Polyamory Vs Open Relationship - 8 Zosiyanasiyana (Ndi Zofanana Zina)

Chabwino, polyamory ndizovuta, theka Greek, theka-Latin, mawu omasuka ubale, chabwino? Errr… mwina mukulakwitsa pamenepo! Osadandaula komabe, ethical non-monogamy (ENM) kapena consensual non-monogamy (CNM) itha kukhala malo ovuta, ndipo chisokonezo cha polyamory motsutsana ndi ubale wotseguka ndichofala kwambiri!

Popeza kuti anthu padziko lonse lapansi masiku ano amakonda kukhala ndi mkazi mmodzi, tavomereza kuti izi ndi zoona. Kaya ndi chibwenzi kapena ukwati, timangokulirakulira ndi lingaliro la kukhala ndi mwamuna mmodzi. Ndipo m’menemo, phwanya mphamvu zathu zokonda kuposa “iyeyo” mwa kusalana ndi kuphwanya chikondi chambiri ndikuchitcha kusakhulupirika kapena chigololo. Koma pamene anthu akupita patsogolo, anthu ayamba kuvomereza chilakolako chokonda kapena kukhala ndi ubwenzi wapamtima kapena wachikondi ndi "ameneyo". Ndipo moona, ndife tonse chifukwa chake, ngati ndi zomwe mukufuna!

Komabe, ndi nkhani yovuta ndipo ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa mfundo zazikulu za maubwenzi otere. Popeza palibe kukambirana kokwanira komanso palibe maphunziro okwanira okhudza mfundo zimenezi, pali zinthu zambiri zosokoneza. Koma, lero, tili ndi mlangizi Niyatii N Shah , yemwe ndi mphunzitsi wa zachiwerewere komanso mphunzitsi wa zaubwenzi, kuti atithandize kuthetsa kukayikira kwathu konse ndi matanthauzo ochepa osavuta a mfundo zonsezi ndi zina zambiri!

Kodi Polyamory N'chiyani?

Kodi nthawi zambiri mumadabwa, polyamory ndi chiyani? Kodi anthu ongopeka, osamvetsetseka, okonda polyamos ndi ndani, ndipo akuchokera kuti? Niyatii akuyankha mwatsatanetsatane kuyambira ndi chikumbutso chofunikira, "Ndikofunikira kuyandikira mutu wa polyamory ndi malingaliro omasuka komanso ofunitsitsa kuphunzira."

Iye akupitiriza kufotokoza kuti, “Polyamory ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu okondana kwambiri, ndipo anthu omwe amadziwika kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akhoza kukhala ndi chikhalidwe chilichonse, kugonana, zaka, kapena chikhalidwe chilichonse. Ena angakhale ndi chidwi chofufuza maubwenzi angapo achikondi, pomwe ena angayang'ane kwambiri ubale wapamtima ndi anthu angapo.

Maubwenzi a polyamorous amazikidwa pa mfundo yoti anthu onse okwatirana azigwirizana kuti azikondana kapenanso kugonana wina ndi mnzake akudziwa komanso kuvomerezana.”

Ndiye, zomwe taphunzira mpaka pano?

• Mu polyamory, okwatirana amafunafuna ndi kusunga maubwenzi angapo oyambira pomwe amakhudzidwa kwambiri
• Chiyanjano chomwe amachifuna ndi chachikondi komanso chamalingaliro ndipo nthawi zambiri chimapangidwira kwa nthawi yayitali
• Zingaphatikizepo kugonana koma chimenecho sindicho cholinga chokha chokhalira paubwenzi ndi anthu ena

Palibe dongosolo lolimba la ubale wa polyamorous kupatula kuti payenera kukhala chilolezo komanso kuti anthu ali ndi ufulu wokonda kuposa munthu m'modzi. Ma poly equations amatha kukhala amitundu yosiyanasiyana ndi anthu ambiri. Mkhalidwe wa gulu ukhoza kukhala wamphamvu kapena wokhazikika. Chinsinsi apa ndi kuvomera ndi udindo wofanana. Nazi mitundu ingapo ya polyamory ndi mawu kuti timvetse zomwe tikufuna kukambirana:

• Triad, Throuple, kapena Triangle: Gulu la anthu atatu
• Square kapena Quad: Gulu la anthu atatu
• Polycule: Maubwenzi olumikizana, nthawi zambiri amakhala akulu kuposa anthu anayi chifukwa mawu otengera mawonekedwe a geometric amatha kukhala ovuta.
• Tsegulani gulu la polycule: Gululi ndi lotseguka kuti liwonjezere anthu ambiri kapena kulola maubwenzi atsopano apamtima. Ngati mupeza mawu osokoneza akuti "maubwenzi otseguka a polyamorous" akuponyedwa mozungulira, kutengera nkhaniyo, mutha kuganiza kuti akutanthauza polycule yotseguka.
• Gulu lotsekedwa la polycule/Polyfi: Aliyense pagululo akuvomereza kuti asayang'anenso
• Solo Poly: Munthu yemwe ali bwino ndi bwenzi lake pofufuza maubwenzi ena koma akufuna kukhala ndi mwamuna mmodzi yekha kwa wokondedwayo
• Gulu la hierarchical polyamorous: Anthu ena ndi zomangira pagulu ndizofunika kwambiri kuposa ena. Izi nthawi zambiri zimatsutsidwa mu bwalo la polyamorous
• Gulu losagwirizana ndi gulu la polyamorous: Anthu onse pagulu ali ndi udindo wofanana ndi mphamvu zopanga zisankho kapena kukambirana za ubale

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Kodi Ubale Wotseguka Ndi Chiyani?

"Zomwe timazidziwa bwino ndizo kugwirizana kwachikhalidwe kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi mmodzi kapena ukwati wa mkazi mmodzi, womwe ndi maubwenzi osagwirizana," akutero Niyatii. "Anthu awiri amalonjeza kuti adzakhala ogwirizana wina ndi mzake. Kuwonjezera pa kukhazikitsa anthu ambiri, mgwirizano umakhala 'wotseguka'." Ngakhale izi si boma lotseguka ubale tanthauzo, ndi njira yabwino kumvetsa maziko a mawu.

Mawu akuti ubale womasuka amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi matanthauzo awiri. Choyamba, monga liwu losavuta lomwe limaphatikizapo mtundu uliwonse wa makhalidwe omwe si a mwamuna mmodzi. M'mawu amodzi, anthu amakonda kutchula maubwenzi onse osagwirizana ndi amuna okhaokha ngati maubwenzi omasuka. Potero kupanga polyamory komanso mtundu wa ubale wotseguka.

Komano, kodi kukhala paubwenzi womasuka kumatanthauza chiyani pakugwiritsa ntchito mawuwa? Tiyeni titenge mawonekedwe ake:

• Ubwenzi wotseguka ndi liwu lomwe limagwiritsidwa ntchito kunena mwachindunji za ubale wa anthu awiri odzipereka, pomwe onse awiri kapena m'modzi wa iwo akufuna kugonana ndi anthu ena.
• Paubwenzi wotseguka, kugwirizana kwamalingaliro kumakhalabe ndi bwenzi loyamba, pomwe maubwenzi akunja ndi ogonana nawo ndi ongokhutiritsa kugonana kapena kusiyanasiyana.
• Zolankhulirana zogawana zogonana zitha kukhala kuyimitsidwa kwausiku umodzi, kuyimba foni, kucheza ndi anzawo, kupeza unicorn, kugwedezeka kwachidule, kugwedezeka, kapena makonzedwe ena alionse malinga ndi zimene okwatiranawo avomereza
• Ubwenzi wachikondi umalepheretsedwa
• Ubwenzi womasuka ukhoza kukhala njira yabwino yopititsira patsogolo mphamvu zogonana, zilakolako zogonana, ndi chisangalalo mu chiyanjano

Ngati chidziwitso chonsechi mpaka pano chakhala chochulukirapo, musade nkhawa! Tikhala tikuwunika masitayelo aliwonse a CNM omangirira powayika motsutsana. Izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala njira yabwino kwambiri yomvetsetsa china chake, zomwe zimatilola kuti tiyang'ane pazifukwa ndi ma crannies.

Ngati mukufuna kudziwa kuti maziko ake ndi chiyani kapena chomwe chimalimbikitsa ubale wopanda mwamuna kapena mkazi kapena mukuganiza momwe mungayambitsire maubwenzi ambiri, werengani mpaka kumapeto!

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Popeza ma polyamory ndi maubwenzi omasuka amakhudza maubwenzi angapo apamtima, kaya ogonana, okondana, kapena onse awiri, izi nthawi zambiri zimakankhidwira m'bokosi lomwelo la osakhala ndi mwamuna mmodzi. Koma tisanawonetse kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa awiriwa, tidafunsa Niyatii ngati akuwona kuti kuvomerezana kapena kusakhala ndi mkazi mmodzi (CNM kapena ENM) kukukulirakulira.

"Kutengera zaka khumi ndi zitatu zomwe ndakhala ndikuchita monga mlangizi wa mabanja, ndinganene kuti CNM ikukwera kwambiri m'zaka zaposachedwa. Mawebusayiti ochezera pa intaneti, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, komanso kupezeka kwa chidziwitso chokhudza maubwenzi osakhala a mwamuna kapena mkazi m'modzi mwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, zonsezi zathandiza kuti anthu ambiri azionana komanso kuvomerezana. Chifukwa chake, anthu ambiri akufufuza mitundu yosakhala yachikhalidwe ya maubwenzi," adatero.

Komabe, Niyati akuwonetsa chidwi chathu ku mfundo yofunika. “Polyamory si nthano yachilendo ndipo yakhala ikugwiridwa ndi zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana ndi anthu m’mbiri yonse.

Tsopano popeza tadziwa kuti takhala owolowa manja ndi chikondi chathu kwanthawizonse, tiyeni tiwone njira zina momwe tingachitire. Nazi kusiyana kwakukulu 8 pakati pa polyamory vs maubwenzi otseguka.

1. Cholinga ndi cholinga

"Ngakhale cholinga chaubwenzi wotseguka ndi pa kugonana osakhala m'banja limodzi, mu maubwenzi a polyamorous, ndi pa chikondi ndi maganizo osakwatiwa. Uku ndiko kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa awiriwa," akutero Niyatii. Anthu omwe ali paubwenzi wa polyamorous nthawi zambiri amagawana zakukhosi, zolinga za moyo, komanso zokumana nazo zatsiku ndi tsiku. Kugwirizana kwamalingaliro ndi zomangira zakuya zimakulitsidwa pakati pa zibwenzi zambiri.

Mosiyana ndi izi, timadziwa chomwe chiri ubale wotseguka komanso cholinga chake. Pakatikati ndi bwenzi loyamba, ndi kulumikizana kulikonse kwakunja kumatsalira makamaka pakugonana komanso kwachiwiri. Kutengeka maganizo ndi zibwenzi zakunja nthawi zambiri kumakhala kochepa kapena kukhumudwa. Cholinga chake ndikusunga mgwirizano woyamba ndikulola ufulu wakugonana.

Tsopano, cholinga chimodzi sichili chabwino kuposa china, koma chosiyana. Zimene mukufuna kuchokera muubwenzi wanu ndi zomwe zidzasankhe zomwe zili zabwino kwa inu. Ndi bwino kudziwa, mwachitsanzo, zabwino ndi zoyipa za maubwenzi onse otseguka kapena ENM ndikuwona ngati moyo wanu ukukuyenererani.

2. Mapangidwe a ubale

Monga tafotokozera kale, tikudziwa kuti maubwenzi a polyamorous angapangidwe m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Pakhoza kukhala mitundu ingapo ya polyamory monga triad yotsekedwa ndi anthu atatu; kapena quad yamphamvu yokhala ndi anthu anayi. Pakhoza kukhala anthu ambiri omwe akutenga nawo mbali mu polycule yokhala ndi kuchuluka kwa kuphatikiza komwe kungatheke.

Kumbali ina, maubwenzi otseguka nthawi zambiri amachokera ku ubale woyamba womwe umalola m'modzi kapena onse awiri kugonana mwachisawawa kunja kwa ubale kudzera muubwenzi wamba . Popeza maubwenzi akunja ndi osinthasintha kwambiri ndipo nthawi zambiri samakhala ofunika, palibe kusiyana kwa mawonekedwe kapena kapangidwe ka ubalewu.

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3. Kulankhulana ndi kuwonekera

"Kuti munthu azichita polyamory, amafunikira kulimba mtima, kukhulupirika, komanso kulemekeza kwambiri kuwonekera. Ubale wa polyamorous umafunika kulankhulana, kukhulupirirana, ndi ulemu womwewo monga ubale wa mwamuna mmodzi, ngati sichoncho, chifukwa cha zovuta kukhala ndi zibwenzi zambiri," akutero Niyatii.

Kulankhulana n'kofunika kwambiri muubwenzi uliwonse ndipo makamaka kwa anthu omwe si amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ndipotu, maubwenzi a polyamory ndi otseguka amafuna kulankhulana momasuka komanso kuwonekera poyera. Komabe, maubwenzi a polyamory nthawi zambiri amafuna kulankhulana kwapamwamba chifukwa cha ndalama zomwe zimayikidwa m'maganizo komanso maubwenzi ambiri omwe amakhudzidwa. Ndikofunikanso kuti pakhale kulankhulana kwabwino pakati pa ogwirizana onse muubwenziwo.

Kumbali ina, muubwenzi womasuka, kulankhulana koyenera kuyenera kukhalapo pakati pa okondedwa awiri kapena "okwatirana oyambirira". Palibe chifukwa cholumikizirana ndi zibwenzi zachiwiri zogonana chifukwa kulumikizanako kumakhala kwakanthawi.

4. Makhalidwe a maubwenzi

Kulankhula za "mnzako wamkulu" kapena "mnzako woyamba", mu maubwenzi otseguka, nthawi zambiri pamakhala maulamuliro omveka bwino, omwe ali ndi ubale woyambirira, womwe umatchedwanso ubale wapakati, wotsogola kuposa kulumikizana kulikonse. Uwu ndi ubale wokhazikika ndipo ndi wosavuta kuumvetsetsa. Koma, nkhani ya utsogoleri waubwenzi mu polyamory ndizovuta kwambiri.

Ngakhale kuti maubwenzi a polyamorous angakhale ndi maudindo kapena alibe, malingana ndi anthu omwe akukhudzidwa, anthu ena okonda polyamorous amachita za hierarchical polyamory, kumene maubwenzi oyambirira, apamwamba, ndi apamwamba amakhazikitsidwa. Ena ambiri amasankha polyamory yosakhala ya hierarchical, kapena egalitarian polyamory, yomwe imayika maubwenzi onse patsogolo mofanana, pomwe palibe munthu m'modzi yemwe ali ndi mphamvu yochulukirapo kuposa ena.

Kupitilira apo, anthu ena okonda mgwirizano wa polyamor amachita "chisokonezo cha ubale wosakhala waulamuliro", komwe amakana mtundu uliwonse wa ulamuliro osati kokha mu kapangidwe ka ubale wawo komanso m'mawebusayiti awo ochezera. Izi zikutanthauza kuti amawakana mu ubale wawo wachikondi, wogonana, komanso wa platonic . Ogwirizana nawo si ofunikira kwambiri kuposa mabwenzi. Ndipo ubwenzi wapamtima kapena chikondi sichimangokhala cha anthu omwe amagonana nawo okha.

5. Malire ndi malamulo

Kodi izi zakhala zovuta kwambiri mpaka pano? Ngati zachitikadi, mungamvetse bwino mfundo iyi. Kukhala muubwenzi wa polyamorous kumatanthauza kuti pali malamulo ovuta kwambiri okhudza ubwenzi wa polyamorous ndi malire kuti zitsimikizire kuti mbali zonse zikumva kuti zili otetezeka komanso zolemekezeka. Mapanganowa angaphatikizepo zinthu monga kusamalira nthawi, chithandizo chamaganizo, malo okhala ndi magawano okhudzana ndi izi, ndi zina zomwe zimayembekezeredwa muubwenzi.

Maubwenzi omasuka, nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi malamulo osavuta komanso malire ogonana. Cholinga chake ndikuwongolera maubwenzi akunja ogonana ndi kuchuluka kwa kulowererapo, komanso kuletsa kukhudzidwa ndi anthu ena. Nazi zitsanzo ziwiri zowonetsera mfundo yomwe tikuyesera kufotokoza.

• Ubale wotseguka: Mwamuna ndi mkazi amavomereza kugonana ndi anthu ena pamene akuyenda mosiyana. Amalankhulana ndi kuvomerezana malire okhudzana ndi kugonana, zomwe zingaphatikizepo zinthu monga kugonana koopsa (makondomu, madamu amano, ndi zina zotero), kugwiritsa ntchito zoseweretsa zogonana, kulankhulana za nthawi yomwe kukumana kukuchitika, ndi zina zotero. Akabwerera kwawo amayambiranso chibwenzi monga mwanthawi zonse. Kapena amalankhula za izo, malingana ndi zomwe amakonda
• Ubale wa Polyamorous: Munthu ali ndi zibwenzi ziwiri zomwe amakhala nazo ndikuwonana tsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo amakhala ndi zibwenzi zina zomwe samawawona kawirikawiri, koma amagawana nawo maubwenzi ozama. Pachifukwa ichi, kusinthasintha kungabwere mwa kukambirana nthawi ndi chidwi pakati pa onse okwatirana, monga kupanga nthawi ndi wokondedwa aliyense kapena kuonetsetsa kuti zosowa za aliyense zikukwaniritsidwa.

6. Kutengapo mbali kwa anthu

Anthu a polyamorous nthawi zambiri amatenga nawo mbali m'gulu lalikulu la anthu amalingaliro ofanana omwe amagawana chuma, upangiri, ndi chithandizo. "Kutenga nawo gawo kwa anthu m'derali kungakhale gawo lofunikira pazochitika za polyamorous," akutero Niyatii. Kwa munthu wakale wokhala ndi mkazi mmodzi yemwe tsopano akufuna kufufuza maubwenzi oterowo, chithandizo cha anthu ammudzi ndi maphunziro angapereke chiyambi choyenera.

Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, maubwenzi otseguka sangakhudze anthu ammudzi, chifukwa cholinga chachikulu chimakhala pa mgwirizano waukulu ndi zofuna za munthu payekha. Kutenga nawo mbali m'dera nthawi zambiri kumapewedwa chifukwa maubwenzi otseguka nthawi zambiri amakhala achinsinsi, kapena nthawi zambiri amakhala achinsinsi, mwachitsanzo, kusinthana zibwenzi kapena kalabu ya swingers.

7. Kuzindikirika ndi anthu komanso kudzidziwika

Kuchokera pa mfundo yomaliza, n'zoonekeratu kuti maubwenzi a anthu ambiri amakhudza kuzindikira kwa anthu, ndipo ena mwa okwatirana amasankha kukondwerera zomwe adalonjeza kudzera mu miyambo kapena kulengeza kwina, monga ukwati wa anthu ambiri. Izi zimachitika makamaka chifukwa chakuti anthu ambiri omwe amakonda anthu ambiri amadzizindikiritsa okha kuti ndi okonda anthu ambiri, ndipo amalandira umunthu umenewu monyadira, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti anthu ambiri akhale ndi chikondi cha anthu ambiri!

Maubwenzi otseguka, komabe, nthawi zambiri amakhala okhazikika pabanja loyambirira, pomwe kulumikizana kwakunja kumakhala kwachinsinsi. Ngakhale kudzakhala kulakwa kunena kuti palibe okonda maubwenzi omasuka omwe ali omasuka ponena za kugonana kwawo, nthawi zambiri zimawonedwa kuti anthu omwe ali ndi moyo womasuka amakambirana ndikuzichita mopanda phokoso. Ganizirani za mphekesera za "ukwati wotseguka" m'macheza anu kapena kalabu yamasewera otchuka yomwe ili m'gulu la miseche!

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8. Kusungunuka ndi kusinthasintha

Ubale wa polyamory ndi wotseguka ukhoza kukhala wamadzimadzi komanso wosinthika malinga ndi zosowa za anthu omwe akukhudzidwa. Komabe, kukhala paubwenzi wa polyamorous kumatanthauza kuti munthu ayenera kukhala wosinthasintha, wamadzimadzi, komanso womasuka. Izi ndichifukwa choti pali anthu ambiri omwe akutenga nawo mbali komanso kuthekera kophatikizana ndi zovuta muubwenzi.

Mwachitsanzo, mungakhale pachibwenzi ndi anthu atatu. Aliyense mwa anthu atatuwa akhoza kukhala ndi zilakolako zosiyana, zokonda zosiyana pa nkhani ya kugonana ndi chikondi, komanso ziyembekezo zosiyana ndi za maubwenzi ena . Mmodzi wa iwo angafune kufufuza maubwenzi ambiri, pomwe wina angafune kukonda munthu m'modzi yekha pomwe ena akulola ena kukonda anthu ambiri. Izi zimapangitsa kuti aliyense akambirane mozama za malire ndi ziyembekezo kuposa zomwe okwatirana otseguka angafunike kuchita.

Kodi Pali Kufanana Kulikonse Pakati pa Polyamory Ndi Maubwenzi Otseguka?

Kumvetsetsa kusiyana pakati pa polyamory ndi maubwenzi omasuka kungathandize anthu kupanga zisankho zodziwika bwino za mtundu wa ubale womwe umawakomera. Koma pamodzi ndi kusiyana pakati pa polyamory vs maubwenzi otseguka, pali zofanana zomwe ziyenera kuyankhula zomwe zingatipangitse kumvetsetsa CNM bwino. Tiyeni tiwone chomwe chimapangitsa zisankho zonse ziwirizi kukhala njira zabwino zovomerezera zilakolako zakugonana ndi chikondi pomwe mukulemekeza aliyense amene akukhudzidwa.

Ponena za kufanana pakati pa miyoyo iwiriyi, Niyatii akuti:

• Anthu okonda polyamorous komanso okondana nawo omasuka amadzipereka kuti azichita zinthu mogwirizana komanso zosagwirizana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi m'modzi mwaulemu kwambiri.
• Maubwenzi amitundu yonse iwiri amafuna kulankhulana momasuka ndi kukambirana kuti aliyense akhale pa tsamba limodzi
• Onse amaika patsogolo udindo wa chilolezo chodziwitsidwa ndikulemekeza malire ndi zosowa za abwenzi onse
• Zonsezi zikhoza kuchitidwa ndi anthu amtundu uliwonse, wokonda kugonana, kapena chikhalidwe
• Zonsezi zimafuna kukhulupirirana kwakukulu ndi kuona mtima pakati pa onse okhudzidwa
• Onse amatsutsa miyambo ya chikhalidwe cha anthu ndi ziyembekezo zokhudzana ndi kukhala ndi mwamuna mmodzi ndi maubwenzi
• Zonse zikuphatikizapo kuthekera kwa nsanje ndi kufunikira kwa kukhwima maganizo ndi kudzidziwitsa kuti thana ndi nsanje ndikuwongolera malingaliro ovuta omwe angabwere

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Mfundo zonsezi ndizogwirizana ndi zokambirana, koma tikufuna kuti titchule mfundo zomaliza zomwe zili pamwambazi ndikukamba za lingaliro la "kukakamiza".

• Kunyengerera zimamveka bwino kuti ndizosiyana ndi nsanje ndipo ndizo maziko a moyo wa CNM, makamaka polyamorous. Kumva chimwemwe m'chisangalalo cha wokondedwa wanu, kapena "kukakamizidwa" ndi zomwe zimayendetsa maubwenzi awa. Monga mwa a phunziro, “kudzimva kukhala wofunika, kudzimva kukhala wosungika, kukhala ndi zosoŵa zanu zikukwaniritsidwa muubwenzi ndi mnzanuyo, ndi kulankhulana kwabwino ndi bwenzi lanu la mnzako” zinali zinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe zimathandizira kumvana m’chibwenzi.

Kotero, kaya mukufuna kufufuza moyo wa CNM, kapena mukufuna kudziwa zambiri, kapena ngati munafika pa tsamba ili mwangozi (yokongola), uwu ndi mwayi waukulu kuti muwone ubale wanu wamakono ndi mphamvu zanu zachikondi. Kodi akuvutitsidwa ndi nsanje, kapena amalola kumverera kukakamizidwa - kukhala wokondwa chifukwa cha chisangalalo cha mnzanu - m'mbali zonse za moyo, kuphatikizapo koma osati kokha ku chikondi, chikondi, ndi kugonana?

Bonobology ndi malo otetezeka komanso ophunzitsa mafunso awa. Mutha kuyang'ana mafunso okhudza ubale ndi mnzanu ndikupeza upangiri wa ubale kuti muthandize kukulitsa ubale wabwino ndi mnzanu womwe uli ndi chikondi, kudalirana, kulankhulana, ulemu, chisangalalo, ndi chisangalalo. Kapena ngati mukufuna kuphunzira momwe mungayambire ubale wa anthu ambiri, kodi pali malo abwino oyambira ulendowu kuposa kulumikizana ndi m'modzi mwa alangizi athu odzipereka , omwe angakupatseni zida zoyenera zoyambira ulendowu? Musayang'anenso kwina! Tili pano kuti tikuthandizeni.

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