Sabata yatha ikanakhala chikumbutso changa cha 8 ndikanakhala kuti sindinasiyane ndi chibwenzi changa zaka ziwiri zapitazo. Kukonza mtima wosweka kuli ngati kuyamwitsa dzanja losweka kapena mwendo; ululuwo ndi weniweni, ndipo umatenga nthawi kuti uchire. Njira yochiritsira yosweka imachedwa motsimikizika. Zimatenga nthawi ndipo zimafuna kudziletsa kwambiri.
Koma nthawi zonse pali zinthu zomwe zingakuthandizeni paulendo. Zingakupangitseni kukhala osungulumwa komanso okondedwa. Pamene mukuyambiranso kuyenda kwanu mutatha kupatukana, machitidwe osavuta kapena zochitika zitha kukhala bwenzi lomwe mukufuna. Nawu mndandanda wa zinthu zomwe ndidachita kapena zomwe sindinachite, ndipo ndingatchule zina mwazo ngati njira zabwino zothanirana ndi chibwenzi potengera zomwe ndakumana nazo. Ndakhala ndi imodzi yokha, koma akuti kudula koyamba ndi kozama kwambiri. Ndinapulumuka, ndipo inunso mudzatero!
Khalani omasuka kuwasintha malinga ndi umunthu wanu. Kuchira sikungakhale chochitika chimodzi chokha. Chofunika kwambiri, khalani ndi chikhulupiriro mwa inu nokha ndi dziko lapansi… Zinthu sizili zovuta momwe zimawonekera. Yakwana nthawi yoti muwonjezere zowoneka bwino m'moyo wanu ndi zinthu 20 zosangalatsa zomwe mungachite mukatha kutha.
Zinthu 20 Zosangalatsa Zomwe Muyenera Kuchita Pambuyo Polekana Kuti Muchiritse Mwachangu
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Jonatan Martensson adati, “Mawuwa ali ngati mafunde, sitingawaletse kubwera koma titha kusankha omwe tingasefukire. Sungani ganizo lodabwitsa ili pafupi ndi mtima wanu pamene mukuwerengera patsogolo. Kusudzulana kumabweretsa malingaliro ambiri nthawi imodzi. Ndipo pamene zinthu zikuchulukirachulukira nthawi ndi nthawi, kusamala za momwe mukumvera kungapangitse kusiyana konse padziko lapansi.
Ndicho chimene tikuchita lero: kusintha maganizo. Pambuyo pa kusudzulana, maganizo athu amayang'ana kwambiri pa chochitika chenichenicho, ubale wolephera , ndi wakale wathu. Kuchiritsa kumaphatikizapo kusintha maganizo athu kuchoka pa zomwe tatchulazi kupita pa ife tokha. Zinthu izi zomwe zimapangitsa chisangalalo kuchita mutasudzulana zidzakwaniritsa ntchito yodzisamalira. Kodi mwakonzeka? Tiyeni tizipita.
1. Chisekani
Sekani zina mwa zimene munasankha, kuphatikizapo iye. Munali wachichepere, wopanda nzeru komanso wopenga m'chikondi pomwe mumaganiza kuti tsitsilo limawoneka labwino kwa iye kapena T-sheti yopindika inali yokongola kwambiri. Kodi mungaganizire mozama kugwera munthu wa mafashoni tsopano? Mwina ayi. Kuwotcha kwabwino ndi anzanu kungakupatseni malingaliro atsopano.
2. Khalani otanganidwa komanso kukhala ndi anzanu
Nthawi yolira ikatha ndipo mwakhala mukulira mokweza, musakhale nokha. Kusungulumwa ndi njira yopitira ku kuvutika maganizo mukatha kusudzulana . Dzikakamizeni kutuluka pabedi, pangani mapulani ndi anzanu, ndipo tengani ntchito yowonjezera yomwe mungasangalale nayo. Musabwerere kunyumba yopanda anthu msanga. Yankhani anzanu onse omwe munawanyalanyaza pa nthawi ya chibwenzi chanu… Konzani zolakwitsa.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Malangizo a Akatswiri Pa Kulimbana ndi Kudzimva Wopanda Chilichonse Pambuyo pa Kusudzulana
3. Zomwe muyenera kuchita mukathetsa chibwenzi - Pitani kutchuthi
Mwina munali ndi mapulani anu onse oyendera naye kale, koma nthawi yakwana yoti mupitirize ndi moyo popanda kumuganizira. Yendani nokha, ndi anzanu kapena ndi banja lanu. Ngati mwasankha kupita nokha, kuyenda ndi ndalama zochepa , kukhala m'mahosteli, kupanga anzanu atsopano, ndikupeza malo atsopano. Yendani maulendo ataliatali ndikupanga zokumbukira. Simukusowa dzanja kuti mugwire, koma njira yatsopano yoyendera. Kuyenda nokha ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zosangalatsa kwambiri zomwe mungachite mutasudzulana.
4. Pezani kuti achigololo makeover
Kusintha kumamveka ngati cliché, koma ndikhulupirireni, kumathandiza. Osachita zinthu mopupuluma. Zinanditengera miyezi isanu ndi umodzi ndipo ndinaganiza zometa tsitsi langa lalifupi kwambiri. Zinalibe chochita ndi wakale wanga, zinali ndi ine kuyesa kuyesa mawonekedwe anga. Nthawi zonse ndinkafuna tsitsi lalifupi, ankakonda lalitali. Ingoganizani? Zomwe ankakonda zinalibenso kanthu.
5. Sewerani munda
Khalani omasuka kukopana ndi amuna onse omwe simunalankhule nawo chifukwa munkaganiza kuti wakale wanu ndiye 'yemweyo'. Watsimikizira kuti sanali iye. Kukopana kwabwino sikunaphe aliyense. Sangalalani ndi chidwi chonse chomwe mukupeza. Komanso, onetsetsani kuti aliyense amene ankadziwa kuti muli pachibwenzi, tsopano akudziwa kuti simuli pachibwenzi. *Kukopana maso*
6. Pempherani nokha
Dzipezereni nthawi yokumana ku salon yokongola. Gwiritsani ntchito tsiku lokonzekera pedicure, manicure, kutikita thupi, ndi kutsuka tsitsi. Mukufuna TLC iyi, ndipo ndibwino bwanji kuposa salon yosangalatsa? Izi ndi zinthu zosangalatsa kuchita mukasiya chibwenzi ndi wakale wanu.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Kodi Ndidzapeza Chikondi? Zifukwa 10 Zokhalira ndi Chiyembekezo
7. Kuphika ndi kuphika ndi zinthu zosangalatsa kuchita mukatha kutha
Kuphika kapena kuphika kungakhale chinthu chokhumudwitsa kwambiri, ngati mukufuna kutero. Dziphikireni keke ya chokoleti kapena kuphika chakudya chokoma. Tengani zinthu zokomazi kuntchito ndipo mudzakondedwa chifukwa chobweretsa. Kapena ingodyani nokha. Pumulani sikelo yoyezera. Kusowa chilakolako mukatha kusudzulana n'kofala. Tiyeni tikonze ndi njira yokoma iyi, eti?
8. Phwando, aliyense?
Gulani diresi laphwando kapena jekete lachigololo lomwe mwakhala mukuyang'ana kwa milungu ingapo. Valani, valani zodzoladzola, ndi kupita kuphwando ndi anzanu. Tukulitsireni pabwalo lovina ndikugubuduza, chug, chug! Ndipo musachite manyazi kuyankha kwa munthu wokongola uja yemwe wakhala akukuwonani ku bar.
9. Itulutseni ndi karaoke
Fuulani m'mapapo anu ku nyimbo yopatsa mphamvu ya Adele pa karaoke, "Tumizani chikondi changa kwa wokondedwa wanu watsopano, muzichita bwino." Zinthu izi zoti muchite mukatha kutha zidzakupatsani kumasuka kwamalingaliro komwe mukufunikira. Mkwiyo ndi kukhumudwa komwe mwakhala mukumva? Eya, zitulutseni. Dindani mapazi anu, ikani manja anu mumlengalenga, ndi kuthyola mwendo.
10. Konzaninso nyumba yanu
Chotsani chilichonse chomwe chimakukumbutsani za wakale wanu. Kuchotsa zokumbukira mutathetsa chibwenzi sikovuta kwenikweni. Sutsani nyale, sinthani sofa, sinthani makatani, ndipo patsani zophimba mapilo anu mpumulo woyenera. Mukuona? Zikuoneka bwino kwambiri. Zinthu zazing'ono izi zitha kukhala zotsitsimula kwambiri.
11. Kudzipereka kulera ana
Ndamva kuti mukuyang'ana zinthu zosangalatsa zoti muchite mutathetsa chibwenzi. Ana akhoza kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri poletsa kupsinjika maganizo. Ana ali ndi mphamvu zokupangitsani kuiwala chilichonse padziko lapansi. Ngati mumakonda ana, perekani kusamalira ana a anansi, abwenzi kapena ogwira nawo ntchito. Kukhala pamalo abwino amenewo kudzakuthandizani kusintha zinthu. Pezani chimwemwe kachiwiri ndikusintha kuchoka pa chibwenzi chanu chakale.
12. Khalani ndi Zakudyazi ndi chokoleti
Ngakhale zingakhale zabwino kugunda maphwando ndi makalabu ndi kukopana mozungulira, zochulukira zimatha kukusokonezani. Nthawi zina, ingotengani zina, gulani chokoleti chomwe mumakonda ndi ayisikilimu, ndipo idyani mopambanitsa mukuwonera nyengo yonse yapaintaneti. Ziribe kanthu zomwe aliyense anganene, palibe chomwe chili chabwino ngati bulangeti lanu.
13. Khalani ndi zovuta zantchito
Kodi pali ntchito yomwe mwakhala mukuyipewa chifukwa cha nthawi yomwe ikufunika? Ino ndi nthawi yoti muyiyambe. Gwiritsani ntchito mwayi woti mugwire ntchito yovuta ndipo muigwire bwino. Mutha kuphonya wakale wanu koma gwiritsani ntchito mphamvu zanu kuti mugwire ntchito yanu. Kuyang'ana kwambiri pakukula kwanu, kulimbikira kukwaniritsa cholinga chomwe mukufuna, komanso kugwira ntchito molimbika ndi zinthu zomwe mungachite mukathetsa chibwenzi.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Zinthu 12 Zosayenera Kuchita Mukatha Kusudzulana
14. Odzipereka pantchito zachitukuko
Malo osungira nyama, maphunziro a ana osauka, malo osungira akazi - njira zambiri zothandizira ena pamene mukuchira. Kudzipereka kudzakuthandizani kwambiri m'maganizo mwanu. Kudzakuthandizani kuyamikira zomwe muli nazo. Kumbali ina, kodi mukudziwa zomwe simuyenera kuchita mutasudzulana ? Pangani sewero, ledzerani, sangalalani ndi chisoni ndikubwererana ndi wakale wanu.
Kuti mumve zambiri zamakanema akatswiri chonde lembani ku Youtube Channel yathu. Dinani apa.
15. Netflix ndi YouTube
Ndi chiyani chomwe chingakhale bwino kuposa kuwonera kanema kapena mndandanda pa Netflix ndi mbale ya popcorn ndi mowa wina? Ndipo kuti mwavala zovala zanu zogona bwino zimapangitsa kuti zonse zikhale zomasuka! Mulibe kusowa kwa zosankha zikafika pamapulatifomu a OTT masiku ano. Izi ndithudi pamwamba mndandanda wa zinthu zosangalatsa kuchita pambuyo kutha.
16. Pezani nthawi yochita zosangalatsa
Khalani kunyumba mukuchita zinthu zomwe mumakonda ndi anzanu. Zingakhale origami, kujambula, kuvina, kuimba, kapena china chilichonse! Ndimakonda kuphika. Nditangotuluka mu nthawi yanga yachisoni, ndinalandira anzanga kuti adzadye nawo chakudya chamadzulo ndipo ndinakambirana bwino za chakudya chomwe ndinawaphikira. Chinali chosangalatsa kwambiri pambuyo pa zonse zomwe ndakumana nazo. Kudzikonda nokha ndikofunikira kwambiri mutapatukana.
17. Pezani bwenzi
Pezani mnzanu mmodzi amene alipo nthawi zonse. Nthawi iliyonse mukafuna kulankhulana ndi wakale wanu, lembani uthenga wautali kapena imelo ndikutumiza kwa mnzanuyo. Ndi mankhwala kwa inu (sindinganene chimodzimodzi kwa mnzanuyo). Koma chofunika kwambiri, lekani wakale wanu pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti nthawi yomweyo. Sitikufuna kuti musankhe zinthu molakwika.
18. Malizitsani ntchito yakunyumba imeneyo
Kaya ndi kapinga komwe kwakhala kukufuula kuti mumvetsere kapena makoma omwe amayenera kupentidwa miyezi itatu yapitayo, yang'anani pamndandanda wanu wazomwe mungachite. Konzani zinthu zomwe zatsala pang'ono kutha ndipo mudzamva kuti mwakwanitsa. Kuchiritsa kumayamba ndikugwirizanitsa moyo wanu pang'onopang'ono.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Kusiya Chikondi? Zifukwa 8 Zosayenera Kusiya Chikondi
19. Menyani masewera olimbitsa thupi
Kukhala ndi thanzi labwino n'kofunika kwambiri. Ngati kupita ku masewera olimbitsa thupi n'kovuta kwambiri, dzukani m'mawa pang'ono ndikupita kokathamanga. Mpweya wabwino ndi dzuwa zidzachotsa mdima wonse. Ubale wanu wofunika kwambiri ndi umene muli nawo. Dzilimbikitseni m'maganizo, mwakuthupi, komanso mwauzimu.
20. Pangani latsopano playlist
Mvetserani nyimbo zatsopano. Nyimbo zakale zimabweretsanso kukumbukira komwe simukufuna kuyambiranso. Konzani mndandanda wazosewerera nokha ndikuwona ojambula atsopano kapena mitundu. Kusakaniza mkamwa wanu wanyimbo kungakhale chimodzi mwazinthu zosangalatsa kwambiri kuchita mukatha kutha.
Izi ndi zochepa chabe mwazinthu zomwe ndikupangira kuti muchite. Ndikudziwa kuti kupatukana sikophweka, koma ndi inu nokha amene mungathe kudzithandiza nokha. Dzikhululukireni ngati mwachita chinthu chopusa chifukwa palibe chifukwa chodzichitira nkhanza pamene mukukumana ndi zowawa kwambiri. Sekani kulakwitsa kwanu 'kale'. Tengani tsiku limodzi panthawi!
Ibibazo
Funso limenelo ndi labwino chifukwa amuna ndi akazi amathetsa mavuto mosiyana . Akazi ayenera kuganizira za iwo okha, osati kubwereranso ku mikangano yakale ndi zokumbukira, ndikuzindikira kuti ubale wawo mwina watha. Ayenera kuyesetsa kumanga bata lawo la maganizo.
Eya, zimenezo zingakhale zopweteka. Pankhani ya chibwenzi chenicheni, kufunafuna thandizo la akatswiri ndi njira yanzeru kwambiri. Mlangizi kapena katswiri wa zamaganizo angakuthandizeni kusanthula bwino vuto lanu. Ku Bonobology, tili ndi gulu la akatswiri ovomerezeka omwe mungagwiritse ntchito. Kuchiritsa kumayamba pang'onopang'ono.
Nthawi zambiri, amuna amakonda kupondereza malingaliro awo kapena kuwachotsa. Izi pambuyo pake zimawoneka ngati mkwiyo. Koma mwamuna wokhwima maganizo adzasintha maganizo ake, amamvetsa chisoni ubwenziwo, adzayankha mlandu wa kulephera kwake (ngati kuli koyenera), ndi kuika mphamvu zake pa zinthu zopindulitsa.
N'chifukwa Chiyani Anthu Ena Amathetsa Mabanja Movuta Kwambiri Kuposa Ena?
Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Izi ndi zabwino!