Ukwati nthawi zambiri umakhala wokondeka ngati ulendo wachikondi ndi wokondana, koma kunena zoona, ungamve ngati bwalo lankhondo. Kuchokera pa zinthu zabwino zomwe zimasanduka zokwiyitsa mpaka kudziwa luso lankhondo zapachete ndi njira zothetsa mikangano, nthabwala iyi imayang'ana kukwera ndi kutsika kosapeweka kwa moyo wabanja. Zimatikumbutsa kuti banja labwino silikhala langwiro komanso kuphunzira kumenyana, kukhalira limodzi, ndikupeza nthabwala m'chipwirikiti.
Maphunziro a Chikondi, Kumenyana, ndi Kupulumuka
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Ndiye mwatsala pang'ono kukwatiwa. Zabwino zonse (ayi!). Takulandirani ku Nkhondo. Mmodzi mudzakhala mukumenyana kwa masiku ambiri.
Mukuganiza momwe wokondedwa wanu amadyera chokoleti chotentha ndi chokoma? Gawo lomwe amasiya chokoleti pang'ono pachibwano chake…Patsani zaka ziwiri. Mudzafuna kung'amba mutu wake mukawonanso banga la bulauni pachibwano chake.
Ndipo ngati akuganiza kuti momwe mumalankhulira mosalekeza zimakupangitsani kukhala ngwazi yamphamvu komanso yosangalatsa yamafilimu achihindi, ndikhulupirireni, adzafuna kukuponyera remote ya wailesi yakanema pamutu panu nthawi ina mukadzafuna kulankhula naye pakati pa mndandanda wa Indo-Pak za momwe wasiya kukukondani.
Ukwati ndi malo ankhondo ndipo pali magawo anayi ankhondo imeneyi.
Kuyankhula: Mabanja mu maubale atsopano ali omasuka ku njira yankhondo iyi. Amauzana chilichonse chomwe chimawakhudza. Monga mchere wa chakudya unali wochepa. Kapena munadetsa ndowa yanga yamadzi poyika chala kuti muwone ngati yatentha (nkhani yeniyeni). Inu mumamenyana. Mumayesa kumvetsetsa mbali inayo. Simutero koma mumapangabe. Ndipo simumagona kumenyana - lonjezo la moyo zisanu ndi ziwiri.
Tsekani F *** mmwamba: Gawoli limachokera m'mbuyomu chifukwa kuyankhula sikunagwire ntchito. Ndiye mumayamba kunyalanyaza. Mumaphunzira kunena kuti chakudya chimakoma ngakhale mukugona. Mumaphunzira musanyalanyaze mnzanu pogwiritsa ntchito chisa chako.
Mpaka tsiku lina labwino, tsitsi lanu lokhazikika mu chisa cha mnzanuyo likuwoneka kuti silingathe kumupirira ndipo amatuluka mfuti zonse zikuyaka moto ndipo mumamenyana ndi mfuti za misozi zomwe zimamukumbutsa momwe mwaperekera nsembe kwa iye - nsomba zam'madzi pa nkhuku, Asia pa nkhuku, banja, abwenzi, mafilimu apadziko lonse ndipo mwinamwake ngakhale ntchito yapamwamba (yemwe akudziwa). Msozi umodzi kwa aliyense. Zonse izi kwa chisa.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Magawo 9 a Ukwati Wakufa
Amatseka f*** ndipo mutha kugwiritsanso ntchito chisacho mwamtendere…kwa masiku angapo otsatira.
Kuyimitsa moto: Nthawi zambiri, ma burps ndi nthabwala zosafunikira pambuyo pake mumayang'ana wokondedwa wanu ndi chikondi chochuluka momwe mungathere chifukwa cha ulesi. Tsopano ndi nthawi yoti muvomerezane. (Osati kwenikweni). Koma mumaphunzira kukhalira limodzi ndi zolakwa za wina ndi mnzake. Pamimba yaying'onoyo pansi pa malaya ndi tsitsi lobwerera. Ndipo amakonda tsitsi la pakhungu lanu pakati pa nthawi yopangira phula (kodi mukundiseka?). Magulu onse aŵiri omenyana atopetsa chuma chawo ndipo angotopa ndi kukangana, kukangana ndipo potsirizira pake amavomereza kuti asagwirizane.
Udzu ndi wobiriwira: Ndiyeno mumawawona maanja ena akuzungulirani omwe amawoneka osangalala kwambiri mpaka mutapeza chinsinsi chawo. Onse ali ndi zochitika kumbali. Mumathokoza nyenyezi zanu kuti palibe amene ali ndi chidwi ndi potbelly pambali panu ndipo mumabwerera kunyumba mukugwirana dzanja mpaka kulowa kwa dzuwa. Mpaka atatuluka m'bafa ndikufunsa, "Kodi munagwiritsanso ntchito chisa changa?"
Ukwati suphunzitsa, chikondi. Mu banja labwino, mumaphunzira kumenya nkhondo.
Kuyambira machesi mokuwa mokuwa mpaka njira zanzeru zankhondo. Ukwati umakuphunzitsani mmene kufufuta kusakatula wanu ndi kucheza mbiri, mmene kunamiza mnzanu ndi nkhope yowongoka. Momwe mungagwetsere ngongole ya zakumwa kwa awiri musanafike kunyumba mukamagwira ntchito usiku.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Pamene mwamuna wanga wonyinyirika anakhala wondichirikiza wamkulu
Koma ngati mukuyang'anabe kukwatiwa, teroni mwa njira zonse, chifukwa kwenikweni masiku amdima aja pamene palibe wina pambali panu mudzakhala ndi munthu amene munakwatirana naye. Nanga bwanji ngati ali pa laputopu kapena foni nthawi zonse? Ngakhale kuyang'ana kumodzi kutali ndi chophimba chimenecho ndikumwetulira ndikoyenera. Kuwonera kanema kamodzi sabata iliyonse ndikukangana kuti ndani amadya ma popcorn ambiri ndikofunikira. Kuseka maanja ena kuchokera ku thovu laukwati wanu ndikoyenera.
Ndi nkhondo yosatha ndi magulu awiri ophwanyidwa, kuwotchedwa ndi kuphulika. Ndipo komabe amadzuka phulusa kuti aike chithunzi chimodzi chija pa social media ndi mazana okonda. #zamoyo zisanu ndi ziwiri. Ndipo zimayambanso.
Ndipo nthawi zina ukwati ndi mndandanda wa zoyesera, monga Ruku Taneja akulembera.
Ibibazo
1. Kodi mawu oti “Ukwati Wadera Lankhondo” amatanthauza chiyani?
Limanena za banja limene limakhala ndi mikangano yosalekeza, kusamvana, ndi mikangano, kumene okwatirana amavutikira kukhalira limodzi mogwirizana.
2. Ndi magawo otani omwe amapezeka muukwati wa "Nkhondo Yankhondo"?
- Unjika: Kusemphana maganizo kung’ono-ng’ono kumakula kukhala mikangano yobwerezabwereza.
- Kusemphana: Kumenyana pafupipafupi, kudzudzulana, ndi kukwiyirana kumalamulira macheza.
- Stalemate: Kuyankhulana kumasokonekera; mtunda wamalingaliro umakula.
- Kusamvana kapena kupatukana: Maanja amafunafuna thandizo kuti achire kapena asankhe kusiyana.
3. Kodi zomwe zimayambitsa mikangano m'mabanja ndi chiyani?
Nkhani zofala ndi monga kusalankhulana bwino, kupsinjika kwachuma, kusakhulupirika, zoyembekeza zosakwaniritsidwa, ndi kusowa kwaubwenzi wamalingaliro kapena thupi.
Maganizo Final
Ukwati, mofanana ndi mgwirizano uliwonse, umakumana ndi zovuta zake, koma suyenera kumverera ngati nkhondo. Chinsinsi chagona pakuzindikira pamene mikangano ikuwononga ubale ndikuchitapo kanthu kuti ithetse. Banja lirilonse likhoza kukula, koma limafunikira khama, chifundo, ndipo kaŵirikaŵiri, chitsogozo chakunja. Kumbukirani, mikangano siyimatanthawuza ukwati wanu; momwe mumawathetsera. Osadikirira kuti chiwonongeko chikule. Alangizi athu akatswiri ali pano kuti akuthandizeni kumanganso kukhulupirirana, kubwezeretsa kulankhulana, ndi kupeza mtendere muubwenzi wanu.
Zopereka zanu sizikupanga zachifundo Mphatso. Zilola kuti Bonobology ipitilize kukubweretserani zidziwitso zatsopano komanso zaposachedwa pakufuna kwathu kuthandiza aliyense padziko lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
“Ndipo nthaŵi zina ukwati umakhala mndandanda wa zoyesera”: mowonadi anatero!
Ukwati uli ndi zokwera ndi zotsika zambiri komabe okwatiranawo amafunirana zabwino! Chowonadi chenicheni cha ubale chagona pazovuta zazing'ono izi ndi chisamaliro cha wina ndi mnzake.