Sagar : Ndikukumbukira kuona Neema koyamba ku MS University. Ngakhale kuti tinali ku koleji imodzi, kalasi imodzi, komanso tinatenga maphunziro omwewo, sitinalankhulepo ku koleji. Pa tsiku lathu loyankhulana ndi TCS, tinadziwitsidwa ndi mnzathu wamba. Panali kulumikizana nthawi yomweyo. Pa tsiku loyamba la maphunziro athu ku TCS, tinagawana desktop imodzi kuti tikambirane maulaliki ena omwe sanali omveka kwa ine. Panali chinachake chokhudza mtsikanayu chomwe chinandipangitsa kumva ngati ndikufuna kugawana naye moyo wanga.
M’masiku oyambirira amenewo okopa, tinaona kuti tinali ndi umunthu wosiyana kotheratu. Kusiyana kumeneku n’kumene kunatikopa kuti tizikondana. Ndipo izi zidayamba zomwe tsiku lina zidzasintha kukhala nkhani yathu yaubwenzi wautali.
Nkhani Yathu Yachikondi Ya Ubale Wautali
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Neema : Kunena zoona, ngati wina angandifunse zomwe ndimakonda pa Sagar, sindingakhale ndi vuto lililonse. N'zosadabwitsa, ndilibe chifukwa chomukondera. Ndimamukonda. Ali ndi makhalidwe abwino ngati abambo anga - wodekha, wodekha komanso wodekha. Sakwiya ndi aliyense, zivute zitani.
Kuwerenga kofanana: Payenera kukhala zoona zambiri kuti ubale ukhale wautali kuntchito
S : Chikondi chathu chinakula kwambiri pamene tinayamba kugwira ntchito limodzi ku TCS. Ndinkagwira ntchito ya m'mawa, kotero ndinkafuna kuchita chinthu chosangalatsa madzulo. Ndinalembetsa makalasi a madzulo a Chifalansa ku MSU ndipo ndinakopa anzanga ena kuti andigwirizane nawo. Neema anali m'modzi mwa iwo. Ndani ankadziwa kuti tsiku lina idzasanduka imodzi mwa nkhani zachikondi zakutali?
Ndinkadziwa kuti makalasi a Chifalansa sankamusangalatsa Neema. Nthawi imene makalasi atatha inali imene ndinkayembekezera. Tonse tinkapita ku Dairy Den Circle kukadya chakudya cha Jay Ambe cha Aadu wali chai . Chomwe ndimakonda kwambiri ndi Neema chinali chakuti ngakhale kuti sanamwe khofi kapena tiyi, ankabwera kudzandithandiza kukhala naye.
Patsiku lathu lomaliza la kalasi yachifalansa, pamene ndinkamwa tiyi, anandifunsira. Zinamveka zosaneneka. Ndinasimidwa ndi mtsikana okoma, woganiza bwino, wosavuta, woganiza bwino ngati Neema wawona china chake mwa ine.
M'malo movomereza pempho lake, ndinakana. Ngakhale kuti ndinkasangalala kukhala naye, sindinamve ngati ndili ndi malingaliro okondana naye. Choncho, ndinaganiza kuti sindiyenera kuvomereza pempho lake koma kungokhala mabwenzi . Mapulani anga anali omveka bwino: Sindinkafuna kugwa m'chikondi ndikusokoneza moyo wanga wangwiro. Koposa zonse, ndinkadziwa kuti posachedwa ndidzachoka kupita ku US. Choncho, ndinaganiza kuti sindingathe kukwatira ndisanabwerere ndi Green Card yanga.
Ena mwa ine ndimafuna kuvomera pempho la Neema, koma ndimaganiza kuti akuyenera kukhala wina wabwino. Tsiku lina ndinamuuza zimene zinkandilepheretsa kuvomera. Ndinadabwa kuti ankafunabe kundikwatira. Ndipo pamapeto pake, patatha miyezi inayi ndi masiku 12, ndinavomera. Ndipo ichi chinali chiyambi cha chikondi chathu chakutali.
N : Kuyambira tsiku lomwe tinayamba chibwenzi chomwe chinasanduka nkhani yopambana yakutali . Sindinamvepo, ngakhale mphindi imodzi, kuti ndinamufunsira chibwenzi . M'malo mwake, nthawi zonse amandipangitsa kumva kuti ndiye amene anandifunsira chibwenzi ndipo amandisonyeza chikondi chachikulu.
S : Chokhacho chomwe chimasintha muubwenzi wathu ndichakuti wakhala ubale wautali. Pakati pa nthawi yomwe Neema anandifunsira chibwenzi ndi nthawi yomwe ndinavomereza, anali atasamukira kale ku Gandhinagar. Monga maanja ambiri omwe amakhala kutali, tinkayembekezera Lolemba, Lachinayi, ndi Lachisanu kuti tionane.
N : Pofika nthawi imene ndinabwerera ku Baroda, Sagar anayenera kusamukira ku US. Chifukwa chake, chomwe tinali nacho chinali kumapeto kwa sabata kuti tilankhulane kwa maola ambiri osadandaula za nthawi.
S : Mwamwayi, mabanja athu adavomereza chisankho chathu chokwatirana, ngakhale kuti panali mtunda wautali. Ngakhale kuti ndinatha kubwerera ku India kukachita ukwati, ndinayenera kubwerera patatha miyezi itatu yokha. Kuyambira pamenepo takhala tikudikira…ndikudikira…ndikudikira.
Timaseka Monga Anzathu, Kukopana Monga Okonda
Gawo labwino kwambiri paubwenzi wanga wautali ndikuti ndife mabwenzi abwino kwambiri kotero sitigwiritsa ntchito mawu odzaza monga Mkazi Wamwamuna, Udindo, Miyambo ya Banja ndi Miyambo, ndi zina zotero.
N & S : Nthawi iliyonse tikamalankhula, timakhala mabwenzi apamtima omwewo monga momwe tinalili nthawi zonse. Chifukwa chake, chikondi chathu nthawi zonse chimakhala ndi kukoma kokopana, kusekana, komanso kusekana. Mwina ndicho chiwembu cha chikondi chomwe chimapangitsa kuti ubale wathu wakutali ugwire ntchito.
Ubale wathu ndi wamphamvu moti mtunda uwu ukutibweretsa pafupi ndi kutithandiza kumvetsetsana. Chifukwa cha kusiyana kwa nthawi pakati pa US ndi India, nthawi yokhayo yomwe timalankhulana ndi Loweruka ndi Lamlungu ndi mphindi zochepa mkati mwa sabata. Timadikirira ngati chibwenzi-chibwenzi chomwe amakhala kunyumba ndikudikirira kuti tipite ku koleji tsiku lotsatira kuti tikawonane. Ndipo tasintha zomwe zikadakhala zovuta kukhala imodzi mwamaubwenzi osangalatsa, osangalatsa akutali.
(Monga adauza Darshana Shukul)
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Momwe Mungakhalire ndi Ubwenzi Wabwino ndi Anthu Otalikirana
Ibibazo
Inde, amatero. Maubwenzi apatali amatha kukhala ndi zovuta zake, koma, mukamakondana, zinthu monga mtunda ndi kusiyana kwa nthawi zimakhala zachiwiri. Malingana ngati pali kulankhulana momasuka ndi kudalirana, ndi onse awiri omwe ali okonzeka kuyika ntchito, maubwenzi akutali akhoza kukhala osangalatsa komanso okhutira monga ubale wina uliwonse.
Kwambiri. Maubwenzi opambana akutali amakhudza kukhulupirirana, kuleza mtima, ndi kulankhulana momasuka. Chikondi chakutali chingakhale chovuta, koma, malinga ngati nonse mumasamala ndi kukhulupirirana, sipadzakhala mavuto omwe simungathe kuwathetsa pamodzi.
Nkhani iliyonse yopambana yakutali idzakuuzani momwe chikondichi chilili chenicheni monga mtundu wina uliwonse. Mwinanso kwambiri popeza nonse muli okonzeka kulimbana ndi zopinga zingapo kuti mukhale ndi wina ndi mnzake. Ndi chikondi chosaopa malire. Ndi mtundu wa chikondi chomwe chimakhala chodalirana, chosamala, komanso chokwaniritsa malinga ngati muli oona mtima kwa inu nokha komanso kwa wina ndi mnzake.
malingaliro Final
Nkhani ya Sagar ndi Neema ndi umboni wa mphamvu ya chikondi ndi mphamvu ya mgwirizano wawo, ngakhale patali. Kuchokera kumsonkhano wawo woyamba ku Yunivesite ya MS mpaka kuthana ndi zovuta zaubwenzi wautali, ulendo wawo ukuwonetsa momwe kusiyana kungakope ndikulimbitsa ubale. Ngakhale kupatukana kwakuthupi ndi kukayikira koyambirira, kudzipereka kwawo kosasunthika ndi kugwirizana kwapadera kunawalola kumanga ubale wokwanira, wosangalatsa. Chokumana nacho chawo chimasonyeza kuti mwa kuleza mtima, kukhulupirirana, ndi kulankhulana momasuka, chikondi chikhoza kuyenda bwino mosasamala kanthu za kutalikirana.
Chikondi Chamuyaya: Kodi Icho Ndi Chiyani Ndipo Chimakhalapodi?
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“Nthaŵi zonse tikamalankhula, timakhala mabwenzi apamtima amodzimodzi monga mmene tinalili nthaŵi zonse.” Choncho chikondi chathu nthaŵi zonse chimakhala chokopana, kunyozana, ndi kuseka.” - Kulumikizana uku ndikosangalatsa!
Zimakhala zovuta kukhala pachibwenzi chakutali koma ndiye inde, mumadikirira ngati wamisala ndipo ikafika nthawi mumathedwa nzeru. Zoona!
Zimatengera kuleza mtima kwakukulu kuti mukhale paubwenzi wautali.