Kulezi zikhathi zokufinyeleleka kwedijithali, kanye nobusuku benqwaba yeziphuzo, sibe nesabelo sethu sokuthumela imiyalezo edakiwe kwabadala bethu. Ayivamisile ukuba yinhle. Ngombono wotshwala obomvana nomhubhe, akukho okuhle okwake kwaphuma ngokuthumela imilayezo kwabangaphambili. Sichitha uhlaka lwamathambo ekhabetheni kubo futhi siyazisola ngakusasa ekuseni. Lena imilayezo yakudala abantu abayithumelayo uma bedakiwe.
1. “Ngikukhumbule kakhulu”:
Okuqukethwe
Lokhu kungase kube yiqiniso, kungase kungabi njalo. Lokhu okomuntu siqu kakhulu futhi kukubeka endaweni esengozini. Ukulahlekelwa othile kuveza iqiniso lokuthi basabalulekile empilweni yakho (futhi kumuntu wakho wangaphambili, ungase ungalubambi lolu hlobo lokubaluleka). Umuntu odakiwe othi ukhumbula othile kuyilapho engakwazi ukubhala imisho egcwele yedwa ubonisa nje ukuthi usengozini yokuthakaselwa yi-ex yakhe.
2. “Wake wangithanda na?”
Ukuze kuvele icala kumuntu owayethandana naye , lo uthunyelwa uma ufuna ukuvala wedwa. Ungase wazi ukuthi kungani ulahliwe, kodwa isimo sakho sokudakwa asikwazi ukuqonda ukuthi izinto zenzeke ngesizathu. Uyazi ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuqhubeka kodwa izintambo zokugcina zilokhu zikudonsela emuva. Futhi izibhamu eziyisithupha zikaGlenfiddich azizange zikusize.
3. “Unjani?”
Ubulindele impendulo ethi “Kulungile, ngiyakukhumbula nje ” kodwa esikhundleni salokho uthole igama elithi “Kuhle” noma okubi nakakhulu, akukho mpendulo. Owayengumlingani wakho uyazi ukuthi inhlalakahle yakhe akuyona into oyithandayo. Ngakho-ke, manje usudakiwe, uhleli nefoni yakho ephathekayo futhi ucwilisa impendulo yakhe kwenye ingilazi ye-whisky. Sonke besilapho.
4. “Uyakhumbula ngesikhathi seqa ekolishi siya esizibeni wangifundisa ukubhukuda?”
Lo mlayezo omude ungahle ugcwele ama-typos kubangela ukuthi ukuxhumana kwakho kwekhanda neso nesandla kuba kubi uma udakiwe. Lo mlayezo uzama ukusho kabusha okwedlule, ukhomba zonke izikhathi ezimnandi oye waba nazo no-ex wakho nokuthi lezo zinkumbulo ziyizinkumbulo ezijabulisayo kuphela zakho manje, ngobusuku bangoMgqibelo, uzungezwe abantu abamoshwe njengawe.
5. "Ungahamba wena f***, ngiqhubeke"
Akubona bonke abantu abazibeka endaweni ebuthakathaka uma bedakiwe. Abambalwa, abambalwa nje, bayacasuka ngendlela izinto eziphele ngayo. Nakuba bengase bangabi nazwi lokukhuluma ngakho, intukuthelo yabo iphuma ngezindlela ezimbi uma bedakiwe. Ngokungafani neziwula ezithumela imiyalezo kubantu ababethandana nabo abake babathandana nabo abagcwele ama-emoji enhliziyo , abanye bayabathuka. Imiyalezo yabo igcwele igama elithi 'F' kanye namanye amazwi angemnandi kangako abawathola eminyakeni yabo yobusha.
Umnikelo wakho awuyona iminikelo yokusiza . Kuzovumela i-Bonobology ukuthi iqhubeke nokukulethela ulwazi olusha nolusesikhathini njengoba sifuna ukusiza noma ubani emhlabeni ukuthi afunde ukwenza noma yini.
