakapā ko te wā e pā ana tētahi wāhanga o tō tinana engari kei te arotahi koe ki te mahi i tētahi atu mea.
He āhua tūpono noa iho tēnei momo pā, engari e mōhio ana te tangata ki tēnā. Tērā pea ka mahia e ia tēnei kia tata ake ai kōrua tetahi ki tetahi. Nō reira, ki te noho tahi kōrua, ā, ka pā mai ōna pakihiwi ki ōu, ka pā mai rānei ōna waewae ki ōu waewae i raro i te tēpu, ka taea e koe te whakaaro kei te kite koe i te reo tinana o tētahi kōtiro e pai ana ki a koe.
50. Ka wareware ia i ētahi wā ki tāna e kōrero nei
Tērā pea ka puta tēnei ina whakama ia, ina tūpato rānei i a koe. Tērā pea ka wareware ia ki tāna i kōrero ai, kāore rānei e taea e ia te whakapuaki i ōna whakaaro me te ngāwari nā te manukanuka pāpori . Ehara tēnei i te mea kāore ia i te tino maia. Kei te tūpato noa ia ina titiro mai koe ki a ia, ā, tērā pea ka pōhēhē ōna whakaaro me āna kupu.
Ki te pai te kotiro ki a koe, tera pea ka wareware noa ia ki tāna i kōrero ai ina tīmata kōrua te kōrero. Kāore ianei e pērā anō te āhua ki a koe, ina ngaro tonu koe i roto i ōna kanohi ataahua?
Nā te mea kua mōhio koe ki ngā tohu 50 e pai ana tētahi kōtiro ki a koe, ki te kite koe i te haurua o ēnei i roto i te kōtiro e pai ana koe, kia tino mohio kei te mahana haere ngā mea. Tērā pea ka noho motuhake koe i roto i ngā wā tata nei, kātahi ka tata te wā e whakaipoipo ana koe, ā, ko wai ka mōhio, tera pea kua rite koe mō tētahi mea mō te wā roa. Kia ora!
Me pehea e mohio ai mena ka pai te kotiro ki a koe i runga i nga kupu - 21 nga tohu ngawari
Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
