Ndiye sabata yatha usiku wa atsikana, mudaitana anzanu ndikuyamba kuwafotokozera. Zinapita pang'ono monga, "Ndikudziwa kuti mwamuna wanga amadana nane koma amati amandikonda ... ukwati wathu uli pamavuto ndipo sindikudziwa choti ndichite." Ngati mwapeza kuti mukumva zofanana ndi izi, mwafika pamalo oyenera lero. Kodi mungatani ngati mukuganiza kuti mwamuna wanu amakuda? Titha kuyesa ndikuthandizira.
Maukwati si nthano zongopeka (ngakhale tikukhumba zikanakhala!). Malonjezo a 'mpaka imfa idzatilekanitse' amamveka bwino pamapepala ndi tsiku laukwati, koma zochitika zenizeni zimatha kukhala zosagwirizana. Pamene chisokonezo ndi zovuta zimayamba, nthawi zambiri mumangodabwa zomwe muyenera kuchita.
Kwa akazi ambiri, maloto a rozi amasweka akamaona kuti mwamuna amene anakwatirana naye ndi mwamuna amene akukhala naye amakhala ngati anthu awiri osiyana. Mwinanso mungayambe kuganiza kuti mwamuna wanu amakudani mobisa kapena kuti sakugwirizana nanunso.
Izi zimachitika makamaka chifukwa kusintha ndi kulolerana kungapangitse zaka zingapo zoyambirira zaukwati kukhala zabwino koma pamene mtunda ukukula, chikondi chimatha ndipo ndewu zimayamba. Ndiyeno, mkazi kaŵirikaŵiri amakumana ndi lingaliro lodabwitsa lakuti, 'N'chifukwa chiyani ndimaona ngati mwamuna wanga amadana nane?'
Pofuna kutithandiza kukumba mozama, tili ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo Jaseena Backer (MS Psychology), yemwe ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo ndi kasamalidwe ka ubale, yemwe atitsogolera pamalingaliro awa. Kukayikira komwe kuli m'maganizo mwanu kungakhale koona kapena ayi, koma kusamvanako ndikokwanira kuwononga mtendere wanu ndi bata lanu. Monga mwachizolowezi, lamulo loyamba ndilakuti - musachite mopitirira muyeso. Ndikofunikira kuganizira bwino, kupeza zifukwa zomwe zikukupangitsani kudana ndi zinthu zoipa kenako kudziwa choti muchite ngati mukuganiza kuti mwamuna wanu amakudanani.
Mungadziwe Bwanji Ngati Mwamuna Wanu Amakuda
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Nthawi zambiri munthu amadabwa kuti maukwati amafika bwanji pamene mwamuna kapena mkazi ayamba kudana kwambiri ndi mnzake! Kodi mukuganiza kuti mukukhala ndi mwamuna amene amakudani? Chabwino, 'chidani' chingakhale mawu amphamvu oti mugwiritse ntchito pano koma mkwiyo m'banja ukhoza kukula mosavuta ngati mavuto m'banja sanakonzedwe bwino pachiyambi.
Zoona zake n’zakuti, kusungirana chakukhosi m’banja sikungochitika mwadzidzidzi. Zitha kutenga miyezi, nthawi zina zaka kuti zimange, ndiye, mwina tsiku limodzi (osati choncho) limaphulika ndipo kuchokera pamenepo ndi ulendo wotsikira.
Koma mungadziwe bwanji ngati mwamuna wanu sakukondani? Tiyeni tiyese ndi kusanthula zina mwa zizindikiro ndi zochita zake, ndi mmene zimakupangitsani kumva. Zimenezi zingakuthandizeni kumvetsa kuzama kwa nkhaniyo ndi kukulimbikitsani kuyesetsa kupeza yankho. Ndi iko komwe, kuli bwino kusiyana ndi kukhala ndi mwamuna amene amakudani, ndipo kusadziŵa chifukwa chake kumangoyambitsa mafunso ena m’maganizo mwanu.
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1. Salankhulana
Kutengeka Kwanu: Mwamuna wanga amadana ndi moyo wake ndi ine kotero kuti tasiya kulankhula
Iwo amati mphwayi ukhoza kukhala woipa kuposa kuzunzidwa. Kwa Louisa, zidayamba pomwe mwamuna wake Erik adayamba kudzipatula atatha zaka zitatu m'banja. Nthawi zonse anali munthu wabata, koma mwadzidzidzi, sanalankhule naye, kapena kugawana malingaliro ake kapena malingaliro ake. Zinali ngati kuti anali alendo awiri okhala m’nyumba imodzi ndipo Louisa anayamba kudzifunsa kuti, “N’chifukwa chiyani ndimaona ngati mwamuna wanga amadana nane?”
Ngati mwamuna wanu sakufuna kukhala nanu, chizindikiro choyamba chingakhale chakuti mwasiya chibwenzi. Sangakhale wokwiya kwambiri kapena wankhanza, koma kunyalanyaza mwamuna wanu kungakusokonezeni maganizo, ndipo mudzadabwa ngati wadziletsa mu ukwatiwo.
Simudziwa pamene mukulakwitsa chifukwa sakukuuzani. Choncho, n’kwachibadwa kukayikira kuti mwamuna wanu wakhuta nanu. 'Ndikuganiza kuti mwamuna wanga amadana nane ndi chifukwa chake amakana kuchita nane' ndi zomwe ubongo wanu umakuuzani nthawi zonse.
2. Mwamuna wanu ndi wonyalanyaza
Kutengeka Kwanu: Mwamuna wanga sasamalanso
Jaseena akuti, "Mwamuna akasiya kulankhulana nanu, kusiya kucheza nanu komanso kusiya kukupatsani nthawi yocheza ndi banja, n'zotheka kuti akunyalanyaza. Mwamuna amene akunyalanyaza mkazi wake amasiyanso kumugulira mphatso, kumutulutsa kapena kuchita zinthu zophweka monga kufunsa za thanzi lake kapena ntchito yake."
Kunyalanyaza kapena kusowa chidwi ndi chizindikiro chakuti ubale sukuyenda bwino. Mkazi aliyense amafuna kunyamulidwa ndikusamalidwa, koma zimapweteka mukazindikira kuti mwamuna wanu wakhala Loweruka usiku akusewera poker ndi anzake pamene mukuyembekezera kunyumba ndi chakudya chamadzulo chapadera. “Kodi ndingatani ngati mwamuna wanga amadana nane?”, mwatsala pang’ono kuganiza kangapo.
Kodi mwamuna wanu amanyalanyaza chilichonse chimene mumachikonda kwambiri - kuyambira kukumbukira za chibwenzi chanu musanayambe ukwati ku Central Park mpaka mgwirizano waukulu wazachuma womwe munapanga kuntchito? Kodi zochita zazing'ono zachikondi zatha? Izi ndi zizindikiro zosonyeza kusasamala ndipo zitha kukhala chizindikiro chakuti mukukhala ndi mwamuna amene amakudani.
3. Ndi wochita zachipongwe m'malire koma amaletsa
Kutengeka Kwanu: Mwamuna wanga amadana nane koma sandisiya
Azimayi ambiri ndi osowa komanso osasamala, nthawi zambiri satha kubwezera amuna awo omwe angawachitire nkhanza . Amapeza chitonthozo podziwa kuti ukwati wawo ndi wabwino ngakhale utakhala wotopetsa osati mgwirizano wopindulitsa. Mwina lingaliro la kusudzulana kovuta limawawopsa.
Ukwati uyenera kukhala wofanana koma pamene m’modzi alamulira mnzake kotheratu, sizingakhale zolimba m’pang’ono pomwe. Mwamuna wanu akhoza kusonyeza kuti alibe chithandizo chilichonse kapena kusamala koma sangakusiyeni. Koma ndi zomwe mukufuna? Kuti nthawi zonse muzidzifunsa kuti, "Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ngati mwamuna wanga amadana ndi ine?"
4. Mwamuna wanu amadana nanu mobisa ngati akulankhula nanu
Kutengeka Kwanu: Mwamuna wanga amandikwiyira
Derek ndi Tom anali atakhala m’banja zaka zisanu. Ngakhale pamene anali ndi mabwenzi kapena achibale, Derek ankakonda kuchita nthabwala ponena za kulephera kwa Tom kugwiritsira ntchito ndalama, kapena kuti sangakumbukire kugula zotsukira panthaŵi yake. Anali ooneka ngati ang’onoang’ono, koma anamusiya Tom akudandaula kuti, “Ndikuganiza kuti mwamuna wanga amadana nane.”
Ulemu ndi chimodzi mwa maziko a ukwati wolimba . Koma muubwenzi wopanda chikondi, mwamuna wanu angakudzudzuleni. Kodi nthawi zonse amakunyozani? Kodi maganizo anu kapena malingaliro anu samukhudza? Izi ndi zizindikiro zamphamvu za mkwiyo.
Mwina angakukondeni kapena sangakukondeni, koma sakuyamikilani. Kusemphana maganizo ndi gawo limodzi la zochitika zonse, koma ngati amakuonani kuti ndinu otsika ndipo sazengereza kusonyeza bwana wake, n'zotheka kuti mwamuna wanu amakhumudwa ndi zomwe muli.
Jaseena akufotokoza kuti: “Kulankhula monyoza kapena kunyozeka kulidi chizindikiro cha kupanda ulemu.
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5. Nthawi zambiri anthu amalankhula mawu achipongwe pomenyana
Kutengeka Kwanu: Mwamuna wanga anandiuza kuti amadana nane
Okwatirana amakangana nthawi zonse ndipo zimenezo zingakhale bwino. Kutha kwa chibwenzi ndi kukonza ubale ndi chibwenzi n’kofala kwambiri m’maubwenzi a nthawi yayitali. Koma chomwe muyenera kusamala nacho ndi momwe mumamenyerana. Mawu onyoza omwe amakambidwa panthawi ya mkangano waubwenzi ndi ofala koma kodi amakhumudwitsa komanso amanyoza? Mukakhala ndi mwamuna amene amakudani, mwina zimatero.
Akazi nthawi zambiri amati, "Mwamuna wanga anandiuza kuti amadana nane panthawi ya nkhondo yathu", koma ayenera kuganiza ngati mawu oterowo ankagwiritsidwa ntchito panthawi yotentha kapena ngati amawanena nthawi zambiri. Mwina ndiye, sikungosonyeza mkwiyo, koma kumachokera kumalo a udani weniweni.
6. Khalidwe ndi zochita zosamvetsetseka
Kutengeka Kwanu: Mwamuna wanga amandida mwadzidzidzi
Chizindikiro chachikulu cha ukwati womwe uli pafupi ndi mavuto ndi pamene mukuwona kusintha kwadzidzidzi kwa khalidwe la mwamuna wanu. Popeza ndinu mwamuna wachikondi komanso wosamala, mwamuna wanu mwadzidzidzi amachita zinthu zachilendo komanso zakutali akakhala nanu. Mungaone kuti n'zachilendo ndipo mwina mungadabwe kuti, “Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ngati mwamuna wanga andida mwadzidzidzi?”, koma fufuzani mozama ndipo chifukwa chenicheni chidzakhala pomwepo.
Chibwenzi chachinsinsi ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikulu za kusintha kosadziwika bwino kwa malingaliro. Kumbali ina, ngati mawu kapena khalidwe lanu linalake lamukhumudwitsa, lingayambitse mkwiyo waukulu wotulukapo mwadzidzidzi pazochitika zosayembekezereka.
“Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zimene zimasonyeza kuti mwamuna salinso pachibwenzi ndi pamene ayamba kuchita zinthu zina osati banja lake.” Zinthu monga kuthera nthaŵi yaitali kuntchito, kusapita kubanja kukadya chakudya, kupeŵa kupita kokayenda ndi banja, kusapita kokagula zinthu kapena kokaonera mafilimu, ndiko kusintha kwadzidzidzi m’makhalidwe ake oti muwasamalire. amakuda ngati sakumveranso zomwe umamuuza”, akufotokoza Jaseena.
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7. Mwamuna wanu akakudani, moyo wanu wogonana umakhala wosasangalatsa
Kutengeka Kwanu: Mwamuna wanga samandipezanso wokongola
Kuti mukonde munthu, muyeneranso kumukonda. Moyo wanu wogonana ukhoza kukhala wosagwedezeka kwambiri mutatha zaka zambiri m'banja, koma ngati ubwenzi wapamtima ndi wathupi zonse zikusowa, dziwani kuti sikumangokhalira kugonana komwe kwasowa. Palinso chinthu chinanso.
Rachel, yemwe wakhala m’banja ndi Hans kwa zaka pafupifupi 20, anadandaula kuti: “Mwamuna wanga amadana nane, nditani? Si zokhazo, Hans ankaoneka kuti sankafunanso kukhala naye. Akatambasula dzanja lake, sakanabwezera. Ngati anatsamira pa iye, mwamunayo ankachoka kwa iye mwamsanga.
Kukwatiwa ndi munthu amene simukumukonda kwambiri kungakulepheretseni kugonana. Kugonana kumakhala ntchito yotopetsa osati chikondi, ubwenzi, chisamaliro ndi kukondana. Maukwati opanda kugonana nthawi zambiri amakhala chifukwa chakuti mnzawo wina amadana ndi mnzake.
8. Sachita khama m’banja
Kutengeka Kwanu: Mwamuna wanga amadana ndi moyo wake ndi ine
Ubale ndi ntchito yovuta ndipo muyenera kuusamalira nthawi zonse kuti ukhale wautali. Amuna, makamaka m'mabanja osagwirizana, amakonda kusiya kuyesetsa kuti chibwenzicho chitsogole akalandira mphete. N’chifukwa chake mwina mukuganiza kuti mwamuna wanu amakudani mobisa.
Mwina panali nthawi yomwe nonse munkasangalala kuchita zinthu limodzi, koma tsopano mwamuna wanu sakuona zomwe mumachita kapena zomwe mukufuna. Zimasonyeza kuti amaona kuti ndi zopepuka kapena wayamba kudzikonda , ndipo ukwatiwo ndi gawo laling'ono la moyo wake. Ndipotu, mwina sangakhale ndi chidwi ndi zimenezi.
Kodi Mungatani Ngati Mukuganiza Kuti Mwamuna Wanu Amakudani?
Kuti banja lipulumuke, muyenera kuyesetsa kulisungabe ngakhale mwamuna wanu atachita zinthu ngati kuti amadana nanu. Zingakhale zowawa kwambiri ngati mukukhala ndi malingaliro odzimvera chisoni nthawi zonse akuti 'mwamuna wanga amadana nane, koma ndimamukonda'. Kuthetsa chisokonezo, kukhumudwa ndi mkwiyo sizingathandize.
Choyamba, kambiranani za nkhani imene muli nayo. Mogwirizana ndi zizindikiro zimene zili pamwambazi, onetsetsani kuti kukayikira kwanu sikuli zochita za munthu woganiza mopambanitsa, koma munganene motsimikiza kuti mwamuna wanu wasiya kukukondani. Ngati ndi yomalizira, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kuyesetsa kupulumutsa banja lanu ngakhale mwamuna wanu atakudani.
Mutazindikira kuti pali vuto lina lalikulu m’banja mwanu, ndipo malingaliro a mwamuna wanu pa inu ali olakwika, dzifunseni ngati mukufuna kupitiriza. Ngati inde, nazi njira zina zothanirana nazo mukakhala ndi mwamuna amene amakudani.
1. Lankhulani zabwino kwa inu nokha
Kodi mungapulumutse bwanji ukwati wanu pamene mwamuna wanu amakudani? Palibe chabwino ngati kulankhulana momasuka pankhani yothetsera mavuto a m'banja. Inde, zingakhale zosavuta kunena kuposa kuchita, koma ngati maganizo anu ali ndi kukayikira ndi mantha, choyamba muyenera kulimbitsa maganizo anu mwa kuyang'anitsitsa mawu anu ndikuwongolera maganizo anu.
M’malo momangokhalira kunena kuti, “Mwamuna wanga amadana nane, nditani?” kapena "Mwamuna wanga amadana nane mwadzidzidzi ndipo sindikudziwa", yesani kudziuza nokha, "Ndikuganiza kuti mwamuna wanga amadana nane, koma ndatsimikiza mtima kupeza chifukwa chake ndi momwe ndingathetsere". Kuchita zimenezi kungakuthandizeni kwambiri pa moyo wanu komanso m’banja lanu.
2. Lankhulani ndi mwamuna wanu
Izi zitha kukhala zovuta, koma ndizofunikira kwambiri. Pokhapokha mutadziwa vuto m’banja mwanu, simungathe kulikonza. Choyamba, phunzirani kuvomereza kuti zinthu sizili zofanana pakati pa inu ndi mwamuna wanu. Kenako tengani sitepe yomutulutsa mu chipolopolo chake.
Kulankhulana kungakhale kovuta ngati mwamuna wanu akukuzunzani kapena mukumuopa, koma ngati ndi ubale wofanana womwe walakwika ndiye kuti kukambirana momasuka kungathandize kuti mtima wanu ukhale womasuka. Koma khalani okonzeka kumva zinthu zosasangalatsa zokhudza inuyo ngati asankha kulankhula zoona. Kupatula kudzikuza n'kofunika kwambiri pankhaniyi ngati mukufunadi kusunga chikondi chanu ndikupeza chomwe chalakwikadi.
Jaseena akupereka lingaliro lakuti, “Musadikire kuti mulankhule mpaka mapeto.
3. Yambani mwatsopano
Ndiye mukutsimikiza kuti mwamuna wanu amakuda ngakhale sananene zambiri? Ndikukhulupirira kuti, "Mwamuna wanga amadana ndi moyo wake ndi ine?" Chabwino, ndiye, bwanji osayesa kutembenuza chidani kukhalanso chikondi?
Choyamba, dziwani maganizo anu ndi kuwathetsa. Kodi mukufunadi kuti ubalewu utheke? Kenako, yesetsani kuchitapo kanthu.
Iwalani mavuto akale ndikuyambanso. Kudzifunsa nthawi zonse kuti, 'chifukwa chiyani ndikumva kuti mwamuna wanga amandida' sikungakuthandizeni. Yambani ndikukonzekera kumukopanso. Chitani zinthu zing'onozing'ono monga kusinthana mphatso, kukonzekera maulendo odzidzimutsa kapena kumuthandiza pamavuto a ntchito. Khalani oleza mtima panthawi yonseyi.
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4. Mungapulumutse bwanji banja lanu pamene mwamuna wanu amakudani? Pumulani wina ndi mzake
Tsopano, iyi ikhoza kukhala chingwe chotchinga kuyenda. Koma ngati mwamuna wanu wasiya chidwi ndi inu, chinthu chotsiriza chimene mungafune ndicho kumuthamangitsira kutali. Komabe nthawi zina, n’zimene zimafunikadi muubwenzi umene ukulephera. Kusungirana chakukhosi kumayamba muubwenzi pamene okondedwa azolowerana kwambiri ndipo zikhalidwe zing’onozing’ono zimayamba kukwiyitsa.
Andy ndi Jessica anali akulimbana kwa miyezi ingapo, ndipo zinaoneka kuti palibe njira yotulukira, panalibe njira yogwirizana yomwe akanatha kufikira. Pomalizira pake, Jessica anaganiza zochoka kwa milungu ingapo, kuti awapatse mpata wopuma. Mpweya womwe unali m’nyumba mwawo unkaoneka ngati wapoizoni ndipo anaona kuti n’koyenera kuti akhale ndi malo oganiza.
Kuti mupewe zinthu zoipa, kusiyana kwa kanthawi kochepa kungathandize. Kungakupatseni inu ndi iye, mpata wofunikira wopumira. Inde, muyenera kukambirana naye kaye nkhani yofunika kwambiri ndipo muyenera kusankha mwanzeru kuti mupumule pang'ono kuti muganizire njira yotsatira.
Jaseena anatiuza kuti: “Kupuma kwa wina ndi mnzake kungatanthauze kusamukira m’nyumba zosiyana ndi kugwiritsira ntchito nthaŵiyo kulingalira za mkhalidwe waubwenziwo.
5. Dzikonzeninso nokha ndi moyo wanu
'Mwamuna wanga amadana nane, nditani?' Chabwino, ngati kuli koyipa, pita kukayenda ndi anzanu kapena yesani chizolowezi chatsopano! Ndizotheka kuti malingaliro oyipawa ali m'mutu mwanu chifukwa simunatengeke mokwanira posachedwapa kapena china chake chikukuvutitsani ndikukupangitsani kuganiza moyipa kwambiri. Inde, ndizotheka kuti sakuda ndipo mwangoganiza mopambanitsa.
Mukayamba kudzipangitsa kumva bwino, mungaone kuti munkangoganiza zimenezi chifukwa chakuti pali chinachake chomwe chikusowa m'moyo wanu. Kaya ndi usiku wa atsikana kapena kalasi yochita zinthu zoumba mbiya kapena chidwi chadzidzidzi ndi malo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi, pitani kumeneko ndikukhala bwino kwambiri.
6. Ngati mukutsimikizabe kuti mwamuna wanu amakudani mobisa, ingovomerezani
Ngakhale pambuyo pa zochitika zonse zoyankhulirana ndi zojambula tsitsi ndi masiku odabwitsa, mtima wanu umamvabe ngati ukumira, ingakhale nthawi yovomereza kuti ubalewu watha. Itha kukhala nthawi yoti mupereke chigamulo kwa mwamuna wanu. Muuzeni kuti mukusungulumwa muubwenzi umenewu ndipo akufunika kusintha njira zake mwanjira ina.
Mukatsimikiza kuti mwachita zonse zomwe mungathe, komabe mukumva kuti mwatayidwa, ponyani mpirawo m'bwalo lake. Mpatseni nthawi yoti aone chomwe chalakwika kapena muuzeni kuti mungafunike kupatukana kapena kuthetsa izi. Mmene angachitire zimenezi angakuuzeni zambiri zokhudza zolinga zake.
7. Sulani chisudzulo ngati palibe njira ina
Lolani kusudzulana kukhala njira yomaliza mukayesa zina zonse. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala bwino kupangitsa ukwati kukhala wothandiza, koma nthawi zina m'moyo, palibe chifukwa chopitira patsogolo ndi ubale wopanda pake. Kodi nthawi yosudzulana ndi iti? Mwina mkwiyo, chidani ndi kusakondana kwa mwamuna wanu kwafika poti sizingatheke. Osachepera simukungodzifunsa nthawi zonse kuti, "Ndichite chiyani ngati mwamuna wanga andida?", mukangomaliza.
Kumbukirani, ngati nkhanza zamtundu uliwonse (zakuthupi kapena zamaganizo) zikuphatikizidwa, muli ndi ufulu wonse wochoka muukwati wanu.
Ngati, mosasamala kanthu za khama lanu, simungathe kuwona tsogolo losangalatsa la nonse awiri, ndi bwino kuti mutulukemo mokoma mtima. Ndithudi, kudzakhala kopweteka, makamaka ngati simusunga malingaliro oipa kwa iye. Koma idzakhala sitepe yabwino kwambiri ya tsogolo losangalala komanso losadetsa nkhawa.
Kuwonongeka kwa ubale kumatha kuchitika pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana. Moyenera, ndi bwino kuyang'ana zizindikiro mwamsanga ndikudziwa ngati zikupita kutsika. Ndipo ngati njira zokonzetsera sizingathe kukonza ndiye muyenera kulimba mtima kuti muyang'ane m'tsogolo. Kodi mungakonde kuchita chiyani? Menyani ndi kubweza mwamuna wanu kapena kuchokapo kwa izo zonse? Kusankha ndi kwanu kwathunthu.
FAQS
Mungamve ngati mwamuna wanu amakudani ngati sakumvetseranso mawu anu, ngati chilakolakocho chikusowa, salankhulana ndi maganizo ake, ndi wamwano ndipo nthawi zambiri amayesa kukugwetsani pansi, kukhala wonyodola komanso wankhanza. Amakupatsirani chithandizo chamchete ndipo nthawi zambiri samayankha ku mantha anu kapena nkhawa zanu.
Zidzaonekera kwambiri mu khalidwe lake ndi zochita zake kwa inu. Kusagwirizana ndi ndewu zimachitika nthawi zonse muubwenzi (nthawi zina zimakhalanso zathanzi!) nkhani zowongolera mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo pa inu.
Mawu ochepa okwiya kapena maulendo angapo a masewera olakwa omwe amaponyedwa apa ndi apo samasonyeza udani. Chimene chimachita ndicho kutalikirana mwadala, kusadera nkhaŵa kwenikweni (pamene angasonyeze chisamaliro chochuluka kwa ena), kusiyana kwa mmene amachitira ndi inu ndi awo amene amawayamikira, ndi mkhalidwe wamphwayi wamba pa unansiwo. Ngati sakulemekezani, n’zosakayikitsa kuti amadana nanu.
Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
