What would you call a person who is a writer by passion, a story teller by obsession, a mentor by aspiration and a communicator by profession? You would probably call him insane. Well, we call him Ramen.

I am creative with a great sense of irreverent humor.

A deep emotional connect and loads of sex

unfaithfulness

Leave it to Psmith by P.G.Wodehouse

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Stories by Ramendra Kumar

How necessary is Sex in a Marriage? | Bonobology

The one thing I want but she doesn't

Ramendra Kumar
Ramendra Kumar
Posted on : 14 Dec 2016

He thinks sex is all-important, she finds it less so

Views: 4.04k
Comments: 0
Rare Disease Took His Voice, Gave His Wife A Sense Of Humour | Bonobology

I Lost my Speech and my Wife found her humour!

Ramendra Kumar
Ramendra Kumar
Posted on : 25 Aug 2016

A husband’s humorous take on a rare condition that he was diagnosed with

Views: 1.25k
Comments: 1
Story Of A Strong & Shining Love Forged At A Steel Plant | Bonobology

A love, shining and strong like the steel it was forged over

Ramendra Kumar
Ramendra Kumar
Posted on : 05 Jul 2016

Neither opposition from parents nor the upheavals of a professional set up could cause a chink in this couple’s love story. Ramendra Kumar n...

Views: 5.46k
Comments: 0
Bonobology | The Silent Treatment Can Destroy A Marriage & Home

The violence of silence...how lack of communication affects a marriage

Ramendra Kumar
Ramendra Kumar
Posted on : 06 Jun 2016

Don’t make your marriage a battleground. Happy homes are made when couples communicate with each other says Ramendra Kumar

Views: 2.26k
Comments: 2
Does defining gender roles in marriage matter anymore? | Bonobology

Hamarawala Ki and Ka

Ramendra Kumar
Ramendra Kumar
Posted on : 20 May 2016

Writer Ramendra Kumar pens an autobiographical sketch on role reversal a-la the movie Ki and Ka.

Views: 1.60k
Comments: 5

 

Discussions by Ramendra Kumar

Is it possible to have a perfect marriage when the sex life is far from perfect?

Sexual chemistry (& physics & geography) :) is vital to a marriage. However, in a relationship if the couple is at odds regarding the frequency, the ... Read More



Activity by Ramendra Kumar

Ramendra Kumar

Ramendra Kumar Commented

21 Jun 2017

Comment :

Yes, they do. And our patriarchal society is to be blamed for this. Men are brought up thinking  they are God's gift  to womankind. The very notion that they can be spurned is a ridiculous one. As a result when it happens they can't take it and act like rebellious overgrown babies! 

Grow up guys and realise that rejection can happen to anyone,  anytime. The best way to cope is to shrug if off  and move on. 


Ramendra Kumar

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18 Jun 2017

No Sex Please, It’s India-Pak Final Match | Cricket Lovers | Bonobology.Com

No sex please. It’s the India-Pak final match!

As told to Aarti Pathak
As told to Aarti Pathak
Posted on : 17 Jun 2017

She feels horny but her husband is in a different frame of mind…

Views: 2588
Comments: 4

Ramendra Kumar

Ramendra Kumar Commented

18 Jun 2017

Comment : Loved the piece! in my case it is a role reversal of sorts. And the response is a more generic one : "IS THAT ALL YOU CAN THINK OFF ??!! (We have been married for 29 years only)
No Sex Please, It’s India-Pak Final Match | Cricket Lovers | Bonobology.Com

No sex please. It’s the India-Pak final match!

As told to Aarti Pathak
As told to Aarti Pathak
Posted on : 17 Jun 2017

She feels horny but her husband is in a different frame of mind…

Views: 2588
Comments: 4

Ramendra Kumar

Ramendra Kumar Commented

09 Jun 2017

Comment :

You can't squeeze your entire married  life in 337 words and ask for advice! 

Please seek professional help NOW !! Please !!!

Like the song, we dont talk anymore, Ours is such a situation too. We dont come close anymore. 

Its not that i miss sex with him, cause it was bad from the very first time. our first kiss was a disaster. Our sex was really really bad, i never got anything out of it, except some juvenile kind of making out. 

We never had kids, my hope of having my 3 pretty children has dwindled down to, "Maybe i never wanted in the first place...." kind of thing. 

However, we like each other a lot. We are our best friends, we know each other really well and cant think of leaving each other. We laugh seeing all the funny things, we are updated on whats on net and stuff.. we will watch movies together, go on really good holidays and be happy just being together. 

But there is no romance, there is no sex, its kind of weird, as we dont talk about it anymore, more so because When i bring it up, he looses it, or he gets upset, or he says i am blaming him, i have to look within too, and that, It takes two to tango.. so the blame is back on me... in a way... "Oh, you are not attracted to me..." ya maybe, because you dont make any effort anymore, not that you made any initially. We went on holidays because, its fun, or its the thing to do, or because you wanted to see those places with someone special... 

I worked a lot on myself over the years, i saw sexologists, i saw therapists, but i feel, all he cares about is his career. I have become too involved with myself to gather the courage to leave, but when i remember my dreams of being a mother and having a house full of dogs and children, i resent him, i hate him . 

Can you tell me, whats going on? Are we finished? Are we just prolonging the inevitable... Div......


Ramendra Kumar

Ramendra Kumar Commented

09 Jun 2017

Comment :

  Does it really matter now?  She should just forget  the 'episode'  and move on. And yes, if she can't hold her drink she shouldn't hit the bottle. 

A friend of mine is in a spot. She says she had sex with a guy when they were both drunk. But she is not sure how it got to that stage. Is it sex without consent when a person is too drunk to remember? I have asked her to talk to the guy but she says he does not remember much as he was quite drunk too. I don't know what to advise her.



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