N'chifukwa Chiyani Maanja Ayamba Kuwoneka Ofanana M'ukwati Pambuyo Pazaka Makumi Akukhala Limodzi?

Yang'anani kwa agogo athu, makolo athu kapena amalume apamtima ndi azakhali. Safanana kwenikweni, komabe amafanana m’maonekedwe awo, mavalidwe ngakhalenso zizoloŵezi zawo. Kaya ndi njira yawo yolankhulirana, mmene amavalira kapena zizolowezi zawo zonse, ali ndi kufanana kochititsa chidwi! Zimatipangitsa kudabwa ngati okwatirana omwe amafanana amakhala pamodzi.

Tikulankhula maanja omwe akhala limodzi kwa zaka zambiri osati miyezi ingapo kapena zaka. Atakhala pamodzi kwa nthawi yayitali, maanjawa amakhala ngati chizindikiro wina ndi mzake ndikuyamba kuoneka mofanana. Ayi. Osati chithunzi chofanana. Koma zokwanira kuti azitikumbutsana.

Malinga ndi kafukufuku wochitidwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo Robert Zajonc wochokera ku yunivesite ya Michigan, maanja adakula n’kuyamba kufanana kwa nthawi yaitali. Iye adasanthula zithunzi 25 za maanja ndipo adayerekeza momwe amaonekera pa tsiku la ukwati wawo ndi momwe amaonekera patatha zaka 25. Ndipotu, maanja omwe amaoneka ofanana anali osangalala kwambiri!

Mabanja amawoneka ofanana maganizo- Kodi amafanana nthawi zonse?

Pali kafukufuku wochitidwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo R. Chris Fraley ku yunivesite ya Illinois pa zamaganizo a maanja omwe amafanana, zomwe zikusonyeza kuti 'zofanana zimakopa zofanana'. Mwachidule, anthu amakonda kupeza anzawo omwe ali ofanana kwambiri ndi iwo eni. Anthu nthawi zambiri amapeza zofanana osati m'malingaliro kapena zikhulupiriro zawo zokha komanso m'mavalidwe awo, machitidwe odyera, ndi machitidwe ena a moyo monga kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi.

Ngati ndinu wokonda masewera olimbitsa thupi , mwina mnzanu wanu nayenso adzakhala wokonda masewera olimbitsa thupi. Izi ndi zomwezo ngati mumakonda kudya.

Ngakhale titakhala m’mahotela apamwamba kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi, m’nyumba mwanu mumakhala chimwemwe ndi chisangalalo. Izi ndi zomwe anthu amachita, mosazindikira, akamafunafuna wokwatirana naye. Amakonda kukopeka ndi anthu omwe amawakumbutsa iwo eni kapena mabanja awo.

N'chifukwa Chiyani Mabanja Amawoneka Ofanana?

Ndiye, ngati mukuganiza kuti “chifukwa chiyani ndikuwoneka ngati munthu wofunika kwambiri?” Yankho losavuta lingakhale chifukwa chakuti maanja omwe ali ndi umunthu wofanana amakopana ndipo amakonda kukhala limodzi zomwe zimatsogolera kumayendedwe ofanana.

Werengani kuti mudziwe chifukwa chake maanja omwe amafanana amakhala limodzi!

1. Zotsatira za DNA

Nthawi zambiri anthu amakonda kukwatirana m'chipembedzo chawo komanso makamaka m'magulu awo. Ngati timakonda kukwatirana m'dera lomwelo / dera / dera / mzinda, mwayi ndi wakuti tidzagawana zofanana ndi chibadwa ndi wokondedwa wathu.

Mwachitsanzo, ngati ndinu mayi wa tirigu wochokera ku Dehradun, mukuyang'ana bwenzi kuchokera ku Deharadun, mwayi ndiwe kuti mudzakhala ndi zofanana zofanana mumtundu wa jini wochepa wa mzindawo.

Ngakhale sitikudziwa, nthawi zambiri timakopeka ndi anthu omwe ali ndi zinthu zofanana ndi ife. Mwachitsanzo, taganizirani ngati mutakumana ndi munthu wochokera m'dziko lomwelo, ndi njira yoyambira kukambirana nthawi yomweyo! Ndipo ngati akufanana ndi inu ndipo inunso mukugwirizana, mudzakhala ndi mwayi waukulu wodzipereka kwa iwo kwa nthawi yayitali chifukwa mumawadalira kwambiri.

Ichi chingakhale chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe maanja amawonekera mofanana.

2. Nandolo ziwiri mumtsuko

Popeza amakhala limodzi kwa zaka zambiri, okwatirana amakonda kutsatira moyo wamba, zomwe zimawapangitsa kuti azidziwa bwino zizolowezi za wina ndi mnzake, zomwe amakonda ndi zomwe sakonda. Okwatirana nthawi zambiri amasintha kapena kusintha okha malinga ndi zizolowezi kapena zofunikira za theka lawo kuti moyo ukhale wosavuta.

Izi, nthawi zambiri, zimayambanso kuwonetsa momwe thupi la anthu limayankhulirana ndi anthu ena zomwe zimawapangitsa kuwoneka kapena kuchita zinthu mofanana m'mikhalidwe ina. Mukayesa mayendedwe a mnzanu, mumayamba kuphunzira kalankhulidwe kawo ndi momwe amalankhulira, mungayambenso kutsatira kadyedwe kawo.

3. Nthawi zabwino ndi zoipa

Zaka 30 kapena 40 ndi nthawi yayitali ndipo anthu awiri omwe adadutsa nthawi imeneyi adakumana ndi moyo limodzi; zomwe zikutanthauza kuti akhala osangalala panthawi yomaliza maphunziro ndi maphwando a kubadwa komanso achisoni panthawi ya maliro. Chifukwa chake, okwatirana omwe amafanana wina ndi mnzake adakumana ndi zovuta zambiri pamodzi.

Izi zimapangitsa kuti maanja azikhala ndi mizere yofanana, kuwapangitsa kuti azikhulupirira kapena ayi, aziwoneka ofanana. Nthawi ina mukakumana ndi agogo anu, phunzirani nkhope zawo ndipo mudzadziwa mabanja omwe amafanana

khalani pamodzi.

4. Zakudya ndizofunika kwambiri

Mabanja omwe amafanana amadya mofanana! Chizoloŵezi chodyera ndi chinthu china chomwe chimapangitsa kuti izi zichitike. Anthu omwe ali pansi pa denga limodzi amakonda kudya zakudya zamtundu wina - zamafuta kwambiri, zathanzi kapena zokometsera kwambiri. Ngati ndinu foodie, makamaka, mnzanuyo adzakhala foodie nayenso.

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Thupi la munthu limachitira chakudya mofanana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi. Koma kuposa maonekedwe a thupi, zimapanga zotsatira zofanana pa khalidwe. Mwachitsanzo, anthu amakhulupirira kuti anthu amene amadya kwambiri zokometsera ndi mutu wamoto kwambiri. Mwachibadwa, zinthu zimenezi zimathandiza kuti munthu aonekere pa nkhope yake, kusinthasintha kwa mamvekedwe a mawu ndiponso mmene amaganizira.

5. Kugula

Okwatirana amagula zinthu pamodzi ndipo ngakhale zingawoneke ngati chinthu chachilendo, pali kusinthana maganizo ndi malingaliro komwe kumachitika pano. Pakapita nthawi, okwatirana amayamba kumvetsetsa zomwe okondedwa awo amakonda pa zovala ndipo amasintha zovala zawo kuti azivala mwanjira inayake.

Munamva za "ku twinning"? Chabwino, kufunika kovala mofanana kwakhala kolimba ndi maanja kuyambira pomwe mapasa adakhala chikhalidwe chazaka chikwi. Anthu okwatirana omwe amawoneka mofanana nthawi zambiri amawoneka motere chifukwa ali ndi malingaliro ofanana ndi omwe amagwirizana nawo ndipo nthawi zambiri, mwaufulu kapena mosasamala, amatha kuvala mofanana.

6. Owerenga maganizo

Izi ndi zoona makamaka kwa anthu omwe ali ndi moyo wa zaka 9-5. Kuti banja liziyenda bwino , pali zinthu zambiri zomwe zimachitika tsiku ndi tsiku kuti ziyende bwino. Zachidziwikire, okwatirana amadziwana mkati mwawo ndipo amatha kulosera zomwe wina ndi mnzake akuganiza.

Kotero nthawi ina ngati banja lakale la m'dera lanu lidzamaliza ziganizo za wina ndi mzake, musakhumudwe, sangachitire mwina. Muyenera kukhala ochita mantha ndi mgwirizano wawo ndikuzindikira kuti maanja omwe amawoneka mofanana amakhala limodzi kwamuyaya!

7. Mtsikana wa abambo

Kafukufuku wochuluka padziko lonse wasonyeza kuti akazi amapeza mwamuna wokongola yemwe ali ndi makhalidwe ofanana ndi a abambo awo. Munamvapo za Oedipus Complex kapena Electra Complex? Mfundo zimenezi zoperekedwa ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo odziwika bwino (anamvapo za Freud?) zimasonyeza kuti amuna ndi akazi amakulitsa chidwi chosadziwa makolo awo m'zaka za 3-6.

Ichi ndichifukwa chake, modziwa kapena mosadziwa, timakopeka ndi anthu omwe ali ndi mawonekedwe/makhalidwe ofanana ndi amayi kapena abambo athu. Chosangalatsa: " Nkhani za abambo " ndi njira yosavuta kwambiri yofotokozera mfundo imeneyi.

Amuna onse akuwerenga izi, mukudziwa kuti muli ndi nsapato zazikulu zoti mudzaze.

8. Chithunzi Changwiro

Zofananira nthawi zambiri zimawonedwa ngati zokongola posankha bwenzi lamoyo. Anthu amakonda kupita kwa munthu yemwe amafanana ndi kuyamikira umunthu wawo. Izi zitha kukhala chifukwa chomwe maanja omwe amafanana amathera limodzi.

Anthu nthawi zambiri amapeza kukongola mwa okondedwa awo komwe kumafanana ndi maonekedwe awo pamlingo winawake. Aliyense ali ndi malingaliro osiyana a zomwe kukongola kumayimira koma kukongola kumaoneka kuti kulinso m'thupi lathu.

Choncho, n’zosadabwitsa kuti okwatirana ambiri amafanana patatha zaka zambiri akukhala pamodzi! Nkhani yabwino kwa anthu onse kunja uko omwe amawoneka ngati okondedwa awo chifukwa maanja omwe amawoneka ofanana amakhala limodzi!

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