Kungani Silindele Uthando Luyohlala Phakade Futhi Luyohlala Luqinile

Ngokuvamile sibona kumamuvi nezinhlelo ze-TV, umbhangqwana ophila impilo ephelele- ezothando zasebuntwaneni, ukushada, ukuba nezingane, nokuchitha izikhathi zabo zokugcina ndawonye. Futhi kukugcwalisa ngethemba lokuthi uthando luyohlala phakade nakuwe.

Ingabe kwenzeka kuma-movie kuphela noma kulula ngempela ukuthola umuntu ozohlala othandweni nawe? Ake sibheke iqiniso lothando oluhlala njalo kancane kancane.

Ingabe Uthando Luhlala Phakade?

Uthando lwezothando luyaziwa ngokuyingozi kakhulu - luyathandeka, luyashintshashintsha, luyadla, luyashesha, luyajabulisa, luyadabukisa. Ezimweni eziningi, akulona uhlobo lothando oluhlala phakade. Uma isibuyiselwe, ingangena kalula isithukuthezi.

Ifisa ukulondeka nokuba ngumuntu othandekayo, kodwa lapho lokhu kufisa sekugcwaliseka, isimo siba nzima! Kunezinto ezincane esizenzayo nsuku zonke, ngaphandle kokuqaphela, ezibulala uthando ebudlelwaneni.

Kubo bonke obunye ubudlelwano (lapho uthando lwezothando lungadlalwa) imizwa nomfutho kuvunyelwe ukuthi kukhule futhi kunciphe, futhi nakuba kungenzeki ntofontofo noma kube mnandi kulowo osekugcineni kokwamukela, kwamukelwe ngaphandle kwengxabano nesiphithiphithi esiningi.

Kodwa othandweni lwezothando lezi zigaba zithathwa njengokuphambuka. Omunye ubethelwe esiphambanweni! Umngane uPallavi Guptaa wabhala, “Kungani (uthando) kufanele lungabi nangqondo futhi lufane nesidakamizwa esidakwe phezulu…. konke kuhle futhi kugcizelelwe ngazo zonke izenzo nomcabango… kungani kungavunyelwa ukuba kuthule kancane… kuvunyelwe ukuthi kunciphe kancane ngezinye izikhathi…kungani ungeke nje uthande umuntu omthandayo ngezinye izikhathi ngaphandle kokufuna ukumgxumela futhi ungene emakhanda akhe ngaphandle kokuhluleka ukulindela ukuthi uzomdubula….

Uke wacabanga ngalokhu? Uthando luzophela ngoba kokubili isikhathi nempumelelo kuyizitha zalo.

Ukuthengiswa njalo kothando lothando!

Ukukhangana phakathi kwabashadile kuvame ukuncipha ngemva kweminyaka emibili, nokho ithelevishini, amamuvi kanye nomagazini bawukhuthaza ngentshiseko umbono wokuthi uthando olufiphalayo nesithukuthezi kuwuphawu lobudlelwano obungaphumeleli.

Imithombo yezindaba eminingi kanye nenkundla yezokuxhumana isixosha ngemifanekiso engelona iqiniso yothando lothando, okunomthelela ekwakhiweni kwezinto ezingenakwenzeka. Basenza sikholelwe ukuthi uthando luyohlala phakade uma silandela 'amacebiso' abo kanye 'nezibikezelo' zabo ezingathembekile.

Ukukhazinyuliswa kothando njengokungapheli, okukhangayo nokwanelisayo kuqiniswa kaningi kusetshenziswa izindlela ezingenakubalwa. Izimboni eziningi namabhizinisi ancike kuyo: imboni yezemfashini, ezempilo nokuphila kahle, imibukiso yethelevishini, umculo, izincwadi, futhi, kunjalo, i-Bollywood!

Isici esitholakala yonke indawo ye-Bollywood cinema iziphetho ezijabulisayo: ukuphetha ifilimu ngenyunyana yombhangqwana othandanayo. Ngaphandle kwalokho, zenza inqubo yokungena othandweni ibe lula futhi ziqinise umgomo walo waphakade, zisenze sicabange ukuthi zingafezwa futhi kufanele zifezwe.

Ukufunda Okuhlobene: Kungani amafilimu e-Bollywood kufanele aphele ngokuthi “The Beginning” kunethi “The End”

UDeepak Kashyap, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esilulekayo kanye nomqeqeshi wamakhono okuphila oqinisekisiwe osebenza eMumbai uthe kimi ngesikhathi senhlolokhono, “Okonakalisa uthando yilapho uzama ukuluguqula lube yifilimu yeBollywood yamahora amathathu. Noma iyiphi incwadi, noma iyiphi ifilimu, noma yikuphi ukusakazwa kwewebhu kunqunyelwe isikhathi, futhi impilo yangempela inde futhi iyadina.

Uma upakisha impilo yamashumi amathathu eminyaka ibe ifilimu yamahora amathathu, ulindele okuthile okuhlukile. Futhi lapho lokho okulindele kungafezeki, ungazihlasela wena, abanye, noma ukuphila.”

Cabanga ngakho, ngisho nefilimu ethi Titanic yayimayelana nothando - umkhumbi wacwila kamuva, into yokuqala eyayigxile kuyo uthando.

Ukubukeka komphakathi kuvame ukukhohlisa

Imithombo yezokuxhumana - Facebook, Twitter, WhatsApp, Instagram, et al. - ngokuthunyelwe kwabo okutholakala yonke indawo kanye nokuhwebelana kuye kwasakaza kakhulu inganekwane yothando lothando. Okungabonakali yizindaba, ukulwa okubi, izidlo zakusihlwa ngaphandle kokuxoxisana nanoma yimaphi amagama, nezinye izindaba ezijulile nezansuku zonke.

Bengilokhu nginomuzwa wokuthi lokhu esikubona ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ngokuvamile kungamaqiniso angaphelele. Ubona izithandani ku-inthanethi futhi 'uzithumele' ngokuphelele, kodwa uma uhlangana nazo empilweni yangempela, uqala ukubuza, "ingabe uthando lungahlala phakade?"

UDkt. Rajan Bhonsle, isazi sobulili nomeluleki, uthi, “Lokho okuthiwa imishado ejabulisayo ayijabulile kangako, ibukeka iyinhle ku-FB.

“Ngihlala endaweni yabantu abasezingeni eliphezulu, iCuffe Parade eMumbai.Izithandani eziningi endaweni yangakithi zize kimina, ngokwenhlalo, njengomakhelwane noma ngezinkinga zazo.Ngaphandle, zibukeka zizinhle kodwa ngaphandle kokukhetha, zonke zinezinkinga ezinkulu.

“Hhayi-ke siyakufihla ngoba wonke umuntu akumele azi, njengokuthi uma ugula awuhambi utshela abanye kodwa uthintane nodokotela, bese beza kimina, isikhathi eside bengicabanga ukuthi, 'Babonakala bebahle ndawonye'.

“Ngibona uhlangothi oluhluke ngokuphelele. Kodwa kwabanye, basabonakala bephelele. Ngihlale ngitshela amakhasimende ami, ungakhohliswa imibono yabanye ngempilo yabo yomshado ephelele. Wonke umuntu unezinkinga, uyakwazi ukuzifihla!”

Ubudlelwano bangempela bune-ebb and flow

Omunye umelaphi, uSalony Priya, ozinze eCalcutta, onguchwepheshe kwezokwelapha emshadweni, wathi, “Ngingasho ngokuhlangenwe nakho okuthile ukuthi imibhangqwana ‘ejabulile phambi kwabanye’ yakha iningi emphakathini wethu.” Ebusweni ngeke usole lutho.

Baya kuma-club, amaphathi, ukudla kwasemini nedina, baphathe ubusuku obuhle, futhi babe nemikhuba emihle nezivakashi kanye nomunye nomunye. Ungase uthi, "Yeka umbhangqwana omuhle ojabule'. Kodwa empeleni, ubuhlobo babo bomyeni nenkosikazi sebuphelile iminyaka. Abaningi baze balale emakamelweni ahlukene."

Kunokuqina kwangempela ebuhlotsheni osebukhona amashumi eminyaka. Kusezivumelwaneni ezincane nezinkulu lapho izithandani zikwenza usuku nosuku. Ekudedeleni nasekubambeleleni. Kusekumeni okuqinile lapho enye ibuthakathaka - futhi ngokuvamile ishintsha izindawo.

Futhi ngokuqinisekile asikho isizathu sokuvezwa obala ngezindaba zomshado! Kuwubuwula bethu ukuthi sithonywe izithombe ezihlangothini olulodwa abantu abavame ukuziveza. Ngakho-ke uma uke uzibuze ukuthi uthando luhlala kuze kube phakade, khumbula nje ukuthi impilo ayiyona inganekwane. Uthando lungokoqobo, kodwa luhlala isikhathi esingakanani ngempela?

Njengoba uGeorge Bernard Shaw ohlakaniphile asho, kunezinhlekelele ezimbili ekuphileni. Enye iwukulahlekelwa isifiso senhliziyo yakho, enye iwukuba usizuze.

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