Amuna ndi Akazi - 5 Kusiyana kwa Momwe Amachitira Kusweka

Kutha sikophweka kwa aliyense. Amakusiyani mukumva ngati kusweka kwa sitima ndipo mungakhale ndi nthawi yovuta kuyesa kuthana ndi kusintha komwe kumabwera pambuyo pake. Komabe, amuna amalabadira kutha kwawo mosiyana kwenikweni ndi momwe akazi amachitira. Palibe njira yolondola kapena yolakwika - kungoti zovuta zathu za jenda zimatipangitsa kuchita zinthu mosiyana. Kuzama mozama muzochita za amuna ndi akazi pakutha kutha kukuthandizani kumvetsetsa momwe mtima wosweka umakhudzira umunthu wathu mosiyana.

Zikafika pakutha, kusiyana kwa abambo ndi amai kumapereka kusiyana kwakukulu. Ulendo wonsewo umawona kusiyana kwakukulu mu momwe amayankhira, kupirira ndi kuchitapo kanthu pa phiri la masautso. Ngakhale kuti kukhwima kwa mwamuna ndi kuchita zinthu mwanzeru kumatenga nthawi kuti ayambike, akazi amangodumphira pa ngoloyo posachedwa. Njira iliyonse ili ndi zabwino ndi zoyipa zake.

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The amuna vs akazi anachita kuswana ndi mndandanda wautali. Kusweka mtima, kusagona tulo, malemba oledzera, ndi zodandaula zambiri ndizofala. Tonse tadutsamo, sichoncho? Ena aife mwina tadutsamo zinthu zing'onozing'ono izi nthawi zambiri ndipo mwina tikudziwa bwino kuposa momwe timafunira.

Ena amafulumira; ena amachedwa; zina ndi zoopsa kwambiri. Ndichoncho. Tikukamba za kupatukana lero, ndipo iwo sali okongola. Choyipa kwambiri ndikuti mutha ndikuganiza mwadutsa tsiku loopsya lomwe mudakambirana mawu omaliza, koma zokumbukira zazing'onozo zimabwerera kwa inu.

Mumalakalaka mutayiwala zonse mwachangu koma sizovuta. Ndiyeno pamabwera funso lalikulu limene limakuchititsani kumva chisoni: Kodi munthu winayo ali ndi vuto ngati inu? Kunena zoona, amuna ndi akazi amafanana kwambiri pankhani yothetsa kupatukana, koma njira zosiyanasiyana zimene amachitira zimenezi ndi umboni wa zimene zimawavuta.

Kodi mwamuna amachita bwanji pambuyo pothetsa banja? Kapena kodi mkazi amapirira bwanji ndi ululu wamtima? Amayi ndi abambo, tiyeni tiwone bwinobwino:

1. Kusunga amayi vs

Wina amauza winayo kuti "Sizikuyendanso." Inu mukudziwa kumene izo zikupita; inu mwakhala mukumva zowawa, inunso. Ndipo musanadziwe, nonsenu misozi ikutsika pamasaya anu. Koma, nthawi ina, umabwerera kunyumba. Ndiyeno nchiyani chimachitika? Gawo loyamba la chisudzulo likuwona abambo ndi amai akutenga njira zosiyana kwambiri.

Men: Monga ngwazi zake zomwe amakonda ku Bollywood, bamboyo amasunga nkhani zake zoyipa. Anzake onse okhudzidwa amasokonezeka akanena kuti ali bwino ndipo amangoseka asanaime. Chifukwa pamene 'cool quotient' ili pachiwopsezo, anyamata sadzasweka! Ndipotu, simungakhale otengeka maganizo ndi mwamuna, ungatero?

Women: Koma iye ndi wanzeru moti amauza anzake zakukhosi. Mkazi ali ndi malingaliro anzeru kotero kuti akudziwa kuti ngati salola kuti zonse zichitike, zinthu zimangomuipira. Zinthu zisanafike poipa, amayitana mnzake kapena awiri ndikumasula zonse zomwe zimamukhumudwitsa.

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2. Kusewera bwino motsutsana ndi kukambirana moona mtima

Kusiyana kwa amuna ndi akazi zomwe zimachitika mukatha kutha sikuthera apa. Kusudzulana ndi nthawi yovuta ndipo nthawi zina zenizeni pakangopita masiku ochepa banja litatha.

Men: N'chifukwa chiyani kusweka kumakhudza anyamata pambuyo pake? Anzake a mnyamatayo amakhala ndi nthawi yovuta ndi iye. Mumadziwa kumverera komweko mukamafunsabe wina cholakwika ndipo amangonena - mu kwambiri njira yokhutiritsa - kuti zonse zili bwino? Anzake amasiya kuyesa kukambirana kwenikweni ndikukambirana chilichonse pansi padzuwa kuti amusokoneze.

Women: Pankhani ya mkazi, anzake mukudziwa chavuta ndi chiyani. Kodi mwaona momwe akazi amakonda kuyamikira wina ndi mzake kuposa momwe abambo amayamikirira amzawo? Ngakhale kuti mwamunayo akukulitsa chisoni chake, mabwenzi a mkaziyo amaonetsetsa kuti am'patsa onse chithandizo cha makhalidwe abwino chimene angathe. Chotsatira? Kuchira kwake kumayamba posachedwa. Musanadziwe, nkhani yosisima yatha kale ndipo akuseka ndi gals ake!

3. Kung'amba kutsegula kozizira vs. kubwereranso

Men: Pa nthawiyi, anzake a mnyamatayo akukonzekera zomwe ziyenera kukhala a sabata yochira! Zimaphatikizapo kukumananso ndi gulu la 'guy gang', kulengeza pa zokuzira mawu kuti simunakwatire, komanso kumwa mowa wosayenera. Musanyalanyaze chilichonse chomwe chikuchitika m'mutu mwanu ndikubisala!

Women: Mayiyu pakali pano ali m’gawo lachiwiri la kuchira. Amadziwa kuti ayenera kutero kupeza chisangalalo ndi kuchiritsa kwathunthu. Atsikana ake amaonetsetsa kuti azisamalira chilichonse, kuyambira pamaganizidwe ake mpaka ma calories omwe amadya.

Koma ngakhale ndi chilango chonsecho, mukhoza kukhala ndi mphindi zofooka. Tisadziyese tokha. Tonse takhala tiri kumeneko. Chithunzi chachisawawa cha bwenzi lake lakale pankhani yake yofalitsa nkhani chimamupangitsa mkaziyo kumunyengerera, ndipo pamatuluka botolo la kachasu kuti lichepetse ululu! Azimayi amayamba kuchira msanga, inde, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti sangakumane ndi zopinga.

4. Kuzindikira motsutsana ndi kuchira pambuyo pakutha

Men: Ndipo apa ndi pamene matebulo akutembenuka! Ndipamene mowa unafika pamutu pake mnyamatayo amalankhula ndi njovu mchipindamo. Iye amalephera, ndipo kumwa sikukhalanso kumabungwe. Kusintha kwadzidzidzi kumeneku kumangowonjezereka pamene mnyamatayo amapita ku malemba oledzera. Koma ngakhale zinthu zasintha mbali inayo, mnyamatayo amapempha mosalekeza kuti amupatsenso kachilombo ka mkaziyo.

Women: Pokhala ndi anzake oti anene zina, mayiyo moyamikira amapewa ngoziyo. Anzake amaona kusintha kwa iye pamene akupanga mtendere ndi chisudzulocho! Panthawiyi, mowa amalola munthu potsiriza tsegulani kwa anzake.

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5. Kuzembera motsutsana ndi kulingalira

Amuna: Nyengo yozemberana imayamba pamene amuna avomereza kuti atha. Amangozindikira kuti sangamugwire mosavuta. Apa ndi pamene anzake a mnyamatayo amabwera kudzamupulumutsa ku vuto lake la kusungulumwa. Ndi njira yayitali. Panthawi ina, mofanana ndi mkazi, mwamuna amapanga chosankha chokhwima ndikupita patsogolo.

Akazi: Pa nthawiyi nkuti mzimayi uja wadzikoka kale. Amadziwa kuti ayenera kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu yakukhala chete pambuyo pakutha. Panopa amadziona kuti ndi wodziimira payekha ndipo waona kuti n’kosathandiza kubwerera kwa mwamuna wake. Mafoni ake samayankha ndipo kunena zoona, zimangothandiza mwamunayo. Kulingalira kwa mkazi kumagawidwa pang'onopang'ono ndi mwamuna yemwe amatenga nthawi yaitali kuti adzikoke pamodzi.

Ndi zinthu zochepa zomwe zimakhala zonyansa ngati kupatukana. Ndipo ngakhale palibe yankho la "Ndani ali ndi vuto lalikulu?", Tikukhulupirira kuti mwa kuphunzira kusiyana kwathu, titha kudzichiritsa tokha.

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