Momwe Onyenga Amabisira Nyimbo Zawo - Zizindikiro 15 Zotsegula Maso

Ngati muli pano mukuyang'ana njira za momwe onyenga amabisalira njira zawo, pangakhale zifukwa ziwiri zokha zomwe zingatheke: mukubera munthu wina ndipo mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungachokere kapena muli paulendo wolandira ndipo mukudabwa kuti mumagwira bwanji munthu akubera. Ziribe chifukwa chake, mupeza mayankho anu onse apa. 

Koma izi zisanachitike, tiyeni tikambirane funso loyaka moto: Kodi kubera ndi chiyani? Eya, ndi pamene munthu mmodzi ali pachibwenzi aswa kukhulupirirana kwa mnzakeyo mwakuchita zachinyengo. Ngati mukukayikira khalidwe la mnzanuyo, ino ndi nthawi yoyenera kuti mudziwe ngati ali ndi chibwenzi mwanzeru. 

Kuti tidziwe zambiri za momwe anthu onyenga amabisira mayendedwe awo ndi zomwe anthu onyenga amanena kuti abise chibwenzi, tinalumikizana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo Jayant Sundaresan (Masters in Applied Psychology), yemwe ndi katswiri wopereka uphungu pa nkhani zosiyanasiyana za ubale monga kusokonezeka kwa kulankhulana, kusamalira ziyembekezo, kusakhulupirika, kupatukana, ndi kusudzulana.

Momwe Onyenga Amabisira Nyimbo Zawo - Zizindikiro 15 Zotsegula Maso

Kodi n'zotheka kusunga chinyengo chachinsinsi kwa nthawi yayitali kapena kwamuyaya? Jayant akuyankha kuti, “Ayi, ayi ndithu. Komabe, chinyengo ndi nkhani yovuta, chifukwa choyamba tiyenera kumvetsetsa ngati wonyengayo wachitapo kamodzi kokha kapena ngati ndi khalidwe lobwerezabwereza. Ngati ndi khalidwe lachiwiri, ndiye kuti wonyengayo ayenera kuti, pofika pano, wadziwa luso lokopa ubweya m'maso mwako. Zimene zimalowa m'maganizo mwa mwamuna kapena mkazi wonyenga si zachilendo. Maganizo a wonyenga ndi osakhazikika. Amachita zinthu zambiri kuti asagwidwe. Kuphatikiza apo, wonyenga nthawi zambiri mwina wapeza njira yokhalira moyo wachiwiri popanda mkazi wake kudziwa.”

Zipangizo zamakono zimagwira ntchito yofunika kwambiri pa moyo wa aliyense. Kumathandizanso kwambiri pa chinyengo chachinsinsi. Sizongokhudza momwe obisala mwachinsinsi amatetezera mafoni awo komanso momwe sangalolere aliyense kuyang'ana zowonetsera zawo. Ndi momwe amabisira perfidies awo ndikunama kwa inu ndi nkhope yowongoka. Kuphatikiza apo, amapanga maakaunti abodza ndikubisala kumbuyo kwawo kuti azisaka zinthu zambiri. Ndipo inde, angakhalenso ndi mafoni oyaka moto kapena zipangizo zina zimene amagwiritsa ntchito polankhulana mobisa. Tiyeni tikambirane njira 15 zosiyanasiyana zomwe obera amabisalamo:

1. Amayang'anira chidziwitso

Ndiye chinyengo ndi chiyani? Jayant anati: “Mukudziwa, nkhani ya kubera n’njakuti aliyense amakopeka kuchita chinyengo kamodzi kokha m’moyo wake.” Komabe, anthu ambiri sagonja ku ziyeso zawo ndipo amaona makhalidwe awo ngati chishango chopewera mayesero oterowo.

Jayant akuti, "Yankho la funso lanu lokhudza momwe anthu onyenga amabisira mayendedwe awo ndi: pobisa chidziwitso. Anthu onyenga amachita zinthu zambiri kuti abise njira zawo ziwiri. Amalamulira mosamala komanso mwanzeru chidziwitso chomwe amagawana ndi anzawo ofunikira. Ndipotu, pali machenjezo ambiri a munthu wonyenga wotsatizana.

• Chidziwitso choyamba chomwe amawongolera ndi momwe nthawi yawo idawonongera - wachinyengo wodziwa zambiri amatha kuwerengera mphindi zomwe akusowa pamaso pa mnzake.
• Chidziwitso chachiwiri chomwe amawongolera nthawi zonse ndi kufotokozera kwa ndalama

"Chifukwa chomwe zidziwitso ziwirizi zimayendetsedwa nthawi zonse ndi wachinyengo ndi chifukwa mumafunikira nthawi ndi ndalama paubwenzi wina. Simungathe kukumana nawo kunyumba. Muyenera kuwononga ndalama kuti mupite kwina. Ndi angati onyenga omwe mumawadziwa omwe akufuna kukhala ndi chiyanjano ndi munthu amene akubera naye? Osati ambiri, ine ndikutsimikiza. Amafuna nthawi ndi ndalama kuti awononge chifukwa chokhalira ku hotelo chifukwa chokhumba kwambiri. "

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Zoyenera kuchita ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi mlandu

Zingakhale zokhumudwitsa ngati wokondedwa wanu sakudziwitsani chifukwa cha kusokonezeka maganizo kwa nthawi ziwiri. Zikatero, izi ndi zomwe mungachite:

• Lankhulani momasuka zomwe mukumva komanso momwe zikukukhudzani
• Ikani malire pa zomwe mukulolera kuvomereza osati ayi
• Ganizirani za kudzisamalira nokha pa thanzi lanu lamalingaliro, thupi, ndi malingaliro

2. Kumbali yakutsogolo, amagawana mochulukirapo 

N'zosangalatsa kuti anthu onyenga amatha kugawana zinthu mopitirira muyeso. Izi zili choncho chifukwa akabisa zonse, mnzanuyo adzakayikira. Pofuna kupewa kudzimva wosatetezeka muubwenzi , amapitiriza kufotokoza zinthu ndi zochitika za tsikulo mosamala kwambiri.

Jayant akuti, "Mosiyana ndi mfundo yapitayi, imodzi mwamayankho a momwe onyenga amabisalira njira zawo ndi: mwa kugawana mopambanitsa. Iyi ndi njira yamaganizo yomwe munthu wachinyengo amagwiritsa ntchito, pamene sabisa (pafupifupi) chirichonse. Adzagawana zonse zomwe zinachitika tsiku lonse, koma adzasintha mfundo zingapo apa ndi apo.

Zoyenera kuchita ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi mlandu

Wokondedwa wanu mwina akugawana zambiri kotero kuti akhoza kukunyengererani kuti muganizire zomwe ziri zosafunika. Tsegulani matebulowo pochita izi:

• Khalani oleza mtima ndipo khalani okhazikika. Mudzangosewera m'manja mwawo pochita zinthu mopupuluma
• Dziikireni malire, makamaka pa zimene mukufuna kumvetsera
• Ganizirani pa mfundo ndi kupeza njira yothetsera vutolo

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3. Wachinyengo amapanga mawu achinsinsi atsopano 

Kupanga mawu achinsinsi ndi njira yodziwika bwino yomwe anthu achinyengo amabisira mayendedwe awo ndipo ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zakuti akhoza kukhala wosewera . Mawu achinsinsi ndi osavuta chifukwa ndi osavuta kupanga ndipo amatha kusinthidwa nthawi yomweyo.

Jayant akuti, "Ngati mukufuna kudziwa momwe mumagwirira munthu akubera, samalani momwe amagwiritsira ntchito mafoni awo." Ngati zida zawo zonse zili ndi mawu achinsinsi ndipo simukudziwa mawu achinsinsi, muli ndi nkhawa zambiri. Ngati mukuganiza kuti, "Kodi onyenga amabisa kuti zinthu zawo?", Yankho ndi: m'mafoni awo. kucheza ndi abwenzi amalingaliro ofanana.

"Mukawafunsa mawu achinsinsi kuti achite zinazake, monga kuyitanitsa chakudya, amakuimbani mlandu wosokoneza zinsinsi zawo. Ngati alibe chobisala, ndiye akuyesera kuteteza chiyani? Chizindikiro china chobera foni ngati ali ndi foni ina. Nthawi zambiri amatha kugwiritsa ntchito chipangizo china kapena SIM pochita zinthu mwanzeru."

Zoyenera kuchita ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi mlandu 

Mawu achinsinsi atsopano amatha kuyambitsa kusakhulupirirana chifukwa chosowa poyera. Choncho:

• Fotokozani nkhawa zanu ndikupeza kumveka bwino chifukwa chake izi zikuchitika
• Yang'anani pakukhazikitsa chifukwa chake kuwonekera ndikofunikira kwa inu
• Yesetsani kukulitsa chidaliro m'malo mongoganizira za zida zawo za digito

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4. Amagwiritsa ntchito Malo achiwiri

Kodi onyenga amabisa kuti zinthu mkati mwa mafoni awo? Jayant akuyankha kuti: “Imodzi mwa njira zodziwika bwino za mmene anthu oonera amabisala njira zawo ndiyo kugwiritsa ntchito gawo la Second Space m’mafoni a Android, zomwe n’zofanana ndi kukhala ndi chikwatu kutali kwambiri ndi malo osungira a foni yanu yaikulu.” Ndi malo osiyana kotheratu mu foni yomweyo, kumene mungagwiritse ntchito ID ya imelo yosiyana ndi kusunga deta yanu motetezedwa.

"Iyi ndi njira imodzi yodalirika kwambiri yopewera kugwidwa ndi chinyengo , chifukwa mukugwiritsabe ntchito foni yomweyo. Koma mawu achinsinsi amodzi adzatsegula malo enaake, ndipo mawu achinsinsi ena adzatsegula malo osiyana kwambiri a foni. Chifukwa chake, muyenera kupanga zala ziwiri zosiyana ndi ma passcode - pa miyoyo yanu iwiri yosiyana. Ubwino wa Second Space ndikuti palibe malo omwe amaphatikizana ndi ena."

"Choncho, chinsinsi cha onyenga chimakhalabe chinsinsi pokhapokha mutadziwa za Second Space yomwe ali nayo pafoni yawo." Izi zikudziwika kwambiri masiku ano, ndipo ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zachinyengo zomwe muyenera kuzidziwa. 

Zoyenera kuchita ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi mlandu

Ngati mnzanuyo akugwiritsa ntchito mapulogalamu otere kuti abise kusakhulupirika kwawo, zimasonyeza kutalika kwake komwe angapite kuti akhalebe patsogolo. Choncho:

• Sonkhanitsani umboni weniweni wa kusakhulupirika musanakumane nawo
• Lankhulani momasuka nkhawa zanu, kufotokoza kufunika kokhulupirirana ndi kuchita zinthu momasuka/chilungamo
• Funsani uphungu ngati zoyesayesa zoyankhulana zalephera 

5. Onyenga amagwiritsa ntchito zizindikiro zachinyengo 

Ngati mukukayikira mnzanu kuti wachita chigololo ndipo simukufuna kuwatsutsa popanda umboni wokwanira, ndi nthawi yoti muyang'ane foni yawo. Mukangolandira mauthenga a mnzanu, yang'anani ma code (makamaka omwe simunamvepo kale). Pali mwayi woti mnzanuyo akugwiritsa ntchito ma code a chigololo ndi mauthenga a chigololo.

Pali ma code ambiri achinyengo, monga DTF, omwe ndi chidule cha 'Down To F*ck'. Zilibe kanthu kuti iye ndiye wotumiza kapena wolandila uthengawu. Ngati adalumikizana ndi munthu uyu, ndiye kuti ndi DTF. Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zachinyengo mu mauthenga omwe muyenera kudziwa ndi 'Kubwera Koyamba'. Zimatanthawuza orgasm yoyamba kunja kwa ubale wodzipereka. Mutha kugwira mnzanu mosavuta ngati agwiritsa ntchito manambalawa pocheza ndi munthu wina. 

Zoyenera kuchita ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi mlandu

Ma code onyenga amapereka njira yanzeru yolankhulirana ndi mnzanuyo popanda kukumana. Ndiye izi ndi zomwe muyenera kuchita:

• Pezani nkhaniyo, chifukwa sizingakhale zosonyeza kusakhulupirika. Anthu ena amagwiritsa ntchito manambala achinyengo pamasewera, zomwe sizolakwa
• Lankhulani ndi mnzanuyo, momveka bwino kuti simukumasuka
• Tsatirani dongosolo lanu lothandizira kuti mudutse nthawi zovuta izi 

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6. Onyenga amafafaniza mapazi awo a digito

Nthawi iliyonse mukalowa pa intaneti, mumasiya zolemba za digito. Zomwe zimatchedwanso mthunzi wa digito, zimatanthawuza zochitika za digito, pa intaneti kapena zipangizo zamakono. Mapazi a digito adzakuuzani ndendende masamba omwe wachinyengo amayendera, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zosavuta kudziwa ngati zilibe vuto.

Jayant akuti, "Iyi ndi njira ina yodziwika bwino ngati mukudabwa momwe achinyengo amabisira mayendedwe awo. Amakonda kuchotsa mapazi awo a digito akamachita chibwenzi chobisika . Chifukwa chake, sadzachotsa mbiri yawo yonse yosakatula. Zimenezo zingawoneke ngati zachisoni kwambiri, sichoncho? Nthawi yomwe mbiri yanu yosakatula ilibe kanthu, mudzakayikiridwa kuti mwaiyeretsa. Chifukwa chake, m'malo mochotsa mbiri yonse, amachotsa zinthu zomwe zingawasungire. Adzapangitsa kuti ziwoneke ngati zachilendo pochotsa ma tabu mwachisawawa.

“Chinthu chinanso chimene muyenera kudziwa pa nkhani ya kubera n’chakuti ndi masewera obisala chifukwa mnzanuyo akuyesa kubisa kuti musamamupeze mwachibwanabwana.

Zoyenera kuchita ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi mlandu

Onyenga amafafaniza mapazi awo a digito pazifukwa zodziwikiratu: kupewa kuzindikirika. Nyimbo za digito zotere zikuphatikiza mbiri yakusaka, masamba ochezera, ndi zina zambiri. Izi ndi zomwe muyenera kuchita ngati izi:

• Unikani nkhawa zanu ndikuwona chifukwa chake zikukukhudzani kwambiri. Kodi zingakhale kuti mwawona zizindikiro zina za kusakhulupirika?
• Lankhulani ndi wokondedwa wanu momasuka ndipo mulole kuti afotokoze yekha
• Yesetsani kudzisamalira ndikupewa kutengeka kwambiri ndi zomwe akuchita pakompyuta

Popita patsogolo, wogwiritsa ntchito Reddit anati "Kupita patsogolo ndi njira yomwe mumaganizira kwambiri za inu nokha ndi thanzi lanu, osati pa mnzanu wakale. Lowani nawo chithandizo ngati simunakhalepo kale, werengani buku lanu kuti muthane ndi zinthu zomwe zimayambitsa mavuto ndi masiku oipa, pangani anzanu atsopano kuti akuthandizeni kuti musamve kuti muli nokha, dzichitireni zabwino, ndikuwerenga mabuku kuti mudziwe kuti si inu nokha amene mukukumana ndi vutoli. Kusakhulupirika kumakulirakulira kuposa momwe adanamizira chifukwa angathe komanso akufuna. Dzipezeni nokha."

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7. Onyenga amabisa njira zawo mwachinyengo 

Kotero, njira imodzi yomwe achinyengo amabisira mayendedwe awo ndi kupusitsa anzawo. Jayant akuti, "Achinyengo ndi akatswiri opusitsa . Pali zinthu zambiri zomwe achinyengo amanena kuti abise chibwenzi. Ndi imodzi mwa njira zawo zoyipa kwambiri zopusitsa. Nthawi zonse amadzudzula munthu winayo chifukwa chopusitsa pamene akudziwa bwino kuti ndi okhulupirika. Amasokoneza nkhani yomwe ili m'nkhaniyi pomudzudzula munthu winayo.

“Adzapotoza nkhani yonse.” Akakumana, amayamba kuchita zinthu zomwe anthu achinyengo amanena kuti abisa zinthu, monga “Si mmene zimaonekera”, “Munthu ameneyo ndi bwenzi lapamtima chabe,” kapena “Sizidzachitikanso.” Ndipo chosweka kwambiri mwa iwo ndi "Kunali kugonana basi." Mwaona, kugonana sikungakhale kugonana kokha, ndipo ndi nkhani yaikulu kwa ambiri a ife.”

Zoyenera kuchita ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi mlandu

Onyenga amasewera malingaliro ndipo amakusangalatsani ndi zomwe amachita ndi kunena. Choncho:

• Phunzirani kuzindikira zizindikiro zachinyengo
• Atchuleni powafotokozera momveka bwino kuti mukuwona zomwe akuchita
• Khazikitsani malire omveka bwino pazomwe mukuyembekezera pachibwenzi

8. Amapanga chitsanzo

Onyenga akhoza kukhala odziŵika bwino m'makhalidwe awo. Ngati ndi kotheka, mudzawona chithunzi chikuwonekera. Jayant anati: “Mukafuna kudziwa mmene anthu achinyengo amabisalira, muyenera kudziwa mmene amachitira zinthu. Choncho, iwo akhoza:

• Pangani ndondomeko kapena ndondomeko yomwe amatsatira mwachipembedzo. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zazikulu zochenjeza za a maubale oopsa.
• Lipirani ndalama nthawi zonse kuti pasakhale zochitika za kirediti kadi
• Mugulire mphatso zomwezo kwa wokondedwa wawo komanso kwa munthu yemwe akumunyengerera naye, kuti zitheke.
• Osatchula anthuwo mayina awo, kusankha zokonda ngati khanda kapena uchi. Amachita zimenezi mosamala kwambiri kuti asatchule dzina lolakwika.”

Zoyenera kuchita ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi mlandu

Kusintha kwa kachitidwe kungakhale kokhumudwitsa, makamaka ngati mukuganiza kuti pali chinyengo. Choncho:

• Nenani nkhawa zanu ndikuwalola kuti afotokoze okha
• Tsamirani pa netiweki yanu yothandizira ndikuyika patsogolo kudzisamalira
• Fufuzani chithandizo cha munthu payekha kuti mudzipezenso nokha

9. Sadzakhala maliseche pamaso pa SO awo 

Izi n'zoonekeratu, sichoncho? Umu ndi momwe anthu onyenga amabisalira chifukwa amaopa kuti zizindikiro zomwe zili m'thupi lawo zingasonyeze kuti sakusewera. Sadzavula zovala kapena kuvala pamaso pa anzawo. Sadzasamba ngakhale limodzi ndi anzawo, chifukwa anthu ogonana nawo angawagwire. Ngati mukufuna kudziwa momwe zibwenzi zambiri zimapezekera , ndiye kuti 'kulumana ndi chikondi' ndiye yankho lanu. Anthu onyenga amafika mpaka pokhala ndi paketi ina ya makondomu. Ndi anzeru kwambiri kotero kuti safuna kuti makondomu omwe akusowa awulule za chibwenzicho.

Jayant anawonjezera kuti, “Chotero, ngati mukudzifunsabe kuti, “Kodi anthu achinyengo angabise mpaka kalekale?’, yankho nlakuti “ayi.” Zilibe kanthu kuti chinali chinthu chokhacho kapena chizoloŵezi chokhazikika. Adzagwidwa, ndipo inu mungadabwe kuti iwo amadziimba mlandu chifukwa cha chinyengo. Komanso, kuchita chinyengo ngati khalidwe lobwerezabwereza kuli ngati kuledzera. Chisangalalo chokumana ndi munthu watsopano, chisangalalo chobisala chidziwitso ichi kwa wokondedwa wanu, misonkhano yachinsinsi, kugonana kosangalatsa - kumapopera magazi awo. Koma zachilendozo zikazimiririka, amayambanso kusaka. Komanso, olakwa obwerezabwereza sadzakhazikika. Adzabera mobwerezabwereza.”

Zoyenera kuchita ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi mlandu

Ichi ndi mbendera yofiyira yayikulu yomwe ikuwonetsa kuti wachinyengo wataya ulemu wonse kwa inu. Choncho, onetsetsani kuti:

• Yesani kulankhula momasuka zakukhosi kwanu ndi nkhawa zanu
• Lumikizanani ndi loya kuti muyambitse chisudzulo ngati sasintha njira zawo
• Yesetsani kudzikuza m'malo mopatsa wokondedwa wanu mphamvu zanu zonse

10. Kusintha kwa magulu a anthu ndi chizindikiro cha chinyengo chachinsinsi

Kodi mukudabwabe kuti mumapeza bwanji munthu akubera? Taonani anthu omwe amakhala nawo . Kodi mwaona kuti mnzanu sakuchezanso ndi anzake akale kapena abale ake? Akuwoneka kuti ali ndi anzake atsopano. Zimenezo zitha kukhala chizindikiro cha chinyengo chachinsinsi. Mabwenzi atsopanowo sangadziwe kuti mulipo, zomwe zimalola mnzanuyo kuti abere mwamtendere.

Zoyenera kuchita ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi mlandu

Chonde dziwani, gulu latsopano si umboni weniweni wa kubera. Zitha kukhala chifukwa cha zifukwa zina, monga kusintha zokonda, kukula kwanu, ndi zina zotero.

• Yesani kufunitsitsa kwawo kukudziwitsani kwa anzawo atsopano. Ngati sakufuna kutero, chingakhale chizindikiro cha kusakhulupirika
• Onetsani kukayikira kulikonse komwe mungakhale nako
• Yang'anani pa kukhala wodziyimira pawokha ndikutenga zokonda zatsopano

11. Mauthenga omwe akusoweka ndi zizindikiro zachinyengo za foni yam'manja

Kodi mumapeza bwanji munthu akubera ? Onani mauthenga ake. Munthawi ino ya digito, kubera mwachinsinsi kumakhala kosavuta kwambiri ndi mauthenga omwe akusowa. Mawebusayiti ambiri ochezera ali ndi izi. Izi zikugwiranso ntchito pa WhatsApp, Telegram, ndi Signal.

Zoyenera kuchita ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi mlandu

Ndizovuta kugwira mnzake wakunyengererayo ali ndi mauthenga akuzimiririka. Koma ngati mukudziwa motsimikiza kuti ali, mukhoza kuyesa zotsatirazi:

• Chinthu choyamba ndi kufuna kumveketsa bwino chifukwa chake anabera
• Nenani momveka bwino kuti izi zikusokoneza kukhulupirirana mu ubale
• Ganizirani zopita patsogolo ngati palibe kusintha kwa khalidwe

12. Chinyengo cha social media

Anthu achinyengo amachita zonse zomwe angathe kuti abise zomwe akuchita komanso kuti asagwidwe m'manja mwawo. Amasokoneza malo ochezera a pa Intaneti kuti abise zomwe akuchita. Mbiri yawo, mayina awo, ubale wawo, ndi zina zotero nthawi zambiri zimakhala zabodza, ndipo izi ndi chizindikiro choyipa chomwe simuyenera kunyalanyaza . Koma kachiwiri, chinyengo cha malo ochezera a pa Intaneti si chizindikiro chenicheni cha chinyengo. Anthu ena amakonda kusadziwika komwe malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amawapatsa.

Zoyenera kuchita ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi mlandu

Ngati mnzanuyo akujambula pazama media, mutha kuyesa malangizo awa:

• Chinthu choyamba ndikupeza chifukwa chake amagwiritsa ntchito mbiri zabodza pazama TV
• Sonkhanitsani umboni wokwanira musanakumane kapena kumunamizira mnzanuyo kuti akubera
• Osakhala wokonda pazama TV, chifukwa mwina simungatenge chilichonse

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13. iPhone ali matani njira kubisa kubera

Onyenga amadziwa kubisa chinyengo pa iPhones. Amagwiritsa ntchito zinthu zingapo, kuphatikizapo zotsatirazi.

• Kusintha kosalekeza kwa chitetezo cha passcode
• fufutidwa kuitana zipika kapena meseji
• Mapulogalamu otumizira mauthenga omwe amawoneka ngati masewera
• Adayika mapulogalamu achinsinsi omwe ali ndi mauthenga omwe akuzimiririka
• Kuwoneratu kwa mauthenga olemala kuti asayang'ane
• Zazimitsa kugawana malo kapena zidziwitso

Obera odziwa amachita khama kuti aphunzire kubisa chinyengo pa iPhone. Osati kuti ogwiritsa Android ali bwinoko. Chifukwa chake, muyenera kukhala tcheru kwambiri kuti mugwire zizindikiro zilizonse zachinyengo pafoni. 

Wogwiritsa ntchito Reddit ali ndi zomwezo: "Mauthenga a pafoni: Sitinatsegulene makalata, koma china chake chinali kundivutitsa kotero ndinadikira mpaka bilu yotsatira ya foni itabwera ndipo ndinaitenga asanadziwe kuti ilipo. Panali nambala iyi yomwe adayimba ndikumuyimbira kangapo patsiku (monga ka 10 patsiku ngakhale kumapeto kwa sabata si nthabwala); kotero ndinatenga foni ndikuyimba. Ndinatenga voicemail yake ndipo ndinapeza dzina lake. Bingo, anali wantchito mnzanga."

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Zoyenera kuchita ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi mlandu

Inu tsopano mukudziwa momwe kubisa kubera pa iPhone. Chifukwa chake, chitani zotsatirazi mukapeza mnzanu akukunyengani motere:

• Fufuzani kukhulupirika pa ntchito zawo foni
• Mvetserani modekha, pendani mmene mukumvera, ndiyeno pendani ubwenziwo
• Khazikitsani malire ndikuwafotokozera momveka bwino kwa mnzanuyo

14. Achinyengo amagwiritsa ntchito spoofing malo

Apanso, chifukwa cha luso lamakono, onyenga nthawi zonse amakhala patsogolo ndi spoofing malo. Ndikosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito spoofing ya malo kuti zabodza zamalo. Tanthauzo lake ndi lakuti wonyengayo anganene kuti ali pamalo amodzi pomwe palibe. 

Zoyenera kuchita ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi mlandu

Ngati mukudziwa kuti mnzanu akugwiritsa ntchito spoofing kubisala akapita kukaonana ndi munthu wina, yesani malangizo awa:

• Unikani ubale wanu kuti mumvetsetse chifukwa chomwe angapitirire mpaka kubisa komwe ali
• Lumikizanani anu kufunika kowonekera
• Ganizirani njira zina zotsatirira mayendedwe awo. Mwachitsanzo, funsani kuti mufufuze nthawi zonse kapena kugawana mapulani, kuti mudziwe komwe ali nthawi zonse

15. Kupanda mapulani amtsogolo

Cholinga cha maubwenzi ambiri ndikugwira ntchito yomanga tsogolo limodzi. Koma, okondedwa sangapange mapulani amtsogolo ndi inu. Komanso sanapatsidwe mwayi wopanga zolinga za ubale wautali. Kuyesa kulikonse pazokambirana zotere sikubala zipatso. Zingakhale zokhumudwitsa kwambiri ndipo zidzakufunsani ngati ubalewo ukupita kulikonse.

Zoyenera kuchita ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi mlandu

Kodi ubale womwe suganizira za moyo wautali ndi chiyani ? Kukambirana ndi kukonzekera zamtsogolo kuyenera kukhala chinthu chofunikira kwambiri muubwenzi wabwino. Ngati izi sizikuchitika yesani malangizo awa:

• Kambiranani nkhawa zanu ndikuwona ngati nonse muli ndi chiyembekezo
• Funsani uphungu wa maanja kuti athane ndi zomwe zayambitsa
• Ngati zonse zalephera, lingalirani zoyambitsa chisudzulo kapena kuthetsa chibwenzicho (ngati simuli pabanja)

Tsopano popeza mwadziwa momwe anthu onyenga amabisira mayendedwe awo, funso lofunika ndilakuti: kodi mungakhalebe nawo ngakhale mabodza onse ndi kuperekedwa? Chifukwa pamapeto pake, muyenera chikondi chomwe ndi chanu. Ngati kusakhulupirika kwa mnzanu kukukhudza thanzi lanu la maganizo, maupangiri a Bonobology ali pano kuti akuthandizeni.

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Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.