Sabata yatha ikanakhala chikumbutso changa cha 8 ndikanakhala kuti sindinasiyane ndi chibwenzi changa zaka ziwiri zapitazo. Kukonza mtima wosweka kuli ngati kuyamwitsa dzanja losweka kapena mwendo; ululuwo ndi weniweni, ndipo umatenga nthawi kuti uchire. Njira yochiritsira yosweka imachedwa motsimikizika. Zimatenga nthawi ndipo zimafuna kudziletsa kwambiri.
Koma nthawi zonse pali zinthu zomwe zingakuthandizeni paulendo. Zingakupangitseni kukhala osungulumwa komanso okondedwa. Pamene mukuyambiranso kuyenda kwanu mutatha kupatukana, machitidwe osavuta kapena zochitika zitha kukhala bwenzi lomwe mukufuna. Nawu mndandanda wa zinthu zomwe ndidachita kapena zomwe sindinachite, ndipo ndingatchule zina mwazo ngati njira zabwino zothanirana ndi chibwenzi potengera zomwe ndakumana nazo. Ndakhala ndi imodzi yokha, koma akuti kudula koyamba ndi kozama kwambiri. Ndinapulumuka, ndipo inunso mudzatero!
Khalani omasuka kuwasintha malinga ndi umunthu wanu. Kuchira sikungakhale chochitika chimodzi chokha. Chofunika kwambiri, khalani ndi chikhulupiriro mwa inu nokha ndi dziko lapansi… Zinthu sizili zovuta momwe zimawonekera. Yakwana nthawi yoti muwonjezere zowoneka bwino m'moyo wanu ndi zinthu 20 zosangalatsa zomwe mungachite mukatha kutha.
Zinthu 20 Zosangalatsa Zomwe Muyenera Kuchita Pambuyo Polekana Kuti Muchiritse Mwachangu
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Jonatan Martensson adati, “Mawuwa ali ngati mafunde, sitingawaletse kubwera koma titha kusankha omwe tingasefukire. Sungani ganizo lodabwitsa ili pafupi ndi mtima wanu pamene mukuwerengera patsogolo. Kusudzulana kumabweretsa malingaliro ambiri nthawi imodzi. Ndipo pamene zinthu zikuchulukirachulukira nthawi ndi nthawi, kusamala za momwe mukumvera kungapangitse kusiyana konse padziko lapansi.
Ndizo ndendende zomwe tikuchita lero: kusuntha kuyang'ana. Pambuyo pakutha, malingaliro athu amakhazikika pazochitika zenizeni, the unalephera ubale, ndi ex wathu. Kuchiritsa kumaphatikizapo kusintha maganizo athu kuchoka pa zimene tatchulazi n’kuyamba kuganizira zathu. Zinthu zopatsa chimwemwe izi zikatha kutha zidzakwaniritsa ntchito yodzisamalira. Mwakonzeka? Tiyeni tizipita.
1. Chisekani
Sekani zina mwa zimene munasankha, kuphatikizapo iye. Munali wachichepere, wopanda nzeru komanso wopenga m'chikondi pomwe mumaganiza kuti tsitsilo limawoneka labwino kwa iye kapena T-sheti yopindika inali yokongola kwambiri. Kodi mungaganizire mozama kugwera munthu wa mafashoni tsopano? Mwina ayi. Kuwotcha kwabwino ndi anzanu kungakupatseni malingaliro atsopano.
2. Khalani otanganidwa komanso kukhala ndi anzanu
Nthawi yachisoni ikatha ndipo mwalira mumtima mwanu, musakhale nokha. Kusungulumwa ndi njira yolowera kukhumudwa pambuyo pa kutha kwa banja. Dzikakamizeni kudzuka pabedi, konzani zokonzekera ndi anzanu, ndipo gwiritsani ntchito ina yomwe mungasangalale kuchita. Osabwerera kunyumba yopanda kanthu msanga. Pezani anzanu onse omwe simunawanyalanyaze pa nthawi yaubwenzi… Konzani.
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3. Zomwe muyenera kuchita mukathetsa chibwenzi - Pitani kutchuthi
Mwina munali naye kale mapulani anu onse oyendamo, koma ndi nthawi yoti mupitilizebe ndi moyo wanu popanda kumusokoneza. Yendani nokha, ndi anzanu kapena achibale. Ngati mwaganiza zopita nokha, kuyenda pa bajeti, khalani m'malo ogona, pangani anzanu atsopano, ndikupeza malo atsopano. Yendani maulendo ataliatali ndikukumbukira. Simusowa dzanja kuti mugwire, koma msewu watsopano woti muyendepo. Kuyenda nokha ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zosangalatsa kwambiri kuchita mukatha kutha.
4. Pezani kuti achigololo makeover
Kusintha kumamveka ngati cliché, koma ndikhulupirireni, kumathandiza. Osachita zinthu mopupuluma. Zinanditengera miyezi isanu ndi umodzi ndipo ndinaganiza zometa tsitsi langa lalifupi kwambiri. Zinalibe chochita ndi wakale wanga, zinali ndi ine kuyesa kuyesa mawonekedwe anga. Nthawi zonse ndinkafuna tsitsi lalifupi, ankakonda lalitali. Ingoganizani? Zomwe ankakonda zinalibenso kanthu.
5. Sewerani munda
Chonde khalani omasuka kukopana ndi kucheza ndi amuna onse omwe simunalankhulepo chifukwa mumaganiza kuti wakale wanu ndi 'ameneyo'. Iye watsimikizira kuti iye sanali. Kukopana kwabwino sanaphe aliyense. Sangalalani ndi chidwi chonse chomwe mukupeza. Komanso, chonde onetsetsani kuti aliyense amene amadziwa kuti muli pachibwenzi, tsopano akudziwa kuti simuli. *Penyani maso*
6. Pempherani nokha
Dzipezereni nthawi yokumana ku salon yokongola. Gwiritsani ntchito tsiku lokonzekera pedicure, manicure, kutikita thupi, ndi kutsuka tsitsi. Mukufuna TLC iyi, ndipo ndibwino bwanji kuposa salon yosangalatsa? Izi ndi zinthu zosangalatsa kuchita mukasiya chibwenzi ndi wakale wanu.
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7. Kuphika ndi kuphika ndi zinthu zosangalatsa kuchita mukatha kutha
Kuphika kapena kuphika kumatha kukhala kovutitsa kwambiri, ngati mukufuna kutero. Dziphikireni keke ya chokoleti kapena kuphika chakudya chokoma. Tengani zabwinozi kuti mugwire ntchito ndikukondedwa chifukwa chobweretsa. Kapena ingodyani nokha. Perekani sikelo yoyezera pang'ono. Kukumana ndi a kusowa chilakolako cha chakudya pambuyo pa kutha ndizofala. Tiyeni tikonze ndi kuthyolako kosangalatsa kumeneku, sichoncho?
8. Phwando, aliyense?
Gulani diresi laphwando kapena jekete lachigololo lomwe mwakhala mukuyang'ana kwa milungu ingapo. Valani, valani zodzoladzola, ndi kupita kuphwando ndi anzanu. Tukulitsireni pabwalo lovina ndikugubuduza, chug, chug! Ndipo musachite manyazi kuyankha kwa munthu wokongola uja yemwe wakhala akukuwonani ku bar.
9. Itulutseni ndi karaoke
Fuulani m'mapapo anu ku nyimbo yopatsa mphamvu ya Adele pa karaoke, "Tumizani chikondi changa kwa wokondedwa wanu watsopano, muzichita bwino." Zinthu izi zoti muchite mukatha kutha zidzakupatsani kumasuka kwamalingaliro komwe mukufunikira. Mkwiyo ndi kukhumudwa komwe mwakhala mukumva? Eya, zitulutseni. Dindani mapazi anu, ikani manja anu mumlengalenga, ndi kuthyola mwendo.
10. Konzaninso nyumba yanu
Chotsani chilichonse chomwe chimakukumbutsani za wakale wanu. Kuchotsa zikumbukiro pambuyo pa kutha sizovuta. Sunthani nyali, sinthaninso sofa, sinthani makatani, ndipo perekani zophimba za khushonizo kupuma koyenera. Mwaona? Zikuwoneka bwino kwambiri. Tinthu tating'onoting'ono timeneti tingakhale totsitsimula.
11. Kudzipereka kulera ana
Ndinamva kuti mukuyang'ana zinthu zosangalatsa zoti muchite mutasiyana. Ana akhoza kukhala opanikizika kwambiri. Ana ali ndi mphamvu yakupangitsa kuti muyiwale china chilichonse padziko lapansi. Ngati mumakonda ana, perekani kusungira ana kwa anansi, abwenzi kapena ogwira nawo ntchito. Kukhala mu mkhalidwe wabwino umenewo kudzakhala kusintha kwabwino kwa liŵiro kwa inu. Pezani chimwemwe kachiwiri ndikuchoka pa ex wanu.
12. Khalani ndi Zakudyazi ndi chokoleti
Ngakhale zingakhale zabwino kugunda maphwando ndi makalabu ndi kukopana mozungulira, zochulukira zimatha kukusokonezani. Nthawi zina, ingotengani zina, gulani chokoleti chomwe mumakonda ndi ayisikilimu, ndipo idyani mopambanitsa mukuwonera nyengo yonse yapaintaneti. Ziribe kanthu zomwe aliyense anganene, palibe chomwe chili chabwino ngati bulangeti lanu.
13. Khalani ndi zovuta zantchito
Kodi pali projekiti yomwe mwaipewa chifukwa cha nthawi yomwe ikufuna? Iyi ndi nthawi yoti mutenge. Tengani mwayi wogwira ntchito yovuta ndikuchita bwino kwambiri. Inu mukhoza ndakusowa ex wanu koma perekani mphamvu zanu kumbali ya ntchito yanu. Kuyang'ana pa kukula kwanu, kuthamangira ku cholinga chamaloto, ndikugwira ntchito molimbika ndi zinthu zomwe muyenera kuchita mukasiya.
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14. Odzipereka pantchito zachitukuko
Khola la ziweto, maphunziro a ana ovutika, malo ogona akazi - njira zambiri zothandizira ena pamene mukuchiritsa. Kudzipereka kudzachita zodabwitsa pamalingaliro anu. Zidzakupangitsani kukhala oyamikira pa zomwe muli nazo. Kumbali ina, kodi mukudziwa zomwe simuyenera kuchita mutathetsa banja? Pangani sewero, kuyimba moledzera, kugwedera mwachisoni ndikubwereranso ndi wakale.
Kuti mumve zambiri zamakanema akatswiri chonde lembani ku Youtube Channel yathu. Dinani apa.
15. Netflix ndi YouTube
Ndi chiyani chomwe chingakhale bwino kuposa kuwonera kanema kapena mndandanda pa Netflix ndi mbale ya popcorn ndi mowa wina? Ndipo kuti mwavala zovala zanu zogona bwino zimapangitsa kuti zonse zikhale zomasuka! Mulibe kusowa kwa zosankha zikafika pamapulatifomu a OTT masiku ano. Izi ndithudi pamwamba mndandanda wa zinthu zosangalatsa kuchita pambuyo kutha.
16. Pezani nthawi yochita zosangalatsa
Khalani kunyumba kuchita zinthu zomwe mumakonda ndi anzanu. Kungakhale origami, kujambula, kuvina, kuimba, kapena kwenikweni chirichonse! Ndimakonda kuphika. Nditangotuluka m’nthaŵi yachisoni, ndinachereza anzanga kuti adye chakudya chamadzulo ndipo tinakambirana mokoma za chakudya chimene ndinawaphikira. Zinali zondisangalatsa kwambiri pambuyo pa zonse zomwe ndidakumana nazo. Kudzikonda wekha ndizofunikira kwambiri pambuyo pa kutha kwa banja.
17. Pezani bwenzi
Gwirani mnzanu yemwe akupezeka 24 × 7. Nthawi zonse mukafuna kulumikizana ndi wakale wanu, lembani meseji yayitali kapena imelo ndikutumiza kwa mnzanu. Ndizochiritsa kwa inu (sizinganene chimodzimodzi kwa mnzanu). Koma pa serious note, block ex wanu pa social media nthawi yomweyo. Sitikufuna kuti mupange zisankho zolakwika.
18. Malizitsani ntchito yakunyumba imeneyo
Kaya ndi kapinga komwe kwakhala kukufuula kuti mumvetsere kapena makoma omwe amayenera kupentidwa miyezi itatu yapitayo, yang'anani pamndandanda wanu wazomwe mungachite. Konzani zinthu zomwe zatsala pang'ono kutha ndipo mudzamva kuti mwakwanitsa. Kuchiritsa kumayamba ndikugwirizanitsa moyo wanu pang'onopang'ono.
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19. Menyani masewera olimbitsa thupi
Kukhala wokwanira ndikofunikira kwambiri. Ngati kupita ku masewera olimbitsa thupi kumakhala kovuta kwambiri, dzukani molawirira pang'ono ndikupita kukathamanga. Mpweya wabwino ndi dzuwa zidzachotsa mdimawo. Anu mgwirizano wofunikira kwambiri ndiye amene muli ndi inu. Dzisamalireni maganizo, mwakuthupi, ndiponso mwauzimu.
20. Pangani latsopano playlist
Mvetserani nyimbo zatsopano. Nyimbo zakale zimabweretsanso kukumbukira komwe simukufuna kuyambiranso. Konzani mndandanda wazosewerera nokha ndikuwona ojambula atsopano kapena mitundu. Kusakaniza mkamwa wanu wanyimbo kungakhale chimodzi mwazinthu zosangalatsa kwambiri kuchita mukatha kutha.
Izi ndi zochepa chabe mwazinthu zomwe ndikupangira kuti muchite. Ndikudziwa kuti kupatukana sikophweka, koma ndi inu nokha amene mungathe kudzithandiza nokha. Dzikhululukireni ngati mwachita chinthu chopusa chifukwa palibe chifukwa chodzichitira nkhanza pamene mukukumana ndi zowawa kwambiri. Sekani kulakwitsa kwanu 'kale'. Tengani tsiku limodzi panthawi!
Ibibazo
Ndilo funso lalikulu chifukwa amuna ndi akazi amachita zotha kutha mosiyana. Azimayi ayenera kuganizira za iwo eni, osati kubwereza ndewu ndi kukumbukira zakale, ndipo azindikire kuti ubalewo watha bwino. Ayenera kuyesetsa kulimbitsa malingaliro awo.
Aa, zimenezo zingakhale zopweteka. Pankhani ya chibwenzi chachikulu, kufunafuna thandizo la akatswiri ndiko njira yanzeru kwambiri. Mlangizi kapena wothandizira angakuthandizeni kupenda bwino mkhalidwe wanu. Ku Bonobology, tili ndi gulu la akatswiri ovomerezeka omwe muli nawo. Kuchiritsa kumayamba a dinani kutali.
Nthawi zambiri, amuna amakonda kupondereza malingaliro awo kapena kuwachotsa. Izi pambuyo pake zimawoneka ngati mkwiyo. Koma mwamuna wokhwima maganizo adzasintha maganizo ake, amamvetsa chisoni ubwenziwo, adzayankha mlandu wa kulephera kwake (ngati kuli koyenera), ndi kuika mphamvu zake pa zinthu zopindulitsa.
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Zopereka zanu sizikupanga zachifundo Mphatso. Zilola kuti Bonobology ipitilize kukubweretserani zidziwitso zatsopano komanso zaposachedwa pakufuna kwathu kuthandiza aliyense padziko lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Izi ndi zabwino!